Are Modern Women Angry Today? ©

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now if you want to get on with me and ask me some questions, knock yourself out. the only thing i gotta ask is to make sure you are camera ready. camera ready please, please, please because uh yeah, i want to make sure that you're looking good, i'm looking good, and we're doing it. so after tonight's show, we're going to be doing the ig after show, and that's how we're going to roll into 2020. a pre-show and an after show. all the platforms you may do, may end up mixing in facebook. but tonight, we're going to talk about it. why are modern women so angry? we also got to discuss something else too. you know, women are really bad at ranking and rating themselves. the more women i've talked to, the more i begin to realize women are really horrible, horrible, horrible at judging each other. and that is why so many women today are angry. with this average at best thing. that's what it comes down to. that's it. that's it. that's all. after this show, after youtube, we go live. hey man, everybody can shoot up atlanta. i'm making this money and building this brand. peace out.

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now remember, keep it nice, keep it respectful in the chat room. you know, don't get it crazy, don't get silly. uh, let me make sure the settings are right too before we get going. oh, you know what? i'm going to ask you guys to do something. i got to shut this down for a second. we're going to shut down and restart. 30, uh, 15 seconds. hit refresh. there we go. there's a problem with the resolution. so go ahead, hit refresh. we should be ready to go. there we go. there we go. there we go. here we go. here we go. is the tune starts to bloom for the fat fat sack. okay, microphone over here, microphone over here. should have some pretty decent sound. all right, so the question i asked today on ig is uh, and on youtube was a simple but yet profound question. is there a song playing there? better not be a song playing. let me make sure that there's no song playing because i don't. there's a song playing here. no, it's not a song playing. that's weird. okay, all right. i get kind of freaked out sometimes because with all these different systems going, i'm doing the job of 13 people over here. so uh, bear with me while we get started, huh? okay, all right. i get all right. now i'm getting double sound. so we're gonna do [Music]. let's mute that microphone because that doesn't sound quite right. let me make sure the mics are in. testing testing testing. okay, make sure the sound. so we're gonna [Music]. let's mute that microphone because that doesn't sound quite right. let me make sure that. all right, so there we go. so we'll test this microphone. that's mic's not hot. all right, so let's get into it. all right, the engagement needs to be up over 50. we're good with that. so let's get into it. the question of the day was, why are modern women so angry? and this is a question that needs to be answered. it needs to be answered in the biggest way because i personally do not understand why modern women are so angry. i mean, you're the most educated group of women there's ever been. you have more rights, more freedoms, more than anything else than anybody in the world. but yet, it seems as though it's not good enough. i watch a lot of content, read a lot, and and to stay up on what's going on. and what i've noticed is that when women are allowed to critique men, it's just fine. but when a man even offers a solicited critique of a woman, the world loses its mind. and you gotta ask yourself a question, why? what's the problem? what's the issue? frozen? okay, what's going on here? all right, well, well, i tell you, when it rains, it pours. when it rains, it pours. um, just a second, people. [Music] all right, well, we got power. all right, we're at 13. so here we go. we're good. let's get into it. power's up. source is up. oh my god. um, there we go. technical difficulty. ah, there it is. good. we'll stay right. good. all right, i asked a question on instagram. i asked the question. instagram asked a question on facebook. i asked it on youtube and i said, why are modern women so angry? i even asked the question, are modern women angry? before just jumping into it and assuming that everybody was seeing the same thing. i said, are modern women angry? of the women that answered, of the women that answered, 3,100 responses. okay, 3,100 votes. women, 80 percent of women said yes. ladies today, ladies today are happy. i mean, are not happy. i asked the question, ladies, oh, well, women today happy? 80 percent of women surveyed said women today are not happy. now, this isn't scientific. then i asked the same question to the guys. another of the guys, we had a little over 6,500, 6,700 votes. men, gentlemen, are modern women happy? 93 percent of men, 93 percent of almost 7,000 men said women today are unhappy. hold on. that is crazy. that is crazy. when we have almost 90 percent of women ranking as unhappy, well, what are men supposed to do about this? what are men supposed to do? what's what's the difference? ladies, trick question? okay, it's not a trick question. it's a real question. the question is, if men believe 9 out of 10 men asked say women are not happy, but ladies, 8 out of 10 of you said you're not happy either, well, whose responsibility is it to address this phenomenon? whose responsibility is it to address this phenomena? but here's a question. i went on to instagram and i asked on instagram. i i didn't just leave it at yes or no. on instagram, let's pull up some of the responses. let's pull up some of the responses. answers fear because they want everything their way and are insulted by the idea of compromise. modern women are so angry because the utter harshness of objective reality. truth hurts. lack of fathers. raised on disney. not enough facts of life. we love you. thank you. because they feel the rules don't apply to them. but reality shows and uh, or otherwise. because well, it's because of blank. bitter. because they want more than they logically deserve and can never get it. because they have taken unnatural roles in society. another person just shrugged their shoulders. guys, ladies, if 9 out of 10 men say you're unhappy and 8 out of 10 women say you're unhappy, what are you to do? what are you going to do about this, ladies? because this is your responsibility. this is how men experience the rank and file woman today. let me say this again. this is how men experience you. but before you get upset and start crying, claiming misogyny, massaging, war bashing, and all this other stuff, you need to also remember this. 80 percent of women said the same thing. 80 percent of women experience other women the same way. now, notice i didn't ask if women were happy with men. i didn't ask if women were happy with their job. i just said, when you wake up in the morning, are you freaking happy? and the reality is, the rank and file woman today is miserable. so i need, i got to ask a question. why? because you have more money, more education, more freedom. never, never in the history of the world have women had more freedom to choose the course or path of your life. never. there has never been a woman more free, more educated, more protected, more safe than the modern western woman in america, in particular. then why is then why is happiness through the floor? see, you hear all these terms like patriarchy and misogyny and internet. but you know what? if you ask the rank and file woman 70 years ago, were women happier? you're going to get numbers better than 80 percent. you're going to get most people saying that women were happier. ladies, why are you so unhappy? that's number one. and number two, whose responsibility is it to fix? because you are your own responsibility right now. you're on your, you're unattached. you're many women today are not married. so why is the happiness down? could it be? could it possibly be those old school patriarchal hardcore traditional systems that rough, tough, bad, old, grinchy men made actually improve your standard of life? because if you're happier, if previous generations of women were happier, why are not you? can't you can't say when the world is more evolved and more civilized. see, the funny thing about the human, the human uh mind is this. when we're by left alone, if we're left alone to do our own things, we sort things out pretty well. assortative mating. the hot people tend to give it to the hot people. the attractive people tend to get with the attractive people. the average people tend to give the average people. and the below average people get both below average people. and everybody's cool with that. but as we come in and try to upside down the system and tell everybody that we're all equal and you should get equal outcomes. and this is when the world gets absolutely insane. and it seems as though the more you get, the less happy you are. ladies, why is this important? because the backlash and firestorm of that viral video is still going on. i look across social media and i see women of all stripes acting like they have lost their ever loving mind because one man had the nerve to give an opinion of which he was asked for. i wasn't asked. she damn near begged me to give her my opinion. and i did. free of charge. and women are losing their mind. one of the reasons why i think women today are unhappy, personally, i think it lies a lot in what i do. i think personally that women today are so unhappy is because you lack humility. and humility is an accurate estimation. that's all it is. humility is just understanding an accurate estimation. that's truly what it means to have to have humility. to know that you are average at best. people with humility know that. but what have you heard women say overall? that woman rated herself too low. she should have rated herself higher. every almost every woman that came to the defense of the woman in the video came at me and told her she should have rated herself higher, irrespective of objective reality. therein lies so many modern women's issue. frustration, upset, anger tends to happen when expectation does not meet up with reality. many women said, she should have rated herself high. i think she was it. how many times have you heard women call in? i rank myself a 10 out of 10. i'm a 10 out of 10. i'm a 10 out of 10. all right, well, let's just say for the sake of argument. let's just say for the sake of freaking argument, okay? let's just say that the woman who rated herself for five or six when she was done up. let's just say that she didn't use my scale. and let's say she used her own scale. all right, then who is average? if she would rank beyonce at 10 and her and eight, somebody still has to be a five. and therein lies the problem. many of you don't want to deal with where you are. so you come up with reasons. the toxic masculinity, the patriarchy, that it is to that to that. the mirror is an objective, uh, an objective thing. it reflects back what it gets. it doesn't change anything. and we're getting to the point now to where we're getting so far off to where if you even dare to speak a truth that you were asked, you will be destroyed. ladies, this is not going to make you happier. men not telling you the truth is not going to make you happier. i think honestly, it's the opposite. i think men have been lying for you for too long. i think you've had too many panda bears and too many people telling you what you want to hear. yep. i think uh, all the people that keep calling you queens and uh, divas, and also all the people that keep doing this [Music] polka dot afro got no men to put you in front of, period. because men are logical. and men are not going to pay a higher price that they can honestly say, i'm not going to pay above average price for average. men just won't do it. so ladies, two tracks. women are massively unhappy today by women's estimation and men's estimation. and i think at the core of one of this is because we have taken away rankings. we have taken away rankings. taking away ratings. you can't judge a woman on a scale of one to ten. you can't judge a human being on a scale of one to ten. all right, well, my question, ladies, is this. who should rank women? who should, who's right? because i will tell you this. when you ladies, it has been my experience that women are horrible, absolutely horrible at ranking each other today. modern women are horrible at ranking each other. it hasn't always been this way. back in the days when we had miss america and beauty pageants and homecoming queens, before everybody got a trophy, women were pretty damn good at ranking themselves. that's why the hot people got with the hot people. above they're attracting people got with the attractive people. the cute or good looking people got with them. the average people got average. and below average got below average. you didn't have below average people trying to, you didn't have people trying to make the below average girl homecoming queen. just divert your signal and make everybody feel good. the hot girl got to be homecoming queen because that's the natural order of things. because like it or not, many women today have an inflated estimation of who they are, lacking humility. meaning you look at yourself and you see a dime piece. and you go out on the marketplace and men see a two piece. if you think you're a dime piece and a man think you're a two piece, it's gonna be a problem. it is going to be a problem. and you got folks running around here telling me you're gonna be at the bears. don't lower your price. don't lower your price. keep it way up there. keep it way up there. and then you keep on running out and going to school [Music] with a phd like, you know, if you have a phd, i'm a phd. you keep going out and attacking on degree after degree after this, after that, filler after this, and getting tangible stuff, things that you think should make, should matter. and ignoring the the simple stuff. well, guess what? over here, i'm telling women, here's the thing. 2020 is as pretty as possible. whereas as fit as you can get and as pretty as possible. that's right. on top of your phd, your law degree, medicine, whatever. i don't care. you can be a a rocket, a rocket surgeon or brain scientist for nasa. and you still need to be as fit as you can get. it as pretty as you as pretty as possible. because men are not going to change. men are still ranking you, whether men are saying it or not. i was watching jubilee and i get so tired of watching stuff like this where they'll have feminists on one side and then men's rights over here. and they have the most mealy-mouthed, jelly-backed, weak men trying to to debate with feminists. jubilee put me in this mother sucker. you want some views? put me against the feminist. don't go get some freaking incel and some guy. i'm just really trying to understand. and a guy with a thick accent. put somebody up there who can sit there and look him in the face and say, like it or not, you're a three. well, i heard this. well, i feel. just go watch that feminist versus men's rights. just listen to the language that was used. the women were angry and aggressive. the men were timid and weak. and women have seen this over and over again. but none of those women looked happy. even the one that said she was married. what is all this getting you, ladies? if it's not increasing your overall outcomes, what's happening here? if it's not increasing your overall outcomes, what is it doing? that's what i really want to know. what is it doing? one of the biggest issues i have seen with the video that i made is women. this is a familiar refrain. that woman should not have gone to that man to get an evaluation. she should have evaluated herself. that is stupid. show me an attorney who represents himself and i'll show you an attorney who has a fool for a client. this is what you're being told by women. ladies, don't go to a man, even a professional qualified man, to get an estimation of your actual level of attractiveness to the very man you say you want. all right, then cool. because i've been raked up one side and down the other. all right, then who should do it? and i tell you, go watch these videos. and guess who you're going to see on the screen? the bunch of the eternal sevens. the queens of average. they're the ones that have the most to say. and here's the thing. you can make all the sassy comments and say all you want. but the reality is, nine out of ten of you know. and eight, I mean, nine out of ten men know. and eight out of ten women know. modern women today are unhappy. and you can say what you like, ladies, but you know that the kind of man that you want is ranking you. and you just simply don't like what you really qualify for. you want a Mercedes and you qualify for a Honda Accord. see, it used to be when somebody made Honda Accord money and had, you know, and and made 75,000, 80,000 home money, that they were good with that. they were proud of that. that's what they aspired to. they were proud of their Accord and their 80,000 home. but you know what? when the housing bubble happened, I was one of the few people that around me that I knew that did not get into it because I saw it was a bubble economy. I saw people who knew they were making 40,000 dollars a year and knew that combined with them and their spouse, that all they could afford was a 100,000 dollar home. I saw people who knew their credit rating, their income, their debt to income ratio, all the numbers. but because somebody came along with magic beans telling them, you can get a mansion, they went and did it because they saw everybody else doing it. study tulip one day and study what happened in the Netherlands when people lost their mind over tulips. people went along and did it. they raised their values to keep up with the Joneses. honestly, for the people who didn't get involved in this, you were almost made to feel like you were crazy. what, you're not gonna go out and get a mansion for just you and yourself? yeah, I need to go get a 30 room mansion because I have a great debt to income ratio. I don't need all that. you need to know where you rank, ladies. you need to know where you rank going into 2021. if you want to have a better outcome, you need to be able to understand how the world sees you. pause. let's scratch that. scratch, scratch, scratch. you need to know how men see you. you need to know how men see that. that's right. because unless these women who keep telling you, don't worry about it, got some men in their back pocket for you, as long as you plan on one, one day wanting to get married and have kids, you better understand how the men that you want see you. because i'ma tell you this. oh, i'm oh, let's go. let's go. shout out to obsidian. shout out to my boy obsidian media network. shout out to osa duke jackson too. that brother has done a hell of a job. shout out to the black manosphere for coming through this year. because like it or not, ladies, you better start listening to the men you say you want. you better start listening to me. in period. because like it, men, period. this is not a black issue. this is a western issue. men are saying, uh uh. got average men. um, where's the average number? the median income for men, the median income for men in this country is roughly 52,000 dollars. and for black men, it's roughly 40,500. the net, the net net of it is there was 10,950 dollar difference between what the average black man makes versus white men. for simple math, it's called 11,000 dollars. um, let me show it to you. i'll show it to you. show it to you. but i can tell you how we doing today, people. are we good? ah, that's not. um, let's go to blackdemographics.com. let's do it here. so go to blackdemographics.com. i love blackdemographics.com. great, lots of good, good stats. and i think it's funny to now i'm starting to hear women starting to go against the the stats now. well, how do we know who those stats are for? they could be an agent. wow. when you got to start beating up on the stats, you really lost the argument. you really lost the argument. if you got to start beating up on the stats. blackdemographics.com. population [Music] male statistics. there we go. here we go. here we go. here we go. here we go. here we go. here we go. there we go. black men. all other men. 52,000 dollars. that's the full worked, full time, year, year-round, age 16 and up. 52,000 for four dollars. let's call it 52,000. and for black men, it's 41,54. sear that into your mind. let's call it 52 and 41. 