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Hello guys, it is me Victoria, and today I make another video for guys trying to help them have better success with women. So I need to relate a story to you, which is about when I was on the dating market. And I would go on dates with guys, and I would always separate the guys into one of two categories in my head. And I'm not proud of this, but this is just like how it happened subconsciously. I would just instantly see a guy, and within, you know, a couple of minutes, I just kind of knew if I could sleep with him or not. And it was because I was sorting him into one of two categories, like I said, in my mind.
The first category was just like, I can't. Like, I I liked him, maybe I think he's attractive, maybe he seems like a really nice person, maybe he seems like, you know, he's super successful and smart and funny, but I can't. So it's a no. It's a no from me. And then the other category was like, I'm getting a vibe. I'm getting an energy that makes me say, I'm open to this possibility. Yes, I could potentially sleep with this guy.
So what was the difference separating one guy from the other kind of guy? Well, this is kind of hard to say, but I used to think it was called it was confidence. But it's not just confidence, because what is confidence? It's really, when it comes down to it, I believe personally, a matter of BDSM. Yes, BDSM, dominance and submission. Was the guy acting? Was he giving off dominant signals? Was he giving off a dominant vibe? If he was, I kind of translated that in my head as confidence before I really knew as much about BDSM. And yeah, I thought, you know, he's confident, I could go through with this in the bedroom. But if he didn't give me any of these dominant signals, I'm just like, I don't really feel like working in the bedroom to make him feel comfortable, to teach him the ropes, to kind of like baby him. I selfishly wanted to have the sexual experience of my dreams.
So anyway, let me get onto the six tips that I have compiled that men can use to send off dominant signals to girls. In other words, to subtly Dom a girl on a date. And yes, being a Dom, it doesn't have to be like being a dominatrix full-out, you know, like, no. It can just be, it's very subtle, and in my opinion, subtle is best. So without further ado, first tip you can do to safely Dom a woman on a date. So first thing you can do is call her by a pet name in a joking way, like baby, sweetheart, darlin'. This, I thought of this because my boyfriend recently did something like this. He was kind of joking and he went, "Hey there, a little darlin'." Okay, this probably sounds really stupid, but um, you can kind of like, let's say, you know, some girl, she might not really appreciate being called sweetheart, baby, on a first date. You don't know her. But if you kind of do it in a joking way, kind of almost like making fun of it, it will still have an effect. So you could just be like, "Hey sweetheart, come here," or something, and you kind of laugh, and she kind of laughs too. Inside it maybe uh getting to her.
So number two tip is express anger. Like maybe it's about, you know, you read an email or something like, while you're on the date with her, and you're just like, "Oh my god, I can't [ __ ] believe this!" and you get like angry, and you swear, and you kind of just like unleash raw emotion. That is attractive to a girl because she senses, "All right, he doesn't have a problem expressing emotion. Well, passion. I like that. Like where this is going." It sends like a subconscious signal to her like, you know, he's not scared. He's not just like scared to unleash.
So number three tip you can do is compliment her appearance a lot, but not at really the appropriate time. So like, maybe appropriate time would be like, you first meet her, and you're just like, "Hey, it's nice to meet me, and you're very beautiful," or something like that. No, like, basically interrupt the conversation. Interrupt her when she's talking about something not related to you know, like she's talking about her job, let's say, and just interrupt and just be like, "Can I just say, your hair is amazing?" or "You're so beautiful," or "You have beautiful eyes," or "You have the most beautiful face," or "Your skin is amazing," or something like that. Some comment about her appearance. Or like, "I love your dress, it's extremely sexy," or something like that. At inopportune times because the fact that you're kind of like interrupting to bring it back to sex, basically, it's like it kind of makes the girl be late feel objectified in a good way. Controversial stuff here. Oh no.
Number four tip you can do is talk about guy stuff, like sports. The more you can create, you know, polarity sometimes, such as deep down gets under the skin. It's like on the one hand, it's like, "Oh my god, sports." But the same time, it's like, "I know nothing about sports." It's very guy thing. So it kind of creates like this old school, you know, attraction vibe, which you're going for if you're trying to dumb a girl on a date.
Number five tip is tease her. Yeah, there's a lot of YouTube videos online how to tease a girl, which I feel can explain this a lot better than I can. Like, I'm not great at teasing people myself, but a lot of guys just do it great. Um, so look up YouTube videos, how to tease a girl, like, or how to flirt by teasing. That is like mental domination for a girl. It's kind of like, for me, especially, it's like, "You can outwit me, you can outsmart me." All of a sudden, I'm attracted.
So, then six is ask her about sex. Bring the conversation back to sex. Whenever a guy does that, you know, I kind of try to like stay cool on the outside. I'm like, "Mm-hmm, mm-hmm." But inside, I'm just like, it's just like a cauldron that starts like bubbling and boiling. And I'm just like, "Just stay cool, stay chill." But inside, it's like, you know, forces are affecting her that you may have no idea that.
So anyway, these are six tips to Dom a woman on a date. Subtle, I should say. Six subtle ways to Dom a girl. Yeah, I think these are really effective. Try them out and comment below. Do you think it's somehow like immoral to Dom? To Dom? What do you think of BDSM? Comment down below.