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NPC. Get out of my reality. You are irrelevant, and I'm just an alpha male. It's 7:00 p.m. It's 95°. I ain't got no ain't got me.
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So, this video is about cheat codes to life that honestly you need to apply. I don't think people apply this enough. And you should watch part one of my video, which is The Game of Life and How to Play It. It's kind of based on this cheat code.
Number one, people say the most important decision you're ever going to make is the partner you marry. I can also argue that an equally as important decision that you are going to make, especially when you're young, and it's also going to dictate who you're going to marry, is where you live. Why do you think I moved to Dubai when I was 23? There is a reason. Where you live is going to dictate who you have access to, the opportunities you tap into, the energy of that city, and it's ultimately going to change the person you are. Where you live is the biggest cheat code. And think about the chain effect that it's going to have. You meet one person here, which is going to open a bunch more doorways that couldn't have been opened in your existing location. Especially when you're young, you have time. You can fail. You can go back and sleep on your parents' couch if you fail and try again. You don't have the same time when you're 40. You're with kids. You have a husband. You have a wife. You don't have the same opportunity. So, think very carefully about where you want to live.
For example, when I lived in Australia, while I was still very ambitious in that country, I was very chill. Like, I felt calm. And maybe if that's one of your priorities in life, then hey, Australia is the place for you. But I do not prioritize that. I prioritize the grind. You're wrong. Hello. I prioritize the grind. Like, achieving my goals when I'm younger. And I knew that moving to Dubai would help me a lot. Honestly, it's a longer story. Real ones know that I I did not want to live here. It just kind of happened. I wanted to move to Paris, and then it kind of led me here. But being here, I'm not chill. Everywhere you look, Lambos, everyone's successful. Everyone has a business. Literally, you can be an office employee in Dubai and you got a business. Everyone is creative. They have a side hustle. It reminds me of New York. Honestly, the energy of the city is so go, like, we need to do something. We need to do more. And it has forced me in turn to being more creative and go off to my goals even more than I would if I was in Australia.
Guys, do everything to get out of your hometown if you know that you're not meant to be there. You can do everything possible to manifest your dreams, manifest like a million dollars a month or whatever you want, something that is so much greater than you, something that almost feels out of reach. And guess what? If your nervous system doesn't feel safe with that and your subconscious, you are going to sabotage it. You're not going to get it. You can come close, and you're not going to get it. Money is the easiest example.
So, everyone, like if I say to you, "Hey Paula, do you want to get a million dollars a month?" You're going to be like, "Wow, duh." Like, what a dream come true. When that actually happens, it's so unfamiliar to your nervous system. All these traumas you didn't even know you had start to come to the surface. Oh, I remember like as a child, my uncle Bob used to tell me that people who had money were evil. I feel really evil now. I feel super guilty for having money. I don't even know what to do with this money. I don't have a purpose in life anymore. Everything like boils to the surface. And this is not just with money. This is an example. But think about anything that you've nearly come close to getting. And if you've sabotaged it, even a relationship, this is another good one. If you've sabotaged it, it's because your fears are blocking you. Your nervous system doesn't feel safe with it.
That's why we have attachment styles. People who are avoidant, when they get close to a relationship, they completely pull back because their nervous system does not feel safe with receiving love. It feels like, "I'm going to get trapped. I'm going to get hurt. I'm going to get abandoned. Let me run away first." Because in their childhood, they were not met with consistent love, consistent support from their parents. So, their nervous system is trained to flee. Essentially, your nervous system is going to dictate everything in your life. There is no point trying to manifest or go after really big things if you're not going to feel safe when you have it.
To heal this, I always recommend going in stages. So, first of all, you need to do a lot of like trauma release activity. I started to do TR. You do some exercises for your lower body and you weaken the muscles, and then you just start shaking, and eventually it kind of like takes over this tremor. I did this, and my stress levels dropped so much. So, my body is always in chronic fight or flight from like nervous system dysregulation. So, my aura ring, guys, it's like this every day. Even if I'm scrolling on my phone, after I started doing TR, it has been so much lower. I found a pamphlet online, so I'll link it in the description as well.
Or maybe there's a dream that you don't ever go after. And it's because deep down you're like, "Oh, I don't actually feel safe like being seen." I really want to be a famous artist, but that requires me to put my artwork out there, to show up at these events. Oh, I I'm afraid people are going to see me in real life. A lot of it actually comes down to a fear of being seen, and what happens when people see us? Will we get exposed? We will no longer be in control. Will they see us for who we really are? Can we even accept who we really are?
Sorry, you you hate to hear it, but beauty is everything. Okay, it's not everything, but it it it matters. If you are beautiful, if you look good, you're going to go further. People like attractive people. People trust attractive people more as well. Why I have so many beauty videos? Because you guys want it as well. But don't think like, "Oh, I'm not like the prettiest person in the world, so I'm never going to get what I want in life. I don't have this cheat code." Look presentable. Go watch my other videos. Look presentable. There's so many people I can think of who are objectively incredibly mid, but they present themselves so well that they have so much aura that they become so attractive and charismatic. And likewise, there's someone who's so beautiful, they have no personality, negative aura, and it almost takes away from their beauty. Guys, go watch my body language videos. Go watch the beauty tips videos and love a lot.
We all know that the key to manifestation is actually getting into the feeling state. The feeling state is what makes us a vibrational match to the thing we want. And once you know that, you can find ways to simulate what you want. For example, I role play with Chat GBT for whatever I want, and it helps me get into the feeling state, or I'll do a meditation. It's almost like you're literally hacking reality. I think it's also a cheat code to know sometimes we do not even want the thing we think we want.
