The video discusses the movie "The Notebook" and challenges the common perception that it's simply a story about cheating. The speaker argues that while the story does involve infidelity, the core female fantasy isn't the act of cheating itself. Instead, the fantasy lies in the idea of being deeply and unconditionally loved by someone who has never loved anyone else, who waits for you, yearns for you, and builds a life with you, forgiving you even when you make mistakes. The speaker suggests that for women, cheating might be seen as collateral damage in pursuit of this ultimate love fantasy. The video also posits that a woman who identifies "The Notebook" as her favorite movie might be exhibiting "red flags," indicating a lack of maturity and an inability to understand the male perspective on the complex situation depicted in the film.

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You guys want to see an example of a woman that will completely justify a love story that starts off with cheating? Here it is.

It actually really irritates me when a guy says he doesn't like The Notebook because it's a cheating story. Yes, it is a cheating story. Let's get into it.

Thing I need you to understand is that the female fantasy is not cheating on your husband or your fiance. Female fantasy is having someone that loves you, that waits for you, that yearns for you, that builds a house for you when you asked it only once. It's having someone who loved you. They never loved anyone else before. They didn't love anyone after you. Even when you make mistakes, their forgiveness is unconditional.

Even if cheating itself is not the fantasy for women, what is the fantasy is allowing it to be the collateral damage to getting what she wants. And that is why if a woman says that she loves The Notebook, like that is her favorite movie. Red flags. She is thinking like a 17 or 18-year-old and she has not matured enough to realize the man's perspective and how really actually messed up that whole situation.

This is a RED FLAG in a woman…#shorts

You guys want to see an example of a
woman that will completely justify a
love story that starts off with
cheating? Here it is. It actually really
irritates me when a guy says he doesn't
like the notebook because it's a
cheating story. Yes, it is a cheating
story. Let's get into it. Thing I need
you to understand is that the female
fantasy is not cheating on your husband
or your fiance. Female fantasy is having
someone that loves you, that waits for
you, that yearns for you, that builds a
house for you when you asked it only
once. It's having someone who loved you.
They never loved anyone else before.
They didn't love anyone after you. Even
when you make mistakes, their
forgiveness is unconditional.
>> Even if cheating itself is not the
fantasy for women, what is the fantasy
is allowing it to be the collateral
damage to getting what she wants. And
that is why if a woman says that she
loves The Notebook, like that is her
favorite movie. Red flags. She is
thinking like a 17 or 18year-old and she
has not matured enough to realize the
man's perspective and how really
actually messed up that whole situation

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This is a RED FLAG in a woman…#shorts

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