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Hello everyone, and welcome back to yet another episode of Chay versus the World. And I'm so happy to bring you a Valentine's special. All Valentine's up to you, just all like Valentine should just be a day where everyone just loves themselves. Do you know what I mean? Like, let's wake up and do everything that we want to do. That's really, really nice.
I do that a lot of the time, you know. Like on Friday, I was like, "Oh, I'm not drinking 'cause I'm training for the marathon." And I thought, "Chloe, you love going out with your friends. Go out." So I did. I actually went to a really good Mexican place. It was called El Pastor. It was in Soho. So if you're looking for a good Mexican place, go there. It was actually bangin'. So I love the taco me. Absolutely love it. So I went there and then I just had a great old time. Had a little boogie-woogie, um, which my friends and posted on their story. And then I thought it was really cool to reshare it. And then when I watched it in the morning, when I woke up at like half 11, it actually gave me the ech of myself. Like, I actually thought I was so cool. Like, shaking ass. I have no bum to shake. And I reposted on my story and I couldn't delete it 'cause so many of you had seen it. So I had to double down on my little Toshiba just wobble. It wasn't even wobbling, it was just like moving. It wasn't even moving. I don't know what word could it be.
So anyways, I did that. That was really good. You know, I was thinking when I was driving 'cause ADHD really bad today. I was thinking I would suit a BBL. And like, you know, it's 2025, they're probably quite good now. I was thinking about getting a BBL on my drive. Like, imagine me now and I'm like running, but then like a really nice bum. I'm debating it. And I'm debating getting a tattoo. I don't know what yet, but I I feel like I should get one. Have you guys got tattoos? You do. Aaron, what have you got? Oh, you've got loads. Oh, you have loads. Oh, is that Chinese writing? That's f***ing cool. So I'm thinking about getting a tattoo. So I think this year I'm going to do it. And also, I might bring the bob back. Like the short hair. She needs my hair's obviously. I'm bold extensions. I'm like, I need my hair to go. Anyways, whatever. So that's kind of what I've been up to, what I've been thinking. And guess what? 'Cause it's Valentine's, have I got plans? I do. Hahaa. I've got Valentine's plans. I'm not going to tell you what they are because I'm a mysterious girl.
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And seeming as it's our Valentine's special, we thought it's only right. We've got one of the UK's hottest topics. The girl that everyone wants to go on a date with. We've got Giant Reynolds. Welcome. God. Happy Valentine's. Happy Valentine's. Gallentine. It's Valentine's this year. Yeah, it is. Have you ever had like a really good Valentine's? I mean, I always make a good Valentine's. Yeah. Are you a lover girl? I am like the biggest lover girl. Okay. What about you? No. Oh, what? Okay. We need to make this a good Valentine's Day. Yeah, we do. What's like the nicest Valentine you've ever had? Oh, I'm trying to think of what guys have done for me. Damn. Plural. I'm really out. Crazy. I mean, um, to be fair, I feel like what did I do last? That's crazy. It's been a year. Oh my God, it's every year. I think I did. I can't remember. Don't worry about it. I know. Yeah. Oh my God, don't worry about it. Nothing. Nothing. You could f***ing do without me too. What did I do? Probably went out. To be honest. If you could have like your dream Valentine's, what would you like someone to do for you? Okay, mine is so cheesy and love cheese. Man, I'm a proper like. Well, it's cold this time of year, so it probably won't be that nice. But I like a sunset. Okay. I love something thoughtful. Like a cute blanket. Something with a nice view with like the little candles in it. Yeah, like I'm a proper like romantic babe. So it's just kind of like good conversation. Have a little drink and just vibe and chill with good chat. I love that. Have you got good? You have got a good chat. I don't stop talking. I love it. I feel like I overthink conversations with boys and then just say like mad stuff, which we won't get into just yet. But for those people who don't know, I'm sure all of our listeners like with the girls and the gays and everyone in between, they'll know who you are. But how have you come to be where you are? 'Cause you're big Cheyenne. Thank you. I love that. Compliments. To be honest with you, in short, I'll give you like a backstory. Yeah. It's long, not a trauma dump. But, um, we love a trauma dump. Um, so basically, I come from a really chaotic background, very dysfunctional. And like, one of in my mom's house, I grew up with four sisters, okay? So it was just like, very female-dominated. Who's the oldest? I'm. I'm actually a twin and I'm the middle. Are you a twin? Cool. Are you identical? No. You, what's really weird? Me and my older sister look more like twins than me. My that. Yeah, yeah. So I come from like dysfunction. But it sounds really silly. When you grow up in like a dysfunctional upbringing, you have like that main character syndrome where you want to be someone. Yeah, you had this. So in my head, I was like, "Right, I'm going to make something for myself." Kind of thing. And then I was homeless. So I've been homeless. When you grew up with like a very, you never knew that, babe. Yeah. So very chaotic upbringing, been homeless, all of that. And wow, that's inspiring. Wow. So when I was actually living in the hostel one year, I was like, I was always known when I was like going out or hanging out to be like a very opinionated like female. I'd always have something to say. Things we love to hear. And then I think after that, I got my home. And then obviously, that's when I started like socializing and going out. And then that's when I was like, lockdown happened. So I was like, "I need to make a name for myself." And that's literally just how it started. I thought, "Let me, what's a way to make money?" And this is when I knew like content was a thing. And I just thought, "I should just date men and just challenge them." And I was like, "I'm just going to do that. I'm going to make a job out of it." I love it. And then it actually just blew up really, really quick. And I think because lockdown, it was such a blessing because it was the right time to put content out. And we just blew really, really quick. And we had really great guests. I think who was your first date? The first episode was with a comedian called Chris Savage. Big up, Chris. Then the second episode was with Expressions. And that went V your second episode on noing crazy. I had like these big American YouTubers reacting to it. And I remember my phone just was like popping. And I was like, "What?" Wow. What a good feeling. So yeah, it's been a crazy, it's been a crazy few years, to be honest with you. