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We have always heard that masturbation is something completely natural, but to what extent? How many times a day can you engage in it without being considered addicted? What if you find yourself unable to stop? Let's explore these questions and understand why you should reconsider this act that appears normal but conceals a hidden trap for your life.
Before we begin, I'd like to apologize for the exaggerated thumbnail, but I needed to grab your attention to this modern-day issue that weakens and negatively affects young people and adult adults alike, draining us of our willpower. In this video, you will understand scientifically and philosophically what happens to our brain and what stoicism teaches us about this habit. Also, don't forget to subscribe to our Channel and turn on notifications so you don't miss anything. Now, let's get started.
Modern medicine makes it clear that masturbation is entirely natural, not only in humans but also in dogs and other mammals. But this view of masturbation as something normal wasn't always the case. In the past, masturbation was considered immoral, especially in men, because wasting reproductive potential prevented people from procreating. In the case of women, it was believed that this habit could drive them away from men by enabling them to find pleasure on their own without any external assistance. In addition to the moral burden, there was also the physical belief that masturbation caused illnesses, which led to the idea that it should be avoided entirely.
But let's focus on today. What do we truly know about masturbation, especially for men who struggle with insomnia? What we do know is that it can induce sleep. The French Institute of Health and Medical Research found that after orgasm, the male brain shuts down sexual desire. The cerebral cortex, which is responsible for conscious thought, goes into a resting state once a man reaches climax. This not only eliminates the urge for further intimacy but also makes sleep easier to achieve, which is why many men fall asleep after sexual activity.
But where does the issue lie? What exactly is the problem? Hidden within one of its so-called benefits is a trap, and if you are a regular viewer of this channel, you already know what I am referring to. Masturbation triggers the release of dopamine in your brain. This chemical is responsible for making us feel pleasure, providing relaxation, stress relief, and a feeling of reward. The release of dopamine makes the experience so enjoyable that some individuals become dependent. The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders has recognized hypersexuality disorder, placing excessive masturbation under the category of obsessive-compulsive disorders.
This is another destructive habit that not only affects the mind but also harms relationships and family life. In many cases, people lose control and become slaves to their urges, seeking validation through interactions with prostitutes, multiple sexual partners, and, as discussed in a previous video, excessive pornography consumption. These behaviors emerge as ways for a dopamine-saturated brain to chase pleasure. Take note: the addiction to masturbation stems from the chemical responses in the brain, and as the brain adapts to the excessive release of these chemicals, it starts craving more stimulation to maintain the same level of pleasure that was initially experienced. As a result, you will find yourself needing more and more stimulation to achieve the same feeling of satisfaction. Over time, this develops into a cycle where your brain demands excessive dopamine release, leading you to compulsively seek out new sources of pleasure. This addiction becomes so extreme that your brain eventually recognizes the overproduction of dopamine and starts blocking receptors as a way to regulate itself. However, this results in a situation where you engage in the act but feel nothing in return, which leads to even greater frustration.
Excessively indulging in masturbation to feed the hunger for pleasure is no different from a smoker who cannot quit, a person who eats chocolate until they feel sick, or an alcoholic who continues drinking despite the negative consequences.
At this point, you might be wondering what stoicism has to do with this. Stoic philosophers such as Seneca, Marcus Aurelius, and Epictetus were masters of self-discipline and wisdom. They had a unique perspective on pleasure and lust, drawing insights from Epicurus and the meditations of Seneca. They examined human passions in depth. Their teachings remain highly relevant today. For the Stoics, masturbation wasn't merely about physical pleasure but rather an opportunity to test the limits of the mind and body. They viewed it as an exercise in self-awareness and a path toward genuine freedom. According to their philosophy, mastery over bodily pleasures was a triumph that elevated the human spirit. Epicurus argued that true happiness does not come from endless indulgence but rather from self-control. In this context, learning to enjoy pleasure while maintaining control is what distinguishes a person who has attained a higher level of self-awareness. Instead of being ruled by our impulses, we must take charge of them, as Seneca wisely observed.
The stoic perspective on masturbation is not about repression but about understanding and self-discipline. This philosophy encourages us to channel our emotions into a journey of conscious self-exploration. True satisfaction isn't found in fleeting pleasure but in comprehending, accepting, and embracing our deeper instincts. From the stoic standpoint, every action carries consequences, not just for us but also for the balance of the universe. When we give in to intense desires like compulsive masturbation, we disrupt the natural harmony that the Stoics so deeply valued. We become prisoners of our urges, distancing ourselves from the inner peace that is so essential.
Compulsive masturbation can generate a whirlwind of negative emotions, where guilt, shame, and dissatisfaction become constant struggles. The Stoics teach us to gain control over these intense emotions through introspection and discipline. By confronting our impulses with awareness, we can learn to manage them in a healthy and constructive way. The Stoics also encourage us to seek inner peace from within ourselves. Genuine fulfillment comes from self-control and the ability to find joy in simplicity and virtue.
Let me share an inspiring personal story. I know someone who battled compulsive masturbation, turning to it as an escape and a momentary pleasure, yet facing deep regret afterward. Upon immersing themselves in stoic teachings and practicing discipline, they underwent an extraordinary transformation. By confronting their urges with mindfulness, they discovered true joy in self-mastery. Today, they live a life of balance and authenticity, liberated from the chains of fleeting desires. Real happiness comes from aligning with our deepest values and principles. When we constantly surrender to short-lived temptations, we stray from what truly matters. Compulsive masturbation can divert us from our greatest aspirations and keep us from experiencing the true fulfillment found in virtue and in truthfulness.
From the tyranny of virtue and inner peace, through meditation and mindfulness, we can cultivate the mental clarity necessary to resist temptations and navigate our emotions in a healthy way. Compulsive behaviors only hinder our mental tranquility, dragging us into regret and pulling us away from the peaceful state that comes with self-control and moderation.
My friend, what are you doing with your life? Do you truly believe that sitting at home watching explicit videos and indulging in momentary pleasure will make you more confident and successful? Do you think that wasting your energy on such activities will help you attract women? Or, if you are a woman, do you think it will help you attract men? Absolutely not. So, my friend, make the right choice and take control of your life. I want you to write in the comments: "I am a powerful individual. I control my mind. I choose actions that inspire me. I choose what helps me grow."
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