pretty women live in a completely different reality

If you're not attractive, don't watch this video. You're not going to understand anything that I'm about to talk about, anything that I'm going to say. Save yourself the time. Save me the headache of having to read your stupid comments in my comment section. I don't want to hear it. This is for the people that know what I'm talking about. This is for the attractive, conventionally attractive, beautiful women in the world. If you're not one of those, sorry, but this is not for you.

I have a bunch of other videos. Let me just preface there. Pretty women live in a completely different reality. If you are an attractive woman and you're watching this, you know exactly what I'm talking about. Everyone assumes that your life is perfect and our lives are just so easy and simple. We never had to work for anything. We never had any problems. We're just dumb because, you know, we get to be hands off all the time. We don't have to worry about anything. Everyone's just taking care of everything for us everywhere. And oh my gosh, is that farther from the truth? Is that further from the truth? Okay. I think pretty women have some of the hardest lives. Okay. Well, my mom was an international supermodel. If you're new here, if you're not new here, you would know that. Um, I consider myself attractive. I have really, really attractive friends, you know, and we all somewhat agree on it. Yes, there's a lot of opportunities. There's a lot of good things. There are sometimes some instances where our lives are pretty easy or someone steps in and, you know, we get better experiences and we get things easier, whatever. That is true. I have a whole video titled like looks matter that one of the first videos I ever made, why it's so important to be attractive. But this video specifically is diving into the complete opposite side of that, the negative things that come with it that you have to prepare yourself for. Or maybe you're going through right now and you need some clarity and reassurance. That is why I'm here.

Being an attractive woman could make your life significantly more dangerous, isolating, and just emotionally and mentally so draining and confusing. The point of this video and the message I want you to take away is that your beauty will change the way that people treat you on a fundamental psychological level. It's true. I mean obviously obviously that's that's the whole point. But with that comes really really good things and then there's also an equally amount of really really really bad things. So, it's going to change the way people speak to you, how patient they are with you, the way you're sexualized, resentment, jealousy, envy, the unnecessary humbling that people will do to you for no reason, how much they project on to you, all of the things. Once you become aware of this, you can literally never unsee it again. And that is why I'm so passionate about this topic. That's why my whole brand is built on this. That's why I have a whole ebook on this, by the way, in the description, diving into envy and jealousy and hidden agendas from other people as a young, impressionable, beautiful woman, is because my mom was an international model. She was always considered beautiful her whole life. She started modeling when she was eight until she was 45. And the experiences that this woman has with people is like, and seeing it growing up is just like makes you sick to your stomach. And you would think, "Oh my gosh, this woman is so beautiful. Why? Why would these things happen to her? Um why wasn't her life easy? And said she had one of the worst like horrible lives like filled with like so much garbage from people. And yeah, she's had good experiences. She's, you know, been in really good rooms, been around really successful people, but like the negative definitely outweighed the positive for her. Um and so and seeing it growing up and seeing how people would treat her really really opened my eyes up from a young age and then also my own experiences um from people like hating me for no reason, excluding me. I was always I've always been so isolated. I feel like I don't know. It's it's a lonely it's lonely when you're attractive. Okay. It's harder to make friends. It's harder to be in relationships with men that don't want to just use you as a symbol or for their status or for their ego because they want to humble you and feel better about themselves. Um, finding a non- insecure man that you're not going to make insecure because every other people see your value. You know, it's rough, okay? And the general public will look at you, especially if you're in the public like like me and assume that everything that I have is given to me. My life's easy. I have sugar daddies and blah blah blah when I really don't. I really don't. I had to work for every single thing that I have so hard and that's why I push brains, you know, and I post all the psychological things. And you have to be smart as a pretty woman, especially if you're young. You need to have a good head on your shoulders because this world will use and abuse you the first chance it gets. So thinking that, oh, I'm just going to be pretty and my life's going to be so easy is so stupid. It's so stupid. You need to be mentally prepared. You need to know what to watch out for. I go dive in I go really really deep into this in my book. Um, if you want to get it, it's in my description.

