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While we've all been focused on the male loneliness crisis, another crisis has been brewing the entire time that went unnoticed by most people. The female reality crisis. You men have noticed it. We've talked about it. This tendency for women worldwide to have a complete lack of understanding of the nature of reality. Their expectations are sky-high, yet their awareness is rock bottom. They believe they're due as a fairy tale princess ending in life. Yet, they don't want to live the fairy tale life and go through any of the challenges that the hero in these stories has to go through. They just want it all delivered to them on a silver platter because they all believe they're celebrities, that they're special, that they're all beautiful. So today, we're going to dig into this female reality crisis. We're going to uncover what are the underlying causes and effects of this crisis, and perhaps together we can all come together and see if we can find a solution. Is there a cure? Can we find a way out of this mess? This is Life 2.0. Yeah, let's talk about it.
It's hard to know for sure where it all started, but the fairy tale princess syndrome or fairy tale syndrome, fairy tale psychosis as psychiatrists definitely don't call it, is probably a good place to start. For generations, women ages three to 17 have been exposed to this concept, this idea that men's sole purpose in lives is to rescue them and transform their lives while they do nothing but sit around looking pretty. That they are due, that we are owed, they are owed a fairy tale princess lifestyle and a fairy tale ending where everyone lives happily ever after where they don't need to do anything to achieve any of this. Their only purpose is to be the princess and that somehow, someway, some guy is going to find them and is going to dedicate his entire life to saving her and transforming her life into something amazing. Women believe this at a very deep level. I know it sounds funny and you think I'm being sarcastic, but trust me, there are lots and lots of women out there who are thinking, "As I'm saying this, you mean that's not true? What the hell are you talking about?" That was the narrative that we were sold since we were children. Well, I hate to break it to you ladies, but you've been lied to. That is not the way the world works. Your reality is fundamentally broken. The problem is so bad that I have heard adult women complain that their man doesn't treat them like a princess. And I'm thinking to myself, lady, you work at Target. The closest you're getting to royalty is the Burger King crown. I don't think that you are realistically understanding exactly what it means to be treated like a princess. First of all, the princesses in all those movies actually did have some function. I think Cinderella cleaned houses and I think Belle read books to monsters and converted them into men. So, I don't see you doing any of that stuff. You know, there's no hardship that you're dealing with. You just want the good stuff at the end. The unrealistic expectations are even within the stories themselves. Like, they don't even watch the whole story. They just look at the good parts at the end. So yes, this lack of touch with reality is rampant and Disney owes us all an apology.
The next cause we can look at is birth control. Pharmaceutical companies don't like you to hear about this, but there is such a thing as what they call birth control brain fog. I like to think of it more as, um, hormonal Russian roulette because what happens is when women go on these birth control pills or any other kind of hormonal fluctuation drug, it causes them to change the type of men that they're attracted to. So in normal conditions, when a woman's not being hormonally, I hate to use the word castrated, but I think that's probably a reasonable term to use. Well, they are, um, attracted to a certain kind of man. In fact, more high testosterone, um, masculine men are attracted to or more attractive to them. But when they are taking these birth control pills, well, they find themselves being attracted to men that are less dominant, less masculine. And so they are, uh, choosing men that when they come off the pill, say, like when they want to get pregnant, that they're no longer attracted to. And well, that creates a huge problem because their behaviors, what they're wanting from men is dictating to a large degree what kind of behaviors they're getting from men. So they are kind of pushing men to be less and less masculine so that they will, you know, pair bond with them. And then when they come off the pill and they find out they're no longer attracted to this guy, well then their entire lives blow up. They find they've made this enormous error. They don't understand that this drug has completely altered their sense of reality. They can no longer trust their own minds when they think about who they're attracted to and what they want from life. It completely distorts reality. But that's not even the worst of it. The pharmaceutical companies don't want you also to know that these, uh, hormonal fluctuations cause women to experience a great deal of anxiety and depression. Changes their personality. It makes them much more unstable. It turns an entire generation of women into an emotional slot machine. You pull the arm, you never know what you're going to get. And to say that that has been a benefit to women and to hold it out as some kind of a liberating force in their lives is kind of a cruel trick because it actually has made them slaves to this emotional instability that, uh, turns their entire world into sort of a Jenga tower because you never know which brick is coming out and the whole thing's going to come crashing down. And, uh, yeah, we can thank the pharmaceutical companies for that. And, uh, yeah, women's liberation that pushed that pill on us like it was some kind of a salvation for us all. Well, I think for some of us it worked out, but for most of us, I'm afraid in the long term it backfired.
