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I'm about to be 50, and what 50 years has taught me, 30 couldn't. So, I work at an upper-class men's salon, and we offer all sorts of services exclusive to men. What is one thing that you have ignored that was a red flag because someone was hot? I know for me, I would say lack of commitment.
So, I have two dates with two different guys in one weekend. Look, I'm at the age where I don't put up with [ __ ]. You're my age, and you've been through the [ __ ]. You've raised your kids. You've done all the things. Are we really looking for that guy with all the green flags right now, or are we admitting that we're just a little toxic? Have you?
Now, even at 50, guys, she's still looking for the toxic Chad. Of course. You ever met someone, and they are great, but the timing is terrible? At our age, are we dating for potential still, or only accepting the finished products?
What do we call a man with money that tries to control you? Daddy.
So, here's a little PSA of what my DMs are looking like. You got the single men. They're like, "Hey, what are you doing?" Disappear for 3 days? Married man. "Hey, beautiful. I've been thinking about you all night." Sir, don't you have a wife to think about? I didn't get this far to be somebody.
Can you see the filters? How they're glitching? Guys, somebody's little dirty secret. It's like I have to do a whole background check before I even reply to any of these messages.
"Ma'am, you're almost 50. You shouldn't be on TikTok complaining about dating. You should be having fun with your husband and your children. Ma'am, why are you still on TikTok? And even at 50, she still wants the toxic guy. She still wants a guy with money. They will never change. Guys, don't be the simp that she settles for."
This is just a friendly reminder that you will never run into people again once their cycle in your life is complete. Hi. So deep. So deep.
"Hi, my name is Kristen. I'm 30 years old, and I feel like my life is over."
Why do the most mid men have the most [ __ ] audacity? Calm down, Shrek. You're not the prize. Ma'am, you're mid yourself, so how can you complain about mid men? Ma'am, you no one wants to hear this, but nobody wants to date a woman in her 30s. If you haven't settled down by the time you're in your 30s, just give it up. No one wants an emotionally intelligent, self-aware, secure woman who only wants a man for his character.
"A woman that can't even record a 10-second video without cutting. Of course, that's that's why you should date her, guys. Yeah."
Can we go back? I'm going to cook us such a nice dinner. As you should. What? As you should. You think I'm supposed to cook for you? Uh, yeah. Bare minimum. That's not the bare minimum. Okay. You're one of these women who wants to go 50/50 on cooking and cleaning. Yes. Yeah. Sorry. I know my worth. Oh, and by the way, just in case no one told you this, the things that people are most likely to attack you for and judge you for and chat [ __ ] about you for, hey, it's 99% of the time the things that they're the most insecure about.
So, if I attack women on their lack of logic because what they say doesn't make sense, is it because I'm insecure about my own logic, ma'am? So then how can it be that I can explain that everything that you're saying is wrong, including now, ma'am? How can that be if I'm insecure about my own logic? Again, guys, they have no logic.
Some of you need to learn to not get rage-baited. Okay? It's not like you can fix someone's entire educational history in one conversation. True. You can't fix stupid. That's why I don't care what Sims say. You can't unfuck somebody's [ __ ] up mindset. Like, just smile, wave, and walk away. Don't get mad at really stupid [ __ ] people.
As soon as a guy like knows that you can say more than four sentences, it's always same [ __ ]. I I love your energy. I love your energy. You know what? You different. Like, I LOVE YOUR ENERGY. MA'AM, you do understand that even at 50, this video will still be on my channel or other channels, and you will still look very stupid even at 50.
Shut the Oh my god. SHUT UP. SHUT UP. It's always the same [ __ ]. Like you say 140. You quirky, ma'am. Just say that you hate men and stop going on dates with them. Just look at her face, guys. Is this the face that you want to marry? If she's screaming like this in a video, just think how she will scream every day. Every day in the house with you and the kids.
