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Two people next to you. Okay, have a look. Out of those two people, right? People you don't know, say those two people were hanging on a cliff and you're overlooking them. You can only save one of them.
Now, now, now don't tell them, but in your head, now this is key. In your head, ask yourself which one, right? Or which one do you like more and then why? And here it's very interesting cuz you'll see your projection. Two people you don't know. Why is it that one seems more likable and you're going to see, well, I'm projecting all this and they remind me of this person who I like. So, they're probably going to be like that person and this other person. They remind me of my dad and screw my dad or this person. They seem so smug and it's all you projecting onto it.
People will do that with you. No one sees you exactly as you are. They're just projecting so much onto you and forming those opinions off projections. And again, speculation >> fellas, once you fully understand how projections work, everything in your life will change for the better. Once you understand how the projections of others affect you, things will change. Once you understand how your projections of others affect you, things will change.
People judge others based on how they look. Yes. But most people only assume that favorable judgment comes to those who are good-looking and that simply isn't true. That's a projection of your own insecurity and lack of self-awareness. If you are rugged looking, if you look a little rough around the edges, people will see you as somebody who isn't self-conscious and somebody who is laidback. In nine out of 10 contexts, these results in favorable judgment and good outcomes. Nothing to do with good-looking. If you look scary or intimidating, people will see you as maybe dangerous. In nine out of 10 contexts, these results in favorable judgments and good outcomes, nothing to do with good-looking. And this is why so many men purposely make themselves look intimidating.
Tall men do so well with women because it allows women to project onto them all the things he could be. The fantasy of tallness. Nothing to do with good-looking. A white man who knows what he's doing will do well with women because he allows women to project onto him all the things he could be. You can call this the fantasy of whiteness. A black man who knows what he's doing will do well with women because he allows women to project onto him all the things he could be. You could call this the fantasy of blackness. I choose black and white because most other races tend to invoke the spirit of either these two races when trying to receive favorable judgment and projection of others. Think about it. How many times have you seen people act white at jobs or high-end places? How many times have you seen people act black in a conflict or in a fight or when it comes to acting cool?
The projections of others is everything and these projections create fantasy. The other person does not know the truth about who you are. So it is a fantasy and it is this fantasy that women fall in love with. This fantasy that makes a woman crush on a man and fall into infatuation with a man. But information kills infatuation. Reality pops fantasy wrapped bubbles. And a crush can only exist when you do not know the other person. This is why I always tell you and coach you guys to never allow a woman to know who you are too soon and dependent on the woman. Probably never. Do not trade personal information with a woman you are dating, with a woman you are meeting up with, with a woman you have not yet slept with. Always be unpredictable, inconsistent, mysterious, and independent so that the woman never feels like she truly knows who you are.
This is the reason why masculinity works so well because the masculine is polarizing to the feminine. So, as long as you are masculine, the woman will never be able to fully understand who you are. Do not share emotional spaces with women. Do not be 100% vulnerable with women and do not fall into the let me finally open up trap with women. Women do not love or let me reword that. Women do not love like a man. They obsess, they fixate. They experience lirance and they are infatuated. And information kills infatuation. I'll say that again. Information kills infatuation. This is the reason why it is crucial that you are never perceived as predictable, reliable, consistent and certain. This is the reason why routine kills attraction and romance and seduction with women. This is the reason why familiarity is so anti-seductive to women. Information kills infatuation. Women do not love like a man.
Now fellas, this leads me onto the other aspect of projection, which is how your projections of others affect you. One of the biggest lies ever told to men is that women are the same as men. I'll say that again. One of the biggest lies ever told to men is that women are the same as men. Because even if you don't believe it, it secondarily makes you believe that women are similar to men, which is untrue. The woman is nothing like a man. The man is nothing like a woman. In fact, you can literally call us polar opposites. We are so different that when you figure out just how truly different we are, society feels like a conspiracy against you. The closest thing a man is to a woman is when he was a little boy. But even then, the differences is stark. A cowardly little boy is the closest a man can get to being a woman.
It is well documented that women have simply positioned themselves as the opposite of men. This is exactly what feminism originally fought against. They wanted to create a world where women had their own identity. Where women simply didn't look at what a man is and then acted in a opposite manner for a sense of purpose and identity. They were unable to do that. So they then chose to copy men instead. What we are seeing today is a role reversal where the women has convinced the men to drop down their swords only for the women to pick it up. That's an analogy for masculinity. By the way, women today simply copy men. This is why they have worked so hard to work a 9 to5. They thought men have always gotten their sense of purpose from having a job and tricked themselves into having rubbish jobs. Not understanding that men got their sense of purpose through sacrifice and serving the greater good. Something that women do not have the psychology or biology to do.
