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The show, keep it. It's the show. Keep it. Tell us what you want to hear when we turn up. Don't turn up. Turn around and tell a friend. It's the bougie show. The bougie show. Tell them it's the bougie show. The bougie show. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Turn up. All around the world, you're going to hear us sound up. Everywhere we go, you're going. It's the bougie show. Will you hear us? 'Cause it's the bougie show. The bougie show. Turn up. Turn up. Turn up. It's the bougie show. When you hear, "We're going live in 5, 4, 3, 2, 1." "Welcome to the Bougie Show." I am Z the DJ, and my guest in front of me is not new to the adult film industry. She's spunky and keeping it funky, representing Belleview. I thought you knew Washington State's own, ladies and gentlemen. She's team Ski, October Allstar Freak, Miss Becca Barbie is in the building.
"What's up? Meow, meow, meow, meow, meow."
Do you approve of the introduction?
I'm loving the introduction. That was crazy. How do you know I'm from Belleview?
That's called preparing for your interview. Applaud me. God damn it.
Ladies and gentlemen, we got Becca Barbie in the building. She's bubbly. Let's start from the beginning. How does one make their way from Washington State to LA?
All righty. Washington State to LA. I guess you realize you're not growing anymore in Washington, and the industry exists in LA, and so you find your way here.
Okay. All right. So, your introduction, the def—well, I want to go two different ways. So, let's start a little bit slower here. Um, you came to LA, so you were what, looking for an agency and said, "Hey, I want to get into OnlyFans modeling." How, what was the determining decision to make you say, "I'm going to become an adult performer?"
Well, the thing is, I wasn't in—
Defining decision moment, sorry.
Yes, of course. Um, I wasn't in Washington my whole life. So, it wasn't like I grew up in Washington, moved here. I actually grew up in Houston. I was born in Belleview, but I was adopted. So, I was put in the system, ended up in Houston until I was 15. My, um, dad sent me away to live in Oregon with my mom, and I basically house-hopped till I was 18. So, living in Washington was just because I was already there. I was living there, doing OnlyFans. Um, I wanted to do more, but nobody did that type of work there. So, um, I actually moved to Houston before I moved to Vegas.
Okay.
Moved to Houston for a year. Industry didn't exist out there. Um, so, one—Oh, you know what's crazy? My first scene ever for mainstream was Team Ski. It was because a friend of mine from like, before any of us did mainstream, like him or I, he had become a director for Ski. So, he goes, "Hey, Becca, come out. I'll pay you for three scenes, three days. Come do it." The second day, he goes, "You should just move in with me and live here." My lease was ending. There was nothing holding me in Houston. So, I packed up all my animals, all my stuff. I drove to Vegas, and I've been there ever since. That was two years ago.
Who was the friend?
Uh, Joshua Lewis.
Okay. So, you're in Vegas. Wait, wait. Where are you now?
I live in Vegas. I'm mostly in LA.
Okay. Okay. Okay. Why don't you just move to LA?
Too expensive.
I'm going to. I'm in the process. Originally, the idea of living in Vegas was it's cheap there, and work is in LA, but it's also in Vegas. I can work in, in Vegas, come to LA to like, do certain things, but at the end of the day, I'm paying less. I'm realizing since I'm booked more in LA that—
I'm—It's kind of defeating the purpose 'cause I spend more on Airbnbs a month than I do on my rent. So, I am in the process of moving to LA, but that's where I'm at.
Are you going to live by yourself when you come to LA?
No, I have a living pet sitter who is my best friend in the entire world. She's from Oregon, actually. And last year I realized, um, I won't lie, I got pets way too early. Had I known what life would look like, maybe I wouldn't have. But I mean, hey, it already happened. Like, they're my children. I have a dog and I have a cat. Okay.
So, uh, I texted my best friend from Oregon. I was like, "Do you want to come live with me?" And like, "You don't have to pay anything. Just wash my pets when I'm gone." And she does that for me. And it's amazing. So, she'll, she'll come.
Her blood, her—she hit a lick. Oh, wow. We were in. All I got to do is take care of a dog and a cat.
But she doesn't like, she like, she's—
She's supposed to. That's that's—
What does—What does she want to do?
Um, she wants to be a model and actress. Like—
She's got the time.
That's another reason why I brought her out. Like, our town was really small. This girl does not belong in a small town. Like, there's—the world needs to see like what she has to offer. So—
Um, Becca Barbie.
Meow.
Dude. Okay. So, your defining—that was your defining moment. Okay, cool. So, your friends and family had to say, "What about your profession?" I know you said you were adopted and—
They don't really care. I don't have, um, the most, like, my family dynamic is pretty interesting.
Structured family?
I mean, it's structured. I'm not really part of it. So, I was adopted at a young age, um, by my biological mom's ex-husband. It was kind of like a spite adoption. I'm sure he grew to love me, but like, at the end of the day, he sent me away when I was 15. We didn't talk since then, like, barely. So, it's like I don't really have anyone to report to. I'm not really close to any family. I don't have—I don't know. They know what I do. They get drunk sometimes and they're like, "We know you're okay and we're glad. We're proud of you, but like, we don't want to talk about it," and that's it. 'Cause I was also raised by guys. I was adopted into a family of all dudes. So, it's like, you don't want to talk about that.
At the same time, though, my mom was a Penthouse Pet, and my adopted father was like married to her for a while. So, he has respect for the adult industry. And so long as I like, can pay my bills at the end of the month, I'm not asking for help, I'm doing well, I seem healthy, they—no one really cares.
What about friends? Did you lose friends? 'Cause I hear a lot of performers tell me they lost friends.
No.
No? Okay.
I mean, I don't know. I won't lie, I don't really gravitate towards people that would ever have a judgment towards things like that. I—I can usually tell within like, knowing someone for a second, like where they stand judgment-wise. I gravitate towards people that are very non-judgmental. And at the end of the day, like, I've stayed very true to myself. My friends like me because I'm a kind person and I'm funny. And—
You never changed that. You—
You know that, right?
You was out here thugging in these streets. I was out here in the street. IT'S TIME TO STOP THE [ __ ]
You've been out here getting it. I mean, were you scared to come out here as a girl? Like, to be out here and especially in this industry?
No. I, ever since I was 15, I've moved every year since then. I've never been somewhere for more than a year, and I've been on my own since then. So, honestly, like, being on my own and doing my own thing is just part of life. It's not something that's like, new to me.
A comment we've been getting a lot lately. Um, "I bet your parents are so proud." And, and, and I'll intentionally leave like clapping emojis, but I'm just saying, what's your—what's Becca's, what's Becca Barbie's response to that?
My response to that is, you shouldn't really care how my parents feel. You know, like, it's just like—it's a crazy, I feel like it's a low, it's a low-hanging fruit. But why are you on this platform leaving a comment if you don't approve of this industry or whatever? I don't understand that comment. Like, brick by brick, you build your algorithm. If you're seeing hoes on OF, you like, hoes on OF, and you should just come to the realization that you like them. That's okay. Like, it's totally fine. You know what I'm saying? And it's interesting because like, all those people jerk off. So, it's like, if, if we just all, if we just all listened to that idea of like, "What we do is shameful," if you genuinely felt that way, you should genuinely, genuinely want us all to stop. And if we all stop, then what are you going to jerk it to?
Then we'll never stop pimping. Film before it stopped. Like, what?
It's been going on before we were here, and it's going to continue to go.
Dude, did you know like, one of the first forms of work is like, people would go to the temple and they would give money and then like, they would like provide and they would donate and to thank you, a beautiful woman would come out and she would service you, and that was like, so respected. But throughout the years, people have just, I don't know, learned to—
But yet, it's still the most consumed product, entertainment.
Where's supply, there's demand. Or where there's demand, there will be supply. So, just stop demanding it.
It ain't going nowhere. No, I just wanted to throw that. That's something I asked. Performer Becca Parker is joining us on the Boozy Show. Did you notify any performers besides Eden, who we didn't get? It would have been great to get both y'all.
She rock—I'm wearing your sweatpants. It's not merch. Throat star.
