Transcription
Hi everyone, welcome back. Let's just have one card. Let's see what's going on. Okay. Right. Somebody is a little bit obsessed with you. Okay. They're fantasizing about you. So, they still are, just feel they want to make some form of contact. You know what I'm hearing? This second card: that they're scared you're going to reject them. Okay. I feel very, very strongly today that this person is very nervous about contacting you. They don't think you want to know anymore. But more than that, I feel they're going to involve somebody else in making contact with you. Okay. I'm hearing that they're asking somebody else's opinion on what they should do. All right. So, let me just have one more, and then we'll go a bit deeper. Yes. Yeah. They sabotaged the connection. Okay. I feel they want to come in and take responsibility for this separation. All right. But there was a lot of, there were, this was because there was sabotage. I just feel that they really, really did mess up. Okay. That's why they're so scared that you're going to reject them. So before they make any contact, I feel that they're going to ask the advice of somebody that knows you and knows them. Okay. So, this is very specific. It's a person that you both know, that I would say really that you, you got on with; you know, if you didn't get on with them at the end, you know, it's breakups unfortunately, but at some point you did get on with this person. So, let's see what else is going on in this connection. Um, I'll just give these a shuffle, but like I say, welcome back. I hope you're all okay, wherever you are, whatever you're doing. Thanks so much for watching, all your support. It means the world to me. If you're new here, just click on the subscribe button if you want to see more content. That would be wonderful. And if you'd like a reading, if you just click on the um title of this video, and the links will be in the description box to the website where all the readings are. Okie dokie. Someone is a scaredy pants. Okay. Very, very obsessed though. I fantasize about you. So they're daydreaming about you. Um, probably going through old memories, old pictures, that kind of thing. But you are definitely rent-free in their head right now. Okay. So let's see what else wants to come out. Let's have a look. I'm just going to use this deck just to have a look at the past. Right. Okay. They started a lot of drama. Okay. Um, I feel they started this drama, so they didn't have to take any accountability. All right. I think this is a classic energy. They sabotaged this connection by creating problems, creating issues that you eventually reacted to in some shape or form, and then they blamed you for it. You know, I feel the energy is pretty straightforward today. It's a clear energy for me. Yeah. They ignored you. They ignored you. Okay. They created the problems. They sabotaged the connection. You had cross words. You could have, quite rightly so, you know, got very angry with this person, um, because you were getting silent treatment. All right? Which is horrible. Silent treatment, you know, just my personal opinion is, you know, if you've got something to say, just say it. But when you know, I'm, I'm hearing silent treatment maybe on holidays or social functions, and they'd be nice to everybody else and they talk to everybody else and involve everybody else, but as soon as those people weren't around it was like they were a different person with you. It was soul-destroying for you. It was soul-destroying. I think they've got every right to be scared that you're going to reject them, 'cause silent treatment, you know, I just find it really, really cruel. Um, you know, arguing and shouting isn't particularly good, but the silent treatment is, I just think it's highly, highly manipulative. And you know, everything is energy. Everything is energy. And you know, the, the energy when somebody's giving you the silent treatment is so dense and so low, and it causes massive anxiety. You know, someone watching this today, you will have been had massive anxiety. One more for the past. Yeah. Hooked. Gosh, this image. They, they silent treat you, so I can't speak 'cause they weren't speaking, and then they talk you back in. Okay, they dangle. They dangle. It's that image. They, they dangle and say, you know, okay, well, I'll, I'll give you a little bit, or I'll, you know, maybe they'll be nice one day and not nice the next day. And it is horrible. Don't underestimate, if you, if this is your reading and you've been through that, don't underestimate why you feel the way you do or how you felt when this ended, because it's cruel. You know, it, it is, it is really, really cruel, and it is, it is a typical manipulation tactic. Okay, typical manipulation tactic. So, bottom of the deck, fake. Yeah, when they were around other people. Just a bit more detail for you. I feel that they acted like they were rich or they were fancy, or they show off. They were very fake. I'm hearing that song. I'm, I'm, I'm hearing a song. Oh gosh, it's, it's quite an old song now. Years have gone really quickly. Um, Avril, Avril, Avril Lavigne. Uh, "Why do you have to be so complicated?" Why do you have to be so complicated? That was this person. They have a very, very strong energy of, of being so nice to other people. Just an example here. You're having people around your house, okay? And before they arrive or a few days before, they're not, they're not speaking to you, and they're just, you know, really dragging your energy down. And then people arrive, and it's as if they're a different person. Okay? It's as if they're a different person. I think you had a group of friends who couldn't understand your side of the story. Okay. And you know, if you don't want this person back and you really don't, you know, there's, there's just a good, a good, a good thing really. Uh, I, I heard the other day as an author, I can't, a lady I can't think of what her name is now, and I think she's got a book and it's called, let them just, let them, you know, anybody who didn't, anybody who wasn't willing