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Then I probably would. But at the end of the day, if you're not happy, we're not happy. It's making me miserable. We're going to have to part ways and both be there and all for our children. Rarely do the kids have a better time after the parents divorce.
"It's not It's not about the kids."
"Absolutely about the kids."
"Don't get"
"How is it about the kids if you if you left the relationship for yourself?"
"So you mean to tell me you can't do nothing if you if you not feeling you're happy. You go to work every day mad."
"No no no no yeah gradually talk to our children together and let them know that there will be no love loss. Mommy and daddy"
"I just want y'all to retire that phrase that I die for my children."
Welcome back. I'm Sh. We got ourselves another video. We got ourselves a DPMO morning show. This is the This is the morning show video with 2K and you know 2K and the boys and a girl who wears glasses. Hey sister girl.
In this video 2K is about to get into a debate almost like a heated debate but it's respectable. It's a respectable heated debate with a caller. I think his I think he said her name is Eureka. Yeah I ain't going to lie. Eureka nice name. I would never thought about it but they get into a debate or a conversation about co-parenting. 2K, which I agree with, says that co-parenting is is pretty selfish. If you going to be honest with you, you're being you're being pretty selfish about the fact that like, hey yo, this ain't going to work. We should break up. But we all know that parenting, aka the man and the woman being together, raising a kid is better for the children. But if you know, you said, "F it. I don't care what's better for the children. I don't want to be together."
Now, of course, I will add in a nuance. If that [ __ ] is knocking your head between the washer and dryer or you know when you when you make grits the [ __ ] sneak up behind you and put you in a headlock and say say uncle like if he's doing like that I can understand you know or when you in the bathtub and you getting ready you you cooling down that [ __ ] like kicks the door open with a a toaster like and it's plugged into a wall and he say I do it I do like if he's one of those I think we can all agree that you should leave that person but besides all that if you just like Oh, we grew apart. You're pretty damn selfish. But that's his point. The caller going to say, "Uh-uh, [ __ ] No. If I want to leave, I should be able to leave." Which everybody agree. If you want to leave, you should be able to leave. But accept that you're selfish. But she still wasn't having that.
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"Oh yeah, that was that dude."
"Okay. Eureka is trying to call in."
"Eureka call in now. You hear?"
"God damn."
"And that's what I be talking about. You hear who the problem is all the time. All the time. It's either they way or the highway. So you normalize single parenting and co-parenting. So you still get the benefits of having a man in your life and the kids' life instead of keeping your family together. That's the crazy part about it. And grandad y we'll talk about how granddaddy have families outside or all these things, but the woman knew the man's nature was possibly dealing with other women. Especially when a woman is unfaithful inside the household are lazy. If the a lot of women ain't showing up in households, would you rather my sister, if you're the president of the United States, to keep families together and that man go out every now and then, get his thing, get it, do his thing because the sister's lazy or would you rather them separate their families and we just keep having single um single parent households that's broken? What would you do if you the president?"
"I think I would have to go with the first one because I don't think I want a a country full of broken families"
"like and that's what the world is now."
"Yeah."
"Hold on, Eureka. What's the word? My G. Good afternoon, Learius. How are you?"
"Oh, God. Hello."
"Good afternoon. I think staying together for the sake of the children after you've tried numerous times is insane."
"Insane. It's the definition of insanity. No. Because of the children, I'm going I'm willing to stay in in the paint and try to fight for my relationship. I would probably pick a little more than I probably would. But at the end of the day, if you're not happy, we're not happy. It's making me miserable. We're going to have to part ways and both be there and for our children. It's not about It's not It's not about me. It's It's And it's not a selfish thing. Peace of mind is priceless."
"No, listen. You Whoa. WHAT DID YOU JUST SAY NOW, my dear? My dear, I don't let you now. It might be late. And I ain't I don't I ain't I ain't drink. I have not been drinking, my dear. And guess what? Oh, I don't drink at all. You do know you just said it's not about me. In the exact same in the same sentence, because I think she used a comma in the same sentence, you said a piece of mind is priceless. A piece of mind. You mean your peace of mind? That would definitely be about you. Then said both. You said both of those things. I'm pretty sure she didn't use a period, right?"
