10 WEAKNESSES of Men You Can EXPLOIT

10 weaknesses of men you can exploit. This is going to be an insane video.

Listen, if I'm going to share with you this information, you cannot tell anyone where you got it from because I'm not going to be held responsible if you use your new ability to control men in a bad way. Every one of the 10 weaknesses that I'm about to share with you is a different aspect of a man's psychological makeup that is so natural to him, he literally cannot control it. But knowing each one of these 10 weaknesses is the only way to ensure that no matter what type of man he is, you always have control over him. Let's begin.

First things first, we're going to start off with sex. Because men love sex. You're not going to control them with sex in the way that you're thinking. I'm going to say this is a different version of that. Sex is a desired destination for men or we can call it a desired outcome. Okay. Now that we understand that, we also have to understand a few things. On this journey to get to this desired destination, which is sex, he is going to pit stop along the way. See, men's desire to get here is something that you can always utilize to receive what you want from a man.

So, for example, right, you want to build a connection with a guy. When a guy meets you, he's going to have a desire to sleep with you, have sex with you. That's just the reality of life. In the process of him having a desire to sleep with you, you don't sleep with him on the first night, but you allow the teasing, you allow the tension, you allow the word play, the eye contact, the small touches, the gazes to make him feel like, huh, this might be on the horizon. And as he pursues that, he inadvertently ends up stopping at these destinations as well on his way to this ultimate destination.

Now, what I want you to do when you're using this weakness to exploit for men is I want you to understand this is your leverage point. Stop going into your relationships and thinking that from the very start I have to capitulate to what he wants in order for him to like me. Rather, I want you to understand he's here because in some way, shape, or form, he wants to get to this destination. Even men who want to build with you still want to get to this destination. Because the men who meet you even out at a party or an event and they approach you and they say, "I would love to take you out sometime and show you a nice dinner and take you on a beautiful date." They're still doing that because of their motivation, their through their attraction to you. That's why I put here gas as attraction because gas is motivating him and pushing him forward to then eventually get to these different stages of destination on his way to his desire for sex because the desire for sex for men is considered a weakness because they can't control their ability to desire that. Right? When they see a woman that they find attraction, they're automatically filled with gas and motivation to go and seek out that woman.

When a man is in an event or at a party and he sees a super gorgeous, beautiful woman, his mind is partially telling him, "Hey, go approach that woman, but his deeper deeper mind is telling him, you really like how that woman looks. You want to have sex with that woman, which is not a crime, but in the process of that, you're not just going to be able to go up to her and have sex with her immediately. You need to do some work before you're able to get there." And so he approaches you, he talks to you, he courts you, he asks you out on a nice dinner, you go on a nice dinner date, you meet all these other pit stops along the way, and you grow a a overall relationship where he realizes even more than I just want to sleep with that woman. I also love the person that that woman is. I also love her personality. I also love our relationship. I also love how she inspires me and makes me a better man. So yeah, even after I sleep with her, I also want other aspects of her more than just what's in between her legs.

For number two, we're going to talk about fantasizing. Okay, this one's very important. I want you guys all paying attention to this, okay? Cuz a lot of women make this mistake very easily. So this guy's head's really big. I drew his head really big. So this guy is mesmerized by you. He sees you. And let's say for the sake of example, just like the woman I helped in a private message the other day. By the way, if you have a private message for me, you can ask it down in the link in my description below where it says private uh relationship question and I will answer with a voice message.

So in this example, what I did when I helped this woman, she said, "I met a guy. This guy went to my friend because he knew my friend from a work event. He went to her to ask her for if he can have my number. And he said to my friend, "Oh my god, the friend that you came with to the work event, I've never seen a woman as gorgeous as her. The way she was struting, her eyes were ocean blue. I've never seen such a deep blue color. Oh my god, her hair was brunette, but it was so luscious and so shiny." And she was walking around. It was almost like she was gliding. I'm not joking. This is how the guy described her. Okay, that I was helping in a private question.

And what I mean when I say you have to exploit this weakness is I want you to understand men have a desire to fantasize about you. What does that mean? They want to when they see a woman that they deem to be really desirable, they want to be in that magical, fantastical state where they're mesmerized by you. They think you're a goddess. They think the way you walk, the way you talk, the way you do everything is so much better than every other woman that's ever existed.

