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Why It Sucks to Be a Brothel Boy (in Qing Dynasty)

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You were born in 18th century China,

theQing Dynasty to be exact. Your

village is nameless to most. A

scattering of mud homes and millet

fields where famine comes often and gods

stay silent. Your father is a farmer

when the land allows it. Your mother

sells herbs she picks near the graves.

There are too many mouths, not enough

balls. You don't remember the deal. You

were too young. Four, maybe five. What

you do remember? The hunger that made

your mother chew rice and spit it into

your mouth like a bird. The winter your

baby sister froze in her sleep. The way

your father looked at you. Not cruy,

just calculating. Before long, you're

sold to lessen the number of mouths to

feed. Your father says it's for your own

good. Your mother doesn't say anything.

She just looks at the floor like it

might split open and swallow her. The

man who takes you is smiling. Not

kindly. He counts the coins, hands them

to your father, and then lifts you like

luggage.

Huh?

You scream for a second,

then stop. It doesn't help. No one is

coming to help. The road is long. You're

not the only one. There are others in

the cart. Dirty, hungry, silent.

Some cry at first. They stop, too.

Some are stolen, some are sold, some are

both.

All of you are going to Beijing, to the

houses with red lanterns and barred

windows to become Tang Mingu or boy um

escorts.

You don't know the word yet, but soon it

will be the only one that matters. In

the beginning, they treat you like

something valuable. You are washed, fed,

brushed, inspected, like a dog at a

fair. One boy coughs too much. They toss

him in a ditch. You don't ask questions.

They rename you something soft and

pretty, like unwanted flower, because

flower means more than petals here. It

means you're someone's fantasy. Now you

were five, so you know how to sit still,

how to say thank you. And now you're

going to learn to obey because soon

you'll learn what your body is for. And

you'll have to learn fast, but you won't

live long enough to be sold again. Your

training begins the day Madam decides

you're ready. She is the manager of the

brothel, the big boss. Nice to all the

new kids since she gives you all sweet

buns. But that all changes when you turn

six, maybe seven. After all, no one

cared about your birthday since you

became property. They start with the

body. Hip massages daily to widen your

figure. Hair removed with string and

oil. Every inch of your skin stings for

days. They make you walk a certain way.

Hips loose, arms soft, head tilted just

so. You're corrected with slaps. You're

praised with sweets and warm water. You

prefer the slabs. They make more sense.

Every week they insert something new in

you. Ivory, polished wood, carved stone.

They call them training rods. You learn

to breathe through the pain. Eventually,

you learn to pretend to enjoy it. They

bind your feet to keep them from growing

larger. Small feet are beautiful. They

say you don't argue. Arguing makes them

angry. And the cane hurts more when

they're angry.

By 8, you're doing shows, not public

ones. Not yet. Private demonstrations

behind curtains. You bend, twist, pose,

present. They make you act like you want

it. If you don't smile, they beat your

thighs with switches.

Nope.

No bruises. Bruises lower your price.

They give you concoctions to make your

voice rise, diets to make your muscles

fade. Your boyhood recedes into a mask

painted with powder and perfume. The

customers come to watch. Men with rings,

calloused hands, and hungry eyes. They

pick favorites. You pray it's not you.

But it is. Eventually, it always is.

They rename you again. Curious needy

flower. a promotion, one that you

definitely won't like. You don't sleep

well. You start biting your lips raw to

keep from crying at night. You dream of

fire and waking up somewhere else,

anywhere else.

But every day you wake up here, still

soft, still owned, still learning how to

live with pain.

Few months pass. Congratulations. You

are due for another promotion. They said

you were ready. You weren't. You're

nine. They bring you to the private

room. The screen hides nothing. The man

is old, smiling.

Smiling too much. He smells like wine

and sandalwood and rot.

Your trainer nods once, then leaves.

You're alone.

You remember what they told you. Don't

flinch. Don't cry. Make it sweet. He

calls you little Lotus. You don't

respond.

He doesn't mind.

He tells you to kneel. You do. He

touches your face like he's picking

fruit. Then he slaps you hard. Not out

of anger, out of ritual.

He tells you to turn around. You obey.

Your knees sink into silk cushions.

After it's over, you lie curled in the

bed, shaking and leaking. You're in

pain. More pain than you were ever in

while they prepared you. Worse pain,

because this time it was real.

He leaves a coin in a compliment.

Very soft, very good.

You don't move for hours. You don't

speak for days.

The madam says, "You're a professional

now." She smiles like it's a promotion.

They feed you a sweet bun. You vomit it

up that night. They burn incense to

cover the smell, but it clings to you.

The blood, the musk, the shame. It soaks

into your skin.

You're different now. Everyone sees it.

You carry yourself lower. Your eyes

don't blink as much. Some of the younger

boys ask if it hurts. You tell them no.

