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Where are we meeting the men that don't suck? Where are we finding them? Someone tell me where I can find a decent, loyal, funny, good-looking guy around here. I'm convinced that it ain't no motherfucking men out here anymore. It's just with balls.
>> Where have all the good men gone? >> Where are all the men? Where can I find a good man? Where can I find a man? Where are all the men? Where the men at? Where are the men that are going to open the car door? Where are the men at that are going to provide and protect? Like, women have ruined this for us. Where do I find y'all? Do you ever think that they might be sick and tired of having half their stuff taken from them if you're not happy? Did you ever think that they don't like being accused of being abusive? because I don't know, they they said I don't like this or you shouldn't do that or maybe they got angry.
>> Where are all the good men that still respect women to understand that they don't deserve to be played with, lied to, and manipulated? >> All the good men got played, so now all they do is just work, scroll TikTok, chill, and ignore people. I'm genuinely curious why y'all are saying no to marriage. Like, I just want to know. The good men are the ones that have put in so much effort and had women trash them for putting in the effort. They've had women take advantage of them because they want to be a gentleman. They want to open the doors. They want to pay for your dinner. And you just expect that that is supposed to happen. The idea that you should have multiple men pandering after you just to see which one is the best is atrocious. I can't believe that I'm 28 years old and I have nothing to show for it. Nothing. What the fuck have I done my entire life? What have I done?
>> Why are guys so lonely? >> Cuz no guys just come up to us like we're just I don't know. I guess we're just ugly.
>> If you've been wondering where are all the good men, I actually have some homework for you. Start to find and pay attention to the qualities that you love in the men who are around you. the men you know, the men you don't know, the guy at the grocery store who asks to help carry your stuff out to your car. Because when you say, "Where are all the good men?" I already know that you are in a pattern of looking for negative qualities in men and you're finding them. So start looking for the good men and you will find them. Where are all the good men? Still asking yourself, where are all the good men? They are pretty much hiding out until they find the same thing that they will provide. It's basically for their weaknesses and insecurities to be known but not taken for granted. Which I know sounds like a duh bare minimum kind of thing. But the truth is is that that sort of thing is expected of men. But somehow it is not expected for men. And that's why good men are still out there. They just don't want to be found by the wrong person.
>> You get nothing out of being a good guy in this world. Only thing you get is you get to taken advantage of. That's it. You're getting treated like you're nobody, like you don't exist.
>> I don't think I can stand to hear one more. Where are all the good guys post? Honestly, I can't. It just seems like the dumbest question ever. The nice guys are right there in front of you. They're right there. But you are doing exactly what you say you don't want done to you. You're being judgmental and superficial, living in some fantasy world and expecting perfection. But are you perfect? But just like you don't want to be judged for the shape of your nose or the size of your boobs or what size dress you wear or any of that other shit, you have no problem turning around being like, "He's too tall. He's too short. He's got a couple extra pounds." Or, "One eye is bigger than the other." Or, "His teeth are spaced too far apart." You're fucking doing the exact same thing that you don't want done to you. And that is why you can't find the good guys, cuz they're still above you.
Where are we meeting the men that don't suck? Where are we finding them? Huh? I like this question, but I don't think one's going to like the answer because there are a lot of men out there that actually don't suck. But many women don't want to give some of these men a chance because they don't meet the standards that they think that they should have when it comes to dating. For instance, some women only want to date guys that are over 6' tall. So, they might not even look twice at the guy that's only 5'9. Or perhaps the guy isn't just as attractive as that person wants them to be, so he would just get put in the friend zone. Great guy, but not worthy of dating. And then there's some women that only want to date guys that make six figures or more. So they don't even look twice at the guy that works a blue collar job and has to work overtime on the weekends just to make ends meet. So there are lots of guys out there that don't suck. It's just some women don't see them.
Since our society only chooses to focus on toxic masculinity, I'm here to provide you with my list of the top toxic femininity traits. Utter disdain for men. These are the women that categorize all men with the stereotypical toxic masculinity traits. Just because someone has a Y chromosome does not mean that their only intention is to sleep with you, cheat on you, or traumatize you with their uncontrollable aggression and anti-feminist behavior, always trying to outmand men. Same women who want to be equal to men. Also, pray for the downfall of men. Amazing how that works. Ladies, if you spend your entire life trying to prove to men that you can be better than them, you'll attract none of them. But I find it odd that some women want men to leave women alone. Except when they need their support in something and then they complain, "Why aren't the men speaking up? Stop telling us what to do with our hair."
>> Frankly, I cannot remember the last time a man told me what to do with my hair. In my experience, it's almost always some of the women who are so concerned with what other women look like.