52 and 41. 52 for white men. 40, 41 for black men. see, there's a misconception that just because they're the dominant, the largest uh ethnic race in this country, that they're rich. their average white man is making 52,000 a year. the average hispanic man makes less than the average black man. and the average asian man earns more than average white men. but here's the question, ladies. the difference between what the average white man and the average black man makes is 11,000 dollars. so black men, what black women will really have you believe is if you make 11,000 dollars more, you can start getting submission like white men. that's all you gotta do. make 11. go get a part-time job. and you can get the submission. brad gets game over. good night. thank you guys for showing up. that's the fix. because with just an 11,000 dollar increase, you should get, you should get femininity, submission, cooperation, whatever you like. 11,000 dollars. 11,000. now, ladies, do you think if the average rank-and-file black men really believed it was as simple as making 11,000 dollars more, that he could approximate the tr get treatment of another racing man? how quickly do you think the ranking fire brother would run out and go get a part-time job? huh? what, i can get some cooperation, some act right for 11,000 dollars? them the madden, the playstations, and them x boxes, all that stuff be put up with the quicks. brothers be like, i'm gonna do it better. i got 12. i put an extra grand on it because i like hot sauce on my brother. come through with another 12,000 and be like, shoot. one minute she would roll on her neck and act on our neck. next thing you know, she is acting right. got a good attitude. that 80 percent uh out of wet like number is starting to fall. that 80 percent overweight no beast numbers starting to fall. you know, all the things that you hear a lot of guys complaining about. you know, the the natural, the hair industry is starting to experience bankruptcies and shortages. whoa. we've seen an 85 reduction in yankee whole foods start popping up all over the place because vegetables start getting cooked. i'm being facetious. but are we really? i mean, because that's it's about money and resources, right? no, it's not. 11,000 dollars difference. that's a lot different. because at the end of the day, there's really not much men can do that's going to change whether or not women are happy if they're not dealing with reality. now, you got women calling men dusty who make more than they do, who are more educated, more accomplished. i'm like, well, wait a minute. so if you just have a dis, if you disagree with what some of these women saying, they can make a tenth of what you make and they actually have the nerve to sit in judgment of you, calling you dusty? why? because you're living in a land of fantasy backed up by women talking to one another, telling each other everything's gonna be all right in an echo chamber. but it's not changing your outcomes. ladies, in 2021, if you find yourself going into places and echo chambers telling you what you want to hear, tickling your ears, you're going to waste another year. you're going to waste another year. because what is not going to happen is men aren't going to just accept it. see, 50 years ago, george jefferson could well, weezy's no beauty queen, but she's average. he was average. weezy was happy to get george. but no, now weezy would actually think she deserves denzel. and george wouldn't be good enough. well, certain, well, george at the end would have, but she wouldn't gonna work with george all the way up. and this is what's happening. the more you live in these bubbles, the more deluded you get. the higher your expectations become to where you're not even willing to get with a guy and build. so let me get this right. you ladies darn near want a man who's six foot tall, six figures or more, whatever the other six is. and you want him to love his mother, love pets, like your kid, not really adore you, be faithful, cook, clean, and everything else. it's the husband store. and you want him to have it by age 25. modern women are frustrated and upset, unhappy because you are at odds with reality. and it's and you've gotten to the end of the game. if you've ever played monopoly before, everybody starts out with the same amount of money. uh, and it just comes down to rolling the dice, going around the board, landing on property, making deals. but there comes a point in time in the game of monopoly when people start losing, people start getting bankrupt, people can't. you land on something that look, the older you get, the higher up you go, the less time you have, and the fewer moves you have. ladies over 35, many of you are at the end zanger zone. you've crossed from the danger zone into [Music] and the reality is [Music] there is no prince akeem. there's no wakanda. there is no fantasy. at the end, there is no moving hollywood ending. it's just alone by yourself. and then you turn around and get upset with who? you can't be upset with the men because the men are in dealing in reality. see, like it or not, the science of assortative mating says, you know, you're lame as an image consultant, an image professional. i know that people truly know their lane. they may say they don't. but we have evolved to know our lane. meaning if you look through your life, there's a high end and a low end of what attracts you, uh, approaches you, and is attracted to you. and people tend to get in their lanes from a look standpoint. men can leap lanes with resources. women cannot. never has been a time in history that women can leap lanes with resources. women can only leap lanes with femininity, fitness, cooperation. and what's happening is guys who are average, everyday guys, like average everyday brad, average every, well, not brad, let's call him brandon. see, blake, lee, ahmed, keith, and enrique. the henry's. they are above average men. but brandon, brandon, he worked at the plant. brandon, he works, you know, at the purina mill. brandon, he works, uh, as a as a postman. he's a average everyday white guy. and kenneth, average everyday brother, he works right out there with brandon. but the difference is, brandon has. brandon's women are more realistic about what they are. because there is still a heavy emphasis on their bodies, their fitness, and their looks. why is this important? because brandon is willing to get with a a five or a six, possibly even eternal seven. but he does not expect to get an eight, nine, or a ten. and women, for the most part, understand that. brandon is there. eight, nine, or ten. why is there such a disconnect? especially in the black community. we have women who really are expecting. you've been told you can have it all. but it's not working, ladies. men are going to purchase a woman with what they have. if he's an average earner, he's going to get the best of the average women he can get. and there used to be a time that these women were still fit and cute and cooperative and friendly and feminine, happy. they were happy. there was a lightness, a joy about these people. now that's been stripped, according to men, from nine out of ten of you. according to women, from eight out of ten. so here's the question. before we open the lines, ladies, if you're not good at, if women are horrible at ranking themselves, unhappy, what do you expect the rank and file men to do? if the shoe was on the other foot, if you expect men to accept that, if you flip the scenario, you would for sure be saying, you wouldn't even say the woman is settling. you'd say she's dating down. who wants to be with an average looking, unhappy woman? most people are average folks. i didn't make the math. most people are average. who wants to be with a. so are you unhappy? what are you gonna do about it? are you as fit as possible? what are you gonna do about it? are you as pretty as possible? what are you gonna do about it? because the end consumer, men, will not buy it. they would rather not buy. because understand, you're asking someone. let's take it away from men and women. man walks onto a lot and he sees a car. and he's got the money and the credit to buy what he wants. so he's going to get the best deal possible for a brand new car. because he's the only driver. he's got the highest warranty, all the bells and whistles and the perks, and the highest level of service from 99 percent of the. he has top one percent benefits. you know, platinum level service. he has a flat tire and they send a helicopter out to get this guy. that's how some people live. but then you got a guy who is working hard for his money, living paycheck to paycheck, like most americans had to save up his money. and he's going and to buy a car. he wants the same kind of experience is this guy got. but he can't afford it. so he doesn't expect it. but he would like to have as close as possible. but what he does want is he does want a reliable vehicle that can get him to point a to point b. that he can be independent, live his life. a vehicle that he can be proud to drive, whether it work around friends, something that he can trust, something he can depend on, reliable transportation. but he also would like that reliable transportation to ride good. the air conditioner, the amenities, the things like that to work. he doesn't want reliable transportation in the inside you're sitting on a milk crate. he's gonna get the best his money can buy. now, if the man up here buying the one percent vehicles, the big body benz's and the beamers and all this other stuff, everybody wants their business. they're only a few of those. 50 percent of the market with these guys. they got to make the car payment whether they got a premium car or not. do you honestly think that this man should go get a vehicle that's not going to meet his needs, not reliable, not dependable, and it's uncomfortable? you think he's going to work his butt off to have to make those car notes and payments and obligations and everything else? because once he signs and takes it, he's responsible for it. if it breaks down or whatever, it's more money into it. that's how we think, ladies. men are more out to be like, forget it. i'll just uber. i'll get a bicycle. i'll take the bus. i'll walk before i deal with the headache of getting into a bad car. ladies, that's just a damn car. so we start talking about a wife, a mother of your children. if you wouldn't make a good car, how the hell you think you're gonna make a decent wife? hello? so don't get mad at me because men are going to shop around, compare, contrast, look at what the market's going to buy and decide, i'm going to get the best i can afford. or if it, if what i can afford doesn't meet my needs, i'll take mass transit. i'll take the subway. i'll carpool. right? ladies, want to hear from you. why do you think women are so angry today? because if eight out of ten you say women are angry, why do you think women are angry? and what can be done about it? because i'm trying to, i'm best trying to explain to you that many of you have met your match and you've blown it. you had your guy early on. i'm going to release a video, a standalone video of several conversations with women that i got to talk about before opening call lines. women in general, black women in particular, hear me and hear me well. many of you one early. you found your husband, you got married early. and sadly, you believe the grass is greener on the other side. you got women out here telling you, you got married too early. you didn't know what was out there. what was it? uh, tony braxton saying she wished she'd slept around more in her twenties. what, you got women out here walking away from salvageable marriages, fixable marriages, because of jobs, because they actually think about what i just said. you got women who want to get married and would love to not have to work. and i talked to a woman who's divorcing a husband who wanted her not to work. say that again. you got women out here wanting to get married and would love to marry a husband to where they were not, they did not have to work. and then on the other hand, you got women who got married early and are divorcing their husbands because their husbands did not want them to work. and they want to work. how is a person, how is a gender who thinks like that supposed to be happy with the other? that's what I'm saying. I don't really see what men can do unless women are ready to get self-aware, grateful. well, gratitude, humility, empathy, and self-awareness. if women aren't ready to deal with these things, men just gonna take the bus. men gonna take the bus. because it's honestly getting kind of crazy out here to where even a man saying, i think you look average. oh, no, excuse me. saying, i agree with you, you look average. and that means he should be destroyed. i mean, you don't want to hear anything from me. and that's clear. but who do you want to hear something from? one another, ladies. if you don't plan on listening to men, what's the alternative? is it marrying women? getting with women? because where does this end? because all that's happening is life is getting, life is going on. you're getting older. and uh, uh, i, i don't, i don't get it. i don't get it. but let's talk about it. we're gonna open the call lines. uh, because i wanna hear from the ladies. and again, if you have a, you know, the detractors are always welcome to call. only one rule. one, make sure your your background noise is clear. and you can, you can dis, you can not like me all you want to. all i ask is you be nice to me. i'll be nice to you. let's get it. oh, i don't hear the song. so their guns are popping up over here like a mug. god, people are losing their mind. you know, folks love the reason to uh, act a fool. so let's do this. what you gonna do when highlight catch an attitude? drop to the knees and show gratitude. kiss my ring, chick. this song right here is for all the fellas out there taking care of business and making that money to provide for the ladies, provide for their family. and to all the ladies out there, the fellas are gonna need a little bit more than a big piece of chicken. if you got a good man and you want for nothing and you want to keep that man, you need to learn how to check that attitude. you need to show [Music] ring. bow to me. bow to me. kneel for me. nail for me. pay how much to the king in your life? wisdom and security i give. devotion and honesty i show. passion and love you feel. that bow [Music] baby girl, what's the [Music] giving me [Music] [Music] when [Music] [Music] [Music] [Music] for me [Music] in your life. there we go. double play. so there we go. kiss the ring. kiss the ring. good song. i like that song. all right, so here we go. the call line is open. again, only thing we ask is one thing. you're nice to me. i'll be nice to you. that's it. [Music] there we go. just a second. let me get this. [Music] yeah, we'll be on ig after this for the follow-up. back to me. all right, so here's how this is gonna go. remember, you gotta turn off the uh, sound in the background first. people come in. okay, let's put it hold on. mute all upon entry. all right, hello. three one two three one zero. uh, what's your first name? karen. okay, okay. what do you, what do you got for me? i stumbled across you like this past week and i've kind of been binging your videos and um, yeah, they they hurt. but why? because so i'm a late bloomer and a lot of what i'm learning, i didn't pick up from my environment or my parents. um, they married really young, so they were kind of like each other's first. okay. and um, so that i say it kind of hurts because a lot of the things that you were talking about in regards to black women and certain things, i was doing myself and i was like, oh my god. okay, so how old? it was like a blessing. i'm 26. all right, so are you out here dating? i'm getting back into the dating scene, but it's so, it's different. what do you mean? i'm sorry, do you mind saying that again? i said, what do you mean it's different? um, different and what i mean by that is my experience right now with men, i'm either realizing like there are things that i have unrealistic expectations about or um, i'm coming against men who are still figuring it out, which is great because i'm young, you know. but do you want to get married? i do. yes. okay, do you want children? yes. all right. um, i always ask this question. do you want to have to work to pay significant bills after you're married? i would not want to, but i do have aspirations that i'd like to see out. okay, what does that mean? i want to still be able to like serve in my community the way that i'd like to, like still be of service. all right, how many kids do you making my life? um, anywhere between like four to five. four to five. um, yeah, i know it sounds like a lot. well, that is a lot. how tall are you? i'm five five. dress size? my dress size is a four. i'm sorry. three. three. all right, and what, and so what's the problem? i mean, um, three, four. um, what would you rank your your looks on a scale from one to ten? you cannot use seven. um, i would say eight. uh huh. yeah. all you are you eights not coming up? it doesn't make it by saying that the phone broke out. i said, all these eights that don't come up. and you're in california? i am in nevada. i used to live in california. all right, well, okay. uh, are you driving? i was, i'm at my destination. i was listening to your show on my phone. all right, well, here's one thing i would start. i'm going to start asking you ladies to actually, you should have a picture or be willing to get on camera. because i'm going to tell you, i think most women, i don't think, i know for a fact, professional fact, that the rank and file woman is horrible at ranking themselves and others. this is horrible. and the thing is, your our lives kind of reflect back what we are. so we kind of mean that you're talking about being able to marry four or five kids. you're talking about a man who's earning 350, 400,000 a year. what percentage of men earn that? not a lot. honestly. like top 10? no, no. give me what percentage. give me a number though. percentage-wise. i would say about 15 to 20 percent. girl, please. that's three. top three percent of me. three, three, zero. I mean, three, three, ninety-seven percent of men do not earn that. do not earn that. 97. and if you want a black man too.