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And it's like, it's humbling at the same time 'cause the highs and the lows. So I know that's in like. So you're a proper grafter then? Oh, yeah. Like I. And as well, so the restaurant, sorry, I told the story so backwards. But basically, the restaurant that we're filming, yeah, um, that's when I was homeless. I remember I just walked through like the forest, like in Essex. If you know Essex, you know it's for the forest. I remember 'cause I didn't drive at the time and I was like, "Girl, I'm not leaving this venue unless you give me a job." And then at the time, they gave me a job just doing the front of the house. Then obviously, I worked my way up. And my relationship with the restaurant. And then obviously, three years later, when I started the show, I was like, "Can I use the restaurant?" And they were like, "Of course." So it's everything. So everything has been so personal to like my creative journey on like achieving like the show, the success, and everything like that. So yeah, I did have politics with the old platform that, you know, we built. We got it very successful. We got like on that alone, it was like 100 million views. But now, 100 million views, one episode alone, which was the Andrew Tate one, got like 22 million. So what the f***? That's like, yeah, bigger than rappers' music videos. It is crazy. What on Earth? Yeah. So now I'm independent. You're independent. Okay. Snap. That's amazing. Okay, cool. Who would be your? So you maybe let's go back to who you have dated previously. You mentioned Andrew Tate. What the f***? How was that? Yeah. Do you know what? It's really funny because it's people, so many mixed views about him. That I know from my experience and encounter with him was pleasant. Really? Yeah. 'Cause it's kind of with all this clickbait, like he really understands how to troll, right? So that's kind of like, even when like we were getting on and I was like, and then just before, 'cause we do like this little pre-af interview, like your real thoughts. So I'm having a laugh and I was like, "Oh, by the way, like when you go, I'm about to slag you off." Yeah. And then he's like, "Yeah, no, I would be disappointed if you even say anything nice." So he totally gets the whole controversial thing about it. Yeah. Okay. So you've had Bobby Schm. Oh my God, he is like ADHD like times a million. Like even when we're filming, I'm just like, you know when someone's so like over the top, you're just like, I'm stunned. And I never get stunned. Like I am stunned. What the f***? Yeah. And f***. Yeah. Who else? Who's been your favorite person? You know what? I feel like for me, what seemed like a big deal was academics. We were literally talking about this before. You, that's f***ing big. That's huge. So for me, that was like a big deal. And I recently had an artist called Millies on. And do you know what? It's a big deal for me in the sense of when you get people from America that are like, you know, like, "We really rate your thing." They actually like request for me. I'm like, "What? You're asking to come on my show?" And that's her flex. Oh my God. So it's a very like humbling experience when you're just like, these legends and they're like, "Asking for me?" It's like, "What?" Hey, academics is literally obsessed of you. I love him. If only. He's literally obsessed with you. No, he's brilliant. He really is. Have you had any that like haven't gone out or have kind of not gone to plan? Oh my God, yeah. Like, no, but I had an issue. So we sadly lost like three episodes. Oh no. But you're independent now, you can get them back. Yeah, no, no, no. My production team. No, you know who you are. He lost the episode sadly. But to be honest with you, the episodes that I've had, one was with a B, one of the UK's boxers. It was a good episode. But I think as we where I was just going independent, I was trying to work out what kind of vibe I wanted to go with, if that makes sense. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Of course. Politics with the old platform, trying to me over. So I didn't want to make it too similar. When it comes to I. That's what the f***. Listen, anyone watching this, just and you got an idea and you don't have the funds to do anything right now, do a recorded delivery to yourself. Write your idea. Do a recorded delivery to yourself and send it to yourself and do not open it. Okay? Don't get screwed over like I did. And then golden advice there. And then if you can trademark the living f*** out of everything. Yeah. If not, was see you in f***ing court. F***ing. Um, who would be your dream date? Someone from the UK and someone from America. And then if there's anyone else you would go on like to see. This is a hard one, you know. There's so many dates I want to say out loud, but I just feel like the other production company will pay that person. Trust me. And they can guess. I like that. I'd say probably who is actually entertaining. I think 50 Cent would be a good date for you. He actually, you know what? I love his pettiness. I couldn't be with a man like that, but his pettiness, entertainment. Bought all the. But this is my fear about going on tour. And it's actually 50 Cent's fear. We've not toured yet. It's because, you know, he bought all the front seats to. Is it J R's tour? Yeah, yeah. Yes, they. Yeah. This is what I'm saying. The level of pettiness. Yeah. It's inspiring but scary as well. 50. Right. Who? Yeah. Who? I would say in the UK, I'm trying to think who I actually am entertained by. Let me think. Who is fun? Does it? Is it just strictly like music or like entertain? Just like in the industry. Anyone, to be honest with you. That's like, I don't know. I think I think one. I don't know if they're a bit entertaining, but maybe Central C. But he's got good chat. Has he? I mean, I've never met him, but like, he's seen online. I watched his live with DJ Ag the other day and I was like, "Oh, it's like a lovely, happy, bouncy." Oh, nice. Did you see? Yeah. Maybe, maybe we try and be like, "Listen, I've got to get bigger now 'cause I'm slowly growing quite big." Yeah. He's unreachable. I'm sure someone in this room. Some tell a friend to tell a friend, tell