Transcription
So there's a uh a a way that we can resolve things if we are taking to account other people's opinions and what's going on with other people conflict um conflicts usually come up uh based on how we are what are we putting out there and we have a chance to come to better ways of dealing with conflicts because really it two of the main keys to having successful relationships any kind of relationship especially a romantic relationship managing your own emotions you know how do you manage your own emotions and how good are you at conflict res resolution those two things will make a relationship or Break It they're huge if you're good at those two things you're good and discernment you have to be in a relationship with somebody that you can actually relate to that's a big one too um so we uh get better at um negotiating with others and figuring out how we can address certain issues so it's it's not a pleasant it's not a pleasant um experience but [Music] um we need to be careful that other people aren't being angry with us we are not arousing other people unnecessarily uh because that's was going to force us into figuring out oh how am I going to resolve this and sometimes we can make some good progress with the square because we might look at something or try to resolve thing something with different thinking than we approached it or started it with so it's a good thing um if we aren't too selfish too self-absorbed too argumentative uh and we look around and realize who has good things to offer and we take that into consideration if we're only considering ourselves it's not a very good day so let's look at Trine uh we understand oursel pretty well at the Trine we have a pretty good idea of why we're doing what we're doing and how to get more uh from the people around us based on just how we share our feelings and our needs and and what's going on with us our communication the quality of our communication just pays dividends under the tri so it's easier to enlist the help of others we are we have a pretty good uh you know amount of wisdom at this time so um we are open we are receptive we are listening to it others might have to say and it helps us to direct oursel it helps us to come to better Solutions or conclusions um you know ideas that we may not have had before um our thoughts are not muddled at the tri at the conjunction at the square at the opposition we're dealing with modled muddled thinking of clarity at the sextile and the TR that make it easy to discern Mercury is our discernment the sun makes it possible rest step is integration between our will our conscious will what we want and our thinking our decision making our problem solving ability or communication Mercury very good [Music] um uh as long as we're curious we're golden at the TR it's easy to be curious I there there aren't very people who are going to have a bad day when it comes to this one so that brings us to the opposition where we will find opposition from others in terms of them challenging our ideas or our opinions depending on our delivery oh it's so important at the square and particularly at the opposition it is so important to pay attention to your delivery of your thoughts your information because you are um potentially going to arouse uh anger um people who are going to challenge your ideas or call you stupid because they are not well thought out they might just be coming from more of a subjective opinion rather than wisdom or a place of actually having a really good argument so you will find that [Music] um if you are acting through the ego you could be shut down rather quickly it could be a humili experience with the opposition so don't talk out of your ass and maybe don't talk at all until you're really sure that you can back up what you're saying uh it we aren't um to uh to listen without um somebody pointing something out to us and we can get a lot out of it we can get a a lot of clarity out of the opposition we can but it usually comes in the form of tell somebody telling us something that we don't know or telling us to shut up or correcting us or giving us a piece of information that we that we didn't know so if we're open to that clarity abounds we can have the kind of clarity that we have at the sextile or the Trine or that kind of singleness of mind that we have with the conjuntion of as well but if we aren't listening then we aren't getting the best out of the opposition because if we're not listening we're just doubling down our own egoic we're we being too subjective we're not open to information or communicating in a way that is inviting others to give us their best and so sometimes you can fail at oppositions because we either have that aware wolf moment or that moment of awareness that we're like don't want to deal with that and we don't do anything with what we've come to see but and because we might you know come see that we're wrong or somebody might challenge us and we may not choose to accept that allow their opinion in or adjust or allow any flexibility that's when we have double down and we haven't achieved Clarity we haven't achieved awareness that we're hoping always to get at the opposition it's the best use of the opposition so you have to allow other people to talk to you you have to talk to others you have to cooperate um because that's where wisdom comes it can be a very wisdom filled day where we realize oh that's the key or that's the missing piece or that's what I'm doing wrong or you know sometimes when we're working on a problem solving an issue we can have a lot of it you know Under Wraps but there can be that 10% that's not contained and we may get the clue this particular day I won't come from from us it will not come from us but we might get it from others and um we have to do something with it with the opposition we have we have to be uh open to it so if you have a very egotistical mercury in general um a very inflexible Mercury uh this could be a more difficult Transit because oppositions are humiliating it's humiliating to admit that we don't know everything um or to admit that we're wrong or to allow some information in that maybe we just didn't know before if we allow that we're good because it sets us up for the last path of the hemispheric transit the last half of the year can be really great it can be better because we have attained a certain level of flexibility wisdom knowledge we're doing okay when it comes to getting our point across and getting other people to work with us and to cooperate with us uh so it's a great if we uh get the best out of it