Why do I specify though that this is such an easy mistake that a lot of women make? A lot of women when they're looking at themselves from a third perspective, an outside perspective, and they're having a guy be like, "Oh my god, you are just different." When they don't feel that same level of confidence within themselves, the first thing they say is, "Ah, [ __ ] Uh, you know what? I'm not that, you know, I'm not that amazing. You know, I've got pimples. My skin's not like glass. Oh, you know, when you saw me that day, it was my makeup." You take his desire to fantasize about you away because you almost want to prove to him that you're like a regular mundane everyday girl. And in some way, shape, or form, whether it's through your trauma or your experiences, you start to believe, oh, that's me being humble. I'm showing him how humble I am by helping him realize he doesn't need to fantasize over me. No, no, no. My eyes are regular. My body is regular. My hair is regular just like any other girls. Okay? I don't want him to fall for this magic trick and fall in love with a representation of me that's not real. No, no, no. Let men fantasize about you.

In fact, what I want you to do when you're exploiting their weakness is I want you to feed into their fantasies of you. If they describe you a particular way, oh, you're a goddess. Oh my god, your eyes are so blue. Feed into that. Go go go go onto your dates with him and do things that highlight your eyes. If it's wearing a darker eye shadow so your eyes really pop, or wearing a darker dress so it just compliments your eyes so well that they really pop. Not wearing glasses or something like that to cover up what he deems to be so amazing and so magical. Feed into his already existing fantasy of you. Because I promise you, if a man's talking about a woman and his description of her is, "She's like gliding. Oh my god, her eyes. Oh my god, her hair. Oh my god, her skin. I've never seen anything like that." Think about how a man will treat a woman who he describes like that versus how a man will treat a woman who he says, "Yeah, you know, she's cool, you know. Yeah, I mean, I guess she's a vibe, you know, she's, you know, good-looking girl, I guess."

Let's hop into point number three. So, we're going to talk about competition. Very important for men and it should be very important to you because you're going to exploit it. Why is competition important? Because men love to compete with other men. Okay? I want you to listen to me cuz I'm not trying to offend you, but I want you to understand this so that you can do something for yourself. Men love impressing other men. I'm going to say it again so you don't forget it. Men love impressing other men. They love it. They love it. Love it. Their favorite pastime. Okay. Mine, too.

The reason men love impressing other men is because back when we were cavemens and joined our brains. If I feel like a more manly, more capable man than you, I'm just better than you. I sit higher on the hierarchy, okay, of desirable men, which means I get all the riches. I get all the women. I got I got all the praise, okay? I'm the king of the castle. So, I always want to feel like I'm better than you as a man. And in order for me to feel like I'm better than you as a man, I have to have things present in my life that communicate I'm better than you as a man. So what are some of those things? Cars, houses, watches. Okay? Right? And of course, women. If you're with a more desirable woman, that communicates to other men when you're walking around, hey, I'm better than you. You see me better man than you. Don't think that you're on my same level. You see the woman I'm walking around with? That's not a woman you could ever talk to in a million years. I want it to be known. We're sitting at this dinner table. Just so you're aware, you can't talk to my woman. Me better man than you. Me do better than you. Me more capable, smarter, stronger, faster than you. Okay.

Now, I know it sounds very uh primitive, but even though we're not cavemen anymore, men still have that same deep burning desire to impress other men and communicate, I'm better than you. So, how do you use that to your advantage? You use that to your advantage by presenting yourself as the desirable woman that other men want. And you become in yourself, just being yourself, a representation of how men can show other men, I'm better than you.

How does that actually help you though when you become a representation of men being able to say, "I'm better than you." Because now he says, "I need to do more. I need to show her more. I need to give her more because if I want the most desirable woman and I'm in competition with these other men, all of these other men will also be throwing the kitchen sink at her uh in order to try and get her attention because they all want you. Now, I'm going to have to be on my best behavior. I'm going to have to put my best foot forward so that I can be the one that you end up choosing because you know I'm the best man. Okay? That way I can have you and then stomp on all these other men and show them na na boo boo I got the hottest girl. You don't have the hottest girl with the fattest ass."

