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Hi, hello. How are you?
Good. How are you?
I'm good. Uh, hey Tiff, stop. How are you?
Just a second. Tiff, stop requesting to me in my screen. You want to talk to me? Book a session. How are you?
How old are you?
I'm 28.
28. All right, let's go ahead. W are you down for training day? What's going on? Or do you have a question?
Oh, both. And I'm down for training because, um, I didn't come from a family that was married. Okay? My mom wasn't married or anything. I mean, she knew how to be a woman because her mom taught her because her mom was married. But, uh, okay, my mom wasn't. So I don't really know how many.
Do you have any siblings?
I don't. My mom's only child.
Yeah, only child syndrome. What state do you live in?
New York.
New York City? Yeah. Downtown Brooklyn.
Brook Brooklyn. And I'll be in Brooklyn later on this week.
Oh, do I'll be somewhere in the sky? Probably.
No, no, I said I'll be in Brooklyn later this week.
No, I'm saying that's cool for you. I won't be here.
Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's business. But okay. Um, any children?
No, I don't have kids yet.
Okay. Um, why do you want to be married?
Why do I want to be married? I think that's every little girl's dream, I guess. Um, I want the family. I didn't, like I said, I didn't come from a married home. So I want the kids. I've always, since I was younger, like I want my kids to be full siblings. Like I don't want any separation. I want the family to be a family. I want us to build together. I always wanted to be the wife and feel like.
I'm sorry, did you go to college?
I did.
Okay, so what do, what does a successful look like? What does a successful life for a woman like yourself look like?
Um, dang, that's a good question because I really don't know. I guess just happiness, love. You can get success anywhere. I don't know why people always think it's associated with school only. Um, there's other ways to be successful. So I don't, I don't know.
Did you go to college?
I did. I only got my associates, though.
Okay. Um, how tall are you?
I'm five feet.
Dress size? What dress? Dress?
I'm a six or four. It depends on the dress.
How much did you weigh the last time you weighed yourself?
130.
Okay. Um, would you be surprised if I told you that when I asked you about why you want to be married, you mentioned nothing about a man?
That is a man. I said build with a family. That's having a man.
Check that [ __ ] check check that [ __ ]. I want you guys to understand how y'all all talking about she's cute and all this other [ __ ]. I want you understand how quickly she switched. Go back in the video and look at the expression on her face.
No, I didn't even notice the comments. But don't worry about, don't worry about the. Here's what I need you to do. Turn off your comments and let's have the conversation.
I don't have the comments.
Okay, cool. Okay. But what I'm saying is, let's take a step back. How long have you been watching my content?
I just started like earlier in January.
Okay. Would you, would you say that I listen and hear things pretty well?
Yes.
Okay, so if I heard, if I said that I asked you about a marriage and you didn't say one thing about a man, why would your reaction be?
Uh-uh. Because when I said that I wanted to build with someone and not want a separate home, I would think that that implies that I want my the man to back.
Implication, implication. Sorry. The implication. Ask about. I ask you, what does successful look like? A life look like? You said love and a bunch of other feelings. And then you said, I don't know why people say you need education. In both of those things. I asked those questions looking for. And I had my radar set to ding when I heard man. Okay? And it didn't.
Got it. So if that's what, okay. So, uh, how long's your longest relationship?
Uh, I think it was five years.
Five years? Five years long? Yeah.
How long ago? How long ago did it end?
Two years ago.
And, uh, which one of you ended it?
Me.
Uh, why?
I didn't want to be in it.
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Why? Oh, it's a long story. But, um.
No, make it. Make it quick. You weren't feeling it? Like it just, it wasn't happy. It wasn't it. He didn't bring out my happiness. Or we didn't just match. I don't know. It just, it wasn't it. It wasn't what I was looking for at the moment.
Five years. How'd you end? How'd you end it?
Um, I just told him that it's not working.
Just like that. How you, how'd you end it? You were, you were just at, how you at the house? You were at dinner? What happened? How'd you?
Oh, uh, we were in my car. And I just told him that I don't think.
You were driving?
Yeah.
You were driving?
Yeah.
And he was in your passenger seat?
Yes.
Where were you guys going?
I was dropping him off at work.
