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Welcome to Smart Girl Philippines. I'm Irish and I've got Jenky here to help me. In today's episode, we're going to be ranking the value of different foreigners to different Filipinas here in the Philippines. And there's six different categories of Filipinas. We've got online scammers, which would also include professional chatters.
Next is bar girls, which includes freelancers and street walkers. Then we've got gold diggers, which includes sponsored girlfriends and any Filipinas who just want a relationship so they can get money. And then Filipina girlfriend material and wife material. And then single moms. And we've got 13 different categories of foreigners. First time in the Philippines. Previous experience coming to the Philippines. Here in the Philippines now. Coming soon. Which younger, which we'll say is under 30. Older, which we'll say is over 30. Wants kids. Doesn't want kids. Nice, kind, and wants a real relationship.
We're doing this so you can understand your value here, so you can play to your strengths and also avoid traps and scams. The other reason why I really wanted to make this video is that a phrase I hear thrown around all the time is men, don't forget that you're the prize. And the problem I have with that advice is that all it does is set men up to be scammed when they sign up for dating apps or show up here in the Philippines. Because guess which Filipinas are going to treat you like a big prize when you create a new profile on a dating app or show up in Manila. Any guesses? Of course, the scammers, bar girls, and gold diggers. So, pay attention because I'm going to explain which foreigners are the real prize.
So, let's get started right away. First up is a foreigner who is here for the first time. So, this is going to be a high value all the way across the board. Filipinas love foreigners who have never been in the Philippines before because it either means you are a fresh fish or it means they get to be your first and they don't have to deal with any drama from other Filipinas.
Next is a foreigner who has experience coming to the Philippines. So, for the scammers, bar girls, and gold diggers, this has low value. But, for a potential Filipino wife or girlfriend, this has medium value because you already know your way around here. So, you're not totally clueless. And for single mom, it's high value.
Next is a foreigner who is here right now. For a scammer, this is going to be low value because she's never going to meet you in person. For bar girls and freelancers, this is high value because this is how she earns money. For a gold digger, it's tricky because she needs you here to hook you, but after she hooks you, she doesn't want you hanging around for very long. For girlfriend, it's medium value because she likes being with you, but sometimes she likes it when you have to leave. And for wife and single mom, it's high value.
Next is a foreigner who is coming soon. This is high value to a scammer because she can sell you the fantasy that she's going to meet you. For bar girls and freelancers, it's low value because you're not here. For a gold digger, it's high value because she needs to know when you're coming so she can make sure she's not busy with any other guys. And for a girlfriend, wife, and single mom, it's going to be high value because it gives them something to look forward to.
Next is a foreigner who is rich. So, for scammers and [ __ ] it's a low value. They really don't care if you're rich or poor. For a gold digger, it's a really high value. And for a girlfriend, it's a medium value. And for a wife and single mom, it's a high value.
Next is a foreigner who is under 30. For scammers, bar girls, and gold diggers, this is a really low value because young guys usually don't have much money and they usually have more options. For a girlfriend, this is a medium value. And for a potential wife, this is low value because young guys are usually busy, broke, and just [ __ ] around. And for a single mom, it's a high value.
Next is a foreigner who is over 30. This is a high value all the way across the board because older means you have money and you have free time. And every Filipina loves guys who have both of those things.
Next is a foreigner who wants kids. So, this is a low value to scammers and bargirls because, honestly, they don't really care. But, for a gold digger, this is tricky because she might want to trap you by having a kid with you. For a girlfriend, it's medium value because she might still just want to have fun and enjoy her life. For a wife, it's high value. For a single mom, it's a really high value, duh.
Next is a foreigner who doesn't want kids. So, this is a high value for scammers and bargirls. It's tricky for gold diggers. It's medium for girlfriends. It's low for wives and high value for single moms because they already have kids, duh. >> [screaming] >>
Next are the foreigners who are nice or kind. So, think of it like this. The nice guy says, "I want you to like me." The kind guy says, "I want what's best for you, but I won't lose myself doing it." So, the nice guy does nice things to try to make Filipinas like him, but he's not being his true self. And the kind guy has genuine care and empathy and doesn't expect anything in return. So, a nice guy has really high value to the scammers, [ __ ] and gold diggers and a low value to potential girlfriends and wives and a high value to single moms. And a kind guy has low value to the scammers, [ __ ] and gold diggers and high value to the girlfriends, wives, and single moms.
What you need to understand is that if you're a nice guy, all the bad Filipinas here will love you and treat you like a prize, but you'll get eaten alive. And I'll let you in on a little secret. Good Filipinas don't [ __ ] nice guys, and you need to understand that being kind is all about having good character and values, and that has no value to any of the bad Filipinas here. But, it has huge value to the good ones.
Next is a foreigner who wants a real relationship. So, this has high value to a scummer because she's trying to sell you the fantasy that the relationship is real. It's a low value to bar girls and freelancers despite what they tell you. In fact, the quickest way to get a freelancer to stop bothering you is to tell them you're looking for a girlfriend. For a gold digger, this is tricky because she would prefer it if you weren't too serious, but she needs you to be serious enough to take the bait. >> [gasps] >> For a girlfriend, it's a medium value because she wants serious but not too serious. And for a wife and single mom, it's high value. Hooray!
We did it. I really hope that was helpful for you because I really want you to be smart in your search for love. Let me conclude by saying that any Filipina you talk to or meet is going to be asking you very specific questions because she's going to be trying to figure out which type of foreigner you are. For example, if it's your first time in the Philippines, then that's a high value to every Filipina you meet. So, of course, that's probably going to be the first question they're all going to ask you. So, just keep in mind that a lot of the first questions Filipinas will be asking you aren't random. No, no, no, no. They're carefully calculated so they can determine your value as quickly as possible. But, these questions will also be your biggest clue as to what type of Filipina you're talking to. If a Filipina asks you if you want to have kids, then that's a huge clue that you're talking to a good Filipina. So, be smart and pay attention to the questions a Filipina is asking you because they usually tell you everything you need to know about a Filipina.
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