The most important part of this cuz some of you will say well tell me how do I create competition? Am I supposed to talk to other guys? Am I supposed to flirt with other guys? Am I supposed to sleep with other guys in front of him? Is that competition? No. The easiest way to create competition in a man's mind and print yourself as a desirable woman is to simply paint the narrative. Now, there's two main way, excuse [clears throat] me, there's two main ways that you paint the narrative. One, very important one, the way that you talk about yourself. Never, ever, ever neglect how important it is to be mindful of how you talk about yourself when you're around and with a man. Do not talk about yourself as if you are an undesirable woman to other men. So many women make this mistake so easily because they think they're being more of their authentic real selves when they're on a date and they're telling this guy, "Yeah, this guy he used me. This guy he cheated on me 85 times. This guy he took advantage of me. This guy I let things slide for 3 years." Like stop doing that. Stop doing that. You are not allowing men to fantasize about you like we talked about before, but you're also making them feel there is no competition for you. In fact, you are the one begging to be with men. You are desperate for men. You cannot represent something that satisfies my ego, which we're going to talk about in a little bit. You're not going to represent any sort of competition when you talk about yourself as if there's no competition for you.

And the second part about this is it's not just about men or men themselves wanting you. It's also about how women interact with you as well. Because when you're a desirable woman, other women also want to be around you. So the second key element of that is him seeing how other people in your life interact with you. Are you a desirable person to be around? That your girlfriends also want to be around you. That your girlfriends also are attracted to you. And I don't mean like sexually attracted to you. I just mean attracted to you as in they want to hang out with you. They want to spend time with you, right? Is your family that way? Is your cousins, your brother, your sister that way? Do you have a magnetic personality where everyone always wants a little bit of your magic? Or are you someone who's very repulsive to everyone? You are very isolated. People don't want to spend a lot of time around you. You're always begging for other people's time instead of them asking for your time. Those are also things that when guys meet you, they're also observing to answer the question to themselves, are you a desirable woman? And is the fact that you're a desirable woman going to help me look at the other men and flex on them and say, I better man than you.

For number four, we're going to talk about ego. Now, I talked a little bit about ego in our previous point, but I want to expand on it a little bit more because I want you to understand how powerful ego is to men. The more important they feel to you, the better they feel about themselves. In my video where I discussed, and a lot of you love this video, how a man feels when he's inside you, I discussed this idea in detail, how men use sex with you as a way to validate their own self-worth. Okay.

Now, as it relates to ego in this sense, what I want you to understand is ego is something that you can use to control men. Whether it be and control them in a way where you want to give them positive single signals or whether you want to give them negative signals. When you want a man to feel good about what he's done, how he's treated you, of course, you feed his ego by giving him words of men love words affirmation. Okay? Telling him how good he is at taking care of you, at doing this for you, at going out of his way for you, reminding him of all the things that he's done for you, giving him your attention um when you want to make sure to reinforce that, hey, you're doing a very good thing. That will fill up his ego because he'll be like, "Damn, I really feel like the man."

Vice versa, when you want a man to feel deflated in his ego because you want to communicate to him negative signals so that he can know that I need to make an adjustment. You make him feel very unimportant. Now, this is where a lot of women mess up because when I say, "Oh, make him feel unimportant." The first thing to think, "Yeah, that's easy, Thompson. You've been talking about that. Yeah, I'll just ghost the guy. I'll just pretend like he doesn't exist." But even when I say make him feel unimportant, sometimes that's not even actually ignoring him. Even ignoring him sometimes is giving him too much energy and validation. When I really want you to deflate his ego, this is why I said we're going to go in deep in exploiting a man's weaknesses. Even sometimes when you're exploiting a man's weaknesses and you're using ego to control him. Sometimes what you want to do to deflate his ego is you want him to feel like he is actually completely unimportant. Not that you're ignoring him because you're upset at him, but that you don't even notice him or think about him.

Let me give you an [clears throat] example of what I mean by that. An example would be a guy who doesn't message you for a week and a half. He messages you after a week and a half. He says, "Oh, my bad. I was just busy at work and for this past week and a half and by the way, when I was busy at work, also my phone died for a week and a half and I just couldn't find a charger for a week and a half. So, I just couldn't text you for a week and a half, but my bad. You know, I'm back now. Everything's all good. I know you're probably in disarray, super confused, super discombobulated since I haven't been around, but you know, daddy's home." And then you respond to him and you say, "Oh, it's been a week and a half. I didn't even realize it had been that long. That's crazy. Wow. Uh, anyways, no problem. It's all good." That is ego deflating because ignoring him in a scenario like that, I'm just giving you an example, would be enough to tell him, "Oh, she's upset about something that I did. She's upset that I'm ignoring her. She's upset that I didn't talk to her for this week and a half. But when you respond like that, that makes him feel like, "Oh, I'm just actually unimportant. Oh, oh, sorry. I I didn't Sorry. I I feel small now. I just I don't know. Like that that you don't remember that I exist. You You can't You didn't realize that it had been a week and a half. So, I'm messaging you and you're just like, "Oh, wow. Sorry. I didn't even notice." What were you doing in that time? It's very ego deflating for men to feel like they don't matter to you. Even when you're mad at them, that at least communicates to them that they matter to you.

