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How Dysfunctional Women Don't Know How to Express Interest or Affection

The Saint1:11:54

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Welcome to my world. It's the one and only. It's the big homie. It's your favorite YouTuber's favorite YouTuber, Fax Kellerman, Stephen Ape, you already know what it is. So, check this out, ladies and saints. Oh, by the way, as we go through, if you have any comments, questions, use the information below or the information in the description of this video. H, if you have something important to say or if you want to, you know, show your thanks, your gratitude. It'll make you feel better. I promise you. There's psychological research on that.

Now, let's talk about this. So, as you guys know, I get a lot of DMs, which is to be expected. And I learned quite a bit about human nature. Things become brighter and clearer when you can see them repeatedly. When you get to deal with human beings at a high volume level in a very specific way, you start to notice patterns. Then you can make connections. Marquet, what are you talking about?

So, I got a DM from a young lady today and I see her DM and so I hit and the profile photo looked good. So, I was like, "Okay, let me hit the see who this is." And I go to her profile and I see one of her top photos that's pinned and it's a photo of her pregnant. And I was like, "Oh, okay. That's weird." Like why would you be sliding my DMs while being pregnant or recently pregnant? I would think that you're still in a relationship because even total morons, it takes some amount of time to start up an unnecessary argument with your baby daddy and then have him can you and then run off, right? That takes a little bit of time.

So, I'm looking at her profile and there's that pinned picture of her pregnant. I look at the other profiles and she's a good-looking black woman. very good-looking East African woman. Good height on her, lovely shape, nice smile, great hair, good style, too. Seems like she's reasonably uh successful. She's in show business, obviously. I'm scrolling through and I see pictures of her with her child, and the child looks very young, like the child like was inside of her body not too long ago. And I'm like, "Huh, that's interesting."

So, I reply to her and I write single question mark. Now, mind you, this was actually just out of curiosity cuz, you know, admittedly, once I know that she has a child, there can be nothing meaningful, right? There's there's no possibility of anything meaningful between us. And nine out of nine, if a woman messages me, it's to get some attention for uh romantic purposes, whether she's aware or unaware. But I was just particularly interested cuz I was thinking, there's just no way you can have been pregnant so recently and you've already screwed up your relationship. I don't know if it can happen that fast. So I write single question mark out of cur sheer curiosity because I scrolled through a couple thumb swipes. I didn't see any man. I was kind of like that's not embarrassing to you people. You people are not embarrassed to have maternity photos and to be pregnant and there's just no man in sight. You got photos of you and your child and there's just no man in sight anywhere. That's not embarrassing. I'd rather just not post photos than to post an incomplete family. It looks bad.

So anyways, she replies back um I forget if she like how she worded the first part, but it was the second part that got me. So she says essentially single, but you don't date women with who wear Jordans, so what does it matter? And I was thinking, now I see why you're a lonely mother that quickly. Now I understand. But I thought I should speak on this because what she said was so familiar and it's not the exact words. It was her choice of conversation. She could have been complimentary. She could have been positive. She could have been thoughtful. But instead, she decided to be confrontational and negative. You see, she's referring to one particular video wherein I state, I don't date women who wear Jordans, which is a fact, you see, because if a woman is wearing Jordans, either she's like some kind of stud basketball player. It's like, I wouldn't really want to date a stud or I'm using the language, the colloquialism of the LGBTQ to avoid being controlled by the Google Corporation. So, either she's a stud, which is a no-go, or she, you know, is in the like eighth grade or something. She's in high school. So, why would a grown woman be wearing Michael Jordan sneakers unless she's like a basketball player? She's in the WNBA or something. So, it's just a show of immaturity and lack of taste and style.

So, that video was a real one minute. a one minute video offended about four million black people. Of course, the the lower class, which is mostly what black people are, lower class, whether they'd like to admit it or not. I remember when I was teaching in Baltimore, Maryland, and I was talking to the kids one time, and I was really disappointed, and I said, "You guys need to focus. I mean, you guys are disadvantaged in as much as you don't have what your the kids you're competing with have. You guys are starting from the lower class." So, m Mr. burden. What do you mean lower class? I was like, you're poor. You guys are poor and you're going to have to compete with kids who are not poor, middle class, upper class to get into university, uh, elite universities, and to get into rigorous degree programs. And they were like, poor? We ain't poor. And I was just like, am I? I was like, [snorts] you live in Baltimore, Maryland. You live in Baltimore City. Listen, you're you're for sure poor. like we'd have to be in Mississippi or somewhere for us to be any poorer. Like you're poor, trust me. I didn't explain that, but I was like, "Huh, interesting."

But anyways, I say all that to say this. This woman, beautiful woman. Have to give her that. wellshaped, good height, good career, but so brainless that she could not hold on to a man who got her pregnant. I don't care what anyone says. If you find a woman that's halfway attractive and a man ran off on her while she has his seed, that woman is utter rubbish. And it's 100% her fault. It's not a little bit her fault. 100% her fault, Mark. Quit. Why is that? Let's be real here. Men are very visual creatures. And most of these pathetic males on the planet Earth, they're happy to just have some live-in vagina. You heard me? Yeah. They just want the peace and simplicity of a living vagina, not to have to go hunting constantly. So, you're attractive. You have the anatomy that he's seeking, and you have his seed, and he still ran off on you. You're a miserable, hard to get along with person. You're a devil on earth, sis. Yes, that's right. You are the problem. Wholly and entirely.

So, anyways, just to remind you, she sends a DM. I look at her profile. Wow, good-look lady, but you have a kid. Where's the man at? And I'm just tripped off out of like, your kid's like not even one years old. Did you lose your man that quickly? No way. Maybe he's like some rich famous guy and he doesn't want to be on her profile or something. So, hey, are you single? I just put single question mark. And she puts, yeah, which is insane and super embarrassing. Like, shame on her. And then she writes, but that doesn't matter because you don't date women who wear Jordans.

Now, here's the other piece. If you told me, Marquette, you have one minute to find that video on your profile or we're going to take out your mom. I'd be like, mama, I love you. I don't have any clue where that video is. I'd have to go out of my way to find it, which would indicate that this woman uh stumbled upon my profile through some piece of content presumably and went through and watched content until she found something she disagreed with and then decided that that's what she wants to lead with. She wants to lead with disagreement and conflict with a guy that she's interested in, mind you. The guy she's interested in, she wants to lead with the BS. And I'm just thinking like, huh? like what what's wrong with these broads? But this is not uncommon. You know, increasingly people are immature throughout the developed world and anywhere that the Western world has influence. We're going to see this is going to grow. They're mentally ill as well.

