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Hey guys, in this video I'm going to be talking about how you can manifest a very, very specific outcome in your life. Whether you want to manifest a relationship, a person, a job, a house, an opportunity, a car, your health, it doesn't matter. I'm going to give you the secret formula.
For all of you who don't know me, my name is V. Gwani and I'm a manifestation coach. I help individuals in their 20s and 30s to manifest their relationship and financial goals within 42 days through my coaching program. So, let's get right into it.
First, I want to help you understand the difference between the creator and the creation. Think of the creator as a woman who desperately wants to give birth to a child. And while she's pregnant, she's stressed out, she's overweight, she's underconfident, and she's anxious. But because she's so obsessed with this unborn child, she wants to make sure that when the child is born, the child is going to have everything that he or she could possibly need. So while she's pregnant, she's going to all far-off places in her city so she can make sure that she has the perfect facilities. For example, she needs to find the perfect cradle today. She needs to find all of the material that she requires to baby-proof the house today. She needs to pick a fight with her husband so she can get some kind of reassurance that when the baby's born, he's not going to go.
And in the process of all of this, she's conditioned her body with stress chemicals. When you condition your body with stress chemicals, you have a large amount of adrenaline and cortisol that is being secreted in your body that puts you in your fight-or-flight mode. Your analytical brain is overly active. And when your analytical brain is overly active, you're always going to try to predict as to what your next move should be so you're safe. Not so you're happy, so you're safe. And currently, this woman is feeling like, well, the only way I can feel safe is if I have all of the things that I require for my baby to feel safe. But that action is not coming from her intuition. That action is coming from her anxiety. And because she's conditioned her body with these many stress chemicals, when the baby inevitably gets born in nine months, the baby is going to be born with the exact same conditions because the baby is the creation. And she was the creator, not realizing that the creation is going to be just like the creator before the creation happened.
So you cannot have an outcome that is different from the emotional state from which you created that outcome. So if you currently want to manifest a job and you're hustling and you're sending out 100 emails a day and you're talking to everyone that you possibly can to get this job, and let's say you finally get that job by some sheer luck. When you're in that job, you're always going to perceive that job to be something that you got lucky with or something that you worked really, really hard for. And when you think that, "Oh, I worked really hard for this," you start to put that thing on a pedestal and you naturally undermine yourself. And when you undermine yourself, you start to overwork in that specific segment.
For the same example, I can tell you in a relationship, if you feel like you got lucky to be with that person, then you're always going to overgive in that relationship to the point where the other person is going to feel smothered and inevitably they're going to want to take a step back because they feel like their freedom has been taken away. Then that's exactly what the job that you want is going to feel on an energetic level because you're so desperate for it. And when you're desperate for it, you're going to again do more things that is going to result in self-sabotaging habits and inevitably you will get fired because the universe has balanced forces. The more you want something, the farther it gets away from you because the universal law is equilibrium must be there in every possible situation. And that's why only when you develop an identity towards somebody who believes that it is theirs, not somebody who has worked their ass off to get there, but somebody who has worked their ass off but believes that they are that kind of person, then that's why they will attract it. But if you're taking actions just for the sake of attracting it, then your action is not backed by the correct intention.
If you're trying to approach a beautiful man or a beautiful girl at the bar and your intention is only so you can sleep with that person, your words are going to resonate in her or his brain because of your intentions behind that. You might say something else, but the intention is going to carry the energy that is going to translate to them. And the same thing happens when you act from anxiety. But I'm asking you to act from your intuition when you have a very, very specific desire. And the only way you can act from your intuition is if you're meditating every single day.
Because when you meditate, that's exactly when your analytical brain completely shuts down. That's exactly when you go from a somebody, which is "my name is this, my age is this, my height is this, I currently want to manifest that," to a nobody. When you go from a somebody to a nobody, it gets extremely easy for you to influence yourself to become an anybody. For example, if you had to influence a three-year-old girl to become a part of a terrorist organization, it's going to be very easy to convince her as compared to trying to convince a 33-year-old girl, right? Because a 33-year-old girl has such a strong identity that she's created for her life after living so many years that to move that identity is going to be very, very difficult.