So did you tell him this in the parking lot?
No.
While I was at a red light?
About how far from work? Probably like, I don't know. That was two years ago. I honestly don't remember. There's a five-year relationship. I know. But I have selective memory. So probably like, it wasn't that far. Probably like another 10, 15 minutes to his job.
10, 15 minutes in traffic?
Yes. Well, New York streets.
Where'd he work?
Uh, he worked at the mall.
So and you leaving your apartment?
Yeah. I just thought we would be better as friends. While we both.
Okay, so I want you guys to understand something. What did I say? Uh, that in neither two scenarios did she mention a man. And she barked at me. I want you guys to remember that. And like I said, Monday night, I asked the question, what does successful life look like for a woman like yourself? And she started about the feelings thing. The relationship. I said, you need to start asking women how their relationships end. And I want you guys to understand this woman was in a five-year relationship and she ended it in a cold, callous way. The man was on. Sorry.
Okay, you think it's appropriate for a five-year relationship to be driving somebody to French toast ass work and they got to have that on their mind while they're at work? See, I told you modern women are cowards. They don't deal with conflict. And when they're done with you, they get rid of you. That's what I said today. Know when to run, know when to walk, and when to run. That video is on this channel and on YouTube. I don't just talk. And then I said, well, tell me the details. Oh, that was two years ago. I guarantee you he remembers what the hell you did to him. Bet you that. I bet you that. And I'm going to tell you something. Any man who's worth his salt that will look for a wife is going to ask you these questions too. Okay? And I can be able to tell them the full story about it. But no, you can't. No, you can't. No, you can't. Because soon. Well, you, you think you can. Why would they sit here and listen to this [ __ ] five-year relationship for a 28-year-old woman? And you just on the way to work? I told them, do 10 minutes outside of work. This just ain't gonna work. Peace out.
I didn't do it like that though.
Okay, you're making me sound like I did it.
Man, I asked you how you did it. Not ma'am. I asked you how you did it. You said it was two years ago. You.
I want you guys to understand that this is how serious they. This is how little they care. I have selective memory. This is the man she spent five years with. Y'all had sex, right? Yeah. Right. So he was all up inside your body. But when you were leaving him, you didn't even give him the dignity of saying, thank you for spending five years with me. You didn't. He's a. He's probably a sucker.
No, because because he was in your car. I let me tell you something. Any man that would let you drive him to work and he's going to the mall. Where were you working at? I was a flight attendant. Any man that would be in this position is already a beta. And if he's still your friend, he is damn sure a beta. When he left work, he should have blocked your ass because that was cold. And I want you to understand this woman is sitting here trying to make it seem like we don't hear what we hear, guys. So when y'all in the comment section, she's cute and she cute. I told you, you better watch these cute girls, man.
You said I'm making it sound like what? I asked you how'd you do it.
There's history though. It's not like it just happened overnight. It was accumulating. There was things that he did.
Of course it did. But but ma'am, ma'am, is there, ma'am, would you want somebody to end a relationship with your daughter that way, regardless as to the history? A five-year relationship? Would you want somebody to be in the car knowing they got to go to work?
There was no conversation to be had. He had to get the [ __ ] out of the car. He had to move on. He had to be at work.
Ma'am, he had to. He had to clock in. And that's why, mean, this conflict avoiding cowardice [ __ ]. I said, when women are done with you, she knew. Well, I'm, I'm not going to tell them the night before so we can talk about it. I'mma wait till we're 10, 15 minutes away. Oh, well, about 10 minutes away. Oh, by the way, this ain't working no more.
Thanks. Didn't go down like that. We, we started talking in the car and then it came up and it happened. It happened. It happened. That's why I have zero sympathy for these modern savages.
Oh God, I wish I was a savage.
Uh-uh. Well, that doesn't really. Of course.
Okay, ma'am. And then here and then here comes the, well, you don't understand what I got to. Ma'am, I don't have to. You did stuff. He did stuff. I did nothing. He did stuff. [ __ ] you're human.