Now, here's the the kicker. You remember when you were a youngster, maybe you were in elementary school or middle school and you might hear adults talking and maybe you're running from some girl and maybe she's even annoying you. And you tell an adult like, "Hey, you know, like tell little Cindy to leave me alone." And they'll be like, "Oh, Cindy likes you. That's why she keeps hitting you. That's why she keeps chasing after you and pushing you and bothering you." which is a representation of the fact that girls, which would be immature beings, because they're children, they don't know how to properly express affection. So, they're doing whatever they can to get your attention and get it in the particular way that they want and an intense reaction and engagement even when you're not interested. Now the bizarre thing is that adult women uh who have children are still behaving like children. I found it to be very bizarre that instead of saying something complimentary or engaging a question, she thought, "Oh, I should say something negative and confrontational that'll get him." So then she says that, "Yeah, you don't date women with Jordans." In my head I'm thinking, "Wow, that you that's what you want to talk about?" So uninteresting. Then I I think I just thumbs up the message or something like that. I I wish I had the message. I delete and archive these things. Delete or archive them. In this case, I delete and block. And the only reason that I block is cuz I don't want to come up again on in her feed and then she like tries to shoot her shot again. So I just block them just to prevent that.

So anyways, um she says um I forget how she segueed to this, but I thumbmed up that one and then she says something else. Um oh yes, this is what she said. Aha. She says, "You're a really smart guy. There's some things that I don't quite agree on. We should have a talk sometime." So this is her game. And you know, women have terrible game. The only difference is that if you're a young woman with no children, it's okay that you have terrible gain. If you're a older woman with children, I'mma really need you to spit that [ __ ] I'm going to need you to really spit that [ __ ] girl. I'm going to need you to to woo me and lift me off of my feet and compliment me and r me up and take me on a good date, you know, make me want it. So these women in general have terrible game. And so her goofy selves like, "Yeah, yeah, I most you're a smart guy. I mostly agree, but there's some things I disagree with. We should have a chat." And I'm just thinking like, first off, broad, I don't want to debate with anyone. Not even dudes in general. Like not even really on live stream. Like I don't find that to be fun. I'd much rather talk with people I agree with to be honest with you. And further, if I'm doing it on live stream, it's for a purpose. I'm not going to debate with anybody in like regular life. That's nonsensical. You You'd have to be some kind of a fool. But you see, to her, she didn't mean debate. She means argue. And she didn't mean debate. She means give me intense attention. And she didn't mean debate. She means, "Oh, I think I'm as smart or smarter than you. So, let me teach you." That's what it means. Why would you want to talk about something you disagree on? What it really breaks down to is let me the woman teach meaning lead you bizarre and it's the arrogance that they have. So we're going to get into it. Yes. Send in your comments, questions as we go through. And the funny thing is that human beings are so diluted. Women especially even more so. They don't realize when they are the problem, when they are the dysfunctional one, when they are the negative one. And it's not just black women. Unfortunately, a lot of white women in my generation and younger are infected with the same thing. Very narcissistic and negative. Shout out to Frank supporting the work. May I also acknowledge Chung came in supporting the work. And both of those before we even got started. I also acknowledge Roderick supporting as well. Came in via PayPal. Uh, so thank you to the three folks who support. Shout out to GR who supported at the end of the last stream.

So she says, "Yeah, I disagree on some things. We should talk about it sometime." And then I I put talk question mark. Now mind you, pretty much everything I've said to her has been one word literally and a [clears throat] question mark at the end of the word, which is to say that I'm not very interested, love, but curious in some of these things. So I say, talk like what are you what are you talking about? And then she replies, yeah, like have a conversation. So then I'm thinking, oh, okay, this makes a lot more sense. It's like this woman wants to debate me on a live stream because there's just no way in hell a woman with a kid who's older and has a bad attitude thinks that I'm I would consider dating her. So I was like, "Okay." So then I messaged like, "Oh, you want to debate on live?" I was like, "Okay, yeah, we can. When do you want to do it?" And then she replies like, "Oh, no. I'm not quite ready for that. I just wanted to talk like oneon-one." And then I write again talk question mark. Like why? like go talk to your friends, talk to your baby daddy, talk to your doctor, talk to your mom. Like why are you who am I? I'm no why are you bothering me? So then she writes, "Yeah, sometimes we can do an IG video call." And I'm just like, "Oh, wow. This woman's like really shooting her shot right now. This is terrible. Like why would she do that? This is completely inappropriate." Like has she no sense of like her position in life and my position?

You see, the problem is this, and I've seen this before. I've even experienced this. I It's when people start getting older, they have trouble accepting that things have changed, especially for women. So, say imagine you been a beautiful female your whole life, right? You started getting men's attention when you were 11 years old and it only got stronger as your body developed more and you had a particular position in the world and the way that the world reacted to you, particularly males. And then you start to turn that corner. You hit the wall. You have a child. That guy can't stay with you because you're an unpleasant person. But you still think that you deserve the attention and the admiration. And so you're still playing the game in your advanced age. You're playing the game like you're still 20, right? And you feel like you can like still do it cuz you know you used to be a great hooper at age 20. You crossing people up. you dunking from the free throw and you remember that. That's how you identify, but that is not how you currently exist. So in your mind, you're like, "Yeah, give me the rock. I could dunk from the free throw." Then they throw you the rock and then you try to dunk and you way short. You're short on that. And you start to realize like, "Oh, like I'm a little older. Like the game is a little too fast for me now. Like I'm not thriving in the game." Except women remain in denial. They remain in denial. you know, they're third in their 30s thinking that they still can get as many guys as they could in their 20s. They're in their 40s thinking that they're still a factor. You're not a factor. You don't matter. Huh? Only person you would matter to would be your husband or the father of that child, but you already ran him off.

Now, here's the kicker. Women also get deluded because they think that men and women are the same. So, she's looking at it like, "Okay, well, I'm 30. He's 30. What's the problem?" Oh, there's no problem except that you're 30 and his 30 are different. That's the problem. Oh, yeah. And you had a baby and it ruined your body. And even if he did have kids, it didn't ruin his body. So, your 30 and his 30 is different. And also, your kid is about to impact his life, but his kid's not going to impact your life. So, he's basically coming in fresh. So, while you're 30 trying to date a guy who's 30, you're dumb. You actually really can only date guys who are like 40 plus. Because the guys who are 30, they're still trying to date women who are 20. And here's the kicker. Here's the kicker. They're actually getting stronger. You heard me? Yeah. Whereas you got worse at the game over time, he got better at the game. Marquette, what do you mean? Yeah. Well, here's here's his 30. Not a wrinkle in sight. Not a gray hair in sight, right? Here's his 30. No wrinkles, no gray hairs, and still physically strong and wealthier than in his 20s. Here's your 30s. Face covered in makeup. So, you've been wearing makeup at this point for 20 years. Your pores are all clogged. Your skin is bad. You got all this acne and dark spots. Your hair is thinning. Um, your eggs drying up. uh instances of Down syndrome and birth defects increasing. You got a whole child that's not his. You have all this experience. You got ran through in college. Where is the value ad? Like you're not getting better, you're getting worse, dear. But there's no acknowledgement of that. So, here you come with all of those negative attributes and then you have the audacity to start off with your game spitting, saying something negative as opposed to positive and uplifting and interesting.