a friend, friend. Yeah. And then what about like, do you do women on there? Would you? Oh, yeah. Would you go on dates with women? Do you know what? I was debating doing it. Yeah. Um, 'cause I was going to do a whole like female series. That would be cool. But then I just thought it's very difficult because it's like, when you know a formula, you know it works. Hard to suddenly switch it up. Especially like the idea of the show is being able to like challenge men. And a lot of people when they come up to me, "I love your stuff. I love the way that you put men in the hot seat." So like, men like watching men under pressure. Yeah. So I think it might not have the same feeling or vibe to it. But I'd love, love to do it for sure. But I think where I'm still independent and it's like still early stages, I don't think I could just drop that. Yeah, no, I hear it. Have you ever? I love, love your interviews. And like, you seem so ballsy. Because the questions you're asking, like, everyone wants to ask men these questions. Have you ever had a question and you were like, "Really nervous to say it?" Do you know, I think when I was first starting out, 'cause if you watch the videos from like four years ago, they were crazy. Like, I'm asking the guys, the first, I'm like, "How big is your dick?" Like, and I'm like, I have a v. Now, even I really vividly remember the Castillo one. And like, I was just watching like, like both of you are insane. Yeah, both of you are insane. Like, oh my gosh, the Castillo one was one of my favorite episodes. I didn't know who he was until obviously I met him. So I just didn't. So when he act, so in the show, when we actually meet for the first, that's actually us meeting for the first time. We don't meet them. You don't even say hello before. So I remember this guy just knocks up with his gold teeth and this red tracksuit and his long hair. My first thought was, "You look like my dad." My dad is Hayday. So I was like, "What?" And then the second thought was like, like he just was. He was like, "Yeah." And it was just funny because he just spoke so much. But I, I didn't know if it was like real or not. So I was like, "No, that I lived with him." It's, it blows your mind. But yeah, yeah. And to be honest with you, Castillo is actually one of my favorite people in this industry. He'll probably be like, "I don't even like you, Cheyenne." But he hates me. Don't worry about it. He's, he's so sweet. And also, he's a good storyteller. Oh, he's so good. Yeah. Not me telling you my story and I was so backwards saying in my life journey. Like, babe, to be you have to be good at telling stories, you know what I mean? Yeah. What's the? Sorry, I just got sidetracked with that whole thing. What's the most awkward moment do you think you've had? Oh, do you know what? It's like, everything was season one. So it was David Bum. Actually, Bum me. He, what did you say? He was like, "Oh, what, stand on women's equality?" And he went, "What?" I was like, "What the f***?" No, but like the edit that they made made it a really good episode. It 'cause he turned up hungover. And he, and he just was so like, I think when the cameras were on, it, it was just really like awkward. But then off the camera, he's fine, busting jokes. I was like, "Why didn't you do this on the camera?" And it was kind of like, if you actually watch it back, where I'm really grilling him, but I was actually frustrated. So I'm like, "So." It made it a better episode. The way they clipped it, it was like, "Yeah, I'm really like going in for it." So it kind of made it. And then I think that episode changed the whole narrative of the show. I, I personally believe that is what made like grilling at the time. Now I'm correct. Grilling. Correct. Thank you very much. Because I think men watched that formula and they saw it. And that's how me battling like the whole red pill community became a thing. It then became like, I'm always going to challenge men. So yeah. A, you find it's so his bloody genius. And also the fact that I think I'm not a man. I don't know if anyone knew that. But as a male watching, watching another man get grilled by you, they'll be like, "No, I can do it better." And then like, "Let me go." Yeah. When I'm out, I get all the time. Grill me. Grill me. Okay. But in real life, I'm actually quite soft. No, you're p. Like, you on the clips, you're like, "What do you think?" I'm like, "Oh, it's so good. Thank you." Sorry about that. Is there any like, when you're on dates with these men and you're grilling them, has anyone like really surprised you? Yeah. Do you know what it was? I think there was one episode where I got like really drunk. Welcome to the party. And it was like champagne. So the bubbles were getting to me. I love it. And it was, I think it was like an episode with notes. I'm just like, "This man is finessing me." He ended up getting the high. A smooth guy. Yeah. He's so smooth. And then I think, and I think I got so smashed. I've taken a picture with him. But 'cause I'm a bit drunk, so I think he's like touched me and he's like under my boo. But I'm drunk. I'm not clocked. So I've just posted this picture. And then these blog pages started like clipping it. And I was like, and that was my first experience like experience of pages. And I was like, "Oh my God." So yeah, I realized I have to calm down. Because as well, when I drink, I get really loud, I get obnoxious. And like, I'm not like the best version. I think me when I'm drunk, I'm this whole other persona that comes out. I don't know who she is. I've named my drunk alter ego. And all my friends know her really well. She's called Claire. So it's not me, it was Claire. And like, everyone has met Claire. And that's this whole thing. So maybe you should name your drunk alter ego. What can we call her? Chloe? Yeah. Shannon. That's boring. Yeah, sorry if you go Shannon, but it's boring. Um, it's weird 'cause my shy and I'm not shy. You are not. Especially when I'm drunk. Um, maybe what's a fun name? Mercedes. Okay, I'm Mercedes. We got my cousin Mercedes. Mercedes is a really fun name. For God, you just blame it all on her. And then it's no drama. Obviously. You just said, I didn't realize that's the first time you meet these people on the dates. When we have people on the pod, we like literally research living daylights out of them. And then kind of thinking the vibe. How do you prep for? 