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One of my kids' mothers, you know what I'm saying? That my my ex stole over $400,000 from me.
Over $400,000 from me. She killed one of my child's because she couldn't get, she couldn't get child support in the in the in the state that she was in. It had a cap on it.
So, she wanted to move to California.
See, that's where all the girls go to? California. Because them lawyers out there waiting on them. And the laws is a woman is innocent until proven guilty. A man is guilty until proven innocent. Good luck.
And don't have no money because they going to extort you. You understand me? Judges and lawyers knowing each other and all that. No telling, you know, and these times are freaky out here. They probably having sex with each other and coming on and hitting your case now. You know what I mean? I done been through so much, bro.
And to go through that and to have somebody that you had taken care of for years, a person, she was a person that lost her job as a as she was, she tells everybody she a CPA, but you was a CNA. A certified nurse assistant. That's the lowest of the low in the hospital if I'm not mistaken.
But you want to tell people you certain things because you want to look a certain part that you really not. You know what I'm saying? And now you lose your job as that. You can't even wipe ass, right? You done lost your job. Wiping somebody's ass 'cause you ain't wipe it right. You still stink.
You know what I'm saying? And now you lose your job. You going to become homeless and you got two people you taking care of.
So I end up getting her and moving her with me. And now, you know what I'm saying? And helped out and all this stuff. And this is how you repay me?
I took I took the role of of of being your your son's father. Not just a daddy, but a father. I went in so hard, bro. I went in so hard 'cause I went in so hard to the point where I put them on my will.
Bro, this is heartbreaking. It is because we've seen this story time and time again where there's some good dude that is generating a lot of revenue that is super in love and even on top of his game when it comes to his career, his finances. And I'm not even just talking about athletes. I'm talking about people that are in corporate America, white collar, blue collar, owning their own business, athletes, rappers, entertainers, creators, men of all walks of life, white, black, Asian, Hispanic, Latino, whatever you want to call it. Guys have been suffering for the longest. And when I say that you should not be getting involved to take care of another man's kids, this is applicable no matter what your socioeconomic status is. If you are winning and no matter what your race is or how famous you are, this advice applies to you. It applies to you in every way, shape, or form. Listen to what I say. I've been telling y'all this for years. Never take care of another man's child. Don't be player number two. Do not play another man's save game because it will hurt you in the end and it will break you in the end. And so you being captain saver daddy and saying, "Oh man, I'm gonna take you into my will." You think that they appreciate you when they're looking at you as a fool? They're looking at you as an opportunity. And if you don't tell them, because that's the best way to do it, because then you get to authentically see who these people really are in your life, you'll eventually see who they are. When they get mad at you, they'll hit you with the "You're not my daddy" or, and this is the child, and I ain't even gotten into the woman yet. "You're not my daddy. Don't tell me what to do. You can't discipline me." And all of that. And anybody that you can't discipline, anybody that you can't, you know, have dominion, complete control over, if their father can come back into their life at some point, even if they haven't been in their life since they were born, can come back into their life and fight for the right to be able to have, you know, get their kid and take him away from you and stuff like that, that is not your kid. If it didn't come from your loins, that is not your child. Now, you can be a nice person to people. You can help people. You can mentor people, but to look at them as though they are your child. And I don't care. I don't care what women say. I don't care how they play it. I don't care how they want to frame it. I don't care if you think that I'm wrong or you think that whatever it is that you think. It doesn't matter. It doesn't change the dynamics. And I remember when everybody got mad at me last year when I said, "Never become a stepdaddy." Everybody thought that I was wrong except for several different people that were famous that hit me up and said, "Anton, I should have listened," or "Anton, you wound up being absolutely right. I've been through it." Because this is not singular to just a group of people that is on the bottom or something like that. This is everybody. Y'all gonna wake up and y'all gonna learn. And these videos are gonna live forever. And I'm gonna leave them as a legacy way after I'm gone so that you'll understand that you should have never been in this relationship in the first place, including Deontay Wilder. Now he's sitting here talking about how his his ex-baby mama, single baby, whatever she is, finessed and took advantage of him. And that's unfortunate because he should have had better people around him to tell him differently and to show him differently.
I had a meeting with my kids. I said, "How about how y'all feel if I scoot y'all over? I scoot over a little slide and let somebody else get a little bit." And you know my kids are amazing. They're my best friends.
I was down with it. So I moved a little space over and added her son in on my will. You ain't even my son for real.
Wow. Damn. That has to take a toll.
I put I put her in my will as in my will as well too. You was just my girlfriend. You ain't even my wife. I hope that still ain't dead, man.
Yeah, man. See, I hope that still. One time the dude told me, one time the son said, "You ain't my daddy."
And was I right or was I right? No, no, no, no, no, no, no. Let me let me stop there. Was I right or was I right? It happens too often. It happens too often, dog. Eventually, if you are in a relationship with a woman that's not yours and you become a stepdaddy, eventually you're going to get into it with the son because they're going to be starting to feel themselves, they're going to hit you with those words. I'm so thankful. I'm so blessed that I've never been in this situation where I ever had to deal with a little ungrateful thing to sit there and tell me, as I take care of his mama and him, that you ain't my daddy. Man, I will.
Now, that's one thing you don't say to a man that ain't his that ain't your daddy. Don't remind him that you ain't his daddy. You ain't. You know what I'm saying? Don't remind me that.
I know that, but you ain't got. I done failed you, took you on all these trips, giving you a beautiful life. I ain't your daddy. I'm put you on my will. Bro, when he did that, bro, I ran. I ran to my lawyer then to try to get that, you know what I mean? Because I felt like I was going to have a heart attack. Seriously.
You know what I mean? So, I been through a lot, bro.
It sounds like a lot to just be the the guy, right? Like, you're the the heavyweight champion, you're the guy and all of this. It's crazy because I I wrote this the other day on my Twitter. I said, I said, "We as boxing fans owe Deontay Wilder more respect." And I say that because
You was the last great American heavyweight.
Like the guy that we could say, "This is our guy."
You know what I'm saying? It was you. And after you, it ain't been.
And now they want you back.
Shout out to Deontay Wilder. Incredibly, incredibly entertaining boxer. Um, I hope he gets a big payday coming through at some point. And that's because you could see it. You know what I'm saying? You could see at different parts of his career that he was probably going through some personal stuff with people that were playing roles in his life that were doing a psychological number on him. And whenever you can't find peace at home so that you can be great in the ring or be great at whatever it is that you do for a living, then that's a that's a unfortunate thing for a person. And that's an unfortunate thing for a man because every man should be able to have some kind of peace and tranquility and love in his home to where he's not looked at as the enemy by the very people that he's taking care of. Your girl should really be the intercessor and your comfort. Your home is supposed to be your sanctuary. And you're going to have to figure out how to vet through the people that's supposed to be even participating and landing in your sanctuary. And I don't even care if it's just the person that you're in a bed with or if it's the people that you surround yourself with or family. I think that somebody like him needed to be protected from himself. And the people that were there to protect him, they did him dirty and it's unfortunate. Let me know what y'all think inside of the comments. Make sure y'all tap into the Patreon link is in the description. Tee Hanley, 40% off your first order, 20% off of life. I love you. I appreciate you. And I always want to link back to the content creator to give credit. I love y'all. I'mma holler at y'all later. That's broke my heart, bro.