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Something that every guy should be doing when he starts talking to a woman is looking her up, right? Obviously, see what you can find. See if she's one of these chicks kind of posting every single detail on social media uh about her life. Is she a feminist? Is she running a roster? You know, dating a bunch of guys and and talking about it publicly uh detailing all of her experiences, right?
Well, that's exactly what this guy did. And after going to her profile, her Tik Tok, and and looking at the videos, seeing the signs, he decided to kick her to the curb. And rightfully so. My date just canceled on me tonight because he found my TikTok. And that's really, really unfortunate because this is like the first time where social media has been like a detriment. Not a detriment, but has like negatively harmed me. And it really sucks because obviously, you know, social media isn't always real and it a lot of my videos are I'm putting on a personality. Like I make videos to entertain. By no means is that who I am as a person. And I mean to be fair um you know.
And so real quick I'm going to show you some more of her videos that are actually on her page so you can see what this guy saw when he started going through it. And it's like, no, you're not putting on any sort of personality. You're literally kind of you're just you're you're documenting your dates. You're named dropping these guys. You're dating. There's nothing really, ahaha. It's just jokes. This isn't my real personality. Her content isn't personality based at all. Really, it's completely based around her dating life and her being a ran through 304.
I respect that. He was like, you know, just not my taste. Um, but yeah, it it really sucks because like we had great conversation and I was like actually like really really looking forward to it. Um, yeah, it sucks. That's that's the downside of doing social media is, you know, everything you post is going to be under scrutiny and a microscope and it's not going to be everyone's cup of tea. And I think it's really hard for me because I feel so much pressure to be perfect and to be like that, you know, girl that has a perfect life and, you know, everything's so so cutesy and just in order. And it's it's moments like these where I feel like, oh [ __ ] like they're right. Like I'm embarrassing or like I'm cringy or, you know, no one would ever want me. And it's like, it sucks because you've found my social media first before actually getting to know me. And if you actually knew like the real me, you would be like, "Wow, like there's something special about you."
No. So that's the thing. Going to her page, you get to see the real her. You get to see what she's actually doing when she's not texting you, who else she's talking to, who else she's dating. actually going to her social media is the only way you're actually going to get an understanding of who she really is, how she really moves, how many guys she's really seeing other than you. Keep going.
But I'm not here to convince anyone that I'm special. Um, I think the right person would just know that immediately and, you know, want to get to know me first without um, painting a picture of me based on my profile. U, but that's life. That's life. We all judge a book by its cover. And like whether we realize it or not, we all judge people when when we don't really know someone based off of their socials, you know? I mean, it it's human nature. Um, but yeah, no, it it really sucks. Um, so yeah, just wanted to share that, you know, social media isn't all sunshine and rainbows and yeah, definitely sucks, but um I just have to trust in God that maybe um just have peace with it, you know, and that one what's not meant to be won't miss you. But um yeah, that sucks.
Well, the problem is your Tik Tok page is going to repel any self-respecting man that you would actually probably want. That's that's the problem this woman is going to run into every single time.
For anyone who finds my social media and does not know me, um get to know me first and then you can judge me. How about that?
We've never gone on a date before. This would have been the first time meeting. Um, but yeah, sucks.
All right, so now I'm going to actually run through a little bit more of her Tik Toks. Not going to listen to all of them, but just so you can kind of get an understanding of what this guy saw. So you can see here the caption says, "Hinge date Liam." So, you can kind of understand now that what she's doing on her TikTok is she's documenting her dating life. She's named dropping these guys, basically informing any other man who who goes to the page that he's not the only guy uh she's seeing. And so it's like if you're if you're getting to know this woman and I I can't I I'm not sure if her name her Tik Tok username is like her first and last name, but this guy clearly was able to find her and he saw that yeah, this woman is just dating a bunch of dudes and and like kind of revealing the details about him and kind of [ __ ] on them as well. And I guess I'm kind of giving it away, but let's listen to a little bit of it. Okay, so I want to talk about my date tonight. This was actually my second date night with Liam. He's a civil engineer. So [ __ ] sexy. Um, I'm like in love with him. He's so cute. So I just hadn't like my collab.
So right away if you're this guy who just started talking to her and you go on her page and you see her, you know, fawning over Liam, you're going to think, "Yeah, okay. I I'm good. Seems like you like Liam, right? Let's I don't want to try to get involved. I'm not going to compete for you, you know. Let's keep it going.
Taco. So, I figured I'd invite him for a free comp meal. So, he helped me film some content. And wait, let me backtrack. Our first date, we went to Oh my god, what was our first date? It was a couple days ago. I don't know. But we ended up at Taco Bell and it was iconic and it was the best. Um, and he's so cute. He's so wholesome, very like natury into like hiking and like outdoorsy, but like very like non-judgmental, which is like really hard to meet. Like a lot of guys are like so judgmental, right? But he's just like so down to earth and he's very social for a civil engineer and he's really cute and he has blue eyes. Um, so yeah, we just had our second date and we ended up, you know, at Bar Taco for my collab and then afterwards he took me line dancing here at Fedway and it was so cute.
Okay, so you know that's her talking about her date with Liam.
Okay, an update on Dan. So, a different guy named Dan and she's giving updates, [clears throat] not necessarily doxing them, but you know, it's kind of gossiping, talking about him, revealing intimate and private details about, you know, the dates they're going on.
