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Men, let's be honest for a second. The wrong woman can destroy your peace, your purpose, and your future. I'm about to break down 10 types of women you should never date or marry.
Number one, the woman who drags her stress home from work. Instead of love and softness, you get arguments and resistance.
Number two, single mom. You are never going to be her number one. Her child always comes first and the ex is usually still in the picture and you are going to have to deal with him and you are not the father to that kid. Her first priority is her kid, then the baby daddy, then her family, then the dog and then it's you.
Number three, the teacher type. She corrects, lectures, and suddenly you are her student, not her man, and you are treated like a child.
Number four, jet setter. She looks glamorous, but her loyalty is in the skies, not in your home.
Number five, the gossip driven attention seeker. If she thrives on drama and validation, you are always going to come second to that.
Number six, the Instagram lifestyle girl. Follows and likes become more important than you, and you're just going to be another background prop or somebody to take her selfie for her.
Number seven, the obsession girl. Obsession with her hobbies or horses or coffee dates, whatever. You're always going to be second.
Number eight, the divorced woman who has not healed yet from her trauma. Every fight feels like you're competing with her past.
Number nine, the professional flirt. She knows how to perform, but can she respect and build with you? Doubt it.
Number 10, the materialistic lifestyle chaser. She doesn't love men, she loves their wallet. And the second your money slows down, so does her interest.
Now ladies, do not. I will add to this list any woman that is addicted. Addicted to food, addicted to drugs, addicted to a certain lifestyle or clubs or alcohol. Never get involved with a woman like that.
Not come at me for this. You know, on some level this is true. But here's the flip side. Men, don't just avoid the wrong woman. Look for the healed, put together, in shape, soft, feminine, nurturing woman who actually adds value to your life. Marriage can either make or break you. Choose wrong, lose your freedom. Choose right and you'll build a legacy together.
Here's the reality, okay? Women don't always tell you when they're done. They'll just show you. If you miss these signs, you are already being silently dumped.
Number one, the intimacy disappears. She doesn't want to kiss you. She doesn't want to sleep with you. She doesn't even want your hand on her leg. That warmth is gone.
Number two, she avoids you. Suddenly, she's too busy. She's staying late at work. She's going out with friends more often. You've never even heard of these friends. Truth is, she doesn't want to be around you.
Number three, her body language. It turns hostile. She's cold, closed off, arms crossed, quick to snap. Even your presence irritates her.
Number four, she's making exit plans behind your back, looking at apartments, moving money, lining up the next chapter without even saying a word to you.
Number five, she becomes hypocritical. Every little thing you do is wrong. You can't win, and she makes you feel small, useless, unworthy of purpose. That's how most relationships or most marriages are nowadays, guys. This is why I tell you, it's so important to see the red flags from the start. to not get married to a woman like that because she will make your life a living hell. It's her way of detaching.
Number six, out of nowhere, there are new friends. And let's be real, it's usually another man. She'll gaslight you like it's innocent. Oh, he's just a friend. But if she respected you, those conversations would not even exist.
Guys, you have to look out for when she suddenly changes, suddenly changes her schedule, suddenly changes her hairstyle, try tries to go to the gym, she wants to lose weight. All those sudden changes are for a reason, guys. Find out the reason. Maybe maybe she just wants to look better. It's nothing wrong with that, but usually is is something else is something that's making her want to do all these changes. And usually it's wanting another man or already finding another man.
Number seven, communication dies. No good mornings, no checking in, no effort. She is silent because in her head, the relationship's over. She just hasn't left you yet. And the truth is, by the time you feel that shift, she is already emotionally gone. You are just the last one to catch on. Stop ignoring the red flags. Stop waiting until she's halfway out the door to wake up. If she's pulling away like this, it's not love anymore. It's a countdown until she leaves you. Don't be the guy left blindsided. Wake up. Pay attention to the red flags because they matter.
The quality of men in London is making me question my sexuality. I can't remember the last time I had a crush or got like giggly and kicking my feet over a man. I don't want to keep rolling things off to the fact that I'm getting older, but I I don't find anyone attractive anymore. I don't even know what my type is.