Now, here's the even funnier part. If I were to tell her and say, "Hey, you're spitting game at me." She'd deny it and lie about it. Cuz if she was 20, she wouldn't spit game at me. She'd wait for me to come spit game at her. She might try to get noticed, but she's not going to put the press on me and start inviting me to IG video calls. She'd wait till I invite her to an IG video call. So, now they're dealing with a a duality in their mind to where they identify as a bad bee, but they're really just a single mother, and they're working extra hard to try to get the guy that they want. Not the guy they're qualified for, but the guy that they want. It's kind of like a car, right? You might financially qualify for a Toyota Camry. Brand new, good car, reliable, but you want a Bentley. So, she's trying to get a Bentley, but she got that Toyota Camry credit score. Huh? Come on now. Come on now. Yes, indeed. We going to talk about it. Send in your questions and comments using the information below. Shout out to Dominic. He writes backtoback tuition. Peace of the saints. Yes, indeed. I'm out. Shout out to Amanu writes peace to the saints. And thank you to those who actually support the work. I also acknowledge uh Mr. Brown. He writes peace of the Saints paying tuition. Shout out to the real ones.

So anyways, she says, "Yeah, we have a IG video call." And in my head, I'm like, "Damn, I must look like I have a tremendous amount of free time like in general. I must like look like I want to raise other [ __ ] kids." You know, every now and then you hear Kevin Gates say something that's uh meaningful or interesting. You might have to wait 10 years, but it'll happen every now and then. Kevin Gates one of those people you're like, "Nigga, just keep rapping." Like, "God damn, you be sounding like reasonable when you be rapping. Like your rap like like the the wild stuff you say doesn't sound as bad when you're rapping, but when you start interviewing like goddamn it, like you you make me ashamed to have ever listened to your music." But one thing the gentleman did say that was completely sensible and I was like, "Go ahead, Gates." Somebody had asked Brody on a live session, you know, and obviously it was a dirt bag single mom. She was like, "Hey, Kevin, would you ever date a single mom?" And this fat rascal is back, this was fat Kevin Gates, which was in he was in a different mental space. He was like, I I don't think that my my prayer to God was, "God, please send me a gorgeous woman with with kids that ain't mine, with kids from another [ __ ] like, "Send me a beautiful woman with kids for from another nigga." He was like, "That wasn't my first prayer to God." And I was like, "Bro, I feel you." Like, I feel And low key, like I only think the devil would send you a single mom with kids from another [ __ ] That don't sound like God at all. That sound like that got to be the devil. You heard me? Like that's disgusting. That's like just thinking about there's certain things that disgust me and then I can't even function with a female. And and the worst thing is I get so disgusted sometimes that I can't even pull myself to explain. So let me advise you ladies respectfully just for your good. Be a woman at all times. Don't be crude, filthy, and ill-mannered because especially if you're dealing with a highle man, their tolerance is low because it doesn't have to be high. They don't have to have high tolerance. They tell you get get out the way. Bring that girl in here. Yeah. Yeah. They don't have to have tolerance for you. Like there's one young lady, perfectly fine young lady, but she was mentioning something about like having like digestive issues and having to go to the bathroom and constipated. I was trying to block it out. I even like kind of like indicated like, "Hey, stop talking about this." And she kept going. It was really weird. Then I had to like forcefully say, "Hey, that is not an appropriate conversation." But after she said all that, it's like stuck around on my mind. And then like two, three weeks later, I just didn't even want to talk to her. I was like, "That's disgusting." Like I don't even want like that's gross. Like why would you even say stuff like that out loud around me? Like why would you do that? I don't even look at you the same. And the worst part is that I don't even feel the energy to explain that to you. One because you would think that you would know that. Like I don't even use the same bathroom as women. Like at my house my bathroom is just for me. Like no one you I'm talking about the water closet, right? No one uses the same water closet as me. Only me. I don't care if you're in my room. I don't care if you're sleeping in my bed. You need to get up, walk out of the owner's suite, and use the restroom somewhere else. We're never going to use the same restroom cuz it's just not I'm not living like that. It's like maintain your selfrespect and dignity. It's like don't you want people to look at you with esteem? It's like if you don't look at yourself with esteem, that's where everything's going to fall apart. The problem is that people don't have self-respect. When you don't have self-respect, everything goes left from there. Everything goes left from there. [laughter] Shout out to the haters. But I appreciate you guys being here. Oh god. I hope you subscribe too, [ __ ] Subscribe and hit the bell so you can get notifications. I don't want you to miss out on any opportunity to hate. I really don't. But I must inform you that actually there's a belt right there. Let me see if I can switch cameras for you, little buddy. Oh, that's a pity. We don't have a right angle for you, May. That's a shame. That's a shame. Well, I guess we just have to resort to Trust me, bro. [laughter] Imagine though. Shout out to the haters. And this how I know I'm a fly [ __ ] Uh, for all the women watching right now, appreciate you being here. I know why y'all are here. Uh, for the the intelligent men here, y'all are here to get some game. I respect that. Uh, for the haters here, bro, that's how I know I'm the greatest. Cuz when you be hating on a [ __ ] but you still got to come watch. That's how I know I'm the best. You hate, but you're like, "Ain't nobody on earth can do it like he does it. So, I'mma subscribe. I'mma watch the video. I'mma hate every minute of it because I'm jealous, but I'm still gonna watch cuz that boy good. So, I appreciate you, man. Like, honestly, thank you for being here, for making me feel like a celebrity. Um, thank you for making me feel a sense of importance and meaning in this world and thank you for being a fan. Thank you for being a subscriber. I just want to give my gratitude to you, man. And if you ever, you know, want to come on and have a conversation with the big homie, I might even let you on. I might even let you on. I appreciate you, man. [laughter] Thank you. Thank you very much. [laughter] Oh my goodness. Human beings. Human beings are very funny. I love you guys. Shout out to Brad came and supporting the work by a bin. But anyways, uh back to Shorty. Shout out to Andre. He writes, "Peace of the Saints. Won't make it to Saints weekend. See you at the drip trip." Okay, let's let's get it. I will see you there. That'll be a good time. And I understand. So, the young lady writes, "Uh, IG, uh, we should do an IG video call sometimes." And I'm just tripped out like, "Word, you think that I would like to arrange a time, pre-arrange a time to have an argument with you cuz your suggestion is that we discuss the things that you don't agree with me on. So, you want to pre you want to schedule an argument with a stranger?" I was like, "Not interested. I unsent everything and blocked Shorty and archived or or deleted. Yeah, I blocked her and deleted like get out of here. Knock it off, dweeb.

