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Hello and welcome to this video. Today we're talking about the five biggest turn-offs when kissing. Often, kissing is the beginning, or at least one of the first steps, of a sexual encounter. And since the saying "first impressions count" is also important in this context, I'm going to show you the five biggest mistakes you should definitely avoid if you don't want your partner to immediately run away.
When kissing, it's very often decided in which direction things will go further. So it's extremely important that you can kiss well. You'll collect so many plus points with your partner that way. Of course, kissing well is relative, and naturally, it's also a matter of taste. But there are still a few universally valid things that should be considered. So let's not waste any time and get started.
Mistake number one is probably the most common mistake made by inexperienced kissers. Precisely because it signals inexperience, it's a real turn-off for most women. And that is when the kiss becomes much too wet. There are men, and of course women too, for whom a real lake forms during kissing. Not infrequently, the entire face becomes wet afterwards due to the movements. Most people find this unpleasant, as it is often associated with unpleasant odors and it generally just doesn't feel nice on the skin to have another person's saliva spread all over. Your tongue is not a washcloth that is meant to moisten certain areas. Some people naturally produce more saliva than others, and if you are one of them, then I recommend that you take breaks in between. So always remember: don't let it get too wet.
Mistake number two concerns those who turn into a wild lion during kissing. What may sound a bit funny now can be very unpleasant in reality. There are men who are far too wild from the first moment of kissing and give the woman no room at all to cope with the situation and to contribute, to reciprocate the kiss in her own way. Of course, it can be lustful and arousing to kiss more gently sometimes, but that should build up slowly. So increase your passion together step by step and see where it leads.
Mistake number three, on the other hand, goes in a completely different direction. The third mistake when kissing is to have too little physical contact. Imagine if only your lips touched when kissing and nothing else. A lot of sexual energy is lost there. Every physical contact is perceived subconsciously and triggers something, even if it's just your hands around her hips or your chest touching her breasts while kissing. Live this intimate moment with her together and get as close to her as possible. As an extreme example, you can imagine two people leaning forward to kiss each other so that only their lips touch. Strange thought, right? In any case, some men put a lot of pressure on themselves even when kissing and tense up. This can then lead to too little physical contact. So remember: the kiss happens all over the body.
Mistake number four, on the other hand, is the complete opposite of mistake number three. As important as physical contact is when kissing, you shouldn't be one of those who do nothing but grope the woman's bottom and breasts from the first second. Of course, if she gives you signs that it's okay, you can stroke past her breasts, but it's definitely not good if you're constantly groping her. This doesn't build any tension, and the woman might feel used relatively quickly. It's better to use the art of evasion here and run your hands over her stomach, back, and also along her neck. Whenever you get very close to her breasts or her bottom, you steer away. This builds much more tension, and your partner will become aroused much better. So take your time and don't immediately fall on her with your hands. That can quickly become unpleasant.
The last mistake is more of a mistake in the head, i.e., a mistake in execution. Mistake number five is seeing kissing only as a means to an end, to get her into bed as quickly as possible. Most women – of course, there are exceptions everywhere – see kissing as a very important part of the sexual beginning. You should too, because if you're only focused on getting kissing or foreplay in general over with as quickly as possible, the woman will notice. So enjoy the moment, be present, and don't think about what's supposed to follow at this point. She will appreciate it, and the experience will be all the more beautiful and much more intense for both of you.
If you avoid these five mistakes, you will automatically distinguish yourself from 90 percent of men and become a really good kisser. Perhaps you've recognized yourself in one or the other place. If so, that's not bad at all, because everyone learns. And you can now avoid the five biggest faux pas when kissing and avoid them from now on. This can open many doors for you. To have an intense and beautiful sexual experience, however, much more is needed than just being able to kiss well. There are a total of six different areas that you should master as a perfect lover. Therefore, my offer to you: a member of my team will go through these six areas with you individually by phone, give you tips, and show you how to become a better lover. Believe me, the women will thank you for it. So sign up now via the link below in the description for the free analysis call and become the perfect lover. I wish you all the best and see you in the next video. Your Bär from Best Lara.