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Straight women have always told me that they envy me because I don't date men. I date women. But the thing is, straight women don't understand the difficulties of dating women because they don't date women. I've never had an easy time dating women. And in this video, I want to talk about why. Welcome to True Sovereignty, where we're mastering our minds so we can reclaim our peace. On my channel, we talk about building sovereignty, cultivating inner peace, emotional maturity, and overall independence within yourself and in your life. I think the core issue that comes from women is we're brought up to be dependent. We're brought up to rely on other people. When I was a little girl, I was constantly, it was constantly implied that I would never really have to fend for myself. I'd always have someone to rely upon, theoretically, a husband. And women are brought up like that, whether they turn out to be gay or straight.
Let's talk about that. She makes a really good point there. That is a fantastic point. I really haven't touched on that too much recently. So I want to talk about how women from my perspective. I'm not a woman so I don't I see how they view life but my interactions with women and how they view life uh as opposed to how a man views life and the future in general. Let's talk about the differences. So, what I've noticed with a lot of women, now not all of them, some of them are raised to especially value money and the hard work that that is required to make the money, right? Respecting it, not wasting it, not spending it. They're the 1enters. They're out there. If you've got one of those guys, well, hang on to it because it is a very rare beast. It needs to be studied. Why? Most women live day by day. They don't have the strategic long-term view a lot of the time that men have. They don't think out 5 years, 10 years, 20 years. Okay, if I make this decision, what is that going to mean for my future? And start trying to weigh up the pros and cons uh of what their plan entails, what the opportunity costs are. This is what this is how a lot of men think. I'm not saying all men, but a lot of men, we're just built this way. We need to think long term. determined to think ahead first, to provide security, to amass resources, build wealth. It's just how we're wired. We think this way. Women don't think like that. Now, let's just talk from a really base perspective. Why don't they think like that? Because they don't need to. She made a great point. They expecting someone to bail them out or they've been bailed out their entire lives um by fathers who give them the princess treatment, princess treatment. If they have no money and some big expense comes up, they ring up dad. Dad sorts them out. They need help with anything, dad sorts them out. Or the brothers go and help them. They need to move house, they got an army of people that'll go and move the house for the list goes on. Like there's no accountability for things. So they always think that men men are going to do things for them and men should do things for them and men are more or less utilities if you really want to strip it back. A lot of the language people uh women not people women will use around men is oh yeah got this guy on the hook. He's really good with his hands. He does things around the house. That's that's the value that she sees in him. He fixes [ __ ] He services her car. He saves her money. He does all the outside stuff, all the gardening and the gutters and all this sort of things. If you've got a house, let's talk more specifically about money and life choices. Now, I can even tell you from my experience, I was a real grinder. I am a grinder. That's just the way I'm I operate. Yeah, as you see, guys, I got multiple channels. I post on them most days unless something really uh makes it that impossible for me. But I work full-time as well. But when I was younger, even from teenage years, I was a grinder. I had multiple jobs. Always had this plan, this big plan that, you know, everything counted. Everything that I do at that time in my life, it's all going to compound if I continue to make the right decisions. And I was right. So, I didn't go out uh and have instant gratification by wasting money on [ __ ] going on trips, getting pissed all the time. I mean, I did a bit of that, but you know, going out two, three times a week and spending hundreds of dollars. I didn't do any of things like that. Nice nice new cars on finance and all that. Didn't didn't do any of it. Work, work, work, and uh reach my goals. Women don't think that way. Like straight up, it is literally daytoday. Let's talk about money more specifically. They get some money and they spend it and then next next week you get some more or next month you get some more. or when the pay comes in, what are you worried about? There's no just thinking about today. There's a thought for the future. Now, they only think for the future obviously when they're trying to get a guy. That's why they're so focused on resources and provisioning because they don't have the capability to do that a lot of the time. They're looking for some guy to do it. That's when they care about the future. But when they're young, young women, I'm talking under 35, which is a stretch. 