Now, after that, I know I feel bad for everybody around baby girl because I know that women cannot deal with rejection in general. And the more physically attractive the girl is, the more they like struggle and break down mentally when they experience rejection. So, I know like her kid got whooped tonight for sure. I don't even care if the kid didn't do anything wrong. That kid got whooped. She probably sent a mean ass text her baby daddy cuz now she's reminded that she should have stayed with him. She probably cussed out her home girl, said some real jealous snakeish to her. You mean? She probably flipped on everybody. And you know, that's okay. That's why I blocked her because I didn't want to have to deal with the repercussions of her getting rejected. So the lesson there is this Marquette, why didn't you just slay her and play her? Why didn't you give her a, you know, just poke her guts and then dip off? It's not even worth it. Nine out of nine. So what you have to understand is that I was very fortunate in that I have the lens to see in advance what's going to happen. There were two major indicators. Number one is that your baby daddy doesn't want to deal with you. Marquet, are you saying that you would deal with a woman who's still with her baby daddy or her husband? No, I wouldn't. But if I had to pick between a single mom and a married woman, I'd probably rather poke the guts of the married woman cuz at least I know she has some value to where somebody wanted to hold on to her. Right now, I wouldn't do it cuz that's gross. I'm not sharing an orphice with any man, but it makes more sense. You know, it's like the restaurant that has no one in it eating. You're like, "This restaurant must be terrible." then this other restaurant is packed. There's demand. People want it. So, the food's probably good. You see, but women will maintain their denial and their delusion. And that's why they're dangerous characters because they don't live in reality and they're not honest for the most part. This is not to say that men are. Men used to be, but increasingly we find these dweebs are utter liars. My son's a great example of it. He's a liar. We scheduled a couple days out to have a debate today at uh six I forget if it was six or seven. It doesn't matter because he canled and but he wasn't man enough to reach out and cancel. The team reached out to him and said, "Hey, confirming this appointment." He's like, "Oh, I have to take my kids bowling." And it's like, "You're not a man. That's not a manly thing." And in fact, you're an n-word, hard r. And that's why black people are accused of being late. They're accused of being irresponsible. They're accused of having low impulse controls because of people like mys who are the underperformers that misrepresent us. And that's why we have to marginalize these people. And ideally, we have to eliminate them. That's the goal.

So anyways, point is this. That beautiful woman, nine out of nine guys would have dealt with her just because she's gorgeous and they would have had to suffer and eventually they would have figured out that the vagina ain't even worth it cuz she's too annoying. She's too unruly. No man leaves their own flesh and blood. It is only because that woman is a dirt bag. So you have to know that that woman is bad enough that a man ran off on his kid. That's no easy feat, my friends. That's not something that's not a decision that you take lightly. That's something you ponder on and you just like it it hurts you to have to do it. But it is only because that woman is an utter dirt and she's not changing. especially not at her age. Whatever age she was, she looked like she was like late 20s, early 30s. Uh, which again is not even inside the ideal age range. So there you go. But anyways, um that was that. Here's the important piece to figure out things quickly. You see, there's nothing worse than saying, "Oh, well maybe like she's a positive person. Maybe she was just joking or let's just get do the video call and have the conversation, see how she is." Hell no. If you actually are a real man with a meaningful life and big goals and interesting things and people are interested in you, you don't have time to play games. It's only going to be pain. Be yourself, be good to yourself, be good to good people. She's not a good person. The faster you can assess that, the easier time you have at protecting yourself and protecting your assets abroad like that, she's going to end up hashtagmeing you. She's going to end up stealing your stuff, whether literally or through the legal system. She's going to end up pinning b uh pinning babies on you. She's gonna do all of these negative things because she's a negative person.

Now, here's what she could have done. Conversely, she could have very easily done the exact opposite. As soon as she got a response, she should have been like, "Oh, wow. That's exciting." Like, "Oh, he responded. Like, this is crazy." Unexpected. And said something complimentary. Oh, hey, I really like your work. You seem like a really smart guy. Or, oh, hey, um, you know, you said this. I thought it was really interesting. Can you tell me more? or hey I've been f you know something complimentary and interesting and then move the conversation in a positive direction which would give an example of the kind of woman you are helpful supportive engaging encouraging inspiring but she did tell the truth of who she is which is someone who's a detractor negative Nancy a downer a pessimist and one thing I want you guys to know is that people are raised on these mentalities. Yeah, she was a a girl. Her her parents were probably negative and some of that might come from poverty. You know, if you grew up in poverty and there's all this negativity, you carry that on as a way of being. You think that that's how conversation is supposed to go. You think that complaint and lamenting is a normal aspect of communication, which just side note, it's not. Shout out to Gabriel came in by PayPal. He writes, "The black box, excuse me, the black man was first song is really topnotch. Also, thank you for all the game you are delivering consistent consistently. I appreciate that." Yeah, that song is It's a real slapper. It's a real slapper. Beautiful young lady asked me. She was like, "Hey, uh, send me that song." And I was like, "Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. That's unreleased music. I'm the greatest producer, uh, this side of the universe. You just wait. Give me my respect. That song is not published yet. I ain't giving you a damn thing. She was like, "Quit playing. Just send me the song." I was like, "I ain't playing. I'm serious about my business. I don't know you like that, sis." Um, anyways, that being said, that is going to be on the Saints Weekend album, and that's because we have Saints Weekend coming up, and we also have our own music for it. And that album will be releasing uh within about 36 hours. And that is the very last track on it, uh, the one that you're referencing. It has some other great tunes uh with a variety of genres on there from jazz to doo-op which is just uh I don't know what how dooop ever faded out. Um but jazz to dooop to everything that is going to keep you in an uptempo beautiful mood positive music that focuses your mind on the right thing. So you're going to enjoy it. I I absolutely promise you on that one and uh thank you for the compliment.

