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Tonight's call is one of those conversations that exposes just how deep the disconnect really is between modern logic and emotional reasoning, especially when it comes to dating, marriage, and accountability. Our caller is 29 years old, a social worker, and a single mother. She comes in confident, articulate, and absolutely convinced that men choose women based on money, status, and who has the most value. According to her, men aren't settling down because they're greedy, always looking for the next best option. But as the conversation unfolds, something more unsettling appears.
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"All this stuff."
"Hello, Mr. Samuel."
"Hello."
"Can you hear me?"
"Yes, I can. How are you?"
"I'm great. How are you?"
"I'm okay. How old are you?"
"I am 29."
"All right. So, what are we talking about?"
"Okay, Mr. Samuel, I just heard you um say, you know, if we just give men what they really want, then we will be able to um be married and have a good life with the man. I disagree. Um."
"You have any children?"
"I do. I have I have a son."
"Uh, and were you married?"
"Was I married when I conceived? No."
"Okay. Go ahead."
"All right. So, I disagree. Um, because I'm a social worker, so I'm I'm in the helping field and I was just got out of a long-term relationship. Um, and before, well, when I was in a relationship, he would tell me, you know, okay, I want to go back to school. I want to pursue my degree. I want to finish, you know, well, I want to finish my degree. So, I thought like, okay, great. Let me come up with a plan on let's see how we can get your degree. Let's see what type of money we got to put in for you to do this. But when it came down to it, that's not what he really wanted to do. So, it's"
"Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. Are you judging all men based upon what you're talking about?"
"I'm not. But"
"Are you sure? Are you sure? Because you said you did. Okay. You say you disagree, but I allowed you to speak and you spent the better part of a minute describing your situation."
"And and like I was saying at first, like I'm a social worker, so I work with a lot of women. Um, and I work with a lot of And I work with a lot of single women."
"Uhhuh. But do you ever get the father's side of the story?"
"No."
"Thank you."
"I I when when I"
"No, sorry. Hold on. Hold on, ma'am. You get one side. There three sides. Hers, his, and the truth. And guess what? I can pull up video after video of women breaking a law, lying, and females believing it. 74 year old man in Idaho Springs uh was tasered, framed, and stroked down because his neighbor who was drunk high and had multiple felonies lied and said he hit them. Go look it up, guys. And that guy didn't get anything that And you know what the female cop was over there? this this old man, they tasered him in his own home, planted evidence on him, and they were more concerned with the woman who was drunk and high. So, uh, women tend to believe women stories. And you cannot be an intelligent person and tell me just because you're a social worker hearing one side of the story, knowing you're a single mother predisposed to having a heart for women, that you're getting a balanced picture. Logically. Logically, tell me that's what you're doing."
"No, what what I'm saying is I I'm not only am I a social worker, I am a female and I do work with I do work with a lot of single women that I have seen"
"A lot of single women who choose to marry before they carry do things out of order and you don't get the father's story, right? I'm speaking about dating, Mr. Sam."
"No, ma'am. I'm speaking about you're trying to set the table in a [ __ ] way. Do these women in social work come to come in here and they're married women who have children as a result of marriage and their husbands are still around?"
"Some. Yes, sir."
"Some What percentage? One in four black women were married. Careful. um married about 6%."
"So 94% of these women aren't."
"Yes, sir."
"So when you say some, I don't understand why y'all do that. Some if your kid came home and said, 'Mom, here's my grade.' And he gave you an F minus. He said, 'Boy, you didn't get nothing. What did you do? You got a F minus.' I got some of them right. You got six, right? But you got 94 wrong. You be like, 'Okay, you got all right. You're already starting off wrong.' And I'mma tell you in your relationship, you were wrong, too. Let me tell you why. Cuz you said he decided he wanted to go to school. So something like that. He wanted to go to school. And immediately you pulled out your"
"And immediately you pulled out your And you and immediately you pulled out your penis. You started figuring out what to do and how to this and how to that. D. That ain't your job. It was for him to figure it out. He just said, 'What do you want to do?' Did he ask you to go do all that? Did he say, 'I want to finish school.' Did he ask you to go do all that? I hear you. Thank you. Put up your dick. So, I mean, just saying many of our women, you're listening to 94% of women by your stats who aren't married, who are living at a level where they need social work. and you expect to hear good stories about men and you don't even pay attention and you don't listen to the father's standpoint. Well, I tell you what, Miss Social worker, why don't you go interview the fathers to understand what they're dealing with with these mothers because they can't all be angels?"