Five absolute non-negotiables when it comes to men and dating. For me, I'm a 55-year-old single mom of two. Other than some long-distance relationships that haven't worked out for various reasons, I haven't had a proper relationship probably about 8 years. And do you know why I haven't had a proper relationship in 8 years? Because I haven't come across one single person that I would want to share my space with.
Okay, ma'am. And why do you think that is, ma'am? It's because you have unrealistic expectations, ma'am. You're 50-something and you have kids, and then you say, "These are my standards." Ma'am, I'm going to tell you the truth. Nobody cares. You will still be single at 70, ma'am. Men will literally date the most perfect women their whole life and never want to commit. But then all of a sudden, only when they are ready will they meet their soulmate and get married. But women try to find their soulmate in every single man that they date. Every single man they question, is this my soulmate? Can I see him as my husband? I don't think women.
Ma'am, by that logic, you just show that women are very stupid. Men don't want to commit to women when they're not ready. And women think they found their husband in every Chad that just wants to sleep with them. So you just prove that women are very stupid and and are easily manipulated. But guys, if I expose their stupidity, it's because I'm insecure about my logic. Okay, we're just going to skip this video because it's very stupid.
I find it so funny when men are like, "Oh my goodness, you're so beautiful. Like, how are you still single?" Like they're so surprised. I'm not waiting for a man to pick me. If anything, it's like it's because I haven't picked them.
Yeah. Yeah, you're correct, ma'am. And if the men that you want don't want you back because you're still single, so you can't find the man that you want. What does that say about you, ma'am? It says that you're delusional and you have unrealistic expectations. If no man on this earth meets your requirements, it's not a day problem, it's a you problem, ma'am.
Pretty obvious that some of you have never experienced a man flipping a switch from one day to the next. And honestly, thank God this hasn't happened to you because.
Another woman playing victim. Of course, ma'am. Just because you're too stupid to see the red flags, or you ignore them, or you can't tell when a guy is lying to you, and you sleep with him after three dates, four dates, and then he ghosts you, and you think, "Oh my god, all of a sudden he has changed." He hasn't, ma'am. You're just too stupid. Stupid people win stupid prizes. We're just going to skip this video because he's very stupid.
I told a guy recently, "I find most men unattractive." And he said, "Well, then you're a lesbian." Or, "You need to force yourself to find the ugly guys attractive because that's who's going to take care of you, and it's not like you're a model."
If other women can find men attractive and are in relationships, that means that it's a you problem. It's not the men's fault that you don't find them attractive. If you're average and you don't like average men, it's because you're delusional, ma'am, and you have unrealistic expectations.
There's no way in [ __ ] hell that every single one of you [ __ ] is a victim of an undiagnosed narcissist. No way in hell everyone is a damsel in distress.
True, ma'am. But why are you swearing and talking like that? You sound so masculine. There. We got to start considering maybe he's not a master manipulator. Maybe he's not overly calculated. Maybe he's not an undiagnosed narcissist devil. Maybe I'm gullible and stupid and dumb. And maybe I just really want to be loved. Like, please. Half of you [ __ ] manipulate yourselves. And I'm not even kidding.
I said there is a high likelihood that that man might have a daughter the same age as this woman he wants to have sex with. So, that is morally wrong. Why? Cuz who decides what's morally wrong or right, ma'am? Who? You. You. The the the Karen police. Who decides that? Ma'am, she feels like gay. Why? That is that is. Yes. It's all about feelings, guys. That is wrong. Why? Because a man should not be sexualizing women his daughter's age. What if his daughter's 30? Wait, can I jump in on this? What if his daughter's 30? Oh my god. If, as I say, guys, no logic. None. None whatsoever. It's all about feelings. That's why I can attack women's logic because they have none.
His daughter's honestly, if you think it's okay to [ __ ]. What if he's 50 and his daughter's 30, and she brings a friend home who's also 30? You know, the easiest thing someone could say to you is, "You're 35 and single with no kids. There must be something wrong with you."