>> I love my work. I am in my element doing what I love. I genuinely enjoy my work and my workplace. I am in my dream job and it's better than I imagined. This January and February of this year, there were actually more jobs held by females in the United States than men. And as you mentioned, that gap has been narrowing over the years, and it has flipped twice before. Uh but what's notable this time is what we're seeing in the data tells us that we're unlikely to see it change back again anytime soon.
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Women are not providers and protectors. This is the reason why it was so easy for feminism and the dark principalities and the powers that be to convince women into working because the woman has always looked at the man and thought that the man generates his sense of self, his sense of self-esteem and his sense of power through working. She was incorrect. This was a projection of the woman when in truth the man generates his sense of self from somewhere else. His pension for the greater good from his deep desire to sacrifice himself for something noble. From his deep desire to lead a noble life and to die a noble death. From the man's deep desire to love.
Since man has lost his God, man has lost his self. And when men no longer seek salvation in his higher calling, in his higher consciousness, in the greater good, in the truth, and in God, man now seeks his salvation in the woman. And what society and women and the powers that be have been able to do is that they've been able to take advantage of that state and take advantage of your own projections. Man has always seen himself in God. But today man now sees himself in the woman. He believes that he is similar to the woman. So he believes that the woman is similar to him in the way that he thinks, in the way that he feels, in his motivations and in his fears.
I've coached a lot of men and I'm here to tell you that men who are not good with women project onto women. They project who they are onto the woman and they project their own fantasy onto the woman. This is a recipe for failure with women. All of the men that I've ever met and all of the men that I've ever coached who are successful with women do not project these things onto the woman. And because of this, it's more easier and clearer to understand the fact that women do not love like a man does. You could argue that women do not love if we was to look at the concept of what love actually is. Women do not have the psychology to do so. It's not a moral thing. We are talking about the design of human beings.
One thing that happened when man lost God cuz remember as I said when man lost God, man lost himself is that he forgot about what his duty, his role and his purpose is on this earth. It has always been very very clear to all men no matter what religion you belong to that your job is to provide and protect. You have a pension for the greater good. Your female counterpart has a penchant for the greater self. This is simply how nature works. This is simply how humanity has pieced itself together. This is a good thing because we are here today to tell the story. This is a good thing because I currently have a phone in my hand that I am communicating to the world with. This works. The man loves and the woman protects herself. The man is faithful and the woman is fearful.
In order to truly love another thing, you must sacrifice yourself for it. You must be willing to sacrifice yourself for it. You must be willing to put your thoughts, feelings, motivations, and fears in the bin in order to love something. The captain always goes down with his ship. The man's love extends onto inanimate objects. The man's love extends onto concepts, ideas, causes. It's only the man that will die for his country. It's only a man that will die for his people, die for the greater good. This is a man's psychology. You can say nature gave this to us. You can say God gave this to us. Whoever we have been tasked with caring for the greater good of our people. Only men have a desire to create a dynasty. Women do not have any of these macro desires. All of the woman's desires are very micro. The woman cares for protects for herself those who she can see herself in. and her children.
If we were to go to war and we were to lose this war, the women won't continue the good fight, the women will simply go over to the the men who killed us, have their children, and continue to try to live a life to where they are protecting themselves. The woman will always put herself before others. Always. You. A lot of you guys don't quite understand the psychology behind this. A lot of you guys don't understand codependency and you can't see how even when it it looks like a woman is putting herself behind for other people, she's not. This is a strategy. You can call it the martr complex. There's so many different complexes that you guys need to understand so you understand how even when it appears the woman is putting other people before her, she's not. She is truly looking after herself. It takes a great deal of courage, bravery, resilience, and a desire to sacrifice oneself in order to truly put others ahead of you. And the only people who are able to truly do this is actually a small percentage of men.
Fellas, this is the reason why it's so easy for a man to take his own life. We need something noble, a cause to die for. And when we can't find something to die for, it becomes easy to want to simply take our own life. This desire to sacrifice ourselves is stronger than our desire to remain alive. This is God's command. This is how God wills it. This is how nature wills it. This is how humanity wills it. Those who are tasked to provide and protect those who are tasked with love cannot bear a life to where it cannot love. If it cannot love, it cannot bear. This is the curse of the man. The man who is cursed to love.
When you are able to understand this, when you understand how your projections of others actually negatively affect you, you are able to see the woman clearly for what she is. You are able to identify how the woman loves and you are able to obtain this love for yourself. In my work, I always communicate to you guys that the woman's love is simply obsession, fixation, lirance, and infatuation. The woman does not commit herself through valuedriven loyalty means. She submits herself to the best man she believes she can attain. A 10 to a woman isn't an objective truth. I'll say that again. A 10 to a woman is not an objective truth. A 10 to a woman is a subjective reality. A 10 to a woman is simply the man the woman fixates on.