"Yes, sir."
"And another thing, are you saying that men are not consumers? Where in the world if you give a market what it wants, does it not buy it if you can afford it? Well, that's even with me with if if I go to a if I go to Dillards, if I if I go into Dillards and I'm like, 'Okay, I'mma buy this perfume.' Like, I got my mind set. I'mma buy this perfume. But if nobody's actually selling it to me or if I don't feel like I want to spend my money in this store,"
"I I'm not going to do it."
"Excuse me, ma'am. You changed it. See what you did. If I go into Dillards and I already got my mind made up and they don't have it or I don't have the money"
"they don't to me."
"Ma'am, I want you guys to understand this is what they do. This is how their logic work. I said where do you go if you give a market what it wants and it has the money to purchase and it doesn't buy. You just made up a story. Well, I'll go to Dillard and I got my mind made up. And that's the problem. Most women don't buy what they should buy. They they buy they they buy the [ __ ] they make babies with and come into your office needing help with. That's what they do instead of shopping at dealers they should have been they should have been somewhere else. Man, you're putting the problem on men. They're not enough men. You're saying that men would not make a lot. Why? Okay. Then why let's play it the other way. Then why would men, if women were offering men, men in mass in general, what they wanted, why would these men choose to remain single?"
"I think greed. I I I I really do. I think greed I think, you know, uh it I I can get something from her, but let me see can what she has to offer. Let me see if it's just a little bit better. See guys, what we see what they're doing is see women think because everybody will [ __ ] them, they think men have as free sexual options. How does the average man have greed in the sexual marketplace? You know how hard it is for most guys to get laid? 30%"
"Excuse me. Excuse me. Excuse me. Excuse me."
"30% of men 30 or under report not having sex. 30% of men under 30 are virgins. But you can have somebody like Gabrielle Cbec and what what do women say? Somebody will [ __ ] up her because somebody will. Women think there's something called attraction symmetry. They think just because they can go out and offer their vagina to the market, they know somebody will take it. If I walk out and offer my penis to the market, somebody will. But will as many people If I How about this? You go in a room of a hundred men and say, 'I'm clean. I got no diseases. I just want to hook up one night stand.' No, no strings, no detachments. Out of a 100 men, how many think you're going to smash?"
"If we got 30% of virgins, then"
"No, no, no, no. You mixing things. I don't play games with me. Put your 100 men in the room. 100 men, not not 30% virgin. Just 100 men. How many going to smash?"
"I don't know, Mr. Sam."
"Really? Just give me a number. Heterosexual men. Nope. Nope. You want to have sex? You clean. How many men you think will smash?"
"Maybe 80."
"All right. And if I And if I put a hundred women in a room with the same kind of man, average man, how many women you think gonna [ __ ] Maybe 60."
"Guys, that's the problem. They think, excuse me, look in the comment section. This is I understand when it's over. Women think it is easy for men to get sex as they think it's just as easy for men to get sex as it is for them because women only think about when they talk about the sexual marketplace, you talk about the men you're interested in, not 100% of men. If 60% of men were out here anyway. So, no, that number is high. I would say closer to the best pickup artists. The best pickup artists, the guys who have all the gain, who study this stuff, report a 10% close rate, 10. And these are the guys who are the game masters."
"Okay. So you're saying that if you offered men an opportunity to get women were offering me what they wanted and they didn't have to be in the game anymore. You're saying they would stay in the game because of greed implying they could get more."
"Yes, sir."
"They don't get it, guys. They don't get it. They don't get it. They No, ma'am. Ma'am Ma'am, I just told you that makes no sense. It doesn't make any sense. How How is How can How can guys if if 30% of men aren't having sex? Why would they stay in the market if they were getting what they want from a woman?"
"To gain to gain more."
"More of what? What are they already getting? If they're virgins,"
"we're not talking. We're not talk about the 30."