Did you let her know you were coming? Obviously, she knows you're coming.
I did. Of course, I told her.
Have any of your peers that you rock with, did you like reach out to them and say, "Hey, how was your experience on the show?" Or, no, you kind of—
No, I won't lie. I've watched—
You, you know, trust us.
Because I really love your videos. I—it was your Kira Perez interview. I was watching.
Oh, yeah. That was quite the character. I love her. And like, I could just, I tell while watching your videos that people feel very comfortable telling you things, and it's almost like, instead of like, so usually any podcast, you get asked a question, you have to answer. I feel like with people I've seen on your channel, they want to answer. You know what I'm saying?
'Cause they're getting interviewed. It's not just a random podcast, it's like a show. So, and—
It's humanizing the performer, but you also can tell from my side that he's not here being judgmental. It's a natural, authentic conversation. So, I'm glad that you, uh, recognized that and appreciate that. Um, did any of your ex-lovers contact you after discovering you became an adult film star?
No, I mean, all my exes knew. So, like, I guess my high school exes would have been the only ones who like, didn't know. You know what I'm saying? 'Cause I was obviously not an adult, but anyone I've dated since I was an adult, I've been doing OnlyFans and I've been doing sex work since I was an adult. So, six years. I used to do like, all the Twitter stuff before everyone like jumped on board when it was like a little weirder. I was on that stuff and I wasn't hiding it. So, everyone already knew. Like—
So, this like, during COVID, right before COVID, or when—
Yeah.
So, you were really your real goer partner? You weren't messing around.
No. And I took some hiatuses. That's why I'm probably not as big as I probably would have been had I not, um, I took a lot of breaks in between that. I had some relationships where like, they weren't as comfortable. But, um—
The, the, this, your significant other at the time wasn't as comfortable with handling your career.
Yeah. So, I had done, I had on or scenes on Pornhub, and like, the one boyfriend I had before I joined mainstream, I was on Pornhub. He was a virgin. He never even kissed a girl when I met him. Broke his nuts. Okay.
And we like, fell in love very naturally. He was amazing. Like, great guy. Um, but he knew what I did, and it wasn't, it wasn't like he shamed me into not doing it. It was more just like, "I'll be with you even though you've done that, but like, I wouldn't want you working with people." And in my brain, it was like, "I really like you. I don't need to work with other people to make money right now. I'm cool with that." So, you were just doing like, selfie, self-videos with toys and stuff like that?
I literally used to only sell photos.
Okay. Like—
And you were getting money off of that?
Yes. I've probably, in my whole career, filmed less than 20 solo videos.
Wow.
If I'm being honest.
Wow.
So, while you were dating this, this young man, you were performing, you were doing collaborations at that time?
No.
No. So, you were just, so you were just doing pictures selling?
Yeah.
And you met him, and you took his V. Mhm.
All right. And then after that—
We dated for like, a year.
And then when did your career become a problem?
It didn't. So, what became a problem is I actually, like, I was just living up in Oregon, and I realized that—
So, just to preface, these people were a year younger than me. I had graduated high school. I'd been out of high school for two years. They just graduated the year prior. So, they were starting high, like, college, doing the party stuff. I had already done the party stuff.
So, it was like, months into it, me realizing my life was at a plateau, and I just needed more. I needed more discipline. So, I called my family and I was like, "I don't know what to do. I'm at a plateau. I don't see myself going anywhere." So, I actually moved away just to better myself. And long distance is the reason why we didn't work out. It never had anything to do with my job.
Your style comes from where?
Um, I don't know. I just nowhere. That's why I don't really have style. Like, I don't know. I—my bangs are very in. Actually, no. My bangs, I had, I've always had bangs my whole life, and then I went a period without them, but like, I don't know. I just re-reverted back to my wig.
So, that's all your hair? No wig?
Yeah, no wig.
Okay. Wow. Okay.
Yeah, I get that a lot. A lot of people think I wear extensions or I wear a wig, but it's all mine.
Okay. Um, while preparing for your interview, I saw that your Twitter, I saw on your Twitter that you tweeted two pictures October 10th with the toothbrush in your mouth with the caption, quote, "Cleanly kitten, ready to suck." Cleanly. Sorry. Sorry. Sorry. Right. Cleanly kitten, ready to suck [ __ ]. What was going through your head that day?
I was on set for Mike Adriano. So, I was just in the bathroom brushing my teeth, took some selfies, and then I was on Twitter. I was like, "What do I caption this?"
Typed random [ __ ].
That's what was going through my—
October 2nd, you tweeted, quote, "I was going to ask how were you doing, but I saw you dancing when I pulled up." So now, so I think I know your response to the Uber driver.
Yeah, it was an Uber that picked me up actually from a browser set. Okay.
I was just like—
Did he realize what you were, who you were, what you had going on, his attire?
No.
No? Okay.
No, it was very normal. He was just a really nice guy, really friendly.
Okay. Um, our guest in here earlier was telling about an Uber driver pressuring her about what her career was. Have you ever had that? Okay. So, how do you handle it?
I get my headphones. I say, "One second, I'm getting a call," and I put them on.
FL. At the end of the day, like, weird people are going to be weird people. I could be like, "Why are you asking me this?" That puts me in a weird spot. I could keep talking about what I'm actually doing. That puts me in a weird spot, too.
Do men make you feel uncomfortable a lot?
Um, like when you're out and about?
Yeah, of course.
What do, what do they do that just—
Hit on me when I'm pumping my gas and literally can't leave. Like, mostly that. I don't know. Like, men—
But it's like a normal thing. It's not even like industry-related.
So, what's the best way to approach you?
Actually, a guy did it perfectly the other day. My friend threw an event, and this guy came up to me. I was in the corner on my phone alone. He came up, and originally, originally my thought was like, "I'm clearly like, walked over here to be alone. I don't appreciate you coming up and read the room, blah, blah, blah," 'cause I feel like women, it's like that just comes to us naturally. Men not so much, or they do and don't care. It doesn't matter. But he came up to me. I was like, still like being the nice person I am. I'm never like, "Gh." He came up. He's like, "Hey, I think you're beautiful. I hope you know, like, um, I'm a great dude, but like, I obviously you just met me. I can't prove this to you. I'd love if you took my number. I'm gonna head out, but if you want to text me, you can. If not, totally cool." And like, in that, he had told me his name and stuff. And like, it was just really polite. Uh, I—he made sure like, I was the one who took his number, so he didn't have mine. There was no pressure for me to give it. It was like, "Take my stuff down." And it wasn't a phone number. It was a phone number, not an Instagram, not a Snapchat.
I took it down, and he walked out. And I remember like, watching him walk out, and I was like, "That's probably the only time in my life a guy has has like, come up to me and been like—" And I was actually like, like, wanted to. Good job, young man.
Honestly, truly, yeah. It was very—
Take notes, young fellas.
For real. Very respectful.
Pressuring people. Uh—
Dude, at the end of the day, like, a girl knows she's into you like, in the first few seconds. And if you're a stranger at the bar, you can do the like, thing of like, forcing her to get to know you, but like, she's probably out at the bar to have fun. So, it's like, just like, slide your shot real quick. Let her know you're there. You think she's cute, you think she's beautiful, slide the number, leave it there.
I've never walked up to a woman and said, "I think you're beautiful." I don't know. I think it's just—
That's okay. And I mean—
I just feel like that's too much. I don't know. It's just, I guess it's just op—
I would almost say it's not. I think social media has taken like, people just. I think you should shoot your shot, but I think it should always be respectful, and it should be like, the other, you should always give the other person the power. I think if you're the dude, I think that's important.
Correct. All right. Um, glad we got that out the way so you guys can know a little bit about Becca. Don't come at her incorrectly. Yeah.
Um, so what—
Well, okay. So, I guess that's the best way to get your undivided attention. Uh, is it easier to perform with men or women on camera?
Women.
Why is that? Because you know each other's bodies?
Actually, let me re-answer. Men.
Okay.
