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Welcome back to Mental Groove. The last Kevin Samuels video sparked some really interesting conversations in the comments, and I love seeing how differently people take these moments. Today, we've got another clip to dive into, and I want to hear what you think about this one, too. If you're new here, don't forget to like, subscribe, and let's get into it.
>> Hello.
>> Hi.
>> Hey. How are you?
>> I'm good. How are you doing? Sorry, my hair's like kind of messy. I was like laying out.
>> No problem. How old are you?
>> I'm 29.
>> H. So what do you got on the topic?
>> So you were talking about like having a high value man and
>> well the the question I ask is why should the should the top 10 to 15% of men care what the bottom 80 to 85% of women want or say.
>> I think that they should care because it's like a difference in mindset between them and then the top 15% of women, you know. So when you start to notice um what those type of women want, it gives you more value in the top 15% of women.
>> But they don't want them.
>> Yeah. I mean, but it's like, you know,
>> No, no, no, no, no. If you were if you were a 10,
>> let me just do this. If you were a 10,
>> okay,
>> universally a 10, would you honestly care about what an average man thought? It I mean it depends on what I do.
>> No no thank you for for relationships. Why then why is it why is it different for you if you were a 10?
>> I mean because it's like it just depends on what you do. Like
>> No, it doesn't. We're talking about I'm not talking I'm not talking about celebrity guys,
>> okay?
>> I'm talking about VP of mergers and acquisition. I'm talking about the business class. But those guys cheat on their wives with the lower women.
>> But but who's the wife?
>> True.
>> See, let me tell you something. The wives don't care. The Bill Melinda Gates didn't care that Bill was cheating cuz she was the wife. And the girl that was cheating is the side chick. See, what you prove is that women don't like the double standard. You're good with being a 10 and not caring with an average guy because you know there's no way in hell you would marry him, screw him, or anything. But yet you feel as though that men should care about what average women think just because what? Cuz they have sex with them.
>> Yeah.
>> No, that just means you're an orgasm.
>> Sorry. I just think it's hilarious because basically so much time.
>> What state do you live in?
>> California. What city?
>> LA.
>> Go out driving around LA and count the number of adult the female the strip clubs that are for men and count the strip clubs that are for women.
>> There's literally I don't think there even is a women's strip club anymore.
>> Thank you.
>> There used to be one.
>> Why do you think that is?
>> Because women aren't spending money like that on men. They're looking for men to spend money on them. Men understand. First off, you don't like the fact that a man will have sex with an average woman, but he ain't going to marry her. That's what strip clubs and [ __ ] are for.
>> What about the NBA players?
>> Again, I'm not talking about I'm not talking. Okay, I need you to understand something. I need you to focus. Please,
>> please stop asking me about celebrities, entertainers, and athletes. Can you stick to the people that we are?
>> Yeah, but who can I give you an example of that? You would know.
>> Well, I don't care about them because their their world is different,
>> right? Okay.
>> They have women though at home.
>> I don't give a [ __ ] See, the problem is if you have to stick to the conversation right here, you can't win.
>> Mhm.
>> Because that's no different than me sitting around talking about Rihanna and Beyonce and Shiti. Do you know them?
>> Uh, no. I mean, I've been to their parties, but
>> Thank you. But you you paid them.
>> I didn't pay them.
>> That you get the point. Somebody paid them for you.
>> Yeah, I guess so.
>> Thank you. I'm talking about the kind of men that you would be competing with somebody else for. See, that's the You ladies don't like to stay in reality because you just want to be right. Are you married?
>> No.
>> Do you want to be married?
>> Yes.
>> Do you want children?
>> Yes.
>> Do you think your husband will be a musician, an actor, or an athlete?
>> Probably. I'm serious. Probably. Those are the men that I've dated.
>> How old are you?
>> 29.
>> No,
>> I don't know. Well, I mean, I have a I have a pretty good uh resume of dicks. Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> The book is nice.
>> Yeah. Your your [ __ ] car your your your roster of of dead dicks is is nice, but you got no wedding rings.