So anyways, key is vet those women. You guys are used to letting them vet you and your whole thing is like you're going in like you're the job applicant. I'm going in like I'm the hiring manager or the boss. I'm vetting her. You rascals are getting vetted. No sir, that's the incorrect way because you're the leader, right? Just like in a job scenario, the boss is the one that does the vetting. If you consider yourself the leader in the relationship, then you should probably be doing the the vetting. She should be trying to get qualified for you. And don't let those chicks play you out. You hear me? Shorty show up after she had a kid and she in her late 20s, late 30s, now she want to start shooting game. Like, hell no. Nah. And here's another thing, too. And for all you women listening, if you guys are coming at a man, especially a man who's in a favorable situation, you need to come correct. And I also want you to know that you don't have time to like work on yourself. No. If you're 25 or older, you don't have time for any of that. You need to just fix it immediately or quit. That's not possible. You better make it possible because sometimes you only get one chance with a man. There's not a lot of great qualified options. So, you better fix whatever is wrong with you quickly. And that's not for him. That's for you. A high quality, high tier man wants you to be a better person for both of you. Like, if I don't want you to be fat, well, that's because I don't want to be seen with a fat person. It's an embarrassment. But also, don't you want to not be fat? Like, don't you want that for yourself? So, you need to do it quickly. This I I'm healing or I'm growing and I'm n no no no no. Just do it now. Because if you're 25 or older, you're already past your prime. You don't have time. You're not a man. If you were a man and you're 25 or older, I'm like, "Bro, the game is just beginning. You're 25. The game is just starting. The game don't even get good till you like 35." Yeah. The game don't even get good. And here's some good news, gentlemen. This is the most fascinating thing. Women are attracted to older men. Number one. Number two, the more attracted a woman is to you and whatever your circumstances are, like everything else doesn't matter. And number three, like attracts like. I'll tell you a funny story. I was I hope they're not listening to this, but I was in a particular venue. I'm going to try to be a little bit vague. I was in a particular venue. There was a a young white woman who's attractive [snorts] and there was an older black woman who's unattractive. And when I say older, I mean like 25 plus is older. But in her particular case, I think she was like in her like late 30s, excuse me, late 20s. My apologies, she in her late 20s and has a kid. The white chick, young, no kids. So, we're we're talking and we end up on the conversation of cars because one of their colleagues like walks into the room and they're like, "Hey, is that your car outside?" I was like, "Yeah." He was like, "Oh, that's my dream car." He's like, "Oh, man. I want that car. I'm just like 200,000 short." Like we chuckle and then they're like, "Well, what kind of car do you have?" And I was like, I just like looked cuz you could see it through the window. And they're like, "Oh, like, well, what other cars have you had?" And so, we're engaging in essentially small talk. And the black woman says, "Oh, well, if you had all those cars, then you must be old. Like, how old are you?" And I was like, I was just about to answer. And then she's like, "Oh, what are you like 40?" And I was like, "Damn." I like, "God damn." And then the white woman was like, "No, it's not 40." She's like, "You're 30, right?" And this has happened before many times. The interesting thing is this. The woman who believes she has a chance with you, she sees you in more favorable terms. The woman who doesn't believe she has a chance with you sees you in negative terms. It's the cope. They're coping. They want you, but they know they don't have a chance. So, they have to try to put you down in some way. So, the less attractive, overweight one is like, "Oh, yeah. What are you, like 40?" the attractive young ones like, "No, he's 30. They're both off, but they're going in separate directions closer to what makes sense for their situation to accept it psychologically." Uh, the young one put me closer to her age because that's what she wants to be the truth. The old one put me older to make me less attractive because she can't cope with the fact that she knows she has no chance at a man that she would like to have. This is unfortunately very common uh with the black female in particular that um they're very negative and of course I think poverty plays a factor in that. I'm not talking about like historical grievances. I'm talking about poverty today plays a factor in that. But you'll also hear them say things like, "Oh yeah, he only date white girls." Which has nothing to do with white women. It has everything to do with them disqualifying you because they think they are not qualified to be with you. So it's the idea of when you were like in grade school and you might be in a relationship and you feel like things are on the rocks. So you try to break up with her before she break up with you cuz you don't want to look stupid or she tries to break up with you before you break up with her cuz she don't want to look stupid. is that kind of pettiness and you find that uh in greater uh proportion with the black American female unfortunately but this ails all of the women. So anyways it was a it was a pleasant time having conversation with those two. You know southern women do have their charms no doubt but it was a a great lesson in as much as the most important things you'll learn about an individual woman are not going to be the things she says aloud out of her mouth. is going to be the things that she does not say directly. It's all going to be indirection. You'll have to interpret because she's not going to be linear and straightforward with you. Shout out to Danny writes, "Peace of the Saints. I know you're a super player. Do you still get hit on a lot by women ages 18 to 24?" Listen, Brody. Uh, probably like 15 to 15 to 80. You hear me? Like 15 to 80. Yeah. And that's probably not going to change for a little while. You see, there's certain things that are cheat codes, man. When a woman sees something that she sees rarely or knows she's not going to see again, there's a particular flavor, there's a flare, is she going to get mesmerized and caught up? It is. There's just just no way around it. So nature is a very powerful force. Nature doesn't respect the laws. Nature doesn't respect the social arrangement. Nature operates independently and on its own until your consciousness controls it. You dig what I'm saying? Yeah, man. There'll be times I'll be moving through the world and young lady who's far too young and I'll walk by and then she's just tracking me like cuz she's the it's the likes of which she's never seen before. And that should be your goal is to be remarkable. That's what I tell you guys in the Created Assassin. Show the best of who you are. I am truly remarkable. That's what you want to be. Remarkable. They got to go tell their mama what they saw. You hear me? Yeah. I mean, just think about it. Let's be real here. Take a suit like this. If you show up somewhere in this suit, they've never seen a suit like this ever in life. Look at this. Not only is it a club collar, which you'll never see cuz I invented this. This is called a Marquette suit. It's a club collar. That's number one. Then you did the club collar and you double breasted it. Woo! Crazy. And then you did the floral. Oh man, please stop it. Somebody take a picture. Listen, man. And I remember last time I was in New Orleans. I was in New Orleans. I was walking down the the street, three black women come up on me. They're like, "Hey, can we take a picture with you?" I thought that they watched the content. I thought they were fans. I was like, "Yeah, for sure. We take the picture." And I was like, "Yeah, thanks for the support." And they're like, "What?" I was like, "Thanks for supporting. Thanks for following my content." They're like, "Oh, no. We just your outfit." She's like, "We don't a we ain't never seen nobody dress like this." She was like, "You're looking good. We wanted to take a picture because you look good." That's the That's the level. And that's why real haters and suckers, they can't comprehend how, you know, you can have the positioning of a celebrity in a woman's mind without being a celebrity. You see what I'm saying? Like, and that's what you should be trying to achieve. So, you always going you're going to attract ladies from 80 to eight, man. If you're really that great, it's and that's not going to change for a while. Shout out to Andre. He writes, "If a woman is truly feeling you, your circumstances don't matter. One of the key lessons I learned at the big game conference." That's a fizz act. You dig? That's 100% fizzax. Huh? Shout out to Mr. Brown who just became a member at theassin.com. T-S.com. Click join. And there's a recent exclusive uh that I did that was pretty funny and engaging. I think you guys will enjoy that. So, definitely check that one out. It's been posted in the last 24 hours. Give us a little bit of give you guys a little bit of time if you have any comments, questions and I'm gonna get out of here. And thank you to the folks who have supported the work. And by the way, Andre has a phenomenal chest bag. Beautiful leather piece, very high quality. You can find at mdbleabel.com. Yeah, women are really counting on uh they're counting on you being a pervert. And and what I mean by that is they're counting on you not having any standards. And you know, the challenging thing is most men don't have standards. So the moment you do have a standard is just it's just mindboggling to him. And many of you guys,

You've never had a female stalker. You, you haven't had a lot of females spaz out on you. And the reason you've never had a female stalker is because you're constantly chasing her. So she never gets a chance to be a stalker because you're always chasing her. She never gets a chance to chase you. And also, you don't have any standards. So you never have to tell like, "Hey, look here, babe. You're not measuring up. You know, you should be doing this, but you're doing that. You could do this, but you, you're living in a low way." So, you've never set a standard for the female and then had her try to reach it. And then when she reaches it, whether she's with you or not with you, she's like, "Damn, he upgraded me. Like, he, he lifted me up. Like, I need that. I want to continue rising up. No one's ever done that." Then they're going to hunt you down.

You know, the problem though is female psychopaths, they get away with a lot because we don't view them as particularly dangerous, right? Like if a man is stalking you, you're like, "Oh, my life is under threat." Female stalking you, you're kind of like, it's just annoying. I don't think she's going to beat me up or take advantage of me. Now, some of them might pow get you up out of there. You just never know. But I've had a couple of these female stalkers, 'cause women cannot handle rejection. And you might think like, "Oh, the stalker girls, they're busted." No, those, it's the prettiest ones. The stalkers, the prettiest ones always, because they don't have any experience. You feel me? Anytime you're doing something that you lack experience at, you're going to struggle and do a bad job. So, they don't have experience with rejection. So, they do a terrible job dealing with it.