Yes, ma'am. There is. Because a smart, beautiful woman wouldn't get to 30, 35, 40 without finding a man. There would be so many men that want to marry her that she would find a husband and she would be happy. So if you're 35, 40, 45, and you're good-looking and you're still single, it's because you have problems up here, ma'am. That's why no man wants to marry you. And I'll bet you say, "No, no, it's because I don't want those men." Yes, because the men that you want don't want you back, ma'am.
Um, you're right. There is something wrong with me. I have standards and expectations, and I will never settle in a place that's giving me bare minimum breadcrumbs.
Just think about it, guys. If her favorite celebrity guy came up to her and said, "I want to be in a relationship." Would she be in a relationship with that guy? Of course. So, if you can't find the man that you want, it's because those men don't want you, ma'am.
Who would have thought the rise of women's equality would be the demise of masculinity? Cuz if you like. Me, ma'am, me. I said from the start that men today are very very feminine and very weak.
I think about it. The more rights and the more progressive women have gotten, the more threatened that men have become. Well, previous generations, I can't speak to our children and how they're going to be in hopes we'll raise them to adapt a little better. And I'm not calling men out and saying that they are not enough. Just maybe that adapting to the new way of life is really tough for them, and there's not really support around. But yeah, it's just an observation. Really funny to show that like. You hear the voices in the background. I think she's a single mother. Okay.
Masculinity is at risk here mainly because women are becoming maybe more masculine because of the roles that we're feeling. I don't. Okay, ma'am. And how do you want men to adapt to masculine women? When we say from the start, we don't want masculine women. How are men adapting? Oh, they're walking away. They don't want to be in relationships anymore. So, who's the problem, ma'am? We haven't changed. And you have changed a lot. And now dating is broken. Who's the problem?
No, but just something that I thought of. This is dating in a nutshell. Opens Hinge. Oo. 54 likes. X X X. Oh god. X X X. Am I this ugly? X X X. Does that guy actually think he has a shot with me? X X. Why is my ex on here? X. Okay, that guy isn't too bad. Match. Close the Hinge. Opens Bumble. Ooh. Seven messages. Realization that all these men I matched with when I was down bad, and I'm actually not attracted to any of them. All right, let's see if we have anybody else that's good. All right, no finance X. M little too hippie ex actor X.
Yeah, guys, this is the reality of an average woman on dating apps. And they still complain that they can't find the man. When you have so many choices and you still can't find a good man, it's you, ma'am. If you're only dating toxic men, it's because you're toxic yourself.
Women are now lying just to have an excuse to hate on men.
This is me before going on a date with a 6'4 doctor. No kids, no ex-wives, owns his own practice, owns his own home. Now watch this. This is me before going on a first date with a man who is over 6'5, who is a doctor. Guys, even the way that they said doctor, they sounded the same. And who doesn't have any previous marriages, kids, nothing like that. These are the same exact video with the same exact story, and they're both framed as reasons to hate all men. He was 40 minutes late. 20 minutes late. Was rude to the waiter. Complaining about everything to the waiter, being rude to the waiter, and then asked me to split the bill. And then he asks me to split the bill. Do men just hate women? When did they stop wanting to actually like take girls out on a.
You see how loud they are? I get it. I'm also loud, but I'm a man. Proper [ __ ] date. Do men just not enjoy like taking women out on dates anymore? I think the actual question is, do women enjoy lying about random [ __ ]? These date stories are fake and just an excuse to hate on men. I mean, they will do anything just for views and attention and validation. I mean, just look at the comment section. These videos have over 100k likes and are not even real stories. These type of videos just reassure a woman that all men are evil. And the thing is, these men don't even exist in real life.
I want a man who's like just cute and patient. Like just be I don't know. There's just you have as a man the ability to make a woman's life so much easier. How many videos have I shown you of women saying that they have standards, that they are strong independent women, and having a man that doesn't meet all their requirements will make their life uh worse. And she says, "Now you can make our life easier."