Men, because you, like, you could be having the worst, like, fake day of your life and fake it like, half-ass, and a guy will believe it. Like, guys just want, and it, I feel like the man brain, they just want to always think they're doing good, and it's really easy for men to live in the delusion of like, "I'm doing a great job."
You can be like, over and over again, he'll be like, "Damn, I ripped that."
They can't. Oh, yeah.
They don't.
They don't pay attention to the body. And maybe that's why they don't be—
Some do. I don't want to say I wouldn't generalize it. I would say a majority of men, at least that I've come across—
Civilian men or performers?
Both.
Okay. Okay. Uh, 'cause I know Isaiah Maxwell, but he was a performer of the year 2024. He told me how much he pays attention to the woman's body.
He does. I—I worked with him recently, and I'll say he does.
Okay. Yeah. Okay.
But Isaiah's like, he's also been in the industry for a long time.
Established performer. Yeah.
And like, it's not even just the like, established. He's just, I feel like when you've worked with that many women, if you didn't know how to read their body, that would be a little bit of a red flag, you know? But I mean, that does happen.
Well said. Yeah. Well said. Um, so, wow. Um, he's one of the, well-endowed individuals. Um, is that something you were accustomed to prior to joining the industry?
Yes.
Okay. Well, men you dated, or was this just like, freelance, promiscuous type of thing?
Uh, freelance stuff.
Okay. And is that your preference?
No.
Okay. So, when you're working with Isaiah Maxwell, uh, what's another name I hear?
Oh, wait. So, the size, the preference? I thought you meant freelance.
Oh, like freelance of—
The size. I mean, maybe not a preference, but I like it.
Uh, occasionally, I heard a girl, I had a young, a performer say, she, she likes to get it once or twice on the extra on the larger side to remind herself why she don't want it all the time.
And that's hilarious. Whoever said that is hilarious.
Okay.
The reminder is crazy. I mean—
I've also noticed that as women get older, they tend to not want to get railed out by bigger jocks. If that makes, if that—I've noticed that.
I mean, I would say like, let's see, let's say I had like—
Like a Chris Diamond. Have you worked with him?
No.
Okay. All right.
Let's say I had like, every, every day for a week, I had a shoot.
If they were all really big?
I wouldn't be the happiest because like, I am going to get sore.
Okay. But it wouldn't be like, "Oh, like, I don't feel the same way as like, 'Oh, the big ones remind me of why I don't want it all the time.'"
I guess it would remind me of why I wouldn't want it every day.
Okay. Okay. But—
So, boyfriend coming home every day. What's your preference?
I think you're, I guess I don't have a preference. Like, like the ex I was telling you about, he had like a kind of small, and like, I loved having sex with him 'cause I was really like, in love with him. So, it was like, really just chemistry for me. But then I also, my last ex's was like—
Okay.
So, big that I had to take an Epsom salt bath every day. I would sit up and I would feel pain.
So, it's like—
So, how did you get accustomed to that? How did you—
I didn't. We just eventually broke up—
'Cause you couldn't, you couldn't deal with it?
Well, no, we didn't break up because of that. It was just like—
But were you, if everything else was there, and could you be with that for the rest of your life and go through?
I mean, I was in love with the dude, so yeah. Like, but then we would probably have to work around like, like, I don't know, 'cause also your first few months dating someone, you're [ __ ] a lot more than you are throughout the rest of it. You know what I'm saying?
We posted a, a reel, uh, right before we flew out to California, um, with Nadia J, and she was talking about, um, particularly on Facebook, it went viral. It's like 800,000 people watched it, right? And a lot, and, and men had things, "Well, why are you a performer? That's what your job is," etc., etc. And then other men were on there like, "No, that you work it slow, and then you can go." She was talking about the jackrabbit. Have you experienced that?
And how do you deal with? Do you prefer that?
Even with your ex-boyfriend that you said was well-endowed, did he jackrabbit you a lot?
No. Because I will tell you right now, the only guys that have jackrabbited me have been guys with small—
Like, when a guy has a big—
So, then it doesn't bother you.
No. Yeah. Exactly. Like, the jackrabbit never hurts. Like—
'Cause I feel like the jackrabbit is kind of to make up for the fact that you—
Oh.
And that's fine. You know what I'm saying? But like, all the people I've had sex with with big, they kind of already understand like the effect that you're having. Like, there's really no like—
Why would you do that?
Right. Right.
Barbie. Um, do you prefer, speaking of Mrs. Um, do you prefer a hoodie or a bearback?
I have no preference.
Okay. There's no preference.
Sometimes I can't even tell.
Have you done backdoor activity?
No.
Okay. All right. I hear that backdoor from the 120 plus.
Dude, my [ __ ] is so tight that when I get tested and have to do like the thing in the butt, the little thing, sometimes the, the cotton like comes out.
Wait, what are you testing?
Like, it's caught in my butt. Like, 'cause we get tested every two weeks.
Right. Every 14 days. I got that. What are you testing the beehole for? The butthole. Well, so you test for rectal chlamydia and rectal gonorrhea. So when you go and get tested, you pee in a cup, you get your blood drawn, and you put a Q-tip up your butt and you take it out. But when I put it up and take it out, sometimes it gets caught in my butthole and I have to take it out.
But why, if you're not doing any backdoor activities, what are you testing for it?
I mean, 'cause at the end of the day, like, let's say you're having sex and like, the liquid drops to the—
Oh, okay. Gotcha. Gotcha. Makes sense. Makes sense. Makes sense. Didn't think about that. Okay. The sacrifices you guys. I was telling—
And also, also, let's say I didn't, I, there, no one knows for sure. I don't do back door. So like, a mainstream set wouldn't take a test. I didn't get tested for that just 'cause my word 'cause I said I don't do. What if I'm a secret analoy? What if I'm having every day and I don't even know it?
Off the clock, right? Have you done it off the clock in your life?
No, I've tried. I tried, um—
It just like felt painful.
Mhm. Can't imagine.
No, I can't imagine, actually. Let me take it back.
It is time to stop this.
Oh, so flip that. We'll, we'll, we'll do one more. Uh, well, we'll, we'll finish this up. So far, so far in your early career, have you had a talent use their—
PP as a weapon?
Huh?
Okay. The, it's like, have they—
As a weapon?
Yeah. Like, no regards for you, just trying to tear you up.
Oh, yeah. One time I collabed with a dude. It was like, my first collab ever, actually, back in 2020.
Okay.
And I'd never, I'd never collabed with a dude in my life, and like—
It's your first collaboration with a guy?
Yes.
Okay. His was really big.
Okay.
So, why did you pick that as your first option?
Because he had reached out to me, and he had a lot of followers, and he was someone that I was physically attracted to, and it just like, made sense.
Was this an OnlyFans model or an actual—
It was actually the guy that I ended up dating years later. But he does porn.
But he [ __ ] me for seven hours to the point where I would try, seven hours.
I'm not joking. It—
Was an injection? I don't know. Need to take home.
But listen, to the point where I couldn't even make, like, my face muscles were so tired when I smiled, like, open my mouth like this, it looked like this.
I'm not even joking. That's not a joke at all. Like, my face is like this 'cause my muscles were so tired. But I—it was my first collab ever. I didn't like—
So, what did he do to you? What did he do to you?
Me for seven hours? No.
So, you use—that's use it as a weapon, is it? So, you didn't stop. Why did you stop him? Are you just a natural?
Well, because it was my first collab, and like, in my brain, I was like, "This must just be how it is." So, like, I just need to like—
So, he, he would finish and just come right back in it?
I don't know. Like, what do you mean?
Like, finish, get his rocks off, and then—
Dude, I don't even, I don't even remember.
Wow.
I would—wow.
Dude, I just, yeah. I remember looking at the time and being like—
You still speak with him?
No.
Oh, okay. Well, like—
If you hit your line right now and say, "Let's get down."
He actually hit me up the other day. That's why I was like, 'cause I did reply, but like, not in a way that would like, continue the conversation.
What did he hit you up for?
Uh, he's, he sent me a, a photo of a song that I like, that like everyone likes, and he, the c—and then the text said, "Your [ __ ] is playing in Hungary."
