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[Music] Do you wanna explain what your podcast is about?
Yeah, it's, um, basically a love, relationship, sex podcast. But since I work in porn, we started off with like more intense subjects like anal and squirting. But as we go on, we're gonna also basically just talk about everything that involves being a young-ish person dating, love, what it's like. No, but [ __ ] so do you guys also like do like it's like an educational thing? You educate people about what is what and how to do it better or easier?
Yes, I'm not, but I'm a student and I work in human trafficking with like survivors of human trafficking and sex work. I had an intersection of the two. So me and Ivy are best friends and we like go through a lot of the same stuff. My LSAT score, 173. Yes, it was like, oh, like how dare you. Hello, hello. Bhasu comparin Blazusiak speak. Okay, so come on, say a podcast where Paula MTP due to the sex Mel C D Alessio a deadly Jean CI compounds attentions by example. Come on, fair Lana aquifer Lana Aipom do please, I beg to sedusa Gidget OC LHYG on what avocat at hawai OC dozen organism kiss you kiss Oh cube to scare traffic you monofin do ma don't. So human trafficking, sorry, I'm trying to understand the translation in. What is it like, like people that first fall into like sex labor because a lot of people who are brought to the United States under and then told like, oh, I'll help you become a citizen if you were free and then they're here and they don't have anyone, no support system, and they're just out of house like doing. Yeah, it's basically don't see no Salma Dijon kicks Brad dude person Ella for about the upon sexual pogrom many folks are fair don't sort what by example my kooky force in my therapy Louisa pate de jour here men good person dude dude pay your opponent on the shoes on a soldier into a Sabha retreat more you know she has issues like a metal trestle.
How did you guys, how did you guys decide to do a podcast together?
One night we're not sponsored by that. We probably should. Like, wait, so you guys were drunk? And they kid. We're actually lingerie. I'm okay. Oh, yeah. It was in the wee hours and she was like, I didn't think I didn't get the text message. Good thing it was girls' night. That's how all girls' night. Yeah. And yeah, I'm digit was like, what do you like, what can, what would you be doing if you could be doing anything right now? And I was like, weirdly enough, I've been thinking about doing this podcast forever. I've always wanted to do it. I just feel like I've been through so much in my life that I could feel like I could share these experiences that will be helpful for, I mean, anyone really. So just like a few days after the hot, she was, are you serious about that podcast thing? And I was like, yeah. And we had our first little meeting like a week after the heart and started setting it up just like that. But I've been, I've been sitting on the idea for years. And me too. She just like, just like, it's also just an interesting concept that we're like friends and we just can come at topics like whether it's abortion or censorship or whatever, or even ghosting and dating, whatever from different points of view. Like you being a professional, you know, in your industry and me and mine. Like, so I thought it would bring it's like an educated point of view because there are some like sex and love podcasts out there that are ran by women, but they're just, it's like, it's more theory than there's like a lot of anecdote. Yeah, there's, there's no like actual education or, yeah, it's just like, oh, yeah, I sexted once and they're like, okay, well, we've. She was also a dancer with me at Jumbo's. So she also knows looks like to be a sex worker. Variety. And so I think it'd be fun and educational and relatable cuz we're both so [ __ ] goofy. Yeah.
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So, so how with porn is better with a zero? I think I'd rather than prom. Oh, yeah.
Where can people find your podcasts?
You can find it on iTunes, the podcast app. You can also find it on Google Play. Soon it will be up on Spotify and YouTube as well. And then you can also find us on slut-shame this dot pod bean dot com. And you can listen to everything you want to write it on the chat. You can write it on the chat if you want. Oh, you have short nails. And you can also follow us on social. Yeah, we're gonna find your socials. It'sudemo Dookie. So let's as well. Thank you. See see demidova metroresin. So my moderators are gonna get your. I've seen some of the reactions on your podcast. Everything is really positive and fun. It's been really fun to especially hear from like a lot of female acquaintances that I don't really keep in close contact with that are loving it. They're reaching out. I haven't talked in forever and they're just like, holy [ __ ] the anal episode made me laugh so much, but also now I'm like, not as scared to try it. Yeah, and recommend recommend. I like anal too. Yeah, some of them do. Yeah. So I've heard a little pegging here and there. Never hurt anybody.