So, for number five, we're going to discuss a man's weakness to be soft. Okay? Very soft. Now, what I want you to understand is men are going to be when they face the world. When I say face to just out in public with their mom, dad, brother, sister, cousins, friends, co-workers, bosses, they're going to have to be hard. That's what most men think that they have to be and how they have to present themselves. When I say hard, I mean like, hey, you just go ahead, put your head down, get things done, do it how you need to do it. No matter how you feel, no matter what your emotions you're having, you just go out and you make something happen. Okay? That's how men have to be to the forward- facing world.

Now, the reason I say this is a weakness that men have is they're always going to have a desire to be more of their, I guess we can say, authentic or real selves with someone. Meaning, they don't always want to be hard 24/7. Even with their woman, of course, they're going to be incentivized to be hard for your woman, be strong for your woman, be a man for your woman. But there will come times where they do have a desire to be a little bit softer. When I say softer, what am I actually meaning when I say softer? I'm talking about just being able to express and be honest about having doubt, about having fear, about feeling disappointment, about having a range of emotions outside of just being angry and being horny. Okay? And a lot of men love to be able to have their woman as the one person that they feel comfortable enough being soft with at least sometimes. I know not all men are going to accept the idea of being soft with their woman all the time and I don't need them to. But understanding that their woman is still accepting and loving of them even at the times where they show their softer side. Okay?

Because and this is why I say it's kind of exploiting a man's weaknesses. Think about this. And this is why I drew this visual like this. If with everyone in his life, including his own family, he always feels the need to be hard. And with you, you are the only one that makes him feel comfortable enough even expressing other sides of his personality that are a lot closer to his heart that he doesn't share with anyone else. Now all of a sudden you've exploited him because if you walk out of his life, you don't just walk away with yourself, you walk away with his ability to be his real authentic self. Okay? You walk away with his ability to express himself in ways that he would never be able to express with all these other people in his life. And the reason I say that that's exploiting a man is because now you've just exercised a lot of leverage over him in this relationship that makes him less likely to allow you to just walk away. Your value is even more than what you contribute just as yourself. Your value also represents what you allow him to be with himself and for himself when he's able to be his softer side with you as well.

Number six, we're going to talk about rejection because I love the idea of using men's fear of rejection against them. I I know it sounds horrible. You have to understand whenever a man approaches you, he is always going to be nervous of the possibility that you could reject him. Yes, of course you could accept him. I drew you without any legs. Yes, of course you could accept him and of course you could have a desire to be with him just as much as he has a desire to be with you. But there's always this possibility of rejection.

Now, I should have drawn my other points here, but what I would have drawn in this rejection section here is if you are on the fence about how you feel about a guy, it causes him to do a couple of things because of his fear of being rejected. It causes him to say, "You know what? Let me pitch myself to you. Let me sell myself to you. Let me sell you on the idea of what I can do for you and what I can do for this relationship to prove to you that you don't have to be on the fence. I'm the surefire pick." What's an example of that? An example of that would be a guy approaching you in the club, let's say, and he says, "Oh my god, I've never seen a woman as beautiful as you. I've never seen a woman as attractive as you. I would love, let's say after a conversation you guys have back and forth, he says, I would love to get your number and you know, um, show you a good time. Let's say he says that.

Now, you respond because you want to exploit his fear of rejection to get something a little bit more out of him. You say, uh, [sighs and gasps] you know, I could give you my number. I could, but you also could be Ted Bundy. And I don't I don't know. I don't like the idea of giving my number out to random strangers. I don't even know what you're going to do with my number. Okay, you could be giving it away to someone else. And so now you're making it seem that, huh, you're kind of on the fence, but now that he's already approached you, he's like, damn, we already had this conversation. She's a vibe. She's super sexy. I would love to penetrate myself inside of her. So, I have to walk away with her contact information. I can't just let it end here. And if she's on the fence, well, what must I do now? I've got to show her, hey, no, I'm going to do something with your number. Hey, I'm going to take your I'm going to do this. We're going to actually build something off of this.