I do, yeah. Okay. You're talking less than six, less than eight percent of black men earn six figures or more. Your expectations are insane if you think you can find a man like that who's single in your area. And honestly, if let's just get that, you are an eight. Men who are making, man, say that one more time. Then who are making that kind of money are like the cream of the crop.

I mute yourself. I mute yourself. Okay. All right. Well, see, this is one thing that, uh, uh, okay, we're gonna go ahead and put you back in the, she muted herself up. So, putting the waiting room. See, one of the big issues I see with a lot of women today is you guys are just, and I don't think you do it on purpose, but y'all are just woefully out of touch with the numerical reality of what it is to be men. Uh, Maya, I don't get it. Uh, Maya, I'll mute yourself. I'm mute yourself. I'm asking you to unmute yourself. Maya. Maya, going once. Maya.

I'm here. Okay. All right. Do you have the computer on in the background? What is all that noise going on in the background? Turn off the TV. Turn up YouTube. Wow. Yeah, you need to take off the Bluetooth. Okay. Hello? Yes, I'm here. All right. So it's pretty, it's kind of low. I can't hear you as, as I'm, I'm from, as well as I was hearing you. Well, um, you might want to get your audio because I'm just fine. Um, so you, you probably still have your Bluetooth on. Anyway, what can I do for you?

Well, I was, uh, listening to your speech earlier or to what you were saying, and it just sounds a lot like you're targeting the angry black woman. I just want to know, like, what is, what is that about? Are most black women angry, or is it just some? First, let me ask you. First off, let me ask you. Hold on, hold on, hold on. Do you have background noise going on? Is that a kid or a TV or something? More. I'm sorry. Yes, that's, that's my son. He's awake. Okay. Is there any way you can get into a place where there's just you? Yeah. You don't go upstairs. Thank you.

Oh, okay. So my, my specific question or what I was wondering was, what is it about? I mean, really, it could be women in general, but what is about the angry black women? Because I also saw your video, uh, with the other young lady who was first up. Hold on, hold on, hold on. You got a list. How old are you? 27. Uh, how many children do you have? One. Are you married? Nope. Okay. Um, angry black woman. I put a poll up and they said, I put a poll up and almost seven thousand men responded. Seven thousand. Ninety-three percent of those men said women are not happy today. I put the same poll up and almost four thousand women responded. Four thousand women. And eighty percent of those women said that women aren't happy today. So, due respect, most people seem to think women are unhappy today, huh? So what do you mean by targeting, targeting the majority of women? Because it just seems to be a repetitive statement being said about angry black women.

Well, if not. Okay, ma'am. Well, if nine out of ten, kind of don't. Hold on. No, no, no, no, no, no. If ninety percent, if men, ninety percent, or eighty, let's just say eighty-five percent of men and women think women are angry today, eight out of ten, eighty-five out of a hundred. I'm talking to the majority. My question is, why are, do you see the minority as the majority, or do you not think that most women today are upset?

I can see it. I'm not going to say that it doesn't exist. It's definitely present. Well, what percentage? Well, what percentage of women would you say are happy today? It depends on what you would consider a label as happy. I mean, no, no, no. See, that's why I asked you as general. Just, I would say it's fifty-fifty. I don't think there's people. Fifty percent of women today are happy? Really? I mean, I know I'm not angry. I can really only speak for myself, but I would say it's, it could be fifty-fifty. Yes. And what state do you live in? I live in Washington D.C. Okay. Fifty percent of women. So, um, you're twenty, how, twenty-seven? Let's look, let's look at popular media. Tyler Perry. Okay. Is he, are his plays, movies, and, uh, are his works filled with just joyful, happy, light, effervescent black women? I mean, no. Okay. Who, what, what popular movies, books, works of fiction are full of light, bright, effervescent, joyful black women?

I'm sorry, can you repeat that for me one more time, please? What media's, what media, what media is filled with light, joyful, bright, effervescent black women? None. Why do you think that is? I honestly think that that's a misrepresentation in the media. Really? So media is about making money. True or false? Truth. So if you were outright misrepresenting or lying, who would buy it? I'm sorry, just one more time. If you were trying to sell a product, you telling me that the products out there are misrepresented? Well, then who's buying it? Even better question. Let me rephrase this. Shonda Rhimes, black woman. How does she depict black, black women in her works? Well, one show that I am actually especially, um, prone to by Shonda Rhimes is Grey's Anatomy. She's one of the executives, right? And, uh-huh. You're not gonna over talk me. You need to get to a place where you can hear because I think you're having a problem hearing. Mute yourself, please. Yeah, you're having a problem hearing.

So here's the thing, ma'am. I'm confused because I'm, I have an iPhone. I'm not understanding why I don't. And everything else is playing fine. I was just watching the live YouTube and everything sounded just. Let me drop you back out and I'm just trying to understand why now. I'm gonna put you back out and put it back in. I don't know. Um, I'll bring you back in in a second. See, what I think is a lot of women just don't like the fact that more people are starting to come out. And honestly, my view was never a story. Okay? And neither was mine. You know, neither is mine as a black man. Many, many times, black men's stories aren't told. So, uh, if you want to get on, get on camera because that's who priority goes to. Do, do. Ty Reed. Ivory. Hello. Hey, how you doing, Kevin? Are you cooking? Yes, I'm making my New Year's, um, dinner. Okay. What do you got for me? Okay, so first of all, I want to say Happy New Year. Happy New Year to you too, you and your audience. And I did not really hear about you into that whole viral video when you was giving the woman the feedback on the, she, she said she was a five and six and stuff like that. But since I found you, I am really happy I did because you do give out a lot of great information. And I was telling my male friend, like, I really wish something like this was around 15, 20 years ago for women because you bring so much value to your audience if they're open to receive where you're coming from. Uh, uh, uh, how old are you? I'm 40 years old. So you're, and I'm 51. And this is what I say. Our generation, we were lied to. And I think that I really want to come. I'm sorry, I didn't mean to cut you off. Um, I was calling in to really follow instructions and and answer your question of why I think that, um, the average women or women's agreement are unhappy. A lot of people can agree with that, and I can too. Because before I started doing my healing work and putting the time into, um, counseling and doing what I needed to do for me, I was unhappy as well. And one of the things that the counselor did when I went to therapy was she started in my childhood. And I can honestly say that I think a lot of women are unhappy because we have not been taught how to love properly. And we're trying to, um, love and have relationships from a broken place, a place that, that in us that we need to heal. And then number two, now, 20 seconds because I got to get to some more folks. And they're like, and I also think, like, lastly, I also think that it's, yeah, we can say that women are unlike people are unhappy, but we have to look at how we got here. We're talking about our generation, my generation, where we grew up where we got a lot taken from us due to the crack cocaine epidemic. So we didn't have the same parents that our parents had. We didn't have the same upbringing that a lot of us, um, that a lot of people who are older had because we lost a lot of our aunts, uncles, grandmothers, mothers, fathers due to the crack cocaine epidemic. So that's true. That's true. And however, I, at our age, the work needs to be done. But also, I, I, I cringe when I hear that because far too often, we use it as the justification for not doing it, doing the work. Yes, all that happened. Um, but then still, we still have to do something to get better outcomes. But thanks for calling in. Make them black-eyed peas and have a good New Year. That was Tyree.

Okay, um, see, here's the thing too. A lot of folks in my generation, a lot of women in our generation, they use that as a reason as to, uh, why they are stuck where they are. Nakia, your microphone's not connected. C.J., C.J. Hello. Hello. No sound from C.J. All right, we'll go to Aaliyah. Aaliyah, I'm mute yourself, please. Hello. Hello, Mr. Samuels. Can you hear me? Yes. How old are you? I am 26. Wow, you're a youthful 26. Oh, well, thank you. You're very kind. What do you have for me?

I wanted to answer your question. Um, I believe that a lot of women today are very unhappy because we're taught to shoot for more instead of being grateful for what we have. Okay. Elaborate. What do you mean? So, um, I guess the best way to elaborate on this is, um, when I was younger, my dad told me that there are some women who are models, and then there are some people that help produce the movie. And that doesn't necessarily mean that you're less than because you're not the actress or you're not the model, but you have to be understanding and realistic when it comes to how you're seeing. I got it. I got it. Thank you, Aaliyah.

