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I actually experienced real women. My grandmother and my mother were those types of women that I saw growing up. And that's why it's kind of hard for me to take anybody serious because I guess I'm a dinosaur stuck looking for that kind of woman. And it's not there anymore.
The females in our generation now are trying to focus on being better men.
Females are what?
They're trying to be better men. I'm 45 years old, Kendra. If you meet me, you're expecting me to be a man. You're expecting me to have figured it out by now. You're not expecting me to still be, you know, struggling in some ways. You're 45 years old. What are you doing? You should know how to be a man.
Well, this is how I feel about women. Like, why am I pleading with a 45-year-old woman about what's a woman? You should know that already.
I'm reading the comments and I see a lot of people see this is sad, right? That y'all mess with that many down-low [ __ ] that y'all don't know what a real man looks like. I'm sorry if your baby daddy is down low and you don't know what a real man looks like. I'm sorry for y'all. All that DL gay [ __ ] bro. Y'all got me [ __ ] up. I don't know what type of [ __ ] y'all been around. But this ain't it, baby. I'ma just be honest. All y'all with that dumb [ __ ] in the comments, if I was around any one of you busted [ __ ] y'all would drool over me. So, let's get that [ __ ] That's how it be.
No, hold on. I don't like that because every time a man stands up and says something that they don't like, he got to be gay. He got to be a D. I'm not from where y'all from. Okay? I wasn't born in this new fruitcake ass era. This is y'all [ __ ] This is not my [ __ ] Okay? This is why I be alone because I don't want to even mingle with none of y'all because I don't even know what y'all y'all the [ __ ] y'all mess with got too much [ __ ] going on. They this and they that and then y'all think every [ __ ] do that. No, this is what a real man looks like. Baby, sorry you ain't never met one with your goof ass.
And it's crazy because they literally proved this point when he said the issue is there are some women who don't understand when and how to talk to men. There are some women who believe that they should be able to be disrespectful to a man and he should just tolerate it. And no guy who actually goes out into the world and is trying to fight for things to bring back to his family wants to deal with the people that he's trying to work hard for disrespecting him. No guy wants to deal with that. And it's just crazy. We now live in this new era where it's like you trying to be a regular man is called gay as a derogatory term, but like then like there'll be actual gay people doing actual gay things and they'll cheer for that. It's it's just so weird.
So women comment section, y'all know they got the right to cuss you out if you saying something sideways. So they were saying that you're DL.
I didn't see it a lot of [ __ ] No, I ain't angry. This how I talk. I'm a hood [ __ ] I came in here trying to be respectful and try to give y'all the peaceful me, but then now y'all want to come in these DMs talking this [ __ ] [ __ ] I don't play that [ __ ] Okay. I don't do all that. So y'all keep that [ __ ] to them young [ __ ] All them 90s babies in 2000 but y'all play that gay [ __ ] with them. I don't do all this [ __ ]
Okay. Okay. LET ME OKAY, LET ME ASK THE QUESTIONS. ALL RIGHT. SO Jamal's 45 Chicago, dad of five kids. He's a content creator, a celebrity barber. Um we're gonna get into it. I know you're not necessarily looking for a woman, but you're open-minded. So, what would be the requirements of a woman that you'll be open-minded to date?
Um, man, I'm pretty open-minded when it comes to dating. I just wanted to be in shape and have a a good attitude. You know what I'm saying?
You said that before. So, being in shape is very important to you.
Now, I'm abusive. See, they they ain't used to real men. This is what a real man's voice sound like. Y'all used to them sassy [ __ ] that wear purses and tight clothes and get their [ __ ] fingernails painted clear and all that [ __ ] [ __ ] on them. That's why y This is why I seem like I'm abusive. I was raised by granddaddy them. I'm a real [ __ ] You see my hands? You see the these are man hands. My hands made for kicking ass, not getting painted. Okay? So when y'all need to look at a real man, go on my page and look at one cuz this is what a real man look like. Y'all so used to them sassy purse wearing ass [ __ ] Everybody DL. He DL. He D. No, you just you're not attractive. How about that?
Wait, WHAT DOES THAT MEAN, JAMAL? SHE'S NOT ATTRACTIVE.
