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You do not need their closure. What you need is transformation. You need to transform into the person that they were scared you were going to turn into. You need to get your together and become that person and start winning so loudly that it disturbs these people who thought that they knew you. And this is exactly how you're going to do it.
Hello, my name is Gracie Daskovich. If you're new here, welcome to my channel. If you recognize me, welcome back. Today we're going to be talking about growing into your full potential, becoming who you're meant to be, and ultimately turning into the person that they were scared you would become because it threatens them. If you're ready, you want a transformation, you're ready to do the thing, you want to grow, you want to become better, and you want to step into who you're into who you know you're meant to be, this video is for you.
A lot of people commenting about how annoyed they are when I touch my hair and when I clap my hands. So, I'll try to do it less for you guys. Let's not waste any time. Let's get right into it.
This is part one, the snap. First of all, you need to stop convincing people to care about you. If you have to convince someone to care about you or to treat you right or to love you, like, doesn't that say enough in itself? Does your cat have to sit there and openly beg you with words saying, "Please love me. Please take care of me. Please." No. Your cat exists and you love it. You take care of it. You show it that you love it. Not with words. Okay? Not that we are cats, but that is kind of a similar analogy if you think about it.
Stop begging people to understand you. Also, especially people that are committed to misunderstanding you. They already have like an idea of who they think you are in their head and they won't believe anything outside of that box. Like they put you in a box and they don't want to picture you outside of it or being anything other than what they want to think you are. When you're begging and bantering with them to understand you, you're not realizing it, but they already have you in this box. Like, it doesn't matter if you've proven to them a million times that you're not in this box. They put you in this box and they don't want to believe that you're anything outside of this box. So, they won't no matter what you do. So, don't try to beg those types of people for any type of approval, love, or understandment. Okay?
If people don't understand you, good. Let them be confused. If they wanted to see your side, they would have looked. This also goes for friends that you know, we all know that friend that decided to be against you before you could even like say your side or deny anything. Like they heard one thing about you and they automatically were against you. Like this happens to me all the time. And it's so cliche and predictable. People that are committed to misunderstanding you will never want to understand you. And a lot of times they have their own reasons. even if you did nothing wrong. Sometimes it's jealousy. Maybe you have something that they want, so they just can't look at you in a positive light. They have to tear you down some way. It's it's a whole thing. We could go all into that type of psychology in another video, but this video is for you and what you need to do with your mentality.
People never just forget your worth, okay? They bet on you forgetting your worth. They knew exactly what they were doing when they gave you less. And I tell people this all the time, like, stop giving people the benefit of the doubt. They know what they're doing. Nobody's perfect. Every once in a while, of course, we all make mistakes and some people do deserve that leniency and that benefit of the doubt. But if you just met someone, like, believe what they're showing you. Believe what people are showing you. Believe Believe it. Stop making up lies for them. They know exactly what they're doing. Okay?
Now it's your turn to do exactly what you need to do, which is detach, disappear, and rebuild yourself.
Now we're getting into part two, and this is the rebuild. Stop responding to people and giving people a place in your life if they make you question your own worth. Okay, that's a big one. If you leave hangouts or a date with someone and you're questioning yourself, that's icky. We don't like that. They're a problem 100%. You should not be questioning yourself. Once you cut out these people and you stop responding to them, you have room now to respond to yourself and your future self. Who do you want to be? The best thing about life is it doesn't matter how far along you are. You can always start over. You can become whoever the you want to be. You can be anything. You can literally choose to be anything. Especially in the big 2025, you can call yourself a cat now. You can call yourself a dog. Whatever. You can be whoever the you want. You decide who you are. Nobody else does. You can be whatever you want. Pick who you want to be. Pick what you want to emulate and just start doing it.
Maybe it's the version of you that works out every single day and has the best body. You don't need to have the best body in order to start working out every day. In fact, it's quite the opposite. So, I know it's really, really discouraging to go to the gym when you don't feel like you're confident in your body, but you have to do it anyways. What is your dream self doing? You have to start doing these things. This is so so so important in life. When you want to actually start making a change and rebuilding yourself, you have to start acting like with actions and doing the things that the new version of you is doing slash would do. Does that make sense? So, if my dream self is driving around a Lamborghini um somewhere tropical and is super super fit, obviously I don't have the Lamborghini yet, but what is she doing to earn that? That I can start now. And then tropical location. I can't move right now, but what is what does she do to get there? Obviously, we're going to start with finances and work. Um and then the body part. I can start that now. So, action action action action action. you want to rebuild yourself, you need to start acting now.
Once you're no longer trying to be liked by people and being like in that super super weak headsp space, you'll be building a life that you're so so so proud of, that's so real, that's so authentic and super super stable. Nobody can touch it. When you don't care at all about what someone else says and doesn't ruin your day anymore, nobody can touch what you built. That's just a fact. Nobody can touch it. It's super super stable. So the people pleasing, the insecurity about other people, then seeking validation in others, that all needs to end. Okay? Stop dressing for other people. Stop talking a certain way for other people. Stop explaining your boundaries. Just keep them.
