NFL Scout Kills Girlfriend Trying To Force Miscarriage

This is Bla1 Taylor. Used to be a college athlete. Used to be an NFL scout. Now he's just a cautionary tale about what happens when you lack sexual discipline. He was arrested and has now been convicted and sentenced for the killing of his girlfriend and their unborn baby. I want to go over a couple of articles here in particular here.

So from US Weekly, he was convicted of second-degree murder during the commission of a felony. The jury sentenced him to life imprisonment for the first-degree murder charges. He'll be sentenced for the second-degree murder charges in September, though he's already looking at 50 years. So, they want to appeal, but good luck on that one.

This is the young lady that he killed. And then you have to hear the circumstances of it. Then you have to hear the circumstances of it. Says here, "The Nashville District Attorney, Jan Norman, told the court on Wednesday, June 24th, that Benning, and that's the girlfriend, Jade Benning, called a friend that February night to say that she feared that Taylor may have spiked her drink because he did not want her to carry the pregnancy to term. Per the prosecution, Taylor suspected that the baby was his."

So, they're saying that he didn't want them to take the child to term, which indicates to me that there was a conversation between him and her about the child, about her being pregnant. And that that probably escalated to this. Then you hear about the circumstances of it. "What did you put in my drink?" Benning demanded to know. According to her friend Najia Naha Najia Jackson, "I knew my drink tasted funny. You did this because you didn't want the baby." So she knew this. She knew that the guy she got pregnant by did not want that baby. So that shows you about the attitude of the folk there all the way around. She had she got pregnant by a guy that she knew did not want of the baby. Okay.

Benning died on her 25th birthday, having lost her unborn baby several days earlier. An autopsy found that Benning had 1,787 nanogs of cocaine per milliliter of blood at the time of her death. For his part, Taylor has denied any wrongdoing. So, his attorneys argue at trial that Benning's death was caused by her own alleged drug use. So, he's saying that it was her.

This woman got pregnant by a guy that she knew did not want to have this baby. Clearly, she wanted to go ahead and see it to term. He's an NFL scout. Not sure how much money he was making, but obviously not broke. I'm not even sure that this is the only one. Not even sure that this he's the only one. And here's the thing, and I'm going over this in a measured manner because there's a lesson to be learned in here about your life.

For men in particular, men tend to grossly underestimate their own value. Men tend to hideously underestimate their own value. They tend to tell themselves that if you're not Michael Jordan or Jay-Z, then you're not a target. That's what guys tell themselves. They tell themselves, "Well, hell, if I'm not a nine-figure dude, I'm just a guy out here." Then you start moving and operating the world and you start realizing just how much you really got going for you there. And you lose sight of the fact that yeah, you've got value, but these women lie about the level of value of men that they have access to. They lie about that. They lie about that all the time. And so what happens then is you sit up here and you underestimate your value. Then you get with a female out here or a couple of them and you're just kind of willy-nilly.

Now I want folks to be clear about something here. At this point, as far as I know, they hadn't checked paternity or anything like that yet. But that doesn't really matter. That doesn't really matter because the real point is whether or not he did that. And according to what they put together, they seem to believe that he did. And there's a lesson to be learned about this. Whether or not he's the father or not is not an issue. The real issue is about the type of females that these guys have access to. That's the real issue. The real issue is the type of female that these guys have access to. And for most men out there, they've got women around them that she can't do any better than you. Her job is to try to convince you that she's got some fabulous value here or whatever. And that's just not true. Most women are dealing with an average guy. I don't care what she looks like. Pretty women are incredibly common, but successful men are very rare, which is why women have to share them. And the real trick of it is to getting men to underestimate their value.

I want guys to understand something here. There is a culture out there that is focused and circulated towards denigrating males, insulting you, belittling you, making you feel less than anytime and all the time. I want you to soak that in for a minute for the guys listening in particular. You have a culture that elevates the females, congratulates them for breathing, tells them that their sex organ gives them infinite value. And as men, you're constantly being belittled, minimized. The females start this on you in elementary school. You have elementary schools where boys go with girls, but the girls spend most of their time belittling the boys and denigrating them and talking down to them and making it very clear that they choose other people and really trying to attack your value and most males are subjected to this. As a result, you don't understand that this is a conscious effort. It's like a hive mind. It really is. Follow me here for a moment. It's like a hive mind. It's like a hive mind that is focused against you. There are the guys, the top 10% who are just going to get they get a primal visceral physical reaction and everybody else it's about destroying your value. It's about crushing your spirit so that you will be docile and compliant.

A lot of you fellas, you spend your lives building yourselves back up, fixing yourselves back up. You spend your lives constructing something for yourselves. But that image in your head of how the world sees you, or should I say how females see you, that sticks long after the reality is changed. I don't want to get too Freudian, but there are a lot of fellas out here walking around. Basically, you are a 30-year-old version of your seven-year-old self. You've got the responsibilities of a 30-year-old or a 40-year-old. However, mentally and emotionally, mentally and emotionally, you are in another place. So that matters.

Now I want you to understand that once you start making progress, there is still efforts, active efforts going on to belittle anything that you do to minimize it and to say that it's not worth anything. So, this puts you in a situation where you start responding as if every female's a 10 and you are a solid two and you should just be grateful for whatever you can get and everything is struggle and scrap and scrape. And that's what the programming is for. Long after you've escaped whatever minimal self-esteem that they foisted on you. I should say long as you long after you escaped that those circumstances mentally and emotionally you're still responding the same. And this leads to a situation of sympisitis so on and so forth where you are prescribing infinite value to a female while she's telling you what your value isn't.

This is how you end up in a situation where men are making millions of dollars and then you got folk telling you that your job is to provide a life for some female whether she's got children or not. She's female and it's your job to be Santa Claus. Is that actually a real thing? Because that's not what their grandmothers and their mothers had. So, who is it who created this modern-day image idea that every man is supposed to be Aladdin and that his only goal in life is to make sure that the female that he's with lives some cush life where all she has to do is just lay around and be a burden and be dead weight. And he should be grateful. He should be grateful to her that she has blessed him with the opportunity to drag her dead weight. And I submit to you that what happens with a lot of these fellas, a lot of you fellas out here, you get into bed with these chicks and you don't see anyone or anything outside of them. I've taught you these things not because to be evil or malicious. I've taught you this because it's the truth. Women don't put men on pedestals.

Let me ask the fellas in here a very simple question, very simple one. Think about the last female, regardless of her age, from the age of 18 to 98. Think about the last female who had a man who allowed her to be a stay-at-home woman. Notice I didn't say stay-at-home wife, stay-at-home woman, whether she got kids or not. And the kids eventually grow up and grow old. So, she's not going to be a a parent forever. Or she's not going to be home taking care of kids. She's only going to do that for about seven, eight years at the very most if you have several kids. Show me a guy who stepped in and made a woman a stay-at-home woman. And she said the three most important words. Not I love him, but I need him. Damn.

I want to calibrate the male's minds tonight for a discussion that you've never had before that can lead you to become a killer simp. >> Join me and [music] I will complete your training. >> It's time to update your files. Fellas, do you understand? The three most important words that you will ever hear from a female are not, "I love you." I'm not even sure if the three most important words would be, "I respect you." But if she sincerely says to you, "I need you." Not, "I need you because she got her ass in a crack." I mean that she says, "I need you." as her expression and assessment of your value to her. You all have never heard a female say that to a man. The man who she's with, the man who she married, the man she had children with, the man who made a life for her, bought a house, quote, allowed her to sit down, pays for vacations. He takes care of all that. And yet, you have yet to see one who has proudly proclaimed to the world, I need you. Then you wonder why 90% of relationships are broken up by females. And fellas, if she doesn't need you, she doesn't want you either. If she needs you, the issue is not with the men leaving. Men rarely leave. The real thing is not having this double cross thing.

And so, you see, most males grow up treating every female like an abusive mother. And that it's your job to gain her approval. Most males stumble and bumble through life trying to figure out how to gain a female's approval, how to keep it. So when she starts telling you to do things, you start doing it. When she starts telling you to move, you move. You to work, you work. Do overtime, you do overtime. Buy a car, buy a house, buy vacations. The list just gets longer and you get roped in and reeled into the idea that if I just do this one last thing, then she will finally be content and I will finally be okay and approved in her eyes. That is what all of that browbeating and emotional assault on you as a child in elementary school by your teachers and everything else was intended for. That's what it was intended for. That's what it was intended to be. It was intended for the purposes of convincing you to be completely pliable, for you to be needy, for you to be stuck, for you to be that way. And then once you've done that, you grow into grown men who just continue chasing it. You continue chasing the carrot on the stick. You're going to work your ass off. We're crazy. And she's going to tell you, "Make sure you keep working. Buy a car. Buy a house. Eventually, that won't be enough." Then she starts telling you, "We have to get married and have children." And you're not really sure you feel that way about her, but now you're trying to hold on to it. Now you're trying to hold on to it in the chat room there. So glad that HH Global is weighing in. You have two minutes to be on Zoom. I've gone ahead and pinned the link there the chat room. So HH Global has two minutes to give us a call here on Zoom. And we're going to go ahead and get to that. So HH Global is no longer allowed to comment in the chat room until after they've called in on Zoom. After they call in on Zoom, then they can return to the chat room. But until then, you have two minutes to be on Zoom and that'll be the end of that.

Please understand, folks, in this modern era, it hurts a lot of males feelings to hear these kind of things because they see themselves and they hear themselves in it. They know it's them and these are brutal realities. You see, they have a type of Stockholm syndrome where they identify with the women who hate them. What you have to understand, as I just I just said a few moments ago, most males sit up here and bludgeon themselves for females, treating them like the abusive mothers that they either always had or never had. And they spend their lives fighting for her approval. And as a result, they start to see themselves the way the females do, the females who hate them. And so he starts identifying with it. Then they start saying super crazy simp things. And everything becomes about that. There is no objectivity. It's about whatever the female wants, the female gets. Whatever the female says, that's what it is. And then when they're in the company of other men, they start acting like a male feminist. Well, yes. He's never been accepted or approved of by other males. He identifies like a female. So, whenever he hears any issue, he just channels his inner female. That's dangerous for males to do because you see, you don't get female respect, much less female adoration like that.

Here is the issue. The issue here is that in this case, and by the way in the chat room, uh, Queen of Bash give me needs to give me a call on Zoom. So, very glad you've had so much to say. Queen of Bash needs to give me a call up on Zoom. You have two minutes. So, you need to give us a call here on Zoom. I want you to understand here that there's a lot of fellas out there that when it comes to holding on to a female, for them, it becomes about holding her, retaining her, making sure she she doesn't get up and run away because you're not used to birds flying into your hands. You're used to having to chase them around. And you finally got one who probably fits whatever idea in your head you thought you were supposed to have. Okay, you tell yourself, "Well, she's Instagram cute enough, so let me go ahead and pull all my chips on that." And what I'm saying is that's where she got you. She's got you right there. She has drawn you out to the point of maximum feverish desire. And once she's got you chasing desire feverishly, that's when she does the bait and switch. And that's when everything changes.

Men don't tell chicks to get abortions because they the woman is the same as she was when he got her pregnant. And he wants that because she's different. Don't get me wrong, there's a bunch of knuckleheads out there, too. Don't don't get me wrong. And that's what I'm talking about tonight, really. But these fellas got suckered in. And I'm not saying unfairly suckered in. They are their own worst enemies in this regard. But these are fellas who went for the bait. When you're emotionally weak, when you're vulnerable, that puts you in a situation in a position where you just get desperate. And whatever price that she names, and I've done a whole program about raising the price, the whole idea is to get you desperate enough that whatever price she names, she just keeps you chasing the carrot on the stick and you're gonna keep running after it. And that eventually you tell yourself eventually you're going to catch it when she knows that will never happen. She knows that every time that you catch up to the carriage, she's going to yank it away and tell you there's another hurdle for you to clear now. You will never reach the destination because her goal is to control you. And the baby or ring or your affection are the devices that she uses for that control.