>> Stop telling us what to do with our bodies. Like what? Don't rack up a high body count? Because a great many men and women find a high body count rather unappealing. How dare some men tell women to pay attention to their own morality?
>> Stop telling us how to dress. >> Really? From what I've seen, some women should be told that what they're wearing is often inappropriate.
>> Leave us alone. >> And when they finally do, what then will one have to complain about?
>> Well, all good men, here's the thing. Um, I just want to let you know as an update, the good men are everywhere. They are everywhere, sis. The problem is you uh either have disqualified them for your own unrealistic ridiculous requirements or they have been so scared from accusations being told that they are harassing or you know thinking that they that you want them to approach you but then carrying on like how dare they find the audacity to approach you.
men, female, anybody who feels that way about marriage. Um, please just let me know why because I'm genuinely curious. Like, even after having somebody literally tell me, "I do not want to marry you and I had to break up with them because they weren't going to do it." Um, I just feel like I would still get married to the right person because marriage could be a beautiful thing. And I do believe that there are faithful people out there.
Where are we meeting the men that don't stop delusion? Where are we finding them? You want to tell me where I can find a decent, loyal, funny, good-looking guy around here? I'm convinced that it ain't no mother out here anymore because they were balls. Where have all the good men gone? Where are all the men? Where can I find a good man? Where can I find a man? Where are all the men? Where are the men at?
>> They rejected good men. >> Where are the men that are going to open the car door? Where are the men at that are going to >> provide and protect? >> Like women have ruined this for us. Where do I find y'all? Do you ever think that they might be sick and tired of having half their stuff taken from them if you're not happy? Did you ever think that they don't like being accused of being abusive because I don't know, they they said, "I don't like this or you shouldn't do that." Or maybe they got angry.
Because >> we're all the good men that still respect women to understand that they don't deserve to be played with, lied to, and manipulated. All the good men got played, so now all they do is just work, scroll TikTok, chill, and ignore people. I am genuinely curious why y'all are saying no to marriage. Like, I just want to know. The good men are the ones that have put in so much effort and had women trash them for putting in the effort. They've had women take advantage of them because they want to be a gentleman.
>> I have gained weight. I'm 34 years old. I'm not 25 anymore. And a guy that I dated when I was 25 just came back into my life. And he's in the besting shape of his life.
>> I would give anything to have someone at home to love me and support me. I've been the working parent. I've been the part-time working parent. I've been the stay-at-home mom and wife and now I'm the single mom working two jobs and I miss my kids, but I have to pay my bills. If you're a parent and you have a partner at home who loves you and your kids and helps take care of you in any way, mentally, emotionally, financially, physically, however it may be, just thank them. Just say thank you. Remind them how grateful you are. Remind them how amazing they are because I would give anything to have someone at home to love me and support me.
>> I divorced my husband because I thought I didn't need him anymore. I divorced my husband because I had this senior position at work and thought I held the same position at home. I divorced my husband because I thought I was better than him because I had my degree. Now, I divorced my husband because I thought a successful marriage meant I was here and he was down here. That is not success. That's sickness. I found myself divorced and out there looking for love in all the wrong places and this one and that one and that one and that one and this one and that one and my body count going up and my value going down. All the while, my husband found somebody else building a a relationship and building a life with them.
>> I should have stayed married to my husband. I felt like I WAS ON THIS DARK ROAD with no street lights, pitch dark and I couldn't find my way and didn't know which WAY TO GO. I FELT LOST. I FELT like I was walking barefoot on that dark road with pebbles and hot rocks sticking my foot. I felt hurt.
>> Uh I felt alone. Cuz every time he and that one and this one and that one left my bed, I was alone all by myself. And which was supposed to be soft and comfortable comfortable for me, my pillow, it was now filled with tears.
>> I should not have left my husband.
>> Well, he pursued me a year prior to prior to >> Yes. And so he kept trying and kept trying and he would see me out.
>> Why didn't Within that year he pursued you? What made you not want him? >> I thought he was too nice. I thought I would walk all over him and I was going >> I thought he was too nice. >> You thought wrong. >> Oh, I did. I thought wrong. I don't know what it is. There is this thought out there, this this desire out there. I want me a soldier. I want me a hard dude. I want me this and that and the other thing. And those are the worst guys to get cuz they're not nice to you. And you get a nice guy and you're worried like I I don't want him. Why wouldn't you want a nice guy? I mean, they always say nice guy finish laugh. That's cuz women are foolish.
