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The first thing I want to tell you is how much it is reasonable to spend on a woman with whom you are not going to tie your life.
I came to the conclusion that you should spend according to the principle of how wisely you would go to a casino. That is, spend only as much as you don’t mind losing. Everything above that feels meaningless.
Why? Because with a 99% chance, it will not pay off. What you do, gratitude for it, will not be appreciated. No one will improve their behavior. I have never seen anything like this in my entire life. I have never seen a situation where you spend on your wife and her attitude towards you improves.
So, let's say I liked a girl. I can also return the tickets if she is a student and doesn’t work; that is a normal expense. But if, for example, she tells me, "You are so cool, buy me this and that," I will be delighted. No sex attachment. That's good attachment.
Sex attachment works. I'm just saying a woman's resources are not a working strategy if you are not going to build a family. You need to spend as much as you are willing to lose.
For example, if you took her to the dolphinarium for 2000 rubles, and she enjoyed it, that is normal. But some heavy expenses are just stupidity and foolishness.
Here I was looking at a Ferrari for $800,000. My watch collection is worth a little less. I just stand there and realize I have a Daytona Platinum. I look and realize that this is one-eighth of the Ferrari's cost. I sit there and think, "I'm a fool."
This is what I actually did inadequately because I started buying this watch. It's inadequate, but I'm enjoying it. That's the most important thing.
This is ether, sigma; there's only fairy tale therapy here. Okay, I don't care. A girl wrote to me and said that she dreams of me being her first man. Everything is just nonsense. She doesn't care about anything and understands that there won't be a family.
The principle is that something is happening. The ticket is not read, so I buy a new ticket. As a result, she arrives, and I am absolutely brilliant.
Do you want to write it down? Then I am absolutely brilliant, absolutely painless, absolutely without depriving her of her virginity. Everything is great; she is delighted, I am delighted.
I'm really awesome. After all, the girl is cool. I need to see if I can build some kind of relationship with her. I feel this kind of dependence; I already feel that she is very involved with me.
Well, literally, a girl who hasn't been kissed. Imagine my shock. She just stands there and says, "I have to say one thing: I feel awkward saying this, but I've never been kissed. I don't know what to do."
I just kissed her. I see that a person physically doesn't know what to do. I just stand there, thinking, "Why did you tell me this?"
My demands on women just flew away. I experienced a very strong feeling from this fact. I felt inside myself a monstrous difference.
Did anyone ever touch a woman with a finger or not? I can understand whether they are lying or not. I could see that she really doesn’t understand what to do.
Although this is the simplest thing. That's fine. I went for a walk with her, and she was cold. She came without a coat.
"Can you buy me something else?" she asked.
Yeah, I don't care. A normal, good woman. She bought some things, got dressed, and everything is going great.
I'm wandering around the city on my own business. She's gone crazy.
Imagine what it's like to lose your virginity with me, despite the fact that I was the most tactful, soft, loving. I did it absolutely painlessly, with passion, male love.
There is no more ideal scenario in theory. And how amazed she was.
No one has ever touched me in my life. And here I am performing. The contrast is incredible.
Of course, she is also very much hooked on me tactilely. I am running around Almaty on my own business.
I think I need to go up to the hotel. What to do? I go up to the hotel, and I shouldn't have recognized the woman, not the girl.
I'm thinking, "I'm so similar, dressed cool." I'm very tired. I walk by and sit down on the couch.
That's how it is—a complete mess. I realize that it's her, and she's standing there talking to someone else, a man.
Some foreigner is sitting there, and they are speaking in English. He is one and a half meters from her. I just understand that one of the most traumatic moments in my life is about to happen.
I look at this and listen to their dialogue for 15 minutes. She tells him, smiles, says something, "Where were you?"
And the final thing he says is, "Give me your Instagram," and hands over the phone.
I sit and think, "This is not happening."
She takes the phone and gives him her Instagram. You know what's special about it? She gives it to him. She starts writing the phone number.
I just think, "I'm really in trouble." There's no avatar there; there's nothing to watch.
That's not it. Like, he will post something, and he will be there as a friend. This is exclusively for contact and communication.
As a result, they end the dialogue. She turns in my direction and sees me.
What emotional damage have I inflicted? How?
This is not particularly important. This is not the topic of today's broadcast.
The point is that I have never been so shocked. Not because of this situation with the unkissed virgin that I brought there.