to understand your side of the story. Okay, with a group of friends, your person's being fake, etc., etc., you know, splashing the cash around or whatever they were doing. And this group of people haven't got the, the wherefore, as we say in the UK, to at least listen to your side of the story, and they just take their side automatically. Well, you're better than that. This is the message I'm hearing in my head. You're better than that. Okay, absolutely better than that. So, let us see what your person would say. Um, okay. They'd like to meet up with you for a drink. That's their aim. You know, a social gathering, whether it's, you know, a restaurant or just a coffee, you know, whatever, whatever you used to do, but they'd like to meet up with you. Okay. Um, but what they're doing is they are definitely, definitely getting in touch with a shared social connection, or it could, it could be a family member. Um, yeah, they're looking for an opportunity. The doorway cards out. They're looking for an opportunity, a doorway, a foot through the, they want to get their foot back in through the door, but they're just too scared that you're going to reject them. All right. Because I think this person did this to you over a period of time. There's a possible separation in the past, but you forgave them. Because we do, you know, somebody says there's change. You can't, we, it's difficult, isn't it, to go through life not trusting people. You know, if you're in a relationship, you're in it because you want to feel love and you want to give love. So, it's totally understandable. But they want an opportunity, okay? They want an opportunity to be able to get in touch with you, right? What they would tell you if they could speak to you now is that you are their true love. Okay? But I am hearing that you've had time to think about this. Okay? You've had time to think about it. And I just feel very strongly that you, you wouldn't be interested. I feel it might make you feel a bit, because you know we're human. All right? We all have an ego. Okay. Um, although this person's got a bigger one than most. I have to say, it might make you feel validated, and you know, you might think, well, yeah, I knew you'd be back. Okay. I knew you'd be back because I am irreplaceable, because you are irreplaceable. You're unforgettable, and you're unique. Okay? And there will never, ever be anybody like you for this person because you were very forgiving. You were very kind. You were very understanding. Okay? But in the end, you'd had enough. You, you'd had enough. So yeah, they're looking to this friend, whoever this is, or family member, to see if they can get their foot back in the door. Let's just see what's going on in their environment. Nine of cups in reverse. Well, there we go. Okay, shattered dreams. They're unhappy. They're looking at how the relationship ended. They thought that this relationship would end after they'd belittled you and that they could just get on with their life and that everything was going to be fine, and possibly for a while it was for them. But, you know, the nine of cups is a, is a beautiful card, but in love relationships it can mean that somebody is very self-absorbed. As long as their wishes, their needs, and they've got all their cups lined up, as long as it's keeping them happy, then they're happy. Okay? As long as you're doing for them, they're happy. But the cards in the reverse today, so wherever they're sat now, they're not happy. Okay? They are looking back at the past. Um, they feel that you've moved on, and I think with you it was a heavy heart. I think you really had to muster up the last bit of strength and energy you had left to get, get away from this because the silent treatment over a period of time, silent treatment will drive anybody, it just make anybody ill. Okay. So they're not happy. They're not happy. They've got a lack of fulfillment. Things aren't working out. Their self-esteem's low. They're bored. They're not getting what they want. Okay. What else in their environment, please? Justice in the reverse. Karma. Karma. You know, justice in the reverse means that, you know, they're getting what? Accountability. Their dishonesty, their lies. I think for you, I think you, whilst you were in this relationship, you couldn't believe that somebody could say the things they did and then deny it. Okay. And then deny it. But your person is in the justice reversed and the nine of cups reversed energy at the moment in their environment. So they, they're just not happy. They've got their karma. Okay? You know, the karma's hitting them. Um, I feel this person does play the victim. They always think it's somebody else's fault. All right? They always think they're the one that's hard done to. Um, they don't really take a lot of accountability, and they can be a bit shallow, and that's because of that other card, you know, the fake. They, they, they project an image. They wear a mask with other people. Okay? And this was a problem. This was a problem. But as I said earlier, and if you take nothing else from this and you, you know, this, this reading resonates with you in some way, always remember that people who are not willing to listen or, or take a side when it is blatantly obvious that you have suffered are not even worth one minuscule of your time and energy. Okay. Sometimes these things happen, and you realize who your friends actually were. Okay? And you know from life experience, looking back over life, you know, you, you usually find that these fake people, these fake friends are just as bad as, as the person who was causing you all the pain in the first place. All right? Because you know, justice in reverse can talk about dishonesty. Somebody not taking accountability. They're not interested in, you know, what they did. They're just interested in what they can get. And that is me going back to that nine of cups. It is a manifestation card, and it is a beautiful card in some energies. You know, you've got all your wishes and everything's come true. But if you ever look at the card, the person's sort