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There is a strange paradox that exists in the financial markets that that almost nobody talks about. The people with the most money, the people with the largest teams of analysts, the people with the most sophisticated technological systems, are carrying something on their shoulders that they cannot escape, the trap of their own greatness.
And you, the person sitting alone in front of a screen with a small account, no team, no fancy office, no one who knows your name, actually possess something that they would willingly give up a great deal to have. That thing has no name in any textbook. No one teaches it in trading courses, and most retail traders go through their entire trading lives without realizing they are holding it in their hands.
It is the ability to disappear, not in a spiritual sense, in a very practical sense, a very physical sense, and a very valuable sense in the market. You can step in and step out, and the market never even knows you were there. And I am going to explain why that matters far more than you think. That advantage is invisibility, and I will spend all of this time telling you why invisibility is something that the giants of the market would gladly pay hundreds of millions of dollars to have, yet can never buy.
Imagine this. You are standing beside a lake early in the morning. The surface of the water is so calm that you can see every cloud reflected beneath it. Then someone throws a huge rock into the middle of the lake. You immediately see it. Waves spread outward in circles. The surface trembles, and those ripples can continue for minutes, sometimes even hours, before the lake returns to normal. That is what happens when a large investment fund enters the market. They cannot hide. Their size is their greatest betrayal. They want to buy quietly, but they create noise like a tsunami.
Now imagine a grain of sand falling into that same lake, gently, silently, not a single ripple, not a single circle spreading outward. The lake remains calm as if nothing happened. The grain of sand reaches the bottom of the lake, and nobody knows, nobody sees, nobody feels it. That is you. That is the retail trader. And instead of seeing that as something small, I want you to start seeing it as a form of power.
Let's talk about large institutions first, so you can understand why their size is the heaviest burden they carry into the market every day. A large investment fund, let's say they manage several billion dollars, and they want to buy a stock. They cannot simply press a button and buy immediately. If they suddenly buy such a large amount, their own buying activity pushes the price higher. They become their own enemy. Every time they buy, the price rises. Every time they sell, the price falls. They move the market with their own body, like an elephant trying to walk through a small room without breaking anything. That is almost impossible.
So, they have to split their orders. They have to spread their buying and selling across many days, sometimes many weeks. They have to hire the most sophisticated algorithms available to hide their trading footprints. And even after doing all of that, the market still notices them. Sharp traders can still read the order flow. Unusual volume activity still reveals their intentions. That is the price of being enormous.
And you, you buy 100 shares or 1,000 shares or even 10,000 shares, and nobody cares. Nobody looks at their screen and says, "Oh, a retail trader just entered a position. We need to adjust our strategy." That never happens. You enter and exit without leaving any trace in the market, without triggering any reaction from competitors, without activating any defensive algorithms from large institutions. You are quite literally invisible.
And what does that mean in practice? It means you can enter exactly where you want, not approximately where you want, not somewhere within an average price range, but on that exact candle, at that exact price, at that exact moment that you believe is best. That is something no investment fund in the world can do at their scale.
It means you can exit immediately when you need to. When the market changes, when the story you told yourself about that trade no longer makes sense, you can press a button and be gone in seconds. No need to split orders. No need to worry about crashing the price. No need to notify a board of directors. No emergency meeting with the risk management team. You decide and the market never even knows what you decided.
It means you can completely change direction in a single day. Long in the morning, short in the afternoon. Nobody asks why. Nobody demands an explanation. Nobody writes an article about fund X suddenly reversing its market outlook. You simply observe a new reality, adjust and continue. That is a kind of freedom that giants will never have.
But, this is where the story becomes more interesting. And this is also where I think many retail traders are missing a very important perspective about the true nature of what they do. There is a question I want you to think about. What is the real difference between a trader and a value investor? It is not time frame. It is not analytical tools. It is not the asset class.
The deepest difference lies in the level of emotional commitment to what they are trading. A value investor in the style of Warren Buffett buys a company and is willing to live with that company through every cycle. They understand management. They believe in the business's model. They accept that there will be terrible years, losing quarters, periods when the entire market turns its back on the company. And yet they stay. It is a long-term relationship, more like a marriage than dating. They do not leave when things become difficult. They live through the ups and downs and grow alongside the business.
