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Whose love did you crave the most growing up? Your mother or your father?
>> Father.
>> Yes.
>> And mother.
>> Your mother.
>> Both.
>> I'm asking whose you craved most. Not I'm sure you love them both. And I know you loved your mother. I'm saying whose love did you crave most?
>> Father.
>> That's right. Your answer. First answer is the right answer. But notice even there she covered both bases. Gave both answers just so I won't make a mistake. How many see this? Okay. This is what's filling your life up trying to be perfect.
So, who did you have to be for your father in order to have his attention or respect or love? Who did you have to be? And do not hesitate with perfection.
>> Be a successful person and make my life my own. Be independent.
>> Be independent.
>> Responsible.
>> Responsible.
So he wanted to make you a man because he her father's a good father and he loves his daughter. He knows what a difficult world is out there. So he tried to instill every way to show her how to be sensible because that's what he believed would lead to success or be successful. Excuse me. In order to be successful certain things you got to do. You got to be independent, right?
Who did you have to be for your mother?
>> Just like her.
>> Just like her.
>> Housewife. Take care of kids. She's totally dependent on my dad.
>> So, let's see. Here's what you're taught by the two people you love the most. Be independent. Don't be independent. So, she's worked hard her whole life to control herself into this being and then is no longer fully alive. But she tries to act like she is because inside there's a part of her that's never going to