So, what does he say in his response to you? "No, no, no, no. Haha, you're funny, Ted Bundy. But no, like, I'm going to get your number and then we'll go out somewhere. I'm going to take you out somewhere nice. D." So, now he's forced to sell you on the idea that I'm actually going to do something with your number. and specifically, I'm going to do something that you would actually want me or like me to do that will show you that I'm actually a serious guy. Now, all of a sudden, you've used his fear of being rejected to exploit the fact that he obviously doesn't want to be rejected by a woman he desires, but now he feels it's necessary to sell himself. Okay? And in that same sense, you can take it and apply it to other things in your relationship, even when you're in the relationship with the guy already to kind of make it be like, "Oh, well, I'm on the fence." Right? And then you just allow that space of you being on the fence. Understanding that that man has a desire for you to let him step forward and say, "You're on the fence. Let me show you why you don't need to be on the fence anymore."

For number seven, we're going to talk about fixing things. Now, I want to explain to you this kind of chart thingy triangle. I know this kind of looks weird. This says desires here. Okay, I should have drawn this better. What I want you to understand though is men have a desire to take action. That's what's natural to them, especially when it relates to their woman and the woman that they uh want to be with. They always are going to have a desire to take action for that woman to make her happy. That's why we have the saying happy wife, happy life. So, I drew an arrow. Men have a desire to take action on your desires because your desires are the things that make you happy. So I drew an arrow from you to your desires because you want those things. Now this man also desires you and because of his desire for you, he takes action for you and on your desires.

So instead of focusing your energy on trying to get a man and force a man to do certain things for you or tell him he has to do A, B, and C in order for you to like him or in order for you to feel good about this relationship, rather than focusing on that, all you focus on is you focus on expressing clearly and concisely what your desires are. Because when that man actually actually keyword actually has a desire for you. Once you express your desires, he automatically has a desire to take action on your desires. An example of that would be if you love red roses and you're constantly talking about how you love red roses. I gave this example when I was talking about how to get anything you want in that episode um about feminine energy. If you have deep desires for red roses because of what they mean to you, because of what they represent to you, because of how beautiful you think they are, because of how amazing they smell, and this man wants you and he wants to make you happy, all of a sudden the best most logical way for him to take action on your desires is to get you red roses for a date, for Valentine's Day, for an occasion that feels special. Because he understands if I get her those red roses, if I take action on that desire, then she will be happy because that's something that she wants and I want that woman.

You're going to want to argue with me on this one. Some some women love to argue with me on this one. Okay, for number eight, we're going to talk about leading because you have to understand when men step into their masculine energy, they want to lead. Okay, there's nothing wrong with that. In fact, the smartest women exploit that. Okay, it's I'm not trying to be mean to you, but it's only the uninformed, I'll say, women that fight against this idea because they can't fathom the idea of a man leading them.

Let me use this example to communicate why this is an important aspect of a man psychology to exploit and why it's amazing for you. Let's say you're in the jungle, okay? And this it's just you and this man. You guys got to get out of the jungle. So someone has to clear a path. Now you could say, "I'm a big STRONG WOMAN. I'M AN INDEPENDENT WOMAN. No man will lead me. No man will conquer me. I am going to lead us and get through this path. I'm going to slice through it and do everything I need to do to get us to the other side." So you start slicing through it. And because you're a smart, intelligent, amazing woman as you are, I'm not saying that you're not. You do such an amazing job leading this path, slicing the trees down, fighting against the wild animals, the snakes and the bears, walking against, you know, all this treacherous things, poison ivy and things that are on the ground, right? You're doing such a great job. He says, "Oh, I guess um I can just sit back, relax, and follow your lead because you're doing such a great job. I don't need to interrupt what you're what you're doing. You have a flow. I'm just going to go after whatever you say to go after, and I'm going to follow what you say is best." Right?

Now all of a sudden, you're taking the lead. As you're taking the lead and you're slicing through the jungle and you're fighting off the wild animals and the poison ivy, you're looking back and you're thinking, "This guy's so useless. I'M OVER HERE DOING ALL THE WORK. I'm sweating. I'm hot. I'm disturbed. I'm I'm dirty. I'm disgusting. I'm fighting wild animals. I'm out here risking my life. And this man's just following behind me, walking the path behind me, having an easygoing time. And I'm over here struggling. and I'm taking care of me and him. What the hell is the point of having this man? It's like having a useless child." So, you'll get frustrated, right?