So you know what? Maybe you're not. She's right. She might not be. Because I want you guys to understand with me, I'm not talk. I'm talking through you because you don't even know how [ __ ] up this sounds to a man. Because you guys all seem to way he always seem it was him, not me. You were in a relationship five years. You did nothing wrong. It was all him, not me. S and so forth. And that's cool. This is. I want you ladies to understand that we as men, every time we meet one of you, it is always almost a 100% of you. Your exes are pie. Are just not good. I have never, ever in my life met a woman who said it was me. Men in the comment section, when this video is over, how many men have met a woman who said out of her mouth, first off the rip, I was the reason? This is a problem. If that's the truth, write 362 in the comment section. If you had a woman that said right out of her mouth, it was me, write 362. Man, I got no dog in this fight. I'm telling you what I hear.
Is it hard to listen to?
No, it's not.
Um, so if a man, so if a man, so if a man starts, if a man asks you how your relationship ends, because I'm gonna ask you a simple question. How do you think your ex experienced dating you?
He, if, if I, if you asked him, who said you for dating you was blank. It was how, how it was dating me.
Uh, interesting. I guess. I mean, I have my flaws. I'm a spoiled. I'm spoiled.
Well, but you, but five minutes ago, you said you didn't do anything. Now you said it was just.
I didn't do anything that like, I didn't, I do anything that was like, she's, uh, I don't know, cheating or.
She's right. So you never heard him? So you never hurt him? You didn't hurt him at all, right?
I don't think so. I him.
Okay. No, no. So in five years, you never hurt him? He only hurt you?
Yeah, I would say so. I mean, he, he felt insecure. That's, that's like his thing, you know? I don't think I gave him reasons to feel.
Self-awareness. Well, I think it's rather interesting that you say we all got our things. But in five years, you never hurt him, but he only hurt you. Okay. Uh, do you, would you say you have, uh, healthy self-esteem?
Me? No. It flip-flops. I could be, I can have low self-esteem at times and then I could just reach.
In general. In general, would you say your self-esteem is average, above average, below average?
I think I might be average.
Okay. Uh, then in five years, somebody with average self-esteem would not stay with somebody who's hurting them.
Um, I was easily. I don't want to say manipulated. And comes to victim [ __ ] again.
No, it's not. You can't make this [ __ ] up. No, ma'am. You're gonna be famous. You keep this up, you're gonna be famous. You, you make, you make me want to say the whole story because it's a [ __ ] up story. Like, but three sides to a story. Yours, his, and the truth.
I know. And you also got, ma'am, I just asked you how we got here. Is I asked you why you want to be married, what successful looks, relationship look like. And then I asked you how did your, how long was your relationship and how it ended. I didn't, I didn't put us here. I'm just asking you. And this is what's gonna happen on the dating market, especially if you f want to date a man that's got any sense of value.
Do you want children?
You said you want kids.
Probably four.
Four? Four. Um, do you want your kids to be able to go to college if they want to?
Yes.
Yeah. You want to be able to travel nationally, domestically, and internationally with your family?
I do.
Um, do you want, after you're married, do you want to have to work to pay significant bills when you're pregnant?
I love my job.
Do you want to have to work to pay significant bills when you're pregnant, married?
No. I want.
What percentage of the overall family financial load do you want to have to be responsible for, for a lifetime? Meaning it doesn't vary. You must pay this for a lifetime for four children. You and your husband. What percentage overall family financial load?
That's a good question. Um, I know, uh, I'll say like 20 to 30%.
30% means if you start working for any reason, the family is in serious financial jeopardy almost immediately. Really? You cannot. Ma'am, could you survive a 30% pay cut at your current standard of living?
Then.
Thank you. All right, so 20 to 30%. You're in serious jeopardy. So what about two kids?
No, no, no, no. We already. No, no.
I asked you what percentage of the our family financial load do you want to have to be responsible for. That's the question that's on the table.
Okay. What percentage? I just don't.
No, 30. So if you stop working, the family's at risk. But if you stop working, the family is at risk.
Okay. It's.
Ma'am, I asked you.
No, I'm asking you. If it goes higher.
Well, yeah. If here's about mad. If it goes higher, there's more risk. If you stop.
See, right now, if you never get married, what percentage of your family, of your financial load are you gonna have to be responsible for for a lifetime? Right? So you got that. That's a simple concept. So if you're married with kids, four kids, how much, what percentage of that do you want to have to be responsible for?