Let's go ahead and jump over here on Zoom right quick. Okay, we got Queen of Bash here on Zoom. All right, uh Bash, >> you've had a Bash. >> Okay, Ash Bash, you've had a lot to say about this case, ma'am. Let me find out. What city do you live in? >> I'm sorry. I'm having a hard time hearing you. >> We might want to upgrade that iPhone 4. It might be time to do that. >> What was that? >> You might want to upgrade that iPhone 4. It might be time to do that. >> It's a Samsung. >> Okay, that Samsung 3. You might want to upgrade that one there. They've got a whole new lineup. Huh? Just in case you didn't know, but everybody else doesn't seem to have that issue on Zoom. So, if you're having that problem, it might be a time. >> I think I might still have you playing on and uh oh, my daughter's calling. Let me call you right back, pup. Um, sorry, Jason. I'm so sorry. >> What city are you in? >> I'm in Tracy, California. >> Okay. Well, it seems that you seem to be in you're talking as if you've been following this case. >> Yes. >> Oh, good. Why don't you go ahead and tell us about that? So basically the friend Naasia Niasia Smith or Jackson um I think she might have had a lot more to do I think she had a bigger role than what the prosecutors had made it seem. Um >> you think >> yes. >> Okay. So, you don't know, but you think? >> No, I don't know because I wasn't there. I don't know. >> Okay. Well, why is it that you think, but you don't know? >> Because based off watching the trial, just the way she was on the stand, >> can you give me one second, Puffy? >> Uh, with Jason, but what? >> Oh, >> yeah. >> It was just me and a few thousand people. Nothing big. Sorry, I'm so sorry. Okay, so basically when she was on the stand, like just her demeanor, the way that she was dodging the defense attorney's questions, um her text messages seemed like she was a little obsessed with her friend. Um, just yeah, she forced them tears out on the stand. It it just it didn't seem believable in my opinion. Um, and I watch like a lot of trials, so like it's easy to determine somebody's credibility. >> That that's circumstantial. Understood. But do you have something that disproves her testimony about the events of that night where >> No, >> Jade called her and said he snuck something in my drink. >> Okay. So, what made me question that call was like uh Naia text her was like, "Are you speaking to me? like, "Are you talking to me?" Like, why would your best friend text you? Why would you assume your friend's asking you if you put something in my drink? Is what like really made me start deciding her. >> Unless, of course, unless of course she was uh trying to do it in a surreptitious way because she was thinking he might be talking to she might be talking to him and she didn't know if the girl was in danger or not. >> Yeah. I suppos I'm not okay I'm not saying that she's completely wrong, right? I'm saying like it's just I think she may be telling the truth to an extent and then the time. Okay. So, she went over or Jade and Bla1 was having what, a date night or whatever and Jade was fine the whole time until Naia and uh is it Keiante came over and then 30 minutes later after they leave, she all of a sudden starts to feel the effects of whatever, >> right? I mean, now let's let's go ahead and check on a few things here. Had she ever had or experienced an overdose before? No, but it did come out during trial that she has a history of >> marijuana marijuana use. Now, did they say anything harder than that? Cuz that's where we're getting into overdoses. >> Okay. But as far as the hard stuff, cocaine, heroin, meth, you know, the stuff that can kill you. >> No. Um, I believe the defense attorney tried to get that stuff in, but they was not >> right there. There's the issue is that if somebody could have pointed to that, that'd be different. >> Now, let me explain to you all exactly what you're looking at there. Okay, there's something called a speed ball. At least we used to call them speed balls. And um, basically, it's where you mix cocaine and heroin. And they're dangerous. When you start getting cocaine in a liquid form, that's when it gets dangerous cuz you can dilute it down like sugar and it can start to get dangerous when you start doing that. >> Particularly if you're trying to have an effect on somebody. So just like you can dilute sugar in water, you can do the same thing with cocaine. And if somebody is too slick by half, they can overdose you. Especially if you're a person who's not used to cocaine. Now, if you're just a hardcore cocaine user, I don't know. It depends on what it is. Now, I saw one report here that said that she may have had to put in liquor and another one saying that she may have had to put in pink lemonade. >> But the bottom line is that if she were a cocaine user, number one, she'd have a history of cocaine use. And number two, we'd be able to find that she had cocaine use that night. If she was doing lines or something, he'd be able to a coroner would be able to or the hospital would be able to very quickly show that she was doing lines. What they're saying here is this went straight to her blood content. This went straight to it. And so that's the thing that's got them like, okay, this is beyond just drug use. This is poison. This is poison. So that's the thing they were going for. You haven't just been drugged, you've been poisoned, >> right? And then that's where I question like, okay, so they didn't test him at all and he has they went through all his medical all his um phone records and all his like databases and all that and they couldn't find anything. Not even like a friend that ever like where did he get it from? Is where we like where my group was like complex on like okay if he did it like where did he get it from? >> No certainly here's the thing I mean if he works in the NFL ma'am that's very easy to get. >> He works with pro athletes that's very easy to get. >> Yeah. >> So I mean he works in the whole industry. I mean Michael Irvin hello. So you're asking how how how's he going to get cocaine? How does somebody in the NFL have access to cocaine? I mean, >> okay, I get that, Jason. But isn't that the job of the prosecutor to prove that though? >> Okay. Well, certainly it is their job to prove it beyond a reasonable doubt. The real thing is even if they don't source the cocaine at that point right there, what they can is yes, it is circumstantial evidence, but the bottom line is that they know that she had cocaine and they have testimony from her friend that it was forced on her and they're putting those pieces together. And by your statement there, if it's weak, then that really should be something that could be knocked down like that. But that's not the case because the question then becomes, okay, does this woman have a history of cocaine use specifically? Does she have a history of that? Did she use it that night? Did he serve her something to drink? So, at that point, that becomes questionable when that occurs. So, I'm not blaming you for doing your due diligence or being, you know, critical. Also, also the friends were in medical school as well. So, >> okay, >> I don't know if that >> Well, the thing is what you really need to do is just show that she was a hardcore drug user. >> Okay. >> Now, if they could show that, then that's going to be convincing because otherwise what you're saying is that she just decided to drink a glass of cocaine at 25 years old out of nowhere. And six months pregnant. Yeah, >> six month. Yeah. And yes, I do understand she may have been doing some weed in that time. That's not lost on me. What we're saying now is that she decided to do a glass a whole shot glass of cocaine, 25 years old, out of nowhere, had never done this before, does this. And as soon as she does it, she starts claiming that something's wrong. You see what I mean? >> That point right there. Now you now you have to start explaining, okay, how does this add up? >> Yeah, that's where a lot of people were or my group was a little complex cuz one, we know she was a dealer. She had like access to a drug dealer and often get like she's like the middleman or middle woman for like the people at her job as well. So we're like, okay, well he he has no history of drugs or ever getting drugs. And on the other hand, she has a history of providing drugs to other people at her job >> and her friends. >> And at this case, we be saying that he's just gone over to her house. She's gone over to his house, everything was fine, and then she just drops dead because when he called 911, he said that I think she's had an allergic reaction to something. >> Yeah. Allergic reaction to what, sir? >> And that's >> He didn't say, "I don't know what's going on. She's having a seizure. She's just gone faint." He didn't say that. He said, "I think she's had an allergic reaction to something." Okay. Allergic reaction to what, sir? >> But why would he wait till the friends come over? >> Wait a minute. Well, why would he tell 911 that he thinks she's had an allergic reaction? >> Probably because she was um foaming out the mouth and throwing up or something. I >> Okay. Well, that's not an allergic reaction, though. >> No, it's not. >> No, that's poison. Anybody you saw somebody foaming at the mouth, you wouldn't think they're allergic to something, >> you know? You would think something has happened to them. And the problem in his case is they have to prove method, motive, and opportunity. >> What was his motive? >> She's pregnant. >> Yeah. Yeah. >> And the real thing is now what about testimony to the effect that uh he was not really enthusiastic about this? Because was she the only one who was pregnant? >> No, he had like three others. >> Oh, okay. By the way, for everybody in the chat room, just notice that didn't get mentioned at the beginning. >> No. Okay. So, no, I'm talking about you. That didn't get mentioned at the beginning. >> Yes. Ash Bass did not mention this at the beginning, but by the way, folks, yes, she was not the only one who was pregnant. >> He had a string of them pregnant. >> And he ain't a football player like that, but he's following in their steps. >> So, you get this one in particular, and if we're having arguments about her pregnancy, and he's like, "I done got too many of them going on. You said you was on the pill and blah blah blah and then she's like, "I'm keeping the kid. I don't care what it does to you." >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Now, that right there, a big piece of the puzzle just falls right into place. >> Yeah. I think also when his ex or exx um also got on the stand and was like, "Oh, he tried to talk me into an abortion as well, >> right? That might have played a a big role. >> Okay. But did Okay. But did he also discuss that with Jade? >> I think he did ask her if she was going to get a >> All right. There you go. >> Yeah. >> All right. There you go. I tell you about when these fellas have the what you going to do conversation. >> It sounds like you had a child or two yourself. >> Um I'm not I'm not going to Okay. Well, I'm not going to ask under what circumstances. However, if you're a single mom who's never been married, the guy gets you pregnant, I shouldn't say the guy gets pregnant, you get pregnant, >> and then you tell the guy you're pregnant, he's going to he's either going to say one of two things. He's either going to say >> he's either going to say, "That's great. >> How far along are you?" Or he's going to say, "What you going to do?" Now, as all women who've gotten pregnant by a guy they weren't married to because they figured, "Let me see if this will get him over the finish line." It doesn't. But y'all have had the same experience. He's either going to say, "You thought he was going to say, "Yay, this is great." >> Instead, he says, "What you going to do?" And you know, what you going to do means, "Are you going to have it?" Or, "Are we going to do something about this?" Mhm. >> And to do something about it is get rid of it. >> So if the fella doesn't give you the this is great response, yeah, he he wants you to get rid of that. Yeah, he was I can honestly say I think he was immature and was uh dipping and dabbling uh irresponsibly, >> right? And she got pregnant by him. >> Yeah. And they only had known each other for about 90 days at that point, if that, cuz they were just uh friends with benefits. So >> even though she knows he got baby mamas, but he's a scout for the NFL. So >> yeah, >> how bad could this go? >> And yeah, at 20 something 20 was at that time she would have been what 24. So >> 24 years old and she goes got comes from a two-parent home. So much for these two-parent homes and goes straight to single motherhood. >> Yeah. Now, what female grows up in a two-parent home and goes sprinting to single motherhood. Come on now. >> Come on. >> Yeah. No. >> No. This is a chick. Plus, she light-skinned. What? >> I went there. >> Okay. So, fellas, >> well, she had multiple men. She had multiple She didn't know who the daddy was at first, either, too. So, they both were >> Okay, let let's let's put that to bed. Ash Bash, listen. That right there is the single biggest lie. >> Lie. >> And that is a lie that females tell. >> Every female knows exactly who she got pregnant by because all of you are aiming to get that guy pregnant. If you all didn't know who you got pregnant by, well then you wouldn't be choosing them. So you see the guys that you say no to and don't allow them around, that's how we know that, oh, you know exactly who you get pregnant by because there are a bunch of men that you refuse to even allow contact to you. So you all choose candidates and you're only ovulating for a few days. Okay, this is the one. Let me see if I can land him. Because let us remind you, females believe that a man owes her something simply if she's been opening her legs. >> Yeah. >> If a female been opening her legs for more than two days, she feels like the man owes her something. You getting all this sex like he's robbing her or something. So, h she's 24, biracial, all the issues that come with that. And then she streaks straight to single motherhood. That means you got a plot you running. >> And what I'm saying is that he walked into it again was what happened. >> He walked into it again. >> Probably figured he had a little young chick or youngish >> and that he was going to be able to go ahead and this will be she'll be more pliable and he found out no it ain't going to be like that. >> Yeah. >> She's like oh I'm keeping this kid. And I don't think he was actually thinking that. And I think this time >> he was like, "Okay, we already got two or three of them >> and we're not trying to have that. >> So, let me see if we can take care of this." And then next thing you know, there goes an issue. Cuz the real thing is, you already said it. He didn't even know her long enough to be getting her pregnant. >> Yeah. >> He didn't even know her long enough for that. How well do you know her? Answer. You don't. >> No, >> that's the thing I have an issue with there. So, I can certainly understand some of your skepticism. >> That's not lost on me. >> And I'm not saying it is completely unfounded. I understand your skepticism. >> However, all things remaining equal, there's too much that points in one singular direction. He's in the right place at the right time. This would all work out very very well for him. He leaves to go to Utah right after she's dead. Remember, they had to come bring him back. So, he leaves to go to Utah right after that. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. So, if he was into her, it didn't last very long. So all those things being equal, uh, that seems to make sense. So once again, I'm not saying definitively he done it. I I'm not saying that. >> What I am saying though is that there is enough pointing in that direction. >> That should be >> for a we should be able to pretty much disprove that. If she was doing drugs that night. Once again, like I say, that should what you're basic what you would basically be saying is that >> she drank a whole glass of cocaine and then went to his house. >> They were >> We're not under any We're not under any Okay. Well, we're not under any assumptions about >> how she died. >> Yeah. So what we'd be saying there is that she drank a whole glass of cocaine while he was there. >> He would have noticed that cuz we're not there's no illusion about how she died. She didn't die from alcohol poisoning. She didn't die from rat poisoning. She died from an overdose of cocaine >> that was put directly into her bloodstream. >> Nobody Nobody dissolves cocaine to drink it. You can put it with heroin and stuff, make it liquid form and inject it. But nobody puts cocaine in a glass to drink it. >> Yeah. I think >> not to get high. >> Even if you say that she wanted to get high, >> ma'am, who drinks cocaine to get high? Yeah. You see the problem with it? They're not snorting it. They're not putting it in their veins. They're drinking it. >> Yeah. >> Who drinks cocaine to get hot? >> I don't know. >> Yeah. Nobody else did either. >> I That's >> We know she didn't inject it. We know she didn't snort it. They wouldn't have been able to see that. So, okay. She drank cocaine to get high when she had a history of drug use and she had the plug. Okay, got it. She had a She had a history of drinking cocaine to get high. She overdosed that night. She cuz she like drugs. Okay, I get you. >> So So she drank cocaine to get high that night. Not weed, not her usuals. I want some cocaine tonight. Fine. She's going to try cocaine for the first time in her life. And I'm going to drink it. A matter of fact, I'm not going to drink a little. I'm going to drink a lot. Yeah. Okay. My perspective on this case just went um Yeah, cuz he was there. Yeah. >> So once again, like I say, if they have a history of that, that's one thing. For that to just pop up out of nowhere, now that goes in a different direction. And at that point, we're asking different questions. Now we're asking different questions. The other thing is how long was he there? >> I believe he was there. I think he got off work at like 6 and probably about an hour before the friends came over. >> Okay? Cuz here's the thing. >> You you're not going to have to be there for three hours if somebody drank that much cocaine. They're going to start having issues within 20 30 minutes at the most. >> Yeah. >> Reacting right when the friends left too. So >> according to the reports though, she starts reporting issues immediately. >> Mhm. >> So she's like, "It tasted funny. Did you put something in this?" So she starts saying something immediately. >> Yeah. And what I'm thinking is that somebody slipped her a high enough concentration. They wanted to make sure that she would only have to take one or two drinks and that would be it >> and that that would be enough to to take care of it. >> And whatever they may have thought or read was going to happen, it's like, well, this is just going to make them overdose. >> It'll hit the bloodstream and stuff. And maybe they read somewhere that this is enough for that. But different people's physiology works differently. Yeah. >> And if they just can't handle it, they can't handle it. >> So if you happen to quickly, it didn't even go to the baby. >> If you don't believe that she would, she's not going to go willingly have an abortion. So you have to find some other way to induce this. She's not going to go to a doctor. So you don't have that option. So what can we get her to do that will cause this to happen? Well, she does like to get blitzed every once in a while. Okay. But she doesn't do hard drugs. Okay. Is there a way we can slip her some? Well, she's not going to do anything intravenous, so heroin's out of the question. >> And she doesn't snort cocaine. Is there another way of delivering it? >> Yeah. And mushrooms wasn't going to do it either. >> No. So, that recreational stuff was not going to do it. And I'm not really sure that cocaine would do it either. Maybe they read something or heard something because that's the part that I'm still looking at. >> But my real point right there is that uh that'd be different. The bottom line is that it is very unlikely that she subjected herself to that. She was a recreational drug user. She didn't have any real history of hard drugs. And even if she did, she wasn't sitting up here blitz like that. So the real thing is what happened this time? So it would either be him or the friends. Why would the friends want to do that? >> Furthermore, was there any evidence that they did? No. >> No. >> There's only one person who was around long enough for that. >> And according to them, he's the one gave her the drink. >> Now, they're saying that he she said that he was the one who gave it to her. So, at that point, you would have to disprove their testimony. >> Yeah. >> So, you can say, "Okay, I don't like it. They're weaker. This, that, and the other." You're going to have to disprove it now. And the real question is, did that happen? >> No, they did not. >> Now, you can have a lackluster defense team. I understand. And that can occur. Eh, but why don't we just go ahead and use Occam's razor? The answer that requires the fewest numbers of assump number of assumptions is usually the most likely >> out of all these this woman is very unlikely that she overdosed herself. So, who would have an interest in spiking something she had to drink? And that's why he was found guilty cuz he did have a notice. >> If she were at a club, random males. Okay. Nobody spikes your drink unless they're trying to do something to you. They don't want to get you high. They want to get you into a compromised state. So, who else would want to do that? Who had access to her to do it? And who else would have a reason to want to do it? And there's where you get in trouble. >> Yeah. So, at that point right there, now you're veering perilously close to reasonable doubt. >> Yeah. >> Beyond a reasonable doubt. Because now you have to answer, okay, who else would who else would want her to ingest an overdose of cocaine? Who else would want to do that? Why? For what reason? If he was having sex with her, you don't want her high. You don't want her doped up. So, who else would do that? >> And then if she's like, you you didn't want me to have the baby. What that leads a person to believe is that she knew something already or she suspected something already which was also part of what they were saying >> or he might have said something during their >> right. This is not the first time that came up. So it's indicated that something like that could occur and clearly she disregarded the previous warning signs. And if you didn't think he was going to follow through with it, looks like we're going to go there. So there's the issue that I would have with that. Once again, I'm not saying conclusively. I am just saying all things being equal, the only other answer would be that she just took a glass of cocaine out of nowhere and then starts complaining that it tastes funny and why did you do this? Now, we're saying that she committed suicide or that she poisoned herself and blamed it on him. Now, don't get me wrong, light-skinned can do that. >> What it can happen, >> but it's a little bit unlikely. So, unless you have evidence that she was unless we have evidence she was suicidal, >> we have to dismiss that one. >> So, where does the evidence actually lead you to? It's like, okay, she's gotten pregnant. We done talked about this abortion. She's not moving quickly enough to the abortion clinic. We're already fighting with these little three chicks. If him and her have had some arguments, >> he's telling his other girl that it was only her going to be him and her. >> Yeah. If we're having arguments with her and she says she's going to get the abortion, but she ain't doing it now. We need to see if we can help her out because we're doing too much going on here. And from there, it can go left. So once again, you are correct. The only thing that you really have an issue about is well, >> we don't know how he got the cocaine. >> Yeah. >> But just remember that would be the only missing piece. The only missing piece would be okay. We're not sure how he got it, >> but he has access to it >> or he could have access to it very easily, much more than the general population. >> Okay. The real thing though is that once again, why is he in that position to begin with? >> Yeah, that's Yeah, we were. Yeah. >> How do How did How does this 24-year-old got you in the position where it's baby mama number three or four? How in the world do we get here? >> Yeah. >> Where we have to be arguing and going back and forth over abortions. Do you realize how [ __ ] that is? >> That Yeah. As a grown man in the 21st century. I mean, I've watched it all the way from the 80s to now. There are zero men who don't know how females get pregnant. And so, for a grown man in 2026 to be talking about abortions and dragging hoes to the clinic and all this stuff, it's like, what are we doing here? What kind of mental emotional defect do you have in 2026 that this is what your life is deteriorated into? M >> you know with three dozen forms of birth control this shouldn't even happen. >> It really really shouldn't have. It simply shouldn't occur. If that chick is not committed to not getting pregnant and then you make sure it doesn't happen, then that's a convers she's not supposed to be here. Any chick who talks about she wants your baby, she's not supposed to be here, >> right? >> And then you're supposed to make sure she can't get pregnant beforehand. And that's the part that isn't happening. You got athletes and everything else who feel so deficient and so low self-esteem that they're fighting to get chicks pregnant and then