You don't want that person who cheated on you. Why do I want them? They cheated on me. You want the feeling associated with them. You want the love they gave you that you couldn't give to yourself. And if you find a way to fill that, you won't want that thing anymore. You don't want money. You want freedom. You don't want to worry anymore. You don't necessarily want a boyfriend or a girlfriend. You want companionship. You want love. You want intimacy. Which is why a lot of people who have such fulfilling social circles, such fulfilling lives, they have so much love for themselves and for others, they genuinely don't feel like they want a partner.
That's not to say you should go through life without a partner, but it means if you are able to give yourself all of that first, you have a much higher chance of attracting someone who's not going to complete you, but it's two holes coming together. And that is what a soulmate is. And you tend to attract those soulmates when you are in alignment and when you have given that love to yourself.
Here's a brutal truth. Most people do not find their soulmate in this life. It is rare. I mean, look at the divorce rate. Imagine how many times people thought they found true love, and we all know that men tend to settle, especially as they get older in life. Taxi catap theory is real. People don't find their soulmates because they settle. They haven't done the work. They get lonely. They panic, and then boom, they get divorced 10 years later. Spiritually, it is impossible to not get them if you've done the work and you are in alignment. The highest version of yourself is the vibrational match to your soulmate who is also on the same level. You can't be down here when your soulmate's up here. You're not going to be able to meet them. And guess what? If you met them, you can't even hold them. You might run away. Oh, I got abandonment wounds. Let me abandon you first. You need to rise to meet yourself. You need to rise and get into alignment. And that's when everything comes. And we talked about this in the detachment video as well. If people were just patient and did the work, you would be guaranteed that person.
This is also why I don't really stress about soulmates. People say to me, "Do you really think you will find your man in Dubai?" And I'm like, "It doesn't matter though." It doesn't matter because if I was that vibrational match, I could be in the middle of like bum [ __ ] nowhere, and my soulmate could appear because guess what? If I'm there, he can be there as well. Sometimes I think about how I go to like such random places, and people are like, "Why on earth is Simone there?" And then I think it's funny because I could actually meet my soulmate here as well because if I'm here, he can also be here. If I exist, he exists. He could be doing something as random as me as well because why not? And you can be in the best city for dating, but if you're closed off and if it's not the time, you're not going to meet them. So, it doesn't matter. David Geon has a lot of good videos on this. I recommend you guys watch.
Okay, next. Reality operates on an algorithm. And the easiest way to code our algorithm is through what we consume. Social media is often used to weaponize us, to keep us dumb, to instill fears into us. But what if you used it in a different way? What if instead of having a feed all about hating men or economic collapse, you had a fear about positivity, about people achieving their dreams? And if you consumed that content as much as you were consuming the negative content, see what that does to your mind. I don't even listen to music that has negative lyrics. I read through the lyrics on Spotify before I play a song 'cuz I'm just I'm not putting anything bad into my subconscious mind. It's the easiest way to program your reality 'cuz wherever your energy goes and your focus goes is it's going to bring that into fruition. That's why scrolling on Pinterest can be so powerful as well. So, instead of letting social media work against you, use it to work for you. Code your own reality. You are in control.
Some people might be mad at this, but most people are NPCs. They don't think for themselves. They think based on whatever has been fed to them by the media, by school, they're not original thinkers. So, if you know yourself to be an original thinker, you think you're different, whatever, and there's some like NPC trying to talk [ __ ] at you and bring you down, just block them out. Like, "NPC, get out of my reality. You are irrelevant. You're irrelevant, and I'm just an alpha male." And the truth is, when you start to level up, NPCs, that's when they're going to come out of the woodworks. They're going to start attacking you. Often they're just representing your subconscious fears. It's manifesting outside of yourself now, and you just need to ignore it, get over it, and don't let them slow you down.
Next, the quantum field responds to who you are, not what your desires are. So, a lot of the times people are like, "Why can I not manifest this thing? I've been trying for so long." Yeah, you're not in alignment. Like, we've talked about this. Your identity is not in alignment with the person who has that thing. You want to be a Pilates Ranger Rover mom. You wake up every day at 10 a.m. You don't even do Pilates to begin with. You don't even put yourself in a position to meet someone who can put you in that position, aka financially retire you. So, what are you doing? You're not in alignment. And you can use Chat GBT for this. Paste a copy of who you want to be into Chat GBT and be like, "Yo, Chat, how can I become this person and what is the difference between who I am right now and who this person is?"
Your network is your social currency, and your network is how you are going to get to places faster. Your network is also determined by the city you live in. This doesn't mean you need to go and network all the time because I don't. But it means do not turn down social opportunities. It means be nice to everyone. Have them within your network. Add them to the network, per se. And honestly, just meet as many people as possible. Put yourself out there. Be seen.
Another cheat code is literally just go out and be seen. If you have a fear of being seen, you can start by healing this. I have a video. Start posting a video a day. Start going out to restaurants alone. Look at little habits in your day-to-day life where you try to shrink yourself or you try to not be seen. Maybe if you're at a restaurant, you go and you sit at the corner. In the at at a party, you go to the darkest part of the room, super far from everybody. Think about how you're doing this in your everyday life, and then try to do the opposite. 'Cuz the fear of being seen is just telling your nervous system, "I feel safe," and proving to yourself, "Hey, if I actually put myself out there, I am still safe." When you're seen, you're letting other people find you. People who are resonating with your frequency. The right people will always find you if you're putting yourself out there.
These are the ultimate cheat codes to life. And if you're able to implement them, I'm sure everything will change for you within 30 days. Slay Society, which is about to become the number one t-shirt brand on the internet. Mark my words. And I love you guys.
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