More than 30. That means you're going to be more responsible. But you're going to be responsible for less than 30. That means your husband will be more responsible. I don't want to put all the burden on him. But I guess like 20%? 10%? 0%?
Yeah. Okay. Uh, and what kind of, what kind of income do you think you're going to need to live in Brooklyn or or New York City?
Um, I, I don't want to stay here. I want to get out of New York.
Where do you want to live?
I don't know. Somewhere in the South on a farm, I guess.
Have you ever lived outside of New York City?
Yes, I have. Where?
I lived in Farmington, Connecticut. I lived in Albany, Binghamton, and Fort Lauderdale.
How much money? How much money is your husband? How much family income are you going to need to have on an annual basis to support four kids?
I never. I don't have kids and I'm not.
Well, see, that's the [ __ ] problem now, ain't it? So if we're gonna have this flipping attitude, ma'am, I'm, I'm tell. Do me a favor. Okay? I'm give you. I'mma give you. I'mma give you a few. I'mma give you a few seconds to to kind of ramp it down because you don't want to go there. I'm having a conversation with you. I'm trying to show you something. I'm trying to learn.
Okay. Well, then you said you never thought about it. So it's time to think about it because you said this is what you want. Okay? So I'm asking about how much money do you think you're going to need to as a family annually to support four kids, you, your husband, and the kind of lifestyle you want that you would envision for yourself?
Um, for me to bring in like.
No, no, no, no, no. Your hus. Yeah, husband. Just overall, all together. Four kids, you and your husband.
I'm not good with money. So it's like $200,000.
You, you said associates. You live in Brooklyn. How much is your rent right now?
It's a lot.
How much is your rent right now?
Uh, $2,300.
So that's roughly almost three, $30,000 a year. That's for one person in the in a sugar shack in Brooklyn. So if you had two people, if you just multiplied rent, that's $4,600. So that's $6,000 right there. Just in two apartments. You're gonna put four kids in that? They're gonna need substantially more than $200,000.
I need more than that.
Yeah. See, that's why I need a husband. So he can know.
Yeah, but how much? Okay. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. But how much is your husband going to have to make? Because you're only supporting about 10% of this. How much is he going to need to make annually to have four kids that can go to college if you want to, that can travel nationally or internationally?
He has to be a millionaire, damn near.
Okay. See. Damn. I guess. See. Because see, this the funny thing. They don't think about the numbers. Because women in places that don't want to admit they don't expect to pay. They think because they have a vagina, the balance is a million dollars.
Well, can I go ahead?
I said, wait a minute.
I didn't say you.
I know. Well, because what I visioned was like my job will go into like things like. So he'll pay like the basic bills.
What do your, your associates is in? What is in theater? A [ __ ] degree. So your job ain't gonna pay nothing. See, number unmarriable. The actress, the creatives, the unmarriables. Oh, okay. Well, I'm going to. Because no, it doesn't matter. You don't. It doesn't matter what you make. You don't want to contribute more than 10% to the family.
No, I mean, like I want my. So at the end of the day, at the end of the day, ma'am, four children. Okay? Four children. What job are you going to have? Who's going to be raising these four kids? You can't have a job and four kids. Kids and not a substantial job. So to have, you want, you want your children upper class children are roughly $485,000, $500,000. You want $2 million worth of kids. If you live in Connecticut, hell, if you lived in, uh, Atlanta, it would run you about $350,000. So with another kid, you're talking about $400,000. If you're talking about New York City, about $850.
What kind of professions would a man need to make? What kind of profession would a man need to have to earn three-quarters of a million dollars or more legally?
These are all reasonable questions. Is it like a doctor? Lawyers? What kind of doctor? Surgeons? Heart surgeons? Probably cardiac surgeons.
Okay. Go ahead.
Um, I don't, like I don't know. I know I'm going. What I'm going to school for. So.
But man, that's fine. But if, if you want to have this man, sometime, don't you think you need to be able to identify it? Don't you think you might need to be cut off?
I'm sorry, you cut off.
Don't you think you might need to be able to kind of identify who this man is and what he does to kind of.