Traders are different. Traders do not marry the market. Traders do not swear loyalty to a stock or a currency pair. Traders enter the market under a short-term contract, long enough to capture a specific price movement and then leave when that movement ends or when reality fails to unfold as expected. That is not disloyalty. That is the nature of the profession.
And this creates a very interesting psychological requirement. A trader must learn how not to fall in love with anything they trade. Let me explain why this is so difficult. Human beings are designed to love, designed to attach, designed to protect things they have invested time and effort into. When you spend hours analyzing a stock, when you read every financial report, when you watch every related analysis, your brain begins to form an attachment. It begins to think that this stock belongs to you, that your analysis is correct, that you must defend this view.
And that is when the trader's advantage disappears. Because when you love a trade, you you no longer see the market objectively. You only see signs that confirm you are right. You ignore or rationalize away the signs that show you are wrong. You move your stop loss lower when price reaches it, because you cannot accept being stopped out. You add to a losing trade to lower your average price, because you are convinced the market will eventually come back to validate your analysis. You turn trading into an argument with the market, and the market, as you already know, never argues back. It simply moves. It does not care about your opinion.
The advantage of the retail trader, that advantage of invisibility and flexibility, only becomes truly valuable when the trader has the ability to enter and exit without being bound by emotion. When you can look at a losing trade and say, "All right, this story is not unfolding the way I expected. I will leave and find another opportunity." Then you are using your advantage correctly. But when you look at a losing trade and feel that the market is personally attacking you, that you need to prove yourself right, that you cannot leave with a small loss because doing so would mean you were wrong, then you have turned your advantage into a burden.
And this is something I want to say very deeply, very clearly. The flexibility of the retail trader is not a technical characteristic. It is a psychological characteristic, and to truly possess it, not just have it in theory, you must practice something that sounds simple but is incredibly difficult to do, acceptance.
Acceptance is a word people often use, but very few truly understand within the context of trading. Acceptance is not passivity. It is not sitting there doing nothing and saying, "Whatever the market wants to do, I accept it." No, acceptance in trading is an active and conscious act. Let me describe it this way. When you enter a trade, you are making a bet on a scenario. That scenario may be that price will rise after breaking a certain resistance level, or that price will fall after forming a certain pattern. That is the story you are telling, and within that story, there is a part that you can control, which is your entry, your position size, and your planned exit. And there is a part that you cannot control at all, which is whether the market will move the way you predicted.
Acceptance means honestly acknowledging that division. You do your part well, and you allow the market to do its part. You do not pretend that you can control the outcome. You do not believe that if you analyze deeply enough, if you study enough charts, if you follow enough indicators, you can force the market to move the way you want.
Acceptance means that when a trade hits your stop loss, you do not need to understand why. You do not need to know whether a large fund was dumping shares, or unexpected news appeared, or some algorithm was triggered. You only need to know that your story did not unfold according to plan, and you leave.
Acceptance means that when a trade wins, and you exit according to plan, but then price continues another 30% higher, you do not sit there torturing yourself for exiting too early. You did exactly what you planned to do. The rest belongs to the market, not to you.
Acceptance means understanding that the market has no obligation to become rational at the exact moment you need it to be rational. The market operates in its own way, through liquidity, through money flow, through the psychology of millions of participants acting at the same time. And no individual, no matter how skilled their analysis may be, can accurately predict every one of those variables.
But here is the interesting part, and I want you to pay very close attention to this. Acceptance does not make you weaker. It makes you more flexible, and that flexibility, combined with the invisible advantage of the retail trader, creates a kind of strength that large institutions genuinely cannot possess.
Let's talk about a specific example. In the year 2020 when COVID-19 began causing panic across global markets, large investment funds could not get out quickly. Not because they did not know what was happening. Not because they lacked information, but because their size imprisoned them. When you are holding billions of dollars in assets, you cannot sell everything in a single day without crashing the market another several dozen percent, which would only increase your losses. They became trapped inside their own positions.
Meanwhile, a retail trader could look at the screen on a morning in February of 2020, see that the story was changing, press the button to exit every position, and sit back watching the market fall 35% without losing a single dollar. They were objective enough and agile enough. They could even reverse direction and short the market, making money while the large funds were bleeding. That is not an example of superior analytical talent. It is an example of the advantage of small size and psychological flexibility.