Like in this book, the black box, the concept of a black box refers to an airplane black box, which is a record of all of the things that have happened with the, the aircraft, right? Mechanical and otherwise, audio recording in the cockpit. It's the memory. So the memories you have, you can use those as a reference point to thrive in life. The problem with beautiful women is they don't have enough memories or reference points of rejection and how to deal with this. When they experience rejection, man, they go crazy. It's very unpleasant. It's extremely unpleasant. And you know, sometimes you feel sorry for them because they're always going to hit you with the tears. And a lot of females will be true psychopaths. I'm going to give you an example of, uh, one psychopath real quick.

Shout out to Jaylen, writes, "Peace to the saints. Thank you for this work. Uh, watching with my old lady. We're in college and we watch a lot of Ism together." That's a beautiful thing. Listen, a relationship that watches Ism together stays together. That's a beautiful thing. Shout out. May I also acknowledge Alejandro, uh, writes, "Peace of Saints, please keep teaching, sir." Yes, sir.

Okay, let me tell you about this, uh, psychopath. [laughter] Respectfully, when I call women psychopaths, it's just, it's not that much of an insult, right? 'Cause you guys are all kind of crazy. So, this one psychopath, and shout out to her, good-looking young lady, very pleasant. Um, so she's not a malicious psychopath and she can cook, too, which is really good, 'cause a lot of chicks can't cook. The funny thing is, they'll lie to you. I don't know if they're lying to me or lying to themselves. They'll be like, "Yeah, I can cook." And then they get in the kitchen and then you eat the food and you're like, "I might not even wake up. Like, I might not wake up after eating this. I might go to sleep tonight and never wake up." That was terrible. Was that poison? Anyways, so shorty can actually cook. She's good-looking and she's not malicious. But there's some other issues. And at a certain point, you know, I told her like, "Hey, I need some time. I got some business items that are, you know, quite serious." And so I withdrew some attention because I needed to put attention on my businesses. Well, then she started going berserk and couldn't accept that there would be a slight reduction in attention, which is good. I want this better learn these things sooner than later. So then she starts becoming more aggressive, like the obsessive kind of behaviors, which is fine. I don't entirely, um, you know, look down on women for this because they're, they're women, but there's levels to things. So eventually, you know, she made every effort to show, hey, I'm interested. I'm here. I've made mistakes. Maybe I was overaggressive, but I'm here. I'm fully signed up. Work with me. And I mostly didn't want to work with her. I go back and forth, but one thing I always respect is work ethic and consistency. And, um, and loyalty is big to me. So anyway, she kept, she kept standing there and, and pressing forward, and I was like, "Okay, I'll give her a chance."

So, I was mostly ignoring her communications. Then one night, I had some time, finished working. Me, I'm the kind of guy, I like to work until I can't work, and then I'll engage in social things, and then maybe I'll Netflix and chill, and then I'll do something non-work-related. But I do the work first until I can't work anymore, and then I want to engage in leisure. So, it was a particular night I finished working and I had time and I also couldn't work anymore. My brain was fried with work, having to focus. So anyways, she had just happened to message me. Boom. Now mind you, I hadn't been responding to her at all. Texts, calls, nothing. She's been calling back to back, calling 20 times a day. Hadn't been responding. She had just messaged me. I just happened to be in a perfect state of peace and I have time. So messaged her back. I had asked her something. She had said, I forget what it was, but I replied to her and asked her something. I'm carrying on. And then she messages back like maybe 10, 15 minutes later, which I thought was strange 'cause, you know, pretty much everyone I talk to messages back quickly, like immediately. Everyone. And I do too, like when you have my attention. So anyways, uh, she messages back like 10 or 15 minutes later. I was like, "Huh?" And which I don't think anything of because I, I never stop and just like start. I'm usually like, you know, moving around the property doing different stuff. So anyways, I message her back again and then maybe like 45 minutes go by. And so for me, it's like, by the time that amount of time goes by, I'm like in a different mindset. I'm doing different things. Like, you don't matter anymore. Especially in the case of her because she had lobbied so hard to get my attention, like calling back to back, like 20 times, like all throughout the whole day, texting, triple texting, quadruple, quintillion texting back to back. No responses. And then I noticed I was like, "Okay, so you finally get some responses and now you're playing games." Like, "This is very strange."

So then I tell her, "Hey, I think we finally have the perfect understanding. I've said this before, but I just want to say it again." And I meant it every time I said it. "Please stop contacting me. Why? Why? Why? Please, again, you don't need to ask why. Just stop contacting me. I don't want anything to do with you." But I'll let you know this. You have messaged me hundreds of times. I didn't respond at all. You've called hundreds of times. I didn't respond at all. But the time that I actually respond to you, then you start going MIA and being spotty with your responses. Which would be fine if we talked regularly or if we were on good terms or if I was someone that like had a good rapport with you. It'd be fine. It'd just be like, "Yeah, whatever. Maybe she's busy, what have you." But in this case, it's weird because you've scraped and scratched and yelled and cried to get my attention. And then when you have my attention, you don't treat it with respect and reverence and you waste it. And that just shows me that there's something off in your psychology because you know my time is valuable. You receive some and now you're playing with my time. We can't have that. You're done.

Now, mind you, this, let's juxtapose her to a real woman. Let me give you a comparison. Uh, shout out to Darius, supporting work, writes tuition. Peace of Saints. Came in by PayPal. May I also acknowledge Mr. Gomez. He writes, "AP, that suit is immaculate, very refined. Keep stepping on these peons. You're doing the public a service. I appreciate you, brethren." M acknowledge Travis comes in via Venmo supporting the work. Appreciate you. Someone said, "Where's the Venmo link?" Well, the Venmo is at Marquet Devon. And I do believe it's going through the bottom of the screen as a ticker.

Now, check this out. Let's compare her to a real woman. So, I had a, I have a real woman, right? And this woman is so chill. Now, mind you, this woman is like, uh, in a respected position in the hotel business. So, you know, reasonably high up. If I message her at any hour for any reason, very responsive. And here's the kicker. She might be at work. She might be in an actual meeting with people who matter, with people who outrank her. Very responsive. And then we'll tell you, "Oh, hey, I'm so happy to hear from you. Oh, hey, thanks for talking to me. I know you're very busy." And we'll remind you periodically, "Hey, you know, the reason I always reply so quick is because I know you're so busy. So, anytime you give me time, it's really special to me." So, it's like, sis, how you going to compete with that? Like you over here behaving like you drool on yourself. You're over here behaving like you should be on the short bus. And then you got shorty over here is at work in a meeting with her boss texting me back immediately talking about, "I matter the most. Yeah. F this job. F my boss. F everything. Marquette sent me a message. I shall respond." She's like, "Yeah, my colleagues make fun of me because I always make you a priority. I don't care what they think." That's wise. You shouldn't care what they think because you don't sleep with them in bed at the end of the day. If you have troubles, they're not going to fix them at the end of the day. Broads will keep you broke and they'll keep you single because they're jealous. Marquette, what do you mean jealous? What if they have a boyfriend or a husband? Yeah, but their boyfriend, their husband ain't like this. So, what'll happen is that they're mad because you dealing with a boss, right? When their husband take them to a restaurant, it's mid. We go to a restaurant, it's a Michelin, uh, level restaurant. They're jealous. You know, when they get in the car and their husband comes pick them up from work, he picked them up in a Miata or like some, some rubbish, some stuff you never heard of. I come pick you up in the big boy car. You dig? You just look better getting into that. Like your life is better. They're jealous of the fact that you're living an experience they can't live. And here's the kicker, man. They'll never admit it to one another. You know, a woman is generally not going to say, "Hey, damn, I wish I were. I wish I were you."