"What do you think? How do you think the kids are sitting back looking at their parents arguing every day? They shouldn't be."
"You think your children children children see and know more than you think they know?"
"I think y'all tell them more than they need to know. A lot of"
"they can see it all. You can look at a person in their eyes and see that they're not there. They're not happy."
"But you couldn't look at your husband and realize that you were making him miserable."
"No. The thing is my husband needed to give me a reason to stay instead of going through things over and over and over again. be the man that I needed you to be. Hear what I'm saying to you. There is a problem. Try to take this. I will try, but if it's not working, it is insane."
"I I don't I think y'all don't have no no true sense of what a real commitment or vow"
"I've been 2K. I've been married twice. I've been married twice, 2K. And my husband, God rested soul was my second husband was was perfect. I had it, you know, everything was good. But the thing is this. I had my first husband. We were high school sweethearts. I had to realize, okay, this is run's course. We're not happy. It's insane for us to stay together. You're miserable. I'm miserable. What can How is this how is this benefiting our family if we're both miserable and our heart is no longer in it?"
"So, it's benefiting your family because the children I think your first year y'all have kids, right? It's benefiting you because the children have the mother and father in the same household. so they don't feel a divide. You are actually benefiting your children's psyche by doing that. Once again, you're talking about yourself right now. Cuz you let's keep it funky. You don't care about that [ __ ] psyche like that because if that [ __ ] tell you that, hey yo, you're not happy, but if you break up with me, I I just I I I do something I do something to myself. You telling me you would you wouldn't still leave? Well, you know, well, unless like maybe she wouldn't, but if he say this will break my heart if you leave. It will break it, but you're not happy. Don't you can kick rocks. I know what she's talking about."
"We can try."
"So, you telling me that that the kids and I don't want to really get into your business, so I'm playing I'm not. But I'm just saying rarely do the kids have a better time after the parents divorce."
"It's not It It's not about the kids."
"That's what Please don't"
"That's what you was about to say."
"It's absolutely about the kids. DON'T GET"
"HOW IS IT ABOUT THE KIDS if you if you left the relationship for yourself?"
"It is absolutely about the kids. It's all about It's all about family. And it's not just about me. I'm looking at the fact that both of us are miserable. We both have died. We cannot get to that point."
"But Eureka, he was willing to suffer for his kids. You wasn't."
"No, he's not willing. He's not willing. You can't No, you can't make it. See, you come from one side of perspective. Yeah."
"Try to make it seem like the women are just willing to throw in a towel. Nine times out of 10, women are putting up with way more than they probably should."
"Okay. So, Okay. So, ask yourself this. How many times do women leave a problem and then go live a life with with no problems at all?"
"Women stay and put up more put up with more than they normally would, especially if there are children involved. So, you're just not going to answer the question. I said, "Give me a reason to stay." And if you can't, then we need to part ways gradually, talk to our children together, and let them know that there will be no love loss. Mommy and daddy,"
"I just want y'all to retire that phrase that I die for my children. That's all I want y'all to do."
"I would I would absolutely die for all."
"No, you wouldn't. Your child died for the children, bro. That gave him the best opportunity in life, and you took that away."
"Yeah. You you don't understand how how crazy that sound. You want me to believe you will actually get deleted for your children. But but if you're not happy, you're willing to put make your children live a harder life. I'm not happy. So my children living a harder life. That's just something they got to deal with. Yeah. But you know, I I definitely lose my life so my children don't have a harder life or whatever. Like you Let's get doing things. I don't believe you, my dear. Okay. I think you gonna be just like the the you know just like that one that one mama I don't want to say her name because YouTube I want to say her name that one was one lady who literally children is inside the building on fire all around the building. She's outside the building just standing there just looking like the neighborhood watch like somebody GET IN THERE AND HELP MY CHILDREN. How did you get out? I left. But somebody get in there and help my children. That's what I think. That's what I think. Especially [ __ ] who sound like you. I think that's what they'll do. But you know, I ain't I ain't here to attack you, my dear. I'm just here to give you the truth. All right. It's not offensive if it's true."
