Transcription
Women, we set all these traps in the relationship, and she says you have these issues. Then you believe it and say, "I do." That's the trap that we pull you into to make you believe that we are right, that we're somehow the expert on you, and that we somehow have the knowledge and ability to psychoanalyze you and diagnose you with these mental issues and disorders.
And you believe it. That's the trap she sets up for you that makes you feel that you're wrong and she's right. So, she manipulates you into believing that normal human behaviors as a man are somehow abnormal, destructive behaviors that are at the root of the issues in the marriage.
It's a huge deflection from us having to take accountability and responsibility for ourselves and see how we're showing up and what we are contributing.