But moving right into it, I want to talk about the halo effect. Okay, people talk about the halo effect left and right all over the place everywhere on social media. It's a psychological phenomenon. Okay, when you're a beautiful woman, you become a comparison, a projection, a competition, a fantasy, and a target. Everybody talks about the halo effect like it's this big positive thing. Okay. Nobody talks about the negative side of it, too. Oh, attractive people get treated better. Yeah, sure. Sure. Maybe. Maybe in the Yeah, I speak about this all the time in a general in some ways. In some ways, you know, the darker side of the halo effect is people stop seeing you accurately at all whatsoever. It's a projection of their inner feelings. Okay? So, when you're an attractive person, imagine you're walking around like this holding a mirror up to people. That's essentially what you're doing. and the halo effect. Most people talk about it like it's this positive thing. Oh, if you're attractive, people assume you're kind, smart. That's not always true. Sometimes those people walking around that you're holding up a mirror to that are extremely insecure will look at you, see that you're attractive, assume that you very promiscuous or that you've had everything handed to you in your life or that you're really dumb. Okay? just off the way that you look with no evidence at all. They're assigning these traits to you based solely on the way that you look. Almost always assume that attractive women are extremely mean, extremely dumb, shallow, have no accomplishments, all with no evidence. Like this is what I get on a daily daily basis. This is all people ever think about me. And then they find out a couple things about me and they're like, "Oh my gosh, that's so shocking." What? You actually have a personality? Well, you actually like worked for everything you have. Oh, wait. Actually, yeah. Yeah. Yeah. It's so shocking to other people. That's why I say pretty women live in a different universe. We're like aliens. People don't understand us. And it's especially if you're not promiscuous, you are like another creature to these people, okay? Because for some reason, everyone assumes that if you're an attractive woman, you automatically slept with the whole planet. Okay? Again, it's a projection. People react emotionally to your beauty before you even open your mouth. Okay? And yes, it can be positive, but then there's also going to be a lot of negatives, too. Attractive women grow up managing other people's emotions and their projections onto you, their perceptions, their insecurities. You end up managing it all all your life. You know, you're dealing with these really, really bad situations from people and constantly asking yourself, "Why me? Why me? Why is this happening to me?" which is where I was up until about like a year ago when I first started all of this. I was so confused and just angry with the world constantly because I thought I wasn't, you know, I never thought I was doing truly anything wrong to offend people. I was a huge people pleaser. I only ever wanted people to like me. Uh because for some reason my whole life I've been traumatized and triggered by people just treating me horribly for no reason at all and also seeing it happen to my mom and this and that. So I became like this super insecure people pleaser that wanted just wanted people to like me. And then one day it just clicked and I looked into everything. I studied a lot of human psychology. I don't know you call it. I don't have no I didn't go to college for it. I'm just a girl and I didn't go to school for that. I'm just a girl with a lot of experience and a mother who has a lot of experience and would tell you the same thing. So, when you're attractive, especially from childhood, you grow up managing everyone else's insecurities and projections on to you. And it's so exhausting. It's so exhausting. And my mom went through that for her whole life. And even up until her age, now she's 50. And it only started to click for her now. Why? But she went her whole life like so upset all the time. Why are they this? Why are they that? Why is this happening to me? Why do they do this to me? Yeah. This is why. This is why everything I'm telling you in this video, this is why people want to humble attractive women. Okay? You're walking around. You're just living your life right as an attractive girl. You think, you know, you just want to have fun. You just want to have your friends. You just want to experience your life. You don't want to hurt anyone. You don't want to target anyone. You're not doing anything. You're just living your life. And people will humble you. Try to humble you. This is one of the biggest things nobody talks about and one of the worst things and like the center of all of this. Honestly, people love humbling attractive women, especially insecure men, jealous women, and just bitter, miserable, sad losers. There's this weird psychological satisfaction that people get when they see a beautiful woman get rejected or humbled or embarrassed or you know become insecure or get cheated on or degraded in some way. People get satisfaction from that because deep down you trigger them. You hold up this mirror and this inner reflection of them and make them feel lower or bad about themselves. So when they see something bad happening to you, they love it. They love it. People love to see a beautiful woman get degraded or humiliated in some type of way. It's so sad, but it's so true. People almost celebrate it. Women bond over this. Okay, stupid, ugly, miserable women, which is most of them. Most of them, all of them love to gang up on a beautiful woman that they all feel inferior to attractiveness wise. You know, people bond. Loser women bond with each other over the mutual dislike and jealousy of a more attractive woman. People celebrate it. I can't tell you how many times I've had friendships fall out where they just like even my own friends that I introduced to each other. Um where I've just been left out and secluded and randomly randomly and like they will celebrate