And this leads me onto the next part of my video. All right, guys. I'm going to have to wrap this video up. It's going on longer than I expected it to. I hope you're deriving any kind of value from the video. If you are, leave a like, leave a comment, sign up for oneonone coaching. Don't leave a comment yet. So many of you guys leave comments before you even finish the video. It's very, very irritating. You should look in the mirror and have a word with yourself. All right, but let me finish off the video with this.
Every single one of you guys have experienced being a 10 through the woman's eyes. I'll say that again. Every single one of you men in the past has been a 10 to a woman. Now, the reason why we've all experienced being a 10 to a woman at some point in her life, fellas, do not ignore the unattractive girls who see you as a 10. They still see you as a 10. And the reason why I'm telling you this is because how we perceive the woman to judge and evaluate us is wrong. It is another way we project who we are onto the woman. in another way, how we project the man onto the woman. As men, we view the world objectively. Now, we're not accurate with this, but we have a penchant for objective truth. Our psychology, our biology prioritizes objectivity over subjectivity. As I said, it's because of our role as the male mammal. Our female counterparts prioritize subjectivity over objectivity.
All right. Now, as men, because we are very visual beings, we typically from a scale of 1 to 10 view women objectively, through a beauty lens. Now, I know what is an eight to me will be different to what an eight is to another man. I've experienced it multiple times. A skinny blondha hair, blue-eyed woman is not an eight, nine, or a 10. And I've come across so many people who believe a skinny blonde hair, blue eyes woman who hardly have has a symmetrical face isn't eight. For some reason, a lot of people think just having blonde hair and blue eyes and being skinny means that you're creme de creme. But anyway, most men can pretty much agree on what an eight, nine, and a 10 is because there are so many elements of beauty, especially when we attach it to a woman that is objective. All right? So, most of us can agree on that. And because we have this way of viewing the woman, we also project these things onto the woman. We believe women have this mass this massaged upon objective attraction to men. then we are simply wrong.
Now, there are very very good-looking guys that the vast majority of women can identify and say, "Yeah, this is an 8, 9, or a 10." But it's not in the same way as it is for us men. Women are not dumb. They have IQ and they have an understanding of who the majority of women will find attractive, but they don't actually have an objective sexual attraction to men. It does not exist like it exists for us. I hope I'm communicating this to you correctly. Women prioritize the subjective reality over the objective reality every single time. This is something so many men do not understand.
So what I'm telling you is when a woman does not know you fellas, you are a 10. When you have something valuable about you, anything valuable about you, when you trigger value to a woman, but the woman does not know anything about you, you are a 10. For you guys who are self-conscious and you think that you're not good-looking, you think that you're ugly. When you go to the gym, if you look good, if you got a nice shirt on, if you've got a small amount of aura and a woman does not know who you are, you are by minimum an eight. And that's me being harsh. You're probably a 10. You guys simply don't understand how infatual infatuation works. If you have anything about you and a woman does not know who you are, I'll go even further. If you have anything about you and a woman sees you as something maybe out of reach, maybe obtainable, maybe something she shouldn't have, you are a 10.
And then when the woman gets to know you, when you speak to the woman, she finds out your voice is goofy. When you speak to the woman, she finds out you you your your tonality is in congruent to the tonality she thought you would have. When you speak to the woman and she sees you put a lot of psychological effort into what you're saying. When you speak to the woman and she realizes you're a bit nervous, you're not confident, you're shy, your heart rate's in has gone up, you've got a lighter complexion, so when when you're nervous, you blush. When she finds out information about you, you plummet. Every man has experienced being a 10. And every man has experiencing has experience plummeting in the woman's perception. Going from a 10 to a 9 to an 8 to a 7 to a 6 to 5 to 4 until the woman literally sees you as ugly. just as ugly as an actual ugly fella. Most men have experienced their woman leaving them for a man who don't look nowhere near as good as them. And there are women truly leaving them as well. Their women truly looking at this other man that I've done better. Women do not judge other men the same ways we judge them.