Now, I want to discuss another aspect of this advantage that few people mention, the absence of pressure. An investment fund manages other people's money. It is not their money. It belongs to thousands, sometimes millions of investors who trusted them. That creates unimaginable pressure. They must report performance every quarter. They must explain to management why this month's returns lag the benchmark. They must meet with investors and provide convincing explanations for every trading decision. They must comply with hundreds of legal regulations regarding what they can and cannot do. They must write reports. They must organize conferences. They must maintain a professional image in public, even when panic is consuming them internally.
All of that creates pressure, not to make the best decision for the market, but to make the best decision for the image of the fund. That is a very important difference. Because of that pressure, many funds cannot buy when the market is collapsing the hardest, because such a move would be seen as reckless. They cannot exit early when the market is at peak euphoria because that action would be viewed as a mistake if the market continued higher. They are bound by the expectations of others, by the need to appear intelligent to the people paying them.
And you, you do not need to look intelligent to anyone. You only need good results, and that is an enormous freedom. When you cut a bad trade quickly, nobody calls you asking why. When you decide not to trade for a week because the market is unclear, nobody sends an email demanding an explanation. When you completely change direction because the market story has changed, there is no committee that must approve that decision. You are yourself, and you are accountable to yourself.
This sounds simple, but I want you to truly think about the depth of it. One of the biggest sources of bad trading decisions is trading for other people instead of trading for the market. You trade because you want to show results to your friends. You trade because you do not want to admit to yourself that you were wrong. You trade because you feel that if you do not place a trade today, then you are not working hard enough. You trade because of the fear of missing opportunities that other people seem to be enjoying. All of that is trading for other people, and all of that will cost you money.
The retail trader's advantage only truly works when you learn how to trade entirely for the market, when every decision is based on what you see on the chart, what price action is telling you, rather than what other people think about you.
I want to pause here to talk about something that I believe is extremely important, and it relates to how you see yourself within the market. There is a powerful full temptation, especially when you are new, to try becoming something bigger than you really are. You read stories about famous traders. You watch videos about people making millions. You hear stories about legendary trades, and you begin wanting to do the same things. You want to trade like a large institution. You want to think strategically on a massive scale. You want to see yourself as an important player in the market.
But I am going to tell you this, that is a trap. When you're trying to trade like a large institution while your account only contains a few thousand dollars, you are giving up the only real advantage you have. You are trying to imitate someone else's weakness instead of developing your own strength. Your real power comes from recognizing and embracing your smallness.
Grain of sand does not try to become a rock. A grain of sand understands that its strength lies in being able to fall without creating waves, to slip into spaces that a rock can never reach. In the market, there are small short-lived opportunities that are not worth the attention of large funds, yet are more than enough for a retail trader to generate meaningful profits. A small breakout in a low-volume stock, a quick reversal over a few hours, a powerful move during a special trading session. Those opportunities mean nothing to a large fund because they cannot enter and exit quickly enough with their massive capital. But for you, those opportunities are completely available and completely tradable. Recognizing that is recognizing your real advantage.
However, and this is the part where I truly want you to sit up straight and pay attention. Flexibility does not appear naturally. It is not something you can read in a book and immediately apply. It is the result of a long and difficult training process. The market is not a place for people who want comfort. It is not a place where if you follow a certain formula, results will always arrive exactly the way you expect. The market is a probabilistic environment where even correct decisions can lead to bad outcomes in the short term, and even bad decisions can randomly lead to good outcomes.
And this is where most retail traders fail. They cannot distinguish between a good decision and a good outcome. Let me make this clearer. A good decision is a decision made through a proper process based on logical analysis, based on disciplined risk management. The outcome of that decision in any specific trade is completely determined by uncertainty. You can make a completely correct decision and still lose that trade. You can make a completely wrong decision and still win that trade.
What makes great traders great is not that they win every trade. What makes them great is that they consistently make good decisions and over a large enough sample of trades, those good decisions lead to positive overall profitability. This is an incredibly difficult mindset shift because the human brain is not designed to think in probabilities. The human brain is designed to learn from direct outcomes. When an action produces a good result, the brain remembers it and wants to repeat it. When an action produces a bad result, the brain remembers it and wants to avoid it.
