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What's your evening routine, including supplements? From, like, take a walk, me through 5 PM until your, your lights out, falling asleep, uh, in bed? Yeah.
So, I, I generally go to sleep somewhere between 10 and 11 p.m. Although lately, I've been going to sleep much earlier, um, because I've been finishing my last meal sometime right around 6, 7. First of all, um, my evening meals are more laden with carbohydrates than they are proteins. Typically, not every day. There's times we'll have a steak for dinner or something like that, chicken soup, or whatever. But it's very clear that fasting and low-carbohydrate meals, I'm not saying diets overall, but meals that, those lend themselves to more alertness and focus. And a lot of people say, "Well, how can that be? The brain uses glycogen, you need carbohydrate." Well, when you are, when you eat a meal that is slightly devoid or devoid of starches, it creates a sense of alertness because there's actually a mild adrenaline response.
So, what I do is, I basically, I'm rewinding a little bit into the earlier part of the day, but I fast until about, um, 11 o'clock. I usually get my exercise at some point before 11 o'clock or noon. I'm not super strict about that. Then my meal is generally something, some meat, a salad, um, something low carbohydrate. If I train really hard, I might have some rice or oatmeal or something like that and some fruit. And then in the afternoon, I have a snack, which is also pretty low carbohydrate because I want to have that alertness, and I'm drinking caffeine. So, I'm kind of humming around, um, doing my work and trying to get into that high-focus state.
For dinner, I generally will eat pasta or something that includes more starches because starches are known to actually reduce cortisol levels in the body. This is why we eat comfort foods. Most comfort foods involve eating foods that are pretty carbohydrate-laden because there's, um, a pathway involving carbohydrates and the amino acid tryptophan that converts to serotonin and it essentially blocks the cortisol response. A lot of people that are in very low-carbohydrate diets, I have no problem with that. If people do ketogenic diets or low-carb diets, but those people often have a hard time sleeping. Um, they have to rely on a lot of sleep supplements or medication. Uh, we'll talk about supplements in a minute because there are some excellent ones. So, in the evening, I tend to eat pastas and rice and soups, and I still eat some protein, but I, um, from clean animal sources because that's what works for me. But, but I generally am shifting my whole system towards more quiescence.
I might do a little bit of work in the evening. We are not big, um, screen people in the evening. I do read books. Um, generally, we end up hanging out, just talking and listening to music and things like that. I might do some writing on the computer, but I'm not a big screen time guy. And I, I should say, I love movies. It just so happens that, um, uh, I ended up with somebody who doesn't have much interest in, in movies, but is a, is a really terrific musician. So, sometimes she'll play music and I'll read her work, and that's kind of my evening most days. Sometimes dinner with friends or if it will happen, of course.
So, right around, um, 8 or 9 PM, I start bringing the lights down. In fact, I have a real sensitivity to the overhead lights because I'm so used to this pattern. So, I start dimming the lights in the evening overhead. And then for the transition to sleep, um, I do keep my phone out of the, the bedroom as much as possible. Sometimes I'll use it as an alarm, but I'll put it on airplane mode. If I'm feeling a little too alert, I remember two things. One, the biggest peak in alertness actually occurs about 90 minutes before your natural to sleep time. A lot of people don't know this. This beautiful work from, uh, Chuck Eisler's lab. He's an MD out of Harvard Medical School. And what he discovered in tracking people's, um, wakefulness and activity patterns is that they're buzzing around all day doing things, ideally, but then right before their natural pulse and melatonin takes off, they have this peak in activity. And this, I think, um, probably harkens back to some need to, uh, you know, tamp down all the, the safety leaks that might be in one's environment. Um, and, you know, get everything prepped because when you're asleep, you're actually pretty vulnerable to predators and attack and things of that sort. That's the rationale. Nobody really knows. But you can essentially figure out your net, your best to bedtime by when you have this big peak in activity and then it kind of subsides. So, sometimes if I'm feeling a little too alert and wide awake, what I'll do is I'll just remember that that's going to pass naturally. And I, I'm not neurotic about it, but I have to say, I generally don't do too much, um, screen time viewing or arguing or parsing of hard, you know, ideas before sleep. I, I try and kind of shut that down. And people vary, but some people are just really tend to be very forebrain-oriented, as I call it, their thinking and anticipating all the time. It's good to try and taper that off.
One of the absolute most powerful tools that has come into my life in the last decade, and then my lab works on, and there are people in psychiatry at Stanford that are also working on, is a practice that I call non-sleep deep rest, which is NSDR. You can do NSDR first thing in the morning. If you ever wake up and you did not get enough sleep, I often wake up and feel I didn't get enough sleep. I'll do a 30-minute NSDR and I come out of that feeling terrific, as if I got a full night's sleep. And I do this almost every day at some point. I might do it in the afternoon. Or if you wake up in the middle of the night and you're having trouble falling back asleep, I highly recommend doing this because even if it doesn't put you back to sleep, it's better than being awake and ruminating. And you're teaching yourself to fall back asleep. You don't have to do it every day. You could do it maybe once or three times a week. And what you're doing is you're learning how when you wake up in the middle of the night, you go to the bathroom, you come back, you're like, "Oh no, my mind is racing. What do I do?" Instead of getting on your phone, you can start to use some of the progressive relaxation that you learned from those scripts, or you can actually do those scripts. And so, I tend to do, do those in the evening or when I wake up in the morning, and that greatly facilitates my transition to sleep and, and just being a more rested person.