So similarly, I want you to get into your meditative state, meditative state and go from a somebody to a nobody. And when you're meditating, what's going to be happening is that you're going to have a rush of thoughts that are coming in your mind. They might not be negative. They might even be positive. But these thoughts are exactly what is forcing your identity to be where you are because it's afraid to go from a somebody to a nobody. 'Cause when you're a nobody, you don't know who you are. And it's scary to not know who you are. For the same reason, if you were trying to go to a party with one mutual friend of yours who you don't really like much and last minute they cancel, you start to stress out. Even though you don't really care for this friend, but you stress out because now you don't know anybody in this party. But that is your opportunity to actually go from a somebody that "this is my name, this is my height" to somebody who can be unrecognizable towards everybody else in the party because nobody else knows you. And that is your opportunity that you have to grasp on in your meditation.
Because when you go from a somebody to a nobody by simply putting your attention on your third eye, that's exactly when you will enter this state after some time. You will enter the state of being completely thoughtless. When you are thoughtless, that's exactly when you can channel the emotions of the future that you want in this present moment. Now, don't get obsessed with the specificities of it because most people experience more resistance while talking about the specificities of it than non-resistance, right? So, for example, if somebody wants to manifest going to a specific country, I would definitely tell them to talk about all of the specific things about that country. Where do you want to go? Which beach do you want to sit by? What kind of people do you want to meet? Where do you want to shop? What food do you want to eat? Because in talking about that, you have no resistance because you 100% believe that you can get over there. Maybe you need the funds, maybe you need the airlines to open, but you know that you don't have too much resistance towards that 'cause you just have to go to a place.
But now when it comes to thinking about something very, very specific, when it comes to a person who's just broken up with you and your attention is on, "Oh, they love me or they're hugging me or they're telling this to me," you're only training your brain to focus on that person. But that person is currently your, that person is someone who you're currently perceiving as, "Okay, I'm forcing this person to treat me like this in my meditation so I can feel better." You don't authentically think of that person through that lens right now. And that's okay because the way you want to perceive this person correctly can only come to you when you enter an elevated emotion. And from then onwards, you will naturally have a thought about this person which will make you feel easy and non-resistant. But if you've just sat on your meditation after being anxious and you're thinking positively about how this person is going to come back, you're experiencing more resistance.
So when you can take an attention of the specifications of that person and focus on how you want to feel in a relationship, how you want to feel when you're getting cuddled, how you want to feel when you buy this person a gift for Valentine's Day, how you want to feel when you make your parents meet this person, right? When you're doing all of those things, the emotions are in your control because you can very easily feel abundant while thinking about your parents meeting this person. You can very easily feel abundant when you're thinking about what you want to gift this person. But when you directly think about the person in itself who's currently not giving you the attention that you do want, they're only forcing your brain. And when you force your brain, there is resistance. And that energy is exactly what you have to get rid of. So the thing that you do want can come into your life.
Okay. Now that you've understood how to go from a somebody to a nobody to an anybody, it is your duty to recognize that you are not the same person as who you were before you sat in that meditation. Before you sat in that meditation, you were in a very different vibrational field. But when you do what I just asked you to do, that's exactly when you've gone from a nobody to an anybody. And the anybody that I'm talking about is not a person, it's an emotion. Because the version of you who has the things that you want is not, we don't describe that version in terms of characteristics. We describe that person in terms of vibrations. So if you see a very successful businessman or a very successful politician, you don't talk about that businessman, "Oh, he's so smart, he knows sales very well." No, you talk about how charming he is, you talk about how loving he is, you talk about how intelligent he is. And that exactly what makes about makes his vibration so confident, right? That's what we admire about a person. You don't like your specific person because you like their teeth. You like that, you like that person because how they make you feel. You don't want to work at Google because you want to tell everyone you work at Google. You want to work at Google so you can be the kind of person who has the same vibrations of the people who work in Google.