of sat, you know, like this, and they've got all their cups lined up, and there's like a, a curtain, you know, it's like, "Oh, well, I've got all of this. I'm happy now. I'm happy now." So, woo. Let's see what else wants to come out. One more for the environment for everybody. Okay. Five of swords. Now, the five of swords has come out in the reverse, but I don't feel this energy is honest because I've got justice in the reverse as well. So, I feel that this person still has an agenda. I don't trust them. All right? If this was me reading my own cards, I wouldn't trust, I wouldn't trust this person at all. If the five of swords had come out with different cards, so be it. You know, then that is somebody who wants a resolution. They want to compromise. They want to build some fences. They want to drop the fighting, and they want to apologize. Okay. But I'm not feeling that. I'm feeling that this person still has an agenda. Okay. Whoever you're connected into, um, is staged. You know, the five of swords is a stage card as well. And I just feel their energy is, is very much all about them. What's in it for me? Okay. But I feel they're determined to come back in. All right. I do feel this person will weedle their way back into your, into your um life, but they will use or get somebody else to work out how to get in touch with you or how to break through with you. All right. Um, it, it's like they just kept trying to break you, but then hook you back in. I heard, right, what they're going to say, just so you know, now obviously you free will, you know, this is just an energy reading, but, "I'm ready for commitment. I'm sorry I hurt you. I didn't realize what I had until it was gone." I think someone said this before to you. I think somebody else has made promises to you that they haven't kept. Okay. Empty apologies, empty words. You know, you need action as well. You, you need action. But I did. That's what they will say to you. All right. And I was selfish. Let's see what the best possible outcome with this is, please. So, you're going to hear from somebody else first. It's not your, not your sp, not this person, somebody else that's connected to you. Can you just give me any information on who this person might be? What's their astro sign or just anything about them? Right. Okay. They could be a Sagittarian. They are, you know, this card. Right. They're going to come in, and they're going to try and balance this out. That's the absolutely temperance. All right. Yeah, that's what they're going to do. They're going to try and, you know, balance it out. Be the peacekeeper. Be the one that, the, the go-between. All right. But, you know, this person could be, could be a Sagittarius. Anything else about them? Okay. They do have an energy, the friend, whoever it is, they can be a little bit stubborn and also just really specific, whoever this person is, this friend, who go-between, they don't always finish what they start. Okay, they don't always finish what they start, they could have had multiple jobs, or they could have, they could start certain projects, they don't finish. Um, that might just narrow it down a bit for you. Yeah, certain projects they don't finish. Let's see what the best possible outcome is. Let's see what the outcome's going to be. What's going to happen here? Okay, there's going to be break contact here. Okay, they're going to break contact. Um, they're hoping that you've forgotten that they put you in a ten of swords moment. I personally, the world's come out. Okay. They're going to come back in, right? And hope that, you know, you've let go of these fears and, and all of that, that you're, you're going to speak to them. But the final card is the world. Now, for me, in this energy, the world, if it was a new relationship, that would be different. But because it's an ex, the world is completion, okay? It's almost like you don't care either way. You know, you've, you've closed the cycle out. You know, you've stepped out of it. It's come to an end. You don't particularly wish this person any ill, but you don't want to particularly reconcile with them. So, I see you possibly just walking away from this message that you won't get involved. Um, just as an aside, yeah, there's another energy coming in for you, an earth sign, Capricorn, Virgo, Taurus. Okay. Somebody who's very stable, very grounded, um, works hard, you know, very different to this person, doesn't play mind games, okay? They've got the feet on the ground, and they're family-orientated. So, there is a new energy coming in around you. Okay. Yeah. The unknown with you, the four of cups. I just see you pushing back on this, that you know you're just not really interested, that you're going to refuse the offer, that your person missed their opportunity with you. They should have stepped up a bit sooner. Um, that you know, you're, you, you're kind of bored of it now. Bored of it. You know, you've, you've had enough because it's not the first time. It's not the first time this person did that. Okay. So, look out for that friend or somebody ending up in your DMs or your WhatsApp or whatever you use or email, okay? But somebody is, somebody else is going to get in touch with you regarding your past person. So, I shall leave that with you. Take care. Remember, you're on the pedestal, okay? You are absolutely amazing, and you deserve, you know, you deserve to be taken care of and cherished, and you know, you deserve love without effort, okay? 'Cause you put a lot of effort into this, and the more effort you put in, the more they dangled, okay? You deserve love without effort just because you exist. All right? You don't have to do anything or prove yourself, or I'm hearing run around. There's another person coming into your energy that you won't have to do that for. I think you're going to find it a bit strange to start with because the level, all right, you know, you're going to know where you are with this new person, which I feel is going to be so beautiful for you. So take care anyway. Look after yourselves, and I'll speak to you soon. Loads of love.