>> No,
>> cuz you're a side chick.
>> No, I've actually been proposed to before.
>> Uhhuh.
>> And
>> is it before or after the orgasm? I actually the funny thing is, the one guy who proposed to me I didn't have sex with him.
>> Now was this and all joking aside but
>> was this when you were in college or was this after college?
>> I was about 27
>> and like about two years ago.
>> And is he did he play professional sports or like Canadian basketball or
>> No, he played in the NBA.
>> And Okay. And if you turned him down, why?
>> Because he had seven kids with six different women
>> and I didn't want
>> You can't make this [ __ ] up. You can't make this [ __ ] up.
>> I Yeah, I didn't want to be like that.
>> So why in the hell would you You deserve what you get. That's why we laugh at women like you. I ask you if you want to be married, do you want to have kids? And what I ask you is, do you think your husband's going to be in this group of men who tend to live this lifestyle? You say yes. And that's what you openly pick for instead of going over and dating men over on the business side because here's the problem. You can't handle a man over here because you got to be more than just cute.
>> I have more than that to offer.
>> Well, then why are you why are you putting yourself in a group of men who you say do these things?
>> I I don't know. But in LA, it just seems like that's that's just everybody, you know?
>> Excuse me.
>> Like where
>> the dating scene the the dating scene is only NFL, NBA, music, and actors. That's the entire dating scene.
>> No, I mean, everybody else is like, you know, Uber drivers or, you know, Door Dash drivers. And I make a decent amount of money myself. So I It's just like I
>> Yes. I swear to God I didn't I didn't pay her. I swear to God I didn't pay her. It's like I I don't want to date somebody who makes less or does less than me.
>> What do you What did you Did you go to college?
>> Yes.
>> Where where'd you graduate from?
>> USC.
>> What do you do for a living?
>> Um TV, film.
>> What does that mean?
>> Like I'm I'm doing two movies at the end of the month.
>> Are you an actress or you front of camera, behind?
>> An actress. Yeah.
>> Okay. I make a good amount of money from what I do. Congratulations. And I go to like No, no, but but understand. No, no, no. I need you to listen. Men don't care about your money. Men pick women based upon what?
>> Their looks and what they have to offer.
>> No, their looks and their body. That's where it starts.
>> Yeah.
>> So, on a scale, how tall are you?
>> I'm 5'10".
>> Dress size?
>> About a four. How much did you weigh last time you weighed yourself?
>> 160.
>> Uh, if you had to rank yourself on a scale from 0 to 10, you can't use seven. Fresh face out of the shower, your hair, what would you give yourself?
>> Okay. And I consider a 10 to be I know you don't consider Beyonce to be a 10, okay? But I consider Beyonce to be a 10. I consider
>> Jennifer Alba to be a 10. I would rank myself at a nine.
>> In nobody's life are you a nine.
>> I especially you're a six. You're an adjustable.
>> You're a six. You're cute. You're cute. But in nobody's life are you a nine or even close to Jessica Alba or Beyonce?
>> I would say I'm a nine. I get paid for what I look like. Uh, so did so did uh
>> I've made a lot of money based upon what I look like.
>> So did Whezzy. Whezzy got paid for what she look like. Uh, Aunt Esther got paid for what she look like.
>> That's not fair.
>> It's your man. Where are your model? Where are your modeling contracts? And if you're an LA9, you should be on the cover of Cosmo. You should be you should be on the cover of People. If you're an LA9,
>> no, I mean I the maximum hot 100. Okay, that's fine. When how long? You may have a nice body,
>> but I'm saying that an a six is cute. Okay, even an adjustable six, but I'm not going to put you up there with a be I wouldn't give you better than Beyonce or Jessica. So, you're saying this? Okay, I've been I've been all over the place for saying Shiti is an adjustable six.
>> Yeah. And you're saying that you look better than I? We I I I would rank Sweetie at about an eye.
>> So you So you and her So you So you and Sweetie going to the same place to pull the same in.
>> Yeah. I just have a natural body.
>> Okay. All right. Let's keep on moving.