All right, so I got a question for you ladies. How'd that hit you when, if you're, I told the, the woman yesterday talking about how to, to re-estimate or rank their daughters. When you have the conversation, fathers should be telling their daughters in the nicest, fatherly way possible that either you are the movie star type or you're the camera woman type. Because mothers tend to tell their kids they can do it all. And far too many women really overestimate. To where when this whole average thing came out, you would think I cursed that woman's eternal soul the way some of the responses have come out from black women. Um, let's get over to, [Music] Nikki. Okay, if you have a disagreement, raise your hand. Hello. Hi, Nick. What do you got for me? Yeah, what do you got for me? Okay, so I just have a question. Um, it's nice to meet you. Happy New Year. Um, I like your content. I've actually been a thinker of things that you talk about my entire life. Like, I was like the one that went against the grain of the things that I've heard. Okay, so it's nice to actually hear a man come out and very, you know, validate the things because I thought I was going crazy. Okay, so we gotta get, we gotta get on to the, uh, gotta get on to the next point. So what, okay, what I wanted to say is that, um, I am one that's happy, I guess, because I've learned, you know, things early on, which is what I was trying to, uh, explain before. Okay. But I do believe that, um, it does have a lot to do with, um, things that were, you know, a common thing. Are you all happy? Yes. Okay, so let me ask you a question because your last name says Serenity, but how do you experience the average rank-and-file woman today that's not you? Well, see, I mean, women and men think differently. So, yeah, but, you know, how do you experience them in your life, in a day-to-day life? Do you think the average woman is walking around as, as, uh, well-adjusted as you say you are? Um, well, more because, um, I'm, you know, I, I don't follow like the, you know, the standard of what they consider. You know, for. I think you misheard me. I said I'm asking about the, the women, not you. Okay. I'm asking, do you feel like, uh, I mean, because I hear you, if you're, if you're, if you're a happy woman, do you think you're in the majority or the minority of modern women? I'm definitely a minority. There we go with that. Yeah. Okay. Let me put you right here. Uh, Sophie. See, women hear women like her and they get angry because they're like, ah, you ain't heard my pain, my story. Here's the thing. All right, Sophie. Here, Sophie. You have a disagreement. Cool. Let's do this. Uh, hello. I'm mute yourself, please. Sophie. Hello. Hello. I'm, well, your first name is Sophie. So, okay. What are you? Sephora agreed with you totally. But today, I don't. Well, tonight, I feel like women are unhappy. I hate to take it there, but I feel like it's just unfaithful men. Like, we've been through it. We've watched our mothers go through it. Hold on, hold on, hold on. Let me ask you. Before, how old are you? I'm 24. 24? Yes. I think you called in talking about your mother and father and the infidelity in the issue. No, I, I've never called in. This is my lit, my first time. So at 24 years old, okay? Yes. Have you had anyone cheat on you? Yes, I have. Okay. So let me ask you, if 51% of black men are single and childless, okay, how can the majority of black women be cheated on? I feel like every black woman I know has been cheated on. Ma'am, those are numbers. Okay. 51% of black men are single and childless. How can the majority of black women be cheated on? Okay, well, I didn't know the numbers. I'm just going off of, you know, just what I know. My friends. Yeah. The, the adultery, the, the, the admitted adultery rate or cheating rate by black men, I want to say it was like 28%. Okay. Which is pretty high. Would you agree? Yeah. 28%. What was the admitted adultery or cheating rate by black women? I don't know. What do you guess? I'm guessing. Give us more. Give me a guess. I mean, I, I'm asking because based on your experience, black women are the victims or the recipients of cheating. I would say about, about the same. Then, right? Okay. 24 percentage points separated. And they're more black women than black men. So 24% of a number that's 2 million more. See what you find is realized is when a man is cheating, there's a vagina along with that. It's not, it doesn't happen in a vacuum. Yes. No. Yeah, yeah. So if you're walking around at 24 years old, honestly believing that the majority of women are angry because of cheating men, the numbers, the math, the logic just doesn't hold. I'm not angry. I'm just speaking on behalf of other women I know. But I didn't say you were angry. I'm saying if you believe them. Okay. If you believe the majority of women are angry because they're being cheated on, they're not even married. So how do you feel like it's just like women are just tired, tired of, you know, the, and they're coming together. Okay. 51% divorce rate in this country. You know that, right? Yeah. In the black community, 8 out of 10 divorces are filed by women. Eighty percent of. Oh, listen to what I'm saying. Do you, about to speak before you even say anything. Listen to what I'm saying, okay? 51% divorce rate in the black community. It's higher. But in our community, 8 out of 10 divorces, breaking up with families, broken homes, are initiated, filed by women. If even half of that number is for cheating, adultery, the worst parts in the Bible, that still means there's half. Four out of ten that are not. In short, men, men don't leave relationships. Women leave relationships. Black, white, Hispanic, or other. The cheating numbers for men and women are in line. They don't vary by but a few percentage points. You guys tell a horrible victim story that just doesn't line up with the facts. I hear you. Yeah. And you've been allowed to. And here's the thing, ma'am, at 24, you've been allowed to live this lie because this lie has been told and perpetuated in popular media for the last 40 years, right? And that's why I appreciate you because I'm like, this is what I need to hear. You know, I'm happy. I'm enjoying it. All right, well, I'm just saying, there's always another side of it. Okay. Appreciate it. I mean, ladies, you're not victims. Um, if you have a disagreement, you should raise your hand so I can see you pop up quicker. There's a raised hand icon next to your, uh, Erica. Go ahead. Hi, Kevin. How are you? Hi. What do you got for me? Well, I think women are unhappy overall. Um, and I think it's because we're trained and we're raised up to be selfish. And so we always think that the opportunities will be there. And once we reach a certain age, those opportunities dry up. And I think it creates a lot of resentment and hostility within us. I'm not going to lie. I've had many sessions this last couple of weeks with women and doing the mirror exercises. The selfishness in the Western woman is, it's incredible. Yeah. I would agree. I mean, I'm selfish, but it's not malicious. It's not malicious selfishness. Most women are selfish and don't even realize it's selfish because no one says, "That's kind of selfish." Yeah. So, all right, well, they don't think I planted you here, but, can I, can I get a rating though? I, I'm ready. Oh, I'm not doing that right now. I'm doing that on Tuesday. I'm on Monday when I come back. Come back on Monday. Okay. All right. Yeah, I try to do, because when I do those, I have to have people on camera. So people can see. So when I do the rating show, you have to be on camera. Invisible. All right. Um, Nakia, where'd she, what happened to her? She just went away. I'm here. All right. What do you got for me?