Okay.
And I didn't have the number saved anymore 'cause we broke up like a year ago, and I got a new phone. So, I was like, "Who's this?" And then it was just a photo of like, me sitting on his lap, and I was like, "Okay, that was it."
And you responded with—
I responded with a—
Oh, okay. So, he, he can't get them goodies no more, huh?
No. Well, he replied with something else, and I just hard-ed it.
So, he can't get them goodies no more. It's fair to say that.
[ __ ] no.
Okay. Okay. Your, is that makeup you put on to make the little button on your nose like that? That's dope. I like that. Um, okay.
Um, what sexual acts have found their way on your no checklist? So, I know you said you don't do backdoor, meaning you attempted something and you didn't enjoy the experience and you said, "I'm not going to do that anymore."
Yeah. And the thing is, like, I could see myself doing one day. Um, I just wanted it to be something that I try in my, like, normal life on my own terms before I ever profit from—
What acts though, have you done already that you said, "Uh, not for me?"
That I've done already that aren't for me?
Or you said, "I'm not going to continue to do that in the future."
I can't think of any. Still out here. Have any performers got placed on your no checklist? Um, based off of the reviews from another performer, that one of your peers, that their experience of collaborating with them, you said, "You know what? I'm not going to go that route."
Oh, yeah.
Okay. What was the reason? You don't have to say the performer, but what was the reason?
Yeah. I mean, friends of mine that have like exes that have like done something really nasty to them. Like—
So, performers they dated? Performers they've dated? For example, like, like their exes would like, girls with condoms 'cause the girls weren't tested, but then they would lie saying they always make sure girls are tested, but they only found out that they weren't like, using a condom 'cause they found it. You know what I'm saying? I'm not going to work with you if that's the case.
That's a lot. Do you recommend to performers out there that's just coming in to date another performer? Like, is that something that you will continue to do, just based off the experience you have now?
I mean, so I'm kind of conflicted with the answer. For me, I personally, at this point in time, would not date another performer. That being said, the most healthiest relationships and long-term relationships I've been around and existed—
Somebody that's in your world.
Have been industry people. So, I think it can work. I think that you need to expect things to be really hard for a second. I think if you have really good communication, and if you're an honest person, and you have handled all of your internal [ __ ] and you have two of those people, I think it totally works. That being said, not people don't just join the industry because life's going perfectly. You know what I'm saying? So, you have a lot of people that usually have very like, interesting lives and upbringings, and obviously what comes with that is interesting ways of thinking and being and coping. And shoving those people in a relationship before they're healed, I mean, you're asking for something to happen. But when you do end up being healed, you can become the healthiest type of person because you went through that. Finding two of those people can be beautiful. Uh, a Hall of Fame performer, J-Mack, he's married. Um, for a woman to handle it, um, where most men couldn't handle the woman being the performer.
How do, what do you think the mindset like for her not to speak on that relationship? Before a woman, like even Peter Green was another performer. He was—what do you think? How can the woman handle it and the man can't?
Well, the thing is, I don't think it's, I don't think it's just that women can handle it and men can't. I think some women can handle it and some men can't. I wouldn't really generalize it. And so the thing is, with that one ex, I wasn't working with other people, but he was. And I was cool with it because I was making more money, like having the promotion from him 'cause he was a very like, well-known performer.
Um, and I was comfortable because—
The relationship we had, I really genuinely did trust him. So him working with other people, I didn't feel some type of way about it. And that's just how it was. Like, I love him, and I do this job, so I obviously understand how—
That's saying you're a performer. His wife is not. So, if you're like a civilian—
Well, I, I honestly couldn't really speak for her.
I really, I really wouldn't even know, to be honest.
Yeah. I honestly never even thought about that.
Do you, do you have, have you met women that have like, the male performers? Do you know, have they attempted to date civilian women and it not work out?
Yes.
And what do they say the main reasons? Because of what they do?
Because the—Okay. So, it's funny you say that. A close friend of mine had that situation happen, and it didn't work out because the girl just like, didn't trust him and didn't trust that he wasn't being flirty with the girls he was working with, but he was being flirty with them. So, she was right. So, it's like—
Well, what if he's being, okay, but he's already being intimate with them. So, I don't understand.
Flirty is different. So, for example, when I showed up to shoot with Isaiah Maxwell, he has a partner. He was very professional. I walked in, he was so kind to me. We had intimacy, you know, he let me know that I looked good. But I've had collabs where I walk in, and the guy had no camera on, nothing, hot as [ __ ] touching me off camera, getting all on me, like, [ __ ] that you wouldn't want your man doing.
They allow them to do that? Or is that—
They do it themselves? That's like, collabs. Like, men just do that. You know what I'm saying?
No, I totally understand. And so Isaiah's dating now. He's in a committed relationship. 'Cause last time I interviewed him last year, he was, he was telling me he would date.
Well, I mean, so I'm happy for him. That's—
Maybe it's not like, um, solidified. All I know is when we did Urban X, there was like, a beautiful woman with him, and like, I'm pretty sure it was his partner. I could be remembering wrong, but—
Shout out player.
I mean, and even if it isn't his partner, he was still like, very respectful in the way that you—
But some guys are. And also, another thing is, some guys are only in the industry because they want to get laid so bad. So then you date someone outside of the industry, his motives are still going to be the same. You're not going to change that.
That is correct. Um, a performer in Miami, she was new to the game, and she said that how she said that OnlyFans messed up the industry because you got so many guys out here that aren't actually here to be performers. They just want to get their rocks off.
Do you, okay, so what, how do you weave through that? How do you find out who's the real performers and—
I, well, I only collab with people that I know personally and well. So, I don't like collab with people who just reach out to me on the internet. Like, even Isaiah, I didn't collab with him till we'd already met. Like—
Oh, you did a collab. Wasn't a production, like a browser set or something?
Oh, no. We just did a collab.
Okay. Okay. Okay. So, when a performer DMs you, what are you looking for? Um, when you're considering a collaboration?
I have to know you. I—I'll tell them. I'll be like, "Hey, I love your work. It looks great." That being said, I really only work with people I know well. I find that my chemistry does better there. If we ever get booked for a mainstream scene together, I'd love to meet you, and then we can discuss something. I—I'd love to see you at AVN, but I—I won't just like, schedule a collab with someone 'cause they message me on Instagram.
What, what makes a performer's content look good, or what you consider high level?
Um, well, the thing is, like, you know how to [ __ ], but you need to know how to [ __ ] knowing there's a camera in the room. So, if your lighting is good, if you're not hiding the girl's face, if I watch your video, I can see her face, both her holes, and your, your face is a plus. But if I can at least see those two things, that's good.
Why would you show the woman? Wouldn't a woman's face be the most important thing besides the—
Pen. That's why that's why I'm saying her face, the penetration, him and his face would be a plus, but it doesn't need to be there. So, if I watch a video and let's say it's the guy just [ __ ] the [ __ ] out of a girl, but it's from some weird angle, you can't even see the penetration. I can tell he just wants to [ __ ] that girl, and he has a camera there, and that's his reason he gets to [ __ ] her. You know what I'm saying? So, then I'm not going to work with you 'cause clearly you didn't get—Nade Nasty, for example, you watch his stuff, great lighting, great outfits. He's always opened up to the camera. He always has the girl's face in the most flattering way. Those are the people I want to work with. Correct. At the same time, I have to meet you first.
Well said. Well said. You got your, you ain't no rookie on this block. You've been around. Um, you, how you working out? Stomach on flat, flat. I can look at them like—
I don't work out.
You have hips or is those just really baggy?
I have big hips. I have very big hips. Childbearing some things.
Got to love the hips, dog. I love the hips. Hips don't come off. Especially in California, they just be looking like, uh, lattes, no bras, sweatpants. You don't really get to see, like, we're in Miami, you get to see everything. You know what I mean?
Miami girls are a little bit different. That's why I can't go there. I'll go out like this, I'll go, "Spat on." I'm like—
Damn.
So, you don't exercise?