'Cause yours is so different. Like, you actually look 101. It's actually a day setting. It's quite intimate. This is quite open. I feel this is like a living room. It's nice in here. And your team are really lovely. Yay. Um, how do you prep for a big day? What are your tips? Well, it's everything's so different now 'cause where I have to do everything independent. So it's hard because even when I'm on set, I'm like half producing it. So I'll be sitting a. And so like the way the show is set up, it's so we do like these intrusive clips that make the whole show funny. Yeah, that I'll be like filming in the middle of date. Then they'll say something funny and I want them to pick it back up at A and B. So I'm just making a mental note. And I'm like, as soon as there's a pause, I'm like, "Right, write that down." So it's really hard, I think, to stay in character when I have to wear like every hat and position of the production at the moment. But how I usually prep is, I will do, I try not to do as much research. But I will look for certain things that would be a good topic of conversation. Okay, it's nice. There might be something that I've like researched about someone and then they, it would just be good just to hear their point of view or their perspective. And I try to avoid being. I know the whole show is controversial, but I'll avoid like certain topics. You have to. But that's it, really. Just research the person. And I think it's always nice when you do look into someone and you kind of study them almost. It's you could then, you might not say it on camera, but something might spark something where, "Oh, you really like know about this." And it just makes your relationship nicer with these people. 'Cause this whole industry is built on like relationship and connecting with others. And I'm a deep so I'm like, I want to connect. I want to find a reason why we can get on. You got to find that common ground. And then you could just go in with that. It's fine. Oh, that's good. Feel like something I want to talk to you about is Vanessa. Vanessa. Oh my God, yes. Vanessa can be your go-to. E. I know everyone thinks it is. To like, is this your alter ego? I love, I love it. Like I stand by Vanessa's man forever. I think it is just what I secretly want to do, but I could never. Like, yeah. So at the moment, I've put a back. Like, it's on hold. Only because that if I'm going Stateside, I've had a few conversations. God willing, they continue. So we might be taking that here. 'Cause I feel like it's wasted over here. 'Cause finesse culture isn't really a thing. So yeah. I mean, there's this one girl on TikTok. I don't know if you've seen her. She's blonde and she's like, "Watch how I got this man buying me a bargain." And then boyfriend's in jail. And I'm like, "Oh my God, I need to learn some tips." For Vanessa. Yeah. For Vanessa. For you. But it's, it's really crazy. So obviously I created the character. But it was like a two-part project. The point of it was create like a documentary side, like the real dark side of finesse culture. Like the whole Dubai porta party, like all the dark stuff that these women do not post about. They post, "Yeah, get your money, get your bag." But they're not posting like, "You're going to be sh*t on." Get that. You know? And it's like, so I wanted to do a documentary to highlight that. But then obviously, I wanted to build the whole concept through this character. So in my head, it was like, "Build it." And that project dropped this like really thought-provoking thing. But it's amazing. But it's hard because everything is about funding. And it's getting people to like, you have to do proof of concept. Because nobody wants to take like a chance anymore. Commissioners, that's at you. And so you, what I mean? So it's like, and I'm more of a go-getter anyway. So fine, you don't want to commission. I'll go find a way myself. And so I started putting out Vanessa. And then it just started making money. Like people just started sending me money. So I made a joke and was like, "Oh my God, I love, love it." Yeah, like, "You should do a thingy." And I was like, "Okay, send me money then." And people actually did. And I just thought, "I've not touched the money." It's got money in there. But that's how you fund your commission. Oh, fund it. So yeah, that is that. You're a proper grafter. Like, it's really just like blown away like how you start saying, "Build it, do this, build it, do this, build it." Like, but it's annoying though, because I'm like, I don't always follow the things for. I'll start it and I'll. It's like that. Yeah. But even the starting it, like I have had maybe one or two ideas. I don't start it. I just. You know, that's like really incredible. I'll help you. I'm like, I'm the biggest. Anyone says they've got an idea, I'm like, "Right, we're going to do it." And now I've got plans. We're going to execute. I'm a bit intense like that. No, but I love it. Like, that's really inspiring. Do you have anything? Yeah. Any tips? I suppose for me, how do you like? 'Cause I'm more about the fun. I feel like you're like business. Yeah, I'm business. But I also need to learn the fun. 'Cause I think I get so. I'll teach you. I will teach you the way we need it. Yeah. So I think when it comes to it, you, with anything, you have to have like a strategy. Okay? Because I think everyone has an idea. Everyone wants to. But then it's like, also that fear of judgment. You have ego. And then you get scared. Because even for me, when I was starting Vanessa, everyone was like, "That's a flop. It's embarrassing." Like, honestly, the haters were coming. And even people that knew me, like other podcasts were like, "Add in me." And I was like, "Let me live. Let me just try something." And I think it did make it hard because people are so used to see me do one thing. It's like, people attach that to you. So when you try to explore and be creative, people want to just try and put you in a box. I don't ever want to be put in a box. So I'll just keep trying. So anyone that has got a dream or a goal, just actually write like, strategize on how you're going to get there. So it might be, "I want 10,000 followers." Someone that's just building. And I want this brand deal. So why? How you're going to get there? Like, everyone has that. Like, say you want to do another show. Yeah. You're going to keep talking, talking, but you have to actually have a plan. Yeah. And so many people like this, "Oh yeah, we're going to manifest." Of course, you're going to manifest. But you also have to apply yourself. Yes. So it's just doing that. And I'm a dreamer. So no goal is too big. So if you want to write, whatever it is that, like, just dissect. Go work backwards. So this is the goal. And just work backwards with your steps and how you're actually going to