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Let's discuss how loss conflicts can be activated by an argument. Now, someone's partner has been betrayed. Loss is not about someone dying. Death is not the only loss. A husband has been betrayed. He went with another lady, that is also a loss. The loss of my husband. There is a pet with whom you have great love. The dog died, that is also a loss. Because there was love for it like children. Okay? So, loss can be of any form. Let's move on. What are the rubrics? Anxiety for death, ailments from death. These are all rubrics of loss that you can pick. Fear of losing loved ones. Fear of accidents. What if my loved one has an accident? What will happen if it does? Okay? There will be a loss. Mind forsaken by loved ones, by parents, spouse, friends. Feels he is not loved by his parents. He is not loved by his spouse. Okay? Grief, sorrow for loved one long lost. Death, ailments from child. Let's move on. A child has died. That ailment has come. Like Sidhu Moosewala. Everyone has heard? Sudden death. Mother, father gone into this kind of state. Mind death from parents. Death, ailments from parents of mother. Anxiety for children. Mind, care, worry. Care, worries are also something to remember. A patient comes to you who is very caring for his family. Anything happens to the family. Just a few days ago, a drawing teacher came. He had a government job. He says that if anything happens to the family, my ears perk up. He says, even before they get sick, I take them to the doctor, lest they get sick. Then he says, I care for them so much. I care so much that if a bulb is broken, I am at school. Before going home from school, I will call the electrician to get it fixed. Overcare, worries. This is also coming from something, so your mind should start working. Why is he so caring? What is the fear? Fear of loss, that they might be lost. So that can also be a link. So, this link needs to be made. The mind should work in the clinic. Why is it happening? Okay. Let's move on. Dreams, care, worries. Next, Hammer says that when a cyst forms, hardness comes after that. So the cyst itself starts producing estrogen. It produces so much, so much that the ovary becomes ready for mating again. So, you will see girls with PCOS, their faces will be glowing. There will be an overglow. Robust constitution. Excessive sexual desire. Because they have seen loss behind. Now they have this thought that I should have another child. There should be no loss. I should have another child. So they become ready for over-mating. Okay? So, in those who have increased sexual desire, should we catch that? Should we catch the conflict behind it, because of which it is happening? That needs to be caught. Okay? So, in these cases, for example, if a girl comes to you or a boy comes to you with increased sexual desire, these symptoms have less value because we have to search why they are in this condition now. Why did they come into increased sexual desire? What is behind it? Am I clear? Yes, everybody? Speak louder. Yes. Next. So, what are the rubrics in that? Sexual desire increased. It has increased a lot because the ovaries themselves started producing estrogen. Started overproducing. Why did it happen? Because there is a loss conflict behind. Okay? So, libido, sexual desire increased in young girls. Sexual desire increased from disappointment. From an increased disappointment. From sexual desire increased during menses. For many, it increases during menses. Why does it increase? Because I have faced loss. I have faced it. Now I want to mate again so that I don't face loss. I want to give birth to someone again. Okay? So, all these things are coming because of going back. All this will come in PCOS. It increases during pregnancy. It increases during nursing. It increases during parturition. All this. Next, next. Before this, the next stage of PCOS is PCOS, in which there will be a syndrome, in which there is total amenorrhea. So, total amenorrhea, where is it controlled from? Hypothalamus, GnRH, pituitary. This is called the hypothalamus-pituitary-ovarian axis. It is disturbed. When it is disturbed, will we take loss conflict there or not? This is a question for you. In PCOS, it is understood that there is disturbance in the ovaries. We will take loss conflict. Right? Now, in PCOS, where the hypothalamus-pituitary-ovarian axis itself is disturbed from behind, will we take loss conflict there or not? And if not, what conflict will we take there? Speak from here. Yes. Anybody? Mama, mama. Yes, tell me. In PCOS, first, we need to differentiate. When a patient comes to you, is it PCOS disease or syndrome or morphology? If it is a disease, then you should pick the element of loss conflict. If it is S, then should we pick loss conflict or not? Here, this line. Yes, anyone? Will it be from loss conflict or not? Yes or no? No, ma'am. No. Why? Why not? Because the axis that guides the ovaries is itself faulty. The axis is faulty. So the problem is not there. Where is the problem? In the hypothalamus-pituitary axis. Now, when the hypothalamus-pituitary-ovarian axis is faulty and amenorrhea occurs, what system is it developing? Wolffian system. Not Mullerian. What is it doing? So, what is it becoming? Masculine. Male. What is increasing in the body? Androgens. Testosterone. And what is it becoming? Male. So, there is no loss conflict here. A female wants to become male. So, the hypothalamus did not release FSH, LH. What is going on in the mind? That I want to become male. I don't want to remain female. So, the conflict will change. Mannish girls. We have a rubric. Dr. Gagan will take it further. He will differentiate. Why did Sepia become mannish? Why did Mercury become mannish? Why did Ignatia become mannish? He will do that now. So, when this ovarian