I mean, basic [ __ ]. I like, do cardio, but I'm not like, in, like, I don't know how any of the machines at the gym work.
You go to a public gym?
I have an apartment gym.
Okay. So, you have—
I actually have a Planet Fitness membership, too. If I'm like, out of town, I'll go there. What's wrong with Planet Fitness?
IT IS TIME to stop the [ __ ]
I'm an LA Fitness guy.
Purple in. Oh, I love LA Fitness, too.
But at some point, how long you think you're going to be able to do public gyms before are you, you know, popularity? How do you, how do you deal with stalkers or getting recognized? You can answer both of them.
Um, stalkers, if it's real bad, I move.
Damn. Move? What do you mean move? Like, I had a guy one time be like, "Hey, I'm, my OnlyFans." He was like, "I'm a big fan. If you ever want to see me, look outside of your window. I live in the apartment across the courtyard."
That's crazy.
It is time to stop.
And you responded, "How?"
Uh, I didn't. I—
What's the reply going to do, dog? Trigger him or make him come over? Like, I'm good.
And then, have you got recognized in public for—
Yeah. I mean, if people are polite, I'm all for it. I don't care. At the end of the day, like, do, if you approach me with kindness and I don't feel like you're about to hurt me, whatever. And like, a lot, most of the time, what it is, is people will message me after and they'll be like, "Oh my god, I just saw you at the mall." And that's the, I almost wish you would just come say hi.
That's that, I hear that a lot. Maybe it's just a, uh, comfortable. Okay.
I—I really don't care, and mainly because I haven't had bad interactions really in person with my fans. They've all really been respectful.
What do you think that most of your audience enjoy about your content the most?
That I'm weird. I like, I'm a very like—
You're a good weird. And weird meaning different, or weird meaning I do weird things that most women or adult dope performers don't participate in?
Like, I remember one time, like—
I like, did a video where I like, got on all fours, like on the back, like this, like a demon, and I was like, and I was like, crawling.
towards the camera and they love that. I don't know. They just like appreciate me. I think I think the bangs is what brings a lot of people in. A lot of people have like the bang thing and so they'll get drawn to my face and my bangs because bangs for some reason just really make people remember you. I guess I don't know because before I had bangs, no one gave a [ __ ].
But but I think that gets them in and I think I keep them just by being weird and I'm also very authentic. Like I really care about my fans and I love to engage with them and I'm genuinely like I don't know I think very highly of them. I haven't always.
What is the the the craziest request you get on your only fans? Like as far as um.
It's a [ __ ] and stuff. Scat. Yeah. Oh, no. You do that. No. Okay, good. Thank you. Um. Not my thing. Hey, if you do that, that's. It's disgusting. No, it's disgusting. If they somebody if a porn I shut them down like please, you don't need to elaborate. Uh okay, so is there ones that where you'd be like, "Okay, I'm going to do it." But that was a crazy request. Like I had one girl uh he wanted to lay in the tub. He she said I charge her $1,000 to lay in put uh oil all over my body. I don't know. Um.
I do that for free every day. You do that for free? Okay. Yo, if you pay for that, hit me up right now. I'm so serious. Why.
You ever had to put objects up in there that they ask you to like pay you to? Like I've had pickles. Um.
No. Lily Bell told me um lemons uh something up like that. Uh. I mean like the only. The only one I can think of is like fans wanting me to smoke cigarettes and send them videos of me smoking cigarettes.
You don't smoke cigarettes? You smoke marijuana? I've smoked cigarettes before. Like I'm not like against smoking a cigar. Are you a marijuana consumer? Yeah, I smoke every day. Okay. Are you you smoke with rap? You smoke in bongs? You.
I have a bong and I also like joints. I'm not my bong. No, I get cones and I pour that [ __ ] in there. Okay. Listen up. IT IS TIME TO STOP the [ __ ]. None of these guys you be around teach you how to roll some reefer. I don't like to smoke around dudes. They get weird. I like to smoke by myself and watch YouTube.
What about drinking? I don't drink. Okay. Okay. Um, your overall goal, Becky. Becca Barbie, your overall goal as a performer is.
I don't really have a goal. Well, you know what? My ultimate goal as a performer is create content that allows me to have fun, tap into my creative mind that also makes people either laugh or come or both or be happy. And I just hope that while I'm doing that, all of the people on that set or that are a part of it have a great time. And then I hope I get money to go travel the world from it. That's really it.
When you smoke, um, do you drink water with it? You get dry mouth. Yeah. Yeah. Well, I drink water. I drink water. When you smoke, do you drink the water with it? Cuz I get dry mouth. I was telling him that. He was like, "I can't do it. It messes with my throat." Yeah. I mean, I get dry mouth, too. So, you don't keep up all the water with you when you smoke? I drink a lot of coconut water. I'm like usually very hydrated. I quit drinking 5 months ago and like every.
Drinking alcohol. Yeah. Oh. And so like a coconut. What was the game changer? Massive hangover. You just something I mean I get really like. I won't lie, I I started realizing that I get really angry and like. When I'm drunk and I just I'm no fun to be around. Just a I just become a version of myself that I don't even recognize when I'm sober. So it's like.
I'm glad you said that. Is that off white liquor or dark liquor? All liquor. Okay. Okay. Yeah. So, it's not that cuz some some people like get a fool on dark liquor, but white liquor they they light pink, purple liquor. Anything. It's so funny cuz Allan Iverson probably after your time, he said that he hasn't drank. He's an NBA professional Hall of Fame basketball player. He says he hasn't drunk in 6 months because of people telling him how much more they like him when he doesn't drink. So, he stopped.
Well, and another big reason I stopped is my friend had to like come over one night and we had had like unresolved issues. Long story short, and it was his birthday. I just went off on him and I made him cry on his birthday.
Well, no. That's the thing is like the truth. Yes. I believe for some people the truth comes out when you drink. Yeah. For some people you just speak delusionally. So I would say things that I never meant. A thought I could never formulate. But it was like me getting drunk and just taking out my anger on maybe people from years ago or maybe trauma that I had that I never dealt with. Me taking it out on whoever was there. It wasn't just because like.
You be snapping on people. I I used to. Yes. And And if you ask Cut that. Delete that, bro.
Uh, okay. Um, now that you're talking about that, because um, well, first, did I actually ask you what they most appreciate about your content the most, right? Okay. So, now vagina maintenance. How do you make sure your kitty cat like say working with Isaiah Maxwell, how do you make sure your kitty cat gets its primary care after a hardcore scene spec especially?
So, before the scene, you always want to like douche. So, I have a douche. I don't I never use like the solution that's in it. It's not good for you. I'll pour it out. I'll put water in it. Um so I'll douche before the scene just to clean myself out. I'll do the scene. If it's like stuff like oil, if we use oil, lube, whatever, usually I'll always douche after. Boric acid is your best friend. So after like put a boric acid in before you go to bed. That like cleans you out. Also just make sure like making sure that your diet is good that you aren't like using lubricants that like give you a bad reaction. Yeah, pretty simple stuff. Boric acid.
Do you get swelling? Do you get swollen a little bit? No. Yeah. I mean like if I if I'm having sex for a long time with a big Yeah, I'll get swollen. EP Epsom salt. Epsom salt for that. I also heard aloe. So. I'm like aloe is pretty good for everything. I believe that. I believe that for sure. I just haven't.
Um I want to ask you something since we're and you're very transparent. You feel very comfortable talking about pretty much everything that that we've spoken on. I want to talk about a Lily Bell tweet. Um, and I will be asking all guests this event. Um, she tweeted August 28, 2025. She tweeted, "Some get into this industry because you hate your ex. You want them to suffer seeing your but you need to be ready for when that anger fizzles out and the reality sets in. Are you really ready to be doing this job and taking DICK? Think it through? Cuz anger only lasts so long." Your response, not even response, your thoughts.
I think Amen. Um, yeah, I think that's very true. I think that a lot of people do a lot of things to make someone else feel some type of way. I think the sex industry is not something that should ever be involved in that because at the end of the day, I love what I do and I don't think I should be ashamed for it. That being said.
