Is Your Wife Doing This By Being Your “Therapist”?

Stay in your lane and treat your husband like the grown man that he is.

We want to know as women that good men are fully capable of making decisions and caring for themselves in their way. We are the ones that treat them like children, mothering them, which over time chips away at their confidence and belief in themselves. They stop doing anything because they're so scared to be wrong.

We project our fears, our worries onto them when they're sharing maybe a challenge they're going through. They're just sharing, and then we get all worked up and get in there and tell them what they need to be doing, playing therapist, and projecting our worries and fears onto them.

When we need to stay in our lane, let them problem solve, which is what they do naturally, and also just let them be who they are as grown men.