axis is disturbed. I was female. I don't want to remain female. I want to become a boy. What could be the reasons? Guess. What could be the reasons? That a girl doesn't want to be a girl? Lack of support. Yes. Lack of support from. Lack of support. My father did not support me. I wanted to become an IAS, and they made me cook rotis. So, whose support are they giving? They are giving full support to the brother. Not mine. So, what do I want to become? A boy. I don't want to remain a girl. Because boys are loved. And what could be another reason? Very good. What else could be the reason that I don't want to be a girl? Loss of father. Why does she want to become a boy from the loss? Because I grew up in this house. My father is no more. My mother is a poor housewife. So, who will take responsibility? Who will go to the banks and work? Who will deal with men outside? So, what will I become? I won't become a girl. I will become a boy. And what else could be the reason? Very good, two reasons. What else could be there? Lack of freedom. Freedom. Why do I want to be free? Lack of freedom. Why do I want to be free? Boys have freedom. I don't. But why do I want to be free? Because I don't want to be tied down. Boys go out to watch movies at night. Girls are not allowed. Why not? My brother goes. This is the same case. My brother is allowed to go, I am not. So, I want to become a boy. And what else could be the reason? One major reason that I want to hear. It's not coming from anyone. As a female, I couldn't establish my identity. Identity. That's the same as freedom. I want to be independent. I want to become an IAS. Independent. And? And what else could be the reason? Girl does not want to be a girl. Yes? What discrimination? Discrimination. That's the same as my brother is getting it, I am not. And if I am deceived, then I don't want to be a girl. Maybe. And what else? And the suffering that females are seeing, their mothers or others, they don't want to go into that. I don't want to do that. So, I want to come strongly and I want to become a boy. And to gain masculine power. Power. That's part of it. That I want to become a boy. And what else is a big important reason? And one big strong reason. Why I don't want to be a female? I want to be a male. Yes. Abused. I was abused in childhood. I don't want to be a girl. I hate my reproductive organs. Why? Because I want to become a boy. Boys won't be abused, or out of fear that I have seen my sister being abused. I have seen my mother being abused sexually. So, I don't want to be. A girl. I hate girls. Ours is very obsessed and very, you know, totally mannish. She says, I don't like housework at all. You can give me a hundred outside tasks, I don't like anything at home. So, usually, these girls who move towards mannish, I am telling you this. This is not just that they are moving towards mannish. The change will not come in the body, but also in the mind. That I don't want to do housework. Okay? Why don't I want to do it? Because there was no brother behind. Which you missed. There is no brother. It's me and my younger sister. So, I am the elder one, so I played the role of a brother at home. I lived as a mother's son. I did all the outside work. That's why she became mannish. I don't want to be a girl. Even when I was young, I used to wear clothes like boys. Tomboy look. Many of you might be there who didn't like wearing girls' clothes when you were young. Okay? So, what is this? It will start from there. Why don't you like it? If a very young child is behaving like that, then it will come from the mother. We will hold the mother. Why doesn't she like being a girl? That's why it came in the child. Okay? So, you have to go beyond this. So, when it is PCOS, we have to take this. A female does not want to become a female. So, her reasons will be different from PCOS. In PCOS, there is loss. [Laughter] There will be no loss. It will be like, for example, I was attached to a boyfriend. He abused me. I brought shame to my father's name, and now he has left me. I feel disgusted being a girl. I want to become a boy. Gone wrong way. This will be there. Gone wrong way. What face will I show my mother? Gone wrong way. So, this axis being disturbed will be more disturbed by the element of going wrong way. I have written them here. Move on. Next, next, next, next, next. Having chosen the wrong path. I have chosen the wrong path. Right? Being thrown off course. The course I was going on, I have deviated from it. Okay? Or having gone in the wrong direction, having made the wrong decision. All these will lead to disturbance of the hypothalamus-pituitary-ovarian axis leading to PCOS. What will be the next rubrics? Next. Delusion, one has done wrong. I have done something wrong. Anxiety, conscience. This is also part of wrong. Delusion, crime committed. I have committed a sin. A sin that is unforgivable. Unpardonable sin is a rubric we have. Okay? Delusion, neglected his duty. I was responsible at home. It was my duty to save my mother. I couldn't save her. In my presence, my sister went on the wrong path. I couldn't do it. Neglected his duty. Remorse, reproaches. You have already told these. Okay? This will lead to PCOS. So, these two diseases have different elements. But first, you need to know whether it is PCOS or PCOD. Only then will it make sense. Otherwise, it won't make sense. Clear? Yes. Speak louder. Yes, sir. Move on. Only a little is left. I should not have to be a female because I am always being insulted as a female. Or I am always been insecure as a female. Or I am not worthy of being a female. If I would have been a male, then I should have been more strong. Okay. So, when she becomes male, she becomes stronger. She becomes more secure, and she becomes more confident. So, what does she want to become? Huh?