achieve it. So we'll do that. Yeah. Oh my God. Pretty inspiring. I didn't realize I. I thought I was just going to stick it on you on Valentine's. Just taking a whole other direction. Right. I would say you are the connoisseur of dating at this point. So we've had some of our listeners, followers, viewers, and maybe some of our crew right in to stay or escape. So we've got some like date scenarios. And you can tell us your advice whether you would stay or you should escape this date. Are you ready? Got three. This is the first one. So basically, I had a whole evening planned with my date. Early on, my date gets a no caller ID phone call. Which I told him to answer as a joke. He answers and I quickly realize no caller ID is actually a go. And he says, "Oh, I'm busy. I'll talk to you later." I asked him who it was. So she says, "Oh, what the f***?" He says, "It's an old dating app match. I never met. And she's a bit weird and obsessive. Basically, always call him out of the blue." I said, "Well, why the f*** did you say you're going to call him later?" He's saying that he's, he starts overcompensating and proving he's not lying by showing me their DMs. He says he's worried about giving me the wrong impression. Sorry, this is such bad reading. He basically said to me, he was worried about giving me the wrong impression. So he calls her back and says, "Look, talk to her and ask her if there's anything going on between us." So then I do it out of shotgun awkwardness. But it actually does seem like. So basically, they're on a date. No caller ID calls him. He answers. Says, "I'm busy." She goes, "What the f*** are you doing?" And he says, "Oh, it's just this random on a dating app." Shows her the DMs. Then she says, "Call him." Calls a blue. And then she does speak to him. What's going on here? This man is lying. Listen. And the reason why I say that, firstly, women, there's no girl to girl anymore. Like these side chicks are on his side. So he's partnered up. And he's, he's probably said, "Listen, when I'm with my girl, and I did like, you have to it." And she's realized, "I really am the side chick." And I just got like, "No, we're just friends." And yeah, I don't believe is that what's going on? Because the way I just see it is like, a man that really is about you, they know how to handle a situation. So it's, he's not going to. "I'm going to call you back. I'm going to call you back." That's shifty. Firstly, it would just be like, "Listen, put on speaker. Stop calling my phone. I'm with my woman." And like, that's it. Like, you put it. Men are very logical thinkers. So they will want to like have the solution. Say they are. They're like, in. I'm an emotional thinker. But men are logical. I am emotional. Put it. No, but as in, when it comes to like a solution, men usually like to try and find a solution straight away. Whereas I feel like as women, like we do think on it more. Like we ponder. Because react. Yeah, but not even that. Like, it's good as women that we are emotional. Because we like, we think of every aspect. Whereas a man doesn't. Men aren't emotional. No disrespect to in a studio of men. I disrespect all of you. But it's like, men would just want to create like, nip it in the bud straight away. Yeah. So I feel like he's lying. He's absolutely lying. And also, by the way, she's calling him on no caller ID. And then he's called her back. He's got a number. Oh my God. How the hell did this guy call her back? And listen, women, we've all been there before when you had to just do that random out of the blue call. Or no caller ID. I love calling off no caller ID. I know what. Even if I'm seeing someone, 'cause I do it. It's a test. I love like, even if I'm really seeing someone, I'll do it. I'm bored. And if you're like, "Hey, babe." And I'm like, "Well, I'm f***ing on no call." Right. I did escape. I love it. Wait, so are we staying or are we escaping that date? Absolutely have to escape that date. Absolutely. And bun him. Bun him. Have I ever said that in my life? What the f***? Right. Okay. Right. Here's scenario number two. I was so excited when my date suggested a road trip to a beach town. Under disclosed. Don't know where this beach is. The drive was perfect. Music, snacks, and great conversation. But when we arrived, it hit me. Oh, no plan. No hotel. Just a little bit of vague exploring. Every hotel was booked. And my nerves kicked in. No worries, my date said. We'll just crash at a friend's place. Reluctantly, I agreed. When the door. Oh no. Oh my God. When the door opened, my stomach dropped. Was their ex? After some awkward small talk, we were let in. The night dragged as they literally were sat there reminiscing, laughing. Every. What the f*** is going on? I stayed on my phone, but the voices just carried on into the night. Oh my God. The next morning, my date suggested a hike to clear the air. But all I want to do is go home. Thoughts, babe? Like, you need help. Like, Ser. No, seriously. There's like an epidemic of like good men. What the hell? Are they? Don't. I genuinely think they don't exist anymore. No, honestly. There's no. It's an epidemic. You're right. It's an epidemic. No. And like, the thing is, right, I can't stand a man without a plan. Like, sometimes you could do. Sometimes. But no plan. You're telling me we're going for this long ass cute drive. And then there's nowhere. What I hate you. You're like a man who's not good with logistics is disgusting. And as well, I hate. Listen, ladies, don't let men gas like you. I'm not a plant. Trust me. If he wants to, he would do. Not, not let these. Sorry, my. I swear. Yeah, yeah. I keep stopping myself. I'm like, no media training around here. N. Don't let these f***ers finesse you. Like, if a man really wants to, he will. He will have that planned. He'll even get a car and pick you up. The roses will be there. Like, they will. Like, they really will. To then be all launch on and then turn up to your ex's yard. He was only taking you to flex on his ex. But then also, that's like quite. I'd say it's quite violent. What if my ex turned up to my house with his new girl? What the f***? Yeah. What the f***? And she's letting you in? Like, or maybe it's their fetish. Maybe it's a fetish. Yeah. Maybe he was trying to get a little free in some sort of role play or something. Very. It's very Saltburn vibes. Mental. This one. I feel like, no offense, man. I'm throwing shade today. But do you not not think like, what the f***? That's actually insane. Yeah. Escape. Eject. To sea. And also, b****, as if you stayed the night. You f***ing idiot. What are you doing? But you as