>> I'm trying to I'm trying to I'm trying to keep you out of this quicksand because if you then where's the husband? I
>> You said you turned down one You said you turned down one dude because he has six kids seven kids by six women.
>> Yeah.
>> All right. But you don't get approached. Do you date guys who are businessmen?
>> Yeah. I mean it's just um let's see. The last guy that I dated was a rapper. The guy before that he actually runs um a retail company.
>> Uhhuh. Um, who was before that? I don't remember. Like I'm I'm with guys like for a long time. Like I have my relationships are lasting like 2 years at the minimum. I know. I have no ring. I have no ring.
>> And that should tell you something because you're about to run smack dab into the wall at 30.
>> It's a glorious wall. And the point is, man, I think you're overvaluing yourself, but that's fine. It doesn't matter. The point is, you're still talking about men in a very small select group who have not chosen you.
>> Mhm.
>> And asking you about dating men who in the business sector, and honestly, the vibe you're giving is they're not on your level.
>> No, it's not that they're not on my level. It's just I go to different things like from my work and what I do and the events I go to. It's like how where am I supposed to meet them?
>> Oh well. All right. So, um do you are you a dog person e-harmony?
>> Are you a dog person or a cat e-harmony?
>> Are you a dog person or a cat person?
>> A dog person. I have a dog.
>> I bet you do.
>> Why would you say that?
>> Talk with dogs.
>> There's nothing. I have a whole saying, buy a dog and die alone because you're you're the same. You're talking about I go to these places and that place. Due respect, man, being in TV, film, cool. You make money, cool. But often times you ladies get it confused. You confuse your socioeconomic status as to your sexual marketplace value. Those aren't the same. There are women who make more than you, who look better than you, who go to these same places.
>> Yeah. And they're still not married to these guys because these guys aren't picking you. They're when they Who do these guys marry?
>> They tend to marry averagel looking women.
>> I'm telling you, when I see the guys with their wives, their wives.
>> And when do they And when do they marry these women?
>> When?
>> I don't know. I I have no idea. I've never really asked.
>> Oh, they marry him after the million. So, they marry him before. Oh, usually it's before the million.
>> Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. They marry him before they find a man and build him up.
>> No. Who's Excuse you?
>> Well,
>> you think those chicks you you think those chicks built those men?
>> They had to have had some some hand in it, right? Like why would you
>> mind? You think that the men just built themselves? I think behind every successful man is a strong woman.
>> If you
>> That's what that That is why you I'm just letting her go, man. This is gold. This is what she is a prototypical modern foolish woman. Who built the apartment you're standing in? Was it a crew of women or a crew of men?
>> Well, this is a house and a crew of men.
>> Who built the car you drive in? A crew of women or a crew of men? The plumbing, the heating? Who built the world you live in? We don't need
>> God is a woman.
>> And this is a fool.
>> God is a woman.
>> And this is a fool.
>> Mother Earth.
>> This is a fool.
>> Oh boy.
>> This is a fool.
>> Come on.
>> See, the thing is No, I'm being dead serious, ma'am. I tried to back I tried to back I tried to back it out, but now we're there. You're a fool.
>> You're a foolish woman. Yes, you are. Because do you think the God is a woman? Then why are you a woman.
>> Then why are you in such a [ __ ] up position?
>> What position?
>> Single.
>> That's not a bad position.
>> Really?
>> And who says I'm single?
>> Unmarried.
>> Okay.
>> Dating men who have six kids by seven kids by six women.
>> That was an ex.
>> I don't care being with somebody for two plus years. Be God is a woman. You got a problem with God.
>> No, I think that that's a good thing. Okay. I swear to God, I didn't pay her, people. I did not pay her. I did not pay her. And this
>> Why you got Why you got your comments off?
>> Uh, look, lady, I'm trying to be nice to you, but don't make me go there, okay?
>> Oh, boy.
>> Is that your child?
>> No, it's my sister.
