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[music] Why does discipline equal freedom? Because the more discipline you have in your life, the more freedom you will end up with.
This went wrong. This failed. Didn't accomplish this. And it's not the fault of my boss. It's not the fault of my girlfriend. It's not the fault of my parents. It's not the fault of the weather. It's my fault. And I'm going to take ownership of it and I'm going to fix it. That's what extreme ownership is.
Because when you look around at your life and you look around at your job and your financial situation and your relationship and your physical health and when you look at all those things and all the problems that you may have with those things and you say the reason I have all of those problems is because of me [music] that can hurt that can sting. And a lot of times our ego rejects that and makes excuses and lies and then we don't have to change anything and then nothing changes.
When the excuses all go away and people can actually confront the fact that this is all because of me, it hurts but is also unbelievably empowering. So if you lack the [music] discipline to exercise and eat healthy, you will end up being a slave to disease. If you lack the discipline to work hard, save your money, you will end up a slave to finances. If you lack the [music] discipline to manage your time correctly, you will end [music] up with no free time.
If you have self-discipline, if you have the discipline to save your money and work hard and invest your [music] money properly, if you have the discipline to manage your time correctly and not waste a bunch of time, if you [music] have the discipline to exercise and eat healthy, you will end up with freedom. And you're going to start to progress in [music] every aspect of your life. And you'll see that if you have that kind of discipline right now, you're going to end up with freedom. But if you have discipline, you will attain freedom. And [music] it's I know it's a counterintuitive. It's contrarian, but I've [music] seen this over and over and over again.
What's stopping you? Are you too tired? Didn't get enough [music] sleep? Don't have enough energy? Don't have enough time? Is that what's stopping you right now? Don't have enough money? Is that the thing? [music] Or is the thing that's stopping you? You.
>> I think that a lot of the discussions about motivation can cause people to believe that there's some magical state that they need to be in before they do something.
>> Yeah. And [music] as I've said since day one, it's motivation is a feeling that comes and goes and it doesn't matter whether it's there or not. Discipline [music] is infinitely more important. So no matter how you feel, get up and do what you're supposed to do. [music] That's it. And that's discipline. That's not motivation. If you only did what you [music] were supposed to do when you were motivated to do it, that's leaving it to chance. But if you're disciplined, [music] you go do what you're supposed to do. That's the way it works.
The best way to contend with with problems, [music] with issues, with adversity, is action. Is by taking action. the more you sit [music] and the more you wait and the more time you spend with that adversity with the upper hand inside your head the the worse [music] it's going to get. So for me always taking action making something happen. It doesn't have to be huge. It doesn't have to be some mammoth triumph that [music] you're going to go and go and pursue. But if you say hey listen this is what happened didn't go the way we wanted it to. [music] We're going to get our gear back on. We're going to go back out. And that's that's what I think I think taking action and it's in a in your personal life too. You know, something doesn't go the way you wanted it to go. [music] You didn't get the job you wanted. You didn't get the hire. You didn't get the promotion. You can go home and sit [music] there and and and dwell on it. That's not getting you any progress. Or you say, "Okay, you know what? Let me do a quick analysis. Why didn't I get that promotion? Oh, it's cuz I didn't get this qualification or I hadn't jump through this gate." Okay, cool. What do I need to let me look into how do I how do I get to jump through that gate? So next time I will get the promotion and you start taking action. So action for me is a cure for a lot of problems that we have in life.
>> What are your thoughts on Gen Z? What do they need to be looking out for? What's your advice to them?
>> You have a lot of opportunity in this country. You I was talking to a kid the [music] other day. I said, "Hey man, like save your money. Figure out something else you can do." We're at my gym and I said, "Look, you see all this? All this was just like an idea at some point. Just a little tiny idea with no true value whatsoever. [music] Nothing. And here you are in a gym. Is it going to take hard work? Yes. Will you have setbacks? Yes, [music] you will. If you work hard, you will be rewarded. You have to make sure you're playing the right game, too. So, I had this conversation with a guy, actually, two [music] guys consecutively a few years ago, and they were both hard workers in two totally separate industries. two hard workers working very hard and [music] not able to get to where they wanted to go. And I said, "Hey, listen. If that's what's happening, you got to check [music] what game you're playing." The example I used was soccer and basketball. If you put a lot of effort into basketball, how many points can you score [music] in a game? 30, 40, 50? You can get 50 points in one game as an individual player. If you're playing soccer, how many points can you get in a game? Maybe one or two. So if you realize that you're not getting the points [music] that you want to get, you might have to say, I I need to get into a different game. So you have to be smart. [music] Hard work isn't rewarded solo. You have to also, you know, [music] detach, look around and say like, okay, is this game that I'm playing the right game to get where I want to go?