That's important. Yeah. So cardiac surgeon. What else?
I said a lawyer.
Is a lawyer? What kind of attorney? What kind of?
No attorneys. What kind of attorneys?
Uh, it's criminal. In a criminal. I don't know. I never lived in like.
This is, these are good questions. But you, now, now just for mem sake, you'll be 29 and when, uh, in two months. So you're almost 30 years old. And from a standpoint of thinking about a spouse for the life you said you want, because you've always wanted to be a wife and family and all these things. Because the story, the things you said as far as serious thought you put in on this conversation, nothing. So you just expect it to happen? You've done no planning? So it's like going to college and just taking a bunch of courses and then expecting to become an engineer or anything. It doesn't match.
Can a man go through life like this and get the outcomes you're talking about? Meaning he wants a wife and four kids because he has to pay for it.
Okay. Yeah, I see what you're saying.
Can a man go through life like this?
No.
Okay. I don't think anyone can. Because obviously he's not working for.
Well, women can. Women can. Women, honestly, obviously women can. Because just like you and the previous woman, most women think this just going to happen because you're good people.
I never thought. I never thought you had to plan to meet someone. You know what I'm saying? Like, so again, it's just supposed to happen. You're supposed to happen to meet a man who can afford for you to be a stay-at-home wife with a possible side business.
It doesn't matter, man. At the end of the day, you only want to pay 10% of the bills. So it doesn't matter if you are a stay-at-home millionaire. You don't want to pay any bills. He has to pay for the lifestyle, college. You want your kids to go to college. That mean that man has to have. No, he doesn't have to pay for the kids' college by himself.
I was talking about like bills, like the house. How are you going to pay for college if you can't even pay part of the, if you want to pay 10%, how you gonna pay for college and the kids' stuff?
Excuse me. I thought you were only talking about like home.
That's is that is the K. Man, the kids are part of the expenses. And see what I'm trying to explain is this is get that. But you should though. This is. But this is simple family planning. You don't have children. They are an expense. You said you want the kids to go to college. Were you expecting your kids to take out substantial student loans? Or did you expect? And then how are you going to pay for their college if you're only paying 10 to 20% of anything? 20% of any anything. 20% of the mortgage, light bill, phone bill, trips. 10% of anything. That's all you want to be responsible for. So that means at best, you'll be paying for 10% of the school. That's books. So basically, you're talking about you want a man who is in.
What percentage of men earn $100,000 or more in this country?
Don't know.
Yes.
15.
10. That was close.
You care if he's black or not?
No.
So the more money a man makes, the more racially loyal he tends to be. What percentage of black men, uh, earn $500,000 or more in this country?
Three.
One tenth of a percent.
Wow.
And then what do these kind of men who make this kind of money, who are cardiac surgeons, personal injury attorneys, high-level financiers, you know, high-level in companies and organizations? Oh, by the way, what's the oldest man you would consider dating? You're 28. What's your upper limit?
Um, probably like seven years older than me. Seven years.
Seven years. Is that what men hit their financial earning fin? Men hit their financial strive during 45 to 55. So for class. So everybody understands this is yet another woman. And this is what you guys have been taught. That you should find a young rich man that you're attractive to that wants to have a housewife, even though you weren't raised to be a housewife. So you can stay at home and be a luxury house. Do you want to have a housekeeper?
You expect that. You don't. You don't expect to have a housekeeper.
You want kids?
They're gonna be homeschooled.
The kids are going to be homeschooled or not?
That I did want want home.
Do you want to make? You don't want a housekeeper. You want someone to help you with prepare meals, chef, personal training. So again, this is why men under 30 aren't even. That's why all they trying to do is Netflix and chill. Because every man in your age range is making, if you're making $70,000, you're in the top 15%. And you're 28, about to be 29 years old. Talk about 35. And you told me at best two professions. And you don't even get out of medical school by until 30. Do you, do you mind? Do you expect to share your husband with other women?
No.
Okay. So you want them to be, uh, sexually loyal?
Yeah.
Is that impossible? So you expect to have a young millionaire who is who is earning and doing roughly 20 times what 10 to 20 times what the average man is doing? Well, actually twice. 10, 700,000. He's doing roughly 15 times what the average man is doing. But he doesn't get 15 women. See what I'm trying to let you guys understand just on the math.
