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Most guys think that the best place to meet girls is bars and clubs, but that's actually where it's the hardest. There are a handful of much better places that a lot of guys completely overlook.
In this video, I'm breaking down the absolute best spots to meet women along with exact openers, pro tips, and real life infield footage so you can see exactly how it's done. If you want to skyrocket your dating results and use your time more efficiently, this is for you.
First, we have grocery stores. This is one of the most underrated spots. The good news is every type of girl goes here, including the ones who never really go out or party. Another big advantage is that people are usually moving pretty slowly, so it's a lot easier to stop the girl and strike up the conversation.
In this type of environment, I usually go semi direct. Here's my absolute favorite grocery store opener, which you guys can just steal. I'll usually wait until the girl's like browsing for something. I'll be like, "Ooh, you don't want to get that." And then the girl will usually turn to me and be like, "Wait, really?" And then I'll be like, "No, I'm just kidding. I thought you were cute and I wanted to say hi." And this works actually quite well. Here's some real life footage of me doing it.
>> Oh no, don't get that one. That's the worst.
>> No, I'm just kidding. I just thought you're a kid. I want to meet you.
>> Oh, thank you.
>> You like my creature?
>> Your your dog?
>> I call him my creature.
Next, we have the beach. Really any type of outdoor environment where people are lounging. This can work even better than grocery stores. First, you're going to find that a lot of girls just sitting there or laying down, so you don't have to worry about stopping them. And in addition, a lot of times they'll just be by themselves, whereas in a bar or club, usually they're going to be in groups.
One time I remember I opened a girl by joking around that she has the best spot on the beach, even though it was largely empty. We flirted for maybe 15, 20 minutes, and I wound up pulling her back to my place. I later found out that she just had the day off work and was bored, so it was right place, right time. And that's what's going to happen a lot at the beach. Also, here's a big pro tip. Don't just be standing over the girl after you open. You want to quickly sit down next to her so you're not like basically just hovering over her the whole time. Here's a good example.
>> Just chilling at the beach?
>> Yes.
>> Cool. Are you Are you French?
>> No.
>> Argentinian?
>> No.
>> I don't know where the [ __ ] you're from then.
Next, we have happy hour. This is a massive cheat code for night game. It's not uncommon to see two girls for every guy during certain happy hours. Also, they're probably going to be a lot more receptive because a bunch of guys haven't had a chance to approach them yet. In fact, they're probably going to be a little bit bored. And this is not just inside bars. Even walking around outside areas where there's a lot of foot traffic during this time can be a gold mine. You can meet a lot more girlfriend quality chicks who would never really normally go out at night.
I remember one time I was going home and I ran into this girl who was walking home from a job interview. I made some jokes like, "Don't worry, I'm going to put in a good word with your boss." You know, she was giggling. Got her phone number. And a few days later, she wound up just coming straight over my place and we hooked up and I probably would have never met this girl had I been going out later.
>> Your date abandoned you?
>> No. My friends in the bathroom.
>> Uhhuh. Uhhuh. What are you guys doing?
>> Just drinks.
>> Yeah, cuz you're dressed all nice.
Then we have malls and shopping centers, especially between 2 and 6 p.m. Women are typically going to be slowly strolling, just trying to distract themselves by buying more meaningless possessions. So that means they're going to be receptive to a good approach. In a mall, I'd recommend going semi-direct. You don't want to just come on too strong because that can cause girls to preemptively leave. But at the same time, you don't want to have her wonder, "What does this guy want?" throughout the whole interaction. The magic is somewhere in the middle. Here's a good example.
>> Hey, Mom. Is this your daughter?
>> Yeah.
>> Oh my god. Hold on. Hold on. You guys look absolutely beautiful.
>> I'm serious. Her teeth are perfect.
And lastly, we have outdoor bars and lounges. These are usually the best places for night game. First, the music isn't going to be as loud, so you can actually hear each other talk. Then also, there's going to be a lot more people there, so you have much less of a chance of running out of girls, and the ratio will typically be better than a lot of clubs. So, that means it's not going to be a complete sausage fest.
I actually met two of my ex-girlfriends in an outdoor bar. One of them, I remember, was around like 5 or 6:00 p.m. She was there with just a bunch of her co-workers. I think there's like 10 of them. I wound up opening her, you know, with my favorite night game opener. "Hey, I'm Alex." And yes, that works incredibly well because as soon as you're someone that's worth meeting, uh, flirted with her for like 10 minutes, wound up isolating her from the group. We made out briefly. She wasn't quite down to go home with me that same night because she came there with her co-workers. So, I got her number and then a few days later got her on a date. Pulled her back to my place and we closed and we wound up dating for about a year. Here's an example of this in action.
>> I'm sorry I'm late for our date. You know, you were waiting for me for obviously for a while, so I had to come and say hi.
>> Hi, I'm Alex.
And also got to give an honorary [clears throat] mention to dog parks. Now, this only works if you have a dog with you. It can be your friend's or your mom's or whatever, but if you do, this place is a gold mine. First of all, the people there are generally very friendly and also the ratio tends to be amazing.
The big takeaway is that you can meet great girls anywhere, but some places are just going to be better than others. So, focus your energy on those and you'll get better results. And speaking of better results, check out my free Tinder guide. Link is going to be in the description. It shows you how to get really good photos so you start getting matches, however the kind of bio that makes you stand out, and text game so you can turn all those matches into dates. And it's 100% free. Link in description.