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How do you rebuild yourself and set boundaries with someone you're married to, but the marriage is dead?
I I heard you say the marriage is dead. Is it any way that it can be revived?
He's even said that.
You don't believe that it's dead?
No, I do. I think I'm just beginning to accept it for myself.
Okay.
You know what I mean? It's in terms of you want to go to God and you bring it to the altar, but then you pick it back up kind of a thing.
Okay, baby. I'm I'm going to talk to your heart right now. We have to stop trying to take control of things that we give to God. When you release it, it belongs to the Lord. Let him fight this battle. When the enemy has worked in our marriage so much and he has dismantled our marriage, we try to pull from our own strength, but we find strength in the Lord. And let me explain to you why. When we go through these type of situations, we get anxious. When you get anxious in the word, it means that you are divided in mind. But God will give us a perfect peace. And perfect peace means that he joins together what has been divided. Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving. Let your requests be made known to the Lord, and he will give you a peace that surpasses all understanding.
I say that to you because when we go to God and we bring up gratitude, this is the reason why when we pray, we lead with gratitude. I lead with a heart of thanksgiving because every time I tell God, I thank you for showing up in the moments where I felt so low. I thank you for healing this wound. I thank you for staying beside me. I thank you for your refuge. I thank you for your rampart. I thank you for your love. You start to see God's faithfulness and you start to see his goodness. And before you know it, what you were anxious and worried about is neutralized. That fear is neutralized because I've leaned into God's understanding. Let God fight this battle. Go in prayer and call on Jehovah Ni. I am calling on my banner right now. I'm calling on Jehovah Jabore, the Lord who fights my battles. I'm calling on Jehovah Rafa, the God who heals my wounds right now. I am calling on Jehovah Gyra. I need your provision right now, God. You are the God who counts my tears. You know my sorrows. You've been down to hear my cries. So I trust God in this situation. I don't care about what my husband says is dead because I have life in Christ. So I know that what is dead inside of me, God can bring it back to life. Take your tears to God. Stay at his feet. When you mad, take it back to God. When you sad, take it back to God. Before you know it, you going to feel this comfort that no human being could ever give you. Trust God. That's all I'mma say, baby. Keep God right at the center. He gonna heal your heart.