Later, trying to figure out if she's a good candidate for that. And then when it goes bad because she doesn't really want you, she wants what she got. This is where we end up at. And that's the part that males have to get over. Males have to get to a point where they have sex with females and then send her ass home. And if you want her again, you ring her up. But beyond that, you don't sit up here and get her pregnant and then figure out her value later. That's the part that is stupid and ridiculous and has to stop.

The females are bad enough, and that, I get that. But for these men out here, for the men in particular, fellas, you have to protect yourselves. And protect yourselves does not mean condoms. What?

"Protect yourselves does not mean condoms, fellas."

"Oh, like you said, make sure she is on."

"Oh, you're a seasoned traveler here on the program. There you go. 21st century style. Your red pill gurus and whatnot did not teach you all this. So sit here at the definitive school of power dynamics. We don't leave things up to chance here. If you are concerned, fellas, you have to take things in your hands. Warning sign number one, and we're getting into this early. Warning sign number one. When you tell a female that if she's not on birth control, you two can't do nothing sexually. Period. No sense in her calling, texting. Damn sure, no sense in coming over. We ain't doing nothing till we make sure that you're on birth control and cannot get pregnant. This is not up to chance. If she starts pushing back in any way, if she tries to run that lie, well, I'm allergic to birth control."

"Oh, please."

"If she gives any push back, fellas, click. She running a scam. She's running a scam. You do not deal with anybody who don't get with the program. And the program is, hey, no babies here. She's supposed to be on the same thing you on. Hey, I don't want to get pregnant 'cause I'm too fly. Good. Let's make sure we don't get pregnant. So, and just to make sure that we keep honest people honest, we're not going to take her word for it. And we don't go on the honor system."

"We don't go on condoms and we don't go on oral birth control. We do not do that. So, she gonna get a nor plant. She's going to get an IUD. She's going to get a depo shot. You know, something that you can't undo. Now, the IUD is a little different. Now, fellas, you have to be careful about the IUD. That to be totally honest with you, that's really only for a female that you really trust because..."

"Can pull those out."

"Boy, she would have to be a hardcore hoe to pull one out on her own. You can have to usually have to go back to the doctor to do that because I'm like, you, you take a chance on doing something to yourself. However, yes. An IUD can be removed. Absolutely. That's why I'm saying that's a little bit more for a female that you've been with for a while and you know that that's not what she's about. So it, it just makes sure I'm just saying that eliminates having to worry about condoms at all. However, and also if she's a chick who don't like doctors, that helps. However, with a nor plant, you can see that under the skin. So that's the first thing. With a depo shot, it doesn't matter what she thinks. Here you go. And away you go with that. But we're not leaving it up to chance."

"Also, they got I don't want to say spermicides, but they got that too. So, I'm just saying that's more on the site stuff. But fellas, what I'm saying is that you cannot leave this up to chance. And this is not a, okay, well, if we wear condoms thing. Condom all you want to, but you first and foremost need to make sure that both of you have done something that prevents that from occurring."

"Yeah."

"Now, Plan B is another thing, but fellas, do not count on Plan B."

"That is that is silliness. That means the horses are already out of the barn because number one, you're going to be gambling whether she's going to go do it, even if you're right there. Number two, you can't force her to do that after the fact. So, no, you need to make sure that you did your due diligence beforehand."

"So, prevention is the only is the best way."

"Okay. If you said you don't want kids and she says she doesn't want kids, next you both have spoken the words. Now, I need to see action. I need to see two people who have taken concrete action to prevent pregnancy. It's not resting on one person. It is both of you. So, first and foremost, do you have a female who keeps track of her ovulation? If a female tells you she doesn't, she's a liar."

"A liar."

"Fellas, these are childish nuances you need to get over. If you're some brain dead idiot whose mama was in the streets, I'm just letting you know. And mama might have been a hoe. You don't need to be stupid. Females know when they're ovulating. They biologically, physically know when they're ovulating. Egg whites. I'll leave it there, but uh females know when they're ovulating."

"So, no female is guessing when she's ovulating. She's not wondering. All of them get taught that along with their menstrual cycles. So, they know this. If she tells you she doesn't know, she's trying to prevent you from being able to make an informed decision because she has decided that you're a candidate. And now she just wants you to be reckless. So if she plays dumb, she's hoping that happens. Jay Grizzly, I'm probably going to have you call up in a minute. We'll see. In any case, here, don't rely on her word of mouth. Don't take her word for it. Make sure you've done your due diligence. And if she really doesn't want to get pregnant, she's gonna hop to it. She is not gonna have any problem with this. She's going to hop to it. It's not gonna be no humming and hawing. It's not gonna be no running around and bulling. It's not going to be any of that. The real issue is fellas sit up here and finagle chicks in the bed knowing full well she's itching to get pregnant making goooo eyes and you the one and has not done a lick of protection. Dude, she she's chosen you as a candidate and you're going to get it. So fellas, in the 21st century, we're not on the honor system. You need, if you want to have a chick, I don't care who she is. You can have the biggest [ __ ] in town. You can have the chick with five baby daddies. Okay? Don't get her pregnant, don't marry her. That's due diligence. You want to lay up with her. I'm not here to sit up here and tell you who to lay up with or not. I can just make recommendations. If you're going to ignore that, the bottom line is make sure that when you get done laying up with her, you can send her ass home and that she has no ability to obstruct or harass your life after that without your approval. And that's really it. The problem is that most males are so desperate for sex today because most males are sex deprived and most males are so desperate they'll do it."

"Well, it seem like the females these days are just though."

"Well, look, if the females get an opportunity to sleep with the guys in the top 20%, a lot changes. It's the bottom 80% that the females are resistant to. But the top 20%, that's really who they're going for. And they don't get most of those guys either. They just get laid on top of by most of those guys. So, after about the third or fourth fella done flew her out, now she switches over to I got to get him before he gets me. So the next guy..."

"When she gets with him now it's about okay you ain't going to be just laying on top of me for two or three years and then send me on my way but the baby that's what you're good for and she's like oh no so next thing you know now she's going to start doing some gorilla pimping and if she knows she can't marry you let's go ahead and see if we can get pregnant and it becomes that and in a lot of cases it may not be about the man's finances it may just be that she's fighting the last war. The last five or 10 guys got to lay on top of her."

"And now she's got a vendetta against men, but you can't get even with those guys. So, whoever is the next fell who comes to the door, he's going to get all the venom she has that she's built up."

"And men have to be cognizant of this and take it seriously. I'll go ahead and share this with you. Most men don't think they can do that because most men don't know that they don't have the level of desire from a female that she would do that. So they they're afraid to tell her, 'You're going to a doctor. You're going to a clinic.' No, not after you get pregnant. Before you can ever get pregnant. Most guys know they can't really ask for that."

"They know they can't ask for it, much less insist on it and actually get it. So then they just start playing Russian roulette. Is it I don't understand like why would cuz well I'm not every like why can they just come out the gate and just be like hey this is my boundaries and or whatever they say these days we have to go do this before we even lay down. Most males don't have the value or the clout to be able to be able to insist on boundaries with a female."

"Whatever. They're sexual scavengers and they just go so long in drought that when something does knock on the door, they basically got to roll with it. And so it's about, okay, what do I got to do to get her to say yes? Because he doesn't get very many options and very many opportunities. So, most men don't actually have the leverage to say no. They don't have the leverage to insist on boundaries, standards, because boundaries and standards mean that you're willing to see her get up and walk off. And most males have so few options that come so far between. They don't have the options of running this one off. It's been a couple of years since the last one said yes. So if one knocks on the door, it all comes it all becomes about okay, how do we get her in here? However, we got to do it and it becomes that. And that is really when we talk about the average male, the typical guy, that's really where the average guy is at. He's really about that. That's why you have so many fellas who just bowed out of the sexual marketplace altogether because a lot of them have just said, 'Okay, well, screw it. This is not worth the effort.' And then you have that bottom 20% that's the baby daddy market. And some of them used to be in the top 10% but once you start getting chicks pregnant you immediately fall to the bottom 20% regardless of your income. Hello Savon Diggs. What?"

"You know? So once you do that you immediately plummet to the bottom 20%. At that point, you're just an easy mark for females to get over on. But what it's really about is men saying, 'Here are the standards, and here's what you're going to have to do if you want to be with me.' And do you have the clout and the leverage to be able to insist on that and actually get it? And the truth is, most males can't. And most females know they can't."

"Did you say clout and leverage?"

"Yeah. If you have the clout and leverage to do so. And most females know you can't. Most guys can't actually insist on it. They know he wants it. Every female knows he wants it. Every female dude don't want to get you pregnant. But she's like, 'H, if I want to run him, I can do that.' Cuz you all know that most of the men you meet are in sexual droughts. You You know that most of the men you meet, they don't really have a lot of female options. He's not the kind of guy that females just, you know, give their number to or whatever, or if he approaches them, they give their number or something. You know, that's that's not what you usually mean. Not usually. You in your daily life, you can count the number of guys you saw like that today on one hand with enough fingers left to drive."

"And under those circumstances, they get desperate. And he's been that way his whole life. Now, there's that's why I started the program the way I did. He's been that way his whole life. He's been that condition his whole life. He's been, you know, a sexual scavenger his entire life. This isn't something that just he's been going through for just a year or two. He's been said, 'Build it at a younger age.'"

"Yeah. He's been in a drought since, you know, he was a sexual being. He's just ain't nothing going on. And certainly not to the point where he has sexual security, you know, like food security. He He hasn't gotten to a point where he has sexual security where he knows where he can get some sex from tonight."

"I'm sorry. He knows where he can get some sex from from a female that he would actually desire to sleep with. Cuz anybody can find a Lizo. What? But as far as a female that doesn't make him feel like he needs to go to Alcoholics Anonymous in the morning, that's where the real problem comes from."

"And most males don't really have that. And as females, you all know, you can look at a guy and tell whether he's a guy who's got it like that. And you know that they're most of them are struggling. So, he can't tell her no. And he really needs to. Anybody, if you don't believe me, go to child support court. Your courts are open to the public. Go to child support court one of these days and go see it."

"Oh, I watch child I watched it."

"When you go to child I'm talking about child support court in your city."

"Oh. Oh."

"Yes, ma'am. I'm talking about on TV where they can filter people. No, I mean child support court in your city so you can see what the average person there looks like."

"Them chicks ain't tens."

"You go to child support court, it's not a bunch of tens. It's some straight twos and fours and running these dudes into the ground. And then you see the guys when he's twos and fours, too. So that's really what you end up with."

"Okay."

"Nice piercings, by the way."

"Okay."

"She heard that."

"I I'm sorry. I didn't hear you."

"Nice piercings, by the way."

"Thank you."

"Nice tattoo."

"My nose piercing."

"Nice tattoo. Let me guess. About three of them."

"You say what?"

"I'm estimating about three of them."

"My tattoos."

"Yes."

"I have one, two, three, four."

"Okay. I figured we were about three of them. So, I was almost there. I'm in the ballpark. Is that all your natural hair? I don't mean hair you bought. I mean hair coming from your follicles."

"It's my I haven't combed it today, but yes, this is mine."

"Okay. Wow. All right. Okay. She's still looking to go trap something out there. So..."

"No, I'm married."

"Some fellow. Okay. Well, he's already trapped."

"All right. She's already got him. Okay. That that sums that up. Well, thank you very much for weighing in tonight. We appreciate that. Thank you, Jason. Have a good night."

"Yeah, fellas, just be careful out there. Careful out there. There's a lot going on. Lot going on. All right, I say this is a cautionary tale because this is ridiculous in 2026, slipping stuff in folks drinks and chasing them around and trying to finagle them to the abortion clinic and all that insanity. What are we doing here, man? You're supposed to be walking in the front door here in the 21st century. This is the only conversation that men need to be on. The only conversation that we as men need to be on is if you got a chick and everything and you're vibing and you've decided you all are going to be sex buddies. Okay. If you're going to go down that road, that all needs to be solidified from the beginning. You need fellas need to sit down and do a slight interview. Fellas, you need to sit down and do a brief, you know, a brief debriefing. Talk to her for a moment here. Do a quick debriefing so that we can get some necessary information. Let's do a quick survey. When's your cycle? Are you ovulating? Yeah, I know these sound like some very clinical questions to ask. However, after she gets pregnant, these are the only things you ask about. This is a failure to plan and a failure of maturity. Women don't mind asking you where you work and when you off work. Okay, fellas, you need to be asking, okay, are you on your cycle? Have you been ovulating? Are you on any birth control? What are we going to do to fix that? What are we going to do to fix that? And that all needs to be solidified beforehand. Fellas sit up here and jump in a bed with females that they barely know. And then you're dealing with such severe mommy issues. You're ejaculating in anything. And she's got you because she can see your mommy issues. She can see your deficiency. She sees a guy who's needy. I mean, take a look at him. He's got them little needy eyes on him. So she can see. Okay, I can get over on you today. The women are the maneaters and the males are the damn daffodils. What? So, I'm not blaming anybody for finding something cute to lay up with, man. I'm not here to judge you for that. Do what you do. Have you done your due diligence? Because when I start talking like this, a lot of males get offended when I say, 'Hey, I need you all to start becoming experts at if you're going to be laying up with them, I need you to become experts at laying up with them and then send her ass home.' How is it that we can't just make that the damn protocol? 'Hey, we gonna lay up with them and send them home.' No, baby. No rings, no purses, no kids. You're coming over for the trip around the world and whatnot. We're gonna hang out and kick you for a little bit and then I'mma get you back home in time for work. [clears throat] But males aren't starting with that conversation. So, we need to break the damn taboo about that. Too many fellas out here are listening to deficient males and this becomes a taboo to have this kind of discussion. Okay, until a chick gets pregnant, then it's the only thing you want to discuss. And let's just be honest, for most males it's 'cause the chick ain't really feeling you. So you're like, 'I don't give a damn if she's feeling me or not. What do I got to do to get her into bed?' Okay. Well, she's going to insist on high-risk contact. If you're not a guy that she's really wanting to be with, she's going to hit you with the high-risk sexual contact. She's going to try to figure out, hey, how do we get as few roadblocks and as few barriers as possible? And certainly, I'm not going to do anything that could prevent me from getting pregnant involuntarily. No, you don't take them to your house. That's why we got several hotels in every city IN AMERICA."