You need to stop thinking, "What if they come back?" You need to start thinking, "Do I even want them in this life that I'm building? Where do they fit in my picture? Do they add any value to my future?" like start thinking for yourself. You're the asset, okay? Nobody else is the asset. You're the asset. Everyone else is a liability. Pick them wisely. Some people can be assets, but again, that's for you to decide. And you need to evaluate someone based on that fact every single time you meet someone. You meet a new friend. Okay. Are they a liability or are they an asset to my life? Is this man that I'm dating a liability or is he an asset? Okay, liabilities and assets. Is this cat a liability or an asset? Okay. Well, they're definitely a liability because they're relying on me and it's money and a lot of work to take care of something. But for the love and affection that I get and the daily happiness, it's worth it for me. So, you can see it in both ways. You get it? Give or take. You need to be doing this with every single person that you meet in your life. Okay?
Once you start seeing other people and things in your life this way, everything starts to shift. And before you know it, you'll have a big, huge, beautiful, stable foundation that you've built your life on top of.
Now, we're getting into the next section, which is your icon era. You're ready to be that person people were scared of you to be. You're ready to hit your full potential. People are scared that you'll become untouchable because people, if I know anything about others, most people in the world, unfortunately, are jealous, conniving liars, thieves, just evil. Like there's such evil on this earth. Most people aren't going to be happy for you when you win. Most people want you to be touchable so that they can throw one comment at you and you crumble and you don't become that super successful famous person that you're meant to be. They find happiness in seeing you fail and not reach that because they are not going to reach that. So of course it makes them happy to see another person not also reach that. Just makes them feel better about themselves. It's really, really stupid and low IQ psychology, but that's how most of the world works, unfortunately. And again, we could go all into that deeper in a different video, but people that don't like you hate to see when you get prettier. They hate to see when you get more money. They hate to see that you're dating your dream man or your dream girl and that you're achieving these things in life because they can't achieve it and they really, really dislike you. So, they really, really don't want you to achieve it. And it's just like when you do, it's the best feeling ever.
I am 22 years old, okay? I am nowhere near perfect. I've made a lot of mistakes in my life and I'm still learning and I'm not a millionaire yet. I'm not anywhere near like having all these things achieving and everyone. So, no, I'm not there yet. But I have had a fair taste of what people are like. Okay. My mom was an international supermodel. She's told me her whole life or my whole life. All that I could ever know about other women and how nasty people are when they're jealous of you. And I speak a lot about that in my videos because I've lived that firsthand as well. And people are just so disgusting. Best thing that you can do is on them. Become hotter. Become someone others love. become very very successful and wealthy and get your together and become the person that they were scared of you becoming because that will taste like vomit in their mouths. But more importantly, I don't want this to sound like you're doing it for them. Do it for yourself. Obviously, this is all for you. But it does feel really good when those people that it on you and talked so low about you watch you win. You know, like that is definitely that is definitely one of my biggest motivations that I've ever had. Like that will keep you up at night and that that will really push you.
You become an icon in other people's minds. When you stop arguing, nobody's really worth it to argue with to be honest. When you stop crying, especially in front of people who enjoy seeing you fall apart, like, you're just giving them popcorn at a movie. Don't let that happen to you. If you want to cry and you're emotional, that's totally okay. Just avoid doing it in front of people that enjoy that and eat that up because those are like energy those are energy vampires. They live and they feed off that They love to see you upset. Don't let it happen anymore.
Let people underestimate you. Let people copy you and let them talk about you. At the end of the day, you're winning. People that talk and copy and underestimate, I mean, that's all that they're doing. They have nothing else to do. If they were out there working on themselves like you, they wouldn't have enough time to be doing all of that. So, you truly are winning. You're the one becoming untouchable and undeniable. And you're going to become and you're the one becoming the person that they were all scared you'd become. And you're going to fulfill your potential and fulfill your life's purpose while they're sitting there on a computer or talking to your mutuals trying to discredit you in any way that they possibly can because they already see you as up here. So, they need to pull you down here so they can feel better about themselves. It's sothetic. I never understood why people think like this and do it. That's why I talk about it so much in my content. I am the type of person where if I see someone who I think looks better than me, has more than me, has things that I want, I get inspired. I want to learn from you. Teach me. Teach me. I don't see it as a way. I'm just I'm going to stay in the same spot that I'm in now. And instead of actually getting up and working my ass off and getting off my ass to become somebody, it's just so much easier to tear this person up here down to what I think is my level in order to feel like we're level. Like that is so stupid. That is so stupid. If you think like that, I think you're the dumbest person ever. Like, god forbid.
When you're going through this transition period, a lot of people are going to say, "But I'm so old you. What happened to the old Gracie?" Oh, you mean the one that you manipulated all the time, that you shout all over and that you made and the one that you fit into a tiny little box? Yeah, she's gone. Um, we're on to better things now. I don't know about you, people will love to bring this up, okay? When you transition and you move on to better things, everybody in your current circle is going to make fun of you. Everyone's going to tear you down because they don't want to see you moving on and proceeding in life and becoming better because you're leaving them behind. And that's super super offensive to them. Get ready for that. And just know you're on to good things when people start to and hate on you. You're not doing you're not doing anything right if nobody's hating on you. Because when you're doing when you're doing things people are too scared of doing and you want to become the top 1% of people and achievers and success, whatever you want to call it, most people will never get there in their lifetimes. And for them, it's much easier to tear it down and make fun of the person trying to achieve that than trying to go achieve it themselves, too. So, keep that in mind.
Thank you guys for watching. Comment below if you have any questions or any requests for future videos. Go become that version of you that they prayed you would never meet. And I will see you guys on the next one. Bye.
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