So I have good news and have really bad news. So the good news is that Wednesday PISA, it's gonna be with me. Right? What? Yeah. It's the good news. Wednesday Cody Lee Pia Zadora AMD's subsonic. What? The bad news is they were gonna be a better guest. Sorry, sorry. You really were such a great interview. You tell everyone how to make love like a male porn star. Yeah, not like about bones down like a man should do. Men should. But that's like hachis haidle. We want people in French Rico that picked a click like it's like, like prostitute that someone else is brought. Clearly had you on the show because we want guys to generally good better. You know, it's, it's cool. Like a lot of the thing I do on my stream, it's giving a lot of advice or so to guys, you know, yeah, a lot of sex advice too. And you know, a lot of them, I have this idea that first of all, a lot of them, they ask me like, well, how do you make a girl come? And I try to explain to them, it's not, not every woman is the same. Yeah, like you like, some girls are gonna do things aren't gonna turn them on and make them come. Others, it's gonna like actually turn them off and not so great. And it's not like you can have just one way to make women come. There's so many ways.
What's your, what's your best advice to men that wanna have great sex with women?
[ __ ] on me. I thought you were about to pay. The more you pay, the better sex. Attention. The more you bet it. Like, see what you know, pay attention to the signs or if someone just like, listen to your partner. It's kind of like ridiculous, but not know something like you have to sit there and have like a con before sex, you know, like, especially in your real life. But it's like, use your intuition and like, try little things, not too crazy. And then see where it takes. If the girls into it, then you and you'll know when they don't like it.
What does, what does a man has to do to beat you up? That's why I like to get my attention. Yeah, like, like let's say you out with your friends. What does a guy has to do? That's a tough one because I still often times when I'm out with my friends, they don't want to even. But so when it's the right time for me, I always make like, I've only ever dated people I've known. So for me, it's really about like friendship. Like if you're in, I care that someone's interested in my opinions and my personality and my sense of humor, not just like things I'm so.
It is possible to be friend with a person and then transform that into a relationship. Yeah, that's a question that comes a lot. A lot of people tell me like, like how do, like, how, like I'm a really good friend with this girl and I secretly I'm into her, but I don't know. I'm afraid to lose the French. What do you recommend?
Hmm, I think it's the same thing. Just pay attention to the signs. Like be like, do you want, you know, if you work together, whatever is I do want to go to happy hour and you know, get a drink and see how it goes. And just is happy hour is happy hour. So good for anal sex. Yeah, exactly. But also, mmm, if you're at the point where you like, are crushing on a friend so hard that you almost like, can't just be friends with them. I think it's good that you just say something because I like sitting around and waiting and hoping is like so tired. Like just be honest and be upfront, be assertive. And if she's not into you, that's like not anyone's fault. Exactly. Yeah, I think usually it'll end a friendship because they can make it weird to break, make it weird for a bit. Like I've had experiences where stuff happened with friends and then it was like weird for the next couple, a couple of times we saw each other and then it was way more pasta. I think the drama of like keeping it to yourself and it's like, oh, I'm in love with my phrasing. Yeah, bury yourself and the person that and just be honest and tell them you're feeling them before it gets like so dramatic. And yeah, you can know how to navigate it from there. Even if you're not interested, you can move on and continue the friendship. And if they are, maybe a mom and you know, you already have so much in common. So I've always kind of like gotten crushes on people that I'm like around because it is like that same chemistry and sense of humor and, oh, yeah, personality is everything. Truly. Yeah.
Missy has no job. It's so funny cuz I saw a guy, he's like, where did you get those posters? I'm like, I have like two super hot girls swim with me. Sorry, I'll [ __ ] love you. Huh? That's funny. Someone is asking is asking why when I Google Gidget, I have pictures of midgets?
Because it used to be a porn star name. Gidget that was actually a little person. Yeah. Oh, she's on, she's women a lair. Oh, really? Because she used to go with that name. My Instagram is Gidget the fidget. Portman to for like a portmanteau for a girl [ __ ] because it was like a movie with Sandra Dee about like a short little blonde girl in Malibu. Oh, yeah. And everybody that was the reference. Yeah. You wanna, I don't know if my moderators actually know your your Instagram. Do you guys want to type your social media on the channel? Because I know my mods, but I don't know if my mods are here. We're Swiss Italian lira substitute the IV here and and key jet if you want. Yeah, if you want. Thank you. My. You don't have Instagram right now. Oh, yeah, again, when I SAS is on Instagram. Gidget the fidget. Donate the follow. Also, do you wanna type? Oh, yeah, I was about to say. Oh, sister house diagram. The Twitter is right for me. Oh, yeah, again, again. Yeah, yeah. Instagram do podcasts if you live of the Nouvelle /m. This is a sea blue Twitter of the IV. I was like, I was when I did the podcast, I was a little bit. I was like, sometimes, sometimes I've seen a real sassy man. Well, before, really.