35 is a stretch to call women young, but under 35, all they care about holidays. Like how how many women will you match on with dating apps or go on dates with and they've been telling you, "Oh yeah, I've been traveling around Southeast Asia and I went and did Nepal and I've been to India, then I did a safari, then I've done this." You know, I'm just thinking in my head, far out. That's like 100 grand in travel just you've told me in about two sentences. Yeah, I'm going to go and do Europe. I really want to go on the Eiffel Tower as well. I also want to go and do a long cruise. I've got 26 more countries on my list that I want to get through before I'm 30. you're going to hear all this [ __ ] cuz there's no thought for the future that that money that they're spending or the money that they're borrowing is going to come back to bite them in the ass. And I've known quite a lot of women who uh they find this out the hard way. Life comes and uh well, it gives them an uppercut. There's one girl that I went to university with many years ago. Uh she's actually really nice girl, by the way, but she just made some really stupid decisions. And those decisions were continuously taking out personal loans and credit cards. I don't know how she was getting them, but the banks were giving them to her um just to go and travel and do things and cover life expenses and cuz she had this big life that was far and above beyond how she could earn money. Even then, when she graduated and, you know, became a professional, she had a good job, but she'll spend double the money. So, she's running up all these massive tabs thinking it's never going to come back to bite her in the ass and it did. and she's about $300,000 in debt at 40 years old and has nothing to show for that debt. Now guys, this is for travel and clothes and food and [ __ ] like that, you know, going out, eating, just living this big life. Yeah, some people say, "Oh, you got good memories." I'd rather not have the memories and not be $300,000 in debt from personal loans. I understand people get in debt for houses, personal loans on [ __ ] traveling Anyway, before I keep going, guys, consider checking out the locals page. 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All right, let's keep going. Women are not told that one day someone's going to rely on you and someone's going to depend on you. So, you're going to have to learn how to rely on yourself, depend on yourself, and learn how to solve problems. women aren't taught that. So that in turn causes a whole host of other issues. I also just want to have a disclaimer here. None of this is women hating. There are issues with men as well. I might talk about that in another video, but that's not what this video is about. And towards the end of this video, you'll actually see what I truly think. But first, I want to get into the obstacles when it comes to dating women from a woman's perspective. So, women are essentially getting mixed messages as we grow up because we're taught to be reliant, which causes women to actually become entitled. So, women feel that they are entitled to a man's money, a man's time, what have you. mostly their money, right? But then in turn, they're taught that they're flawless, that they can do whatever they want, be whatever they want, and that they should be an independent boss babe. So that's where we get feminism, where women are essentially spreading the message that they want equality, but that they also feel entitled to a man's money. That's where we're getting the mixed messages there. These issues are stemming not only from how we're raised and the classical roles that women have kind of always played within society. But now social media was just kind of spouting this you don't need anybody type of mentality.
All those stupid podcasts and the ones that I talk to on this channel and my other channels um every day, right? There's just a lot of rubbish out there. A lot of poison get gets put into society. And you got women who have not had success, you know, in having a stable long-term relationship getting on these podcasts and saying all sorts of rubbish to women, you know, bare minimum and getting the ick and, you know, what was the one I saw recently about if you're on they think of a man like a train. If you think of if if you're if you're stuck on the train and you go past your stop, you're going to get off. If you don't like the train ride, you're going to get off. So, they're talking about long-term relationships with men. Just drop them. Drop them like they're nothing, like you're an object. But further to that, it's more around the social media poisoning, but also the illusion of choice. Like these women, even the most averagel looking women on the, you know, on a dating app, on Instagram, they get they get hit up by guys like day in day out. And so they think that they're a lot more attractive than what they might be or that their value is a lot more than what it actually is. Because guys will say and do anything, especially when trying to get a hookup off a dating app or off social media, you know, just direct messages. They'll say what they got to say. So that inflates women's egos. It distorts their perception of reality. And because all these men are laying it out on a red carpet for them, they're laying out the red carpet uh and they're taking them out, bending over backwards to take them out on dates to spend money on them in the hopes they get some clones. These women think that this translates into very high relationship value and that this is the behavior they should demand of a man all the time and in a relationship and it's just not realistic and that's how they keep themselves single. As I said, a lot of women out there just live by a lot of rules and regulations that they put self-impose on their dating experience that really blows it up for them. That's my take on it. Guys, put in the comments. Am I on the money there? Do you think I'm off the money?