"No, no, no, no. We're going to talk. No, we're Yes, we are. Because they are part of the 100. And see, that's the point. This is so foreign a concept. No offense, man. I really mean no offense, but your mind can't even wrap your head around the concept. It doesn't even compute with you. It's like, well, I don't want to talk about that because that's so far outside of my And all the men are like, what are you talking about? That's the real world. You can't get rid of the 30 that's there. So if a 100% of men are out there and 30% under the age of 30 aren't having sex, if you gave men what they wanted, which is just a fit, feminine, friendly, cooperative, submissive, childless companion, women were saying, 'Okay, the majority of the majority of us are that you say men would say, uh, instead of taking you and going off and having consistent sex in a relationship, I would rather stay out here dating, spending my money time an opportunity for the possibility of sex. The possibility"
"we know all men are not spending their money on women to have sex."
"Ma'am, I don't I don't I don't really give a [ __ ] about the money aspect. See, you you've lost. No, no, no. But, but, but the thing is, I'm not trying to be funny. That's not the point. The point is a bigger point. The point is you have just demonstrated why there's such a disconnect. You ladies have no idea what it's like to be a man. You have no You are so disconnected from us cuz all your life is spent around talking to women and listen to their stories and everything else. And when I tell you about what's going on with men, she still think you still think that Well, that's like this. That's like this. Okay, change it from men to women. You're hungry, right? You ever been to a restaurant and uh there was a wait and you're hungry, right?"
"Yes."
"All right. And there was there's two-hour wait and the next closest restaurant 40 miles away."
"Okay."
"There's going to be a wait there, too."
"Sure."
"You sitting there waiting and then they come along and say, 'Well, we we can sit you and your we can sit you and your guest not at your favorite table. We can sit you at this booth or we can sit you at the bar in the ne right now or you can wait two hours.' What do you do?"
"I'm going to go sit at the bar because I want my"
"Thank you. Because human beings are Thank you. And that's exactly what men are doing. If you give men what they want, how they want it, they'll sit at the bar. They won't wait to go have a chance to sit in it out there or go to another restaurant. Thank you for making the point that you understand human beings operate on incentives."
"That's how men operate, too. Men will say, 'If you give me what I want right now, oh, I don't need the I'll take I'll take the bar. The bar is a woman giving men what they want. They won't go out here and say, 'Well, I I'll try for a better seat.' Does that make sense?"
"That's That's That's a restaurant. Of course, we going to move faster with a restaurant."
"Holy [ __ ]"
"But if a man wants to go see their face,"
"Ma'am. No, ma'am. No. No. I You going to let me talk? That's my show. But no, you're saying you're acting like Do you understand why people use sports analogies to explain the complex concepts?"
"That's I do. Yeah."
"Because people can relate. I use the restaurant analogy because the sexual marketplace seems to be outside of your ability to relate. But you can relate to a restaurant. And now you're going to tell me those things are different."
"Mrs. understand when you use when you use girl analogy when you use your point when you said if you walk in the room and 100 men in there how many do you want to have sex you took the 30 out of that so when it comes to my"
"No no no no I said if you walked into a room with a hundred men and you weren't and you said I'm down to [ __ ] 100 of you how many would smash"
"and you but you took the 30% of virgins out of that 100"
"no ma'am that's the se you okay that's the sexual marketplace there's a millions and even okay let's take it that way even if it was 30% virgin those virgins would [ __ ] you if you were offering free [ __ ] to a virgin no cost no z are you crazy"
"so it's not it's it's and then that there goes to show you again your other point is invalid when it comes when it comes I want you guys to understand. I really I'm going to upload this. This is really female logic. This is really what it is."
"This is really what it is. She thinks she's she thinks she's really making points. I am I am Mr. Samuels. I I I wholeheartedly I really feel like men are greedy. Men are really out to get it's it's it's to the highest bidder. Whoever has the most value, whoever parents, whoever family comes from the most fortune, that's the woman that wins. I have worked so many places before I became a social."
"This is why women shouldn't be in charge of nothing."
"Can Can I finish?"
"Oh, don't don't do that."
"This is why women shouldn't be in charge of nothing. I'm serious, ma'am. You're You're talking about a a out of out of out of men, 100% of men, what percentage of men are you talking about? I'm talking about 75% of men."
"So se ma'am, the 75% don't even line up with the 30% of the virgin. You can't be greedy in a virgin."