Oh, I work with pretty much the same people for the last at least 15, 17 years, right? Same crew. I think that by now they should know what I want. I should have to tell them anymore. I should have, you know, yeah, same thing with the job I do. I know what I know what you know. Weird flex. Just it's only my sixth ABN perform of the. It's not like anyone else ever would. You meet with flex? If there's a flex that's okay for men to do, is this? I'm the best fighter in the world. That's from from now. You gotta watch. What? Okay, we're gonna like explain what's the magic one to everyone. It looks like a big ugly microphone. Wait, are you talking about those back massagers? Do you think anyone ever bought that to massage their back? [ __ ] now, maybe like some like stupid. I have a back massager, but it's like the new one, the strong one with the thing that goes. It caps. It does a vibrator. It's too strong. Like, like it's not something that vibrates. It it taps. So it wouldn't. And all I'm saying, goomy. Where you hold it? I know, but the handle. It's like a big metal. Where you hold it from? Yeah, but it doesn't like babies. I'm asking is because my first masturbated with a vibrator. It was alone. My parents, my parents' massager, but it was like a little jet like you hold the handle. I was using the handle. Oh, because this is like a screwdriver of that thing. And like, it would have probably feel good. It's real good. Helps me a lot. And I do it for my legs too. I mean, yeah, you, yeah. They say you guys are so hot. Knut. I know why you left. I would live to know. Knut. No, no, seriously. Like, this this discussion was made upsetting me so much to the point that everyone was like, like, oh, I think we should do this. I think we should do that. And I was about to insult everyone on that podcast. So I read her live. I was part of a podcast earlier today and they started talking about the gun laws and and every one of their opinions will it should be like this. I'm like, and I was listening and the more listened to those people, the crazier I got. And so I told him, eh, get me up. I want out. I knew that was on the tipping point to like just started like, like insulting those people. And I needed to know that you, you know, you know when to back out of something as opposed to making. Yeah, I couldn't take it. I couldn't take. And I'm usually bad at this in person, in real life, and bad. But because it was a stream, it was easier too. Merci beaucoup.
[Music] Yeah, exactly. You're never in an argument. You have to realize you're never gonna change someone's mind once you're. Exactly, exactly. It's just like, it's not me getting so riled up because, yeah, once the tempers are going, you're not gonna change someone's opinion. Yeah, they all had their opinions, but none of them thought about talking about the families of the people that just that, you know, like, oh, I think you should be lemon, shut the [ __ ] up. Anyway. I mean, Mel C labelled, you want to talk? I mean, if everything is so depressing and it's so when there's just something so stupid like this guy's tweet and everyone just ripped it up, but like in this funny Polish manner, it was killing me vastly. And I don't not take it seriously, but there, there was just like this, like burst of internet of genius. Yeah, of everyone just [ __ ] with this, this guy that had to protect his children from 30 to 50. Funny, but it's also it shows like that how like divisive everything is right now because there actually is a feral hog problem. Yeah, no. So it's like the, you know, it's like it causes more and divided between people who are like, no, you don't understand, there is our feral hogs. Oh, it literally is so ridiculous. But it's like, no, just some people, they're like, no, really, how am I gonna deal with that? Funny part was that the specific like, this every three to five minutes, the 30 to 50 mi. This is that was okay. Three to five minutes, 30 to 50. And then it was three and five and three and an archery. And archery. Oh, I think he meant archery. Archery. Great morning. The more you know.
Friends who are sorry, I'm coming back on the podcast. What out the next, you know, things you guys gonna talk about?