If I were to decide right now to be a lawyer, I couldn't. You know what I'm saying? And I know I don't want to do that because I spent a long a long time. But if you had the qualifications, why couldn't you do it? You're not kidding me. You're not committing criminal activities. You're not. Yes. But it's just the reality of the world. You know what I'm saying? If I fought hard enough, I'm sure I could. It's just being a realist. Uh, so I think she's right. I think a lot of people join the industry on a whim. Whether it's to make some impression on the people who doubted you, to make that ex upset, whatever it is. I think she's correct in the sense that yeah, that anger does fade away. And then what?
How far did you go in school? I went to college. I. What did you major? Uh, I majored in psychology. Interesting. Yeah. Started Well, actually started in psychology, ended in business. And you don't want to pursue any of those careers? No. I mean, my thing is I don't see life as something I don't want to work until I die. All I know all I know is my life purpose is to travel the world, meet as many people as I can, indulge in every culture I can, learn every perspective. That's that's what makes me happy. That's what fuels my soul. I don't know when I'm going to die. I don't know anything. Okay, I don't even know if tomorrow is promised. This is just a service that I can do that I have fun doing that has introduced me to so many amazing people that also puts money in my account to do the things I want to do.
Do you think people do you think people are racist because of the color of somebody's skin or the culture? Because I think the more culture you have. I think people are either racist because they were raised to be racist. People are always a victim of circumstance at the end of the day. And it's interesting because the guy that adopted me, you could argue that he's racist and I go back and forth with him all the time, but at some point I had to realize he was raised he's a first generation German and he was raised. Oh [ __ ]. By. Germans. You know what I'm saying? So I don't think at the end of the day you really have it click in your brain what racism is, how it affects others, and then get to decide. I think you're raised believing a certain thing and I think it gets to a certain point where people realize that but it's hard to change when everyone expects you to think a certain way so you double down on it. I think people are racist for different reasons for sure.
That was just a that wasn't even on my uh questions. I just wanted to throw that at you cuz you were talking about broadening your horizons and experiencing all these cultures and I I think that that's a cure to a lot of things because I think racism is is the most ignorant [ __ ] you can be. is and that's another thing is I feel like experience is what makes you understand people. Anyone any type of person I've ever judged once I came in contact with someone in that area and like spoken to them. I've always come to an understanding that like I was being very ignorant and a lot of people don't even get the chance to believe that.
Well, yeah, they that's why life you got to keep growing. You can't just stay um. That's all and and that's another thing is I feel like a lot of people are raised in environments where they're like maybe like I don't know expressing that you're growing can feel like expressing that you're wrong to some people. So they don't even want to express that like oh I'm going to change my way of thinking because they don't want everyone judging them for the former way that they thought. You know what I'm saying? So it's easy to double down on it and just lock in and like I don't give a [ __ ] This is how I think. Right. Right. Right. Um, what do you spend your money on? Traveling. Traveling my friends. I spend a lot of money on my friends. Wow. Um, all right. We'll get a little freaky talk. What's the horniest thing a man has done in your presence?
The horniest thing a man did in my presence? Um, we were actually filming a scene for Browsers and we were doing the pop shot and he was like trying to prepare to nut and he was like on the floor like just doing his thing like looking at boobs and stuff and he looks at me, he goes, "I'm sorry. Give me your foot." I put my foot in his lap. 2 seconds later he's ready. Like it was the horniest thing I'd ever seen. He genuinely loved feet. It rocked.
Do you have Do you um have you felt the difference when there's an injection and when there's natural? Yeah. When there's injections, the is a lot harder and stiffer. Do you prefer it THAT WAY? COMFORTABLE? NO. IT IS TIME to stop. Hard rock. That sound is hilarious. For real. It is time to stop the [ __ ]. Stop the [ __ ]. Stop injecting your drink. You can do it. But they need Don't they Don't they need it because you have to stop. Go do pictures. Come over here. Move locations. You want to be able to That's I interviewed Peter Fitzwell, an older guy, and he explained to me that's why he uses the Trix.
You know what? And here's the thing. I think it makes sense for older men. Yes. It's the younger men that do it that I'm like, maybe you should try not to first. I think it's a lot of brain power. And I think if you're a young man, like you need to understand that there's effects to doing this stuff for a very long time. And if you're an older dude, like that shit's not going to affect you because like you're not going to be doing it for 50 more years. Do you know what I'm saying? But if you're in your if you just turned 18 and you're immediately shooting it up, like do your thing. And and you know, it's probably not even my place to even say anything about it, but in my opinion, if I had like a male friend join the industry and he's like 20, I'd be like, try to try to lock into that brain power first cuz you can't.
What about Viagra? Is it still the same effect as the injection or. It doesn't do the dick stiff thing. Okay. But it. But it just keeps you hard. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. Um, what is Becca Barbie's go-to meal after filming? Oh, I love Greek food after filming. And anytime you're on a set when they order like lunch and stuff, I love when they order like Mediterranean cuz it just like makes you it doesn't make you feel like. Like heavy. You know what I'm saying? It's like the rice, the lettuce, the cucumbers, like I'll get like the chicken and it's just like a light but like still filling thing and it makes me feel amazing.
You ever thought about food while you're getting pounded? [ __ ] yeah. Yeah. Usually every time. Cuz they'll order the food and then it'll be there and I'll be like. Hurry up. And then they're like two more positions. I'm like. I want to eat. You smell the [ __ ] too, right? That's got to be tough. Of course I do. Do you think the male performers try to hurt and finish it too or are they more focused on being in the box? They just want to nut and the male performers will eat the food when it arrives. I just eat at the end cuz I don't want to get bloated. Exactly. But they're they're chowing down. They don't give a [ __ ] digesting in their body as I'm yearning for mine.
I can only imagine what you and Eden talk about. Eden. Okay. I'm way less like. Yeah. Whatever energy you're getting from me, I'm less that around Eden because she's significantly funnier than me. like like I don't do dude. She's so funny and she always like has like the craziest things to say and the best ways to and you could tell she doesn't even think she's like doing anything and I'm like rolling on the ground like like about to like damn near throw up. Oh god. Oh my gosh, that girl is hilarious.
The if if Becca Barbie could chop it chop it up with a known figure from another industry, who would that be and why? Another figure from a different industry. Yes. Like maybe like Katy Perry. Katy Perry. So you would want to you would want to have a conversation. I don't know if she went to space for real. Oh that would be the first question. Space. I won't lie. That would be the first question you ask her. Probably. And then probably like how was it filming the California girls music video? Okay. Okay. The mantra slogan you live by. Oh. Um. Oh, okay. Yes. What is it? It's what is it? Hold on. I guess like one would just be like treat others how you want to be treated. Like I know that's a really cliche one, but it's so true. Like. No, it's a it's a. In every moment and and I mean it even in moments when you're so upset and you have every reason not to be nice. You need to understand that the person standing in front of you could be having the worst day of their life and you just have to be able to like handle that. Like I don't know.
I try to remember that because when like when I'm driving and I got to get somewhere and then I see some and they just being very casual and I'm like and I hit the horn on them and I look at them, they just be looking lost and I be like, "Man, you don't know if that person lost their mother. You don't. 100%. That's the thing. But I now remember what the other one was is like you help yourself by helping others. That's what I live by. Like I firmly believe that like the best way that you can be kind to yourself is to be kind to other people. And I'm not saying in jeopardy of yourself. Like if you're if if choosing to be kind is going to hurt you. I'm not saying to choose to be kind, but I'm saying like I don't know.