"AND DEAL WITH IT, [ __ ]"

"NO, you do not do that. You don't know her well enough for that. Don't go to her place either, by the way. Today, these females get around. This chick here had a little bit of a rep. They get around like that. Okay, fella. You be sitting at the house with her and then the f two or three of the other fellas she been talking to, they be driving by her house just to make sure that nobody else is parked in the driveway and then they see your truck sitting there and then next THING YOU KNOW, HEY JEAN, WHO YOU IN THERE WITH? And then it becomes that. So, you want to talk about men who can't handle their liquor? Most of these females can't handle their dudes. They can't handle their dudes. They can't handle their exes. Every time you turn on the news, you hear about another fella, the fella is dead. The chick is still running around. That's the crazy part. When the ex shows up, they're like hoes. They leave the female alone and he's shooting at you. So, as men, you have to be protective of yourself. So, no, you don't bring her to your place and you don't go to hers and get yourself boxed in. I told you all years ago, I had that kind of situation happen to me once about 30 years ago. I was a very young, reckless young man. That was the last damn time in life I ever let that happen. I park in the driveway and then about 20 minutes later a car parks right behind me and I'm like who is that? She's talking about the oh that's what's his name her ex. And I said I thought y'all two broke I thought I thought y'all two broke up. And she said we kind of sort of did. I said, 'Well, he's kind of sort of about to be up in here.' So, I saw him walking up. I'm sneaking out the back door like an old blues record. On my way out the back door, she talking about don't drive across the across the yard. Oh, please. Yeah, she told me don't drive across the yard. Now he got me boxed in from the got my car boxed in and she told how else I'm going to leave y'all. I left damn me the Grand Canyon through that front yard. YOU HEAR ME? WHAT? [screaming] DAMN. Soon as I crank that damn thing up when I put it in reverse. Okay, that 350 small block did what it did. I'm straight across the front yard. You and him can explain who that [ __ ] is just went across your front yard. Y'all two can explain that to each other 'cause I'm going to be gone. Yes, I broke straight left. You got a big ass seed cross. You got a big ass black seed across your front yard now. You sure do. You certainly do. Yeah. I rather be judged by the landscaper than carried by six. So, let me get on up out of here. Y your little patunias about to catch these treads. What they about to do. Oh, believe me, it's not going to take me but a minute. I was born and raised in one of the murder capitals of America. Do you know how close I've come to being a damn statistic? Oh, hell no. Let me get on up out of here. Uh, and a life lesson was learned about the kind of jams that females will get you into. Men have to be self-preserving. You cannot be so damn desperate for some sexual access that you become completely negligent about your well-being. That's the issue. You cannot become so desperate to finally end your sexual drought that you start taking tremendous risks. You have to have standards and protocols and everybody got to stick to that. Your job is to be the kind of man who can insist on standards and protocols and then you avoid these things. This is how you get females who are happy just to be in your presence and they're not doing that. But chicks who are looking to sneak you and let me steal a baby and let me grab these condoms out the waste basket. All this old nonsense. That's you know your life done took a bad turn when that's what you're dealing with. When you got females that this is how they're operating. It's like oh wait a minute. What kind of gutter stuff is this? What the hell is going on here? You're supposed to be with females who are on the same page you're on. If you don't want to get pregnant, she's supposed to be I don't want to get pregnant. Now you two have had a meeting of the minds. Now you're not fighting each other over it. You got a chick that you got to sit up here and damn WWE royal rumble with. When you start talking about not getting pregnant, you know full damn well she's sitting there cheesing. It's like, okay, yeah, we're not doing this. We're not doing this. But let's just be clear, fellas. I I've talked about this before. If I haven't done it, I need to do another program about the simp tax. When you are a simp, you get taxed. When you're a simp, you get taxed. Females demand things of you that they never demanded of the men they really want to be with. The guy she really wants to be with. She wants to know what he wants. You know, the exact reverse of what I just talked about. She wants to know what he wants so that she can get with him. She's not giving him a bunch of rules. She wants to know what his rules are 'cause she knows he can actually afford to have them. Ss have to pay a tax. The simp got to hold her hand, take her on dates, buy a house, put her on insurance. He's got to jump through all these hoops and hurdles. She's telling you she got standards. No, dude. You're getting taxed. She's letting you know that the desire is not there and that the only way that she can fake it around you is if she tacks on the cost. So everything comes at a cost and everything is about controlling you because that's how you extract value. Notice I said the word extract. She's going to force things out of you. Well, that's what happens when they don't really want you. And so fellas end up hearing damn mean night fights with a chick that doesn't really want want you like that. And you're just like, 'Well, I don't care why she here. I just care that she's here.' Man, you better start caring why she's there. She better really be into you. And if she's not, you need to have safeguards. And even if she is, you need to have safeguards. But when you're a s, you get taxed, man. When you're a s, you get taxed. When you're a s, you get build. When you're a s, you got to pay way above market. The fella she really want didn't have to do nothing. He didn't even have to show up. She came to him. The guy she really wanted, meals cooked, draws washed. If it was long distance, she's on the damn plane cheesing at the airport. She's all giddy and excited like a school girl. That's the guy she really wants to be with. And you know it's the truth. Which is why you start lying to yourself and saying, 'Well, that doesn't really matter.' And then next thing you know, you're picking up the damn bill for everything. The guy she really wanted, she made it easy for him. Fellas need to get that through their heads. Hey, if she really wants you, she's gonna make this easy. If she's making it difficult, there's a problem. If she's making it difficult for you to have access and she's not pulling any weight. Yeah, dude. Those fellas that you talk about, they don't really want them. Hey, get fella. Guess what? You're you're him. So, when you say you don't want to have any kids and she says, 'Oh, good. I'm on the same thing.' The only thing you two need to do is compare notes right quick. Okay. What have you done to make sure that won't happen? Condoms are fine. Spermicides are great. Plan B is a final resort. Although, if we gotten that far along, we're already in trouble. The real thing is, by the way, if if she going to be on rotation, Ah, I SAID IT."

"DEAL WITH IT, [ __ ]"

"If she's going to be on rotation, then you need to make sure that she has gotten her shots and everything is in order for that. Fellas, don't do that. I'll see you when you come through. Okay, that's not management. Y'all don't have chicks under management. She ain't under management. She's not in a contract. She's just out here floating around. And the other thing is, if you got a chick that you know other dudes are laying up with, there's the real thing. There's no way in the hell that he did not know that this chick was for the block and then she was talking to other dudes. There's no way he didn't know that. Fellas, if you're going to go for the lowhanging fruit, all the more reason. Who the hell is raising these dudes? That's all the more reason for you to take safeguards. Once again, if fellas, if you going to be dealing with the neighborhood [ __ ] it's like, 'All right, well, did you take some safeguards, man?' because you're acting like you two are a couple and you trust her. It's like, 'Oh, no, no, no. We're not doing that. We're not doing that at all.' So, there's where the issue comes from. It's not a matter of what can be. It's a matter of the fact that most of the fellas out here are just running reckless. And to see a situation like this is just sad because it's completely avoidable. This is completely avoidable. Why do we even have to do that? How do we even get this far? Three other chicks. It's just like, okay, you're just totally out of control, man. Totally out of control. Okay, Zachariah just I don't know what you're talking about. It's Yeah, just folks be freestyling, making things up. The fellas that they really want. The issue is that he's she can't lock him down. That's the whole point. If she's able to lock him down, h you're not really that dude. So, there's the point. The guy that she broke all the rules for, that's the guy she couldn't lock down. That's the one that got away. That's the alpha widow. And that's the one who left her an alpha widow. So, this stuff y'all talk about, update your files and get a clue. If she's able to lock you down, you're not really that guy. One more thing, if a woman is able to lock you down, she immediately loses that desire for you. What damn damn. Stop deceiving yourselves. If the woman is able to lock you down, she she stops having that desire for you. She wants the unobtainable. She wants the fellow who's a free spirit. She wants the guy who puts his freedom above her. She wants the man who has a life and a mission of his own that is bigger and greater than her. And as soon as you submit to her and what she wants and her program is just like the chick who lets you sit up here and slutter out, it's like you immediately lose desire for her. You might still keep sleeping with her, but damn, she's off the white list. This is not about can you get sexual access. This is about whether or not she's a candidate for something serious. And you have to have the categories that she gets put in. It's like, okay, this is the lane that she goes in. This is where she belongs. This is what she qualifies for. You're not wife material. You're not girlfriend material. You're not talk chick material. You might not be side chick material. Fellas have to be brutally honest with themselves about where the hell she ranks. And as far as pregnancy, fellas, marriage and pregnancy are supposed to be off the table in 2026."

"Damn. [screaming]"

"I said that to fellas today. The problem is we got too many damn broke ass simps. And by broke I mean broken emotionally. We got too many fellas out here who are broken emotionally. The you want to know what would be the biggest wakeup call is if men just got together as a group and just said, 'Yeah, we're not marrying anybody.' Marriage is the single biggest thing that lifts women into wealth. And it's one of the biggest factors that sends men into poverty. As men pick up your toys and go home, it's like, 'Okay, we deal with females, but marriage is off the table. Don't even talk about it. Don't even discuss it. We're not interested.' And what will happen is the females will end up fighting for the bottom 50%. Okay? But the the women don't want them because it saps their souls. They have no passion for it. So the real issue is as men, and by the way, my numbers went down when I said that. So, you got to understand the fruit booty sissy5 mama's boys swinging they booty meat, they don't like to hear this kind of thing because they're so desperate to get a female to quote unquote commit. See, here's the thing that sickens me most. The average male today, here's how females get over on them today. And it's really embarrassing that I have to say this, but the average female gets over on the average male today because believe it or not, the average male is still stupid enough and idiotic enough that he defines marriage as unlimited obligatory sex."

"[ __ ] what? No, I'm serious. The average male today thinks that the way to get unlimited sex is marriage. If I marry her, well then I won't have to run these streets and I won't have to wonder where my next piece of rump gonna come from. If I can just get her to marry me, then I'm going to know where my sex is coming from and it's going to be unlimited and all I got to do is cruise. Completely disregarding the 55% divorce rate. Completely disregarding all the experiences of the people around him. Fellas are out here looking for quick and dirty answers and as a result you're falling for it and you know full damn well that's not true. So most males, they don't really want marriage. They want unlimited sexual access. And they think that, okay, well, if I marrying one of these chicks will get me that. As if. Now, have you asked the females whether they think here's the question for all my boneheaded, empty-headed mama's boys, little simps out there. Have you asked your female whether she believes that being married means that you are to have unlimited obligatory sexual access? Not does she agree with it. Is that one of her core principles? That once she's married to you, you will never again have a sexual complaint of any shape, form, fashion, or manner. That she is now going to be your everything. And that you might have problems in this world, but that she is committed that from this day to the day she's dead, sex will never be a problem that you have. Have you asked her about that to see if she agrees with that? Oh boy. Yeah. Most males haven't done that. They're just assuming that you're in your grandmama's time because you want an easy answer. You know it's not true, but you're like, I don't know any other way. But the truth of the matter is that men today, the worst, sappiest thing that you see is all this begging. And the way that males today approach approach marriage is begging. They're not approaching it. You don't see any power couples. You don't see a female who's adding to it. Let me just be clear, ladies. There's not a single man in here who has seen a guy get married to a female in the last decade or two that we looked at and said, 'Damn, I wish I was him. Damn, I missed out on that.' Not a single one. Not even one. Take a look at your Facebook timeline, Twitter, Instagram. There's not a single one of these chicks that we look at and say, 'Damn, she got married. Boy, I missed the boat on that one.' I mean, that that's the whole point is that, okay, so what are these guys choosing? Well, they chose what chose them, but what he's not getting is the total package. He's not getting that. That's the part that's missing. Where's the total package? Okay, she's supposed to be your everything. All right, we're not looking at it like that. That's not the case. So for men who are smart, and I'm not saying that you would never get married in life. What I'm saying is that the default position is that yeah, marriage isn't really something we given out anymore. And what I'm saying is that that creates scarcity. That creates scarcity. Marriage is not scarce enough today. Marriage is not scarce enough today. The only place where marriage is really scarce is to a producer. But to all these retreads and castoffs, these chicks get run through and then go right back out there. And the simps that they left sitting on the damn corner 20 years ago humiliated your ass. Chose other guys over you and he's sitting right there to pick her up. She's coming back two decades later with stretch marks, weight gain, faux kids and toe and those guys are still sitting there waiting. They're still sitting there waiting. So there's where the real defect comes in. That's where the real error comes in. And by the way, why are so many people offended when I said that? I'm simply making the point here that as men the culture needs to be that mar but our default is that marriage and kids are not even on the table. They're not even in the discussion and then once they see that that's how seriously the men take things it's like okay that's when things change. However, please understand that simps by their definition and their nature, simps have no character. They have no principles. So, when they see the other men step back and say, 'Yeah, we're not given anymore.' The simps be like, 'Okay, good.' Nah, they be like that fella on the the one guy on the Carnival Cruise, that one fella at the Essence Festival dancing among all the single moms. What? So he's like, 'Oh, good. So glad the rest of these fellas got out the way. Left them all here for me.' And yeah, that that would be the issue. Here he comes with his military GI Bill and whatever. Hey ladies, need somebody to pick it up? And it becomes that. So, there's a lot of that that goes on and that's why that scares a lot of fellas. That scares them to hear that. It scares them to hear that kind of thing. It scares them to hear that because you have to have the ability to get up and walk away and be okay with it. Now, that's a tough call. That's a tough call for most males to make to get up and walk away and be okay with it because he's like, 'Where else gonna come from?' Now, let me go ahead and address the bottom of the barrel sucking simps out there again. Later, what are we going to do for women? We ain't over marriage. Okay, first of all, let me ask a simple question here. How's that marriage thing working out right now? Oh my god, bro. Hell, for all the fellas out here who got their G-strings in a twist because of what I said there. Okay, first of all, how's that marriage thing working out right now? Where are all the happily married dudes online that you're looking at like, 'Hey, Jason, this you're wrong. Take a look at these guys over here. I I wish I had what he had. I wish I had what he has. Where are those guys, fellas? For the dudes out here who are taking offense to what I'm saying. And by the way, where are the how's that working out? Where are the guys that you envy and wish you had the type of marriage that they got? Where are they? I'm not talking about your granddaddy. I'm talking about your contemporaries today. Where are they? Look at the chick that he got. That's the one you want. That's the kind you want. If she had a twin sister who was just like you, that's what you would want. What kind of delusion are you living under here? How is that working out for them? You know, with that 55% divorce rate, divorce rate and rising. How is that going? Since you're upset that I said it should be off the table, by the way. Yeah. How are they enjoying the ride? After he married her, did the list of demands get shorter or did the list of demands get even longer? See, these are questions that you don't want to ask. Yeah, that would change things. Did the list of demands get shorter or did the list of demands get longer? Then you take a look at the guy and it's like, 'Hey, do you want his life? Take a look at how he's living and what he's doing. You want his life?' So if it wasn't so readily available, people have to start competing and doing a lot more. That's what I mean by that. You take it off the table, hey, ain't no marriage, ain't no kids. Maybe you'll qualify, maybe you won't, but them the rules. This how it's going to be. And when you've got the guts to be able to say that and stand on it, well, that's what changes things. If you have a generation of males who can do the same thing. Now, it can't be Pooky and Ray Ray. Pooky and Ray Ray. Nobody lost anything because you're not around. However, for the the fellas out here, you go off and become simps and things and you might get a little bit of value for yourselves, but then you're ready to check out for the lowest hanging fruit that you can get your hands on. And that's what really poisons the waters. Females are tempted to sexually degrade themselves and [ __ ] themselves out. They have a they have a temptation to do that and they've got plenty of folk offering it to them. They're operating out of their emotions. So, the problem is that females have I've always told you all that men have a range. Females have a type. Well, that's true. But the problem is that a female's got five or six different guys who are her type. So, next thing you know, she wants to go test drive all five of them. Now, she's coming to you after that. After she's gotten to the bump boogie with five of these guys and she wanted to keep a few of them in there. They just they don't have to keep her because they got options. Now she comes to you and when men have the guts to say as a group, 'Yeah, there's too much run through out here and yeah, we're done with that.' When that becomes an epidemic and it's not, you know, scattershot and random. It's cross folks know, hey, it's yeah, y'all are just undesirable for that. And the men are really locking the doors now. You continue to make your value. You become a high sixf figure man. You got options. You can do all that stuff. You could give a f a woman a cushy life. I guess you could. But that you're like, 'Yeah, baby. You got to qualify for that. You got to qualify for that.' Like becoming a made man in the mafia. It ain't easy to get on my rotation. It's like becoming a member of the Gambino crime family. You got to earn that. You got to work for that. You got to earn your bones. You got to earn your stripes. You got to put in work. You got to work your way up the ranks to get there. Now, once again, the skimp simps are scared because they heard that and they're playing in their heads what the females would say. Oh man, you can't do that. Why not, man? Soon as you say that, they just going to get up and go to the next one. And that's the problem. The problem is that you're scared and understandably so. Your options are very, very limited. You don't have any. So you're one of the guys you're afraid if she gets up and leave where she going as opposed to you're the place they want to be. So what you really revealed is yeah they don't want to be here. Ain't that right Russell Wilson in the chat room? Somebody said Jason could you clarify type and range. Let me see if I have something for that. There we go. All right. The graphic on your screen should explain it to you here. Even for those of you on your cell phones or whatever, the graphic on your screen here should explain it to you. This explains that men have a range, but women have a type. They do that. Now, that's the thing for you to keep in mind. This graphic right here tells you everything because it shows you men have men will take women have a ideal in their heads. Prince Charming. Prince Charming doesn't come in five different flavors. There's just one kind. However, for men, there are there's"