"At the at the end of being a mom, I'm still a human being. I'm a mama once and I I'm A H HOW DO YOUR OKAY. If you are a mother first, if you are mother first, how do how do you override you being the mother and giving your child the best chance possible?"
"How do I give my children 100%. Everything that they need from me is I am miserable and I am not happy. Does not make sense."
"Your happiness. You can't Hold on. So you mean to tell me you can't do nothing if you if you not feeling you're happy?"
"You go to work every day mad?"
"No. No. No. No."
"Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah."
"You're looking at the You need to look at the big picture."
"NO, I'M I'M LOOKING AT THE BIGGER PICTURE. Y'ALL BE MISERABLE EVERYWHERE ELSE."
"WHY would you stay in a situation where you're both miserable? Don't like each other. All it's going to do is build resentment and you are insane and out of your mind if you don't think those children cannot see it and pick up on it on those vibes."
"All she's doing is using those children to justify her thing. That's why it's crazy. It's crazy because you don't got the tits because you know it's a lady. You ain't got not balls. You ain't got the tits to actually just say that I want to do this thing and that's it. You think I give a how y'all feel? You ain't got the tits to say it. How dare you? You're literally weaponizing your children so you can just get this thing you want done anyways. Stop lying. Stop. They know. They just don't say anything."
"Okay. Yeah, sure. The kids don't be knowing nothing about nothing, but they picking up on vibes only because it's you."
"Look, Darius, it's okay to be wrong sometimes."
"No, no, no. Eureka. So, y'all think about think about this, right? Do the kids not know or do they not get this sense uh this spider sense when they daddy miserable"
"or nobody gives a CUZ DAD BEEN MISERABLE, RIGHT? AND THAT DIDN'T AFFECT THE KIDS ONCE A WEEK."
"They can tell that both mommy and daddy are miserable. And then you know what? Little pictures have big ears. 2K. At the end of the day, they're going to sit back and when they grow up and get in relationships, they're going to think that this twisted way that my mother and father stayed together, that's what I'm supposed to do. Somewhere along the line, the cycle has to be broken. And they need to the cycle ain't broken. The family is. And that's the cycle that keep on keep."
"That was wild. What you just said? Did you just pretend as if you are the one breaking the cycle? The cycle is a single motherhood. The cycle is the children being raised in a house without the father. Unless you're telling me we're going to break the cycle. We don't want to be together no more, but we're going to stay in the house together. If you say that, then I'll be like this. Didn't see that coming. Didn't see that coming. But you're not saying that. You definitely just did the cycle. What the do you think the cycle is? We're gonna break the cycle. How are we gonna break it? I'm I'm not gonna get my kids addicted to heroin. So, you know, I broke the cycle. IS THAT WHAT YOU THINK THE CYCLE IS? Little people in the house addicted to heroin. I don't understand. I'm so confused. I'm lost. Someone help."
"Not together does not does not mean that the family is is is"
"broken. You show me you show me somebody who didn't have both and I show you the disadvantage of it."
"Just because we're not together in the sense we're not living in this in the same household. got a question for you."