That works well in almost every area of life, but in trading it is a direct path to ruin because as in trading, you can repeat a brilliant action 10 times and lose eight of those trades if you are trading during an unfavorable market environment. And you can repeat a terrible action 10 times and win nine of those trades if the market happens to move in your favor. If you allow short-term results to teach you what to do, you will learn the wrong lessons.
The acceptance I am talking about also includes accepting this uncertainty. Accepting that you cannot know the outcome of the next trade. Accepting that a losing streak does not necessarily mean your strategy is broken. And accepting that a winning streak does not mean you have found the holy grail. Accepting that your job is to execute the process correctly and that long-term results will reflect the quality of that process.
That sounds philosophical, but it has very practical implications. It means that when you are in a losing streak, you do not need to change your entire strategy. You need to review your process and ask, am I following the rules I set for myself? If the answer is yes, then this losing streak may simply be a normal statistical period. If the answer is no, then the problem is not the strategy. The problem is discipline.
It means that when you are in a winning streak, you should not suddenly increase position size or begin believing that you have learned everything there is to learn. Winning streak may be the result of skill or it may be the result of luck or as is often the case, a combination of both. And being unable to distinguish between those two things is one of the greatest risks in trading. It means that every trade you place must be approached with the same level of seriousness and adherence to process, regardless of how the previous trade ended. Today's trade has nothing to do with yesterday's trade. The market does not remember whether you won or lost yesterday, and neither should you allow that to influence today's trade.
This is something I want to discuss deeply because I I believe it is one of the greatest psychological challenges retail traders face, the memory of previous trades. When you have just lost a large trade, you carry that memory into the next one. You may become overly cautious, exiting too early because you fear repeating the previous mistake. Or you may want to recover the loss immediately, placing a larger trade in hopes of getting back what was lost. Both reactions are wrong. Both are examples of trading the past instead of trading present reality.
And on the other hand, when you have just won a large trade, you feel invincible. You think you are in great form. You believe you are reading the market with incredible accuracy, and you begin place free trades based on that overconfidence, rather than on what the chart is actually saying.
A grain of sand carries no memory. Every fall is a new fall. Every touch of the water is a completely independent moment. That is what traders must learn, the ability to approach every trade as though it were their very first one, without being haunted by what happened before, and without becoming attached to expectations about what might happen next.
But I do not want to make this sound too easy or too idealistic because the reality is that trading is an extremely difficult psychological journey, and there are very specific reasons why most participants fail. One of the biggest reasons is this. We enter trading with unrealistic expectations. We think that if we learn enough technical skills, the market will become an ATM machine from which we can withdraw money whenever we need it. We think that successful traders have discovered some secret formula and that if we learn it too, the results will arrive naturally. We think losing trades are unusual events, evidence of mistakes, and that once we become good enough, those losing trades will disappear.
All of that is wrong. The most successful traders in the world still lose many trades. The most admired fund managers still have terrible years. No one escapes uncertainty in the market. The difference is not that they lose less. The difference is how they manage those losses and how they continue trading afterward without allowing losses to influence the next decision.
And here is something strange that I want to tell you. Once you truly accept that losses are an inseparable part of trading, once you stop seeing every losing trade as a personal failure and start seeing it is simply a business expense, that is when your psychology begins to change. Because when losses no longer create emotional pain in the old way, you no longer need to avoid them through bad decisions. You do not need to hold losing trades longer than necessary just to avoid admitting failure. You do not need to recover losses immediately. You do not need to pretend to yourself that a losing trade is actually a winning trade if you just wait long enough. You can cut the loss cleanly, learn from it if there is something to learn, and move on.
And that ability to continue to continue calmly and with discipline after both wins and losses is what separates the trader who survives in the market for decades from the trader who leaves after a few months.
I want to discuss another aspect of the retail trader's advantage that is almost never mentioned. The ability to change expectations without needing permission. Think about this. An investment fund has promised its investors a specific strategy. It has described in its prospectus the type of assets it will focus on, the level of risk it will take, and the type of opportunities it will pursue. And now, no matter how much the market changes, it is bound by those commitments. It cannot suddenly decide that the better opportunity actually exists in an entirely different market that it is not allowed to invest in under the V funds rules and you nobody limits you.
