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What is it with girls like me? All a guy has to say is that he's been in prison, a rehab, and it's like my head tips right over and my brain starts to slip out of my ear.
You only got tattoos so you didn't have to deal with your emotional trauma. No, I got them so I look good naked. I have never seen a girl look good with a ton of tattoos. Tattoos are so ugly. Nobody wants you to look like a coloring book. Don't you guys know that guys like girls with no tattoos?
I actually did it myself. Yeah, me, wondering why I'm single whilst refusing to speak to any males. Yeah, nice. Always in the Sun, but no one's sun is ever in me. One of my favorite parts about life is when you start to like a guy and then you go in, "Same." "Hi, Cubit numbers." "Um, wrong." "No, ma'am, he's not wrong. You just want attention. You mimic talking on somebody else's voice. You have nothing interesting to say. Your whole personality is having tattoos."
I used to be in a lesbian relationship. Not with a woman, of course, but with a man that was a [ __ ]. So I have a crush at the gym, but I don't know what it is about gym crushes, but yeah, we're going to skip this video, guys, because using this filter is so annoying. Yeah, I don't date disgusting, but I'll talk to you for a little bit. You, me, get your helps up a little bit, but then I'm like, "Sorry, got up." "You're just posting that for attention."
Uh, yeah, obviously. I think opposites attract. I don't want to date someone who is too similar to me. Um, I agree with that to an extent. However, I however, I want to walk down the street with a tall, tatted, big, muscly man. News flash, all women want that. All of them. I feel like it would look weird me walking down the street next to someone that's not like me. So my dick, and I know you think because I'm a woman I don't have a dick, but I have a pink dildo. No, feminine. So so feminine. I wonder why she can't find a man.
In my dresser, if I come across one more Hinge profile where they have their location set as Melbourne and they're not in Melbourne and they don't live here and they don't plan on living here, I am going to throw my phone off the balcony and I'm going to never leave my apartment ever again.
Okay guys, so I posted this video just to show you that what women say they want and what women are attracted to are two different things. They don't even know what they want. Just listen till the end. I'm just reflecting on this time last year. Um, a man who was 6'7", who was desperately in love with me. 6'7", got a haircut, showed up to my place nicely dressed with flowers. Uh, told me to wear heels and he was going to take me out for Valentine's. We went out. We went to a really nice restaurant. I got steak, free. We got red wine. He then proceeded to take me to a cocktail bar. Um, and he knew one of the guys working there. So like, we got a bunch of free, like fun drinks. Then he took me back to his place and he had a trail of rose petals leading up to his bedroom. And in his bedroom, uh, every surface was lined with candles. Um, and there was rose petals everywhere. Everywhere you could possibly think of. Um, we then proceeded to do what grown-ups do. And then, uh, when we were done and we were just like chatting after, I was like, I don't really think I want a relationship.
Yeah, guys, they all say they want that fairy tale, romantic fairy tale. But when that happens, they're not attracted to guys that do romantic things. They're clingy guys. They're not. They want the bad boy who is detached. They want the guy that they can't have. Do I hate men? No. That's a lie.
The best part about being pretty, skinny, and single at 31 is that it's definitely my personality. I have no friends and no social life. In my 20s, I would have had a meltdown about that, but in my 30s, I'm like, thriving over that. It is so peaceful. Just wait till you're 40, 50, peaceful having no social life and having no friends.
Am I the only one? Every single person is living in a different version of reality because we all... No, ma'am. There is only one reality and one truth. You all suffer from different levels of delusion. That's all.
I like my coffee the way I like my men: large. Consider every day. Well, boys, Valentine's Day is just around the corner, and from the bottom of my heart, I wanted to let you know if you can't get a liberal woman to do tradwife things for you, it's because you're deeply unlikable. Because I wouldn't go after a liberal woman from the start. It's a really, really big red flag.
If anyone cares, I get comments all the time for men being like, "You're never going to find a guy who ever will like you if you keep posting this stuff on the internet." And you're absolutely right. Why would a guy like to be with a woman that does videos talking like this? Why? Why? It's it's not logical. Only a [ __ ] would do that. Why? And I understand. I guarantee a lot of men see my content and go, "Hell no, keep that [ __ ] far from me." And that's fine. That's totally okay. And when I get boyfriends and they see me making videos at having BV, you think they're excited about that? What is BV? I I don't get it. Let me know in the comments. What what's BV? No, I get the phone call. My mom sees your TikTok. Like, why are you posting that? Why are you talking like this? Why? Why? Why? Bro, one day somebody will find my TikToks and think I'm hilarious and think I'm funny and want to get to know me. Yeah, man, but that guy will be a [ __ ] and you won't like him. And we'll have a great laugh. And you know what? They will love me for me. Okay, no. One day, maybe not now.