So wait, why does he? All you L. Because man, here's a. I just asked you. I just asked you. I just asked you. Why, why, why does he? Where in history have men who are rulers, who in the top 10% of men, ever just had one woman?
That is a white American thing.
But never. They all have like seven wives.
But ma'am, you just made a. You just made a complete of yourself. But it's possible to have one woman.
She said this is a white American thing. It's possible to have one woman.
Ma'am, do you understand how ignorant that statement was? It, it is like that's something that was brought to America to like be monogamous and stuff? Or is it like a religious thing?
So being monogamous is a white American thing? Or having multiple women is a white American thing?
Oh, I don't know. Is it? I'm asking you. You said it.
What were you referring to?
I don't know. I want you guys to understand how rude these people are. Look at this. This is the modern woman on display. And she don't even realize she's just making herself look like a complete [ __ ].
So you belong to the streets?
I don't.
But bye.
Oh, yes, you. Yes, you do.
I don't.
You can say, ma'am, you're gonna be all over the place because you just made yourself look like a fool. How you're having a conversation with somebody, you pick up a phone, start texting. Start. And this is what you all. When, when sh. It doesn't. It doesn't. Ma'am, it doesn't matter. You're still having a conversation. You didn't answer the question. And this is what I want you to understand. This, this is why so many women who share your reflection, in particular, are by yourselves. Because you, when hit with the facts and the truths, you guys just shut down.
I'm listening. And I'm taking.
No, but you're not responding. I asked you the question. You said this is a white American thing. What's a white American thing? Bringing in monogamous stuff like the. Is that? Is it monogamous to be? Is it white am? One woman? Is it? Is that what you're referring to?
Yes. Because when I said, where in the world have men who had power and resources, have been royalty, when have they ever just been. And you said that's a white American thing. You didn't clarify.
So you're saying white men brought in monogamy through religion? Did they not?
I'm asking you.
Well, that's. I didn't say it. Because everywhere else they had multiple.
White. Uh-huh.
So for those who keeping score at home, what do the kind of men you want want from a woman?
Me? From a woman, period.
Oh, from a woman. Yeah. What do these, what do these elite-level men want from a woman? Men who are in extremely high demand, elite men.
But probably, uh, loyalty. Um, they want, I don't know, a partner. I, this is why I'm here to learn because I don't know.
Like they want cooperation and agreeableness.
I didn't want to say that. Sounds too much like a servant.
I was gonna. Well, ma'am, guess, guess what? Guess what? You can't make this [ __ ] up. They want the outcomes. But they don't want to do the job.
I never said I wouldn't mind doing the job.
Uh, it sounds too much like a servant. Yeah. I didn't want to disrespect. You want. But you want. But you want an elite-level king, ruler type man. So guys understand, they want women like women. They, they want it all. Then they want you to be a loyal. And then you still got to be sexually. She has to be sexually attracted to him, like him, and everything else.
Ma'am, have you ever dated a man who is earning $200,000 or more?
No.
I have a question though.
Go ahead.
Okay, so if a woman wants the, the loyalty and just one woman, one, whatever, whatever. The man also expects that, correct?
Say again.
So you said that the women only want the women want like loyalty, a king, this, that, and all of that. Everything that you said that a woman wants.
No, I said that's what you want. But a lot of women want that.
Yeah. No, I want just a family.
No, no, ma'am. Do you think what you just described was just a family?
Yeah.
But you was asking mad questions like making it. Oh, can you afford this and this and that? I was asking mad questions. And to be happy and loved. Like I think a lot of you know.
What you can't make it up. She thinks this is just a family. Four kids is just a family. To be able to pay for college. Did your family pay for your college?
Yes.
And you have no siblings?
Did you travel nationally and internationally with your family?
Yes.
But you have no siblings?
Yes. Correct.