Now, in terms of supplements, I'm a big believer that supplements are powerful and are a terrific, often a terrific replacement for prescription drugs. Not that there aren't terrific prescription drugs. I mean, many people benefit from prescription drugs. I take a few, um, but I think that many people rely on things that are excessive and, and habit-forming, expensive, and unnecessary. But I will say, first off, behavioral tools should form the foundation of all your sleep tools, your wakefulness tools. Behaviors first, behaviors first, behaviors first. For one simple but important reason, which is that behaviors rewire your nervous system. They so they engage what we call neuroplasticity, which is your nervous system's ability to change. You get better at falling asleep when you do NSDR or reverie. You get better at waking up and feeling alert when you view bright light in the early part of the day. With supplements and, and things of that sort, your system can react in the moment, but it doesn't rewire. It doesn't get better such that if you don't take that thing, you're just where you were before.
Now, that said, there are some supplements that have been tremendously helpful for me for sleep over the years. And I know now that there are, I, you know, uh, humility aside, just from having blabbed about these on various podcasts, including mine, I think there are probably hundreds of thousands of people taking these things. And I want to be very clear that I have no financial relationship to the whether or not people take these things or not. We, my podcast is sponsored by a, by a supplement company, but I'm not even going to mention it. I just think find the lowest cost, high-quality source you can. Um, there are many. And so the three things that really can help with the depth and, uh, transition to sleep are magnesium three and eight, T-H-R-E-O-N-A-T-E, magnesium three and eight. An alternative, which is just as good, is magnesium bisglycinate, B-I-S-G-L-Y-C-I-N-A-T-E, bisglycinate. Either one. And what you're looking for is to get somewhere between 100 and 200 milligrams of those. Sometimes you'll see on the bottle it says 2,000 milligrams, that's the elemental magnesium. It'll also see a smaller number. Go with the smaller number. What does this do? Well, it makes people feel a little drowsy and it greatly increases the depth of their deep and the amount of deep sleep. If you're a sleep tracker type with Whoops or Oura, you'll see this. About 5% of people don't like magnesium three and eight and bisglycinate because it gives them stomach upset. You'll know the first time, um, but most people do just fine.
The other thing is a really powerful supplement, which is wonderful, is apogenin. A-P-I-G-E-N-I-N, apogenin. It's a derivative of chamomile. Both of these things, and I should say that 50 milligrams is the target there, and there's only one source that I know of. I have no relationship to them, but that's Swanson. And these things are available online. These are both pretty low cost. The three and eight can get expensive. Um, I take bisglycinate and apogenin, and you take them about 30 to 60 minutes before sleep. And most people report having an incredibly improved sleep. Are they habit-forming? Not that I am aware of. Should you check with your doctor? Matt, if yes, if you have especially if you have a heart condition, taking magnesium because of the way neurons work, it's an electrolyte, and you might want to check for that purpose. But I think, um, most physicians, I think, would put these well within the margins of safety, but check with yours.
Now, there's a third supplement, which is theanine. T-H-E-A-N-I-N-E. Theanine is an interesting one. Theanine, magnesium three and eight, and apogenin all trigger the activation of a neural hormone, excuse me, a neuro-transmitter in the brain called GABA, which tends to shut off our forebrain. GABA, incidentally, is also what goes up if you have one or two alcoholic drinks. The problem is drinking alcohol before sleep really screws up your sleep, even if you're not drunk, it really screws up your sleep. A lot of people ask about cannabis and THC. Matt Walker, the great Matt Walker, or you know, from Berkeley, who's the preeminent sleep doc, scientist rather, will tell you that THC and marijuana in various forms and alcohol are really disrupting people's sleep. But listen, people are going to do what they do. But these supplements trigger a healthy release of GABA. Theanine, anywhere from 100 to 400 milligrams, is a kind of a powerful third component of this three and eight or this glycinate, apogenin stack. And theanine is interesting, though. Your dreams will get very vivid. People who have night terrors or who have, um, uh, sleepwalk should not take theanine. Theanine is actually showing up in a lot of energy drinks now. Companies are sneaking theanine into drinks during the day, and even into coffee because it eliminates anxiety a little bit and it eliminates the jitters. You can drink twice as much caffeine. You could drink four of the same energy drink that normally you could only have one of if they stop putting theanine in there. So you might also want to look. I'm not a big fan of energy drinks. I am drinking some yerba mate tea this morning, but that's all that's in it. Um, but theanine is a great addition to this evening, um, uh, supplement stack. And I do that about 30 to 60 minutes before sleep.