Uh, shout out to, um, young lady told me, and I always try to keep my private life private because as you saw earlier in the live chat, there's a lot of psychopaths. I keep my private life private. Young lady told me, woman of the house says, "I had some business guests, some women. We have a lot of guests for various reasons." Woman says to her, "Hey, what does it feel like to live in such a big house?" And she was like, "You know, that was a very uncomfortable, awkward question." I was like, "That is kind of a strange question." I was like, "But do you know what she was asking you?" 'Cause I could only imagine that living in a, a big house is the same as living in a small house, except you just have more options, right? 'Cause there's only so many kinds of rooms you can have. You just have more options. Like we have different names for rooms, right? Like we have one room called the Narnia room. We have another room called a parlor room. We have another room called a salarium. We have a bunch of different names, but at the end of the day, most of the rooms just have four walls. It's just a room with four walls. This room's narrow. That, that's all it is. We have a room we call the study, a room we call the office, a room we call the video studio. They're all just different rooms. We just have more space, but it's just a, a place with four walls. So, what she's actually asking you is not, "How's it feel to have a really big house?" That's not what she's asking you. What she's really asking you is, "What does it feel like to be with a man who has abundance and you get to float on that, that weightless feeling?" You know, when you're in water and you're just floating in the water. She's, she's on the ground. She's, she's a pig on the ground asking a, a sparrow, "What does it feel like to be weightless and to fly and have that lightness about you and not have to worry? What does it feel like to have that level of ease and carefree?" That's what she's trying to figure out. What does that feel like to be a kept woman? And they hate that. They hate that for you. You know how that, "Oh, I love that for you." No, no. They hate that for you. They hate the fact that you wake up, maybe you make love to your man, maybe you don't. Maybe you make him breakfast, maybe you don't. But what you don't ever have to do is you don't have to get up, hurry up and get dressed, brush your teeth, shower, go get in the car, drive for an hour, clock in at a job around women and men you don't want to be around, work eight hours, clock out, drive another hour back home. You don't have to do all that. Oh, and don't forget to pack your lunch before you left. You don't have to do all that. So, their, their chief issue with you is that you have a life that they want and don't have easy access to. So, they're going to undermine you to take that away from you or to stop you from getting that. Simple. It's called jealousy. Another word for it, a synonym, jealousy. Simple.

Shout out to Omar, writes, "Peace of Saint Marquette. My lady got me the black box. That's love. A year ago. Unfortunately, I decided to just start reading it due to my laziness. You like that? I'm really enjoying it. One day we will meet. God bless you. You are truly god-sent. I appreciate that." You know, we, we will meet. I can't tell you how, uh, funny it is when, when I encounter people. And my favorite way of encountering people is in unexpected places. There's some super low-quality, low-cost, uh, grocery stores that I might end up every, end up in every now and then for random reasons. I remember I was driving to a furniture store with my old lady like maybe a year ago now. I was driving to a furniture store. I was dehydrated. Say, "Let's stop at this, uh, grocery store and get something to drink." We go in the grocery store. I go in there to buy a bottle of water and I see a black guy looking at me, older black gentleman. He's probably in his 50s. He looks at me like, "Oh yeah. Oh yeah, that's you. That's you. Oh yeah, that's you. But what you doing in here? What you doing in here with us?" I, I love, I love those situations. I love that. And I can guarantee you you're going to see me in places that you don't expect to see me. I absolutely guarantee you, man. Remember when I was, uh, shadow boxing in, uh, Rwanda in Kigali and I'm just like in the middle of this, you know, super hood impoverished village kind of situation. I'm shadow boxing. Some kids are walking by and they're looking at me and then they start talking to each other and they walk past me and then they come back, all five of them, and then they're like, "You are on YouTube." I was telling him and he did not think it was you. And then he said it was you and I said, "Of course it's you." And he says, "No, I don't think so." And then he says, "Yes, of course it could be him, but why would he be here in Rwanda? So it's not him." And then I say, "Okay, we just go ask. It doesn't hurt to ask. But you're you, aren't you? You are you." And I was like, "I am me." And, "Oh my god. Oh my god. What are you doing here? We're on the way to the library. We, we all, we were just listening to you earlier today. We always listen to you. We are going to be successful because of you." And those are the conversations that I really enjoy. And me, I'm everywhere like air. I'm in every place like space. You dig? So when you say you're going to meet me, you probably will. Absolutely. It'll be the place that you least expect it. Thousand percent. You dig? You might find me in a random slum in the Philippines. You dig? Yeah. You might find me in a landlocked irrelevant country in Africa. You dig? Yeah. It's like that. It's the big homie.

Anyways, carrying on. So, the nutty buddy, I explained all of that to her and she had an excuse. Some of you might call this gaslighting, right? You might say, "Oh, she's gaslighting you." I call it whatever you want. I just call it lying. I call it lying. I like to keep it simple. And she's like, "Oh, I was with my mom and I was walking and it was raining." And so, I'm like, "I don't care about none of that. I don't care about none of that. Like, them other dudes might accept excuses. I don't accept accept any excuses, especially when your resume ain't right. You dig? Like, if it was just like this just happened to happen one time, I'm like, nah, sure. I'm looking at data points. Have a number of data points that are not adding up the right way. I don't need to hear any of your excuses." Ah, yeah. But here's the kicker, man. It's like, damn, you could have just acted right off rip. And with her, it wasn't even a situation of disobedience. It was a situation of inability to control her own emotions. And unfortunately, human beings, we don't change a lot. So, a chick might tell you like, "Oh, I improved or I fixed that." Nine out of nine, they didn't. So, what happens is that you're going to be forgiving, but you're forgiving something that's going to reoccur. That's h

Now, I'll tell you, I'll be honest with you. One, I'm, I'm very, very thankful for great women I have in my life. I mean, I just cannot, uh, express how thankful I am. And I'm, I'm thankful in the moment. You know, if it ends, it ends. Cool. Then we'll go on to the next thing. But I'm thankful in the moment. And the most important piece is that there's even despite having very high quality women, I'm talking about phenomenal personality, temperament, helpfulness, supportive nature, good taste, humorous, just great women, quality women, quality people. Still, of course, periodically, you might think like, "Oh, I wish you didn't do that. I wish you didn't say that." You might, you'll think that every now and then, but I tell you what, do you know what percentage of the time I say things that I don't have to say? Marquette, what do you mean you don't say things you don't have to say? Yeah, like I don't complain about petty small things that are irrelevant to our quality of life. Well, what do you mean? Well, maybe she said something that I, I thought was off-color or, you know, but it's not that big of an issue. I let it go. Maybe she says something that I thought was negative. No, I let it go. I'm not going to correct her. I'm not going to say, "Hey, you need to be more positive." There is no perfection. Maybe there's some things about me she'd want to improve or some small things that bother her. Now, women mostly are going to tell you, unfortunately. But as a man, I, I'm not going to say I choose my battles, but rather I focus on the things that are important, the things that are critical, and I try to manage those things. I don't major in minor things. Yes. I don't major in minor things. If the woman is mostly good and she's heading in the right direction, we can function. We're going to, together we're going to grow upward.

