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Come on. You got to sort an ambulance at the back.
>> What's happened?
>> We're going to Wigan. We spoke to Wigan.
>> We're going to Bolton first off and
>> Bolton is not an exception because
>> Bolton's not literally abused for an advocate.
>> Right.
>> It doesn't matter what
>> he's not at the minute. This baby needs
>> no choice to be made by themselves because they request they request a transfer of care
>> advice transfer of careful of making a rational decision. All right.
>> Rational decision.
>> Yeah.
>> I've been fully assessed by the mental health.
>> You got discharging though. Have they stop over there with me colleague?
>> Can I can I carry me over?
>> We're going to take the baby as well.
>> Can I like a criminal? Have you got your body cams on? They'll show you because seriously yeah I'm being treat I will bring I will bring my baby and this is more listen this is not about I am in a rational mind I've been fully assessed by the mental out we're not going to accept that at the minute given the nature of the way you left the hospital the wall you give birth yesterday
>> the wall yourself
>> what you mean they told me I was only going to be there for 24 hours I gave birth at 1:00 in the morning yesterday morning I want number right what they said to I've got the office.
>> Listen, what phone and phone do?
>> Can we can Can I explain explain one person?
>> Let me explain then. Be quiet. That's the only one that's been there. Right.
>> Right.
>> Basically, what it is yet is the baby was in the second sent. So, it was small for gestational age. Now, in my opinion, and they know this as well, they're as fully aware of this as I am, is they overestimated the baby's due date by two weeks. So, the baby, sorry, underestimated it. So, he came he would have come 2 weeks early. So, he's going to be smaller than natural person, the the average. Anyway, long story short, yeah, the baby is absolutely fine. What's happened is the baby's been born, no problems whatsoever. At first, he had a temperature problem for the first hour, so that was fixed. Yeah. Um he had a temperature problem for the first hour that was sorted out and then honestly as a standard cuz he's in second it was in the second sent for him to be on observation. So at first it was every 2 hours and then after it was fine for so long it went to every 4 hours which is sweet. So they was doing that and basically what they said is all these odds are fine. What happened is last night I was
>> So what was your midter?
>> No uh G4.
>> G4. So basically what happened was I was bent over in pain cuz they're trying to tell me that a pain in my neck is [ __ ] gas. Do you know what I mean? I'm 26. I wouldn't know if I've got a fart brewing. Do you know what I mean? And given that I farted, I'm going to guess it wasn't a fart. Anyway, so I was curled over in pain. I went and asked for some painkillers and he's screaming. He's having a poo at the same time. Do you know what I mean? She went, "Let me take him. I'll take sweet. No worries. Thank you." So she took him. I went for a little walk. Come back. Oh, he's jittery. Now you Google jitters. Jitters can be a normal reaction. Yeah, it's just a normal natural baby reflex. Yeah, she said it's jitters. So, I've done my own research. Don't even get when I say I'm in a rational mind. I've done my own research. I'm not I'm fully in contact with a mental health midwife who was telling me please complain about this because this is happens all the time and I can't do nothing about it because I will get sat listen right. So
>> basically, long story short, yeah, he's been on observations every 4 hours now for the past 12 hours to make sure that he's okay and he's sweet. They took him last night to give us a bit of a 10-minute break while I was in pain.
>> The reason the reason why we've come, we've had a report that your baby's got a slipped head. That's the report that
>> No, that's news to me.
>> No, what we did just say I'll tell you what she did say. So when we've just been there this morning, a couple people have been in the hearing test people, the people that give the baby the assessment from the head to toe. And what they said was he had a dent on his head that was more than the average.
>> Is that like when it's misshaped when I know I've had my son, his head was a bit
>> You can see it for yourself.
>> Am I right to try?
>> I've got nothing to listen.
>> Yeah,
>> cuz I know when people
>> You can feel it there. You can feel it there. He's got a dip in his edge. Yeah.
>> That's a soft spot. Yeah.
>> To add.
>> Are they on about the soft spot on the top?