"But you just said that if I was to walk in a room and the 30% of virgins was there, the virgins would have"
"ma'am. Do you understand? Do you understand an example and a closed ex? Okay. See, there's something called like an example where you're putting like a little test case over here and then there's the real world. You're you're you're an educated woman. You should be able to bounce between these concepts. You're trying to make it all the same thing. And this is what I told you guys. Men's minds are like waffles. We can compartmentalize and logically move through things. One, zero, one, zero, open, close, on, off. We can do that much easier. Women's minds are like spaghetti. Everything touches. The logic runs through their feelings. That's why she keeps saying, 'I feel, I feel, I feel. I feel because to them it's all one stream of consciousness. So to her she really believes she is just on this logical path and she doesn't realize that all the men are sitting back saying you're talking about a small set of men extrapolating it out to all men are greedy. How can men the average black man in this country earns $42,000? Okay, that's $21 an hour. How can a man who's average earner be greedy in the sexual marketplace? Because they date women that have money. So when they date women that have money and they date women that comes from a family with money, that"
"the average black woman in this country earns $37,000."
"Okay. So fully 50% of black men, 50% earn 42. 50% of black women earn 37. 74% of black women earn less than $50,000. And you're talking about these people who come from families and money. 80% of our children are from single parent households. You are talking about the top 10%. And you're talking about it like it's 100%. The numbers are against you. the numbers."
"Oh man, please don't please don't please don't just just understand what I said."
"Okay,"
"you are talking about women with money."
"I understand."
"74% of black women earn less than 25 $25,000 hours or less."
"Would you consider $50,000 to be money?"
"No. Absolutely not. So by by nine% of black women earn $75,000 or more. Nine."
"Okay."
"What do you consider to be money for a woman?"
"That range. That range. You just said 75,000 or more."
"So you're talking about 9% and I said 10."
"The p it doesn't matter. I just said you're talking about the top 10% of they she don't get it. I said you're talking about the top 10% of women as far as earnings"
"like like like all the like the average guy is going after 9% of women. Do men choose women based on money first?"
"Yes, ABSOLUTELY. OH MY GOD. I WOULD THAT'S THE perfect question. You the perfect Yes. Absolutely. Yes. Yes. Absolutely. Yes."
"Where you from? Where you from?"
"I'm from Mississippi."
"Mississippi. Goddamn varants. I swear to God."
"I'm from Mississippi."
"When you poor, you when people are poor, they honestly believe. Especially when you poor minded. So men pick women based on money?"
"Yes. Absolutely."
"Status. Yes."
"No, man. Oh, Jesus Christ. It's not It's not I don't even want to do this, but I'mma do you."
"I'll make you famous."
"You're going to become famous, man. Because men pick women based upon looks first in the comment section. Gentlemen, ma'am, were you raised with your father?"
"I was."
"Do you have any brothers?"
"I don't."
"Okay. And you are old again?"
"29."
"You've been wrong on fully about 80% of the things that come out of your mouth. And you haven't. And it doesn't matter if I use facts, data. You And you're a social worker. Go pull it all this for yourself. You're saying that men pick women based upon the money. Okay. The next question, why do you have women like Jill Scott? Uh, what was that woman's name down here in Georgia? Um, oh, ran for governor. Stacy, whatever her name is."
"Oh, yeah. The language. Yeah."
"Wh Why Why do you have these women who are chronically single if men pick women based upon money first? Why do why do black women report the more education they have and the more money they make being less married?"
"I don't know."
"Well, according to what you say, men pick women based upon money first. But according to the numbers, they don't. Stacy Abrams, successful woman, she has money. Where's her husband? Gabrielle what? Gabrielle said a bay. She had to go get an average looking white dude. Do you do you want to retract that statement?"
"I don't I I I stand on that and I believe that um I mean that's just some I mean some women that you're Oprah Oprah has a man"
"Oprah's unfucking married."
"She's not married but she has money."
"Thank you. But she could be married if she wanted."
"No, she couldn't. No, she couldn't."
"Oprah could not be married to Steman if she wanted to."
"First of all, I move Oprah to the side because Oprah there's a there's a question about something. Man, why? So, what do men choose women based upon? If women choose men based upon money, what do men choose based women based upon?"