Fellas, this was the main purpose of the video that I was doing today, having to explain this to you guys cuz you don't understand it. When you can rewire your brain and understand this, you will be so successful with women, fellas. So successful with women because you can finally stop having so self-consciousness and insecurities and inhibitions holding you back. You guys, when you're talking to a woman, you're wearing the wrong skin. You're wearing your your head, your bold head, your unsymmetrical face, your height, what other men told you was good-looking and not good-looking. Your clothes, your perfume, you're wearing all of these physical things. When you're wearing the wrong things, you don't actually understand what women are attracted to. You don't actually understand what women are attracted to. Because you don't understand what women are attracted to, you can't use it to attract a woman. You should be wearing your independence, your vitality, your aura, and the fact that this woman does not know who you are. And you should understand that the woman will do anything to figure out who you are. You need to understand how attraction actually works. You guys don't get it. You think women are attracted to us like we are attracted to women. No, we are attracted to hip to waist ratio, pretty feet, breast, bum, beautiful faces. The woman is attracted to anything that she can fixate on. Anything that will make her fixate. Women don't Women hate what she they are attracted to. I did a video about that. A woman hates to feel a man's a man's power. A woman hates to fall in love. A woman A woman hates these things. It makes her feel weak and powerless. A woman when you get onto her mind, she can't get you off of it. A woman can hate you and be falling in love with you. You could annoy a woman so much and infuriate a woman so much she'll just knock on she'll just knock on your door one day looking to get cracked. It's the same psychological processes you need to understand.
The woman is just attracted. There are so many ways the woman is attracted to. If the woman simply wants to find out more information about who about who you are and you're not giving it to her and she cannot find it, she cannot just click on your social media page and see 20 pictures of you so she can fix that need, right? She can't just call her mates up because you're a bait guy and find out who you are to fix that need. She can't fix her desire to box you and understand you and figure out who you are when she's asking you questions. You're vague, you're ambiguous, you're cheeky, you don't give her anything, she will fall in love with you. You guys don't actually understand the mechanisms of attraction. You project what you're attracted to over to the woman. And this is where you go wrong, fellas. The worst thing you can do with women is project who you are onto the woman. If you do that, you will be powerless. You're a direct guy. You like direct communication. Oh, so let me communicate to her directly because I would like it if someone communicates directly to me. H you're a man of objective truth and authenticity. Hm. So let me be a man of objective truth and as authentic as possible to the woman because if I cuz that's what I would like. The degree of self-importance you guys have is disgusting. The woman is not like that. The woman is a shrew negotiator. If you're sitting down and trying to um strike up a ne a negotiation, are you going to be direct, 100% honest and telling this person every [ __ ] thing? No, you're not. You're going to withhold information. You're going to have some cards to your chest because information in that way will be used against you. The person you're negotiating with is going to use that information to strike strike up a better deal for themselves. I like when people are kind, so I'm just going to be as kind as possible to her. Women are not like you. Women literally sense safety and danger for everything that they do. The woman typically when she's being kind, she's being submissive. She's being subservient. She's being obedient. She's being agreed even when she doesn't want to be. Women are kind nine times out of 10 when they don't want to be. So when you are kind, she perceives you're doing the same thing as her. Men who project will never get anywhere with women.
All right? And I'm going to leave off with this point. The thing there is nothing more women are attracted to than power. Because women are powerless, they're incredibly attracted to power. And a woman senses power in so many different things, mainly your independence. But the beauty of the fact that women are attracted to power more than anything else. That coupled with the fact that women themselves are lost within their own hubris. Their subjective truth is God. They believe themselves to be God. So this means their subjective truth in reality is God. This means it is so easily for you to come across as powerful to a woman because power is perceived. Power is perceived in the woman's world. The truth is a malleable concept. This is perfect for us feathers because when we can get into the woman's world, if we also see the truth as a malleable concept when we're dealing with women, then we can create all of the perceived power, all of the perceived subjective truths that we want to. It works both ways. The women do it to you, but you could do it to the woman. This is the reason why men who lie do so significantly better than you. A man is just so direct and told the truth. Now, I'm not saying you need to lie because real players at this game are able to create these things without lying. Smoothness, vagueness, ambiguousness. You don't have to lie. But a man who lies will do 10 times better than a man who don't.
All right. So, I'm going to leave it right there. I'm going to leave it right there. But guys, I hope you enjoyed this video. Please leave a like, leave a comment, sign up for one-on-one coaching. So many of you guys were telling me how you missed my old videos. I miss my old videos as well. So, I tried to make this one a lot more conceptual for you guys cuz I miss the conceptual stuff as well, but it's just too niche. The vast majority of people like it when I'm doing a prop like it when I do something different. People are most people don't like conceptual stuff, artsy stuff. So, as soon as I stopped kind of doing that, um, I have I've been getting a lot more success on YouTube. People want practical boom boom boom boom truths. People are quite sick and tired of the theoretical, you know, people just want practical stuff. So, I'm having to give you guys what you need, but I'm always listening to what you guys need and yeah, continue telling me what you guys need and I'll try to provide it for you. I try So, I tried to do a little conceptual video here for you, you know. I hope you guys enjoyed it. Um, love you guys. Thank you to for the support so much. We'll see you on the next one.