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If you're currently in love with a man who doesn't really prioritize you, doesn't choose you, but you really miss him and you want that exact man to choose you and to love you and to be with you, I'm going to explain to you why you feel this way. Because I'm in therapy and I work so much on being self-aware and to process my emotions and feelings. So yeah, I went through that as well.
Self-worth comes from you. It's self worth, how you value yourself. And when a man disrespects you or doesn't treat you right, a healthy brain should be like, "Yo, I don't want you. Like, you're not treating me right. Bye." But what we do, we attach to that person and we are looking for the approval, the validation, the confirmation from the hardest, coldest, most unavailable men and you will never receive it there. End of story.
Basically, what your brain wants is for that person who you're attracted to to give you the confirmation that you're worthy enough, that you are lovable and that you are important, but you will not receive that confirmation from that person because it's the hardest person to get it from. And once you receive it, you will feel that you are worthy enough and lovable.
Usually, it comes from the childhood. People like me and you. Um, we didn't have parents who gave us that safety, who made us feel loved and important because at that period of time, they probably were too focused on building their life or taking care of themselves and they didn't give us that feeling.
You choose yourself. You prioritize yourself and you protect yourself and your heart and that is a true self love and self-worth.