"Men choose women based upon money. Women shoot women pick men off solely off love. And this is a social worker, y'all. I I I mean, I'm to the point to where I don't even want to make any jokes because this is so sad."
"It's the truth."
"You're No, ma'am. You are danger. Can you advise other women?"
"I do. Absolutely yes. I do. Absolutely yes."
"Ma'am, you really shouldn't have said that."
"Why? It's the truth. I WOULDN'T LIE to you. It's the truth."
"Because you shouldn't be advising anybody. This woman actually says men pick women based upon money. Then if that's the case, why do women who have PhDs and NBAs and everything else, why aren't they married? Especially in our community because we have the most we got the most we got the most educated women, right?"
"Yeah."
"Okay. Why then why are one then why do we have the lowest marital rate?"
"One in four one in four black women will marry anybody. Not just black men. Not just black men. One in four black women will marry in their lifetime. So you can't make it a black men issue. If men"
"excuse me, you're not going to [ __ ] put this on black men. I will destroy you if you try that [ __ ] I said one, okay, long as you don't try that, we can have the conversation. One in four black women will marry in their lifetime. If we have the most educated, meaning making more making money and education, then why are they the least married? If men choose women based upon status,"
"some women are very busy. They have busy schedules. Some educated women have very busy schedules. So, they really don't have time to date. Some talk to me about excuse me ma'am excuse me ma'am"
"I don't want to talk about see what you do is when you start losing the argument you start to deflect to the minority talk to me about the majority 50% of the women in question who are educated but yet tw one in four were married. Don't talk to me about some talk to me about the majority. Why are one in four marrying? And actually, the marital rate drops as black women go up in education and up in income, which is an up in status. Why does marriage drop? Don't tell me about the ones that are some that are too busy."
"If men pick women based on If women If men pick women based on status, why are these higher status women more unmarried?"
"I believe that they get to the point where it's like, I've been single. I've been alone by myself. Or while they're getting their education, they're they're they're dating, but it's not it's it's just not a connection."
"Shame, insults, guilt, and the need to be right. Ma'am, you just contradicted your own point, and you won't stop. You said men pick women on status and I'm saying why are the women that have more status less married. You said men pick women based on status. You and you have to explain why the women who have higher status are less married."
"They choose not to be."
"They choose not to be after."
"This is your enemy gentlemen. execute order 66."
"I'm going to be honest, man. I'm'll be honest. This conversation ranks right up there with that smile conversation that I had. Black women not want to smile at black men."
"This is this is this is one of the saddest conversations I've had with a with a black woman in my life. And the fact that nothing I'm saying, no, none of the data, none of it is moving you off of your erroneous, false, demonstraably erroneous percent. You're just doubling and tripling down. You haven't opened your mind and say, 'Well, maybe, but well, that doesn't really make sense, or maybe that's what I thought or felt, but you know, let me go back and you you doubled and triple down. Do you have a son or a daughter?"
"I have a son."
"Holy [ __ ] Let me ask you something, okay? And I And I mean no disrespect. I really don't. I really don't. But are you trolling me? Are you trolling me?"
"I'm not."
"Okay."
"Well, even if we were talking, it's just two educated people. Ma'am, do your feelings trump facts?"
"No. So if you feel something is one way or another and facts are presented to show you the opposite, do you change your mind?"
"Sometimes I have to. Yeah,"
"sometimes."
"Okay. Why would you not change your mind?"
"If I have this just gut feeling, if I just had this strong feeling, I won't I won't waver off of it. I don't I"
"so if facts impartial you will and you can be proven factually that something is correct, true, right? You're saying that as an educated woman that there are times where you'll sit back and just ignore the facts based upon a strong gut feeling."
"Yes."
"Is that how you're going to raise your son?"
"Off my morals. Yes."
"That's not morals. Are you going to raise your son to look at facts that he can verify and prove scientific scientific method or whatever and then say I'm going to go off my strong gut feeling? Is that how you're going to raise your son?"
"Yes."
"We have another young black statistic, y'all. And I'm serious. People think I hate black women. And I do this to show you the sickness in our community. You really believe this is right? This is I'm going just I don't need to say anything else. The world is different for men than for women. Women can women can get away more with doing things that way. You do realize this is why so many young black men are in jail because they go off on their feelings based upon their facts."