So, women are getting mixed messages and it's getting really confusing. So, I'm a woman. What makes me different? Well, not all women are like this. You know, not all women are the way that I'm describing. And the reason I'm not like this, uh, the reason why I'm independent, solo, emotionally mature, self-aware is because my worst fear has always been relying on somebody else. I grew up in a household where I kind of knew early on I didn't want to stay for very long. So due to a toxic environment, you know, differing lifestyles, things like that, I knew I didn't want to stick around for very long. So I knew I didn't want to rely on anybody. So in turn, I became independent, emotionally mature, self-aware, accountable because I knew those things were a recipe for independence. You know, if I wipe my ass, I get clapped for, you know, great great job. You you wiped your ass, you know, all because I'm a woman. I do a lot of things that men do, but I get praised for it. And men are kind of like, eh, okay, big deal.
Yeah. Let's talk about you get all these people saying, you know, I'm a boss babe. Uh, I'm killing it on my own. I don't need a man. And and then they and then and then the way that they consider themselves a boss babe is because they pay their bills. Oh, I pay my rent. I pay my bills. I pay my electricity. You know, I don't need a man. Oh, wow. Look, you're a base baseline human being that is those things are forced upon us in life. You have to pay bills unless you want to be on the street. You're not a boss babe. You got a job. That's another thing, too. You got women who carry on their boss babes. You got a bloody corporate job. Good on you. Are you making 50,000 bucks a year? No, I'm not. I'm not [ __ ] on anybody here. But you get these women who got these big lives and they've got these Instagram and LinkedIn profiles where they're wearing, you know, the pink the pink double breasted suit and, you know, doing certain poses on their photos like they're, you know, like they've created Amazon and they're making 50 grand a year or 30 grand a year part-time jobs and they've got just got to dream and hope. What the hell? Killing it. Still living at home with their parents, getting everything paid for, all the food and everything paid for so they feel like they're rich and that they're they've made made it in life. Don't get me started. I'm going to get myself started because I know no one's said anything to get me started. I'm getting myself started here on how I'll speak from an Australian perspective, but I'm sure it happens all over the world. uh how women are pedestalized and prioritized in the workplace, especially in corporate workplaces. Uh a lot of really good men are overlooked for positions. Uh they're overlooked uh for promotions because they need to have more female representation at certain levels. And so this whole DEI or inclusiveness uh affects men. men who rightfully are probably far better at these women than the jobs have far more commitment but the women get them because they need oh we need a 50% representation so we can put it in our annual report or I've literally had this I've been a hiring manager and I'm looking for someone to join my team and I'm doing all the interviews and I interview people and I have a preferred candidate but I've got to run that back up to the boss back up to HQ you. I'm like, I really want to work with this guy. He's uh, you know, he's knows what he'd be really good for the team. He's going to add a lot to the team. He's going to fit in well, got a good vibe about it. Ticks all the boxes. Oh, no. We can't have him. I'm like, why? Oh, no. We need a female. So, I've got to go and hire someone who doesn't tick all the boxes, but we need a body in there because they're a female and it has a negative effect on business because they're not as competent. That particular person wasn't as competent as the male candidate. That's just a fact. I'm not saying women aren't as competent as men. What I'm saying is in that instance,
I'll give you one example. Skateboarding. I'm a woman who skateboards. That is admirable. That is, wow, you're so brave and talented and skilled. But if women or society finds out that a man skateboards, he's a loser. He's a bum. He's a stoner. He's, you know, that is really a big difference. And that is just one example. There are many, many other examples. I mean, scuba diving is looked at, I'm a scuba diver, and scuba diving is looked at, you know, as wow, that's such a crazy, brave sport that you do. But again, if someone finds out that a man scuba dives, it's like, oh, okay, cool. If a if someone finds out that I scuba dive as a woman, wow, that is so amazing. You are so inspirational. Women get 10 times more praise for doing the bare minimum. And so men are kind of starting on a lower on a lower point. So women automatically think that they're top tier, you know, when they're when they're actually just average. Men who are tens will sleep with really anybody. A 10 man will sleep with a woman who's a two.