>> I'm really trying to be nice to you. I'm really trying to be nice, but what you're showing is the the entitlement of modern women. And then when you guys start losing a conversation, you start becoming little catty girls. Bottom line is man- because bottom line, ma'am, at almost 30 years old,
>> even if you have a career, okay, you cannot get what it is you say you want, maybe the kind of men you're going after don't want who the kind of woman you are.
>> Yeah, I can I mean, I could see that, but it's just I don't go after men. Like I don't live my life to date or to find a man. That's not what I I don't live for that. So the people that I've dated are just people that I just mingled with or met multiple times, you know, hung out with, they asked me out, they pursued me, whatot,
>> but I I just don't go after
>> Cool. And that's fine. And and that ends in casual dating, having fun, sex, but then you'll almost be 30. In a few minutes, you'll be 35. Next thing you know, if you want to have children, where those kids going to come from? Do you want to have children?
>> Do you think that women living their lives to find a man?
>> Your only purpose on the planet is us. Without us, you have no purpose.
>> That's not true.
>> Really? Show me the place where women where a single solitary woman can survive without the group.
>> Where can men survive without the woman?
>> That's See, see see what happened, folks. When I asked a question she couldn't handle
>> men and women needed no we don't we don't no no no no no see what happened folks when I asked her a question she could not handle instead of being an adult and answering the question she played the little girl game I'm going to deflect and redirect answer the question answer the question before you ask me a question where
>> women dominate in a lot
>> where where can a woman survive by herself
>> in my industry in TV no no on the planet I'm not talking about in a company I'm talking about on the planet in the environment Oh, anywhere. Have you not been naked and afraid?
>> Are you out of your [ __ ] mind? Women can't even manipulate the I'm I'm going to have So, this is going to go everywhere. You don't even have the hand strength to manipulate the environment. And this is the problem. Modern women are so women are so detached.
>> Drop me and you both in a jungle and I bet you that I would survive. You'd be looking at me like, "Oh, how do I build this shack? How do I how do I start a fire? I know how to do all that stuff." survival instinct. I have that.
>> She really thinks and this then this fool really think she said something. You have no idea who you talking to.
>> No, I'm just saying
>> you have no idea who you talking to.
>> I think you're underestimating.
>> No. No. Uh-huh. Well, then see here's the funny thing is the difference between me, you have a bunch of opinions backed up in nothing except anal experience. This has already been proven out and demonstrated. Go to watch Bear Grills Island number two. Go watch Bear Girls Island number two season 2 where they dropped a bunch of women and a bunch of men on remote islands. By the end of six weeks, women had almost died four times and men had almost almost built a home. You ladies cannot survive. Ma'am, be quiet. Be be quiet. Be no better women. You are not strong enough to manipulate the environment.
>> Why do you have to open the door? Open this jar. You can't physically manipulate the environment to survive. That's women making men feel important.
>> Yeah. Let me help you out. This is a This is another one of these same old dumbass I mean, I'm serious. I I I feel bad for you, but I really don't.
>> No, it's just
>> I feel bad, but I I feel bad, but I really don't. I'm just I really didn't want that to go off the rails.
>> You can't make this [ __ ] up. That woman honestly believes that women and men are equal. And that's the problem, folks. That is their problem. Modern entitled feminist-minded woman who really sitting there saying, "Oh, men and women are equal. Drop me in the same place. Drop you." I'm sitting here like, "There's no need, no need to even combat this level of outright rampid ignorance.
>> She's completely clueless about what men actually want." And it shows. It's not even that she's doing something wrong. It's that she's never been told the truth. She thinks it's about being strong, independent, educated, successful. But never once does she stop and ask, "What does a man actually look for in a woman he wants to build with?" And the answer is simple. Peace, support, softness, loyalty, not competition, attitude, or pride. But she's been programmed to believe that her worth is in her resume, her social media, her lifestyle, not in how she treats a man, not in how she carries herself, not in how she creates peace at home. So now she's wondering why men aren't choosing her, why her relationships never last, why the good ones ghost her after a few dates, because she's showing up as everything but what men actually value. It's not her fault she didn't know, but it is her responsibility now to unlearn the lies and relearn the truth before the clock runs