"And then you sit around and turn around the same group of women talking about black men can't produce. They don't make enough money to provide. But you ma'am are the kind of woman that raises a boy to go off of his feelings. a strong gut. How do how do you think that's going to set your son up to compete with men of other races?"
"I don't know. I haven't thought about that. How old is your son?"
"12."
"When the [ __ ] do you think you should start thinking about it? I'm not being funny, man. I'm not trying to talk to you seriously. You're raising a 12-year-old black boy and you're telling everybody in here that I'll raise him to believe in his gut over things that he can see is true. And you want him to go out into that dangerous world. What's going to protect him if his senses and his logic does it? What's supposed to protect him?"
"Morals, values, feelings are not morals. You keep calling things morals. These are feelings. You're not You're supposed to You're not supposed to emotionally respond. You're supposed to intellectually react. And you guys wonder why we have so many emotional young black men because this is their mother. And they make it sound like a virtue. Morals. This isn't morals. It's illogical feelingsbased thinking."
"What's What's wrong with what's wrong with having emotions? What's What's wrong with acting? And it is opposite to observable, verifiable, truth facts. When 2 + 2 is four and you still say, 'I believe it's three because that's my morals.'"
"I'm serious. What? Do you not understand that?"
"I get that. So, what's the question?"
"It's no question, Mr. Sams. I was just listening."
"No, I'm asking what's the question? Cuz you're Cuz you're saying what's wrong with having morals, man. Morals is right or wrong. Facts are prove or disprove. 2 plus two is four. What is the right or wrong in that equation?"
"It's not three. You said you said three. No, it's four. That's the right. It's four."
"Yeah, but if you if your gut told you this there that's that's not all the picture, man. You've said it several times that you can look at something and think or believe something and then you can be given facts, data, statistics, things that you can verify and prove yourself by whatever method, scientific method, an abacus, whatever, and you can come up with the same conclusion that this is right, this is accurate. And you said there are times where I'll I'll dismiss it and I say what if I feel strongly"
"through life experiences."
"I'm going be honest ma'am. I'm gonna say something that's going to sound rude. I'm not trying to be rude but this is that down south old slave negro just man. This isn't about life experiences. This is about facts. If you can, you can. And here's the thing. You're looking like you're just like, you just can't understand that. You're raising a boy to think like you. Men don't get the same benefits and the same uh benefit of the doubt. Is his dad in his life?"
"Peace. But you take the leadership role in what he does."
"Not all the time."
"Okay. Well, um, how we got here is this woman actually said that she thinks that men choose women based upon looks and status and then men choose women based upon love. Then we broke down the numbers. if uh 74% of black women earn less than $50,000 and 9% of black women earn over nine% over $74,000. So I said the women she was talking about within the top 10%. She disagreed and it turned out they're in the top 9%. And then even given facts that you can go look up on black demographics.com that's been collated and sorted by everything else. She still said men choose women of a higher status. And I said, 'Well, then why do black women who report to be the most educated and da da da report as they go up in education and income, the marital percentages go down?' That flies in face of your theory. And she still said, 'I'm right. You realize at no point you have you changed anything you said in the face of better data.' How do we get anywhere with women like you if you're not willing to change your mind in the evidence of in in in when you sit down and have a conversation and the man presents better data and women like yourself refuse to change your mind? How do we get anywhere?"
"I don't know. I I'm I'm I'm going to stand on that. That's what I believe. Okay. Are you okay? Did Okay. So, if your son was dealing with a woman"
"and he was right based upon everything, observable, verifiable, facts, figures, data, statistics, and she believed like you, she's just going to stand on what she believes. What would you tell him to do with her? Would you tell him to stay with her, continue to work with her? What would you tell him to do?"
"I would tell him to, you know, if he feels like he want to stay, then continue to work with her. But if he can't, he feel like he couldn't get through to her and she wasn't"
"No, no, no, ma'am. There's no there's no getting through. You've already tried and she says, 'I'm going to stand her like you're doing.' If she was taking your stance, what would you tell your son to do with her?"
"If he didn't want to be with her anymore, I would tell you."