A range that we consider to be acceptable. Women don't have a range that's acceptable. That's why she wants to know, "What do you do for a living? What do you make? What is your social status? How tall are you?" You notice these are concrete things. These are concrete things, listen carefully, that are not open to interpretation. So, these are concrete things that she can see and measure. She doesn't have to guess about it. She can see how tall you are. We can see what you drive. What do you make? What's your social status? What is the number and caliber of females competing to be with you? Let me give you a case in point example: Idris Elba. So, when you ask females if they like Idris Elba, next thing they'll say is like a Denzel or something. They want that kind of guy. Okay? He's tall, you know, broad-shouldered, sophisticated. We get it. They have a type. But they don't have a range. See, you never heard a female who said, "I like Idris Elba or Duski."

>> Oh, please.

>> No disrespect to Duski. No disrespect to Duski. You might have a chick out there. She thinks Drake is cute. She thinks Chris Brown is cute. She doesn't say, "I like Chris Brown. I like the way Chris Brown looks or Rodwave." What? No disrespect to Rodwave. Turks and Caicos is that song. But I'm just giving an example everybody can wrap their minds around. So you don't hear females say that. You've never heard those words and you won't. So, I want you to be aware of how that goes. I want you to be aware of how that goes. Women have a type, men have a range. That's why men use words like "thick" and females don't. We'll say slender, fit, thick. Women don't have terms like that for men. You either got it or you don't. You either qualify or you don't. So just the fact that men have several different things, there's it's not men say, "Hey, if she ain't thick, I'm just totally uninterested." That doesn't happen. Females, however, if you don't have the money, the status, the look, she's completely uninterested. Well, baby, you know, I mean, I make $90,000 with overtime. She's not she's not trying to hear your your qualifiers. So you want to know the difference between men and women? We have a range. Women have a type.

Now you would think that because of that, that would give men more options. You would think that. And in many ways, you are correct. It does. However, when males are desperate, the problem is you can't have desperation and scarcity or at least not as the person demanding it. You you can't have desperation and uh generosity because when you're desperate, you can't afford to be selective. And there's where the problem comes in. So fellas have a range, but then their range starts breaking off into the desperate and all of a sudden he starts losing standards. When your range is "any chick come through the door" or "anybody who wants me," it becomes that. And also for things that you don't really desire, there's where the issue comes in. Women already know that if she's in bed with a guy that she doesn't really desire, something's already messed up. That's where taxing comes into play. She's like, "Okay, if I don't really desire you, then we're going to have to compensate for that." Women are not going to sit there with a guy they don't desire and just stay there. So the game that they play, ladies, you know I'm telling the truth and deal with it, [ __ ] >> THE GAME that women play is that if you're not really the guy she desires, she starts tacking on requirements. Then she tells you that that's what a quote "real man" would do. A real man would do this. Okay, but go check with the three or four guys that she really desired. She's got fellas, she didn't ask any of that of them. Didn't demand any of it. Weren't they real men enough? Okay, bro. She actually desired them. You're missing that. So the real thing is to get yourself into a position where you can start demanding what you actually desire because without that, you lose all discipline. When you start losing all discipline, things get bad pretty quickly. Is what happens. And then next thing you know, anything that slithers through the door is subject to get pregnant because you're trying to handcuff her. The lowest form of life for a man is the simp who wants to handcuff somebody. That doesn't work for men. That works for women. That doesn't work for men. You see, when a man handcuffs a female, it actually is a drag on his resources. You're the woman gains more leverage. You don't gain more leverage with her. She gains more leverage with you. And remember, guys go off and get chicks pregnant. The only thing you're really doing is ensuring that the top 10% will work to avoid her. Okay? But the bottom 80%, they can they can afford to take that L. So you see that doesn't really work because you're not really sequestering her and making her off-limits. You're a loser and the rest of the losers are willing to compromise to have their turn. You see, when you're a producer and a builder, you're not about having your turn. You are about having what's yours. But in the world of desperate simps, they don't have anything that's theirs because nothing really wants them. So everything is about having their turn and then they start doing permanent commitment-based things. A baby is a commitment. A mortgage is a commitment. A marriage ring is a commitment. Those are things that once you walk into them, you can't just get up and walk out of it. You're on the hook. And that's why everybody tries to extract it from you. They try to extract those things because she's like, "Just in case he realizes his value, let me do something that he can't just get up and walk from." Now, please understand, when the female is ready to go, she wants to just get up and walk. When a woman is ready to leave, she just wants to get up and walk. She's dropping you like dirty laundry. She's leaving you right where the hell she found you. So when she gets ready to leave, she wants to get up, walk out the door, not even lock you behind her, and drive off. And your ass is just stuck there. At 9:15 this morning, you had a woman. By 9:18, you're single and ain't got nothing. Now, females believe fiercely that that's the way that's supposed to be. That you only have a woman so long as she thinks that you're supposed to have one. And that when she's decided that you don't have a woman anymore, oh, you don't have anything. All right. But if you're a fellow who doesn't have to abide by that and you got better options and you have the ability to leverage options, well, now what? Now what?

So, this is why I taught you all about different things. Let me go ahead and go over this. For all my patrons, don't get scared. We're going to fire up the cauldron. We're not going to do too much. We're going to fire up the cauldron just a little bit tonight. It's been a minute since the cauldron got bubbling. It's been a minute since we uh whipped out our wizard's wand and took you to the dark arts of the game, but I need to have a reminder. And I know we're going into a holiday weekend. A lot of you might think that this is a shallow subject, but this is much deeper. This is about do you as a man preserve your control and autonomy and authority over your own life, or are you going to spend it in constant clashes and skirmishes and duels with a female or various females? That's the question that needs to be answered by every male in the sound of my voice and anybody outside of it. Are you going to truly have control of your life? Or are you going to spend your days having gunfights and duels with various females who are determined to put you under their thumb? And that if you start progressing, you've now given her the leverage to complicate matters or kick your legs out from under you. Because if you are going to produce, as far as she's concerned, that production is supposed to go to her. That belongs to her. And if you do start producing, she's supposed to get that. And that's when you all start hearing from your married dudes that she starts saying different stuff. She got a different attitude. She starts talking like being with you was a chore. Being with you was labor. Being with you was torment. Being with you was nothing but sacrificing and nothing but what she lost. That's what she starts talking about later that being with you was uh complication and inconvenient and difficult and stressful. All of a sudden it becomes that you're like, "I'll be damned. She wasn't saying all that when I was there." Okay. Whether she really thinks that or not, she's got the heart to go after you. So, are you doing what's necessary to make sure that doesn't occur? That's the first thing. Are you doing what's necessary to make sure that that does not occur?

So, let's go ahead and go over some things right quick. Now that we are in the darkest arts, dark arts of the game here. First of all, to the men here, you are to be. And all your red pill gurus, Migttow, the rest of them, they're all going to be furiously taking notes right now. Many of them have already started repeating this. I've been saying this for going on over a decade now here on the business and been saying it for two decades elsewhere. I need to remind you fellas about this. And for those of you who are listening, by the way, I'm I'm kind of glad that the numbers are a little bit lower than usual tonight because I only want a core of people to hear this. Everybody doesn't appreciate this and I don't like spreading it far and wide. So, I'm I'm actually glad to have a more restrictive audience. I want that. That way, I can go off in areas that everybody else is going to hear. This is this is only for the for the chosen few. First of all, as a man, your purpose in life is the most important thing. For a woman, the most important decision she'll make is the quality of man she chooses. But for a man, the most important decision you'll ever make is your purpose. Your woman does not want to be the purpose of your life. Your woman is looking for a man who has found a grand galactic purpose, and she wants to be with that fella. She wants to be with him. That was what attracted her to you was that you weren't like other men. They were mundane. They were normal. They were basic. You were extraordinary. What makes you extraordinary, [ __ ]? It's not because you like to watch football games. There is something that you're doing that is extraordinary. And she wants to be a piece of an extraordinary life. And she cannot do that on her own. That's impossible for her to do. She's looking for her Khal Drogo. She's looking for him. So your job is to be that, not to go around trying to convince people you are. No, your job is to just be that. And then from there, you get all the rewards. So first and foremost, you have to be focused on your purpose. And your purpose cannot be a woman, nor can it be to get women. Let me be clear about to the men right now about something. The greatest, biggest, most important things you ever did in your life had nothing to do with a woman. Damn, this is going to hurt the Fruit Booty Mama's boys because you see, simps are emotionally broken, thus they are emotionally dependent and needy. So, everything is about finding a female, i.e. another mommy figure to lean on. But for the men in here, think about the most ambitious things you ever did, the greatest things you ever achieved in your adult life. If you think about them, they had nothing to do with a female. A female was not a part of it. She didn't start it. She didn't build it. She was not an essential ingredient in making it. She might have got to lay up under you from time to time while you were doing the work. What she wasn't doing was she was an essential cog in the machine that if she wasn't there, it wouldn't happen. As a matter of fact, if you think you probably goofed off and asked off a bunch of time being around her. So for the men, if you think about it, the most important momentous events in your life, the most important momentous things that you accomplished had nothing to do with a female. A woman was not there. She wasn't present. She wasn't a part of it. She wasn't next to you. She didn't plan it. She damn sure didn't sacrifice and put no money in the kitty with you. You made that all happen yourself. the things that are most important to you and the things that you most accomplished, your biggest accomplishments, you did that yourself. There was not a woman involved. So, your deficiency and inferiority complex will lead you looking to place a female there when in reality, that wasn't an essential ingredient. But think back over your life, man. the biggest, most important things you did, a woman wasn't a part of it. So, how is it all of a sudden now a you have to have a woman to be great? You have to have a woman to be a power couple. Who when's the last time you acquired power and the woman you were with was the essential ingredient? Simps will tell you that is, but they can't tell you why. They can't give you an example. Everything they say will be what they did. Well, she was sitting there rubbing me on the back. >> [ __ ] please. >> That's what the Simpsons will say. He's did all the damn work when she was there to comfort me and rub me on the back and and tell ME YOU GO, BOY. OKAY, that's a cheerleader. It's not a partner.