I don't care that I brought her. I don't care that I gave her a huge amount of my attention, sincere emotions, and a huge amount of time.
I trusted her in some sense. And here she is, talking with some guy.
What was I thinking about? Who can't see?
What was I thinking about? If I hadn't gone up to the hotel, imagine what an idiot I would have been.
I drew myself this picture that I have this personal girl who is crazy about me. I can be calm because I tamed her, raised her, and so on.
It's just like a brain explosion. Then the next thought came to me: how many women in my life did this, and I just don't know?
What did I do wrong to deserve this? Just tell me what I did wrong.
I treated her as humanely as possible. I don't know where it's better to treat you.
Yes, I'm well-mannered and polite. I don't know how to refuse people.
I want to tell you guys, this is absolute nonsense. If a woman truly loves you, she won't even talk about it.
My personal girl, who is crazy about me, I can be calm because I tamed her, raised her, and so on.
It's just like a brain explosion. Then the next thought came to me: how many women in my life did this, and I just don't know?
What did I do wrong to deserve this? Just tell me what I did wrong.
I treated her as humanely as possible. I don't know where it's better to treat you.
Yes, I'm well-mannered and polite. I don't know how to refuse people.
I want to tell you guys, this is absolute nonsense. If a woman truly loves you, she won't even talk about it.
She just ignores. She looks at the floor, looks to the side, and doesn't react to the sound of other men.
This doesn't exist at all.
And this is nonsense for fools. That's what it is.
I just politely answered, and I'll explain why.
Because there is a concept of sexual selection turned off and turned on. What she actually wanted was to eat the fish and sit down.
In what sense? She got drawn into this. She felt the taste.
Yes, this is when a man pays attention to you. She's like, "This is cool."
Imagine the question: what if I didn't go up to the hotel?
I'm an absolute fool. My wife didn't do anything about it. I won't find out without chances.
This makes me very radical. A woman knows what she can and cannot do without a man saying this.
Only if she is emotionally afraid of losing it needs to be cast in granite.
They always understand everything.
I explain when a woman does something, and you start to deal with her.
She never admits it. She says you didn't understand correctly.
When a woman does something and you block contact with her, they instantly understand what the reason is and immediately begin to apologize.
It is clear. Therefore, here she also absolutely instantly understood that she just made herself out to be the last fool.
There is no way to any apologies or any forgiveness.
Imagine the degree of the general intensity of the blaze.
These are no longer professional traitors; these are some kind of manic traitors or grandiose traitors.
Who knows what these strategies of interaction with a woman are that I have developed?
It is necessary to very clearly define the format of the relationship. This is one thing.
It is necessary to strictly adhere to the given format and not give in to it because she will sharpen her expectations.
You need to very clearly declare your boundaries.
Have you ever tried to tell a woman, "Yes, I will only sleep with you"?
There is no talk at all about anything—neither about emotions nor hugs.
No, you do exactly the opposite. You just want to sleep with her, and you start saying, "I love you."
The most important female problem with normal men is uncontrollable expectations.
They constantly overestimate expectations. They constantly invent for themselves that they tied you to themselves.
You should clearly define the bar above which you will not go with her.
So that she does not have illusions, so that she does not have unjustified expectations.
You don't give a damn. You just want to sleep with her.
How should it be?
How do you feel?
We have erroneous strategies when we want to tie a woman to ourselves.
You know how to check if the wife is good.
I heard a brilliant thing. I will not say from whom.
From his friends. He really did it.
I met a girl. I say he wants to marry you.
He says, "I want to marry you, but I live in harsh conditions. There is no electricity, water from the well. I will have to work all day."
She says, "Okay, I am ready."
He really took her to such a remote place. They lived like that for two weeks.
She didn't tell him anything; everything was fine.
He says, "Okay, forget it," and he took her to his mansion.
He lived and lives normally and has a very correct attitude towards his resources.
It's a total disaster if a woman has a frivolous attitude towards your resources.
You already have a strap-on in your ass.
When a woman asks for time off every time, asks for thanks for the resource, that's a different matter.
But when it's like this, "Give it here, give it to me," I spent it from the card.
I personally haven't had such an experience, but I'm observing it in the outside world.
How can you respect a person?
What is money anyway? Money is life. It's time you exchanged time and energy and health for money.
And she doesn't give a damn. She spends it on some kind of nonsense.
Your life is literally wasted on this.
How can you even treat it adequately?
I'm still radical. I'm telling you another story.