Don't know about that. I mean, maybe if you really really um you're having a drought, but I've I've knocked back my fair few [ __ ] my fair share of absolute wthogs where you just like if I put it in there, it is going to corrode off. I'm going to instantly get some sort of disease. It's going to waste away. it's going to melt off due to just this perception of disease and uncleanliness. I'm telling you now. So guys don't go for everything. Now there are guys out there who will do it >> just to get some tail, right? >> You guys out there who will go, "Oh, you know what? There's a 99.6% chance that if I, you know, bang this chick that my knob will melt off." like a there's a point4% chance that I won't though. I'm in. Done.
So that woman who's a two now thinks that she can get men who are tens. So average men aren't getting any action because average women or below average women think they can get above average men. That's just kind of how it works. So let me just rattle off a list of the type of women I've dated. This comes from 15 years of dating, 15 plus years of dating, six serious relationships and 60 plus dates with women. And >> the thing about lesbians um is their relationships have a much higher value rate. Now, what's the common denominator there? There's another woman. I think they have some ridiculous like over 60 or 70% if they get married or de facto that they're going to have a bust up and they're messy and there's a lot of DV in those relationships apparently as well. And obviously I'm not a lesbian. Haven't been in a lesbian relationship but I've heard a lot about it. Heard a lot about it. Why is that? Cuz there's two women who start bouncing off each other, you know, firing off, popping off, and it just escalates. Any guy, if you've had a long-term girlfriend or you've lived with a woman, been married, whatever, the women just pop off. Sometimes they just start carrying on, just flipping off the handle. You get two of them going in the same mood, it's going to be fireworks. That's got to just tell you everything, you know. Then I think it's gay men have a uh the lowest rate of divorce, which is interesting. I've dated men as well, but mostly women. So, I'm going to rattle it off. And I'm also not, you know, excluding myself. I was also toxic in these situations, but I would say that there were really only a few times where I was the most toxic, and that was simply because I was unaware and immature, not because I was abusive or manipulative on purpose. So, those are my flaws. Now, let me tell you what I've experienced in women. I dated a woman who was physically, mentally, emotionally, and verbally abusive. And this isn't once talked about enough as well because all this stuff that is going in in the media because look guys, I'm take a bit more of a serious lens on this, right? But a lot of the stuff that's in the media, you see, say from an Australian perspective, I know a lot of you guys aren't Australian, but I'm sure you see the same sort of articles out there, man, bad, right? There's a lot of DV, a lot of women getting done in every day by men and blah blah blah. And I know those things happen and they're horrible and guys who do it, they're animals. I'm not supporting or agreeing with it in any way, but they never talk about just how many men are getting uh abused at home behind closed doors. I myself, I've been hit and scratched and bitten and had [ __ ] thrown at me by women before because we had a fight. We're arguing and so just lashing out. Now, I wasn't I was not returning fire on any of that stuff. But I had a woman who was carrying on like that. You can't say anything about that because you're seeing as a it's just a woman doing that. That's not assault. This is only assault if men do it. Men out there getting mentally abused basically their whole lives, critiqued, cut down, bullied. I whole self-esteem, selfworth completely stripped off them day in day out for years. I straight up just destroying the guy's sense of selfworth. That's a lot of married guys lives. By the way, there's nothing said about that. I'm going to I'm going to go out of here and I'm just going to uh I'm going to give you my hot take on something. I think women are far more abusive than what men are. Yes, men are are stronger. They're more physical. They can do obviously more damage if they want to, but women do cause a lot of psychological and permanent damage that way to men. That's my view on it. Women are very good. They're good manipulators. Uh they know words hurt. Words hurt um people a lot more than what uh the physical does. It hangs around a lot longer. And some women are very good at being very nasty with words. And I I even recall some things that happened to me in the past. Even just about every girlfriend has said horrible things to me bar one they've ever had. Horrible horrible nasty things. I would never say to another person, but they'll say it in the heat of the moment or they're trying to be nasty. They uh they go in for a soft spot. And there's things you remember. No, they're not hanging around and causing me pain or I think men pain, but you remember them. You never forget. You go far out. You know, some some of the worst things that No, all of the worst things that have ever been said to me are from women. But people don't talk about that. That's abuse. I've dated women who were incredibly emotionally immature and unaware. Women who were incredibly avoidant. You know, women women are players. Women can be avoidant. Women can be unaware. I've dated women who used sex, affection, touch as a weapon against me and withheld sex. So, I was essentially in a sexless relationship with that woman. I've been with women who were jealous, conniving, manipulative, and controlling. You name it. I have been with those types of women. Now for men, I know one of the biggest obstacles men face is that women are emasculating to men. They essentially treat men like they're children. And that's actually what happened to me. And no, it's not because I was acting like a child. It's because the particular woman I was with wanted to be in control and continually treated me as if I was an idiot, as if I was a burden. Even though I sacrificed almost everything for that woman, she treated me like I was a piece of dirt.