You can be a Forex trader today and a stock trader tomorrow. You can focus on the United States market for a period of time and switch to Asian markets when you see better opportunities there. You can trade short-term when volatility is high and shift toward medium-term positions when markets enter a clearer trending phase. Nobody can stop you. That is a form of freedom whose value most people do not appreciate until they miss a major opportunity because they failed to adapt in time.
But I also want to warn you about the downside of this freedom because freedom without discipline is not freedom. It is chaos. The retail trader has the advantage of not being bound by someone else's system. But that also means they must create a system for themselves. And this is where many people fail. They use flexibility as an excuse to have no system at all. When a trade loses, they say they are being flexible and adapting to the market. When they ignore a stop loss, they say they are reevaluating the situation. When they change strategies after three consecutive losses, they call it adapting to new market conditions. No, that is a lack of discipline. And a lack of discipline kills traders just as surely as a lack of capital.
True flexibility is the ability to change when reality changes, not when your emotions demand change to escape discomfort. True flexibility means having a solid system and adjusting that system based on evidence and sound reasoning, not because you just lost a trade and no longer trust your strategy. That distinction between genuine flexibility and undisciplined behavior disguised as flexibility is one of the most important skills a trader can develop. And the only way to develop that skill is through experience, through honest self-observation, and through a willingness to look at yourself harshly without making excuses.
Here is something practical that I want to share with you. If you look back through your trading journal and you discover that in most of your losing trades, you violated at least one rule of the system you created, then your problem is not your strategy. Your problem is that you are not following your strategy, and that is actually good news because it means the solution is not to go searching for a new strategy. The solution is to work on yourself, but that good news comes with an uncomfortable challenge. Working on yourself is far more difficult than learning a new strategy. A new strategy can be learned from books, courses, or videos, but understanding why you violated a rule in a specific situation, why you felt the need to hold a losing trade for 10 more minutes, why you could not press the exit button the moment your stop loss was hit, requires a much deeper level of self-awareness.
And this is where retail traders have another advantage that few people talk about. They can learn without paying an unbearable price. When a large fund makes a bad decision, the cost of that mistake can reach hundreds of millions of dollars. It can trigger waves of selling. It can affect thousands of investors. It can end careers. You as a retail trader make a bad decision. You lose a predefined amount of money that you already accepted as a possibility. That is tuition. And that tuition, if you truly learn from it, is one of the best investments you can make in your development as a trader. But the condition is that you must actually learn, not simply lose money and continue doing the same thing. You must sit down, look at what happened, ask why, and extract a specific lesson that can change your future behavior.
That brings me to one of the most important practices I want to share with you. A trading journal is not just a record of entry prices, exit prices, profits, and losses. A truly valuable trading journal records your emotional state when you entered the trade, the reason you took the trade, what you were thinking while price moved, and what you felt when the trade ended. Because inside those notes, if you review them honestly, you will begin seeing patterns. You will discover that you often lose when you enter trades after a long period without trading and begin feeling restless. You will discover that you often win when you are calm and do not desperately need to win. You will discover that there are certain setups where you frequently break your rules and other setups where you follow them very well. That information is priceless. No one else can give it to you because no one else has access to your mind the way you do.
And this is another aspect of the retail traders advantage. You are the only true expert on yourself. Large funds must understand the behavior of thousands of investors, the behavior of markets and the behavior of competitors. You only need to understand one person, yourself. And when you understand yourself deeply enough, your psychological strengths and your psychological weaknesses, you can build a trading method that fits you perfectly, not someone else. That is something that cannot be purchased and it cannot be learned from another person. It is something you must discover for yourself.
Let me return to the story of the grain of sand and the lake because I believe there is more depth in that image that we have not fully explored. When the grain of sand falls into the lake, it does not fight the water. It does not try to change the direction of the current. It simply falls in its natural way and in doing so, it finds the bottom through the path of least resistance. That is the image of a trader who knows how to move with the market instead of against it.
There is an ancient concept in Eastern philosophy often described as flowing with the current, not passivity, not surrender, but recognizing the forces that are already operating and finding a way to move with them instead of against them. In trading, that means recognizing the genuine trend that is taking place and not trying to bet on a reversal simply because you think the market has risen too high or fallen too far. The market can continue doing things that seem irrational for longer than you can remain solvent. That is a lesson many talented traders have learned in the most painful way possible.