well, as women though, like we are people pleasers. So we like, "Okay, it's fine." Really. You guys have been crying. Crying. Is that you? Okay. Have you ever argued with a boy and cried in bed and they've actually not. She was wrong. Now I'm crying harder. Or you do the little, you turn around and then they don't even hug you back. And you're like, and then it's just now I'm embarrassed you even tried to come back. Mean. And now I've actually got to cry harder to the point where, you know that cry? You have to fake it. You have to fake it. I'm double-downing on my cry to the point I'm wailing. And you're kind of tapping me on the. And you even try to like, like send, even if you do like little bum wiggle, just try and get attention, just anything. And then they're just still nothing. And it's like, you're stubborn. And then maybe I'll go to the toilet and come back and slam the door. Where you are. Oh my God. L and drink the water in your heart. Like, go like anything to get the attention. And they still. And then pull the covers. Wow. We've all been there. Everyone has been in that situation. We're living the same experience. We are. Oh, men are actually f***ing. Rang. Bro. There is scenario number three. Ah, it started as a simple park walk on a first date until they stopped and said, "Your energy." What the f***? Who are you? "Your energy feels different." I laughed, but they were serious. Next thing I know, they were put. Oh my God. "Your energy feels different." The next thing I knew, they pulled out tarot cards and talking about how we were destined to meet. I tried to be polite, but things escalate. Oh my God, things escalated when they insisted we meditate together. Felt like a joke at first, but it became pretty unnerving when they were genuinely being serious and they had planned this ahead of time. They led me to see if you wanted to be word. Take, take it back. If you wanted to. Would take you to meditate. And they led me to a secluded spot, pulled up incense and started chanting. Guys, what are you doing? While waving the smoke around me with a poker face, saying awkwardly cross-legged, I wondered how I got here. They leaned in and whispered intent things like, "Uh, I can feel our souls merging." Ever since they've spoken as if it hadn't happened and things have been good as they were when we first started talking. Thought the f*** that. That's weird. No, listen, do not get finessed by spiritual donkeys like these spiritual ones. Who's? What do you mean? These spiritual guys? I don't know. These spiritual guys. They were trying to lure you in with this. "I feel the connect." Like, "Trust." It happened to me at House Party. I was like, "My friend is like, like projectile womanly, violently being." And he's like, "Do you feel that?" I was like, "What?" He's like, "The connection." Honestly, they literally dropped the same bars. It's the incense. And they'll bring up the crystals. They'll be like, "What crystals are you into?" They'll do all this astrology f***ing. Iess crystals. I don't. No, listen. They're going to be watching and come. Ah, you need rose. It's rose quartz for love. They're going to bring you. They're going to bring it. They're going to bring it. Listen, I got finessed. I got into all the crystal speaking from experience. I'm speaking from experience here. No. And the thing is, oh my God, I'm C. You can like, it's believable. It is. 'Cause when, like, when you're a lover girl, babe, I am a lover girl. You believe it. You wanted. You know, throw a stone at me because you're spiritual. Throw them all. Throw the whole bag at me. No, it's crazy. Because technically, that stuff is witchcraft. It's what is it? Judge. Yeah. What's it called? Yeah. This judge. Yeah. This is what I'm saying. Doing judge. Don't, don't fool for the. Don't fool for these spiritual. You know, he's gone out here. They're in a secluded place. He's he's chanting. But then the next day, no one's addressing the elephant in the room. Which Alexandra brought to the UK. If anyone remembers that. What, what thoughts on that? Like, if, if that happened to you, you know, things were going well. You met online. And then you just had this slightly weird evening. And then the next day he was like, "Yeah, babe, should we go get breakfast?" I just, you know what? It's fun. Those where you actually process and think, "What the f***? Is that real? You, you think, did this really actually happen? Is that real?" Yeah. I just would say, just it's night. Like, don't get me wrong. Like, half of me is a bit like, "Oh, it would be nice to have someone to like, intentionally want to do things and help you meditate." But that just sounds like my man is just trying to. He might be on drugs. Yeah. Or drugs. Yeah. That sounds like a big shrooms trip that one. Yeah. So, you know, that's actually too much. Escape that. No. What's like the most outlandish thing you've ever done for a boy? I've done some much yet. No. Can you go first? 'Cause I want to know like the bar. 'Cause I'm a bit. Cut my hair off into a bob. So I did. Did that. Cut it off into a bob. And then I hit it and got. But now the bob's the thing. So I've done that. Well, I was done. Oh, I gave him my credit card to go to Hideout. And then I actually had bad credit for like years. I gave. And I've told the story before. And I said he stole it. I gave it 'cause I'm a liar. I gave him my credit card. It was like 19. I didn't even have a credit score yet. And I let him run it down. That was bad. Oh my God. Was the dick even that good? Like, hell's yeah. Dickmatized. Yeah. That, that is actually dickmatized. I would never do that now, obviously. Yeah. I've done that. I'm speechless. Oh my God. What else? I D. Oh my God. I day. Um, I don't know. Told this story on here before. But basically, he, we were seeing each other. And he went to the gym. And I went on his laptop. And I found what can only be described as his personal home footage. Pornhub of him and loads of girls. And then I him when I was like, "What the f***? What the f***?" And then I realized, "Do I want to dump him?" And then I apologized for finding it. Oh my God. This is what I'm saying. This gaslighter. Then you're the one apologizing for them. He said, "Sorry." He said, "Sorry for."