So first of all, have your purpose. Second of all, understand that you are the prize. What? [screaming] Damn. If you are a producer and a builder, then you're the prize. If you're not, you're not. But if you are a producer and a builder, you are the prize. You do things that women cannot do. I didn't say won't do. You do stuff they can't do. She's not standing in front of bullets. She's not moving heavy machinery. She is not going to work 18 hours a day and 80 hours a week. She will not do that. And if you attempt to impose it on her, she is going to call that abuse. What she will not do is gleefully sit down and get to it. That's what she won't do. When you go on a 20-hour road trip, she gonna be over there in the passenger seat sleeping for half of it. That's the quote assistance and quote partnership that you can look forward to. But you are the prize when you are a builder because you do things that females simply cannot do. Your productivity, your work ethic, your stick-to-it-iveness, your sacrifice. That's what gives you value. That's what makes you special. That's what makes you a prize because you can achieve and do things that they can't do. She can wish for it all she wants to, but if she could do it, she'd be doing it. And take it from somebody who's been there many moons, none of these chicks running their mouths are at the Mercedes dealership buying anything better than the E-Class. So, no, they're not. All right. Once you have that, now you have to have structure. For the men today, please understand, and I taught this a decade ago, women do not want ownership. They want access. What? Damn. [screaming] Some of your value gurus out there have been adopting my language. Now, of course, they are. They're going to try to treat it like they just made it and just discovered it. How the hell is that when I've been doing this for over a decade? But all right. Women do not want ownership. They want access. Women do not want ownership. They want access. What is the biggest complaint that men have about females? They don't want accountability. Well, with ownership comes accountability, responsibility, obligation. Females do not want accountability and obligation because along with accountability and obligation comes penalty and punishment. And females do not want that. Which is why they go looking for a male who will sacrifice himself so that she can have. But when she says "so she can have," what she really means is so that she can avoid accountability and penalty. You will absorb all the accountability and all the penalties and she is now protected from any sort of accountability or penalties. So that's the idea that they have behind it. As a man, you want to provide access, not ownership. You want to provide experiences, not you want to give them possession, not ownership. Did you get that? You want to allow them to have possession, not ownership. This is why if you go back on this program here, you can go back in the archives and you can see where I told you all about the key fob is the new wedding ring. As a man, you're supposed to make it very, very clear to her that baby, I'm not going by your damn rules. This is what it is. As long as you have this key fob in your hands, you're my woman. The day that you don't, you're not. And that's as simple as that. Somebody said, "Access to what? Stability?" Okay, I might have to have E305 call in for that. When they start talking about that as the man, once again, if if you have a desired deficit, then you start bidding the price up. Then you start using female language. The guy that she really desires and gets hot for, uh, what's the quote stability that he provides? Please. Yeah, these words don't come up until then. Stability, commitment, obligation. Those those not words that they use with the men that they desire, with the men they really desire. They don't talk like that. They want to know what they got to do to be with him. They don't use words like that because those are code words. Because you don't actually mean quote stability. What you mean is obligation. That's what you really mean, but you're not using that word. So, you've slipped in the female trick word, stability. Who defines whether the relationship is stable enough? Do you see the problem with that stability? Now, in the context that you're using it, are you the one defining whether the relationship is stable enough, or are you about to say, "Well, it'll be stable enough when she says that she feels it's stable enough. We've achieved stability." When she says I've made her feel stable enough. Not when you say everything's stable. No, when she gives you the permission slip that, okay, I I've decided things are stable. Now you're walking on pins and eggshells every morning hoping that she doesn't get up one day and feel unstable again. So when you use that word, who introduced that into your lexicon? In what context? Fellas out here have to deprogram themselves because you picked up a bunch of things that once again, those are intended to brainwash and bully you. They don't use those words for the men that they really want. You all want to know where one of the darkest arts of the game came from? From personal experience, let me remind you all one more again of the actual data and fact-based explanation for why I tell you these things. I had females who were telling me that I had to buy them cars and put cars in their name. And don't get me wrong, I have bought cars before. However, I started asking myself questions because, you see, eventually you're supposed to get smart enough, young enough in life. 30 years ago, I made rookie mistakes like that. You're not supposed to be 20 and 30 years later still slipping and sliding, stepping on rakes, and making the same damn rookie mistakes. Now, what them females said was that they wanted a car. Well, I took that as "buy a car for them." That's not what that means. Even if she says it, that's not what that means, fellas. That car is supposed to be an avenue of your life and your existence. That car is supposed to be a part of your program. When a female doesn't really desire you, her first step is to separate the producer from his production. In other words, she looks to cash out. Now, if she plans on being there right next to you, she's not looking to cash out because she's already she realizes she got the prize and she's settling in for the long term. But when she's really not thinking that way, fellas, she starts doing things that separate you from your money, separate you from your wealth, separate you from your possessions. So all of a sudden, you have to start being [ __ ] Claus, not Santa Claus. [ __ ] Claus, and you have to start dropping off tangibles and items, and you have to start doing that. All of these are things that she will now own. Not things that she will possess, things that she will now own. Now, a pair of shoes is one thing. A handbag or an outfit. Okay, that's one thing. We start talking about cars, boats, houses. Wait a minute. And we're just going to put them in her name. We're just going to give it to her because she's told you that, well, I don't want to be dealing with somebody who can take something. Now, let's be very, very clear about this. I come from the John Cena school of doing things. Although, I was doing this way before John Cena. I'm just giving you a point of reference that you can identify with. John Cena gave his girlfriends a contract to sign. What? Remember John Cena gave them a contract to sign. He wasn't bulling. Tiger Woods, the girlfriends have to sign contracts now. Remember that last one? And it's a good thing he had a contract because take a look at what the hell happened. She wasn't going to just get up and leave. Now, if a man moved into a woman's house and refused to leave, they would call him a criminal. They call him a stalker. They would call him dangerous. That woman moved into Tiger Woods' house and flat out refused to leave. Female society was dead quiet. They didn't say anything about that. They didn't call her psycho. They didn't call her a stalker. They didn't call her a criminal. They didn't demonize her. They didn't say a damn thing. They sat there and watched her lie her ass off. And they just sat there quietly. You know why? Because they secretly hate you and were just hoping she could get him. And that's THE TRUTH. >> AND STILL WITH IT. So when they start trying to pressure you and giving you code words that are supposed to coerce you into giving up your value, you're supposed to be smart enough to say, "Yeah, we're not doing that. If she signs up to be with the program, she's supposed to be with the program. And you're so solid that there's nothing that you're saying that you will not put in writing. I ain't playing no games, fellas. You should be able to put in writing that here you go, ma'am. Here's the key fob to the Aston Martin. And so long as you and I are a couple, this stays in your possession. Now, let me go ahead and break a psychological barrier that used to exist for me until I got till I broke through it. I'm the only person who's ever explained this and from time to time I come back and remind you all. Now, one of the games that they'll try to play with you is that she's telling you that she wants it in her name because she doesn't want somebody taking it from her. This, that, and the other. Okay. Well, Jason, how did you break that little con job? Well, I started realizing that 75% of your luxury cars are leased, not purchased. What? Damn. [screaming] Damn. So, let me get this straight. The cars that these females say they want in the first place. Just talking about the cars. Well, even for the married women, 75% of them are already leased, not purchased. Well, what I did was I did a survey. I did a survey among a number of females that I knew and I asked them if a guy buys a car for you, would it be okay if do you care if it is purchased or leased? 100% of them said it didn't matter. They were perfectly fine with a car that was leased. A bunch of these chicks y'all see on here right now have leased cars themselves. So, females are very familiar with this. It's only you that they want to think that you've got to go buy these things and get pink slips and titles and then drop all that in her lap. They just tell you that that childhood abuse that they do to the simp males. I'm I told you it continues unceasing, uninterrupted, continuously throughout your life. They're always seeing that they can punk you. And that's part of it. So women have no problem with you purchasing her dream car if it's leased. 75% of them are. Then why is it she was pressing you so heavy talking about you have to buy this and drop a title in her hands? This is to see how far she can push you and how much she can extract. That's what it's about. That's what it's always been about. So, you see, once I did my own survey and determined that, oh, wait a minute, this is where the price really is. I'm like, okay, welcome to the company car in the chat room for dude. We've already Somebody tell the passport bro what the real is as if women overseas are any different. So these if occasionally some weird soul comes in saying that tire debunk slogan they arresting you [ __ ] in countries NOW INTERVENTION. THEY'RE out there arresting you [ __ ] now. Y'all are going places and they're slapping cuffs on you or with all your sex tourism. You all ain't getting nothing worth having. If you were, fellas already be over there talking about how great it is. Females around the world are the same. You just think you're impressing us. I got a passport, [ __ ]. We all got passports. That's why we know it ain't nothing special. You have You haven't found some Nirvana. These passport [ __ ] talk as if they're the only ones with a passport. >> [ __ ] please. Somebody needs to wake their clown asses up like you're the only one with a passport and like all the rest of us don't have passports and we haven't seen the same damn thing. They think they're the only ones on earth with a passport. No, you're the only one from your housing project with a passport. There's a bunch of us who got passports. Look, I'll impress you. I have something super secret. What is that? It's called a passport. You wish you had one. Everybody in here just flips theirs out like you're at the FBI convention showing your badges. They really do think they're the only ones with a passport and then they think they're the only ones who travel to southern Asia or South America. You all don't know what it is. Okay. Yeah. In any case, y'all y'all can educate the passport, bro. He He thinks he's impressing us. You all don't know what passports can do. It's a new thing. Passports are the new thing. You all do know about that. So in any case fellas once the females conceded about the lease introducing the company car. So what she has expressed to you is that she wants possession. That ownership thing was a game she was running on you. In reality she wants possession. All right, then provide her with possession. She can have access. Welcome to the company car. No, ma'am. Here's the key fob. You can drive it as much as you want to. If the dashboard tells you it's time for maintenance, you are to stop where you are because that constitutes a violation that will get your privileges revoked. If you wish to have this, you must take care of it. So long as you take care of it, it remains in your possession. Drive it as much as you want to. Pick up your gal pals and stunt. See fellas, I'm under no illusion. She's going to go pick up the gals and feet and legs hanging out the damn car and whatnot and all this old silly stuff till they can get up get out their systems. Okay. Now, if there are dudes other dudes in the picture, oh, hell no. So just understand you can try violation if you want to but easy come easy go. So welcome to the company car. It's a write-off. What are you talking about? That doesn't hurt anything. What it does is establish your value. It's the benefits package. However, once again fellas, you can't think like a trick. I'm doing the whole damn rundown tonight. Fellas, you can't think like a trick. What makes you a trick is doing these things for a female who has not already demonstrated the value. Let me remind you again for the passport bros and the other folk out there who don't get it. You don't buy a pair of shoes for a female who has not already earned it. You take her shopping for what she has already done. You don't take her shopping as a contingency for what you hope she'll do in the future. You take her shopping as a reward for what she's already done. You are the prize. She gets rewards. She gets rewarded for what she's already done. If she's giving you $500 of value, you can go buy a $200 pair of shoes. If she's giving you $10,000 in value, you can buy a $4,000 handbag. She's giving you the value. If you have already confirmed she's gotten the value, okay, you owe her that. If she has demonstrated the value, like baby, she's already gotten that. So, you see, if you break up with her tomorrow, you cool with it. You know why? Because you didn't buy that. Damn, I was hoping that she would be worth that Gucci bag. She's already earned it. So you don't go doing that until she's already earned it. Once she's earned it, it's like, "Hey, this for service is rendered and time served. She's already put in her time. She's served her value. All right, let's go ahead and we're going to pay feed the troops." If she has demonstrated her value to you, then it's you got to feed the troops. So it's time to show them why folks love to be in your army. Because we eat good over here. And if she's demonstrated her value and she hasn't been a disciplinary problem and all that, it's time to feed the troops. And your job is to show them that your troops eat well. The rest of them folk out there got y'all eating MREs. We we eat well over here. And that's what you want to be doing. So, you don't go to car shopping or whatever until after they've demonstrated that level of value. She's giving you $10,000 of value and you looking for a $100,000 car. What the hell? So, keep it in its proper order. You have to have standards so that you know when she has actually demonstrated that level of value. After that, forget about it. So there's where guys get messed up is they start throwing rewards and hope that she will hoping that that's a down payment on future satisfaction. No, you reward her for how satisfied you already are. It's a fool's errand to try to compensate her in advance. So when it comes to the company car and everything I'm saying here, you can put in writing. You can put everything about the company car in writing until I gladly do that. As long as you are on the team and as long as you are a part of the program, as long as we are in a relationship and I'm happy with it, there you go. There you go. And please remember, females are not stupid. They just lie to men if they think they can get over on you. They know full damn well 90% of relationships are broken up by females. Know the chances of you breaking things up as long as you're happy are practically zero. They know that. The real thing is, yeah, but what if I want to bounce and stakes of oh, you don't like this guy in the first place? Fellas play stupid. Females play dumb along with you. But trust me, she's not confused. No, a female does not want the responsibility of a a car, b a luxury car. I meant that the way I said it. You go talk to any female in here, she does not maintain her stupid car. She doesn't change the oil when she's supposed to. She doesn't know what an air filter is. Serpentine belts, what in the hell is that? Antifreeze, spark plugs, they don't know anything about that. They don't know anything about that. So, females don't maintain their cars. They go, they check it out when something breaks. When something goes wrong, then they go and they'll drive that thing for years and never address any of the issues and they'll go drive it for years. Now, when you start getting into things like Porsches, I'm talking about a real Porsche, not just a not just a Cayman. I'm talking about the Cayenne, the 911, the GT3. Now you start getting into that baby. She ain't touching nothing. That G Wagon, that Maybach, she ain't touching a damn thing. That thing's going to only get worked on if you take care of it. She's not maintaining that. So even if you gave it to her, she's not going to pay for the AMB service. She going to get that thing from Mercedes and see that ticket and be old hell and start freaking out. So, I want you to be clear about what the value is that you're propositioning. That's it. And you can put everything I'm saying in writing. That's how solid it is. So, if she wants stability, sir, you can actually put in writing how stable it is. You can also let her know, by the way, ma'am, if you don't want the Escalade, if you don't want the Aston Martin, if you don't want the G Wagon, that's fine. I assure you somebody ELSE DOES. >> AND DEAL WITH IT, [ __ ] >> AND THAT'S real talk, y'all. So, you She's not doing you a favor by racking up miles and wearing down the treads. What? What the hell is the favor? She's doing you depreciating the car. Ma'am, this is what it is. If you take it, great. If you don't, there are other candidates. There's there's other candidates who will bust you in the back of the head with a cinder block. Need to move. So, if you're going to walk in the door, have your purpose, know your worth, producer, start locking down your value, provide access. They want possession, not ownership. Just recognize they they're going to try to hit you and juice you to see how weak you are. Show them that you're not weak and you're not desperate. Here is what it is. For some of the smaller stuff, that's one thing. For the big ticket items, oh, possession. There you go. Now, tell her anytime she wants to get salty, tell her that she can pay for one of these services. The first time they hit her up for that thousand oil change. Yeah. She's gonna be like, "Yeah, I'm like, I thought you wanted to own something." Well, you can get to demonstrate ownership now. First time they hit her up for a brake job, that'll be the last time she ever opens her mouth. The next thing up is the benefits package. And once again for the fellas here, the benefits package, this is assuming that everything is in place and you are in you are happy with it. That's when you start talking about experiences. Now, this is where things get really special. Experiences have to be good. Experiences have to be great. You have to be next level with that. So, you want to be creative. And it's not always about spending the most. That's not what it's always about. Your job is to catalog and see everywhere she's been so that now you know all the places she hasn't been, everything she hasn't done, and then you start plugging into that. That's the way that guarantees that you are doing things that were never done before and providing experiences never been done before. And also, you put a little something special on that. So, personalization helps. That's all great. That's wonderful. But you're supposed to be making sure you make things unique. That's not usually what happens with people. There's usually nothing unique. They just grab what's there and then they go. Jason like what? All right, let me go back to the handbags here one more time. One more again. Not ready for this. You know, case in point here. When females got their handbags, fellas, I need to remind you to make sure you monogram them. Damn. Hey to the fellas in here. You remember about those handbags I just told you about? Mhm. Some of you thought there were holes in the game. No sir, the holes are in your game. When you go buy those handbags, make sure you get them monogrammed. Oh boy. Oh man, the fellas wasn't thinking like this before. He ain't talking about getting [ __ ] drinking. Okay, when you get the handbag, did you get it monogrammed? Cuz I make sure they get all theirs monogrammed. It's going to have three initials on it. It's going to have three initials on that. Okay. So anywhere and everywhere if anybody else she can keep them. At that point it's like okay now that it's monogram damn putting a tattoo on her. Let me put this tattoo right here on this bag. Okay somebody. All right, let me go ahead and put this tattoo right here on this bag. Now if she want to bounce, she can do that. You can sit right there in front of the new [ __ ] with my initials >> AND CHILL WITH IT, [ __ ] if she want to sit right there in front of him because he'll eventually make the damn connection when he realizes only one of those initials on there actually is a part of her name. He's going to be like, "Wait a minute." When he starts going over those initials on there, wait a minute, you know, should I go a little bit deeper? H maybe I should go a They don't y'all y'all don't pay me. YouTube don't deserve this. YouTube does not deserve this. Hey fellas, by the way, do you know that they don't just do letters or numbers? Do you know that you can actually get them to do symbols? >> What? Damn. [screaming] Hey fellas, you know they don't just do letters or numbers. You can actually get them to do symbols. So if you really want to do something fly with it when you get that monogram put on it and whatnot etched in stone, you can put a symbol on there. Now, just make sure that it is something that can't really be explained away. If you put a rose or a heart, well, might be able to explain that, but you put something like a certain type of animal that's non-feminine. Boy, fellas will see that and be like, [groaning] who got this for you? Have you ever tried to separate a woman from a Chanel bag? >> [ __ ] What? Hey folks, let me let me teach you something your daddy never taught you and that your mama is too scared to say. Have you ever attempted to separate a woman from her Chanel bag? [ __ ] you might as well be tongue kissing a rattlesnake and trying to grab an alligator with your left hand. Have you ever walked in a woman's closet and told her she got to get rid of her Chanel bag? She got to get rid of her Fendi bag. You don't like where it came from. She got to drop that. Have you ever attempted to get her to to do that? You ever attempted to impose that one? I'll wait. Not really. You ain't. You know full well there's no way this ends well. So once again, if she's got that, especially if it's the favorite, if she's got the favorite one with the right texture and the lambskin and you the right color, that's her baby. You You think she's just going to give that up? You think she's going to give that up? Okay. Try it and see what happens. But they say, "Damn, this [ __ ] is good." By the way, one more thing. Do you all notice how quiet the females are RIGHT NOW? ALL righty then. >> By the way, just a brief reminder. Do you Did you all notice how quiet the females are right now? Now, you know that they're in here, but did you notice that they've gotten really quiet? Just pointing something out. Just pointing out that, by the way, the females done got real quiet all of a sudden. They were talking before, not a peep now. Yeah. When I said, "Have you ever tried to get them to give it up?" They'll lie on a lot of things. She's not going to lie about that. Yeah. That's That's not happening. That one ain't happening. And you wouldn't believe them if they did tell that lie. If they told that lie, you wouldn't believe them. So, so fellas, when you do things, just recognize what you're doing and how you do it. That's where you want to be with it. So, when it's time to feed the troops, they've earned their pay. It's time to feed the troops. Okay, this is how we going to do it. And everything has your stamp on it and then everything has the mark on it and that's where it comes from. It's okay, fine. She can have all that just so long as it's very clear that it's connected to you. When they start trying to separate you from your productivity and separate you from the tangibles, that's when it gets bad. And that's when fellas start red pilling and black pilling and sitting up here spazzing out and how in the hell do we make that happen? and how I get stuck with this. It becomes that. Yeah. Like I said, just they'll start sitting up here signifying. It's just don't don't worry about it, fellas. Don't believe none of that. Don't believe any of it. Do not believe any of it. There's a bunch of you fellas here right now. There's women. Let me give you an example. Women don't throw away diamond earrings. What? [screaming] Damn. Unless they were really cheap. Women don't throw away diamond earrings. Women don't throw away jewelry. If she's got a $5,000 ring, she's not going to give that up. If she got one and she knows what it is, if you got a ring that's thousands of dollars, she's not giving that up. So let them sit up here and bump their damn gums, but h she'll get a new man. She's not giving that up. She's not giving up a Chanel trendy. She's not giving up a multi-thousand ring. She's not doing that except under one circumstance. Let me give that caveat. There is one circumstance under which a female will do that if you're going to buy her a NICER ONE >> AND DEAL WITH IT, [ __ ] >> NOW, a female will give it up, but only if you're going now she got leverage. You want me to give up the Chanel bag that I have? Okay. Are you going to replace it with a better one? In which case, fine. We can throw this away if you're going to. Otherwise, you're just going to leave me with nothing. There goes the stability argument. Well, now I'm unstable. I'm not with him anymore. That doesn't matter to me. I don't care about that. I got this handbag for me. She went from having a Chanel. Now you're going to tell her she's going to have nothing. And you think she's going to be proud to sit there and tell her girlfriends, "Well, I had a Chanel bag, but he told me to get rid of it." and I do what he says. So, I got rid of it and now I don't have one. But if that's what it takes to keep my man happy, okay. You think she's not resentful and seething? Show me the chick who is not resentful and seething that she had something and now has nothing. All right, for the slow bus kids, where in the world is my Sesame Street sound drop? I need a Sesame Street sound drop. Yeah, for the slow bus kids, first of all, you ain't got nothing to transact with in the first place. So, just just calm down. Calm down, flat pockets. Don't sit up here and get all stressed. It's not like you doing numbers to even be concerned. Fellas be going to Applebee's talking about this sounds transactional. Wait a minute. Now, GET GET THE NUMBER FIVE AT WENDY'S. WELCOME TO GOOD BURGER, HOME of the Good Burger. Can I take your order? >> This This heer WANTS NUGGETS with that baconator. You ain't going to be juicing me. All relationships are transactional. To all of my passport geniuses out there, to all the short bus flat pocket geniuses, all relationships are transactional. Now, all relationships do not have to be commercial, but all relationships are transactional in case no one ever explained that to you. So, if for those of