"If that if that's the case, why do we complain about so many miserable people today? It's crazy how women go from even when if we use the sons alone, they go from loving their son to despising men. There's so many women that got sons, they can't stand men. So the the um what's her name? Just so hilarious just said that she would look at her son and see the father. Like in a way, y'all raise the kids or the or the boys and girls till you resent them. There's a lot of boys and girls who can't stand their mama and we end up miserable people who can't create relationships with each other. So y'all y'all taught society to quit on each other, resent each other, and reject each other. You didn't do what was in the best interest of the kids and you didn't do what's in the best interest of the family. That's why a lot of people can't create families today. Y'all keep talking about how you feel and what's best for you and you want to be the leader of these society and relationships. And look how horrible relationships are today because y'all lead the relationship. And again, I say the resentment built up and the and it was no more there. If she she spent too much time, she stayed too much time in that space of hate and disdain for that husband, the the husband or the baby father. The thing"
"I I think the problem is I think y'all y'all don't care much about failure, right? You you you talking about resentment. Let's talk about failure. You don't care."
"You cannot live for everybody else. You do not need validation from everybody else."
"Leave it for yourself. You You went through a marriage that didn't work. You was a failure. You failed. Not only did you fail yourself, you failed your child."
"Whoa. Wait a minute. What kind of is that? I don't understand when [ __ ] say that. Why are you saying that's not a failure? That's just common sense. You got married. Yeah. The marriage didn't work. That's failure. Your children would have did better if the mother and the father would have stayed together, but y'all broke up. You did fail them."
"Okay, first off, I didn't know I didn't know that people who who participate in um narcotics. I didn't know that they could even afford phones or afford pay their phone bill to call in on to radio shows. Eureka, I'm not attacking you. Sweet. I did definitely did attack you, but I'm not attempting to attack you. I'm just making uh I'm making a very quick diagnose that it sounds like you participate in that. Um what's it called? What what's a nickname for heroin? Dope. I don't know. WHAT'S I'LL JUST CALL IT DOPE. YEAH, YOU you participated in it. That's what it sounds like. And everybody know this a morning show. Heroin was a morning drug. It was a morning fix that people need to know that."
"Graduates, they went on a life and they were and and they know that their mother and father to this day still remain best friends."
"Listen. So I'm"
"we realized that we weren't good together."
"I'm I'm not speaking directly towards you, okay? So I'm just I'm speaking in general, okay? Cuz I I don't know the situation,"
"but what what I was saying like the things that you are measuring it on is things that only a woman would call an accomplishment. Like them graduating that if my son graduate today, that is not an accomplishment to me."
"What do you mean?"
"If if all of my kids graduate college, that is not a accomplishment to me. I don't even got my degree hanging on the wall. It's not an accomplishment. That's what you value to be accomplished. A degree that man, he probably Okay, Eureka, because I can't I can't keep talking to you and"
"Okay."
"And I don't want it to be about you. So, I'm just going"
"going to respectfully concede the conversation cuz I don't want you to think uh you know, and fracture the relationship."
"Oh, the Darius, you're the best."
"All right. Thank you, Mr. Byebye."
"All right. Yeah, cuz I don't it's going to sound personal because it's almost a oneonone situation, but it's just the the generality of the conversation that's so common. What what people are judging their kids and success ain't success. The degree that they got is is null and void of you a [ __ ] up human. If you a man that ain't that don't stand on your word. If you a woman with 300 bodies, your degree means [ __ ] to anyone. If you a man that can't provide, your degree don't mean [ __ ] So what? You got a degree? So what? You got a degree? You got 300 bodies. Nobody give a [ __ ] Uh Kai Ali, y'all guess y'all got something to say about this, man?"
"Yeah. Yeah. Absolutely. So they they play both sides. They're opportunist. Like if the woman now is has a single mama, she's a single she's a strong independent woman. But if now the man has a baby, he's a baby daddy. She if a man has his bag, educated, a powerful man, a reputable man, hey, that don't mean nothing. You're not emotionally available. You're not emotionally intelligent. You ain't got no family. Where your woman at? They will brag about all the things that have nothing to do with two healthy human beings being together and sustaining a relationship in the family. Do most of their kids got families? Can most of their kids sustain healthy relationships with other people, friends, or or a lover? Like, they're saying that to what makes them feel good. It's all about their feelings. Everything is their feelings. And they rewrite history to validate everything that they do, even if it's destructive to society. So, it's whatever they say goes. That's why so many men will listen to their mama cuz they was raised by their mama. If we talking about single parent households, even if you have a two parent household or a man that's involved, the mother still takes control of how that kid is raised. The fact that she said that that kid was still the the lady before this lady was even talking about that her children was demonstrating aggressive behaviors while y'all were together. In front of what man? in front of what daddy? Unless you get in front of that father and go, "Don't touch my kids." And that's a lot of women that do that until them until that kid gets old enough and now it's going towards you and you either get call the daddy to do something to the kid or you kick them kids out for the for the boyfriend or the stepdaddy. They don't they everything's for the kids until you kicking them out the house."