I went to this dating event last night and they were doing a Q&A. And all of a sudden, out of nowhere, this beautiful man stands up and grabs the microphone and asks the question, "How would you navigate dating as somebody that wants true genuine connection in a generation that is addicted to instant gratification?" And I just thought it was really important to come on here and let you guys know that there are in fact real high-value men that are currently roaming this planet as we speak.
Are, did you hear the first thing she said? Let me rewind. "This beautiful man stands up." And so the first thing she said, this beautiful man. She didn't say anything about what he said. She said that he was beautiful. That's why you think what he said was so amazing because you're very attracted to him. That's it.
Ma'am, this is what men are getting wrong about women when it comes to dating. The focus is so much on attraction. You're not a creep if you're attractive. I'm single because all women care about our looks. I can literally tell you right now, a woman who has dated and coaches women, they care about emotional intelligence. No, they not. See, this is why I tell you guys, never listen to women's advice, especially women dating coaches. They don't know what they're talking about. You're on an app. Let's say you're on a dating app. How is she going to see how in emotionally intelligent you are or your soul or whatever if she doesn't find your attractive from the start, from your pictures? How are you going to talk to her? Because she doesn't answer. Okay, you're at a bar, you're out in the town, whatever, on the street. You go ask a woman for her number. How is she going to find out how good of a soul you have, how emotionally intelligent you are, if she doesn't give your number because she doesn't like the way you look? How, how are those women finding out that the guy is whatever, if they first aren't attracted to how he looks? How? Maybe looks aren't everything, but looks get you through the door. If she's not attracted to you, she wouldn't even give you a chance to see your personality. That doesn't matter. Never listen to women's advice. They don't actually know what they want. They don't actually know what they're attracted to. They all say the same stupid thing over and over. But ask her, show me the last five guys you had sex with. All of them are are good-looking. It's not about emotional intelligence. It's it's so stupid.
We're going to skip this video. Can someone with like no family outside of their one cat, like they literally have no family and no friends and all they had was a cat, but then the cat died and then the bills from the cat dying caused them to lose their home and now they're moving into their car? Can, can one of you hit me up and tell me how you like got through that or getting through it because I'm struggling now?
Why did I post this video? I don't want to shame anybody. I don't want to make fun of anybody. I just wanted to show you guys what can happen to those women that say, "Oh, I'm fine on my own." Ma'am, you will probably live till you're 80 or 90. What happens when you have no more family, no friends because all of them are married and you're still single? You still want to have fun and those friends will cut ties with you. What happens then? When you just have a bunch of cats or dogs? See, it's all fun and games when you're 30. How about when you're 45? When you're 50? When you're 60? Oh, well, I will never end up like this because I have money. Okay, so who are you going to enjoy the money with? Let me know how it is when you're 50. Let me know how it is when when you're 60.
Man, I got to tell you, the only thing I need in life from a man is reliability and consistency. And the only man in my life to always give me this without a doubt is my neighbor who I can see through my window and I can perfectly see into his window and talk much. And every single night, he is playing video games, watching Family Guy, or watching that other adult cartoon, American Dad.
Okay, ma'am, but I'm sure he's happier than you because you have nothing else better to do than to watch your neighbor. And he doesn't even notice you. Ma'am, he's happy. He's playing games. He doesn't care. So with all that being said, I'm done talking to the Chads and the Brads. Okay, I'm done. Oh my God, it only took you 39 years. Done. And I'm here for you. I'm here for you. Who took the time to write your age, your marital status? Like, I just feel like there's strength in numbers, right? We, of course, no, there's nothing wrong with us, right? Like, you know, and I know, like if you don't know, I'm here to tell you, there is nothing wrong with you for being single, for not having kids, for being divorced, for having three kids from three different dads. There is nothing wrong with you. And do not let society or the... Okay, if I gave an example, you're a murderer. It's nothing wrong with you. Is it okay? No, no, no. But they can post every failure under the sun and it's not their fault. It's okay. I can't wait, ma'am. I hope, I hope I will be here in 10 years and you will still be making TikToks. I hope I want to see your TikToks then.