Cuz only bitter ass women like to put titles on on men. Like, everybody's not gay. Y'all y'all y'all wait till they get 50 years old and say, "Down low." Who the hell wait till they 50 to get gay? Come on now. I'm sick of this [ __ ] I'm sick of it. I am sick of it, bro. Like, everybody and like I have homies that's players, right? They had like a little gay thing
Because they don't actually even mean it, bro. They just use it as shaming language. It's just these are the same women that if you were with them in person, they would be diving at you. They just use it as shaming language. They don't actually even mean anything that they're saying. Sometimes you just got to laugh at it because and distance yourself because sometimes the disrespect goes too far, but you just got to laugh at it.
Instagram, they put a lot of my homies on there. I'm like, bro, this I'm sick. This is why I don't even mingle with this weird [ __ ] All these people out here are [ __ ] weird. They are weird and I'm cool on that [ __ ] I'm cool. I'm gonna give it to you. I do think women throw the gay and the DL a lot around when it's not warranted. So I I'll give you that. But what is our So you're saying so the attractive girls don't think men are DL. Jamal could be.
No, I don't know. I don't know what they got going on. But what I'm saying is right in person. When women meet me in person, they melt over me cuz they ain't never been around a [ __ ] like me. my masculinity, the way I speak, the way I carry myself instantly lets females feel safe around me. I hear this all the time. Even when I'm in the gym, white women come up to me like, "You are so masculine. I just feel so safe around you." But then when I come around my black sisters, they say stupid [ __ ] like this. I can't even wear silk pajamas. I'm DL cuz I got on silk pajamas. Why I can't have on silk pajamas? Because I like to be like you have around a lot of hoes. Why that can't be the case? Why I got to be gay? Why? Listen, I am I am so, bro. You know what?
I'm so glad I don't have these problems with women because this is why a lot of men are bitter because they don't have options.
They have to put up in these comments, eat them alive cuz they already insecure. I'm a secure man. Okay, I got my pick of the litter and if I met any woman on this live in person, I will they would be in my bed that night.
And that's fact. That's fact.
And that's that's just part of it, bro. I be trying to tell people past the age of 30 as a man if you stay in shape you are diamond tier and you can do it. It's just a choice. You can literally reverse seven years of bad eating habits in eight months if you just make the choice and do it. And if you choose to do it, you will see a totally different version of life. People treat you different. You walk around feeling different. Your hormones are different. Your point of view is different. If you're in shape, the older you get, the more valuable it is because the rarer it becomes. Everybody's in shape when we 22. That's why when there's 22 year olds and they're out of shape, I'm like, you got to get that together now because when you get 30, it's going to be harder. So, if you can't do it now, it's going to get tougher when later on in life. But everybody can be in shape at 22. Once you get 30 plus, every year after 30, it just stacks and stacks and stacks in terms of how much more valuable you become uh because uh and and how well people treat you because they know that it takes discipline. It's one of those things that you can't hide. It is a self-reflection. It is a reflection that you're wearing of your level of discipline regardless of if you want to see it that way or not. And if you apply yourself, you can make the change in 8 months. And also age changes a lot of things. Sometimes people age different. There are people who might have been hot stuff in high school and college and even after college, but once they start aging, if they not taking care of theirel and you are, you're in terms of how good you look, it could go up in in comparison to the people around your age group and you will always be compared to people around your age group because generally speaking, women date people in the same age group. I just feel so bad because there are some guys that just don't even understand what they're missing out on. They just don't even know.
Facts. That is facts. Facts. I got a bag. I look good. My body together. I'm the perfect [ __ ] But I just got a mouth. Every Ain't nobody perfect. Ain't nobody perfect. Straight up. Straight up. No. No. Because when I came here trying to be a gentleman, y'all want to get disrespectful. So now I'mma turn into the [ __ ] I really am. Y'all got me [ __ ] up.
I don't know who y'all think I am.
The [ __ ]
Okay, let me say this and again. I'm a [ __ ] player, man. I man, I get to it, man. Don't ever put that DL [ __ ] on my [ __ ] name. Y'all better put some respect or you better come to Chicago and ask about me.
You don't know, you better ask somebody.
Okay, let's keep going. Jamar, what's the age range you would date?
Uh, I would say like 27 to like I don't know. I don't want to say like a older age because um it just depends on a woman. You know what I'm saying?
It depend.
So you're open you were open to dating a woman that would be 40 or maybe your age 45.
Yeah, absolutely. If she pretty, yeah, like you you my age, right? I would date you.
Yeah, guys. I think that's the end of the video. Yeah, guys. I think I'mma end it right there. I'll leave a link to the full discussion down in the description below if y'all want to check it