So in your meditation, don't get specific on who you have to be. Focus on the vibrations. And the person that you have to be is something that you will naturally embody. But the only way you will naturally be able to embody it is when you're aware about that emotion on a day-to-day level, on a minute-to-minute basis because naturally you're going to have negative thoughts in the middle of your day that is going to sabotage this emotion and this frequency. But it is your duty to recognize that you are not the thinker of your thoughts. You're only the receiver of your thoughts. So if you get a negative thought that tells you, "Oh, this is never going to happen," it's your duty to not give into that. Because when you don't give into that, that's exactly when you stay in the timeline of someone who's at the same energetic frequency as when you were in that meditation. But the moment you give into that thought, that's exactly when you become a conditioned slave to that thought, conveying to the universe that as long as these thoughts are active in my mind, I can never get what I want. And that's exactly when you start going into this self-victim mode. "Oh, I, I have negative thoughts. Oh, I start overthinking." Well, you will stop overthinking when you recognize that the thing that you want to manifest can never ever be predicted. And the only reason why you overthink in your day-to-day life, it's because you have this urge of trying to predict as to how something is going to happen. But if you want a miracle to come into your life, you have to understand that the definition of the word miracle is something unexpected. Something unexpected that makes you feel good. So if you're feeling good right now and not trying to predict anything, you're in the exact vibration of a miracle. And that's exactly when the outcome comes to you because you're not focused on the thing. You're focused on how you want to feel.
But so many people see somebody else get married or see somebody else get that job and they focus on how lucky that person is. They focus on the creation. And when you obsess over somebody else's creation, you start experiencing envy because they are not different from you. They are just a result of somebody who has acted upon things, developed the identity, put in the hard work, and enjoyed the process above everything, and that's why they've gotten that. And because your body's aware of you and your capabilities that you can actually do this for yourself, but you're just not doing it because you're being a victim to your thoughts. That's exactly what you hate. You don't hate that person because if that person said that, "Hey, let's be friends and I really like your vibe," you're not going to be like, "No." You're going to be like, "Yeah, okay, cool. Let's be friends." Right? So your jealousy towards them or your anger towards them, it's only a reflection of what you know you need to work on. And what you need to work on is aligning yourself on a vibrational level with the reality that you do want.
Now when I'm talking about hard work and inspired action, they can go hand in hand because initially I said that the mother is not supposed to do all of these things. Well, that's because the mother is currently operating from a low vibration state because when you're pregnant, you have all these hormones and you're chemically imbalanced. So that's different. But if you're somebody who wants to manifest a job or you're somebody who wants to manifest a relationship, remember that that relationship or that job is going to be only 1% of your life. The other 99% of your life is going to be the exact same. So if you start dating that person today, you know that you're still going to have this uncle, this aunt, this mother, this father, this job. Correct? So I'm telling you to stop focusing on that 1% which is making you feel resistant right now and start focusing on the other 99% where you can embody the highest version of yourself who is already in a relationship. The highest version of yourself is the version of you who is so aware of how you're projecting yourself on an energetic level with every single person in your reality as you would if you had that relationship because that is general. You can generally talk to your parents abundantly about love. But if you force yourself to think abundantly about love when you're thinking about the person who has just left you, you're not going to feel good from within. Right?
Another thing that you can do is instead of focusing on the creations of other people who have what you want and getting jealous. I want you to understand that the only reason why their creation is so beautiful is because the creator took care of themselves before the creation happened. And you talking to that other creator who has what they want is exactly what even they might have done with somebody else before they had, before they gave birth to their creation. For example, if somebody else has a beautiful child, the child is only beautiful and smart because they probably spoke to somebody else who also has beautiful and smart children which allowed them to focus on that character. But if they, before they had a child, focused on somebody else's child and said, "How did they get that child?" their child would probably not be as beautiful and smart because they were focused on negativity before the child was born. Which is why the child would also be born with some kind of negative traits, as in the child would have some kind of problem. And what you were preparing for, inevitably, that you want the perfect child, is exactly what is going to be the reason why the child is not perfect. Because in the preparation of doing it perfectly, you've misaligned your energies. You started doing the things that you think you should be doing. And when you start to do the things that you should be doing instead of the things that you want to do, you're always going to mess up because you're always acting from an impulse.