But they say how you treat somebody when you don't need them says a lot. 100%. And like you were saying about like people not knowing like if that person's having the worst day of their life. Like at the end of the day, like let's say you run across someone and they like cut you off in the road and they're flipping you off and they're honking their horn and you're like, "Damn, like [ __ ] you. You're a dick. Right?" Okay. Well, you don't know if that person just got the call that like their mother passed away and then on the way here they hit their car on the wall and then they ran over someone's cat and now they're [ __ ] pissed. They're running late to work, a work a job that they're not respected at. And like. And and instead of like bitching them out and honking your horn, actually, it's so funny. I saw a video the other day of this woman. and she rolled her window down to this dude and he's flipping her off. She's like, "Why did you cut me off?" And they're at a red light and he's like, "Fuck you." blah blah blah. She goes, "Seriously, I'm asking why." He's like, "My girlfriend [ __ ] cheated on me. [ __ ] THAT BITCH." SO SHE GOES, SHE GOES, "FUCK THAT BITCH." AND HE WAS LIKE, "YEAH." And she was like, "I get it. I get why you're mad, bro. You speed. [ __ ] that bitch." He goes, "You know what? Thank you. [ __ ] that bitch." And they both just had this bonding moment. And then they both like pulled out like from the red light calm as [ __ ]. And it was like what could have happened is she could have been like [ __ ] you and then it could have turned into a [ __ ] door and then you're getting out of your car hitting them like. No, you don't want to do that. But you got to give people grace dog. Like anytime you see you have a judgment about someone doing something like you know you don't agree with just think to yourself if I was having the worst day of my life like you just treat that person as if they were doing that I guess. I don't know.
End goal for Becca Barbie. Huh? End goal for Becca Barbie. My end goal, dude. Like, my end goal is after my death, when people speak about me, it will be about the kind things I did and like the ways that I made people laugh and the positive impact I had. I mean, that's literally it. I want to travel. I want to see a lot. I want to meet a lot of people. And I hope that my existence doesn't burden any.
You travel alone? Yeah. Okay. You're not scared. I spent a lot of time. I've spent most of my life alone. So, it's like not really like. Just a woman just these days. All right. It's time for our. System ready. Let's go. It's time to nip it in the bud. On the bougie show. What does What about the adult film industry does Becca Barbie feel needs to be nipped in the bud? What about the adult and agents [ __ ] their agents [ __ ] their clients.
That still exists? I mean, I guess it never stops. I only know one agent in the industry that doesn't. I I just saw I just saw Riley from Hussie at the airport yesterday when when we landed in the bathroom. Oh, really? And and I said something to him. I was like, "What's up, man?" He knew I was and he was like, "That's my agent." Yeah. He's very introvert. And I'm like, but he does he does films. I mean, he does he's a performer. And I respect Riley, don't get me wrong. I just personally still do stand on the fact that it's just not good to mix it. Right. Right. You know. Well, now you kind of meant he's a he's in front of the camera, so he's out there. You're talking about the ones that I'm including Riley in that, too. It's fine. Like, I'm not saying he's a bad person. I got you. I got you. Business is business. And. Yeah. I just think you shouldn't. Yeah. I can understand it. I can understand it. It's just it is that would that be equivalent to like me being around all these dope peril performers and then I because they think that I sleep with all you guys or most of them but they don't quite understand it's business and it's work. Yeah. Um, like if the c I would never do that. I have no desire to do that but I think it would mess up business by doing it. 100%. And like at the end of the day like guys get really weird about being rejected. But I think you guys are socially conditioned to like y'all are socially conditioned that way for sure. And this era, not not for my era. Well, yeah. Like this era for sure. More player. But I feel like when there's like agents [ __ ] their talent, let's say the talent just genuinely doesn't want to do it. But now it's like quit proquo. Like you do it, you get more gigs, you don't you get less gigs. And I'm not saying that it happens. I'm not saying it doesn't. I'm just saying the possibility is there. The room is there to allow it to, the potential. So you just shouldn't do it. Kimmy Kim. Kimmy Kim when she started, we interviewed her in 2023. She stated to me that she had an agent and her agent even said to her like, "Lily, I've got money. I'm a white guy. You should want to be with me." And she said it literally on camera. Um, and uh, she didn't go that route. So, yeah. So, I can only nip in the butt. Weirdos being agents. What are you doing? There should be a qualification. You have to get a license. Everything. There should just be something. Like, do you know how many random people just want to run My Only Fans? They don't know anything. Like, people just want to boss girls around. Like, that's literally it. They just want to have power over sexually empowered women. That's literally it. Oh, yeah. Um, all right, Becca Barbie, we're going to start moment of truth. Moment of truth is when I state things. If what I state is true, you say true. If it's false, you say false. And you can elaborate on it. If it's something you choose not to answer, you can say pass. Okay.
Most men prefer the bush. I don't know. Okay. I I genuinely That one I'm actually very in the middle about. I don't know. Okay. Do you I I I don't haven't watched your content besides sitting your Twitter preparing for your interview. Do you keep. Please go ahead. Dude. Okay. So, for a while I was all about the clean shave. I thought that's what guys wanted. So, I got laser. Okay. Now, I want to grow a bush more than anything. Do you know how hard it is to grow a bush when you've had only a few rounds of laser and your hair is growing back uneven and not fast enough? Wow. So, it's like at first I thought guys wanted a the clean shave, but now I'm like, but guys like the bush a lot. Yeah. So, I don't know. That's why I said I don't know. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. All right.
Excuse me. Your visits to the gynecologist hit different these days. False. Still the same. What's a gynecologist? Okay. So, what inspired that? There was a performer I interviewed. She only did really only fans, but her whole thing was little white girl getting rammed by big BBC's, right? And her husband being there filming it. And she said her trip to the gynecologist, the gynecologist came back up after winning down there visiting and said, "Whoa." Cuz her it's open and it has not closed back. Yes. I swear. For me, it's the dentist cuz they can see that in the back of my. Jesus Christ. Bruises. You get bruising. You get bruising. Bruising. In the back of your teeth. Oh, so they're. If you go to the dentist, even within a week of sucking, they can tell. And they can tell if you're deep threatening that [ __ ] TOO. HOW? Cuz of the. It bruises. Why do they have to go so far back? Or is it you attack you going you going down on it harder? When a girl sucks your dick, do you want it this far in her mouth or do you want that [ __ ] as far as she can get it? Gotcha. Gotcha. What are we talking about here?
You've had a talent. Ignore your double tap. I don't double tap. I'll I'm very vocal. You'll say what? Cut. Stop. Cut. Stop. But I won't lie. I've never done it. You never You have You've wanted to tap out, but you've never done it. No, I've always been good. I'm I have like a lot of stamina and like I can take pretty much anything. Usually it's the people stopping. They're like, "Are you good?" I'm like, "Yes, keep rolling." Like I'm They're like, "Are you fine?" "Yes, please. But it's nice that they're like attentive cuz some people do not want to speak up and I get that.