Finding him sleeping with other girls. Oh, don't I remember? I texted him and I was like, "I can't even believe you didn't say sorry." Yeah, sorry, bre. The eyes. Oh my God, no. Bad God, no. I, I crash out hard. It's do you. When's your birth? March the 15th. You daugh— no, Pisces. Pisces. Told you. Are my brothers are both Pisces and three of my ex-boyfriends. Oh, really? We get along. Yay. They won't break your heart. We'll piss you off. Yeah. Um, no, what I tell you what was just stupid. This was taking it back to like school years. So like, I really, I really fancied this guy and he was like, back in the day, used to be called like grebos, like emos. Oh, emos? Yeah, grebos and emos. Gbo. So I fancied this boy who was like a proper gbo. Firstly, like being like mixed race and brown, like it didn't, it weren't really like the look. The gbo aesthetic. I don't know. A little comb over, maybe some fake tats. You could be there, babes. I'd done the side fringe. Yeah. I started trying to learn about all these like groups. Yeah. And he like, yeah, there's what was what. There was a band called Muse. M. I didn't know nothing about them. So I started just trying to like act like I knew about them and I was like, "Yeah, I like too." Then he starts telling me all these facts and I know nothing. So I'm just lying. And then I even asked my mom for an electronic guitar for Christmas just so I could have something in common with this guy. Like, I was not a gbo. And I used to then hang out at the skate park. I even gave myself a fake name. Yeah, my friend done one as well. I won't out you. Just hanging out at the skate park just hoping this guy would notice us. And he never did. Dance. Oh, no. No. So that. Oh, no. That was Nick. So there was two. So that's how my grebo stage. Oh, no, that's fine. He doesn't even know I exist. Like, so there was a boy in school that made me interested into the whole gbo gang. I was a big gbo. Like, I actually was. So I used to listen to that song, "I'm an Emo Kid," not coming as can be. See, the only forgot know was Evanescence and it was "Bring Me to Life." And I thought I was. Oh my. And tattoo the lesbian video. Things she. I still listen to that. I still listen to that. That was the pinnacle of like my grebos days. Yeah. F. That was me. My little grebo initiation. Initiation with my big combats with the chain. The chain. I was going in just to get this guy to notice me. Then obviously my hyper fixation from him wore off. So I started going to the skate park and there was a new guy who still doesn't like. That's when I created the fake name with my friend cuz we didn't want anyone knowing what school we went to. Refer back to us. So yeah, that's good. That's me crashing out over guys that don't know I exist. You know what? I feel like I did that. Not grebo, but I went like road map. Cuz I'm not like everyone now knows me for being a road man. But my person at the time was like really road. And I learned all the words to like, um, J Styles, "Wav." And they were in the car and he played it and I was like, "Wav." Then he was like, "Why the [ __ ] do you know this song?" I was like, "Do you not like this song or you like, do you not know who this is?" Are you joking? J is H. Oh my God. Chloe from B. But he's never left me. I'm embarrassed. I'm embarrassed. That is so fun. About rappers. I'm trying to segue here. I don't know how I'm doing this. Basically, you have dated rappers, famous people, blah, blah, blah. You're obviously big Cheyenne in the industry. Who is the most bar academics like famous overwhelming person you've ever met? Not academics, so I can't. Not academics, which is a [ __ ] inflect me. I'd probably say trying to think like as in reach wise. Cuz you were at KP's birthday, weren't you? Yeah, I hosted. We the poor birthday cuz he drinks brand. So they got me to host. Like amazing. The big up crap. See the playlist was insane. I've seen all the clips. What the [ __ ]? Yeah, no, it was so good. But you know what is? I think when I work, I don't like. I, I'm so fixated on work. I don't have fun. That's what I was saying to you earlier. I don't have fun. I'll try and have a good time. I'm obsessed with work. So then I can't switch off. Actually, maybe I should learn that. Actually, I won't teach you. You teach. Yeah. The cup. That's it. Yes. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I'd say it's actually really hard. I know on the spot questions are hard when you've got to go through the roller decks. Yeah. I think the most mainstream probably is Notes. That was un. I'm trying to think. There's actually, there's like 40 episodes. So I actually can't remember who I've done things with. There's a lot. There's a lot. Notes is big and Notes is lovely. I was surprised when I met him that he was like really down to earth. So chill. So chill. So chill. So chill. Trying to think who's like. I don't have you met anyone like at an event and you're like, "What the [ __ ]?" What loads of people. I like, don't know how I navigate in this industry cuz I'm actually a bit of a hermit. Like I'm a, I'm a hermit. I don't like going out. Neither. I feel like we're similar. Like I'm really extroverted in my space and then if I'm at an event, I W. I'm not enjoying it. Yeah. No, I don't. I go out and I'm like, "Why am I here?" Yes. Like, "Why am I here?" syndrome. But as well, and I have this weird fear because it's kind of not even a fear. I don't know. It's partly imposter syndrome, but it's also like, I can't deal with industry egos. And it's kind of like, so I find it difficult because you can't get me fake smiling. If I don't like you, I'll be so poke. I think I'm quite good at it now. I'm so sad. And it's worse cuz you've been in this longer than me. GI, you not? I just can't. And then it's like when I have to do interviews with them, like it's so hard. Not like I have to obviously for camera, I have to be smiling, but then soon as the camera's off, I'm just like. Because that's good. I just feel this whole. I came into this industry naive though. And I do think it's an Essex thing where Essex people are really friendly and really bubbly. So. And we don't. I'm not even from Essex, but I live there for years. And like, we everyone's so lovely. So open. One, no judgment. No one judges anyone. No one cares about anything in EIC. They just good time. Yeah. And I found like because I am very like a typical Essex person in that sense. I'm hi, I'm here. I'm overshare within three minutes of meeting everyone. We love that. We love that. So much. Too much. Not enough. You know. And so I kind of feel it's just that different energy. But it's like, listen, and I get people have to protect their brand, business. Yeah. They're very St. And like pre. Cuz I think you might probably get the say what people see of you online, they'll judge. But then M actually like Chloe borrows is very different. Yeah. They already have like an assumption with the person that you are because of that. And