Ma'am, that's a you problem.
Okay, this is a question for straight men, and it's only if you don't hate women.
Okay. Question is, if you could give women one piece of advice about men, what would it be?
Listen to what men say, they will tell you what they want. They will tell you what they need from you, but they never listen. watch a channel like mine, not necessarily mine, but if they watch a channel like mine, they just say I'm misogynist. That's it. They don't want to learn anything.
So, I've just turned 34 and I'm still single. Um, and don't get me wrong, I am very happy. I live a very fulfilled life. I have lots of friends, family. I've got great hobbies. I'm very happy. Uh, but it is getting to the point now where I feel like I would love someone um to help pay off my mortgage. The reason why I don't trust men to be faithful in a relationship is not because I've been cheated on, but it's because I've been the girl that men have tried to cheat on their partners with. And these men have been colleagues and friends who I know are in relationships and they know that I know they're in a relationship and they have still try to hit on me.
Okay, ma'am. So, you just expose yourself for being the side chick, never the main chick. Okay. And if they are that audacious and bold to be doing that, what are they doing when no one else is looking?
Every time I feel bad about being single and not married, I think about the fact that I know multiple people that are married that don't like to have sex with their husband. Like they actively avoid it. So.
Okay. And whose fault is that? If they don't like their husbands, why did they marry them, ma'am? Why? I don't get it. The girls, if you're ever feeling behind, just know a lot of these girls don't even want to sleep with their husbands. So, count your blessings.
Why are you attracted to? Why are you attracted to tall men?
You can't control what you're attracted to.
In the same way that men are attracted to women with a low body count. But, okay. Why do you like?
You can't control.
It's not the same. Well, I think one of them stems from like a fundamental thing and then the other one's just like biology.
Wait, which one? Which one is which?
I don't agree. I think one is a social construct and the other is a physical trait.
No, ma'am. It's also stems from biology, evolutionary biology. Do you know why men like women with a low body count? Because back then when we lived in caves, we didn't have DNA tests. So if you weren't a virgin, we wouldn't know for sure if it was our kid or not. That's why they wanted virgins to ensure that the kid was theirs. It's an evolutionary biology trait that we want nowadays. But nowadays is socially unacceptable to say that.
I've wasted five [ __ ] years of my life on a [ __ ] with four kids with three men. Tell me why the [ __ ] I thought I would be different.
Because you were stupid, my guy. That's That's the only answer.
Why the [ __ ] did I think a man with no kids who's responsible with a good [ __ ] job would [ __ ] be good enough for a [ __ ] with four [ __ ] kids and she still doesn't [ __ ] see it? And I've wasted the rest of my [ __ ] life. I got no time left. I gave all my [ __ ] time to a woman with a [ __ ] bunch of kids that aren't mine.
What up, my guy? She didn't have one baby daddy. She didn't have two. She had three. So, she made three mistakes over and over and over again. That's a woman that will never learn. Why did you think you were different? Because you were stupid and you weren't thinking with your head. You were thinking with your other head. This is why I tell you guys, don't [ __ ] up your life. Take this guy. Now he's very regretful. You shouldn't be regretful, my guy. You should from the start not choose a woman with three baby daddies. If you weren't stupid, this would never happen, my guy. You wouldn't record this video now.
What a [ __ ] [ __ ] I am.
I was talking to this guy and he's like, "Oh, what do you do for work?" I'm like, "Yeah, I work in tech and I also host a podcast." He goes, "Oh my god, I'm going to get roasted on your podcast. You're going to talk about me, aren't you?" I'm like, don't overestimate your importance. Your number isn't even saved. Your number isn't even saved. You're like, maybe. And what iPhone thinks you are.
Ma'am, don't you realize that by making this video, you just put off other guys that will see this video. Nobody would want to date you. Why? First of all, because you talk like this about men. And second of all, because you have a podcast and men know that anything that you will do in your private life, you will put on that podcast. Why would a guy want to date you? Nobody would want to date you.
You're safe. I won't talk about you. Don't you worry.
And just look at how she talks, her accent.
And then he responds back and says, "I love it. Put me in my place. Bring me down a notch or two." Exactly. Exactly. You just have to be a little mean to them.