Don't have the emotional capacity for a girlfriend,
talking down on them.
You text me once every 24 hours, maybe. And he's like, "Oh, I'm looking for a girl that can understand. I have a very busy work schedule." And I'm like, "Oh, okay." Like, I get it. Like, I get being busy, but like texting once a day and be like, "Oh, sorry. There's this new law that was passed last night and and all my reps got [ __ ] over and who do they come to complain? Me." He was like, "I've been dealing with this for the past 20 minutes." Well, Dan, you haven't texted me since Thursday night.
Okay, going to the next one. And so, you can kind of see how she was saying like, you know, get to know me before you pass judgment. You you don't actually know who I am based off my TikTok. Any guy looking for a woman is going to see your page and think you're um you're you're getting passed around. You're dating a bunch of dudes. Just don't want to be a part of that.
Screenshots on Rya. I just got banned because I accidentally took way too many screenshots on Rya.
So, she's on Rya, she's on Tinder, you know, she's on all these dating apps, she's dating all these guys, and she's screenshotting her conversations on Rya, which apparently you're not allowed to do. And so, that just Why don't just apply that to all dating apps? I think that's a a great feature that Rya has. I've never used the app, but I think it's smart. Yeah, cuz these [ __ ] [ __ ] going to try to screenshot your conversations, put you on blast like we see time and time again, make fun of your profile. So, good on Rya kicking this [ __ ] off.
Okay. Over the course of a couple months, I took like five screenshots. But it's like instinctual, right? Cuz like I'm so used to being on Tinder or Hinge and like screenshot, screenshot, look at this crazy profile, saying it to a friend. But like I forgot I'm on Rya and I had like five alerts and after the fifth one they're like you're done. So
my girls be very careful when you're on Rya. They will permanently ban you.
Michael, you're [ __ ] weird.
Okay, so here's another new guy, Michael. And now she's insulting him based off of their date. What was that? Okay, you're like 58 years old. You wouldn't shut up about your brother's divorce. There's
And so this guy's 58 years old, probably not quite as tech savvy, so he probably didn't look her up on social media. And I bet if he did, he wouldn't have gone on a date with her. Now, I don't know, maybe he would have still. Maybe he's kind of a lower value guy. But again, any guy who is like around her age, techsavvy, is going to look this woman up and just going to bow out.
Something wrong with you. When I get there, you're playing shuffle board, shuffle ball, and you switch the venue like three times. Like, as I'm getting in my car, you text me three different addresses of three different places. You tell me how much money you have and you wonder why you're still single and everyone's like, "You got to get on. Got to get Oria." And you want me to move immediately into your fourbedroom empty apartment.
So like, where's the jokes? Where is this whole fake personality that she's just putting on for the internet? No, we're seeing you. This is your personality. There's not really any performing going on. You're just exposing these dates. You're you're relaying the information from from the man to the Tik Tok platform. Yeah. How about no? And yeah, it's like you're complete cope at the beginning trying to brush off the allegations. No, you are absolutely um a a complete brat. Basically, nobody wants to date you. And why should they? You're you're revealing all these private details. You're passed around dating all these guys at the same time getting kicked off of these dating apps because you're screenshotting these conversations. Where's the like, oh no, it's it's a just a social media personality joke. Where's the whole like this isn't the real me. This is absolutely the real you. This is what you're up to. Thanks to social media, these men can see what you're really up to. how many guys you're really dating at the same time. Yeah. So, just make sure if you're meeting a new woman, uh, do your homework because apparently these guys didn't and now they get to appear in her little Tik Tok, you know, docu series where she casually shares intimate details that you told her about your divorce, you know, or or your job, your age. She even name drops you, your profession, your city. I mean, what she's doing here is objectively wrong. She's making the dating world worse for everybody by by doing this and putting this kind of stuff out there. And you know, women will complain about how hard dating is, how bad it is. But, okay, how about you look at what your fellow women are doing? Look at how they're publicly outing these men for sport. Look at how many guys she's seeing at the same time. Why not just date one guy at a time, right? Meet someone, see where it goes, and then move on. If it if it fizzles out, move on to the next guy. Instead, you've got a whole roster, you know, full rotation rotating through each guy. I mean, come on. And that's exactly why the guy who found her social media just didn't want any part of it. I mean, what does this say about how easy dating is for women? that a girl who looks like this can have so many men on tap that she can literally turn her dating life into a content series. Her whole Tik Tok page can be about it. Oh, Tuesday night was Michael. Wednesday was Dan. Thursday was Liam. And then these same women will turn around and say, "Dating is so hard." Oh, you don't know how easy you've got it. When men say dating is hard, they mean it's hard to get a date. But when women say dating is hard, they mean it's hard to find someone who will check all 25 boxes on their list. Yeah. How about actually look at your list and look at what's on it? That's why it's so hard. But good on this guy for not being a s, right? for making her at least feel a little bit of accountability or or some consequences for her modern woman behavior. Oh, you want to act like this? You want to post this [ __ ] You want to date all these guys at the same time? Well, you're not going to get to date me. And I mean, I hope the guys that she's currently seeing are not continuing to date her because they're happy, you know, to compete for a relationship and do this whole thing, but they just don't realize what she's actually up to.