"That's a fact. We got one more caller, y'all. Hello. Hello."
"I think I might be late on the live. Are y'all still talking about the just hilarious?"
"Yes, ma'am. Yes, dear."
"Okay. So, I just wanted to ask cuz I was a person that actually grew up in a two parent household where abuse, physical abuse to my mother was a thing. Okay. Um, I also grew up in a two parent household where my dad was cheating. He was a minister of music. And I'm not going to give too much folks like to lift people up. But he was a minister of music. So, he was a church hoe. Okay. So my mom was dealing with having to show up at church knowing that he didn't slept with probably everybody in the in the row behind her. The sneaker, you know, my mom dealt with a lot in this form of staying for the child to the point where me and my brother"
"were begging my mom like leave this [ __ ] You know what I'm saying? Like this [ __ ] don't do you no good. This [ __ ] is cheating on you. This [ __ ] is literally holding frying pans to your head. We we've seen it. He's dragging you down the stairs just because you won't allow him to leave the house and go cheat on someone that was supposed to be quote unquote our auntie that you placed in our life as an auntie figure whole time. You know, you know, black folks that's your auntie, but that's not really your auntie. But whole time you having sex with this lady on the low. So, it's just it's so much abuse as a a child that I had to endure and that I had to see to the point where I'm begging my mama, hey, just go ahead and leave this [ __ ] because at this point it's diminishing you. You can't even function. You can't even go to work. You can't because you're dealing with all of this in in the phrase of what? For us. Don't do it for us cuz we telling your ass to to hit the road, Jack. Cuz he don't care about you. He's not He's not that. So, it's like I understand y'all's point of view as far as staying for a child because if it is a healthy co-arenting situ or a healthy situation and y'all don't have no reason to leave, as a woman, no. Don't just leave the man or as a man. Don't just leave the woman just because y'all are happy. Because I do feel like happiness is is limited. Like you said, you could be happy right now and 5 minutes later you said boohoo crying cuz you didn't watch the video on YouTube. It's temporary. So I wouldn't say that leaving someone for satisfaction of just their happiness. No. But when you come to having kids growing up in in in households where I'm now damn near 30 years old and I can recollect when I was not even in high school and I saw my daddy hold a front and pen to my mama. as a 30-year-old, as a child, I should not have those memories of my father or of my mother being abused. I shouldn't have had that. I shouldn't have to go through that. I shouldn't have to live through that. I shouldn't have to now navigate my dating life and unlearn traumatic things because of the household that my mom positioned us in and kept us in all because of that quote unquote stay for the children. And mind you, my parents have been together since before my mom was even 20 years old. So this is a relationship that this was a longstanding relationship, you know what I mean? So it's just like"
"at some point like like how we had to decipher like you were like you know telling somebody to make a list on Facebook of like what what's okay for us to talk about. Is it okay for us to talk about disability? I feel like that's the same thing in this essence."
"I'm here to tell you like your mama bro you know"
"I hate to break this to you but your mama was standing with him because of y'all. She was going through that before y'all was even thought of."
"That's what she was into."
"Oh, for sure."