You, who adulthood is new to you, trans, and you think you're going to talk your way or shame your way out of adulthood, uh, all relationships are transactional. In case nobody ever told you this, since nobody ever told you, all relationships are transactional. Now, that does not mean that you have to walk into a mercenarial transaction or a commercial transaction. But all relationships are transactional. No one enters a relationship expecting to get nothing. If they want nothing, they can sit by themselves. They don't have to be next to you to get the nothing that they were already getting. If they are in your presence, they came for something. If they don't get it, they will eventually leave, either quickly or slowly. But if they don't get it, they're leaving. That is a transaction. If you want them to remain around, you're going to have to do whatever that thing is they came for. That's a transaction. And there's nothing wrong with that. As long as you both brought value. If they got what you want and you got what they want, let's get this deal done. Now that we have an understanding, let's get this deal done. That's adulthood. That's a transaction.

Now, when it becomes mercenarial, now it becomes exploitative. You should not enter into exploitative transactions. Every relationship is a transaction, but every relationship isn't exploitative. Every relationship isn't mercenarial. So your job as a functioning, thinking adult is to avoid mercenarial, exploitative transactions. But don't trust anybody who tells you they didn't come to make a transaction. Because if they didn't come to make a transaction, they came to waste your damn time, which is the other side of that coin. If they did not come to make a transaction, then what the hell did they come to do? Literally. Now they're just wasting your time. Now, who here thinks that's the way you're supposed to be? Well, around waste my time. We good. No.

So when you talk about experiences and things, those things are supposed to be special. Those things are supposed to be unique. You're supposed to have your signature on these things. That's what's supposed to give it value. Not that you bought a car, but that there's something that signifies that this car is special. You want to talk about thought and detail, fellas. If you're going to go get the handbag, once again, it is very important that the handbag be the right color, the right material, the right texture. It needs to be everything she was looking for. That's how she gains an attachment to it. If you just bring any old thing, I don't know if she's going to gain an attachment to that. When it is exactly what she's been looking for and exactly what she's been thinking about, now she's gained an attachment, and that attachment is connected and associated directly with you because you knew what she wanted without her having to badge or beg for it. It's like you can read minds, and you're not a guy who makes promises. You're a guy who fulfills things, and you're not going to leave her dreaming and wishing for the rest of her life. See that? That's the value right there. That's the value right there.

So when you do those things, then you get to this other part here about sexual interaction. First of all, she's calling you. First of all, she's contacting you. She wants to know when you're coming over. Anything else is a downgrade. She wants to know when she gets to hang out with you. She wants to know when she gets to be with you. If she's not doing that, wake up, dummy. She's telling you what she thinks about you. Wake up, fellas. Sit up here knowing that they're being denigrated, knowing that they're being insulted. Well, if that's the cost of getting some sex, I'll wait my turn. And just understand that letting that insult go unanswered, and this is how we get here. The next thing about that is we don't let the prices get raised on you. When she starts raising the price, just understand, oh, it's a caper. It's a caper. She's checking to see if you're desperate. You're never supposed to be desperate.

And please understand that things in time can change. Okay, this is where a man needs to be ready to cut somebody from the team. If a player stops producing, they get cut from the team. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Michael Jordan, we loved you. Thanks for the memories. Y'all take a look at what they just did in LA with LeBron James, arguably the best basketball player ever. If he's not number one, he's number two. If LeBron James ain't number one, he's number two. He's got the stats to back it up. And look what LA just did. Look what they just did after what is it? Eight years. Yeah, you've been here eight years. We got championships. We got trophies. That's great. That's wonderful. Uh, we, yeah, we, we going, we got to let you go. But I can still play. You sure can. You just can't still play for us. Fellas, you got a player on your team. I'm like, "Hey, she playing. She's winning championships." When she stops winning championships, it's time to start an evaluation. She's sitting up here holding up the trophies that she won five years ago. Okay, but fellas, see, here's where the ladies can't get mad. Uh, ladies, you're the ones who started this. You all are the ones who started the practice of if the man ain't doing what you want, and if you feel insecure, if you feel unhappy, if you feel a certain way, he's just subject to have the relationship end without him knowing it's over. Females are proud to sit up here, broke up with you six months or a year ago and never told you that she's already checked out of the relationship, got you paying bills, got you paying for stuff, and never told you that she checked out of the relationship six months or a year ago. When she gets ready to leave, you find out the relationship is over that day, and then just all of a sudden, you all aren't talking anymore. You're like, "Well, that was sudden. Nobody can just break things off that quickly." And you're right, nobody can. She broke it off with you six months or a year ago. She's just been hanging around to get everything patched up for her next where she's going to leap to next and where she's going to jump to next, but she already left. You're just being notified today.

Okay, if they're not producing, hey fellas, you might have to be the Lakers. Hell, some of y'all might have to be the Dallas Cowboys. >> [ __ ] what? >> I said it. Some of you fellas might have to be the New England Patriots. If she's producing, feed the troops. Pay your star players. If she decides she's done producing, cut from the team. It's time to start looking for a replacement. Cut from the team.

Now, I'm going to say something else. This is going to break the simples. What I'm about to say next is going to break the simples because they can't wrap their heads around this one. Folks, sometimes when you cut somebody from the team, you don't necessarily have another player ready to step up into that slot. You have someone who is underperforming or non-performing, but you might not necessarily have somebody who's ready to go, ready to get plugged in. You know what that means? That means that the team might be wallowing for a little bit. The team might be sluggish for a little bit. Take a look at New England, when it was time to let Tom Brady go. Many folk may disagree with it, understood, but they let Tom go, and things will be disrupted for a little while, but eventually, it's going to settle down and we're going to be back. Baby, you ain't going to break it in the WWE. Let Hogan go, Ultimate Warrior go, Brett Hart go, Steve Austin go, The Rock go. Nobody's bigger than the program. Let me explain something to y'all. Do you understand that? That didn't start with the WWE. That started with the NFL. DAMN, [screaming] >> [ __ ] WHAT? >> DID you all know that did not start with the WWE? That started with the NFL. The NFL wanted to make sure that there was nobody bigger than the league. You've heard folk talking about nobody's bigger than the Shield. That's the way the NFL engineered things. Ain't nobody going, no player is going to be bigger than the league. The league is what people came for. Joe Montana can play. Joe Montana can leave. The league will be here. No one is bigger than the league, fellas. Everybody is concentrating their focus on deceiving you into thinking that they, you are the program, but that they're bigger than the program. They want you to work your ass off to demonstrate that you are the program. And then they're going to step in there and tell you that they are bigger than the program. So just understand the mind game that they'll play on you. They know you're the program. They know you're the league. But then here they come through the damn door trying to convince you that they're bigger than the league. So as a man, you need to be prepared to cut folk from the team if it comes down to it. You can't be willy-nilly, but you have to be ready to cut them from the team. And that also means that you have to be ready to go through the growing pains that are required in order to build another championship team. I didn't say it won't be uncomfortable. I didn't say you're not going to have some lean years. But what I'm saying is that what it says about you is that you're not going to settle for less.

So, as a producer, you might have to be like the Denver Broncos. Peyton Manning was gone. They ain't had nobody till they got his name, Bo Nix. So, how long has that been, y'all? A decade. Sean Payton won a championship with the New Orleans Saints. Now he's with 20 years later, he's with uh, the Denver Broncos. Okay. I, I think you all correct me if I'm wrong. I don't keep with this stuff. Who was the last quarterback in Denver who won a champion? When's the last time Denver won a championship? I want to say it was Peyton Manning. I'm not, don't ask me, don't put that in stone. I don't know. But my point is, they brought in Russell Wilson. That didn't work. Out you go. Okay. Dallas Cowboys. I know they frustrate the hell out of y'all. Okay. The New England Patriots. Okay. We, there's going to be life after Tom Brady. The, the Green Bay Packers, the San Francisco 49ers. Okay. Manning was the last one. And how many years ago was that? A decade. Okay. So, do you understand what that means? John Elway, and we all know he loves to win and he loves quarterbacks. Folks, John Elway was willing to go a decade without being in championship contention. That's commitment, not to a woman. That's commitment to their purpose. So Denver is willing to go a decade without a championship. They knew that. They knew it, and they did it anyway. Seattle, what's it been? A decade and a half since they got their Super Bowl. Okay. Russell Wilson thought there wasn't going to be life after him. There's been life at every team after him. Every team he's gone to has done better after they got rid of him. What? >> Oh, well, you can go crying your beer over that. Okay, they had to wait a decade or so. Okay, but the team is not going to settle. So, yes, they'll have to try on some new shoes, and there may be some growing pains, and there may be some lean years that comes with the territory, but what they're not going to do is pretend that the team is okay just to keep you around. They would rather gamble on a second stringer who might take him to a championship than to keep an old loser who they know won't take him. Do you have that kind of commitment that if somebody got to get cut from the team that you're ready to have some rebuilding seasons? You might be rebuilding longer than you were hoping to be doing. Are you ready to do that? That works for men. It doesn't really work for women the same way. But as a man, are you willing to have some dry seasons where there ain't a whole lot going on, but we got to get the otherwise the alternative is plugging the wrong person into the program. Guys get desperate. They get tired of sleeping alone. And then they just grab any old alley cat and next thing you know, she's all in the program. This isn't strategy.