>> I agree. >> Hear how I fumbled a good man. So, two years ago, I was dating before I had my second child. I was dating two guys. It it wasn't even dating. Well, yeah, you you could say that. So, I just couldn't make time for the the first guy. And he was a good man. He was He's in a medical field. No kid, single. He was a good man. But our work schedules was so messed up. But then I met my baby daddy and we worked together. He was my work husband. He started off as my work husband. Then I kind of strayed away from the first guy and started really focusing on my baby daddy thinking I found my prince charming. That was one of my mistake. Fast forward to now, he's getting married and he's a good man. He's a good man, great provider, great like. And then here's me being a single mother of two, hurting for certain hurting for mothering certain being this independent. Ooh, you know I'm a survivor. All because I thought I found my husband in my second baby daddy. Goof mothering eat goofball. Who's a goofy? You was a goofy. I unfriended him. I unfriended him when when I saw that whole big proposal. I unfriended him and took him off my page cuz who's a mad bitch. Mad bitch alert. Mad bitch alert. Females fumble good men and I fumbled him. Fumbled him.
>> So y'all let me tell y'all about my latest date, right? >> Mhm. You try to date outside your type because they say when you date outside your type, you found your husband. But that is not always the case. Let me get into it. So y'all know how Kendra G on Instagram has a live dating show that she does on her live on the weekends, right? And so she'll post up highlight videos on her Instagram. And usually she tags the person in the caption, but this time she didn't tags the guy didn't tag the guy in the c. So, he really seemed like a good catch, like a genuinely good guy. He was like 6'3, no kids, a lawyer, decent looking. Like, I'm like, okay, okay. So, I'm in the comments AND I'M LIKE, KENDRA, WHY you didn't tag him? So, a couple of days he comments in the comment section and write me and say, "It's me." And I like the comment, go to his page. Now, when I go to his page, y'all >> Mhm. When I went to his page, if he would have tried to talk to me straight from his page, I would have never responded at all. He's not my type. He looked better on that live cuz from his Instagram would have never gave him the time of day. Period. Like at all. I like some pictures on his page, but honestly, I didn't even like the pictures cuz none of his stuff on his page was pleasing to me. Like none of it looked good. But you know, and he gave like corny, lame. But you know, I be giving him a chance now. You know what I'm saying? A chance. Like I'm trying to find a husband. But I realized I can do corny. I can't do lame. It's a difference. I I can't do lame. I can do corny, but I can't do lame. But anyway, so he he set up a date. He DM' me. We got small talk in the DMs. He um scheduled a date. He sent me a Uber. We get to the date, y'all. He was so boring. He was boring as hell. Literally, I would ask him questions and he like would keep saying I don't know. I don't know how you a grown man and don't know. Like questions about yourself. Like literally, he said I don't know about over six times. Like I'm not even over exaggerating. And sometimes I would not say anything just to see if he would talk and he wouldn't. It'll be dead awkward silence. Like, sir, what? So, I'm confused. So, I was like, that's what I get for trying to date outside of my norm. Like, he literally had no conversation. He was so boring. It was like pulling teeth. Um, and then when I asked him like what type of women he d, he was like, "Oh, I usually date spontaneous women and fun women because they're usually fun cuz he boring basically." And then I could tell he was annoyed. Like when the night ended and I gave him a hug and he moved his arm and my makeup got on his shoulder. Girl, he was pissed.
Young girls should take these older women lessons so that they don't have to make the same mistake as them. Meanwhile, 900,000 women filed for divorce last year. And I wonder what these women want again. Feminism is a serious disease that destroyed the society and made these women to realize very late that their world has already crumbled. Youth and beauty fades, but a man's earning capacity grows over time. You guys should stop putting good guys in your friend zone. These women had plenty of chances to change, but they thought they could do better somewhere else. These problems are their own doing, and they are only here to blame men. Women take good men for granted. These women were fooled into believing the lies of radicalized feminism. Today's modern western woman is being destroyed by their own natural selfish instincts that has been allowed to flourish and be encouraged by feminism to be a good thing. And these stories are the aftermath of what happens to them when they are told that their needs, wants, and desires are the only things that are important.
A man of principle who knows his worth will never compromise his peace. For him to let someone in, her presence must not just add value. It must elevate his life in a way that makes protecting his peace feel natural because it is not negotiable. His worth is not on trial. To the last woman, some men have been groomed into reserving their emotions and energy as a defense mechanism because it is now the only way for them to truly protect those things until he learns your true nature. That man didn't say much and you still weaponized it. He wasn't boring. He was empty after dealing with woman after woman like you. Women have always thought that grass is greener on the other side. They become the victims of their own success. Men, these are crocodile tears and what they say means nothing to them. Never forget that.