You shot a scene and wished you have canceled it after it was finished. Oh yeah. Okay. Why? Oh, I forgot. True. And sorry. True. Yes. Oh, because um the guy was creepy. Okay. So, it seems like you have a lot of issues with creepy guys. Been a while since you've had sex off camera. True. Okay. Wait. False. Okay. What did you do? I was there was like this actor that I really like and I was like I'm just going to follow him. And then one night I was like watching one of his stuff. I went to my friend's party and he just happened to messag me that night and like I don't do anything off camera but I was like this is my one chance bro. And I did it. He's a local actor. What do you mean local? Like a. Like from America. No, like local like. Oh, LA. Yes. Yes. LA actor. He's not. Stupid. Stupid. And how'd you know his content? Cuz he's an actor. But how'd you see his content? He was in a YouTube video. Oh, so what what made him just randomly message you because you DM'd him first? Well, I DM Well, no, I followed him and then just like I don't know for some reason he like messaged me. What? And then he had mentioned he was like, "Oh, like I mutuals with another friend of his." So that's kind of why he reached out. But I would never do that cuz what the person like screenshots you got that power over me. Like I think he I don't know. What did he say? Hey, we have a mutual friend. You want to meet up? Like how did it happen? I think he knows that I just wouldn't share names. I think like my reputation is good. I'm sure maybe he consulted with his friend who was also. I'm sure I mean I don't see this guy just hooking up with a random. So you got you guys went on a date or you just like. I just went to his house. And y'all kicked it and smoked. Yeah, we hung out. We didn't smoke. No drugs or drinking or anything. Sobered out late night. Just chill. Watch. So you you knew what you came over there for? Yeah, 100%. Okay. Yeah. That was only one of one of one. Okay. Just got it off your bucket list. Okay. You've shot a scene. No, I've asked you that. Been a while. Oh, sorry. When it's time for the money shot, you get nervous. It's going to land in your eye. When it's the money shot to the face. False. Okay. Do you. I point that [ __ ] in my eye. Oh, you want it in your eye. But doesn't it burn? Yeah. True. You like the burn? No. False. Okay. So, why would you want it in your eye? People love it. It looks freaky. Okay. Okay. And it doesn't burn enough for me to not like love like love that people love it. Okay. You couldn't date a man that desires for you to peg his booty because it's fruity. False. Okay. So, you could date a man that would say, "Hey, can you peg me real quick?" Just randomly like wake up in the morning and you wouldn't look at him as less manly. I would look at him as more manly. Okay. [ __ ] slapping the kitty cat turns you on. True. If it's big. If it's big. So, you want hard slaps. Funny. Okay. It is time to stop the [ __ ]. Do you like it like when you lift it up and let it drop on it? I I guess I like when they're like pop like hard like bam. Give me a black eye with that [ __ ] dog. Okay. Pull out her. Uh most of the time you want to go home and sleep after a shoot. True. Okay. Uh you've been turned down by a man before. Turned on. Turned off. I mean, turned down. Turned down. Sorry. Turned down. True. I'm sure. True. Why? Yeah. Why'd you get turned down? I I can't think of any instances off the top of my head, but I think if I were to say to no, I'd be wrong. I'm sure guys rejected me at some point. For sure. You are. Okay. You are selective when it comes to swallowing. False. Okay. So, you don't concerned with their diet and what they eat and how it's going to taste. Well, usually like I said like before other than the other time like I really don't have sex off camera. If I was like hung out with someone it was like a pal of mine and we ended up [ __ ] and I knew your diet was bad then yeah. But I've never been in that situation. If it's like on set and like they ask me to swallow I'm going to swallow. You didn't watch adult films prior to joining the industry. False. Okay. Any what particular films did you watch? What type of content? Cool. Floor is yours. You don't want to say. Less men bang and old men [ __ ] young girls have what's the oldest man you've been with since you brought up Carol Perez and that clip went viral with her talking about working with Jack. Yeah, it was extremely viral. Um. That was crazy. I just love how she talks too. She's a great voice. How did you. Yeah, go ahead. The oldest guy. You prefer to work with older men? I'll help you out there. No, cuz I'm not really into older men. It was just when I was younger it was just I don't know. As far as performers though, do you prefer to deal with the older the older guys than the younger guys? No. No. Like when I was 18, 19, 20, like when I was younger, I liked the older guys, like the idea of them. But as I've gotten like I'm like 24 now, I'm like I don't really care and I don't gravitate towards the older men. Okay. Okay. You've been intimate with a dog in the room. like false but like. Crazy question. Because I saw a clip I'm not gonna say the performer's name and there was a dog in the room and you see like the guy putting in work and he's like taking his hand like get away get away the dog trying to get something. You're touching the dog. But while he was. Yeah. And the man was like. Shame on you. Well, he was trying to get the dog away cuz THE DOG TRYING TO GET. Pull out grab the dog. Pull him out. Close the door. What are you doing? One hand on her back. One hand holding your dog's collar. Phto stop and you're like about to Jesus Christ. No. No. Okay. Um, you should never want a man to kiss you right after he skets off in your mouth. False. Okay. Okay. They better come. They better kiss me. They better spit that [ __ ] in their mouth. Oh, wow. Wow. I'm just kidding. Oh, God. It is time to stop the [ __ ]. A male performer put you out of commission the next day after collaborating with them the day before. False. I'm a trooper. No man could ever do that to me. Oo plotter. You are very innocent off camera. True. Okay. Not innocent, but I'm not very sexual off camera. No, he's just very innocent. Like you're not doing nothing some little weird cuz you said you're weird. You're not doing a weirdo. If there was a camera in your house, are we going to see some weird things go down? Yes, you will, but not sexual things. Like you'll I'm weird. I talk to myself. I do weird things. That's normal. Okay. That's Yeah. You've had a male performer take way too long during a scene. True. Okay, that was seven hours. Okay, before we get out of here, what does Becca Barbie say to the young man or woman contemplating on joining the adult film industry?
Joining the industry will change your life forever. I'm not saying that's a good or bad thing. What I'm saying is a year ago, did you think you were going to be where you are right now? No. Because usually the way that you're planning the next year of your life going will never look like that. Life happens crazy. You're constantly changing the things that you want and your morals. If you're thinking of joining the industry, I would say give it two years. Give it a good thought. be at least 21 years old. And then if you've give it if you've given it years, you're of legal age to drink, and you're like, you know what, it's been years, life's going good, and you've really evaluated what your family's going to think, what it's going to look like for you, then do it. It's great. The industry rocks, okay? But it's not a decision you come to in under a year, and I stand on that. I'm also an advocate for people being over 20 years of age to do this. Um, so we agree there. Uh, Becca Barbie, it was a pleasure interviewing you. Could you let the audience know something rare about yourself and what to expect from you from the rest of Well, by the time your interview comes out, well, it should come out before the end of the year, but floor is yours.
Something rare about myself. One time I let a guy carve his name into my chest. I guess that's kind of. Carve it with what? A knife. Where's the scar? Is it healed? Uh, you know what's funny is it is healed, but if you look at the first few scenes that I did, it's. Why did you let him do that? You were young and dumb and and and. Literally I was just like in a point in my life where I was just like bored. I don't know. And he had a knife. What can they expect from you coming forward? You can expect me to keep continuing to be just as weird, if not weirder. You can expect from me to always show love to the people that support me, to do things that make me comfortable, to never put myself in situations that make me feel weird, and in return produce content that looks like I'm having a great time because I am. Yeah. Oh, also I'm eating hella more box next year. I'm letting y'all know that right now. Box like, see. Okay. Okay. Okay. Getting getting in there. Could you add it real quick before we get out of here? Uh, and take pictures and all that. Uh, could you date a guy that's doesn't eat the box? I haven't asked that in a while. It's been a while. I need to start implementing that back in. Like like doesn't as in I know that. Like me. I don't even I don't eat kitty cat. If he would never if he wasn't even open to the conversation then no. Would you be willing to teach them if they've never done it? Yeah, of course. Mold them into what you like. Right. Sure. But then you'd be terrif you'd be devastated if you went and did it another woman. If he ate out of. Just messing with you. This guy. Becca Barbie, you are bubbly. You are a great interview. I apprec I appreciate you being transparent. I appreciate you uh working the camera and letting the audience I think they will, if they don't already, they will have a significant understanding of who you truly are and what you represent. Um, can we go get some B-roll and some trailer pictures and all that good stuff? You ready for that? I think I'm ready to get some B-roll and some pictures and all this stuff. And thank you for having me. Thank you. I appreciate you being here and being a professional and understanding what's what's happening and I hope the audience in the world takes uh gravitation gravitate towards you and we wish you the best in your future endeavors. Ladies and gentlemen, Becca Barbie is in the building. We are checking out great interview. Yay. Meow. Great job. Thank you. It's the bougie show with Zeta DJ DJ. Great interview, Mr. Barbie. Thank you. Good job. Oo, look who's coming through. 24-hour Pixels is going to love this. Miss Catalina K. Hey yo, Ze Oliver Coach just DM'd the show saying he wants to do corn. Hey, hey, hey, let's have the [ __ ] Come on. Let's do. Hello, bougie guys and girls. This is a public service announcement for the world. This is what they've been waiting for and now it's available to be delivered to your front door. The Bougie Show merch is here and going nowhere. available for pre-order. The Bougie Show hats, hoodies, sweaters, t-shirts, and much more. We also have our branded signature sans like stop the [ __ ] And of course, we got to represent for those that don't got all their marbles up top. You know they straight, y'all. And last but not least, we got to represent for the freeze. All merchandise available now on bougie.com. Holl at a player, y'all. You know what time it is. Yay.