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Okay, today I'm going to explain the main reason why women specifically lie about what they're attracted to. So, this is one thing that's really important because this right here frustrates a lot of guys is that women will constantly lie about what they want and what they're attracted to, especially in the comment section. So, in the comment section of a lot of posts, whether it be on, you know, social media or wherever, you're going to hear women say things like, "Oh, if he's not obsessed with me, I don't want him." "Oh, this is such bad advice. If a man doesn't show his commitment and his interest level right away, I don't want anything to do with him. I won't even text him back." You're going to hear all this stuff.
And the funniest thing about this is a lot of men are going to actually agree with those comments and then take that advice and then just have months and years of their life go by still with no dating results. So that means today what I'm going to do is I'm going to tell you why these lies actually happen and why a lot of times women don't just tell the truth of what they're attracted to. So that way men just do these things and there's more happy, healthy relationships. Okay?
To make all of these points come together, this is the one thing you got to understand. Women are trying to figure out which guys are pre-selected and have more alpha tendencies and women are trying to figure out which guys don't have a lot of options and have essentially more beta tendencies. She's trying to filter for who has different genetic qualities. Okay. On a core level, what is this man's personality and thought process and how does he carry himself? That's an internal thing. She doesn't want those lessons to have to be taught. So, when it comes to who she wants to actually be with and who she wants to actually sleep with, she's trying to get a really good idea of where you sit on this line. Okay? More of the assertive alpha or the opposite. Okay?
So, there's three main specific reasons that I came up with that women really, really, really, what you're going to find is they will just try to deceive you a lot of times and keep you completely distracted. Number one, okay, the first thing that you really got to understand is that women don't want men who need to be taught. Because this is what you got to realize, right? What a woman is looking for and filtering for is competency level. Okay? What a woman is looking for and filtering for is competency level. Okay? If you have to be taught these things, it essentially tells her that you're not that type of guy. Okay? You don't have the core level instincts needed in order to have the attractive qualities women respond to. Okay? You have to remember this. A lot of times men fall in love with what they see. Women fall in love with what they hear. And what they hear comes down to how you act. How you act. Women fall in love with how you act. So women don't want the men who have to be taught these things. If you have to be taught these things, it essentially tells her or it shows her, okay, that you don't know these things instinctually. And instinctually is the genetic component to this. This is why like when you hear like women want competent men, competency doesn't just mean your bank balance and how high of status you have in the corporate field. Competency is even all the little uh small micro nuances of social calibration of understanding status and how that pertains to attraction and the lens of attraction in her eyes. So women first and foremost don't want the men that need to be taught these things. That's number one.
So if you can understand that, that brings me to point number two. If women don't want men to know these things, well, that means women want to essentially keep the masses of men deceived because she doesn't want them anyways. So, this is why like even any any uh anybody who makes like a solid post that helps dudes on social media, let's say, where it's just like really good advice, you know, and it would help a lot of guys dating advice. It would help a lot of guys dating lives. Excuse me. You're going to see a bunch of women comment that would never work on me and don't take advice. This is super bad and oh this is the worst advice I've ever heard. Meanwhile, if you look at the last three to five guys they've banged, there's a very high probability that nine times out of 10, let's say, um the man that she's actually sleeping with has either all of those traits or a majority of those traits. So, the reason why women want to keep the masses of men deceived is because she doesn't want those guys anyways. She only wants the selected, let's say 5, 10, 15%, right? I'm just throwing out rough numbers. She only wants the top men to have access to being in a relationship with her, even dating her in the first place. So, most women, you got to understand this, don't want most men. What you're trying to signal the whole time is that you're not average. Okay? Women don't want average men. So, what do you have to do? You have to find ways to demonstrate that you are not average. Okay, this is very important to understand.
And then last but not least, women are filtering for who's actually pre-selected or what other guys would call alpha. So pre-selected or alpha does not mean your bank balance. It does not mean your corporate status. It comes down to how you act and how you carry yourself. Let me give you an example. There's probably a lot of women claiming that their favorite love language is gift giving. you know, meanwhile they're they're banging a dude who is unemployed and doesn't even have money to even go buy a gift in the first place. That's what I mean. It comes down to how you act. So, women are filtering for who is actually pre-selected. Who is the men, okay, that attracts the women? And the men that attract women, okay, this is what you got to understand. Women a lot of times don't even want attention from a bunch of men that she finds unattractive. Women would rather spend their time competing for the attention of the one man that they genuinely want. And once you start to actually see these things, you're going to spend majority of your time, okay? Once you actually see these things and you notice how this plays out, you stop uh trying to uh talk to her the right way. You stop trying to get women and you start trying to figure out how to not be average. And if you can make that mindset shift, your entire dating life is going to get a lot better.
What I advise you to do is take this even a step further. Um, join us in the community that I built so I can help you learn, understand, and master the language of women. Like, if you think these videos are good, I want you to see how far I take this in my actual private community. I want you to see how far I actually go with the teachings um, in my paid community. Like I break everything down at like a really granular level because when I make my my process, I wanted to make it where a guy could start to attract the type of women that he wants to attract and then maintain interest levels in that relationship so that way she doesn't desire to pull away or to leave you. That's why I made this. So go and check that out. I really do believe you'll love it. Um, it's taken me a lot of years to accumulate that type of information. So we'll see you in the next one.