Flowing with the current means that when the market is strongly trending in one direction, you do not necessarily need to be smarter than the market and look for ways to fight it. Sometimes the smartest decision is to step in with the momentum, ride the wave that is forming, and know when to step off before the wave collapses. And the grain of sand once again is the perfect image for that. It does not ask whether the lake is allowed to flow in a certain direction. It simply recognizes the direction and moves with it.
But I also want to discuss something many people misunderstand about flowing with the market. It does not mean you never trade against the larger trend. Sometimes the strongest reversals and the greatest opportunities exist at points where the market has gone too far and needs to rebalance. But even when you trade against the trend, you are still moving with a force, the force of correction, the force of price returning toward value, the force of market psychology realizing that it moved too far too fast. What matters is not whether you always trade with the long-term trend or always trade against it. What matters is recognizing which force is operating within the time frame you are trading and aligning yourself with that force, rather than acting from personal hope or personal fear.
Now, I want to talk about a very real problem that almost every retail trader faces at some point in their journey, the feeling of loneliness and self-doubt. Trading is one of the very few professions where you work almost entirely alone, make decisions alone, and carry responsibility alone. There are no coworkers to ask for advice, no manager to approve your plan, no external support system when the market moves against every expectation you had. And during those difficult moments, you begin asking yourself, "Why did I choose this path? Why did I not choose a normal job with stable income? Why does it seem like everyone else is doing this more easily than I am?"
These are normal questions. They are part of the journey. And what matters is that you do not answer those questions based on a temporary emotional state during a difficult period, because self-doubt in trading does not necessarily reflect reality. Sometimes it simply reflects a particularly difficult market environment. Sometimes it reflects a random losing streak that statistically happens to everyone. Sometimes it simply reflects exhaustion and the need for rest.
Learning to distinguish between justified self-doubt, the type that comes from genuinely breaking your rules and needing to change, and unjustified self-doubt, the type that comes only from temporary discomfort, is a critical skill. And this is where the trading journal becomes priceless once again. Because when you have real data about your decisions, you do not need to judge yourself through emotion. You can look at the numbers and ask, "Am I following my process?" If the answer is yes, then poor short-term results may simply be randomness and I should continue. If the answer is no, then I have a discipline problem and I need to address it. The difference between those two answers is the difference between a trader who knows where they are and a trader who is completely lost.
Let's talk about one final subject before I finish. And this is the subject that I believe forms the foundation of everything we have discussed. Identity, your identity as a trader. Many people enter trading wanting to become some version of someone they have seen or read about. They want to become like Paul Tudor Jones, like George Soros, like Jesse Livermore. And while learning from successful people is absolutely worthwhile, trying to become them is a trap.
Because what made those people successful was not their specific strategy, not the technical tools they used, not the time frame they preferred. What made them successful was the consistency between their trading method and their true nature as human beings. Paul Tudor Jones became successful because he found a way of trading that matched how he viewed the world, his level of risk tolerance, and his psychological capabilities. If you copy his method without having the same psychological foundation, your results will be completely different.
This means that the path to success in trading is not about finding someone to imitate. It is a process of self-discovery. It is a process of experimentation, failure, learning, adjustment, and gradually building a trading approach that truly belongs to you, not to anyone else. And throughout that process, remembering that you are a grain of sand, not a rock, is incredibly important. Not because a grain of sand is inferior to a rock, but because a grain of sand and a rock possess different strengths and must be used in different ways.
A grain of sand can reach places that a rock can never reach. A grain of sand can move invisibly, while a rock creates waves and noise from miles away. A grain of sand is free in the deepest sense of that word. In the end, this is the greatest advantage that retail traders often fail to recognize. It is not that they have less. It is that they are different. And that difference, if properly understood and properly used, is a form of freedom that the giants of the market can never buy. The freedom to leave without anyone knowing you were ever there. The freedom to change without asking permission. The freedom to learn from mistakes without millions of dollars and other people's reputations hanging above your head. The freedom to trade according to what you actually see, not according to what you need to see to prove to others that you are not wrong. And the freedom to embrace your smallness as a strength, rather than something that must be overcome.
You are the grain of sand, and the lake is waiting. The question is not whether you are large enough to create waves. The question is whether you are wise enough to sink quietly at the right time and the right place, and know when it is time to leave. That is the art of retail trading, and it is an art that very few people understand. But those who truly understand it would never trade it for anything else.