The next one, and I think most of us can attest to this, is social media reality distortion. It's the idea that other women are out there living their best lives 24/7. That they're on private jets taking these exotic cruises, hanging out with men that look like they were chiseled out of marble by Michelangelo himself. Just living their best lives. And this reality distortion makes average women think that they're missing out, like there's something else going on that they're due, that that girl's no better than them. Well, the truth of the matter is either they're trust fund babies and daddy's paying for the whole thing or they're in crushing debt because they're trying to be content creators and they're running up their credit card bills trying to make them look like they're living the life of the rich and famous all the while they owe it all to Visa or American Express or somebody else. In either case, this social media reality distortion runs deep and it's a disrupting force in our society and women believe for whatever reason that what they're seeing on Instagram and on TikTok is real life. When a woman sits down on Instagram and looks through 47 pictures of somebody else's vacation that have been carefully curated to only enhance the very best parts of her life, she's getting the idea in her head that she deserves this lifestyle that probably requires a seven-figure income just to maintain. Social media through dating apps has also created the illusion that women have unlimited options that just when they're just one swipe away from the perfect guy. And so every time they see a guy's profile, they immediately think, "Well, he's not perfect, so I'll swipe to the next one and to the next one and to the next one." It's like being hungry for a meal and just driving from one fast food restaurant to the next to the next to the next trying to find the perfect meal and never eating. That's basically what they're doing. They're they're starving to death and they don't realize it until they get to be about 35 or so and they find themselves alone and then the reality distortion starts to wear off and they start to come to terms with the fact that they're never going to find a man and they're never going to have a family and they're never going to live the life that they ever wanted.
And the fourth cause is the great gender confusion caused by feminism. Feminism promised women the world that they could have it all. They can have the corner office. They can have the Instagram lifestyle. They can have the perfect man. They can have the perfect family. They can have the perfect life. They can have it all. There are no trade-offs. That everything is just there for the taking. They will just follow that feminist pathway forward as it's been laid out. Well, that has not worked out so well for women. In fact, I think feminism owes women an enormous apology because what they've delivered is nothing but misery and pain and anguish and anxiety and depression. And sure, there are a few girls, a few ladies who made it all the way to the top and now they are, you know, in the C-suite at some big corporation thinking they've made some big, you know, improvement in their lives, but they've missed the whole point of life altogether. Feminism told us that masculinity was toxic while at the same time pushing women to seek out more masculine men and for themselves to take on more masculine roles in their own lives. They forced women to push on and delay having a family. Delay, um, getting married, be a boss babe. Go out there and to live your best life. Get into your mid-30s and see how that feels when your fertility window is starting to close and you realize that the real value, the real, um, meaning of life had very little to do with how much money you made or what sign was on the door. It had everything to do with the connections that you made with people, the children that you had, the husband that you loved, the life that you made for yourselves. Doesn't matter how good you look in 4-in heels and a in a business suit. Nobody cares. Nobody cares. And no man is interested in you because you were so successful. It just doesn't matter to most people.
So let's get into some of the effects of this stuff. The first one, of course, is the entitlement epidemic. We have created a generation of women who believe they're entitled to whatever they want. They see that social media stuff and the Disney stuff and they put that all together in their wee little brains and they've come to the conclusion that Prince Charming needs to be a seven-figure guy. He's got to be six feet tall plus. He's got to have six-pack abs. He's got to be making a minimum of high six figures and ideally seven. And he had better not been with too many other women because that would really be icky. They think that they are owed this without doing anything in return. That they don't have to bring anything to the table. That they are just by their sheer existence deserving of all of these characteristics. That there is nothing for them to offer. They just need to take.
The next effect is when you combine the, uh, hormonal brain fog that you get from birth control with the high expectations that you get from Disney. Well, you get chaotic decision-making. You've got women who have no ability to make rational decisions in the real world because their expectations and their inability to think rationally are compromised by their the drugs in their bodies and the, um, unrealistic expectations they have in their heads. So, if during a relationship, say in a long-term marriage, a woman finds herself finding that she's not happy for some reason, she will make the decision, the life-altering decision to change her entire life by leaving this perfectly good man and to walk away from a life with a family, with a home, with cars, with everything that she ever dreamt of and think that she's owed something better, that there's something better for her out there in the world. And this, of course, is just chaotic thinking. This is irrational. It's unrealistic. It's, I don't know. It's sad and pathetic on a certain level. I'm very, I'm very sad that some of these women have found themselves in these situations because now they're all on TikTok making videos about how they wish they had made better decisions for their lives.