>> What have you learned about how to deal with [music] and overcome fear?
>> Go. When all that fear that's in your head, all the whatifs and the scenarios that you create inside your own mind that are way worse than anything that is actually [music] going to happen, they all disappear when you go. So just just [music] take action and and start moving forward.
If you give up a little bit today, like [music] you can't get it back. Like if you skip a workout today, you can't you there's no possible way to get that back. When you let something go, it's gone. And Rome wasn't built in the day, but Rome didn't fall apart [music] on a day either. It didn't fall out fall apart because of one thing. It falls apart [music] just a little bit at a time.
>> Yeah. Nobody gets fit overnight. Nobody gets fat overnight.
>> Exactly. It's [music] hard work. It's helping other people out. It's studying hard. It's doing the best that you can in in whatever endeavor you're [music] undertaking. It's all those things. And one of I think the most important underlying messages you can decide who you want to become and you can [music] become that person. You don't have to be weak. You can work out and you can become stronger. You can eat better foods. You can study and you can become smarter. You can learn how to swim and you can learn how to fight and defend yourself. And so you can actually become through hard work and through discipline. [music] You can become who you want to become.
Don't take today off. Not today. Wait until tomorrow. Don't Don't give in to the immediate gratification that is whispering in your ear. Shut that down. Do not listen [music] to that little voice. Instead, go through the motions. [music] Lift the weights. Sprint the hill. Work on the project. Get out of bed. People [music] have this reoccurring nightmare that there's some thing, some force that's got a hold of them and it's holding them down and they can't break free. No matter what they do, they can't break free from that force. Well, I'm here to tell you that that thing in your nightmare, that thing that's holding you back, that thing that's dragging you down, that thing is you. Face that. Just get up, move towards that challenge and go [music] attack it. Go go go do something that's hard. If you want freedom in your life, you have to have discipline. Move towards that challenge, whatever that challenge is. And you may be successful, and you may not be successful, but you will be better. And the next challenge, you're going to be more prepared for. And the next challenge after that, you're going to be even more prepared for because we're going to have wins, we're going to have losses, [music] we're going to have successes, we're going to have failures, we're going to have good nights, we're going to have bad nights, we're going to have good relationships, we're going to have bad relationships, we're going to have good ideas and bad ideas, we're going to make money, we're going to lose money. All these things are going to happen. And if you oscillate emotionally up and down drastically, it's going to be problematic. Embrace those emotions, but don't let those emotions embrace you. Keep pushing through things that suck. And this is a very difficult thing to do because it hurts and you're going to fail and you're going to fail and you're going to fail and you're going to fail [music] and then you're going to win. And that's life. Life without those challenges, [music] it's just existence. Don't just exist. Go live.
Okay, I'm going to go forward. There's no I can't get out of this. I'm going to go forward. I'm not going to quit. So, I'm going to go forward. Bring it on. Ignore and outperform them. While you're over there watching me and talking [music] about me, I'm working. I'm working hard. I'm taking things [music] to the next level. You keep gossiping and I'll keep working. [music] You keep talking smack and I'll keep working. You keep focusing on [music] everything and everyone else and I'll keep working. And when you finally look around at where you are and where I'm at, you'll realize that you have nothing [music] left to talk smack about and you will [music] lose and I will win.
Do you want to do this or not? Do you actually want to do this or not? Do you actually [music] want to do this or not? Cuz if you actually want to do it, what's going to stop you? Nothing. And if you don't really want to do it, what's going to stop you? Just about anything that comes up. Just about any obstacle that gets in your way becomes [music] an excuse. It becomes a reason. It becomes a rationale for not proceeding down that path. Think about the things that you [music] tell yourself. The lies you use to rationalize taking the easy road. taking the easy road and leaving discipline behind. Think [music] about them.
So what you have to do is you have to start to recognize [music] that there is something else that you can tap into that is much more powerful than your feelings, than your motivation and that is discipline. You can apply this [music] discipline. Look, you have a project that you're that's due at work that you don't feel like working on right now. Doesn't matter that you don't feel like working on it right now. You impose discipline on the situation and you do what you're supposed to do. You have a exercise, you have you need to work out this morning, you haven't worked out yet, you wake up in the morning, you need to go work out, you don't feel like working out, it doesn't matter. Doesn't matter that you don't feel like working out. Doesn't matter. It's not part of the calculation. Discipline overrides that. Discipline trumps your feelings. And that is what you need to apply as a person, as a normal human being. No matter what you're doing in your life, you need to let discipline be your guide, not how you feel. That's what we need to do. And if you do that, you're going to end up with freedom. You're going to end up with freedom across the board. Discipline equals freedom.