But the difference between anxiety and intuition is anxiety is something that you're always going to feel in your chest. It's going to make you feel like, "Oh my god, if I don't do this right now, then I'm going to miss the train." But your intuition is something that you will feel in your stomach. It will just come to you. And when it comes to you, it will make sense to you. And the reason why people don't create the life that they want is because when they get an intuition, it's kind of illogical. It doesn't make complete sense. But I'm telling you, if you act on the thing that does make complete sense to your current identity because you've never had a thought like that before, doesn't that make sense that you have to take action towards that thing? Because if you want to manifest something that you've never had, you have to do something that you've never done. So, it's going to feel random. It's going to feel illogical. But when you can lean into that, no matter what that thought is, right? If your thought is, "I want to manifest my dream car, but I have this urge of just calling this old friend of mine who I really miss," it doesn't make sense. Call that friend. Maybe that friend knows somebody else at a dealership who can hook you up with the best price for that car which fits your budget. But the reason why you don't call that friend because you're like, "Well, what am I going to do calling this friend? It's not going to help me manifest what I want." And that attitude is exactly what stops you from manifesting the things that you want. Because that attitude is the attitude of someone who is just doing the things so they can get the outcome.
But when you're only doing the things so you can get the outcome, you're never going to be able to open your heart to new energies, to more abundance. Because if you're only talking to the person who gave birth to a beautiful child, when you're talking to them with the intention of, "Well, just tell me what all you did so I can start doing them," that's not love. And when you're not broadcasting love or when your intention is not love, no matter what you say, like I said for the example of approaching the person at the bar, no matter what you say, energetically, the other person is going to pick up on that. How many times have you been in a conversation with someone and you can just tell that the other person is telling you the right words, but you know they've come to ask you for a favor. It doesn't feel good. But in another scenario, somebody might actually want to ask you for a favor and they're open about it, but they're actually being very nice and you want to help them. Who would you want to help? The person who's more authentic or the person who's trying to play games and just trying to get something from it? That's exactly how the universe starts looking at you when you think that "I need to take the perfect action" or "I need to get the perfect thought." But the perfect thought can only come to you when you're in the perfect vibrational state. And the perfect vibrational state is the version of you who is at peace with where you are right now. Because you understand the importance of peace. Not because you should give up, not because you should surrender, but so that you can disassociate from the identity of you who feels like, "Well, I can't be at peace unless I get that." But the version of you who has that thing, who has that opportunity, who has that job is not stressing about the thing. In fact, they're not even thinking about that thing. But you feel like, "I need to think more of it so I can get the idea." Look up any creative person who makes music, who makes paintings. They will never say that "I thought for 16 hours and then I got the perfect idea." They will always say, "Well, I was in such a flow state that the idea just came to me and I acted on that."
Now, keep in mind, if you don't act on your ideas, you're not going to allow your body to enter a vibrational state that can allow the desire to come in. Because your inspired actions are not direct actions to get you what you want. Sometimes they are. It will result in you being at the right place at the right time. But a lot of the times your inspired action is so you can act in accordance with that, which will allow you to be in a vibrational state that aligns more with the reality that you want than your current vibrational state. And that will reveal the next step to you. And that will reveal the next step to you and then you're going to get what you want. Now, sometimes this even happens in one step. But when I tell people that this might take more steps, they start to feel like, "Well, no." Well, let me tell you something. If you don't want to experience the journey of actually attracting that thing in your life and you just want it after one step, then you don't actually want it because the version of you who actually wants it wants to become that person more than wanting that desire.
Do you want your relationship? Do you want that specific person? Do you want that new job? Because when you get that job, you can just tell everyone, "I want that job." Or do you actually want that job so that when you're in that job, you can focus on all of the things that that company needs so that they can excel? Do you want a relationship so you can just tell everyone that, "Yeah, I'm married." Or do you want a relationship so you can actually understand the importance of a partnership? So you can actually understand the importance of being vulnerable. So you can actually understand the importance of building trust, of communicating, of expressing, of maintaining emotional control. Because if that's what you want, then you're always going to manifest the relationship. You're always going to manifest the outcome. But if your intention is, "I just want to get married because I feel like I should get married and it's going to make me happy," then you're very selfish. But I'm telling you, the more selfless you can be, the more generous you can be while thinking about your manifestation goal, the better you would be able to manifest. Because generosity is always action, action outwards. And when you're taking action, the law of attraction, it's law of attraction for a reason. Without action, you cannot reach the embodied state and the desire cannot find you. But when you take the action, especially with generosity, what you're signaling to the universe that there is an abundance of it and there's no reason why I should keep it to myself.