So the real point about it is these are all the things that you take into account, and the sex is supposed to just be a given. The sex is just supposed to be a part of it. That's not supposed to be something that you're struggling over or haggling over. That's supposed to be a part of it. And one last thing here, they're supposed to put in the time. I mentioned that before, but let me reiterate that again. You sitting up here getting chicks pregnant in three damn months, bro. That's desperation. What do you think that says to a female that you're willing to get her pregnant 90 days? Bro, she saw your desperation walking in the door. No wonder you're having to sit up here and plow with cocaine to see if you can try to force a miscarriage. The nightmare scenario here is not so is definitely that she's dead, but the beginning of the nightmare scenario was that he didn't have the value to just tell her, "Hey, I just want to lay up with you." He didn't have the value to say that. I want you to understand that's why he became a killer simp because he doesn't know how to tell the females no because he got to take what he can get, how he can get it. He's never actually achieved a point where he doesn't have to do that. So when she was obviously problematic to the program, he wasn't able to say no because he don't know where the next one going to come from because he got the other ones pregnant and very clearly he's not getting along with them properly. Think about that for a few moments. He was willing to go to prison to prevent her from delivering. Do you get that? He was willing to go to prison in order to try to prevent her from getting pregnant. That's just how dire the situation got. He's willing to risk that. It's like, "Okay, dude. If this doesn't forget. Here's the crazy thing about it. It it wouldn't matter. Well, it certainly makes a difference to her family if she dies, but as far as his criminal liability, bro, even if she doesn't die, you've committed a crime. You've still committed a crime. You think she's going to let you just wipe out the baby and that's it? This works out in between your ears. This doesn't work in the real world. Okay, but she ain't cooperating. She's not going ahead and dumping the kid. Now I'm going to be on the hook for number four. These hoes got me, man. They got me. And now he's just been desperately flailing for a solution. And fellas, the solution is have the game plan up front, not later. The solutions have the discipline up front, not later. Have the purpose up front, not later. Fellas, the solution is not to be the killer damn simp.

What do I have to do to get males today to be satisfied with just have sex with them and send them home? Just have sex with them and send them home. And this brings us to the last thing. If you're going to have chicks around you, and you will, fellas, make sure they cannot get pregnant before you engage with them. That doesn't mean you put all your chips on a condom. Condoms are great. Condoms are nice. Condoms are cute. You make sure that the both of you are doing something. And something needs to be something that she can't change her mind about or go yank out of her because she's decided she's going to pull a fast one. She can't do that with a norplant. She can't do that with a depo shot. If she goes for those, you just got to stick with it. If she decides to take one of those, eh, you just got to be there with it. And then from there, now you're covered on both ends. For men today, you need to be having these conversations. It's awkward. No, you know what's awkward? What's awkward is sitting up here fighting with some whore over her being pregnant. That's awkward and stupid. What's awkward is talking about trying to get her to go get a Plan B and hoping she actually does it. You can walk her in the store, [ __ ] You can't force her to take it. That's awkward. Males today talking about prenups. Okay, so you stomp down by the prenup. How about we talk to her about, by the way, there's not going to be no babies around here. There's not going to be any of that. I don't want any children, and there will not be any babies. If she doesn't immediately and enthusiastically be like, "Oh, I don't want any kids either." Okay, she starts with her. Well, I want to have kids at some point. Okay. Problem. In a situation like that, it's like, okay, yeah, you're going to have to take something. Yeah. A depo shot will make sure that you don't decide to get up one morning and change your mind. Well, I can take oral or oral contraception. Yeah, I don't trust those. Do not take anything that is on the honor system and you have to just rely on her to do it. Fellas so eager and so anxious to get into bed and not making sure that you're safe. No, just make sure that it's something that she can't sit up here and decide later, I don't want to do that. If she tells you that she's allergic to it, you tell her. And I'm allergic to scandalous ASS HOES. >> DEAL WITH IT, [ __ ] I'm allergic to scandalous hoes who might be lying. So, no, there's not three dozen forms of contraception and she's allergic to all of them. No, she's not. She's letting you know, hey, [ __ ] I'm trying to come up. Your job is to just make it clear, you cannot be around me unless you get with the program. The program is we're not having any kids. She starts fighting with the program. Hey, ain't nobody bigger than the league, baby. Nobody is bigger than the league. So, you can't be here because on account that you made it clear you think you're bigger than the league. These are the rules. You can either comply or dismissed. Can you say that in 2026 there should not be a single fella getting anybody pregnant by accident? Take them off, get them something that they can implant and it's going to stay put and it's not on the honor system. And now you don't have to trust her. You can just lead her. Your job does not trust you. That's why your job has cameras all over the place. They employ you, but they don't trust you. They may authorize you to do some things, but they don't trust you. This chick here, it's like, "Okay, yeah, baby, I don't trust you. I might lay up with you, but I don't trust you. I lead you. So, this is what it's got to be." So fellas, if you haven't had this conversation, take a look at this guy, Bla1 Taylor. Life ruined. It's all over. And for what? What was so important that night that it was worth? You're willing to put all this effort into spiking a drink. Why didn't you put this effort into making sure that she had a norplant, a depo? Why didn't you put that effort into that upfront if you know you don't want to have kids with her? Fellas get in bed with chicks, their mommy issues come out, they be in love. So while he's in bed with her, he wants to get her pregnant. Soon as HE HOPS OUT, OH MAN, WHAT ARE WE DOING? So fellas, you got to watch out for those deficiencies in your cells. A lot of dudes, they get in bed with a chick and your mommy issues start coming out and all of a sudden you you want to get her pregnant because you're in bed and in love and head over heels and soon as you hop out the bed. Oh, wait a minute. Oh, we messed up. You was catching all kinds of feelings in bed. Soon as you get them legs out from around you, oh man, I got clarity now. Oh. Oh, this was bad. And she's like, gotcha, [ __ ] Well, don't worry. She's cool with me. We'll talk this over. She's like, "Ain't no damn talking. The last five [ __ ] got me. You going to pay up for them." So, yeah, I got a baby by NFL scout. I got a FELLOW WITH A REAL JOB. YEAH, we gonna do this. Whether he wants to or not, he's going to become a parent whether he wishes to become one or doesn't. The state gives me the authority to force that on you. I'm going to force you to become a father whether you wish to be or not. Now, if you try to force me to become a mother, I'll arrest you. But yeah, the state says that we can force men to do that. Okay, then men need to stop being silly and start having some upfront conversations and say, "Okay, this is what it's going to be. We're not relying on honor systems or trust anymore." Females, you get with fellas, it's like, "Okay, y'all. I got guarantees. Ain't nothing going to happen." She can want it all she wants to. I got guarantees. I check cycle days, ovulation, but I don't stop there. We gonna check make sure. Okay, she around long term. Okay, shazam. Let me get this birth control on you right quick. I'm going to the doctor with you. Oh man, what? Damn. [screaming] I'm going to the doctor with you. You are going to tell them that you want me in the room with you for this entire thing. And whatever they do, I'm going to be right here for a bird's eye view for it so that we're all clear about what happened and what occurred. And we don't have to worry about the honor system. I'm a witness. I saw what happened. I know we're good. I know we're good. Now, no female has a problem with a man who comes to her upfront like that, except a chick who's trying to get over on you. If she tells you she's with the program, but then she doesn't want you to verify everything, dude. Catch a clue. The fix is in. The fix is in. If this dude had this conversation with me years ago, he wouldn't be in this situation. Maybe he can go slap his parents. Although, his mama said that he was the best son a mother could hope for. AUNTIE, CHILL. WHAT? OKAY, MOM. All right. I can see who coddled him. She coddled him right in the prison. His mama says she he was the best son she could ever hope for. Well, she'll never see him again without a pane of glass between them. So, yeah. But to the fellas in here, don't leave stuff up to chance. Y'all will be grown men today. We ain't leaving nothing up to chance. You're not leaving anything up to chance. It's the 21st century. If the chick wants to be around you, let her know, "Okay, this will make me feel safe. This is what we're going to do." She starts bulking and telling you what she's not going to do. Curbside for pickup. You have to get be ready to get up and walk away. And here's the thing. You're not going to have all these emotional attachment issues if you do all this at the beginning. Trying to deal and fight with this three and four and six months later. That's where you get in trouble. Unless if you bottom of the barrel simps who get attached on day one. Y'all [ __ ] are the worst. But if you get all this out of the way at the beginning, man, you're good. The real problem is males don't want to settle this stuff and get it taken care of at the beginning because he's scared that she's going to say no and he can't replace her. So get all this stuff out of the way at the start. Have these conversations at the beginning. Let her know you don't work on the honor system. Let her know you don't do that. Hopefully y'all take this seriously going forward or don't. I got fellas in here right now. Y'all fighting with baby mamas right now. She's going to put your ass through the ringer and she's already sizing up what level of torment she wants to visit on you. So fellas, I mean, do it however you want to. You don't have to pay attention to it, but just keep in mind. You might be playing with them. I assure you, they're not playing with you. She was very serious about having that baby. And very clearly, he made it clear he does not want that. And she made it clear to him, I'm going to force this on you. And this isn't new. What was it that was going on between her legs that was so wonderful that it was worth all this? I'm telling you, nothing. So, have your game plan, fellas. Have your setup. Have in mind, leave nothing to chance. It's 2026. You're supposed to know what's going on when you walk in the door. I understand that this was a difficult conversation for some to have tonight. Don't worry, there's other folks out there. They won't have these kind of conversations. Okay? As the men, we better start having them amongst ourselves. We better start making it very clear. This is what we want. If nobody's ever told you what's available and what the rules are, this is available and this is the rules. This is how you keep yourself from getting caught up. Also, this is how you put a system in place that you can live with. This is how you put together a structure and a system in place that you can live with. Not one forced on you by somebody else or something you had to settle for or compromise on. No, this is where you set up the rules. Now you got something in place you're actually happy with. Will it last forever? [ __ ] nothing lasts forever. But while it's here, it will be something that serves you properly. If it breaks down, you're in a great position to go and rebuild it and start over. You know what? You can't start over from a divorce. Of course, that's hard, but you can, but that's a hell of an inconvenience. A chick who got your kids and using them for money or poisoning them against you. Yeah, that that you can't get over. Choose carefully.

We're going to go ahead and wrap things up here tonight. I want to thank everyone who has contributed support for tonight's program on PayPal, Super Chat, Venmo. Shout out to Grind Time. Grind Time said, "These chicks are offering a bunch of bad credit and bad habits." [applause] Young Investor, Zavon Scott, E305, Evony Walker, Keonto Teddy, [applause] the Naughty Bear. Oh boy. Oh my god. Oh, hell no, man. >> Did this fella ask how do you send her home, hotel visits, etc. without her feeling offended? Kindly explain the soft landing technique. Who said anything about a soft landing? Dude, who raised these? Who was the last female who gave you a soft landing? The women that men love don't give them soft landings, they give them clarity. He talking about explain the soft landing technique. The soft landing is to politely get her Uber AND DEAL WITH IT, [ __ ] >> That's the soft landing. You can walk her down to the lobby. That's the soft landing. When it's time to go, it's time to go. The soft landing is walking her down to the front. You can walk her down to the lobby. That's the soft landing. Guys like this, no offense, Naughty Bear, whoever you are, guys like this, boy, this kind of timidity and this type of timidness and and and fear. This is the problem right here. The men that women respect don't do that. You let her know from the beginning, you're on a clock, you're on a time scale. Hey baby, I got this many hours for you. I got this amount of time for you. That's the man they want. You are giving clarity. She knows you're not bulling. You know, she knows you mean exactly what you're saying and that you're telling her, "Okay, this is how much time I got for you." You know why? Because I got business TO HANDLE. [screaming] >> DEAL WITH IT, [ __ ] JASON, HOW CAN YOU SAY? Because you, she's supposed to know, baby, I got business to take care of. I can't do that laying up with you. I can handle business or I can lay up with you, but I can't do both. So, this is how much time I got. These are the circumstances under which I can do that. And is you coming or is you not? And tell her because baby, you're making this hard because you, you bullshitting around. That's it. No, what he's thinking is you can't really do that. He's thinking you can't really get away with that. You don't want her to feel offended. So what he's saying is I don't believe you can't get away with that. No, it can't be that simple. Don't we need to give her a soft landing? You can't just do it like this. And what's the alternative? So this is how fellas start rationalizing. They start compromising. They start equivocating. This is how it happens. I want you all to understand something. There was no female who said this to him. What? Please understand that there wasn't a female who said this to him. He's the one saying this to himself. He's the one psyching himself out. There is no female who told him that she would be offended or that she needed a soft landing. He's psyching himself out and questioning it because this is his fear and his anxiety talking. So he's saying that he doesn't think that he can do it. So he's looking for some alternative. Well, is there another way to do it? Maybe we can do a soft landing. I didn't say anything about soft landing. Well, I don't think I can do that. So that's what he really means. I, I can't do that. Instead of establishing upfront what it is. Well, he doesn't think he has the value. He doesn't think that the female will look at him and say, "I am lucky to have eight hours of his time, 12 hours of his time, a weekend of his time. I'm lucky to have that." He doesn't think that he's got that much value. And maybe he's right. Damn. Maybe he's correct that he doesn't have that much value. So he's like, "Well, I got to give her a soft landing. Otherwise, she'll be offended." But if she looks at you and the value is there and she knows you're busy, she's not offended. What's there to be offended by? She'll be offended. Can't we just let her down easy? When's the last time a female let you down easy? When's the last time she gave you a soft landing? When's the last time that when she say she got to go to work, she means she got to go to work. She's done. Whatever her time is over, I gotta go to work. Bye. When a female ready to go, she's just like, I'm going to work, deuces. The fella sit around them. That might not be good enough. Can I do that? Can we really get away with that? I don't know. She might get offended. And just understand, they start compromising and diluting it and watering it down and next thing you know, he's doing the exact opposite. He won't do it at all. Can't do that. Can Chris Brown do it? Can Drake do it? Okay, if they can do it, then females do accept it. Well, I don't think they'll accept it from me. Okay, well, you need to address that issue. But they do it. They do it every night. Hell, it's a Friday. There's a bunch of chicks right now. Not one or two. There's a bunch of chicks right now. What do you All my Uber drivers, my Uber drivers in major American cities, they picking up females all damn night this weekend. So, all my Uber people out there, you all can say something in the comments when the video's done. Y'all picking up chicks all in the night. You know when you dropping her off or when you're picking her up from getting flip-flopped, you know when you're doing that. That's not rare. That's what Uber does. Uber is a whole transport service. You know full damn well when you're doing that. So, yeah, they do it all the time. And it's not just Drake or Chris Brown either. So fellas have to stop psyching themselves out or if you ain't got your act together well enough, get your act together well enough. Explain the soft landing. Dude, you letting her in the door. That is the soft landing. The soft landing is that she wants to spend time with you and you actually open the door. That's the soft landing. If you don't think that you're enough, you might be right. You might be right. If you are new here to the business, welcome to the program that all your favorite YouTubers love to hate watch. So, click that subscribe button, that notification button, join us each and every time that we are here. If you haven't been to our Patreon, the link is in the description. We do it every Saturday, 12:00 noon Central Time. You are more than welcome to join us last week. Oh boy, last week. All right, we'll come back to that. In the meantime, I want to thank all of you for tuning in tonight's program, live recorded. Thank you for liking, subscribing, and sharing. And this concludes tonight's broadcast of the business. I am your host, your brother, your humble servant, Mr. Jason Black. And until next time, my brothers and my sisters from around the world, remember, handle your business or your business will handle you.