the fact that I'm not friends with them anymore because of something they did. Okay. Because of something they did. And I never understood it. And it's like well duh. these people are coming together and so happy bonding over their mutual jealousy and mutual envy of me. They justify each other and make each other feel like, oh, we're not doing anything wrong. It's her that's the problem because they need to tear you down. Okay? They already see you as up here because you're so attractive and you're better looking than them. Especially if you're successful and attractive, like it's the worst out here. It's the worst. People will try their absolute hardest to just rip you down. People get like this sense of euphoria when they see an attractive, beautiful woman who's successful or has nice things or whatever get humbled. Have you seen what happens to an attractive woman that gains some weight? Have you seen the internet? Have you seen that? People love it. People love it cuz they get to tear down that woman that they thought that they think in their head, you know, is like so much above them because the attractiveness, whatever. It makes them feel so good when the woman is now socially perceived as less attractive or less valuable because of her attractiveness because she gained weight. Okay, people love it. People love to see that happen and see a beautiful woman get humbled. The reason this happens is because beautiful women represent social power and social dynamics a lot more than people want to admit. Insecure people hate hate seeing power and attraction in other people. That's why people will get weirdly bitter with you, weirdly hostile towards you for no reason. Not because you actually did something, okay? But because your existence triggered a comparison. That's the thing. That's the thing. When you're an attractive woman, you are going to constantly be compared to everyone all the time. Obviously, at this point, we all know female jealousy isn't only just real, but it's one of the worst worst worst things to experience on this planet. Female jealousy is one of the most powerful, like evil social forces I've ever witnessed in my life. And attractive women learn this very, very early in life. You know, most of our moms tell us, "Oh, you know, they're just jealous. They're just jealous." Like we've learned this from a young age. When you walk into a room, you immediately feel like a pass passive aggression. Girls are mean to you for no reason. There's weird tension. They're clutching on to their boyfriends. There's weird energy shifts. You're excluded. And a lot of this jealousy is covert. People won't openly hate you. They'll just subtly like undermine you, make it really, really sneaky, try to make you feel crazy, try to gaslight you into thinking that what they're doing to you isn't real. Okay? They will copy you and resent you at the same time. Talk behind your back. Try to tarnish your reputation without you knowing. Compete with you secretly is a big big big one. This one like and one of the worst ones is those friends that are secretly praying on your downfall the whole time because they're so jealous of you and your presence just brings out this nasty jealous monster within them and all that they do is stick around to see you fall. They want first row seats to see your crash out and to see you go down. They're over there like pulling the strings trying to make it happen to you. A lot of people be really really fake nice to you because they don't want to outwardly look like they have an issue with you because then everyone else could will think that they're insane and see that they're jealous because why else would they just treat you bad for no reason. So they'll smile on your face while secretly the whole time praying on your downfall and doing these really, really sneaky things that no one else can see and only you can. So that you feel crazy and so that no one else can see that they're jealous of you except for you.

The next thing I want to get into is men. Because I talk a lot about women jealousy, but I don't talk enough about men jealousy. I think men are men become really really weird around attractive women. Men aren't there's like this huge perception that if you're beautiful like men are super nice to you and you know men will desire you blah blah blah. Yes, it's true for the most part but there's also a huge huge part where it's like no there's a lot of men that are really mean to attractive women. I would even argue that mo some like 50% of the time they're significantly more cruel. Okay. And I think that shocks people when I say that or bring that up or whenever this is talked about because society has this fantasy, this fantasy that beautiful women are adored and treated so well by men. Okay, it's not true. A lot of men will pedestalize attractive women. Yes. Obsess over them, but then like also resent men over sexualization of them, trying to dominate you psychologically. Or there's also the men that know they can't pull you. So, their whole mission being around you is to humble you or to degrade you or to make little comments to you for no reason at all. But if you do show interest in a man and he thinks like, okay, he can get you. He and he's weak mentally and insecure, they get genuinely angry when they're with a woman that they can't control. So, that's where like the humiliation comes into negging, disrespect, hot and cold behavior, emotional games, all the things. Most men that see you as out of their league will attempt to humble you. And most men will take pleasure in hurting attractive women emotionally because it restores their ego. That's why you see these men commenting on pictures of Megan Fox and saying, "Oh, mid." Like, holy cope. Holy cope. You're not even that pretty. Basically, you probably think everyone likes you. Everyone wants you. You're too high maintenance. Oh, you're probably crazy. You know, like the little comments like that. Meanwhile, the men saying it are completely obsessed and would like literally jump off a bridge if it meant that they could be with that woman.