"She knew your dad had hoes. And I'm not I'm not saying that your dad should have been abusive by no stretch of the imagination. That was wrong. And I apologize on the behalf of all men. But that's what she was into. She wasn't staying with him. She wasn't taking whoopings or being cheated on for y'all. That's what she wanted. So that's that's a that's very different. That wasn't for y'all. That was for her. If it if it was really for y'all, she wouldn't have procreated with a man that was whipping her ass and cheating on her from the get-go."
"So that's what you got to live with."
"Hold on. I leave want to lace you with some words."
"And and another thing is this is what and not saying that's what you doing, sister, but this is what I typically hear. Let's say I met a woman and she was the love of my life and then I found out she was on Only Fans or a prostitute. I'm not going to then turn back around and and tell people to be wary or risky of of what's happened in most households and push people from getting married to each other because I know that's a minority of a situation. So, if that's what your father was doing, I would think everybody on this panel, a majority of people would concede that your mother should get away from that situation where somebody's putting a fire ping pan against her head. But most men don't do that. But what's ironic about what you're saying because when we had these conversations and make me think even more, if a man leaves, he broke a household. It's nothing. It's not. Nobody cares about his feelings or his happiness or self- loveve and happiness. But when a woman leaves, they care about self- loveve and happiness. If it's appropriate for you to leave a man to do what's in the best in the interest of children and to do what's in the best interest of you if you're saying that mo men pose a threat to marriages, if man is just busting y'all down and using y'all for your bodies and we we feel like you pose a threat to our health and our love and our happiness, shouldn't we just not leave y'all alone, get married, too? Shouldn't we as a society just not uh promote marriage at all since you doing wrong by me and I'm doing wrong by you and we just keep having sex with each other?"
"Right. I and I and this is this and that's why I said men and women should both leave due to ABC and D because there are aspects where a man has a legitimate reason to leave. So I'm not saying that only"
"No. But did you know what the problem with that is? If we if we make that agreement and we say we gonna be friends, we going to be cordial. We going to be civil. We going to just show up with each other to have sex. No, you take care of yourself, you take care of me, the woman is going to be the first person to break down to want to have a relationship and to get resources and protection from the man. Y'all can y'all know y'all flip so many and and again, it's not against you. I'm saying women in general, you may be the special woman in general."
"Women can't Women That's why it's a man's word. It's not a woman's word. Women can't keep their word. That's why they say, "Hey, be a man of your word, 2K. me. Be a man of your word, Ali. It ain't no be a man woman of your word, my sister. My sister, what's your name up here?"
"Kai,"
"my"
"Yeah. They'll never say Kai be a woman of your word. What they'll go is, "OH, THAT'S KAI WAS JUST A WOMAN. SHE WAS just a woman. She was being emotional. She left." Oh, that's what just women do. Y'all are justified and validated for making bad decisions and still called a woman. But we got to be good men and good leaders 247. I don't When are women in general going to identify that y'all leave? Y'all pick every reason to leave instead of picking all the reasons to stay."
"Yeah."
"Yeah."
"And see, and I agree with that, but but that also comes into term with what women are you having conversations with? Because on the aspect of actually talking to an educated woman who has actually gone through the process of unlearning, what no longer serves her, is not going to face you with those types of adversities. See, listen to that word right there. We can't build off of society where she only doing stuff that serves her."
"But if I if a woman is unlearning something, she's unlearning it because it of the same way a man would unlearn a behavior. Everybody unlearns behaviors because they're no longer it's no longer serving them. So I'm not"
"So instead of just accepting what they said, instead of just accepting it, you can't help society. You can't help your family if something don't serve you your way. This is what you thought. Okay, this is what I'm going to do. I'm going to back up and now just say, well, men and women do this thing to serve them. That that is that like your your step back. That that's that's your James Harden step back, ain't it? It got to serve me. It shouldn't serve you. It serve both of us. Bip and then you take your shot. Like that's your step back. He Ali and them, right? Yeah. You know, you can't help him. You can't help. All you can do, all you can do is listen to them and when they're done speaking, say, "Nice call. That [ __ ] that [ __ ] going effed up in the head." That's the only thing you can do."