And the reason why weakness is this is a weakness that you can exploit from men is because in their masculine energy, they want to take that lead. They because when they take that lead, they get to feel like a man. When they get to feel like a man, you're more attracted to him, right? Because if we reverse that situation where he's the one cutting through the jungle and he's the one leading the way and you're like, "Wow, this guy's doing a great job. I don't even have to do anything." Now you're more attracted to him. As you're more attracted to him, he's also more attracted to himself because when he looks himself in the mirror psychologically, he feels more like a man because he's like, "Yeah, yeah, yeah. I took manly control over that situation. Yeah, yeah. Don't talk to me any type of way. I had a man around here around these parts." But it's good for men to feel that way because when they feel that way, this is going to sound graphic, they're able to get harder, and I really mean harder, stiffer, stronger, because when they feel that way psychologically, it's good for their ego. It's good for their bravado. Then when they're then when they're conquering you, they're like, "Yeah, I am the man." And they feel like the man. You also feel like he's the man. You guys are having a better relationship dynamic because he gets to feel like the leader, i.e. he gets to feel like the man.

So when I say you exploit that, you would do that by encouraging men to be leaders. By letting them know through your communication and saying, "I trust in your ability to make the decision. I trust in your ability to make the best decision for both of us. I know that you're smart enough, intelligent enough to get this done and figure this out." All of a sudden, he's like, "Whoa, I never hear that from people. I always hear people talk down on me. I always hear people say that I can't do this and I can't do that. You're telling me you just trust me to make the Okay. Okay. So, I'm going to be the leader today." And he looks himself in the mirror. You You a leader today. You a effing lead. Yeah, dog. You a leader. YEAH, DOG. And it's good. Okay. You end up getting what you want out of the man because he leads. he ends up getting what he wants because he feels good about himself and you guys share in a more healthy dynamic.

Point number nine, imagination. So, this is one. The reason I say to exploit this, sometimes when you're a really good woman, there's nothing wrong with being a good woman, [sighs and gasps] but sometimes [laughter] you really, really are very scared and afraid of doing anything to upset your man or give him any sort of discomfort. Let me tell you why that's bad. And let me tell you how you can exploit men with imagination.

Let's say you are feeling very neglected or undervalued by the guy that you're talking to. You go out with your girlfriend and you're used to like telling your man every step of the way exactly what you're doing, exactly where you are, exactly how long it's going to be until you get home. Like you're just used to updating him, updating him, updating him. And actually, you update him so much he doesn't even ask for updates. like he barely even texts you the whole night, but you're just on your phone because you love staying connected to your man while you go out. Then one day you say, "You know what? I'm done with that today. I feel like he's been neglecting me. All the things I've been doing for me, he hasn't been paying attention to me. Today, I'm going to make it about me and enjoying myself with my girls, having fun." So, you go out to dinner and now he's kind of used to the idea, the routine of you messaging him throughout the night and updating him on everything. And now that you're not updating him on everything, he's asking you, "Hey, what's going on? Where are you at right now? Hey, uh, you with the girls? You doing this? You doing that? Who's around? Take a picture for me. Send me a picture. Send me a Snapchat." You usually send me videos of everyone that's there. Who's all there? What are you doing at this time? When are you going to be back?

Now, I'm not saying this to say, "Oh, you should completely ignore him throughout the night and make him think that you just disappear, right?" but understanding how to allow his imagination to just build any scenario that it might build. Excuse me. And in this example, the scenario that it's going to build in his mind is if she's not communicating to me what she's doing like she usually does, maybe there's men around. Maybe she's enjoying herself a little bit too much. Who's in that Snapchat? Who's in that Instagram story post? Who's in that Facebook post? Why isn't she posting? Why is she looking so good? Are other guys approaching her? I'm starting to sweat now. Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, answer my call. Hey, answer my FaceTime. Hey, where you at? What are you doing right now? Right?