Okay, so I am so happy that I came upon your show because it is so true. We walk around with anger that we don't even realize. And I notice that when I work with black women and, um, when I work with women in general, like, they just have expectations that are very demanding for the fact that they don't even have, they have no reason to have the expectations that they have. And especially in the workplace, it's really sad that, um, even your counterparts in your work environment bring a type of energy that you try to avoid. And I think a lot of that energy comes from social media and watching these ladies on these reality shows that are for entertainment. And people are forgetting that it's entertainment. I think that it goes beyond before that. I think it goes directly to something that's about to hurt. Buckle in, ladies, because many women have never had the love of a father. True. That also is the first. The love of a father is what many women who are upset and angry in the world. They never had a chance to be a girl to their daddy. They had a mother, and they were a girl, but to be able to be your daddy's little girl and then have the unconditional love by a father, even for a little bit of time, that would have been an experience that many women could have carried on. So many women today are walking around, they've never been loved. So when the sad part about being black women is that natural fire, zest, spirit has been weaponized for the profit of corporate America and for the detriment of black America. Let me explain. Go to customer service, go to collections, office manager. Black women are often in gatekeeper positions or in positions where revenue must be defended because black women will fight. Yeah. There have been comedy skits and people say, "When I call into so-and-so, I get a black woman." I just hang up because they don't, ain't gonna get no. And that's one way, but you can pay that, make money. But another way, it's been weaponized against black men who are not your enemy. To where, uh, I did a skit called Popeyes versus Chick-fil-A to where when sometimes people don't even want to go up to deal with, uh, some women because they look so angry. They have RBF, rest in beef, RBF. But you know, um, let me get on to this person who has a, a disagreement. She up here smacking her up. You want some? Come get some. iPhone. You twist your face all up. What you want? Unmute yourself. I got greens, beans, potatoes, tomatoes, lamb, chicken, cookies. So now what's the issue? So I think that, look, I'm all nervous now. [Music] You hit it on the nail. A lot of us are angry because we don't have, you know, fathers to love us. Or I think black women in general, the world hates us. No, I can let you speak on the experience, but I cannot allow that to go out across the airways unchecked. The world does not hate you, and black men don't hate you. You may feel as though. Now, I'm not gonna dispute your feelings, but I'm just gonna respond. Go ahead. Okay. Um, so not just my own experience, but I have a lot of black female friends. Okay. Um, I'm a hairstylist. Go ahead. Go ahead. I can hear you. Okay. I didn't know if I should stop because you were speaking. No, no, no. Just go ahead. Okay. Um, I'm a hairstylist and I've worked in very diverse environments and it's so emotional to speak about. Uh, I've experienced, uh, stereotypes. I've experienced just people having this perception of me because of, I guess, television, because of the media. And it's not, it doesn't hold true for most of us. And that's me and my friends. Myself and my friends. I have a group of friends that are extremely educated. I live in a D.C. metropolitan area, so people have degrees. I have friends that are entrepreneurs, literally they build their business from the ground up. Um, and we're a lot of us are single because it's like, you work hard to take care of yourself because you cannot depend on the man to take care of you. Why? Hold up. First off, do you have YouTube or something open in the background? Cause I'm getting horrible. Oh, yes, I do. It's going. It's going off. Okay. All right. Because it's still giving me feedback. All right, there he goes. All right. All right. Why do you say you can't? Okay, you got to turn the YouTube off in the background. Is it all? Okay. The YouTube is off. How am I? 30. All right. Okay. It's still, it's still, still going on. You got to turn off. You only thing that can be on the Zoom because you have me on speakerphone and it's making. I want to have the conversation, but I can't have it bouncing like that. Go ahead and mute yourself. I didn't mute myself. They said the host. No, no, I'm muted you because it was the background noise. All right. Why is this? Why is it you say you can't? I don't know what's going on. Why did you say you can't depend on the man? Um, okay. I can speak on my experience. A recent experience. So recently, I was going out of town and I needed my male friend to give me a ride to the airport. And he told me yes, right. And the day before, I called to, you know, verify that he was still going to take me to the airport. And it was, um, maybe so. I'm like, okay. So he didn't, he didn't do it. He didn't do it. And, and it was, there was no like, since. Okay, this is bad. This, okay, okay. You're not listening. Um, let me see how I can do this. Dude, are you guys getting feedback on that? Ent? All right. Are you, you're on the iPhone? Yes. Um, yeah, take me off speakerphone. Yeah, you sit there and you're having a conversation with somebody else in the room too. So, was this your boyfriend? Um, I would say yes. Yes, he's my boyfriend. No, no. Would he say he's your boyfriend? He would say he's my man friend. Okay. And how long? You gotta take me off speaker. You gotta take me off speaker. We can't do this. How do I? All right, hold on. Just give me a second to figure it out. Please be patient. Go on to C.J. I mute yourself. C.J. Hi. Can you hear me? Hey, I can. How are you? I'm good. How are you doing? Good. What's the disagreement? Well, the question I have that goes along with the disagreement is, who is the person that puts the spinning mirror in front of these, in front of us black women and tells us, it's like, we get a reality check later on in life. You mean, you put the spinning mirror in front of you? Like, put the mirror in front of you? The mirror that tells you what your ranking is or where you are? Because growing up, that's not the picture that's painted. It's like, all of a sudden. Okay, okay. What do you mean when you're growing up, that's not the picture that's painted? Well, I suppose I can only speak from my experience, but you go to school, you graduate, you get married, you have your children. Not everybody gets married. Black women, one out of four black women get married. You go to school. Who are the teachers? Uh, professors. You talk about college-bound. No, no, I'm talking about you go to school, elementary, primary, elementary, primary. And the majority of teachers are women. True. First time you run into men outside of your household, if you have a father, is where? I mean, other classmates, you see other people, your community, I suppose, is when you run into other men. At best. Fair enough. So who puts the spinning mirror? How about this? Why is it that do you think that the average woman, the average black woman, her estimation of her SMV, sexual marketplace value, is in line with other women's estimation of their marketplace value? Um, no, I don't think it is. I don't. I don't believe that. And you're right, because you take high school girls, black or white, same age, same socio-economic status, same education level, same parent, same incomes. They've done this study over and over again. And you will have young black girls, same height and general weight and dress size, young white girls. And the white girls feel like they need to work out and exercise. The black girls feel like they need to go get thick. The difference is one, because most don't have a father. Men are the always the mirror because we are the ones you get with. But if 8 out of 10 black children, black female children are raised without a man, there is no male mirror. But the first time you get, men are not in church because men are out of the church for the most part. Not in, not in primary school or grade school because we're no longer teachers. The first time you see men are in junior high, high school, probably in gym or coach. I mean, uh, something like that. Most girls start getting interaction with men around teenage, teenager, college years. But by the time that the, the image has already been set. Do you know more house? Not more. Spelman College here in Atlanta. The dean of the school had to get rid of all college athletics. Why? Because she had to take all that money because she realized incoming freshmen women, black women, were coming to school morbidly obese. 18 years old. A man ain't got nothing to do with that. By the time you get to the place where you're on the product selection for men, the damage is done. How many women today are putting weave, extension, all kind of things in their daughter's hair to where it's breaking it out, making it fall apart? Young women aren't being, being told to be fit or pretty. Correct. So who's whose fault is that? Whose responsibility? The parent that's at home. Okay. So then you have these women again. If you're looking at a household, here's my beautiful princess growing up. My beautiful black princess. And here she is. So I'm leaving home thinking, oh man, I got it made. I'm a beautiful princess. Me. Uh, what I'm saying is, what we're told growing up. Our beautiful. You're beautiful. You look like us. Who's telling? Okay. What, what gender? Which parent called that woman a young girl, a princess? I would say father and mother. Father. No, father. Fathers call their daughters princesses, but fathers also give their daughters a reality check too. And they also give their daughters love. Ma'am, 8 out of 10. Let's instead of dealing with the 20% that have fathers, let's deal with the 80% that aren't that are getting the distorted picture. Okay. Are these guys? It's not fair. But again, who's at fault? And so you mean it's not fair? I mean, is that, I, I don't know. I have a father. I had a father in the home. So I'm asking, is that necessarily fair for a woman to have to understand where they rank, giving no direction in the beginning? Excuse me, excuse me. Fair. Fair. Fair. How many people would think it's not fair that you had a father and 8 out of 10 people don't? Bear got to do with it. So what's a better word? Bear. I mean, because there is no fair when it comes to love and war. The problem is, ma'am, women are going to be ranked because men are ranked. Your father could not have gotten your mother broke, unemployed. True or false? True. That's a judgment. So you accept those. And beauty, the judgment as well. You don't think so? Look at men who are rich or wealthy and look at the women they choose after they're rich or wealthy. Inevitably, it's more likely different than the woman they choose before. So the question I ask you, Kevin, is where does the, where do we, where does a black woman go with it's too late now, kind of thing? Like, it's too late now. Now, we weren't getting. It's not too late. It's not too late. First off, you start, you start with what black men have been saying. How are you? 42. So I'm 51. You start what black men have been saying for as long as you've been on the planet and I've been on the planet. Lose the weight. Fair enough. Men have been saying that since I was alive. But, but you're just getting bigger. But men have been saying it, but black women have gotten progressively larger. So black women, honestly, by their actions, don't seem to care much about what anybody thinks, let alone black men, because black men have been asking to lose the weight, the attitude, yeah, and the fake hair. Yeah. And black men have gotten more weight, more attitude, more fake hair. And now we got makeup, nails, and lashes. So excuse me if I can't go down the path of feeling sorry for women being judged by their appearance because men are judged by our production. Fair enough. Do you have sons? I do. I have one. All right. So I, I would assume you love your son and you want the best for him. Yes. Then I would assume you would want a woman who values what he wants. Absolutely. Do you think the average woman values what men want? No, I don't think so. I feel sorry for your son. I know. I'm just dead honest. Because now, Matiba, when you came in, you're like, it's not fair, it's this and this that. But we see it always works when I reframe it to your son, then it takes it out of this gender war thing and it becomes, Goddamn, yeah, I'm somebody's son. All these men are somebody's son. Yeah, that's really sad. You know, it's weird. Why do you say sad? Well, because for the, for the woman who, who has to learn this later, like, oh my gosh, you know, who's the victim in all this? I mean, I would say both parties, really. Yes. Who's teaching them? When I was in college, I never understood why some of my white counterparts, some of them were like, they were looking for husbands, right? Right. On college. I was like, what are they doing? Why are they concerned about this? The things that they were taught to focus on were money. They were taught to put men. No, they were taught to value men through. And I remember being taught or understood that you always married for love. If you love, that's just good enough. Nothing else. But that's selfish. See, what you just showed is you still feel sorry for women. And you should feel sorry for men. Why? Because name me the civilization, society, culture, country, landmass where women have ever built a sustainable, thriving economy, society, and an income. A nation is built on its men. And men can't even get any. Black men can't even get willing, suitable help meets. Go back to your son. So who do you really feel sorry for? You keep going to you keep going to the same gender preference. And that's one of the cancers in the black community. Black women look at women first and men second. Yeah. That's why you're so at odds with everybody else. And you couldn't understand why Becky was going to worry about her husband because you were told black men. Ain't give me an example. And I'll let. And I'll run. Donald Trump. Hillary Clinton. Donald Trump was a multi, his personality, everything. He was all right. And then it came out to pee-grab tape. Hillary Clinton. If Donald Trump were a black man and Hillary Clinton were a black woman, would black women have voted for the black Donald Trump like white women voted for the white Donald Trump? No. No scenario. Lies. The difference because white women, feminists, whatever, at the end of the day, realize that they need their men. Yeah. So they, they decided to skip over making the first female president to go for a pee-grabbing, philandering, multiple failure, da da da da, because he's a man. Because you need men to build. Yeah. So I feel sorry for the men. All right. Uh, where we go back to. I think she fell off. Um, yeah. See, we still feel sorry for the women. Like, poor victim. [Music] Well, I get it, but I'm tired of feeling sorry for the women. Can the men get some time? I had 50 years. [Music] Um, hello. How did I pronounce your last name? Oh, is your name Marquita? What do you got for me? Okay, but not today, but I did have one disagreement or maybe you need some clarification. Um, you made a statement about women are walking around calling themselves queens, but they're like rated a four or a five. And I just don't understand the relation of calling yourself a queen, um, and, uh, with looks. How does that compare to looks? Because I think maybe there's a disconnect with our, uh, meanings of when a woman calls herself a queen. Okay. Well, let me, okay. Uh, how old are you? I am 43. 43. Uh, in any given country, how many queens do you have? One. Right. But the rank-and-file black woman calls herself a queen. Yes. Why? Well, okay, so if you're gonna go with the literal term, but I think black women use it as a term of respect. You just, uh, a queen gets respect. And I think that respect should be given at, um, it shouldn't, it shouldn't matter. Everyone deserves. Hold on, hold on. Respect should be given. Well, let me say, earned. If I treat you with respect, you know, it should be mutual, regardless. Okay. Okay. Let me ask you, do you, most women treat, do most black women treat people with respect? I can say that maybe not. Okay. So, yeah, maybe not. Or, I mean, just to be honest. Okay. Well, yeah, I think it's a problem in. Yeah, no, I don't understand. So let me rephrase. The black, do most black women treat people with respect? Okay. No, you can't be honest. So like, what you just said, you get respect after you gain respect. So by definition, you can't be a queen by your own logic if you don't treat people with respect because you don't get it. Okay. That's why. What you just, that's just what you just said. Well, I'm saying for the ones, I'm speaking for the ones who do carry themselves with respect and respect others, even if they're not a 10 or an 18. Hold on. Let's, let's, okay, we gotta take steps. Okay. What percentage of women, or black women in this case, are treating people with respect in a queen-like, regal fashion? I do not have that percentage. I do not know. If you just had to take a guess, just eyeball it. Uh, sheesh. I would have to say, and I might be a little biased. Okay. Okay. I would have to say, okay, let's say forty percent. All right. So that means six out of ten are not. That means the majority of women who call themselves queens are not. So you have, that's what I consider delusion. If you got 60% of people calling themselves something that they're not, expecting to be treated as such, and they're not. It's not uncommon for most people to say, "You're not a queen," but they're still calling themselves queens and expecting to be treated regally and with respect when they're not giving it. But let's even go to the 40% that you believe are. Okay. What else do you need? A queen is a term of respect. What it is, is it's a, it's a way to actually elevate oneself without showing any work because you can have a queen, but a queen of what? Marquita, because I did that broadcast. Boss diva queens. Queen of what? Okay, so I didn't see that broadcast, but, um, oh, I guess you would say, I just, yeah, I don't have an answer for that one. Yeah, of course. So what, uh, okay, so if you can't tell me the queen of what, I mean, you're just a queen of your own domain. I feel like, okay, your own domain. The own domain meaning what? Your own house, your apartment, your car, yourself. Yourself. You're just a queen in your own right. Does that sound right to you? Well, if you mean, listen, Marquita, listen. What you're talking about, basically, you're saying that women are walking around calling themselves queens of themselves. Yes. Then no one's a queen. I don't know if you say that. Okay. No, no, no, no. A queen by definition is rare. It's okay. Is it not? Yes. By, by definition. Do you play chess? No, I do not. Well, on the chessboard, there's one king. There's one queen. Every other piece has at least two. Queens and kings by definition are rare. But even the highest level of a queen, she's still the king's wife. Ah, okay. But in our community, queens expect kings to report to them, even if they're just queens of themselves. That, that may be true. I mean, I don't, wha, so, so I'm sorry, if it does, if it looks like most people like delusion. I'm the queen of myself. I'm the queen of these Nine West pumps. I'm the queen of this black and white dress. I'm the queen of this Michael Kors bag. I'm the queen. Okay, then you go work at the call center, which is cool, and get your Honda Accord, drive back to your apartment. It was funny. Okay, so, but the thing is, if you walk around calling yourself these grandiose things, and other people are calling you these grandiose things, you start to believe this stuff. Why don't non-black women refer to them? Don't have this inflated ego that so many black women have? It's egotistical, which is a masculine trait. Well, okay, I understand your literal definition, but like I said, I think most people are just looking at it as, you know, respect. We are mothers. We are. And you should be treated with respect. No, you shouldn't. You should earn respect. Oh, well, earn. I'm sorry. Your mother. Okay. See, let me, let me stop you there. See, what you said, your mothers, or did you notice you didn't say your wives? And that's what's required to be a queen. A king. Okay. I don't agree with that, but okay. Okay. How does royalty work? Go ahead and explain. You can, you can have a, you can have a queen without a king. Wow. Okay. Let's see. You. Well, okay, well, not initially, but what if you're, you lose your king? I mean, you're still a queen. You're still a queen in your own right. No, you're not. You're still a queen, but you don't. Okay, you want to do this? I'll do it. You have to have a king to have a queen. And even if the queen, and if the king dies, what does the state put pressure on the queen to do? Marry to give them a king? I just rest. I just watched. I just reread the Iliad. Odysseus. Odysseus was gone for 20-plus years, and his wife had suitors banging down the door trying to get her to marry because Greece wanted a king. And he had. And he read the Odyssey. Whole thing about him getting back home, killing all his suitors because he had to reclaim his crown. Queens don't run. Kings do. I'ma just say it like this. Patrice O'Neal, God rest his soul, said the queen is just the king's biz match. And that's what it is. A queen needs a king. I don't disagree. So a queen is not the highest office. But in the black community, it is. It's a queen of nothing. Queen, no king. You're a mother with no, you're a mother of princes and princesses, but there's no king. There's no kingdom. I hear you. My question is this, why do black women need to elevate themselves in such grandiose ways without the work being shown that they deserve that? No, like I said, if you earn it, yes. By giving respect, you get respect. So I just think there's just a difference in, you know, our definition or what we mean. So I don't think you should give it. It should be earned, as you stated. So white women, so if, if Asian women start walking around demanding or calling themselves queens, and Hispanic women, and Middle Eastern women, and white women, we should just refer to all women as queens? I'm, you don't have to walk around calling. Please, but basically, I just think it's a more like a, a state or a, or a man. No, it's not. What it is, is it's foolishness. Seriously, man. Queen. Words mean stuff, Marquita. They do. And when you call something regal or royal or special, that's common. It's not special. That's why I said, if every woman is a queen, no woman is a queen. Think about it this way. Let's put it this way. All right, um, let's say we go back to the wayback machine. And let's, me, I'm the king of, I don't know, the king of Atlanta. And you're my wife, and you're the queen of Atlanta. And in Atlanta, we have a million subjects. And half the subjects are female. That means they're half a million females. Now, you and I rule these people. But if all the women start referring to themselves as queen, how you gonna feel about it? The actual queen. Okay. I, I get that. All right. All right. All right. Thanks. Yeah, self-aggrandize, man. I swear to goodness. I'm a queen. Okay. All right. Here we go. I'm gonna try to blow through these as much as possible. I got greens, beans, potatoes, tomatoes, spam, ham, dogs, mugs, you name it. Uh, [Music] Go ahead and mute yourself. Hello. I'm mute yourself. Hello. Good. Your first name. What do you got for me? And so, I mean, if you don't know how to love yourself, it's impossible to to look for other people to do that. So a lot of these females, you know, they come from broken homes, they've been molested, things like that. And they haven't even begun to get therapy for things like that. So they're lost. They don't even know who they are. All right. Well, okay. Appreciate you calling. Uh, I'm trying to get to the people who have, uh, disagreements or need clarification on something. Uh, Chat TV, let me go to you. Uh, please unmute yourself. It's cute. Chat TV. How you doing? How are you? How are you? What do you got for me? I got a couple.