And I'm. And so what's on display here is modern woman, only child syndrome, and cute privilege. And it's all coming together in a terrible mixture. See, this little sassy attitude that she's usually able to get away from people. Let her slide this [ __ ] in her life. Oh, yeah. Ma'am. Yeah, you. Yeah, you do. Yeah, you do. Yeah, you do. It's on. Ma'am, it's there. If I'm wrong, let the comment section determine it. But here's the thing, gentlemen. They're 35. Seven years older. I'm ask you a question. For the men, your degree, you're, you're, you got a theater degree, right? All right. Could you marry an average man? The average man in this country, black man earns around $41,000. The average white man, roughly $50,000. So let's just say, spit the difference, $48,000, $47,000 a year. Could you marry an average man? An average earning man?
No.
But an average earning man, he's not going to earn anymore. That's he's going to earn average. Could you, could you?
I would have to make a lot of adjustments.
So why, yes, there's. You'd have to make a lot of. Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, stop, stop, stop, stop, stop. Do you make over $60,000 a year?
Not yet. No.
I haven't kept. No, you, you don't. You don't. So you don't earn. You earn over $50,000 a year.
I haven't.
Want you earn over $50,000. So, so, so you would have to make a lot of. You would have to make a lot of adjustments to your expectations. But let's be honest, at this point, you can't afford the lifestyle you want. Not with a family.
No.
No. So could you marry an average man? And the answer was a tepid no. And then could you marry an average man and then have four kids with him?
No.
But I can marry one and have two or one. Probably one kid. One. One kid.
Oh, so, okay. But even one kid is still almost $280,000 a year. D. We're gonna have to put a lot of work. Now, see, the thing is, men already expect to do work. This is why I said, modern women, modern women, this has been a perfect demonstration of your women's expectations are astronomical. And you said you didn't want to say something about being agreeable or cooperative to because you didn't want to offend women or something like that. Did I get that right?
Yeah.
Because women are so sensitive nowadays.
Yeah.
But, but you didn't have, but you don't have any problem offending average men because you just basically told a.
Oh, yeah. Yeah, you did. Yeah, you did.
Saying that, oh, no, if you got all this, if you got this kind of money, you can get it. But that's okay. You can't make this [ __ ] up. You can't make it up, baby. She belongs to the streets. Gentlemen, what did I say on Monday? You better start betting these women, asking them about their previous relationships. And when you hear what she did with her ex, for whatever reason, bounce. I took that bullet so you don't have to. Did you think it was going to get better the further we went down the rabbit hole? Almost 29 years old. I haven't thought one [ __ ] about what how all this is going to cost. But I'm just got a theater degree and I'm, I'm cute. And I shouldn't have to think about it. And then the man who has to think about his life and plan it and everything else has to live life on purpose. And then a woman like that just go living life by the seat of your pants, thinks that a man should out there all sudden, well, I got all these options out here. Here all these other women want me. But I should just have to go out and focus on you and and deal with you. And what's he going to get? Does that? What is she going to deliver? You're going to incubate four kids, teach them, but he has to put you in a luxury lifestyle. Does anybody do? Do you ladies, where in the world do y'all think this is even close to being a fair deal? That's why the guys are just like. And the funny thing is, they honestly think that they're not doing. It's like, I'm not doing anything wrong. I'm nice. That woman probably really thinks she's. That's a nice. And it's no big deal because she didn't want to say, oh, you're not cooperative and agreeable. I don't want to offend the women. Okay. Could you marry an average man? I'd have to make some serious adjustments. To the average man. Was that offensive to you? Because it offended the [ __ ] out of me. For you, you'd have to make some serious adjustments. Oh, I'm sorry. Can you afford that right now?
Oh, no. I'm broke as [ __ ]. I don't make $50,000 a year. And my rent is $2,300. My rent, $2,300. And you don't make $50,000 a year.
H. $2,300. And that's without parking. If she does have parking, $2,300. Everybody keep. Man, her rent is $27,600. You make $50,000 a year. That's how much she has left. And that's before taxes. Some of she has left per month. We haven't paid utilities, groceries, nothing. So you wonder why average men are saying, forget marriage. Because the women that are at their socioeconomic level with her theater degree is because of the potential. I could do it. It's possible. I could do it. And think about it. My husband's not going to have to for college. I could do it. Okay. H. Let's do it this way. And the funny thing is, streets. Gentlemen, don't argue with women like that. We can have a conversation. Don't argue with folks like that.