"Speaking just off of what a woman is doing. I'm speaking off of off of what both people should be doing. And what I'm saying is y'all are y'all are coming from it at a at a at a standpoint of like, well, women and women and women. And it's like, okay, cool. Yeah, I understand that cuz I'm a woman. So, I understand the the the woes of a woman, but I also but I also am just trying to just say like the the book in totality is not a negative thing because the truth of the matter is we we are living in a society where there are co-parenting relationships and I feel like that is also important. So look at"
"look at societ."
"I'm not saying that it's right, but since we're since that's what we're going through, should we not have someone who who is telling women like, "Hey, and men, let's unlearn these negative behaviors."
"Hey sister, what's your name? Jesus. She don't got to reveal her name, but he asked."
"Oh, I'm sorry. I didn't know. That's my name. Hey Shania, this how me and y'all changing the narrative. Y'all are telling men that they're making baby mamas and single mothers every single day, then you'll turn right back around and write a book about how healthy how co-arenting is healthy. How we should how she we should push a society where it's okay to have to have a separate household where everybody still hermit was about the negative things that she was doing and how she had to learn she had to learn to stop being so negative and she so that's what I'm saying. I can't I can't."
"If that's the case, if that's the case, take your back in that house. If that's the case, you know what? My fault. My fault. Maybe she did. Maybe she did. I ain't going to read that [ __ ] book. So, never mind. Maybe she did. But if that's the case, and that [ __ ] ain't say this, get your get your wide mouth out my face. If if he ain't say that, that motherucker with the craziest the craziest face in the world. My fault. Just hilarious. I don't mean to attack you, but I did. The dude with the her and her crazy looking face. That mother need to take her back over there then. If that's the case, oh, we going to co-parent. [ __ ] you ain't nobody trying to co-parent, RIGHT? TAKE YOUR BACK, [ __ ] You got kids. listen to a woman that can sit on a panel and say, "Hey, I've been wrong in my co-parent relationship. And now that I have taken the the proper steps to no longer be a toxic woman and and and no longer look at my child and be like, damn, that's like she said, now I'm in a place where now I need I need to teach other women that, okay, that's not okay." And I feel like that's not"
"she still she still I got to get you up out of here. Uh night, but uh she have a great day."
"No. All right. You have a great day tonight."
"Yeah. So she should teach women to close their legs. She should teach women how to bring something that benefits a man and you're not dealing with a man for something that solely benefits you. You shouldn't be pushing co-arents. And if that's the last case situ scenario where you did this man so bad that he don't want to be with you, then you respect the man try to co-arent and be civil and cordial with the man. But she be she should promote she should be promoting wives. She should be promoting women that man can benefit from. She should promote women that come to the table ready to be and perform for her children and the family. that co-arenting is just to make themselves look good."
"Yeah, that's a fact. U that that's you still having"
"the the that's you still being able to look good and say, "Hey, me and my my baby dad, we are cordial with each other for the kids and we we doing great." That's basically you saying, "Hey, I up, but not that bad."
"But in reality,"
"if y'all was doing so great, y'all to still be with each other for the child. Because if y'all could do that for the child, y'all could be with each other for the child. I think cuz like it's it's me overall. Now, if my wife want to leave me, she she got full range to leave me, right? But I'm never going to be the one to break up the family unit. I tell you that because I already know these same problems I'm having with you, the next chick going to give to me probably three time worse. I'm committed. I got a duty here."
"I kind of want to uh Q had a question in the comments. She was asking us, so like you guys are, you know, telling us and listing out like what women should do. Like what should what do y'all feel like men should do in order to keep the household together?"