Yeah. This is why women like her have her attitude because of Sims. Because of guys like that. Stop being a simp. Just look at the simple meter.
I'm a And then if don't let me be your girlfriend, you know, I'm I'm soft as hell. I'm bathing you, feeding you, doing all things.
Literally, I used my last boyfriend. I bathed him every night. That was like our time to talk to.
Can you elaborate on that a little bit? What do you mean bathing him? like in a tub.
He comes home. He walked in the door. Steak and potatoes waiting for you at the door. And then you eat your food and then we go in the tub. Nina, the shower. And how was your day?
How was your day?
I ain't going to hold you. That's part that boy. Get your feet up.
Yo, ladies, take notes. I'm telling you.
He tells everybody. He's like, "Yeah, we didn't work out." But she.
It's not about the shower. It's about the fact that you asked about his day, that you cared what he did and how he is and how he's feeling. That's it. It's not about the shower, ma'am.
She treated me like a god.
I'm telling you, I've only had one girl who really with like like my back. Ah, beautiful time in there.
I did it all. If you go to Medigene, Columbia, you will walk down the streets and you will see girls on a scale of 1 to 10 physically. You will see nines and tens working at a taco shop or doing janitorial work on the side of the street with a very minimalist life, very happy, smile on their face, probably live at home with their parents, don't even have a car, don't have anything materialistic, very approachable, very friendly, just very grateful to be alive and easy to date as a.
Yeah, my guy. But uh going there is a very big risk for you as an American.
Guy. On the flip side, here in the States, there will be girls that on a scale 1 to 10 on the bottom half of that scale that are challenging to date. Very, very pretentious, nonapproachable. Guys will approach him like, "Oh, like you're creeping me out." Very, very challenging to date. And for that reason, I'm like, "Guys, like this is not normal here in the US." When I go travel to all these countries, everywhere else in the world, women are like a lot more approachable, a lot more easy to get along with. They're less pretentious.
Could someone explain to me why guys who don't follow you and maybe find you in the for you page or like I don't know suggested friends or something. They don't follow you but they like your posts. Like why are you liking my Do you want me to follow you?
Yes, ma'am. They expect you to like them back. If you like their photos back, that means that you're open to a discussion with them, that you like your you like their photos, you like their profile, so they can have a conversation.
What are you doing? If you're going to like my posts, what's the point of that? Like, I'm not This is my private account. Like.
Yes, ma'am. Man, if you don't like them back, he knows it's not worth it to to contact you. What's what's so hard to understand? We're just going to skip this video because I can see she's clueless.
I hope this lands on a potential someone's page. If you ever see me out, guys, come and say hi. Come and talk to me or like if you find me attractive, come and tell me because I don't [ __ ] know. I can't read a room if if I'm being honest. And I am too unapproachable. I can't come up and approach someone. I'm not doing that anymore. I'm not paying for [ __ ] I'm not going out of my way. I'm not defeminating myself for someone that's not worth it. Okay. So, I've decided now.
Yeah. You can see she's very masculine and she wonders why guys don't come up to her.
That yes, I will sit pretty. Yes, you will pay to be in my presence. Yes, you will, you know, get on your knees and kiss my feet because that's the energy I'm giving right now.
No, ma'am, that's not it. You're just giving boss B energy, ma'am. And by the way, by the way that you're dressed and how you're talking, you're just inviting men that want to have sex with you, that want to sleep with you, not men that want to be in a relationship with you. Why would a man want to date you when you expose yourself like this on camera and you're full of tattoos, ma'am, and you talk like that? Why?
I can't believe I went on a date in ages and I paid for everything, guys. I picked him up. He actually asked to drive my [ __ ] car, my Mustang. Do you know how embarrassing that is? Oh my god. I paid for the dinner. I paid for the drinks. I I was driving and I dropped him home.
Okay, ma'am. And why did you do that if you didn't want to do it? Why did you let him drive your car? Why did you go and that on that date, ma'am? I I don't get it. Why do people do things they don't want? Why? Just so you can make a Tik Tok video and and say how bad it is, how much you regret it? Why do it from the start? I don't get it. How are people this stupid?