This brings us to effect three, dating app delusion. Dating apps gave average women access to above-average men. And this completely broke their calibration system. A woman who's a six or a seven suddenly has access to eights, nines, and tens. And she thinks that because she can swipe on them and they will sleep with her that she is at their level. That she does not understand or realize because her reality system is broken that these men are just using her. And she believes on some level that they are having a relationship with her and that because they're willing to sleep with her that she's on the same, um, level with them and nothing can be further from the truth. But this then destroys their ability to have a relationship with a normal man because she no longer sees them as being acceptable. Normal guys that would be at her level, say if she's a six, a guy who's a six or even a seven doesn't measure up anymore because she's been with eights and nines and maybe even a ten. And she thinks that because these guys are willing to sleep with her that she's at that level. And obviously that's just a, just not the case.
Effect number four is when the biological clock starts ticking. That's when that whole Disney programming starts to glitch and the feminism spiel about you can have it all starts to sound like a used car pitch. The, uh, you can date anybody you want on the dating apps starts to feel a little degrading, like sleeping around doesn't seem like such a great idea anymore. Um, all that stuff on social media starts to feel a little less shiny because now the clock is ticking and it's ticking loud like a bomb in an action movie that's about to go off. They realize that their opportunity to have the dream that they really wanted all along, the one that lives naturally within them, to have a family, to have children, to have a healthy normal life is now beginning to, um, slip away. It's something that may just be a dream that they could never actually attain. Suddenly, they start acquiring cats and houseplants and they start psychologically setting themselves up for life alone. It's not a pretty sight. It's something that, um, is unfortunate when that whole reality glitch starts to come back into focus and they realize that they've been sold a bill of goods that was intended for someone else's benefit and not theirs and now they're paying the price. And that's when this crisis really starts to to blow up.
The outcomes of this reality distortion are almost predictable. So really what you get is a whole generation of women who have more power, more money, more education, more opportunities than any other generation in history. And yet they are more unhappy, more anxious, more depressed, more dissatisfied with their lives than any generation in history. Think about that for a moment. They've gotten everything they wanted and they've got nothing that they wanted. It's brilliant. I mean, I, it's almost like a movie could be written this way. They wanted all these things. They wanted all these freedoms, all these rights, all of these opportunities. And they got them all. And then they wanted all the stuff on social media. They wanted the perfect man. They got all that Disney programming in their heads. And they had all these visions for their lives. And they did everything right to get everything that they wanted. And the vast majority of them ended up taking some kind of a drug to manage their anxiety or to manage their depression. They are completely dissatisfied with the way their lives are going. And they have, they feel like they're completely powerless to change it. They're caught in this wave of dissatisfaction and there's nothing they can do because everything about their reality is fundamentally flawed. The programming of these women was so bad that most of them don't even realize they're having a problem until they get into their 30s or so. And then by then, for most of them, it's too late. And the sad thing is most of these women are good people. They're not bad people. It's just that they were programmed with this idea that they deserve to have this fairy tale life from a very young age. And anyone who pointed out to them that this was an unrealistic expectation was suddenly declared the enemy. And so they ignored them or they vilified them or they just called them the patriarchy.
So there you have it, the female reality crisis. Now, I know I've made this a little bit satirical, but as you can tell, there's an awful lot of truth behind that satire. There's a lot of reality in this reality crisis. And unfortunately, there's really nothing that we men can do to change it except to try to affect the women that we have influence over in our lives, mostly our daughters, to help them see the life they could have if they would just take off these rose-colored glasses, throw away the Disney romance idea, allow feminism to become plan B rather than plan A, and understand that the real value of the time that we spend in our lives is not with the titles that we have on our doors, the amount of money that we make or, um, the respect that we get from strangers. It's about the relationships we have with the people we care about. It's about building lasting, loving relationships that endure. That is what life is here for. It's not about, um, having a six-figure, 6'2 guy to hang out with. No, it's about learning to love and be loved with your flaws because we're all flawed. We all have our problems and not any of us is going to ever be, um, living up to that Disney prince charming or even that Disney princess ideal that we've been talked about or told about since we were kids. So, I implore you guys, talk to your girls, talk to your friends that you have some influence over and try to break them loose from this reality distortion that they are involved in because so long as they continue to live these lives, they're going to experience an awful lot of pain and a lot of suffering. And nobody likes to see their daughters suffer.
Anyway, that's all I got for you today. I certainly hope you've enjoyed the video. If you have, please like and subscribe. If you know someone who might be going through this, you have a daughter who maybe needs a little bit of a, a laugh and a little bit of a wakeup call, maybe send this to her. Maybe, just maybe, they'll get something out of it. Anyway, until next time, stay healthy and if you can, stay single.