Questions for you. Okay, okay. And I had to write them down. So the first one that I have is, why are you targeting the women in our race? Like, why is it that everything...

Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. Are you going to not talk over me? See, I'm not trying to try to finish the question. Well, but see, no, but when you say something that's provocative like that, I'm going to respond. No, you're provocative. You said targeting. You said perfect. All right, this is how this is going to go. You need to check that right now, or I will bid you adieu. Make no mistake, we can have the conversation, but you will not overtalk me. I don't deal with all that sass. You can speak to me with the respect you want me to speak to you with, or we can just keep it moving. Are we on the same page? Are we on the same page, Samuels?

I'm a happy black woman. That's all that is. I asked you a question. No, you did not. I asked you a question. The polite thing to do would be respond. Are we on the same page? Which page was it? You respect me, I respect you. You be nice to me, I'll be nice to you. Don't overtalk me. As the host of the show, and we have nothing. Don't overtalk me. Kick rocks. See, this is what I mean. These little, these are your queens. They can't even come into a place and just be reasonable. That's why I said on the Clubhouse, women like this are used to one-way aggression. Used to coming in, saying whatever they want, and not being challenged. You come in and you're targeting this net and just used to having diarrhea at the mouth. That doesn't work over here. If you say something like that, you're going to have to clarify what you mean. And if, and the problem is normally because they can't clarify. It's just gibberish, talking points backed up with no research, no data, no statistics. All feelings. But you're fine to have an opinion, but I'm not gonna just sit up under it just because you want to make it so. And as I thought, you're not even paying attention. She's talking to somebody else off on the side. So, um, yeah, and I would have had the conversation. She's still there. All you have to do is decide you want to have the conversation like a civil human, civil person, not talking over me and telling me what I will and will not do. And if you're not willing to do that, you can leave. I think she thinks I'm kidding. I'm not playing.

All right, we're starting over. I, I, I think that would be fair because I don't know you and you don't know me. I don't know you. So when you come in and say, when you come in and say, "I'm doing something like targeting our race or our women," what do you mean?

What I mean is, when I see your channel come up, I always see the black cover on your background. Why is that? You mean the black cover? I always see a black African-American woman on your cover. Why is that?

Well, how often, how long have you been on YouTube? I've been on YouTube for about two years now. Right. So if you go to anybody's channel, especially a person, especially an influencer, let's say you go, let's say you go... Okay, no free promo. No free promotion. I don't need nothing. Okay. I don't know you, but that's fine. The point is that you should know. Most people. I'ma give this one more shot. This is, this is, this is a grown person. And that, honestly, I think it's sad that so many women think this is funny. It's a fully grown woman thinking this is funny, and you're representing black women here, man. So don't worry about me. Worry about black women. Since I target them, why don't you show me how y'all act? Can you do that? Sure. That's all I'm asking you. Because if, if you know anything about social media or YouTube, most people's thumbnail reflect their ethnic heritage. It is unreasonable for me to go to Alpha M, Aaron Moreno's channel and expect him to have a black man on it when he's an Italian Caucasian man. That's how the platform works. All right. I, I hear what you're saying. I'll go with that. Okay. The other point. But also, but also, let me also say this. The photos that I have, the photos that I have, I pay lots of money for those because they're licensed. I don't come through with overly pejorative or insulting photographs. Is the norm? The high-resolution actual photographs that you have to pay for. I don't go and get something off the National Enquirer and try to make a disgusting meme just to prove a point. The National Enquirer? No, the young girl didn't look like she was from the National Enquirer. She actually looked like just a regular person from the community. That's what she looks like. Yes, yes, sir.

Okay, where's your other question? The other question that I have is, why do you feel that it is only black women in the black race that are unhappy when it has been proven among all races, a lot of races, I won't say all, but a lot of races have always said that the black people are unhappy. But you, my black man...

Oh, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. Show me where I said black women are unhappy on your cover. What I clicked on, I clicked on what cover? What did you put down on your cover tonight? "Why are modern women so angry today?" So that's women. Okay, so I was right. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. You said black women. I said, "Why are modern women so angry today?" I didn't say college degree. I put one and two together. Yeah, well, no, no, no, no, no, no. Okay, there you go. Thank you. There you go. All right. No, I don't want to do this. No, you're not going to do this. Carry your ignorant ass off somewhere. That is the fourth time I've tried to talk to this person with her psychology degree. Well, can you? I got beans, greens, potatoes, tomatoes, lamb, rams, hogs, dogs, chicken, turkeys. I'm not even going to show you the picture. See, can't be right on the facts. Can't be right on the substance. So what happens? Women say it with me now: black female pathology. When they're not right, instead of just admitting that, wrong, shame, insults, guilt, the need to be right. Everybody can look down and see the title: "Why are modern women so angry today?" And this educated woman was wrong on what she thought. I corrected her. And instead of saying, "Hmm, no," I'm just going to double and triple down on it. Does that seem like the behavior of something about it is normal? Even trying to be reasonable, enter into a conversation in good faith. Go look on the community tab on the question I ask. Oh, yeah. See, I hold the mirror up, and this is what so many women like this other woman is upset about, is because the mirror is showing a reflection that you're not proud of. Now, here's the thing. Change it. You don't have to act that way. I just asked her to act like a reasonable person, and instead, I got a petulant child. And that's supposed to be okay? We're just supposed to sit back and let you act that way and talk that way and deal with your sass and your attitude? Well, no, it's not. And for those of you who are keeping score, the question asked six hours ago: Gentlemen, are modern women happy? Men only. Gentlemen, are modern women happy? Notice there was no black. There was no distinction. Modern women. The question for the ladies: Ladies, are modern women happy? So, ma'am, you're just wrong on everything you were saying, and you made yourself look like a zip damn fool.

[Music] Um, you can't make this up. I just can't make this up. I got beans, greens, potatoes, tomatoes, spam, ham, hog, malls. You name it. [Laughter] Yeah, well, I'm sorry, Britney. How you doing? Go ahead and unmute yourself. How you doing? I'm all right. What'd you guys call? Because I, I can only speak for myself. I, I am angry because I don't know which one of my ancestors got with somebody else's ancestors and decided that they wanted to work and they wanted to do housework. So I've been saying this for a long time. My ancestors up, and somehow I'm, I'm paying the price. So it's frustrating. So I've been saying this for a long time, and you hit on a lot of key points, and I'm like, they messed up because now I gotta work. Well, modern men that I typically run into prior to being engaged, wanting me to work, do housework, take care of the kids, suck, do everything else. And it was, it's too much. Yeah, it was too much. So third walked around angry. Third wave? Yes, because there's too much pressure to put on women. Third wave feminism is what a lot of, well, second and third wave. See, one of the things that happened in the '60s is the issues white women were having with white men, the right to vote, equal representation, all that power. Black folks didn't have all that going on because we didn't own a lot of stuff. We didn't own a lot of wealth. And if you study the women's rights movement era, all this stuff, black women...

[Music] Right after Civil Rights on college campuses, a lot of this stuff happens where white women started co-opting, taking on the white woman's burden with her man. But here's the problem. You never had an oppressive black male patriarchy and all those other kinds of stuff. So now, yes, you have women who were told to go out and get a job and get independent on your man, but you were never dependent upon us. At best, we were interdependent. We had a community. So that's what I said at the beginning. You're overworked, you're doing too much. And the reason you're doing too much is because ultimately, we're not willing to live at our means. Not everybody trying to live in a mansion, driving a Mercedes. Some folks just living average lives with average houses, average kids, doing average things. And when we are driven to kind of keep buying and keeping up with everybody else, you can't do all this. And it's unfair because many men are like, "I can't provide a lifestyle that far too many women are asking." If you watch my channel, you have women in their early 20s wanting men making $300,000 a year who are 26 years old. It's just not possible. It's just not possible. But I appreciate you calling in. I'ma also say this. Dr. Theoson Johnson brought this up. His black masculine studies. He teaches these associate of black masculine study, University of California, Fresno. He's sitting there talking in his class, men, women in his class, college students, women and men. And men in the class realizing that the women in this class would not date them. Women acknowledging that they don't make enough money to date them. Same age. Okay. But what are you basically telling me? That if you unless you have six figures, you can't even date me? Or if you do, I'm not going to prioritize you. And if I find something that's better, I'm going to. Ladies, it comes with a price.

All right, so here's what we're going to do. Uh, it's almost 1 o'clock. I'll add some more folks in. I got beans, greens, potatoes, tomatoes, spam, ham, hog, moss. All right, who has a disagreement? Because I try to get to the disagreements or the conflicts first. [Music] I try to get to those first. Um, because if I can't get to disagreements first. All right, so here we go. And your photos up. What do we got from Enza? Go ahead and mute yourself. Hello. Oh, no, sound's not coming through. Testing, testing, one, two, one, two, one, two. All right. [Music] And the sound's not coming through. Christina? Hello. Hi, Kevin. Hi. How are you? I'm great. How are you? I am well. What do you got for me? Okay, look, I didn't call to do any disagreements or anything like that. What I called for was, tonight it's New Year's Eve, and I watch your show every time you, um, post something. I'm a little tipsy. Please forgive me. I didn't have a little bit of champagne, but I just want to say, um, honestly, that I love what you're doing. I love that you're opening women's eyes to reality. We have to come to terms with acceptance, and I think a lot of people have issues with acceptance. I think them coming to terms with the acceptance is what hurts. Well, better come to terms with acceptance while there's some time on the clock, uh, than that. Definitely. Now, go ahead and drink the rest of that champagne. See how they're getting tipsy. Everybody in the club getting tipsy. Sabrina out in the club getting. Christina out in the club getting tipsy. Okay, Sabrina has a disagreement. Alrighty. Out there in the club getting tipsy. Um, I really, I see, I don't understand. Okay, Sabrina, unmute yourself. Hello. Yes. What's your disagreement? There is a lot that black women do go through with black men, and I feel like you're not addressing it. Like you're just breezing over it and going straight into like, what I just, bashing black women.