Guys, hot take, but I could never date someone who didn't have the driver's license. Like, I'm sorry. What do you mean you don't drive? What do you mean you can't drive a vehicle? So, like, he could never pick you up anywhere. He could never drop you off anywhere. You'd always be the driver. Like, call me controversial, but I love nothing more than when you're absolutely steaming and like you call a boy to come pick you up and then you like go to McDonald's and they're driving you around like smash. I love it. I think it's so fun. But imagine you call a boy and you're drunk and he's like, "Oh, sorry. I can't come pick you up."
You're drunk. Okay. So, she's the kind of girl that just wants to have fun, wants to have a boyfriend to take her on trips to take her on dates and that's it. And she wants to go uh be drunk with her friends. And when she needs the guy, she wants to be able to call the guy, "Oh, come take me home after I got shots with this guy and the other guy." And and I kissed that guy and the other guy. This is so stupid. This is so stupid. And they wonder why they're single guys. I swear it's a mystery. It's a mystery. We're just going to skip this video because it's very stupid.
I'm in one of those are we dating the same guy? Facebook groups and this woman posted a screenshot like, "Oh my god, look at this guy. He's such a stalker. It's getting stalker status." and she posted the images and it is the most basic hinge message you've ever seen in your life where the guy is just like hey how are you and like a day later he was like hey like how are you doing and like ask some further questions and I'm just like he's being polite he's initiating what the [ __ ] else do you want if you weren't interested to the point that like him just saying how are you is giving you the ick why did you swipe I've posted before asking like why do men get into long-term committed relationships with women that they're not attracted to. And now I'm seeing that women kind of do the same thing. Like why are you swiping on someone who you're so not into that simply asking how are you is like setting you off.
The other day I went out with someone and he said one of the meanest things that someone has ever said to me.
Okay.
And I was telling him all about how I started writing again and I started getting back to creating content and I just feel like so fulfilled by it. And I know that I want to help women feel less alone being single and romanticizing their lives. And I've just been trying to build this platform here on Tik Tok and on Instagram. And he looks at me, "Okay, so you want to make content for women that are single. You want to make them feel less lonely while you go on dates with men to try to find somebody so you're not lonely." Okay? and he goes, "You need to stop daydreaming and you need to make that a hobby and that just can't be a viable career path for you." And I came to the realization that I mean, like, it's true, you need to make a living doing something, but I came to the realization that people are just living in this world with their own insecurities and their own [ __ ] that they're dealing with, and they're just projecting it on to other people.
Update 2 days later. So, we met a couple days ago and talked at our usual cafe. As soon as I walked in, she seemed really awkward and fidgety. Not a second after I sat down, she blurted out an apology for snapping and storming off, as well as all the things that were said from her and by our mutual friends. I was about to apologize as well. However, she told me I didn't need to apologize for anything and she had to really tell me something and asked me to just keep an open mind. Confused, I nodded. She told me that she wasn't exactly honest with me a while and that she's been lying to me. It turns out she never had a boyfriend. You guys were right. Turns out that she has liked me for a long time now.
I called it.
But because of how long we've been friends, she didn't know how to bring it up. Mutual friends decided to help her out. Everyone was in on this. And cook up a story about her having a boyfriend to test the waters and see if I would be jealous and awaken my feelings and fight for her. This is becoming a TV drama. No wonder I knew next to nothing about the boyfriend. She was trying to spin the story that she was keeping our friendship a secret as to, in her words, keep the door open for me. She started hinting that her boyfriend started getting nosy and a little jealous of how much we talk as to start stirring the pot with me.
Dude.
However, that had literally the opposite effect. As soon as I started trying to help her fix her boyfriend issue, she thought it was a good sign and we could start broaching the topic of relationships. I know this sounds convoluted as f and I'm just as confused as y'all are. Though from my perspective, she flatly refused any of my suggestions to assuage her imaginary boyfriend's jealousy. So, I just suggested to her that we should tone us down a bit. This apparently frustrated her and that led to her blowup. She vented to her friends and they pestered me a bit. Idiots, telling me I'm throwing away something good and all that. That's when some comments from our mutual started making even more sense. At that point, I just had a blank expression trying to dismantle the most complicated pickup attempt of my life. So, I just asked her what in her right mind would make this entire setup even remotely work in the real world. Crickets. She just apologized again for all this drama and was bold enough to ask if we can be an item or at the very least go back to how things were.