Oh, yes. We don't have any guests lined up right now. We're cuz I think we want to make it so that it's not every week in your gasps. Yeah, because you had Johanna and now you're gonna have me. Yeah. So we're gonna do anything like two or three, they're just us. Um, we were gonna talk about thirst-trapping. Yes. Do what? There's a wit, what's do? It's mine. I post a really hot photo of myself and then you reply and you're like, boom, I trapped you. It's a thirst job. Well, yeah, because I'm not, you know, yeah, I am a professional like a, you know, a civilian, a non porn super former. Like, it's like taking a really hot photo, but pretending it something else. So it's being like, happy birthday, super hot. So it's like, it's under the guise of it kind of being someone else or being on vacation and being like, loving Bali. And usually it's to like, get some sort of attention or a specific type of attention. And like, a lot of people were like, on my, I have my close friends stories, which really is just like a bunch of guys. I post buddy. My best friend. Generally, if someone reports me, I only have like 20. So here, I'll find ya. Like the same way I like, how do you call that? Like the strap tube with those Crocs? Yes, I feel really like posted crotch. Like I did. That was wearing Crocs and socks and was like, what the [ __ ]? Right? And she was like, so cool. There. So I just don't be mean about Crocs. They're very comfortable. They're ergonomic. She used to be a salesperson at products to friends, right? Because I was taking my kids and she friends and they're shacked up with a dude. She knew from right washes with you know, we were separated, but we were taking the kids to friends. So we get along. So that you kept with the dude there and then came back earlier that she was supposed to come back. And I'm like, yeah, but like, it was, you know, it's just like, no, like, like I found Crocs under his bed. I couldn't stay. She was like, might be that good. I will forgive almost anything for good day. I'm like, you wear whatever I'm. And also don't be confident to wear a croc. Like you have to be maybe I like of kid, like confidence then because I couldn't, I could not. What if have you? If I don't want to try and they want me to do a movie and they're like, for this role, you have to wear those Crocs. I will put other shoes that you feed that grunts. Well, you get a tryout. Probably won't get hard at all. But know the crowds. The fact that you would show up to me with cross. You have to be confident to wear Crocs. I'm sure. I live to throwing my Crocs, walk my dog, get a coffee. You know, no one will ever bother you while you. You don't own a pair of crows. So they have the transitional. That's if you want to make sure they're not gonna fly off. Like if you might be doing uh-oh, fast walk, maybe even a light jog. Here's the only breast. I think it would be okay to wear cross. Okay, if you work in a hospital, then you're like doing all those. You dummy, wear your leopard cross. That would be like, you know what necessary for this. That's that's okay. Sure. Okay.
Well, let's see. What's your favorite? Honestly, I read her bare feet. Mm-hmm. Like you mean for myself? Yeah. Oh, for myself. I like, I like. Yeah. Well, it's like the best. What's the best sneaker of 2019? Well, it depends what type of shoes you want. Like, like for example, when I play basketball, I wear a pair of LeBrons. They make you play like LeBron. Yeah, they make you play like LeBron. No, no, but they feel my feet are wide, so like I need wider shoes than the Kobe's, for example. And uh, that's good. I like running shoes because they're super light too and comfortable. Comfortable. Comfortable. But yeah, you know, you know, it's just nuts. You know, to each their own. Live and let croc wave. You you had to work at Crocs before. Like, you know, way too much about folk rock rock. I came up with the name. Man, well-endowed for you. That was a good name, right? I'm just gonna bend. Well-endowed. What do you think about this? Before, you know, you've got the wrong team. If I knew you before, I would have never been named Ferrara, but and doubt. Yeah, my well-endowed. Yeah, man. Well, I'll try anything once. [Laughter] Well, I'll try anything once. Well, comma [ __ ] you. If you have to explain, it needs to be well something. Well, but the way she says, well, well, well, you well, I'm gonna have a sandwich, man. Well, well, maybe I will. [Laughter] Everything because you can say well in from anything, right? Yeah, it's truly a choose-your-own-adventure, man. Well, I'm gonna go. Do you wanna write you uh all the social media that you guys have again? Sure. I'm gonna do quickly and you can just write it. Oh, okay. Um, FCC Swiss is putting everything poopoo via shrivel tool mall with Willie Steve Shirley Rizzo Lisa tipper Lou. Slut-shame this. Slut-shame this podcast. Full set for safe home state. We're gonna host. Did this person? Her name is Kelly and she's really awesome. She does a lot of like science stream. Wow. Like stars, things and space [ __ ] she knows so much. She's really cool and she's an amazing streamer. Well, we're gonna meet her right now. No, no, I'm sending these people. Goddamn it. I've never gotten more comments about my laughs since I started the podcast.
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