"No. No. It has nothing to do with want to be with her. This is a This is a matter of somebody has to lead, somebody has to follow. Choices have to be made. See, she's trying to deflect because she doesn't want to say the truth. If she's going to stand, you're at an impass. He's over here. She's over there. A decision has to be made. She's not going to be budged. She's not going to budge. She's not cooperating. She's not agreeing"
"because she doesn't agree."
"She doesn't agree. And she and she doesn't agree based upon her feelings. Doesn't she doesn't agree. It's not that she doesn't agree based upon any of the facts or data. It's solely based upon her strung belief. What are you going to tell your son to do with a woman like that? Because if he's supposed his wife, his his the woman he's with, what are you going to tell her to do with her?"
"This his wife. What? What"
"are you going his girlfriend before he becomes his wife? See what what do you tell your son to do with a woman that will not follow his lead, will not change her mind based upon anything that's verifiable and provable. If it's only she makes decisions based primarily on her feelings, what do you tell your son to do? Do you tell him to stay or do you tell him to leave her?"
"Stay. Why? just because of"
"this is where this is where that Mory Povit [ __ ] where boys are going and Mory recognizes that you're not the father and these mothers tell these boys that you going to stay in these that child's life. You've been there for the first two years and we gonna raise it. This is the pathology. Thank you, man. Have a good evening. Goodbye."
"Goodbye."
"Jesus H. [ __ ] Christ. This has been one of the most watershed moments in anything I've ever done. That is it, people. That mother said she would tell her son to stay in that [ __ ] And you guys think we make this up. Before we close this out, I want everyone watching to really understand what this conversation actually revealed. Because if you're only reacting emotionally to the surface level, then you completely miss the lesson underneath it. What we just witnessed was not a debate about men versus women or feelings versus facts or even relationships on the surface. What we witnessed was a fundamental disconnect between accountability and identity where someone openly admitted that no amount of evidence, logic, or verifiable reality could override a deeply held personal belief. even when that belief directly contradicted observable outcomes. And that right there is the core issue destroying modern relationships. You cannot build a marriage, raise children, or lead a family when decisions are made based on emotional certainty instead of objective truth. Life does not negotiate with feelings. The world does not pause to accommodate personal belief systems. Reality enforces consequences whether you agree with it or not. The most alarming part of this conversation wasn't the disagreement. It was the refusal to adapt because disagreement can be worked through. Refusal cannot. When someone tells you that facts will not change their mind, what they are really telling you is that cooperation has limits. Compromise has conditions and leadership will always be challenged. That is not how partnerships survive. That is not how families function and that is absolutely not how men and women move forward together. This is why so many relationships today stay stuck in cycles of talking, arguing, restarting, and ultimately failing. It's not because people don't want love. It's because they want love without accountability, partnership without alignment, and commitment without submission to reality. And no, submission does not mean silence. It means understanding that truth exists outside of personal feelings. This is why so many relationships today stay stuck in cycles of talking, arguing, restarting, and ultimately failing. It's not because people don't want love. It's because they want love without accountability, partnership without alignment, and commitment without submission to reality. And no, submission does not mean silence. It means understanding that truth exists outside of personal feelings. Men operate in a world where mistakes cost them status, freedom, income, and sometimes their lives. That world does not reward emotional reasoning. It rewards discipline, logic, and restraint. When women dismiss those realities, they're not challenging men. They're disqualifying themselves from being trusted partners in that world. And this is why men disengage quietly. Not because they hate women, not because they fear strong opinions, but because they recognize when cooperation is impossible. A man cannot lead where logic is optional. To the women watching this, understand this clearly. Rejecting facts in favor of feelings does not make you empowered. It makes you unpredictable. And unpredictability is the fastest way to lose trust in any serious relationship. To the men watching, pay close attention to what people tell you without realizing it. If someone shows you that they value being right more than being aligned, believe them. If someone tells you that evidence will never outweigh emotion, listen carefully. This channel exists to show what most people are afraid to say out loud, that truth is not cruel. Accountability is not misogyny and reality does not owe anyone comfort. Growth requires humility. Relationships require cooperation and leadership requires logic. If those elements are missing, no amount of chemistry, attraction or conversation will save the situation because the truth doesn't need your approval. But your future absolutely depends on whether you accept it. We'll see you in the next"