Yep. Yep. That's the way it goes. that that's what happens. It starts off, it's all fun, everything's perfect, and then over the years, uh, men get worn down like a like an eraser. I think of it like an eraser on on an old pencil. It's been worn down to the nub. And then when those women, they've had enough of the guy, they've obviously got no respect. It's all gone. They've switched off. They've not looking at him like he is even worthy to be in their presence, they drag him through divorce courts and destroy and obliterate them mentally. But most of all, they do permanent financial damage that results in I would say for a lot of men permanent mental health issues if not temporary and when I say temporary 3 years 3 to 5 years of of really just coming to terms with everything that's happened that experience I would never wish it on anybody. And I got off lightly. I know a lot of men who have really suffered. People in my family, my best mate. I've seen it all. I get emails every day. I talk to a lot of men who are having a hard hard run right in the middle of it. It's uh it's a horrible, horrible thing. And women are evil when it comes to that. They don't care. They love to see the man squirm. They like to feel like they're getting one up on him and they're extracting as much out of him as possible. Yes, there are women out there who don't like that and don't want to do that. They're the minority. Why do you think there is billions of dollars industry in divorce courts? Because most of the time it's women who are the ones who are favorable in that particular breakup because they didn't bring as much or they didn't work or whatever it was. Do you think that there would still be as much of big of an industry if it was the other way around? Maybe. Maybe some guys will go for I think a lot of guys just want the woman gone. They don't want their money. I certainly wouldn't. I wouldn't go after a woman for her money. I just want what I what was mine and see you later.
And what is all that for? It's to gain control and power. She had insecurity so she wanted to bring me down to her level so she didn't have to feel so bad about herself. And that's what women do a lot of the time. And women don't realize it. And here I am as a woman telling you how women can be. So all this to say, men are not the only problem. Women are also a problem. We are in an emotional immaturity pandmic. What does that mean? That means everybody is a [ __ ] child. Unfortunately, most people, most adults are children these days. And that is what I want to bring attention to. We need to stop blaming each other. Stop blaming men. Stop blaming women. In fact, it's a whole ass red flag if you meet somebody. If you meet a man and they hate women, or if you meet a woman and they hate men, that's a red flag and you should run away from that person as fast as you possibly can. Here's the deal. By the time you're 25 and your frontal lobe has fully developed, there are no more excuses for you to be a baby. It's time to grow up. It's time for you to become a better person instead of searching for the for the for a good person. It's time for you to stop popping out babies and start popping out hard truths about yourself. It's time to stop taking and start giving. It's time to start getting to know yourself before you try to get to know somebody else. And it's time to realize your own flaws before you start judging others. What do they say? Don't throw rocks when you're in a glass house. Something like that. I don't know. Dating isn't cooked because of one gender, because of men or women. Dating is cooked because people are selfish, superficial, immature, unaware. Dating is cooked because people are cooked. Let's just say that. So, all this to say, stop blaming each other and start blaming yourself. I feel like this type of content.
It's interesting how women's tune changes when they see the other side uh of the coin and when they experience it themselves because you a lot of women out there who have no idea why men are saying these things. You're hateful. I've been caught all sorts of stuff. Got a lot of emails. A lot of women saying horrible things and know trying to understand why I might be saying these things. you know, woman hater, misogynist, you know, stain on society, toxic, you know, that that's the good ones. Things I can say on here. They can't they can't grasp it because they don't exp they don't experience it themselves, right? And they're not self-reflective to understand and reflect maybe how they would have treated men and how why men might form these opinions. Anyway, guys, I'm going to leave it there. Thank you for watching. Once again, go support this channel. I thought it was a really good video. I think she explained herself very well. Uh once again, if you want to support my locals, join through the link in the video description and pin comment and book a call if you want to talk to me. Thank you very much.