I went on a date last night and every time I go on a date, it just makes me more and more like grateful for the choices that I made in my life up to this point. I just started like seriously dating again after, I mean, like in January, I took like a long hiatus. I didn't really date anyone seriously last year. Took a while to recover from how traumatized 2023 made me. And this guy was tall. He... So she's been alpha widowed. If she's still talking about how traumatized she is after two years, has a good job, he's attractive, he owns property, he like seemed like he had everything going for him, but he was too nice. He was boring. We were talking and I was just like, "We are not, I, we are just like not compatible." Because I was talking to him and he was basically like, "Well, what's your priority right now in your life?" And I'm like, "I'm my priority." Like, "What do you mean? What else would my priority be?" Like, "My job and like growing and myself." Like, "I'm my priority." And he was telling me how like all of his friends have kids and he... Yeah, ma'am, he was looking for a wife and you're not wife material. But I sure, I'm sure a lot of guys would ignore that red flag just because she looks good. He's like one of the only single people. And I was like, "How old are you?" And he's like, "Like 33." I was like, "That's crazy because every single one of my, like, I hardly know anyone married. I would say like way more of my friends are single."
Yeah, ma'am, single people keep other people single. They don't want you to get married. They don't want you to have a boyfriend. They want you to come to girls' night out with them. They want you to go on vacations with them. Of course, all your friends will tell you when you get a new boyfriend, "Oh, he doesn't do this, leave him. Oh, he didn't buy you this, leave him. You can do better." There are studies where it shows if you have friends that are divorced, the likelihood of you getting divorced is higher. That's why I tell you guys, girls' night out and she having a lot of, uh, of girlfriends that are single is a very, very big red flag.
This isn't new information, but if you're going to listen to anything that I have to say, it's that men do not get better with age. In fact, I'm convinced that the only thing they get better at is lying. But even then, they can't even do that right. Ma'am, just because all the men in your life lied to you, cheated on you, whatever, it doesn't mean that all men are like that. The ones that you go after, the ones that you find attractive, the Chads, the ones that have lots and lots of options, of course, they will lie to you. But she doesn't even see the problem in that. She thinks all men are like that. No, ma'am. Because their memory gets significantly worse. I have no. My memory has only gotten better and I learn new things each day. Ma'am, and I'm 38. Had met this guy. We were going on a few dates. He was living in a different city, so I was flying to see him a few.
Okay, ma'am, so from the start, that's a really big red flag. Long-distance relationships from the start. You know they don't work. Most of them don't work. Yes, I don't know, 70, 80% of them don't work. So from the start, you ignored a very big red flag just because he probably looked good or had a lot of money. So we're going to skip this video because anything she says past this point is irrelevant and stupid.
So I saw this quote that said, "They say it's a tragedy to be single at 30." When the real tragedy is being 25 and married to the wrong person. And as a girl that's basically... Okay, ma'am, why were you married to the wrong person? Oh, because you were stupid. Because you ignored the red flags. So from the start, it's your fault. Whatever you have to say from the start, you should take accountability. Done. Both of those things. I can tell you that's true. I'm 29 years old and I've been single for about four and a half years because I left my ex-fiancé when I was 24. And so you didn't get married, ma'am. He was your fiancé. So many red flags from the start. So many red flags. Sometimes I sit here and I'm like, "What's wrong with me? What's wrong with me? What's wrong with me? Why am I still single?" Like, I sit here and I ask myself if I made a mistake because I didn't go through with my wedding. And I asked myself, "Is it worth it to be 30 and single and have these people think that I'm probably a mess?" And like, "Probably like you are, ma'am. Otherwise, you would be a catch. Otherwise, men would be fighting for you. The fact that you are single, you show that you have failed."
They don't think logically. I swear there is going to come a time very soon where men will just [ __ ] robots. I think at least for a period of time until they realize it's unsatisfying. Well, they may never realize. They may never realize. Well, they already do [ __ ] robots. That's the worst part. But like, what does she have in the corner of her mouth? Is that a star tattoo or sticker or something? Like, why do they make... Yeah, it's a star. Guys, right? It's a star tattoo. And she's talking about why would men go for robots? I wonder why the female robots look so [ __ ] strange. You haven't made them attractive. Although some, I don't think you are watching in the right place, ma'am, because they made them very attractive. They make them custom to your preferences. Custom. They custom make them exactly the way that you want. So I don't know what she was watching, but it's not true.
We're going to skip this video because she doesn't know what she's talking about. Anyway, hope you enjoy this video, guys, and I'll see you on the next one.