So if you have a creative idea and you're a business owner, if you have a creative idea and you're a content creator, or if you do anything in the creative field and you have an idea, it is your responsibility to act towards that idea because you never know where that might lead you. If you're a singer and you feel like making a remix of this song or that song, create that remix right now and take it live because that might be the song that helps you win a Grammy. You might laugh at that, but that's exactly the point because the version of you who laughs at that is the version of you who's never had it. But if you want something that you never had, you have to do something that you have never done. So ask yourself, what areas in my life in this moment am I not acting in accordance with despite having an intuition about them? And if you've not gotten any intuition, it's probably because you're focusing on the specificities of that outcome so much just because social media has asked you to do so. These stupid methods and techniques and affirmations and scripting. Stop doing that.
Understand that the thing that you want, you only want it because you believe that you will feel better in the having of it. And if you believe that you will feel better in the having of it, I'm asking you to understand the emotions that you know you will feel when you get that thing. Because when you can understand the emotions that you will feel when you get that thing, you will realize that all I want is really an emotion. Right? Can we agree on that? You want that extra money so you can experience freedom. You don't want paper notes in your hand. You don't want cash. You want freedom. So think about the three emotions that you know you will feel when you get that outcome. Now allow yourself to write eight actionable steps for each of those emotions. So if you want freedom, write down eight things that you can do on a day-to-day level that will put you in the vibrational state of freedom. So if your definition of freedom is, "Well, I want to be free when I have conversations with people," amazing. My definition of freedom is talking exactly what I know is going to help you guys manifest your dreams publicly on YouTube. That's freedom for me, right? And that's going to help me attract more money. How? I don't care because I'm focusing on the emotion. And even with the money that somebody else wants, all they want is freedom in the end of it. So why not focus on the freedom, which is the end state, and the version of you who already has what you want? That's when the money will find you and it's going to confirm the belief that yes, you are that person.
But so many people are taken in a theoretical way, in a mechanical way because they believe that repetition is what creates identity, and it does. But repetition backed with an intention with no belief is just words because your body does not process language. Right? There's nothing that you can script that is going to change your life. It processes emotions. So when you're focusing on the emotions, like I said, starting with freedom, you're going to get what you want. Freedom is just one example. So if you want to manifest a car, a luxurious car, thrill, excitement, and love because you love cars, ask yourself, what are three different areas? What are eight different areas of my life where I can embody love? Well, love can be love for my house. I can give a few old clothes loads of mine so that her son can be happier. Love can be, well, I love painting, so I'm going to paint. I'm going to dedicate time to that. Map out all of these things. And when you map out all of these things, you're going to realize that, "Oh my god, when I'm doing these things, I actually feel good." But there's also going to be a voice in your head, "But what are you doing? This makes no sense." It makes sense on a vibrational level. Everybody, everybody who I work with wins. So, I'm telling you what works. I'm not trying to tell you what you should be doing in a step-by-step way. I don't want to make manifestation mechanical for you. I want you to understand it in a way of life, as a way of life so you can use it till the day you die. Okay?
So, when you're doing these things, there'll be a voice within you, "Well, this doesn't make sense. This is not going to help you get what you want." But that's exactly the point. You're not supposed to do things just because you think you're going to get what you want and do it. You're supposed to do it because you want to express. You want to explore and expand as a more vibrationally higher version of you. If I had to say it in simple words. So when you're doing painting because you love it and you silence a thought that tells you, "That makes no, this makes no sense," that's exactly when you will get very deep-rooted in the process of painting. And when you're deep-rooted in the process of painting, you're not thinking about anything else other than the painting. And when you're not thinking about anything else in the present moment and you're just focused on one thing, you're in the exact vibrational frequency to receive something. Because the present moment is called a present for a reason. The more time you spend in it, the more you're in a vibration that you've never been in before because that exact moment has never happened before. So you're in that exact moment with an elevated emotion because you're doing something you love and your body starts executing and expanding a wave of energy that you've never expanded to before which is going to attract an outcome that you've never had before because you understood when to get specific and when not to get specific. And because you understood that you have to think of your desires in terms of vibration and you have to focus on the creator instead of the creation because the creator is what dictates the vibration and the creation is only a byproduct of that vibration.
That's it for this video. Best of luck and keep shining.