One last point about sleep. If you wake up in the middle of the night, turn on as many lights as you need in order to navigate around safely, but again, try and keep the lights low. And waking up once in the middle of the night to use the restroom is perfectly normal. A lot of people think, "Oh, I woke up. Now my sleep is disrupted. My sleep tracking score, my recovery isn't good." I'm a big fan of sleep trackers, but I don't use one. I go on subjective feelings of wakefulness during the day. Just remember, insomnia clinically defined is whether or not you're falling asleep during the day because you're having trouble sleeping at night. A lot of people think they have insomnia with what they actually have is anxiety about waking up. And they, they're just concerned that they've heard all the terrible things that happen if you don't get enough sleep. So, I think that hits on the major things. Obviously, you don't want to drink so many fluids before sleep that you're waking up all night to use the restroom. One of the nice things about a carbohydrate, um, rich meal in the evening is carbohydrates actually hold water. For every gram of carbohydrate, you're going to hold some water. Anyone on a low-carbohydrate diet will notice that they lose a lot of weight. They think they're leaner, they're actually excreting a lot of water. So that's key.
And then the temperature thing is really big. We haven't talked about temperature, but second to light, temperature is the most powerful, um, stimulus for wakefulness. Actually, when you wake up in the morning, it's because your body temperature is rising. And well, we could do a little experiment right now. Um, so what time do you typically wake up in the morning? Uh, I wake up around five. So, so you're, what we would call temperature minimum is 3 AM, meaning that your low point in body temperature across the 24-hour cycle is probably somewhere around three or four AM, and then as it starts to rise. So, a temperature minimum is not a specific temperature, it's a time in the 24-hour cycle. It's about two hours to 90 minutes before your natural waking. I'm not talking about the waking that happens in the middle of the night and you go back to sleep. I'm talking about the wake, the typical wake-up time where you would rise. Okay? So for you, your temperature minimum is about 3 AM, and then your body temperature is going to start increasing, increasing of that cortisol release. If you can get light exposure as that slope is, um, rising, as it's increasing, then you're going to augment a faster increase. Okay? If you were to view light or get up at 2 AM, it would actually jet lag you. It would actually shift you in the opposite direction, as if you were waking up in some other location in the world. So that temperature minimum is kind of a nice thing to keep in mind. We'll get back to it in a minute. But what happens is your body temperature is going to go up, and then somewhere around three or four in the afternoon, maybe for you, because you're a really early riser, maybe about two or three in the afternoon, it's going to hit a temperature peak. The temperature peak is interesting. The temperature peak, you would think, "Oh, that's my time of greatest wakefulness." It's actually when you're going to feel a little bit of a drop in energy in the afternoon, and then it starts dropping. You actually feel pretty good in the evening, and then temperatures should continue dropping because in order to fall asleep and stay asleep, you need your body temperature to be about one to three degrees lower than it was in that in the afternoon. So, one thing you can do is you can keep the temperature in your home a little bit lower at night and just stay under blankets. Um, I did a whole episode on this, but I, and I don't want to get too far into it, but, um, we actually dump heat mainly through the palms of our hands, the upper half of our face, and the bottoms of our feet. There's a special portal between the blood and the skin. Beautiful name. It was discovered by Colleen Craig Heller at Stanford. These are called glabrous skin. Um, there's, uh, special for the aficionados. You have arteries, capillaries, and veins, and in these particular locations, it basically only goes from arteries to veins. You skip all the little estuaries that are the capillaries between them, and you're able to basically dump heat more easily. During the middle of the night, the best thing to do is to have warm blankets on top of you and be in a cold room. And then if you get too warm, you will just naturally in your sleep, you'll just extend a foot or a hand out. You've probably heard, "Sleep with socks on." Terrible idea. I don't know why that caught on. That makes no sense whatsoever. You, you want to be able to dump heat in the middle of the night because if you get too hot, you'll wake up. Now, some people say, "Wait, I was in a classroom and when I was in college, and it was always when it was warm in the afternoon, then it would get hot that I would fall asleep." Yeah, that's true too. It has more to your digestive patterns than anything else. But, um, so it's, I think it's called the post-prandial dip, which is just nerdy speak for after lunch you get sleepy. But if you can extend a hand out, that's great. Because if the room is too hot, what are you going to do? You're not going to put your hand into a bucket of ice next to your bed. I mean, most people don't have that device. Some people use these chili pads or eight sleep or these kinds of things. I, um, actually don't have one personally. I tend to run kind of warm.
Oh, yeah, that's an interesting question. Like, I use an eight sleep and it, it can adjust the temperature throughout the night. So, how should I adjust that to optimize the quality of my sleep? Should I start from cold and like gradually go warm, or should I just do cold all night? Yeah, great question. Um, I was sent one, I still need to set it up, but I don't have any relationship to them yet. I think that perhaps they were curious about forming one, but so I need to try it. Um, so you want it to be cool. So, I would say moderate temperature at the beginning of the night for the first two or three hours of sleep, then you want to keep it cold until about that three or four AM point, and then starting right around 4:45, your body is naturally heating. But if you were to allow it to heat up, then I think you would wake up more quickly. Like, yeah, you want to start with like an average temperature and then go colder and then go warmer. That's right. You want to mimic what would happen if you were sleeping outdoors, essentially.