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We'll have a few minutes here to get the ping. So, I have just a few minutes, but I want to pop in and talk about the full moon in Libra today. No, it's not an April 1st fool's joke. It really is occurring on the 1st. So, it's it's actually tonight and it's about 12° in Libra and Aries because the moon opposes the sun when we have a full moon event. And when we have that opposition between the two luminaries, the sun and the moon, we have a clear view of whatever the sign is talking about. And in this case, it's me and we with Libra and Aries. So, we have this illumination, this clear look at um who we are in ourself and who we are when we are in relationship with others. And we have a chance to see how close those two things are, how far away those two things are.
If they're too far away, who we're being in relationship, if that's too far away from who we are naturally in our own right when we are not trying to balance ourself with another, then we're going to get a lesson in authenticity if those two things are too far apart. And if we find that we do get to be ourselves, we may have to adjust and um cooperate. Shh, [snorts] girls. When we're in relationship, but if it's still us or if it's not too far from who we naturally uh show up as, then we've got a pretty good thing going on there. Hey, Christina. Hey, Quany. Hey, Missi Mississippi Mississippi. Sorry. I've got aged eyes, guys.
Um so, we see are we being ourself and able to be ourself enough to where we're not losing ourself when we're cooperating and balancing with another. If we're losing ourself, that's a problem. We are falling into enmeshed um habits or codependent ways. And we will want to get away from that if that's what we're doing. We will find that we get itchy, we get resentful, we feel pressure. We we need to get away from the relationship or who it is we're trying to balance with so that we can get to be ourselves again. And that means we likely have a hot and cold nature. Or there's something going on with us that makes it hard for us to have the kind of continuity or shh Just a second, I've got to yell. Bunson. Bunson, you don't even know what's going on because you're hiding under the couch.
So, are we having to distance ourself in order to be ourself? That's a big clue that we are not in full participation. We're not fully showing up in relationships. Because if we've got to get away in order to express some real authentic parts of ourself, we're not known. We're not being seen and we're not showing up. And that's not a sustainable way to conduct a cooperative balanced relationship. We're probably not being seen, at least not fully if we are hit and miss. So, this is a full moon that helps us understand correct balance and how to have continuity, how to have structure, how to have um consistency in a relationship and still get to be ourselves. Cuz if we can't be ourselves, there's something wrong. We're either with the wrong person, we're in the wrong situation, we are not being honest.
If it is something that can work for us, we we're probably hiding. And when we do that, we tend to externalize the resentment that comes from that. We tend to see who it is we're with or the situation or the condition or the particular relationship as the problem. That is the reason why we can't be ourself. We need to go deeper than that and ask ourself, why are we in that relationship? If we can't be ourself or if we can't be seen or if we're not really showing up, what are we getting out of it? Cuz what we're not getting out of it is security. Is acceptance. Is safety. And so, we are hanging on to something even though it isn't really serving the whole spectrum of ourself. And so, we have a chance to see why and it's related to Jupiter. Jupiter's square to this business here. And Jupiter is our belief systems. It's our morality, it's our ideology, it's how we make sense of the world based on the values of the superego. And so, all of that is figuring in to our look at um consistency in getting to be ourself in our relationships. But how is that related to our definition of good and bad, what we've been taught, our cultural and religious beliefs.
So, there is a conflict that we're seeing here. And this is a a full moon event that will have a lot of us adjusting, changing, growing out of, uh aligning with different definitions of right and wrong, morality, what is worth believing in. So, a lot of us are going to be looking at what have I been taught? What have I absorbed? What have been some of my guiding principles and how is that contributing to my ability to balance and show up completely in a relationship or not? How is that contributing to me only being partially available or partially known? And so, hypocrisy is a major major thing that is coming out this particular week, personal and collective hypocrisy. The kind of stories that we share and participate in that define our culture. Jupiter's culture, cult-ure. And so, there is a um new type of perspective, new type of understanding, new type of belief that we adjust to or come to.
We do have the new moon in Aries coming up in 2 weeks. And that is the birth of the new self. That is that new uh definition of what I want to be. So, we have a couple of weeks here where we are changing. It's a lot of our ideas about what we think is right and moral and true and honest and good and worth going towards. Jupiter stuff. So, new, um, alignments and loyalties coming in. And that's going to be as result of figuring out that how we are in relationships, what we've been taught to be, what we've been taught to want, our ideals about relationships, that that is not working. And we can be going through a collective and personal crises regarding our beliefs. Not the worst kind of crises. It's only about two week ride. We've certainly had less. I'm I'm sorry. Worse. Worse crises regarding, um, belief systems, but this one is, um, short and intense. And it, uh, isn't going to take very long for a lot of us to repatriate ourself to a different way of looking and believing about happiness, morality, roles within relationships, so that we can have a more complete experience of being there and wanting to be there. And, um, gaining different perspectives about what what relationships are for in terms of how they make us happy. It's not Saturn stuff. It's not what they do for us, really. It's more about, um, do we have foundational beliefs and ideas that give us definition and direction that are actually in service to both parties being happy and getting something good out of it.
So, that's about what I have time for. I've got something coming up here in a bit and I need to have some lunch first. So, I am going to get to that and, um, I will likely check in with you guys tomorrow. So, think about, um, whether or not you're really getting to be yourself in the relationships that you choose. There are some relationships that we don't really choose, like family relationships or sometimes work relationships, where we may know that we have to show up in a certain way to survive. This isn't alienation that is specific to those types of relationships, the ones where we fully intend to make a change here as soon as we can. This is more specific to the kinds of relationships that we are that we have a certain amount of choice in. All righty. I will catch up with you guys soon. Have a great full moon. Love y'all.