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What up guys? Welcome to my reaction series. Today we are talking about modern female doctors quitting.
As you guys know, modern women go to these high-priced institutions to go into fields they don't plan on staying in for a lifetime. One of those is medicine. Women become doctors and then quit. Really, half the time their goal is to marry a doctor, but then they get in and they realize it's not like Grey's Anatomy. So, it's too hard and too stressful. 30% of female doctors are infertile because of the stress of the industry or getting raw dogged in the hospital. Who's to know which? The women quit with a bunch of debt and no way to replace them. This is part of the reason why there is a healthcare shortage in this country.
Let's look at some of the female doctors that are quitting their jobs. And by the way guys, even if women don't practice very long, they still consider themselves those things because women, men care about getting stuff done, women care about awards. So that's the challenge you get. Women get the doctor award and then they're like, "Eh, the work, I don't know about that."
"I just graduated residency and I'm quitting medicine, at least for now. I've gotten such mixed reactions about this. Some people hate the idea. They think it's ridiculous to take any time for yourself because in this field you're taught to give everything when you're in training. So work becomes your whole life. The medical field attracts a lot of overachievers. Also a lot of ego. I'm honestly just burned out by the politics of a system that rewards cutthroat ego more than it rewards honest hard work. And yes, I know it's better as an attending, but I've gone straight from grade school to university to med school to internship to residency, literally never taken a break and this is my final chance. I know that not everyone has the opportunity to take time off like this. It is a tremendous privilege that I do not take for granted. I love dermatology and taking care of my patients. So, this is probably not forever, but for the foreseeable future, I'll be getting to know the world as just a human. Getting to know myself outside of the system."
She's going to have a face. She she's resentful because she didn't get to hoe it out when she was younger because she was too busy, you know, doing all the doctor stuff. So now she's like, "I got to make up for lost time and it's time it's time to get to hoing." And who I am outside of my career. Seeking out joy in allegedly whatever form it may take. It's a little spicy in whatever form. Yeah, she's saying, "I want to have sex with hot guys." We all do, right? It's that's the female psyche, you know? It's just it's so funny because I'll I'll listen to guys say, "We got to fight feminism." I'm like, "All feminism is is women trying to get with the hot guys." And it's I'm like, "You can't you can't keep the women away from them." I'm telling you, they'll. Have you ever seen, um, I think I had like a bouncer on here once or a guy that did security and he told the story about doing security for some of these like celebrity men and women will sneak into their hotel room. Like, we got to we got to think about the way women throw themselves at celebrities. That's feminism. Women are like, "We are not doing this mom for a normal guy. I am having sex with that that hot guy over there." For her, maybe it was the doctors. Then she realizes the doctors weren't what she wanted.
"Now I'm going to go into something else. Taking it slow and just enjoying the company of my loved ones. There's some pretty epic plans coming up and I cannot wait to take y'all with me. All right, let's see who's next."
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"I quit my job as a medical doctor to get healthy. Sounds contradictory. Let me explain. I was really interested in plastic surgery, not cosmetic, but treating burned patients and trauma patients. Love working with my hands. So, detailed work. Being in surgery sounded really cool. Then I started realizing the lifestyle that the doctors were having themselves. Not only surgeons, like all types of doctors. They couldn't live the healthy lifestyle that would be the best for themselves and be able for them to show up the best way as like being a doctor and provide proper patient care. I just didn't get why no one really had this conversation with the patient of the not only the importance of healthy lifestyle but how they could make it work for them because let's be honest, you know, you need to eat vegetables. You know you need to move your body every day. You know sleep is important. You know all those things like unless you've been sleeping under a rock, which you probably haven't. You're on TikTok. You know these things, but you just don't know how to make it work for you because you keep setting these really high goals, really high health and fitness goals and you like really try to like hold on to them and like stick to them and they're so hard and you show up for an hour workout every day, but you've never been working out before and then for three weeks you're completely exhausted. Something happens at life event, you get busy at work, you have a breakup, you have a holiday and you never get back to it and you are like, "This doesn't work." You give up and then you're right back where you started and it's not fun. It doesn't feel easy and it just doesn't have to be that way. You can make healthy lifestyle habits work for you. Know what works best for you because no one is the same. Everyone has a different genetic makeup. Like everybody lives in a different environment. You have all these things that you need to take into consideration. So I felt it was my mission to be able to help people to find what healthy habits work for them, how to make them sustainable, meaning they can do it for a long period of time. Because you can tell me everything, but like doing something for 30 days that never gets in your life is probably not going to create big changes. And the other thing is healthy lifestyle can be fun, easy, and effortless. You just don't know yet how to make them so this is a former doctor work for you. So that's why I'm here. That's why I'm all about and I can't just I'm so excited to share everything."
Wow. It's just we spend so much money before we realize something was a mistake or waste so much time. That's the challenge with us. Men kind of get burned and then they move on, right? But we just tend to keep burning ourselves till we almost die and then we're like, "Oh, now I'll learn the lesson."
"Is Francis May Harden. I'm a 33-year-old ENT surgeon and I'm leaving medicine for good. No one would ever become a doctor with the intention of leaving medicine. Even see this modeled for us where surgeons operate well into their 70s and even then somebody has."