And I just like when somebody chooses to do that. I actually remember we were in the car. Yeah. We were going to dinner, and Angela forgot to put gas in her tank, which I, by the way, have done that many times. No, I didn't forget. I saw the light. I just like living life on the edge. I went a couple days. It is my fault.
Okay. So, she just wants a a guy that has a lot of money so he can make her life easier. That's what it means to most women like this. Making life easier means the guy has to have a lot of money. And I did not think I would be able to to get gas and put it in the tank, but that I will tell you, and I I love this about myself. I am so masculine when it comes to cars. I can fix a tire and I can put gas and Ic.
You actually can put gas in a tank in a car. You're so brave, ma'am. You're so brave. Strong and independent. I swear, guys, they're like children. You put gas in a tank, ma'am. It's We're just going to skip this video because it's so stupid. So stupid. My brain hurts, guys.
I'm 40 and I date men in their 20s, and their attitude to sex is eye-opening. Part of the appeal is really simple. They're not looking for anything serious, and neither am I. They get to go out with a hot cougar, their words, no offense taken. And I get to channel Leonardo DiCaprio. If he can do it, so can I.
Good for you, ma'am. Good for you. But why are women your age expecting that those guys will want to be in a relationship with them or will want to marry them? Because a lot of women your age, that's what they actually believe. Ma'am, I've always said that yes, younger men will sleep with you, but that doesn't mean that they will marry you.
There's definitely a challenge that women have, and I think this is going to happen more and more as women are socioeconomically more successful. They're going to behave rightly or wrongly, whether they need to or they don't, in a more independent, masculinized way, and that very well may be the thing that they need in order to get them through their career and to ascend the rungs of the ladder. I think that this creates a weird sort of ratchet effect where it's hard to ever go back from this level of independence and assertiveness when you want to start a. And it's the same with single mothers when they have to raise their their child alone. They become more masculine, even if they they don't want to, and men don't find that attractive.
For family, when you want to get into a relationship, there's a degree of relinquishing that you have to have when you want to move in together. The same thing happens. You need to compromise more. You need to show up for this person because they need you. And then you have kids, and the same thing happens times a thousand. You need to be able to be looked after. You need to have needs and make them known. If you can't let go of your independence, it's going to be really, really difficult for you to have a successful relationship and start a family because you're not supposed to be a solopreneur inside of your relationship. You're supposed to be a partner, and then a mother, and then a member of the unit, the house unit that gives and takes.
Oh my guy, first of all, you should be a girlfriend or a wife, not a partner. The majority of men don't want a partner. They want a wife.
Eggs and doesn't keep score. Remember when I said I was 25, single, never had a boyfriend, still live at home? Well, I turned 26 next week, and things just feel a lot more serious, like a year.
Just wait till you're 35, ma'am. And then they will be a lot more serious. And then you will make TikToks wondering why you can't find the man.
Year ago, that was like a fun little tagline. It was all like jokes and giggles, like funny, haha. Um, I don't even have a tagline for 26. Like, I don't even want a tagline. I'm I was saying this last night, like low-key scared of 26. My new tagline is going to be 26, moved out, moved back home. Have no idea what this year is going to entail, but I hope it's good. I used to go into a new age being like, this is going to be the year of this. This is going to be the year. And.
Ma'am, if you want to find a boyfriend and you know the kind of guy that you're looking for, why don't you try to be the woman that those guys want? Why? Instead of trying to change, instead of trying to understand men, you're just complaining on TikTok.
I don't have that for 26. I genuinely have no idea where this year is going to take me. And I just I hope. Another woman hoping that Prince Charming would just fall from the sky magically and save her. I hope it's good. I hope it's good. Last year was a big year of growth for me and just like maturing a lot and like learning about myself and all of that.
You haven't matured, ma'am. You haven't done anything. You're still the same as last year or the year before, ma'am. That I have no idea what I want 26 to be. No idea. I feel like I'm forever a 25-year-old. Like I just feel 25 forever. 25 I really resonated with. 26 I don't think I resonate with. Hope you enjoyed this video, guys, and I'll see you on the next.