I don't know. How old are you? I'm 24. 24. Um, from 1981 to 2015, are you aware what was happening on popular media, daytime TV, movies? Yes. Black women have been able to have the public square, the town hall, to make the color purple, waiting to exhale, Sally, Jessica, Raphael, Oprah, Rolonda, you name it. Daytime TV for decades. Judge shows, Maury, to sit there and tell the world black men ain't so. Due respect, ma'am. One black man on a YouTube channel in 2020, simply stating for six months issues that men are having. I find it rather rich that you guys are so upset about it when you've had 40 freaking years. I mean, I just feel like even that, though, that's not something to be proud of. It's a terrible depiction of really. So why don't you show me the channels of the women like yourself who are going to shout down the women who call black men dusty, crusty, down-low, dominated, beta male? One. Show me the women. Use the channels. I mean, I'm quite sure since you found me, I'm sure you have to see them. I, I would love to hear some of the times you, I want to see the comments you make in the comment section saying, "You're just talking about our black men like they're just like they're not worth nothing." You tell me you do this. I know you got to do this. You don't make negative comments. No, no. Go to the women who make negative comments about black men and ask them to put some balance in or chastise them or tell them it's not right. I know you got to do that. Okay. I think that that's valid. Like, we can talk about balance. No, I'm saying, but you do, you do that? The answer is no. No, I agree. Okay. So, so, so, and there are 50 times more channels out with 50 times more channels out there for women saying that about men versus me. Uh-huh. So I think you, I think you're bashing me. Okay. That you're now, you're focusing on me when I'm in the minority. Men's channels and platforms are small. Oh, yes, ma'am. I am. Oh, yes, ma'am. 40 years. 40 years. 40 years. 40 years. You've had, and I'm one black man on a YouTube channel. And even yourself on YouTube, you're telling me you haven't been to a black woman's channel and said, "Ask them to do the things you're talking to me about"? See, you guys have no problem shouting a man down who says something, but you won't go until. No, I, I can't. I'm just saying, I cannot agree with that because that's not even the role that I take in my personal life with my father, with my husband. I don't do that. But I just feel like, where do we get to a better ground with everyone just? Well, I'll tell you where we get to a better ground when there's some balance. Here's how we get to a better ground. Stop coming to men like myself and saying, "Ooh, stop saying your side of the story when you've had 40 years, millions of dollars, and a lot of black male carcasses laying in the ground." Asking now, you want to have balance? Now you want to say, "Well, turn the volume down." When you weren't asking for that, when TLC was talking about scrubs and uh, heard it all before, and Tyrone, and and all this other, you weren't seeing none of that. Here's what you're gonna do. You're gonna have to sit there and listen, cause black men, men in general, black men in particular, got a lot to say. And black women have been heard. Men are going to be heard because you can't do anything without your men. So as a woman to start trying to ask your men to not speak after they've not been heard is rather rich. Okay. But can I ask a question? My question is, is how do you feel about the image of the black man being propped up for demeaning black? Like the image of black men is like, "Oh, black men hate black women. They're always coming for black women." Who's prop? Who? Who's prop? Who's propping up? The image of black men demeaning black women and coming for black women? Who? I, I personally believe that this is preferred by white society. I think that it's for us to be attacking one another just consistently. But who is propping it up or promoting it? This, this system, this society that we're in. Oh, crap. Bullfrog channels get struck down, silenced immediately. The stuff I talk about, it gets considered hate speech, flagged, all this kind of stuff. Men have been put into a box to where they can't even say the truth. Where women can call men trash in their titles. I'm sorry, ma'am. You're making a completely disingenuous argument. You know you live in this world just like I do, and women in general, black women in particular, can call black men anything and get heralded, praise, support, and not have to be muzzled or shut down. A man can barely call, tell agree with a woman who says she's average and not be canceled. I just can't agree with that. I've never seen that. Well, then open your eyes, because if you haven't seen it, that's sad because it is right in front of you. My channel, they said I bashed that woman. They said I cursed that woman out. How long have you been following me? Um, not very long. But I did see that viral play. How long? About how long? About four months. Four months? That's quite a while. I've been talking to him for six months. Did you watch the viral video? Yes, I did see that clip. The fireworks. Did you see the entire? Did you see the entire interview? No. I will admit, I did not see that. Well, thank you for being honest and disingenuous. You can ask me about a clip of a viral video, and you're a follower for four months. I put up the, excuse me, excuse me. I put up the entire video. Take out the segment. 23 minutes. You couldn't be bothered to ask. See, that's the thing. You ladies don't go looking for things that are in your face. I'm sorry, man. I just don't get it. How you can honestly sit back and think of men or the white supremacy in society is putting men up on a pedestal to bash black women when you see black women tearing black men apart for the last 40 years and you say nothing. They're trying to. But the black men are tearing apart. That's your father. It's your brother. Because see, they don't make any distinction. When they call us, our, excuse me, black men are not protecting black women. First off, is your name Sabrina? No, I'm the husband of Sabrina, sir. Okay, well, well, then here's the, oh, first off, don't, first off, don't come at me like that if you're not Sabrina. I don't know who you are, and you don't even introduce yourself to me. My name is Brian Nixon, sir. I apologize, but I would like to speak if I can. And protection of my black woman. Yeah, and you can't. And honestly, you were on here earlier under your own name. Oh, yes, I was, sir. Right. And I dropped you for a reason because it is for women, not for you to conflict with your agenda. No, I just don't want to hear from you. Because if you, as a man, you let that run free in your house and don't check that, and you allow that amount of disinformation to go on, we got nothing to talk about. That's why I dropped you in the first place. It said women. Because unfortunately, there have been too many men who let women sit there. If you honestly tell me as a man, you're going to sit here and co-sign black men ain't protecting black women? If, oh, yeah, you call back on the day when I have it open for me. I hope you call back and make that argument. I'm gonna go in right here and see. That's another problem. We have too much, too many guys coming here with the capes flapping, telling women what they want to hear, acting as though they don't see this stuff. And the black men ain't protecting black women. 51% of black men are single and child. And 64% in the middle class. What do you mean I'm not being protected? Where are their husbands? Oh, no matter how you get down to it, if you're not being protected, why? Who's there to protect you? Who's supposed to be your protector? If you're unattached, unmarried, you're out here by yourself. What is it, every random black man who's not attached or married to you supposed to protect you? And you're out of your mind, man. If you agree or disagree, but I'm sorry. Anyway, thank you. Shaharizad Ali. Sister Shaharazad Ali has been trying to say this since 1981. You know how you protect somebody? You hold them accountable for their actions. Black men have been held accountable for ours. Men get held accountable. And here's the thing. Men will sit there and at least look and say, "I'm doing bad here. I could do better here." And we will do something. We won't turn around and say, "You're bashing us. You're victimizing us. It's not fair." Won't try to start shame, insults, guilt, the need to be right. Start arguing with the facts, start changing the facts, moving the goalposts. I said it before, and I said again, you want to come in here. I will. This is exactly what I have. This is exactly what you have. This is the problem. This is why this delusion is allowed to go on. Pandering to women. Everything I said to that woman could be backed up. It wasn't based in feelings. Out of your goddamn mind. All right, uh, Wusah. It is 12 minutes left. Oh, LA is back. Heard it all before. [Music] Three one zero. All right, well, you're not coming through. Hello. Did you call in earlier? Your first name again? Did we get through your conversation? And what was your, what was your issue? Parents are married. They have been for the last 20 years. My, my grandparents on my dad's side are married. My parents, I mean, my grandparents on my mom's side, they're not. But I feel like what makes, or what made me angry that I'm working through, is my example of men. Because when I hear my mom talk about my grandfather, who I didn't get to experience, it's not what I see in my dad. So I was angry with him for a little while, and then I got over that. So I'm working through that. Should I say I got over it? But, um, when I listen to your show, and even tonight, I hear what you're saying in regards to, you know, women should focus on like their fitness and being feminine and cooperative and all of those things. But it still seems like we're still at a disposition like, I still have to work against init, that narrative.

Okay, ma'am, you threw a lot at me at one time. You, you bribed me. I know your parents, your mother and father, everybody. I wanted to give you background. How old are you? 26. All right. Uh, did you have braids? Say that one more time. Okay, 26. I'm trying to remember. Okay, you got to work. You got to work at what is frustrating that you have to work against. What I feel like I have to work against the narrative that is set for black women, that we are just angry and loud and upset, and pretty much everything that you're, you kind of talk about in your show. All right. All right. So the narrative, is it a narrative, or does it play itself? Why? Okay, well, there's part narrative, but then you have to ask yourself, you live reality. Um, or I, I took that little straw poll. Are black women happy? Are the majority of black women happy or angry today? I would say the majority are unhappy. Why? Why would you say like, a better, where is the, the circumstances that we put ourselves in? Right. Okay, but if, okay, so it's not a narrative if it's the majority is true. Man, I understand that. Okay, I understand that. But my confusion, or not even confusion, where the disconnect for me is, someone like myself, where I am working to improve different areas that I see are weaknesses that are my own, and that I've learned through the behavior of the women in my life and watching their marriages. Okay, but that's what I mean by, how's your boyfriend? So where's your boyfriend or husband? Um, I actually just broke up with them. My boyfriend. How long? How long were you guys together? We were together for about five months, five and a half. Okay. Who broke it off? I did. Why? I wasn't happy. So, but it was with myself. Let me just go ahead, let me go ahead and just level. Saying you said you're 26? Yes. Let me just go ahead and level set. Your man, I have to work three times as hard to get half the credit. And guess what? That's just my lot in life. There's always going to be prejudice and, uh, discrimination and unfair treatment to any human being. There's a difference. Is you either going to work to overcome it, or you're going to let it overcome you. That's it. And it won't be the latter. Well, then, but the thing is, if you say that's un, see, the thing is, the being, you shouldn't be angry about that. You know, it's not fair. Nor so angry. Well, if it, what are you gonna do about it though? Because here's another thing. Black women are under whose burden? Whose burden are you under? Because it can't be black men. No. It feels like what I see and what I see is like my parents' relationship. So my mom or my grandparents. No, no, no, no, no, no, no. Okay, your mom's relationship, your grandparents' relationship, or their relationship. You're a grown woman. It's time for your own. I agree. I do. So when you tell me that you were mad at your father because he's not your grandfather, the first thing I'm saying is, the nerve of you. First thing I'm saying is, the nerve of you. Should your father have been unhappy with you because you ain't your sister? Listen, you have no problem. Women, black women in general, have never had a problem judging black men, even the ones that you should not judge. He's your father. I don't feel like I'm taking the, the approach of being like judgmental. Like you're wrong. I'm not saying that, but I am observing what I grew up around, my environment. And I'm not saying that my dad, your mother and father. Okay, but hold on. Will your mother and father marry? Yeah, they're married. They're still married to this day, right? Did you graduate high school? I'm sorry. Did you graduate from high school? Yes. Did you go to college? I did. Did you graduate from college? I did. So your father raised a college graduate. He did. What the French toast? What are you talking about? That's better than most of the country. Sounds like, yo, and he's still married to your mother. Sounds like he did a hell of a job to me. That's why I also said I'm not taking anything from him. But you said you were mad at me. You said, no, no, no. You said you were mad. You were, no, earlier you said that there was a time when you were upset and mad, angry. And then, and the nerve of you to look a gift horse in the mouth. You got what? 8 out of 10 black people don't have a father in the household. But as usual, black men still ain't good enough. So you make an issue or ain't no goddamn issue judging your father because he wasn't your grandfather when you got more than what most kids in that neighborhood had. A dad, a dad that was apparently good enough to stay married to your mama, raised a college, a high school, and a college graduate. Wow. And black men hear this. Black men hear this, and they're like, "Well, what the else are we supposed to do?" Being married to a black woman and raising those and providing a lifestyle to where you graduated from high school and college and didn't end up on drugs, on the street, in the penitentiary, whole house babies all over the world. What the else is the black man supposed to do? A white man could just go to work in the plant, and that's good enough. A black man got to go build the goddamn plant, and his kids still ain't happy. I'm not laughing. I am not laughing. I am, because I'm not angry in that way, but I am like black men are because I listened to what you said. You were angry with your father for what reason? Cause he wasn't another man. You don't know your grandfather. You weren't raised there. So all you had was stories that your mama told you. So you take the stories that your mama told you versus what your daddy was doing and got the nerve to get mad at your dad. Well, how did he feel? Because he couldn't be the man you thought your grandfather was? Do you ever ask me how you felt about that? We did. Yeah, we have had quite a few conversations. And how did he feel? Of course. But I, it wasn't just because of the comparison to my grandfather. And the comparisons came from what I felt like my mom did receive. That I was fighting for my dad, which was his attention. I feel like he was able to be more present with my brothers at the time than he was with me growing up, which was a part of our conversation that you're asking about. And from his standpoint, he gave me. How did your mother? And how did your mother? And how did your mother balance out these things? My mom gave me a lot of the things that I feel like I'm working through now. Like the, I'm not trying to push, put it all on my dad. That's why I said, like the women, because I noticed how, how she also treated and behaved with my dad. And remember, everybody, but you did not, what you did not mention is that you are upset and angry with your mother. We just didn't get to that part. You didn't leave with it. I had to pull it from you. This is the second time. I know. Okay. I wasn't, I wasn't trying to withhold it. Okay. Okay. Here's the part. Open my mind. All right. And here's another thing. All right, granted. But here's the thing. First world problems. You sound really entitled, man. You had a mother and father who was still married. Did they provide for? Apparently, they provided for all your needs, and you worried about your wants. I didn't get what my brothers got. Oh, my God. The seller. I don't think that that's wrong. It is. Yes, it is. Yes, it is. No, no, it's not. Rhonda, it's not wrong to want love. But it's all, but oh, this, this is why I say first world problems. This Disney vacation to where the man did the best he freaking could, and it still wasn't good enough because the youthful year, the years his daughter should have been praising and loving our father, you were angry with him because he didn't give you what you felt you deserved or should have got or what your mama got. Oh, my God. When you have children, I'm sorry, I didn't hear the question you asked. Uh, I hope when you have children, you don't have to experience that level of hurt as a parent with an ungrateful child. This is what happens when we get to the point where we, and some of you ladies don't seem to realize that this is how so many men feel defeat. They only want to try. Let me go ahead and say this. This is why many men don't even want to try to do relationships or get married anymore because they hear this. That this woman came from an intact grandparent nuclear family, lived a life, presumably middle class, parents are still married, but because she didn't get the kind of love that she felt she needed or deserved or wanted, and her men are saying, "That's what I got to look forward to? To get out and go work my ass to death to provide, to stay on the straight and narrow, to be faithful, to end up with that? To have a..."