This my guy after knowing all of this and knowing how her mind is and how she talks everything everything with her friends. You have to be stupid to want to be in a relationship with her. The way that she lied to you right now, she will lie again in the future.
Point. I just felt a rolling headache and was still processing everything. Still am really. I just told her I need some space for now to consider this fiasco. Here I am now. I'm probably not gonna date her.
Good for you. Good for you.
OP for love.
Love. I basically lost my boyfriend to Manosphere content. And that was the beginning of the end. I didn't know it though. One day I came home. I was in my vanity room. Okay, I have a room just for myself with my clothes and my makeup. In that room I have a TV. One day my ex, he comes in my room where I'm decompressing, mind you. And he goes on my TV and he says, "Baby, I want you to watch this creator with me." Okay. And I said, "Oh, okay." Because at this point, me and him has been together for about a good 3 years. So, I feel like when he was suggesting content to me, it's because he thought that I also might enjoy it. So, I said, "Oh, okay. Uh, what type of content does he make?" And he says, "Well, he comes on his platform and he invites women on there and he basically argues with them." And I [ __ ] y'all not. The first question that came out of my mouth after he said that was, "Is he gay?" Because in my mind, I don't know an actual real man who goes out about his way to argue with a woman. Just.
Okay, so this is the perfect example of a woman that never had a man in her life tell her the actual truth. All her men, all the men in her life lied to her. That's why it's so bizarre to argue with a woman. Of course, guys, if you want to show a woman that her thinking is flawed and that's why she can't get a man, it's because you're gay. Of course.
To tell her about herself because in my reality, okay, that that don't happen, right?
Of course, ma'am, because you live in the Lulu land. That's why.
Right? I didn't grow up with men who were around me that did that type of [ __ ] And the ones that did do that type of [ __ ] they were gay. So, that's why I asked that question. He starts to laugh and he's like, "No, he's not gay. It's just that he likes to debate. He likes to go back and forth with the women and tell them how they're wrong." And I was like, "Okay, okay. Just go ahead and put it on." This [ __ ] going to put on Kevin Samuels. Mind you, I did not know who the hell he was at that point. And most people didn't know who he was at that point cuz he didn't blow up yet. He puts him on. And mind you, I'm just listening cuz I'm not watching. I'm taking off my makeup and [ __ ] I'm hearing the content. I'm just like I look at my ex at one point. I'm just like, "Can you take him off my TV, please?" So my ex just starts to laugh and he's like.
Because she can't take criticism from anybody. You can see how masculine she is. You can see how she swears, how she talks. Why would you date a woman like this? This is what I'm telling you guys from the start. See the red flags. I don't know how you go on dates with a woman like this and you don't see the red flags.
But oh well, you don't like him? I'm like, hell no, I don't like him. And then I start to like question him like, why the [ __ ] would I like him? So, fast forward, me and my ex get into an argument. So, we get into this fight and basically he asked me, uh.
Okay, so they got into a fight. Guys, listen to me. When a woman truly respects you, she trusts you. She trusts your judgment as a leader. She won't get in an argument with you over what you say or over what you're trying to teach her. She only does that when she doesn't believe that you know anything. When she doesn't think you're a good leader when she doesn't trust you.
Why I wouldn't do something like or why I wasn't like taking him serious or paying attention to him about some [ __ ] he was trying to say. I can't really remember. But I told him I cannot take you seriously because you don't pay any of my [ __ ] bills. That's why I'm not taking [ __ ] that you're saying seriously.
Can you see how masculine she is? Why would you want to be in a relationship with a woman like this? I can see women. I can spot women like this from a video from 30 seconds of a video and you date her for three years and only after that you realize that she's like this. How.
This [ __ ] going to say this is why women end up alone. Hope you enjoyed this video, guys, and I'll see you on the next.