"I think we've been doing it. Uh let's be honest, okay? We have adjusted to all y'all literally made adjustments to every last thing that y'all has threw of us. You remember once upon a time in order for y'all to get married, y'all had to be virgins. You know what we get today? We get a bunch of prefuck. She already got two kids, two baby daddies, and that's what we got to pick from. We have been adjusting like a mother. So don't don't say we ain't put in in these efforts to make it a I think you know they they always ask okay you know if you ask a man today what are you getting from marriage and a man can't really say that's because when you was getting married back then and the women were virgins you was getting your own special lady this was yours and yours only the claim to the game was none of y'all [ __ ] can say I had Please."
"Yeah."
"Yes. And add some more. 2K. Add some more. Hey, sister."
"If when women young and growing up, they got a 100 men that would marry them and take care of them and be suckers for them. But they not crazy about them. She'd rather have sex with the guy that say, "I never marry you." But she crazy about them. Y'all spend all your time trying to chase after the dudes that don't want y'all, but y'all have sex with, but you won't be with all the men that want to be with y'all that would give y'all everything that you're not crazy about. THEN WHEN YOU GET OLD AND you start getting wrinkly and you start losing your beauty, you go you try TO CIRCLE THE BLOCK and go back and get that dude that wanted you. He go, "Oh, now you want me. I'm a little bit more established. I I I got the the kinks out my armor a little bit now that everybody done ran through you. You want to settle down with me and you still ain't going to be crazy about me? You just want the benefit being a wife."
"Ali, they updated the playbook. What they doing now is uh uh uh they going to get the Young Bulls. All right. Now, keep this in mind. This this the irony of this. When they was 16, she won't [ __ ] with a 16 year old boy because he act like a little boy. So she go get with the older man. Then she get old and then go with the goddamn me the the younger boy. Now for some reason when she was 16, the young the young boys were mature enough. But now that she 54 on her way to 50, the young the the young boys are winning. All of a sudden they mature. So, hey, you still mute, Ali."
"That is correct. Big screen. Well, let's just you know those two callers. Eureka was nuts. Let's Eureka was really nuts. The second one. Come on, my dear. You can't you can't you can't shake nobody. You can't spin me. You can't spin me, [ __ ] Just like, oh man, this is something men and women should do. No, [ __ ] Stop that. Okay, stop that. All you did was sound You sound like Eureka, but not as crazy. Just hilarious trying to tell women that, "Hey yo, I messed up. This is the way you can do this thing and not mess up." No. No. You know how you do not mess up? Yeah. Stop leaving. That's the end. Stop leaving. You should You should be leaving when that [ __ ] is literally knocking your head between washer and dryer. Going to let you right now. Oh, wait. I ain't got no peace. First off, first off, let's get one thing straight. The amount of [ __ ] who are with women who whine all the time and and wants want them to do stuff that they don't want to do is ridiculous. You think these [ __ ] out here want to be trying to want to be out here trying to comp compete that much to make this make money and and do something like put put so much like um they put so much on their back and stuff like that like hey yo man I got to wake up at like 6:00 a.m. I got to be I'm going be back at 6:00 p.m. and then I I help you out a little. You think those [ __ ] who be doing those 12 hour things want to do that? NO. SO [ __ ] LIKE, "Oh man, you know, I've been stressed. I'm stressing. You know, my breast ain't as perky no more. They're sore." Like, no one like, "Yo, [ __ ] he's stressed. You stressed." It doesn't matter if you're stressed because the children is what's matter. The children is the only thing that matters. But the amount, I'll be honest with you. If I could be completely honest, I've I don't think I've ever heard a grown man, especially even a grown man with children, I have never heard them say the thing that you I hear women with kids say. Hey yo man, my mental state matters. Like me being depressed matters and all this stuff. The only people I hear say that is women. The only ones. It don't even matter. They're in a church, which is wild. The [ __ ] you hear in the church say that if they lady cheated on them, we'll we'll work this out. The women in the church say that if they're depressed, we they should part ways and be great co-parenting. I have heard [ __ ] in the church, and it's not even a little bit of them, say that if the lady cheats, we will work this out. Craziest thing in the world. But yeah, still if y'all this video man, Eureka nuts. That [ __ ] is nuts."