The next thing I want to get about is being attractive and beautiful for the most part makes people have less empathy for you. People automatically become less empathetic towards attractive, beautiful women because they assume that life is just so easy. And when you are an attractive woman and you suffer or you're going through something, people minimize it, mock it, and validate it. And like I said earlier, actually enjoy it and celebrate it. They think, "Oh, she's pretty. She'll be fine. She'll just, you know, she'll be fine. She her life is so easy. Her life is so easy." And truly, this creates such an isolating experience for attractive people because what do you mean? It's so isolating. People don't understand. Like you, this is why I also push like I'm only friends with other attractive people. I'm not friends with like ugly, miserable people. I'm sorry if that offends you. Cry about it. I don't care. What am I going to have in common with someone that has no idea about what I'm talking about right now? No. No. All my friends are extremely beautiful and it will always be that way. And no, I don't think beauty stops with age. I've seen extremely beautiful old old women with their extremely beautiful old old women friends. Okay, that's who I aspire to be like. That's what I'm going to be like. The beauty doesn't stop with the age. I'll never stop taking care of myself and dressing well and looking presentable and looking good. I don't care what age I am. So, if you tie that to age and you think that's so shallow, I don't care. I don't care. All of my attractive friends agree. All every every attractive woman I've ever met agrees. Like, we all know this. Like, we we all know this. It's just like an unspoken rule. It's an unspoken law. Attractive women are always denied vulnerability. Okay? We don't get to be heard out. When you're beautiful, people automatically assume you can't be insecure. You have nothing to be insecure about. You can't struggle. You can't be mistreated. You can't have these situations. Your life can't be hard. Your life can't be difficult. And when you do talk about your experiences and come out and say like, "No, I'm dealing with this, this, and this." People actually get angry. People truly actually believe that beauty cancels out suffering, which is just bizarre. And it's insane how common that is. Pretty women become public property. This is truly dark and so evil and I don't really see anyone ever talking about it. People feel weirdly entitled to pretty women. Strangers automatically think they deserve your attention. Your energy, your body, your kindness, your response, and when they don't get access to you, people become so hostile, especially men that think that they're powerful or really successful. This happens a lot with attractive women. Like these usually these types of men are the ones that feel super super entitled. And when you're not interested, they think that they have like every reason for you to like them. And when you still show that you're not interested, they become so scary and so angry. This is why attractive women face so much harassment, the stalking, the obsession, the aggression, entitlement, all these things. Everyone romanticizes being beautiful and attractive. And then they ignore the reality that comes with it, which is like the danger. And constant attention like this everywhere that you go all the time is so dangerous. Puts a huge target on your back. It's psychologically exhausting to deal with, too, cuz you're always like in a fight or flight. You're always sleeping with one eye open. You can't trust anybody. So, and I think like the worst part about all of this is that attractive women like are expected to be like the nicest, the most polite, accommodating while dealing with all of this. Like the true reality that no one else would know other than in another attractive woman navigating all of this. But yes, I will say you should always be polite. You need to always be the most well-mannered person in every single room that you ever walk into. Yes, but be mean. Like why? No, I don't believe that, you know, women we need to be so soft and sweet to everybody and so accommodating. No, I think if you're an attractive, beautiful woman, you need to be mean as hell, have high standards. The women that get everything that they want are b, okay? You need to be a b. You need to raise your standards. Be mean. Be mean as hell, okay? Don't let anyone do anything. Don't let anyone try you because as soon as you are nice, as soon as you show people that there's a little crack that they're going to try to slide through it.