All right, iPhone, you back? Hopefully, your connection is better. Hello. Hello. Okay, so I think I remember who you are. I remember. Oh, just your phone. It's my phone. Yeah, 'cause you don't, you have me on speakerphone. Yes. Are you still on speaker? You are on. You have me on speak. Take me off speakerphone. Put the phone to your ear. Okay, you're all speaker. Yeah, you got me on speaker. I took you off. All right, go ahead. Okay, so I think my, I do have an issue. I think that this should be the opportunity to be therapeutic and not bashing. First of all, let me, what is bashing? What is bad? Bashing's basically like saying, "You, you, you, like, this is your problem. This is what you need to do." No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. See, this is what words mean something. Bashing, and I'm tired and honest, I'm tired of women just throw that word bashing around to just to shut down conversation. What does bash mean? Bash means harsh, gratuitous, prejudicial attack against a person, group, or subject. That's not what you do. No. And if that's what that, it may be the way I want to, I'm communicating. I'm trying. No, no, no, no. Well, see, the thing is, ma'am, no, it's not. Or else I wouldn't have tens of thousands of people watching and people watching videos. If I'm just sitting here, the reason... Stop. Can I say something, ma'am? You asked me, and I make a comment. Oh, Jesus. A conversation, man. I don't like to turn. Okay, I'm gonna say this. I don't do that sassy, snippy thing with women. I just don't. But you do. I'ma tell you, this is the time. I'm gonna tell you one more time. No. Nope. I'm gonna tell you one more time, and then I'm gonna bid you adieu because I'm not gonna give you that. Okay. I don't, I don't need to have this conversation with you. I'm trying to have a conversation, but I'm not going to do what you, this, this snap, sassy, snippy stuff either. You can speak to me in a reasonable way, or you can leave. Use the word bashing, and that's not what I'm doing. I understand that that may be what you want to call it, but that's not what it is. Okay. Um, is it therapeutic, which is what you're doing? Therapeutic at all? Am I a therapist? You're not a therapist. So what? Okay, so Microsoft. Am I a therapist? You are a con, an image consultant, right? I.e., I'm not a therapist. So coming to me and thinking I should do therapy is wrong-headed on your part. Okay. Can I, I have a question. Great. What, what, what is your intention on, what is your intention with what you're doing? For whom? Whatever your intention is, it's your intention. How long, how long have you been watching my channel? Um, probably for about three weeks. Three weeks? And what videos have you watched? Mine. A lot. I, I couldn't even name all of the videos because I've seen so many. Then if you watch my videos from front to back, my intentions should be pretty damn obvious. Especially initially. Initially, I believe that your intentions were, um, look, okay. Nothing that I have up on my channel is not there for a reason. See, I'll answer. Let me ask you a question before we move on. Were you raised by your father? I was raised by my stepfather. At what age did he come into your life? I was seven. Okay. Was he the disciplinarian in your family, or was it your mother? Uh, my father. Okay. So, uh, I don't take my time to get up on here to do anything that's not to help. That's why if you've watched my channel, did you watch a video I did, uh, put up about two, three days ago, where an attorney comes on and says he had given up on love and finding a woman, and through my help in my group, he found his new soon-to-be wife? Oh, no, I did not. Okay. I don't know how that missed you because that was just up a little bit. Two days ago, because I was working. Okay, but you said you watched many. You can't name. So it's in three weeks. It's been uploaded in the last two or three days, but it's only a ten-minute video, right? We don't have to go back and forth. Okay. Okay. I don't know who the hell you think you're talking to, but, um, I understand now. This is the woman who called in earlier who had the sob story about how it's so sad for black women and how the world treats black women, and she's the hair stylist. And look, man, if the communication with me is any indication how you communicate with people, it doesn't surprise me why you may get the response you get. I don't know how many, uh, you women think people are gonna just put up with your sassy attitude. See, between men and between men, we can't do that because that's going to be a fight. But I said it on the Clubhouse far too often, women like that are just able to run off, snap off, sass off at the mouth because they know there's no consequence for it. Well, guys, the way you deal with women like this is you just don't deal with them. You let them enjoy their life with your presence being absent. [Music] The victim narrative. Oh, it's just so unfair. No, you get what you put out. You get what you put out. Hello. Hi. First name? Hi. How old are you? What you got for me? What you got for me? I believe modern women are so angry. Okay. Um, I'm a black woman, so I cannot speak for other races. Um, but I can only speak from my experience, from my experience as a black woman, so far. Mm-hmm. Um, I think a lot of it comes down to the fact that we did not have, or I did not have, proper role models in my life as far as to how we should go about acting and behaving in the world as a black woman, as a young black woman. Um, and I'm gonna clarify that a little bit. Okay, so I actually had both of my parents in my life. My father was in and out of my life, um, but he did give me a sort of a code to live by. Um, and my soul is gonna have to ask. I'm gonna have to ask you to shorten it up. Okay. Okay. So basically, what I'm trying to say is, a lot of the times, uh, black young girls are being raised by their grandmothers, their mothers, um, and we inherit their ideas, their way of thinking. And I think that, uh, I don't know if it's intentional or unintentional, but we end up becoming, um, kind of like copies of them in a way. [Music] I was told, um, since the woman was the head of the household in my grandmother's household, and then when my dad left my household, it was my mom. How old are you? How old are you? See, and yes, you become. I don't believe that this stuff gets transmitted down in a malicious way. A lot of women really feel like they're arming you or helping you, protect you to survive. Yeah, but it helps you, but it's, but it keeps you without being able to interwork with a man. Yes. So how have you, how have you addressed that? Not the independent part, but the becoming interdependent. Okay, so, um, I think I was raised, I'm the only girl. I was raised in a household, household full of men and boys. Um, so I think I can't give a correct answer to that because I do believe that I carry a lot more masculine traits just because to be raised in a household full of men. So have you ever done any kind of therapy or counseling? Okay. Uh, yeah, I have. Um, but I found that I wasn't able to, I guess it was helpful in a sense that it made me aware of my, uh, you got to stay with it. You got to. Here's the thing. This is not stuff you can practice out in the real world because you're running out of time. Counseling, therapy is one path. Life coaching, femininity, all that kind of stuff is another path. Because if we didn't get it in their childhood, what you don't want to do is waste years of your life trying to stumble through life figuring this stuff out because unfortunately for women, there is a clock, especially if you want to get married and have kids. That's why that whole thing, I have that whole thing called the danger zone. Ladies can't just wait. So, well, one therapist may not work. You got to keep going till you find one that's going to work to where you can start getting through your issues. So appreciate you calling in, sis. Um, all right, so here's the thing. Um, I, I will say this, that, you know, the anger, whether your mother, father, whomever in your family, I don't, I personally don't think that people did anything to maliciously, but the fact still remains, we all are where we are. And if you're getting the outcomes that are negative, not the kind of outcomes you want in your life, you gotta deal with the person in the mirror. And what if anything tonight has shown, there's some people who are more willing to listen, and some people who are more willing to just say, "Project, project, project." And we all come to it, or we come to it. The purpose of this is always been the same thing. That this is a men's channel, men helping men get what they want. And most men want a partner, a woman to cooperate with, to where they can build a family and have legacy. Want somebody that they can trust, that when they put their resources, time, effort, that she's going to actually stay there, be appreciative, love, cherish, other things, and not going to end up resenting him, being upset, or just, God, there's a lot of fear with modern women because of what we have seen. For far too many women, this is what they say. It's what men say. It's like, "Look, you want a perfect man, and even when he's perfect, you still find something wrong." All right, ladies, at the end of the day, if nine out of ten men say women aren't happy, and eight out of ten women say women aren't happy, that's 85% of each group. Total. If you're in that group, that's how people are experiencing you. Men or women. That's not much difference. Men are saying or experiencing you as being unhappy. Women are experiencing you as being unhappy. And if you're honest with yourself, and you fall into this group, you know you're unhappy. Don't kill the messenger. Don't get upset with the content. Do what you can do to put yourself on the other side of happy. 2021, as fit as you can get, and as pretty as possible. These things matter to men. And it is time women start hearing it from men and other women. All this simplistic talk about, "You're bashing, you're doing this, you're doing that." You guys, that is not gonna work. Men have had to listen to the demonization of male speech for so long. No, it. Men speak like men, and it would do you well to learn how to deal with that if you expect to be with a man. The men that don't speak to you like your men, the ones that tickle your ears, it may be fun to listen to, may even feel good, but those are typically not the men women want to be with. More on that later. We got to get back to this whole ranking thing too. Rankings, rankings, rankings. I didn't have time to really dig into it tonight, but ladies, if you didn't understand one part from the Clubhouse, one woman said that a woman could put her standards wherever she wants to. Granted, but the market decides. You can call yourself a ten, a nine, you can think it all you want to. You can believe on the power of sunshine and fairy tales and rainbows that that's it, but if you are a four in the eyes of the majority of men, the truth is four, not ten. There is, I don't see how anybody lives a happy life when most people are thinking you're four and you're thinking you're ten. That's too big of a disconnect. Humility, an accurate estimation, gratitude, empathy, self-awareness. These are things we'll be focusing on heavily in 2021 for the people who want to move forward. For the people who want to argue, bicker back and forth, and try to watch a piece of content here and there, try to say, "Well, you're doing this." I'm not talking to you. Because if you don't watch enough of my content, you don't get to question what I'm doing. If you really want to know, sit down and watch. Watch the titles. Don't just read. And if you are going to listen to what somebody's telling you about what I said, well, that's your fault. When you come to the horse's mouth and get it right there without their bias and their context. All right, 2020, 2020 is over. It was a good year, a great year. 2021 promises to be even better. It is 1:17. We are officially in 2021. As pretty as possible, as fit as you can get, guarantee you'll have a better outcome at life. Gentlemen, get those 60 hours a week minimum that you're working and you're getting paid for all those 60 hours. Yep. Increase and improve. You want, you want to be the boss, you got to pay the cost. Beauty costs, man. You want to be able to call the shots, and you need to put yourself in a position for the kind of caliber of woman you want to keep her in spaces to where her feminine can stay there. Again, I'm not trying to talk about 100% of all people, all the time. My channel, I'm talking about the top 20%, top 10% of men, and the top 30% or top 20% of women that want those men. I'm not talking about everybody. About most of my videos, when I start talking about high value, this or that, it's a very, it's a segmented conversation. It may have import in other places, and that's something else people have to understand. Stop trying to make a consultant a therapist. It's not my job. I'm not getting paid to do therapy. So it's a YouTube program hosted by me, and I'm good at what I do. I have the training, the expertise to be confident enough to sit up here and do what I do live. Lastly, you'll notice that most of my detractors make pre-recorded videos. I said it before, and I say it again, I challenge them all to get up live stream day in, day out, weekend, week out, and take calls from the public. The detractors, men, you need to take calls from men. Women, are you women willing to take calls from men? Because what it seems to me is we want to hear what we want to hear. If I just sat here and let men talk, it would be an echo chamber. I already heard what men think for the last three, four years now. The communication is being given to the other side. Promises to be interesting. 2021 promises to be interesting. Thank everybody for tuning in. I'm grabbing me something to eat. It's been cool, but I'm out of here until the next time. You know how this goes. Oh, peace. We are. Oh, well, let me, don't say it just yet. You know how it goes. Go. [Music] I cannot say what's wrong. It's not hard to fool me. [Music] [Music] Did [Music] So tell your goodness. [Music] Before the moment. [Music] For the. It's not a problem. Testing, testing. [Music] To the edge. Tell your goodness. [Music] Foreign. It's acceptable.