You lie because soon it will be their

turn. And you don't see why you should

cause them fear now. After all, what

could they do about it? What could any

of you do about it?

Over the next few years, you become a

favorite. Not because you're the

prettiest, not because you smile, but

because you don't. They say you have

discipline.

What they mean is you've stopped

fighting. Your body knows the routine,

the oils, the positions, the ways to

twist and arch and flutter like it's

your idea.

You've become profitable.

The older boys hate you. The younger

ones stare like you're a statue.

Beautiful, untouchable,

terrifying.

They put you on display. Clients pay

extra just to watch you prepare.

Painting your lips, brushing your hair,

sliding into gauze that hides nothing.

You don't talk much. You don't need to.

Men beg for your attention. Some just

want to look. Some want more. Some want

to break you again.

You learn to fake tears. They love that.

You learn to fake laughter. They love

that more.

One client brings you a mirror. Look, he

says, you're perfect.

You stare at the glass. You don't

recognize the thing staring back.

You're 13 now. You're earning more than

anyone in the house. You never touch the

coins. The madam says you're investing

in your future. You think she means a

nicer grave. They start prepping you for

promotion.

Castration. The final cut. Only the best

get it. The madam purse. You'll never

age, never bleed, never be replaced.

You nod.

But inside something folds in half and

doesn't unfold again. You've stopped

asking questions like, "What am I? What

will I become?"

You already know the answer. A product,

a pedal, a perfect thing.

They wake you at dawn. Not with shouts.

This isn't punishment. This is

promotion.

A bath first. Always a bath. Rose water,

crushed pearl, oils thick enough to

drown in. You are not a boy. You are

velvet plum. You must smell like flour

before they slice you. No one tells you

what will happen. But you know the ones

who come back, the castrated are never

the same. Their voices float like smoke.

Their laughter never lands right. They

blink too slowly or never at all.

You're led into the room barefoot. The

floor is warm, as if it's been soaked in

other people's fear.

There are no windows, just a bench, a

bowl, a blade.

The man doesn't smile. He doesn't need

to. You're told to drink a syrupy wine.

It tastes like copper in sleep.

Your limbs soften, your jaw locks.

You can still feel everything.

He hums while he works and slices with

precision.

You can't even scream.

Afterward, they bury you in hot sand up

to your neck to stop the bleeding, to

stop the movement, to stop the thoughts.

You hallucinate for 3 days.

Your name is called.

softly like a prayer or a curse.

You rise.

You don't walk the same. You don't think

the same. You don't feel the same.

The madam claps when you return. You'll

last twice as long now. She beams.

You bow. Because what else can you do?

You've been upgraded. refined

completely.

No longer a boy, not yet a man.

Something new, something marketable,

something dead.

Four years pass, you turn 17. There's no

cake, no celebration.

Nope.

Just a quieter hallway and colder looks.

Your price is dropped. Your skin is

loosened. Your beauty, once the

brothel's pride, is now an overhead

expense.

They stop dressing you in silk. Perfume

gets rationed. Clients don't ask for you

anymore.

Nope.

They ask for someone younger. You still

smile when they enter. Still dance to

their whip. But the sparkle in your

movements is just muscle memory. The

rest of you is gone.

One night the madam doesn't call for you

at all. Then another and another.

You're summoned, but not for a client.

She doesn't look at you when she speaks.

You've had a good run.

That's it. No severance, no farewell.

They give you one robe, one coin, no

shoes. They unlock the back door and

gesture toward the alley.

Don't come back.

You hesitate, not because you want to

stay, but because you don't know what

exists beyond this place. You've never

touched a tool, never cooked a meal,

never been outside after sunset alone.

You step into the cold. Your robe is

thin. Your legs are shaky.

No one notices you on the street.

You're just another shadow limping past

the fire light.

A week later, you're begging near the

gates. You see one of your old clients.

He laughs, tosses a copper, misses on

purpose.

You pick it up anyway.

You sleep in doorways, drink melted ice.

Your body begins to rot from the inside

out. The pain is back, but now it

doesn't buy anyone pleasure.

You're not Velvet Plum anymore.

You're just another cough in the wind.

Another used object thrown away.

They find your body days later, curled

under a staircase behind a bath house,

half covered in snow.

No one claims it. Your skin is gray,

your fingers black with frost, your eyes

half open, still looking for someone to

recognize you.

But no one does. You're carded away in a

pile with a drunk and a thief, buried in

a trench behind the city wall. No

marker, no prayer,

not even a number.

The brothel doesn't mention you again.

Your name is handed to the next boy.

Velvet plug, they whisper to him as if

it was a role in a play. As if you never

existed.

You were never counted in the census,

never written in the temple roles. You

left behind no family, no children, no

legacy,

only the faintest dent in the mattress

you slept on.