The other things that are more major, you see, even if you tell her and she corrects it, the issue is her re-offending. And unfortunately, she's probably going to re-offend. So, especially if she can't comprehend why she was wrong there, you're blessed. If you have a woman and you say, "Hey, you did this or I observed this or would you mind not doing that?" And her response is, "Okay." Or her response is, "Yeah, I'll fix that right now." Or her response is, "Oh, I didn't think of that." You're blessed. You're blessed. But if her response is, "Oh, I didn't do that." Or, "Well, what do you mean by that? That's not true." Or, "Oh, I don't see it that way." [sighs] You're not blessed. You're cursed. You're effed. It's all bad. And she's going to re-offend. Even if she corrects the situation, she's going to re-offend because she doesn't agree and she doesn't see what you're seeing. So, she's inevitably going to re-offend. Marquette, what do you mean? Let's say that.

Now, here's the funny thing about me. Because all in all, I was pretty much raised traditionally and with old-world values. So there's a lot of things that I know the right way it should be done, but I, I don't necessarily, I'm not the one that does it, that executes on it, but I know what it's supposed to look like. For example, I don't like cook. I don't do a big wipe down of a house and I don't do all that other stuff, but my mom did, my grandma did, so I know what it's supposed to look like. You know, when I'm finished eating, I'm not going to like wrap up all the pots and pans and the leftovers and everything and the leftover meat. I'm not going to do that. But I know what it's supposed to look like, which means that if a woman, say, get some lamb or some beef or some chicken and she cooks up a meal and you know how usually it might have like the, the bottom of it, maybe it's like styrofoam and then the top is plastic, so once you open up that plastic, it, it's not going to like recover and seal off the air from the meat. So, if the girl just takes that, that raw meat and then puts it in the refrigerator or even the freezer and she hasn't wrapped it back up or put it in a Ziploc bag or put it in another container like some, uh, Pyrex or some Tupperware or something, if she just leaves it in that original container that she, that it was purchased in and doesn't seal off the air, to me, I'm looking at that like, wow, that's, that's lazy. Like, that's not supposed to be like that. So, I've never in my life really had to like do it, but I've seen it done a lot of times for my mother and my grandmother. So, I know that's not the right way. Something like that. If I say, "Oh, hey, you don't think you should maybe like wrap that up in like some saran or put that in some Pyrex or some Tupperware? You're just going to leave like the air on it?" And she'll be like, "Oh, yeah. I don't, I don't think you have to like wrap it up like that." Then I'm kind of like, "Huh?" She's like, "Yeah, but if you want it like that, yeah, I'll do it." But like, no, I never did that growing up. I don't think you have to do that. I don't think that matters. Huh? Huh? So then I'm like, okay. So you complied, but you don't understand. You don't, you're not a believer, which means that when I'm not around or when you feel tired or lazy, you're going to revert back to the way you think it should be done, which is an inferior way. It's clearly an inferior way to have this like meat product exposed to the elements, to oxygen and all. It's going to expire quicker. It's going to be susceptible to insects and all these different things. It's really disgusting when you think of it. And just imagine, you're a woman, right? So, your chief area of expertise is supposed to be domestic affairs. That which occurs within the home, cooking, cleaning, maintaining a man, maintaining a child, maintaining a heavenly space. That's your area of expertise. My area of expertise is keeping the goddamn roof on, keeping the lights on, the electricity flowing, paying the water bill and the garbage bill and all these other things, which means work. Now, as competent, as incompetent as you are at your side of the equation, if I was incompetent at my side, then we'd be broke and you'd be looking down on me. So, you're the equivalent of a broke man in woman form because you can't do the basic womanly duties. So, it's pretty bad, pathetic, and unimpressive. And the fact is that's the common woman. That, that's what most women are. Like they're, they're incompetent in domestic affairs and then they have the nerve to be mad at men for being incompetent in financial affairs. Well, that's actually your equal, love. He's your equal. But anyways, when you see a chick doing stuff like that, you just got to know like, "Yeah, I got to get her up out of here, man. She ain't g I got to get her up out of here. She grimy."

Shelter Austin, he writes, "Been dealing with these liberal chicks. It be like that. I noticed they expect men to have the same nurturing instinct as them. Right. Exactly. They think that they're men. They think that you're a woman." He writes, "Be wiped my nose for me and asked if I'd wipe hers." That's disgusting. Hell no. Be [laughter] I'll be me and I'll let you be yourself. Should I overlook this? It's weird. She, she might just be a weird broad. Um, she can continue getting the candy muscle, you know. She just might be a little bit weird. Some chicks are throw it off. I mean, me personally, she, it seems like she's trying to establish a level of reciprocity to where it's like, well, if I scratch your back, you scratch mine. But a great woman, the best of women, they scratch your back and don't even want their back scratched. You hear me? Like, see, slurs are all about, I'll do you, you do me. You hear me? They, they're like, if I top you off, you got to eat this catfish. Me personally, I don't eat catfish. Too many bones in it. You get dig? I don't eat catfish. So, a real woman will be like, "Look, I'mma do this 'cause I want to do this 'cause I want to please you." And like, she's like, "I don't even think a man needs to be doing all that." Like, no, that's not even necessary. You feel me? So, there's a huge gap between a slore and a good woman. A good woman is there to be the assistant of a man. She's there to be the helpmate of a man. She's there to make sure that you're on top because if you're on top, then she's on top 'cause she's with you. She's there to do all of the support roles to make sure that you can do the CEO role. Come on now. These chicks be weird out here, man.

But [snorts] I tell you, the funny thing too is also the sign language. Shame, insult, guilt need to be right. As soon as you tell them that they are not qualified and you don't have to tell them like that. Me, generally, I just usually just say, hey, like, let's give it some time. Like, I need you to show me something. And, and sometimes it'll be a genuine offer like, yeah, I'm going to give you a real chance to show me some improvements. But as soon as they find out that they're not perfect, in general, or perfect for you, in particular, then they go on attack mode. Now, you're the bad guy. Oh, you're, you know, they, they want to act like you're a problem for having standards. You're a problem for expecting a woman to have womanly skills. They expect you to be a millionaire, but you can't expect them to know how to like prepare food and then put it away correctly. Extraordinary.