>> I also feel like I'm getting older and it's like I have to put some effort into dating or I'm just going to be alone forever. But now I'm just honestly getting to the point where I'm just going to be the single ant.
>> I don't want to wake up at, you know, 60 by myself.
>> I'm 53. I would like to think that I'm still young, right? change and I'm wondering if anybody's experienced this. Um I for a little bit
>> once upon a time there was a beautiful princess. A prince asked her to marry him but she said no and he lived happily ever after. Women don't know how to love. All they care about is what they can get without giving anything in return. Women are always claiming to be the table and the prize. They are delusional. All the men they rejected when they were in their prime are now at home with their good wives and happy family. Women all wanted to be taken care of, but they do not listen. They want someone to save them, and they don't want a life partner. They are argumentative. They are never satisfied, and then they will hit you with the I'm sad, I don't know why, while she is a stay-at-home mom. These women are the ones who had soulmates and let them go because they thought they could find another. Their world is controlled by their feelings that can change any minute. You rejected good men in your 20s and 30s. Now you have aged out of the competition and the reality that men are no longer calling or interested is hitting home. Men have the option of dating younger women, but young men are not interested in older women. When they were young, they were into fun only and sent the good guys in their lives to their friend zone. Now they are older and the good guys have found good women and the remaining shady men see them as useful for fun only. The women that the good and successful men at 41 to marry are much younger and less jaded. Karma hits hard, but it's ironic in its justice. This is what happens to all the independent women that had plenty of opportunities in the past but chose to be crazy. The last woman in this video said some key words after ending my marriage and my new partner was a close friend before I got divorced. Sounds like she made her own new bed that she is sleeping in alone now.
>> This shit is so fucking unfair. Like why the fuck do I have to go through this? And he's just fine. Like that's not fucking fair. He needs to go about his life, have his home, have his cars, have his financial stability. And I'm over here fucking struggling. I'm over here fucking crying all the time. I'm the one who's going through it. And he's just fucking fine. Like, how is that fucking fair? Why can't I just be fine just the way he is? Why can't I just not fucking care?
>> I think it's perfectly socially acceptable to go on dates as a hobby. Like my one of my hobbies is going on first dates. And here I am. I go on the first date, like sure, yeah, to meet the guy, to talk, get to know them, tell them about me, like see if there's a potential love there. Like, whatever. Like, that's a small part of it. A big part of it is that I go and I get to try a new restaurant or a new spot in Boston. And usually, if not always, it's fun to buy the guy. So, I'm like, "Let's go explore a little bit. Let's try to like grow what I know about my city." And then when I go out by friends, I'm like, "Oh my god, I went to this really cool restaurant. Like, let me show you." So, I always try to get the guy to like pick a restaurant that I haven't been to yet or pick a cool new up andcoming spot or whatever. Because if I'm going to go on a date and like this guy might be great, but you know, he might also just like most likely most of them are just like not my vibe. Like, and that's fine.
I don't know what's wrong with me. I don't miss him so much. And I don't I don't want to miss him. And I just want to talk. I just want to text him. I just want to say see how he's doing. Like he doesn't even think about me. And I'm here doing this. It's so embarrassing. Like he's literally missing another girl. Oh my god. There's people behind me. And he's literally missing another girl. And over here I'm here just crying. Oh fuck. For the same thing over and over again. I just want to text him so bad. I just want to talk to him. Maybe they broke. Maybe they're not talking anymore. Just But like I I shouldn't be anyone's second choice. And I want to have that selfrespect for myself, but I don't have it. Like I need to learn how to respect myself. I like it hurts. Like I want him to come back to me so bad. I love him so much. He's just like why wasn't it enough? Like what did I do wrong? I know I didn't do anything wrong, but that's the only thing that makes sense. I thought he LOVED ME. I THOUGHT he loved me.
>> The answer is in the nose ring. She doesn't miss him. Rather, she misses his money and an easygoing life where someone else was taking care of her life. How is it fair that women get to leave for any reason they want and are entitled to the kids off the bat and get 50% of what he grew when she did 25% of the work? That's what you get for not valuing men. You should have given the nice and nerdy guy a chance back when you were young. Women haven't figured out that happiness can't be bought. You have to be happy with yourself. Everyone I have ever met are happy. The best part is that they probably left the guys and now they are crying because the guy has moved on. Feminist wanted equal rights, equal responsibility. Well, good luck with that. We have come to the end of today's video. Tell me your thoughts in the comment section. See you all next time. Thanks for always watching.