No, I think social media made pretty punishment a thousand times worse. Now, beauty is public, obviously. It's everywhere. Beauty is measured publicly, compared publicly, criticized publicly. People are literally zooming into women's faces and bodies, looking for every single flaw and posting it online now these days. It's just insane. I think social media created this culture where attractive women are constantly either woripped or envied, hated or objectified all at the exact same time. People want access to beautiful women while also resenting the existence at the same time. It creates like this really, really dark, horrible, scary, hard to navigate situation because now with social media, like the dehumanization of an attractive woman has gone so far. so far. That's why I'm saying like all these things like you're not allowed to have feelings. You're not allowed to struggle. You become content. You become a fantasy. You become a competition or a symbol instead of a person. Okay? People don't see you as a person. That's why I say pretty women live in a completely different reality. It's like we're aliens. We're not people. So when I say pretty women live in a completely different reality, I don't just mean by all the privileges. I mean by the pressure, by the unspoken evilness that most people can't even fathom exists and wouldn't know exists unless they're part of this realm as well. I mean, the punishment, this is truly about pretty punishment. This video is all, you know, and I would say the privilege versus the punishment, 50/50. Um, I would even argue that the punishment is more on the heavier side because you get, you know, it's harder to make friends. It's harder to make genuine connections in general. Like the privilege is a little small part and it's usually really really really superficial, but like if you're not living a super superficial life, then you know the punishment definitely outweighs the positives. Also, you know, there are really good experiences and you would never want to change it. Like you I honestly think that being attractive is the most important thing in the world, okay? Because it can get you through so many doors. it can get you, you know, but obviously you need to have a good head on your shoulders, otherwise it's going to just go to waste and, you know, really bad things are going to happen to you. But, you know, it also depends on where you live, the situations that you're constantly putting yourself in, um the people that you allow around you. All of these things matter heavily for how much punishment and how much privilege you're getting.

If you're an attractive woman and you this is like all news to you, you've never heard any of this before, welcome to the dark side. This is the truth. You need to wake up. You need to wake up. You need to see the world for what it really, really, truly is. Stop making excuses for people. I used to do that all the time, thinking, "Oh, they didn't mean this. Oh, they didn't mean that." No, it's because they're jealous. It's because your beauty threatens them. It's because they're plotting on you. Yes. Yes. Yes. It is that serious. It is that serious. I don't like seeing those comments of like, "Oh, you're so negative. It's not that serious." Yeah, it is. Yeah, it is. You wouldn't know because you don't know what I'm talking about. If I got into my personal situations of how I do know it is that serious and how my mom knows it's that serious, you would have no idea. Check up that Valyria girl on TikTok. Look what happened to her because she had one jealous friend. A friend. Okay, imagine what you think. What do you think like multiple jealous friends would do? Or a jealous man. What do you think? It is that serious. It is absolutely that serious. You need to protect yourself. You need to wake up. Stop being so stupid. Stop being so Stop being so stupid. If you want to know more on a psychological level, more of the specific little things to look out for jealousy, how to smart it, um what to look out for, how to protect yourself, read my ebook. I put everything that I know that my mom taught me that I know all into that book. I think it's a really good read. I put everything that I know into it truly. Um, I love you guys so much. Thank you so much for the support. Truly, truly, truly. I've been so inconsistent recently with my posting schedule. Like, my life has been crazy. I just moved like two and a half almost 3 weeks ago. I'm still getting everything set up here um in Miami. You know, I'm configuring things out here, meeting my new friends, getting my new, you know, in the groove a little bit. Um, and it's been really, really just like a crazy time, not going to lie. like what I just what do you expect? I'm in a new city, completely new. Any questions, let me know in the comments. Let me know what you guys would like me to talk about next. Make sure you follow me on Instagram and Tik Tok. My Instagram's at Gracie Draasco. My Tik Toks at Gracie Draaskovich. Um, and join my Being Brains channel on my Instagram. It's completely free because in there I do Q&A's. I do YouTube video recommendations. Um, that's where I get a lot more personal with my audience. I hope to see you there. And as always, I'll see you guys on the next one. Bye.