And the reason I say that is sometimes allowing a guy's imagination is the best way to get his attention. Because sometimes a man's own imagination is the scariest thing to himself, especially as it relates to his woman. Because the first thing that's going to ring off in a man's mind the moment his woman doesn't seem as interested in being all up on him and is seeming to have fun outside of him is going to be like, "Are men around? Are men courting her? Are men uh flirting with her? Are men approaching her?" Right? But sometimes that imagination in itself is good because in reality you're just out with your girls and you're going to be back uh after you finish your dinner. And in reality, there were never any men around. And in reality, you have picture and video evidence that even after the fact, you can prove to him that there were no men around. So even though he wants to call you out on, oh, there was this and there was that and why didn't you answer me, all you have to say is, hey, I proved to you there were no men around after the fact. After the fact after the fact, I just let your imagination run wild, but there were no men around. And I have proof that I came back when I was supposed to be back. But also, I was able to enjoy myself with my girlfriends because I'm allowed to enjoy myself with my girlfriends. That's not a crime.

And this is why I say it's a weakness that you can exploit from men. Because sometimes when they're not valuing you, you can use their imagination and where it naturally runs wild to when you stop paying so much attention to them to help him snap out of it. Hey, hey, remember I'm that I'm that girl. I'm I was going to say I'm that b word, right? You remember that. I just want you to know that I'm that b- word. Maybe because I'm all up on your bumper and I'm texting you so much when I go out and I'm always telling you exactly what's going on with me. Maybe you done forgot that I'm that girl. But let me just remind you because if I stop texting you and stop being overly communicative, your imagination going to run wild. All of a sudden, you going to be reminded of how hot I truly am.

For our 10th weakness, we're going to discuss the roller coaster. Now, I put intensity here and this right here is going to be time. I want you to understand this roller coaster because it is such an important part of men. I know it sounds toxic, but I'm going to tell you the truth. I'm not going to tell you a lie. Men need to go through es and flows in their emotions towards you and the intensity of those emotions to actually build real feelings for you. This is what the roller coaster looks like. You start at the bottom here with desire. As you're going up, you're building what we call anticipation. Because this desire here, it triggers a motivation to say, "Hey, I really desire this woman. I love spending time with her. She's such a good vibe and she is so so sexy. So, I want to be around her more. I need to take action on my desire by asking her out on a date. I need to see her again soon." So, he asks you out on a date when he's at this desire point. Then eventually you guys organize a date and he's building anticipation before the next time he's going to see you because obviously he doesn't get to see you the same day. He shouldn't be getting to see you the same day. He shouldn't be getting to see you the same day. So he's building anticipation on the next time he's going to see you. Then when he finally sees you, there's an explosion of emotion. I don't mean his pee pee. I'm talking about there's an explosion of the emotion in his mind and his spirit and his soul because he is so glad to finally see the woman that he's been desiring and anticipating seeing for so long. Now that he's finally seeing you, this explosion of emotion feels amazing. Now, this explosion of emotion doesn't last long because you're not going to be on marathon dates. This explosion of emotion lasts approximately 2 hours for your date and then he is left with what we call the high. When I say the high, it's that residual feeling that you feel after you just saw someone that you really really like and that you had a great time with. You kind of like drive your car and you're like smiling or you're like at home and you're replaying everything that you guys talked about and the fun that you had and the experience that you had. He also gets that. But we want him to get that. We want him to experience that high. And of course, the high is the highest right after he experiences you or has that explosion with you. And then after a while, the high kind of dwindles down as the days go by. But then eventually the high bottoms out into becoming desire again, which is the desire to see you again and spend time with you again, which leads us back into the same cycle of him being motivated through that desire and then building anticipation to the next explosion.

Why do I say that that's a weakness that you want to exploit in men? Because when you understand that men have to literally have to literally have to go through this process to build their real actual feelings for you, then you become patient in understanding I'm not rushing anywhere. In fact, when I really want the guy that I like to like me, I'm going to exploit the fact that this process is going to build him the strongest, deepest feelings for me. So, even when I want to see him back to back to back to back to back. No, no, no. I'm not going to do that. I'm going to exploit the fact that I know this is going to really set him off. This is what's really going to get him into me. Not how much he says he wants to see me back to back to back or spending eight nights at his house in a row. This is what's going to get me in a place where he's madly in love with me. And I can use this to my advantage because when I can get a guy more invested in me with deeper feelings for me, all of a sudden it becomes easier for me to be in a relationship with this type of man because I get to be in my feminine energy even more because now I don't have to beg for things. I just end up receiving them because he wants me and loves me so.