Okay, let me start. My name is Francis May Harden. I'm a 33-year-old ENT surgeon and I'm leaving medicine for good. No one would ever become a doctor with the intention of leaving medicine. Yeah, but you. Yeah, it's because here's the thing. We're just very attention-based. So, we get the attention for graduating medical school. We get everyone calling us smart and we we love that attention, but then it wears off and things are boring. Like, don't feel bad that we leave you guys. All right? We leave everything. Social groups, social settings, neighborhoods, cities, families, education. We just love. We're levers. You guys are stayers. We're levers. All right. Even see this modeled for us where surgeons operate well into their 70s, male ones usually. And even then, somebody has to pry the scalpel from their hands. But for me, over the past 10 years in training and in practice, the disillusionment with medicine has been too great for me to stay. All of us know what it's like to be in the wrong situation, the wrong job, the wrong relationship. And so many of us stay really a lot longer than we know we ever should have because it's hard. It's scary. And I had an inkling that this was not right for me when I was a junior ENT resident. But the thing is that back then I was not brave or creative enough to leave. So I just see that's what I mean. We just we're like, "This isn't working," and we just keep doing it. Head down and I finished training and went on to become an attending. The thing about becoming a doctor is that by the time that you realize it might not be the right fit for you, you've already put several years, so much time and effort and sacrifice into the career. It's very hard to leave. I'm making this announcement for every person who's ever felt guilty for even for a moment questioning or doubting their profession. And I'm excited to announce that I've changed. I'm brave and creative enough. And so I'm leaving."
Well, how is she going? So, she's trying to be a. Now, she's a farmer. Okay. Well, I wish you luck, lady. All right. Who's next?
"We got this woman. This is why I just quit my job as a doctor and moved to Mexico City. I know that if you've been following me for a while, this may come as a shock because it would seem that I really liked my job, and I did. This has nothing to do with not liking my job. Men, it's just interesting because we can like our job, make a lot of money, and still quit. Men would never. They would never. It doesn't have anything to do with burnout. I have experienced burnout before. It's very unpleasant and it is rampant among physicians. That's not actually why I left my job. It has been something that I've been thinking about for a while. I was at my role at an academic hospital for about seven years as a faculty hospitalist there working with residents, doing a lot of teaching. I loved it. It was super fun. It was 7 years and I was feeling the itch to do something a little bit different. Not that I disliked it. I still had moments with patients that were so fulfilling. They would bring tears to my eyes, literally. But I felt like in a lot of the aspects of the job, I was going through the motions and I wasn't necessarily being challenged in new ways. I was also feeling this really big urge in my personal life to shake things up. As a lot of you know, I am not married. I do not have children. I felt really untethered. I've been living in the same city for 7 years and I felt like I wanted a change of pace. I wanted to mix things up. I really wanted to."
She was into Hispanic guys so she moved to Mexico City. It's it's it's so simple when you realize. What we tend to date is the industry that we go into. Now, I'm not saying this is a conscious thing, but I I think what happens is women are like, "Oo, that guy's hot. Oh, I like what he's doing. I want to do the same thing." It's why it like, you know, it's why, no offense to the engineers on here, but there aren't a lot of female engineers because you guys aren't really known. You're not known for being these like stud hot, you know, but you have a lot of female musicians, female models, female doctors, but for some reason the engineering that just wasn't going. Accountants, the women are like, "Eh."
"Have a new adventure. I wanted to experience a new city, and I also wanted to experience the personal challenge of living in a different country where another language is spoken. I've been decent at Spanish for a long time, but I really wanted to just bring it to the next level. So, I decided that I wanted to live in a Spanish-speaking country. I wanted to live relatively close to the United States, and I wanted to live in a big city because I love cities. So, I chose Mexico City. This is not a permanent move. I am planning to come back to the United States again to see patients in person again. And here I'll be doing some virtual medicine, but I want to go back and see patients in person again. Whether that's as a hospitalist, a primary care doctor, or some other primary care specialty, I have yet to figure out. But I am just ready for a big change."
Her phase, her her hoe phase, that's what she's ready for. I'm the only one that's being honest with you guys. You know, I would I need to start lying. I need to I need to start getting on that train because that would just make my life a lot easier. And so that's what. No, she's doing it to find herself, guys. This is I think a lot of the reaction to people. She's going to find her type by riding a lot. You know, people who were working at my hospital, other people that I know who are doctors was that they were really surprised that I would do something like this. It's very out of the norm for someone who is on a physician academic track, especially to just say, "Hey, I'm going to leave this all without a great." No females leaving without a future plan that's like on par for us. Plan for the future just to like experience another lifestyle in another city or another country. But I'm like, you know, why the hell not? This sounds fun. I'm super untethered and if I do become tethered and have kids one day, that won't be an option then. So now feels like the time. I'll still be making my usual content on what it's like to be a doctor, health, wellness, medical related news, my thoughts on current events, etc. But I'll also keep you posted on what my life is like here, what the hell I'm doing and figuring it out along the way. And feel free to let me.
All right, let's see who we got next. Oh, that's it. Okay. Well, I do wish the female doctors the best of luck in their hoe phases. Um, that's, you know, the women, they got to do that. So, I do wish you guys. I know, I know you guys are thinking, this is the difference between guys, I guess, that get it, and guys that are either opting out, not in, and I I don't mean this in a mean way because I think there's a lot of reasons for men to like opt out. I think there I I totally. There's herpes. There's there's women's false accusations. There's so much. But I can tell the men that are going after the young punani because when they hear "hoe phase," they hear something they could be a part of. But when guys hear a "hoe phase" and they get disgusted, it's usually because they're not a part of it. Like if a girl's like, "Oh, I just got out of a breakup." A guy that's like getting the getting the the ladies or doing well. He's like, "Yes." He's like, "It's my time." You know? Anyways, um, let me know what you guys think in the comments. Please like the video on your way out and subscribe to the channel. Make sure you ring that notification bell and thanks for watching as usual. I'll see you next time.