it's like, it's a different persona. It's not fully because I'm not fake. Like it is a version of me, but it's just a heightened version of me. Camera. And I think it doesn't help that my show is like about dating men. So people think that I'm trying to steal man's boyfriends. And it's not. It's an interview show. Like they're not real, real dates. Show set up like a date. And I think that's probably the hardest thing that I battle with where people just think they know me, but they really don't. And they think I'm always like argumentative because of the show. I'm really not. I can have an argument. Yeah. You really want it. I'll give you two. If you could have dinner with three famous people, dead or alive, who would you have dinner with? Okay, so you've got your answer. Lot. I think about this a lot. You [ __ ] okay. So one of them is Tupac. Did you see that TikTok the other day? And it basically looks like he's alive. No, inbit doppelganger who's done the clip. First off, [ __ ] your [ __ ] and the click. You CL. Yeah. And I was like, "What the f?" Yeah, on TikTok. Oh, I bet Jada Pinkett for you, man. [ __ ] then bless her. Bless her. All right, no, don't hate me because everyone absolutely goes mad at this one. Donald Trump. No, but n. Explain yourself. It is so basically, I feel like in my head, if we were going to sit down at dinner, the debates we would have would be epic. That would be an amazing. Yeah. Come correct episodes. Exactly. And then the thir. And he would do it. He loves social media. He would so do it. Yeah. See. And. And if we can't get Donald Trump, I'll go for Piers Morgan. But I want a female. I need. It probably would just be someone like Angelina Jolie because I love her. I love that she is like a proper. Like she does all the philanthropy. Yeah. She is. Do you need like a good, good like sweetheart on the team? We're sit in the table. Tag team. You. Yes. Females is just there. They'll come because you'll have that like the streets perspective. Then we've got Donald Trump. Like, so I just feel like that's an elite table. I would really ask too B about Diddy. Who's mine? Yeah. Who's yours? Oh my God. I've never, ever thought about this. I just want a good time. Who's the biggest party person in the world? Mine's to have a debate. I'm no, babe. You know what? It's so funny. I feel like from like age, obviously I was like a bit cheeky, naughty. But when I was like in school and then I did uni, like that's when I used my brain. I was like, really academic and I didn't. I obviously I partied, but I wasn't actually out all the time. I was really determined and I got a job. Now I'm. And I was in a five-year. You'll kill me. A five-year situationship. I did five years in the trenches. And like when I was at the trenches, yet I was at Dunkirk. I was actually in hell. Um, so now I'm just like, I'm done using my brain. I'm really having a good time for the next few years. So I would have Tan Mojo from America. Would absolutely [ __ ] have her. Then I would have Dom Dollar, big DJ cuz we would just be having a massive party. And then maybe Katy Perry. See what she's on. I need to sit on your table. I feel the vibes would be very tting over it. I can. I can dip in and dip out. And then you can dip in and dip out. Table hopping. Yeah. It'd be good. But like debating, I'm a people pleaser, man. I'm not trying to argue with anyone ever, ever. I'm always right. Closing thoughts. What have we got coming up? What can we watch out for? Oh God, I got SL by. But let me think. What one? Let me just focus on one. Yeah. Um, no, everything we want to know. Everything. Well, I'm in the Pro. It's got. It's like a couple of years. It's going to take a couple of years. But I'm putting it there. I'm trying to start. Well, I am starting a dating consultancy. Yes. Like a matchmaking thing. What was that show [ __ ] years ago? Matchmaker. [ __ ] You would be so good at that. Oh my God. So it's cuz it's going. Like, I really want to like do my research on people cuz I don't want to have this agency and then vouch for people and then they're like absolute psychopaths. I will be your first case. Find me a husband. So that's what I want to do. So that's like. It's just waiting for the right time. So it's getting a database of people. So in order to do that, I'm going to do the not the typical influencer. I'm doing a course. But I genuinely have spent a lot of time like studying, doing my research, having the right conversations with people like real people about like dating. So it's not just me thinking I've got an idea online and putting my opinion out. They're doing like extensive research. So I want to sell a course. Put my courses out. Then hopefully with that, if it's because people that are going to buy the course are people that actually want to find love. They want to boost their self-esteem. So putting doing that out. And I'm supposed to. That's. I mean, I hate. I can't drop dates because I don't actually release to. And I've been writing a book. Have you really? Can you tell us what it's about? Or no? Well, this thing. So I've got. I've WR. Well, I've WR one. One's finished, which is going to be an ebook on dating. And that is incredible. Thank you. H on. You're actually like, you are literally insane. Like, but in a really good way. Like, wow. And a bit insane. Yeah. You have to be. You have to be. And, um, my book, which is obviously about my life, which I'm working on, but that's going to take a bit longer. The plot is not done yet. Yeah. So the main thing to focus probably is the ebook and the course. Amazing. And come correct. [ __ ] Yes, please. Like, come correct. Yes. Yeah. Amazing. Yeah. I'm like, really obviously we done our deep dive, but like, you are really like, I feel motivated. A. Thank you. Did I speak too much? I, I spoke too much. Not enough. I feel I didn't ask you enough. It's my. No, I'm so used to. Did I ask? No, no. It's always weird on the other side. Like, oh my God, no. Of course, absolutely. You are always. Well, welcome here. Oh my God, listen, I'm coming. I'll bring you. Always [ __ ] welcome. Right, plug your stuff. Where can people find you on socials? Just Cheyenne Reynolds on all digital platforms. Amazing. That's so simple. Well, thank you. Thank you. You must come back. No, I will. Amazing. We should do this like a couple times a year. Those vibes. Yay. F. Shall we? And Happy Valentine's. Happy Gallentine. [ __ ] all you [ __ ] losing men. And on that note, do not forget to like, comment, subscribe, put your notification bell on because we have so much coming soon. Okay, I'll see you all next week. Bye.