>> Yeah. Yeah. one about the soft spot on the top of his head, but she said, "Sorry mate, she said it dips him more than the average person." Yeah. And she was going to get the baby doctor to come and see. So the baby doctor came around. It was a big African guy called Josiah. Yeah. And he was like, "Everything perfect, fine. Blah blah blah blah blah." And I said, "I'm looking to go home now." He everyone has knew since 9:00 this morning, I'm looking to go home. Yeah. And they've been looking for a problem. So they've said this, Join, he has said again. And he's the third person in this body to say your baby's obs are absolutely fine. Everything else is absolutely fine.
>> You got a copy of this on your report on your notes.
>> I've not I've not got my notes to take your notes off you when you give birth.
>> You got it online?
>> No, they've not given me Listen, they've not even fed me in the 3 days I've been there.
>> Frustration.
>> They've not even fed me in the 3 days I've been there. But nonetheless, anyway, so he's come in and I'm saying he's saying to me, "Yeah, well now it's his policy in it for us to watch him for another 12 hours. It would literally only be from now till 1:00 in the morning that he would qualify for their cover, you know, the 48 hour. Yeah. Yeah. To do the rest of the things. Yeah.
>> As the checks, have they done like the hearing check? Have they done?
>> He's passed his hearing check. He's done re everything is passed. That's what Josiah and the other lady have just done this morning. Yeah. So, I fully waited for all of that. Yeah. And then I said to Josiah, look, I'm looking to go home. He's saying, "Look, it's policy for us to keep monitoring in up to 48 hours, which, as I said, will take it to 1:00 this like in in the morning coming up. Do you know what I mean? And I I've not slept for 3 days, do you know what I mean? I do have a mental health care plan cuz I have diagnosed PTSD and emotionally unstable personality disorder, but I'm very much stable. I got fully assessed by the pre
>> cousin."
>> Your cousin. Can you give us 5 minutes? Is that all?
>> I fully been assessed by the Perinator mental health team.
>> Give us 5 minutes. Can I just look after baby while you talk? It's all right. It's all right. You sure? Your relationship,
>> right? Can you just give us a couple of minutes just while we get
>> Where's my mom? Can someone say
>> talking to my colleague?
>> All right. Anyway, so
>> are you staying in?
>> Long story short, yeah, it takes it to 1:00 in the morning. Please don't try and rush me and take him off me because I will bring him to you.
>> We just obviously I'm not finished yet.
>> Just give us a minute. I know. I understand. I've been in your position. I know it's stressful. You just had a baby at the minute,
>> right? Just calm down, please, cuz you're not helping the situation.
>> What I'm saying yet? Basically, the baby's meant to be on observation till 1:00 in the morning this morning.
>> You guys, if you are, just leave us outside the room. There's too many of us in here. That's all.
>> Okay. That's why I've asked here between us.
>> All right. Go on. That's why I'm just saying as long as you want people know what you All right. Go on. Go out. I got nothing to hide. There's nothing people don't know about me.
>> Don't know that. That's why you So, we've been called because you've left after not being discharged after being told not to leave.
>> Right. There's an issue. I don't know your child's name. Sorry.
>> Cas.
>> Cas.
>> They've got a concern for something to do with his skull
>> that they want to observe
>> and there's potential withdrawal from drug use whilst you've been pregnant. Right.
>> Okay. That's why they want you to come back and that's why they didn't want you to leave.
>> Right. But they didn't say none of this. And I said this to
>> Josiah. It's 1359, right? We're going to be exercising our powers under the police uh and criminal evidence act, right? And that's going to be uh police powers of protection. All right.
>> You see what I mean?
>> Minute,
>> right? Because just been made,
>> right? Sorry.
>> Can I with them?
>> We're not going to take child away and disappear.
>> That's not how it works. Right. But we have to act.
>> I will come with you. I'm telling you, I'm going to come with you. I've not got a prop list.
>> Finish. We have to act in the best interest of everybody around, don't we? As I explained to you before, we don't know what your capacity is at the minute for
>> I'm fully I'm fully Listen, I'm I've got the report from the perinatal mental health team.
>> You've not discharged yet and you've gone against their advice.
>> I went against their advice twice last week when they induced me on G3.
>> You gave birth yesterday.
>> I know,
>> right? And you've you've left hospital. I don't know how you've got here. How have you got here?
>> A taxi,
>> right?
>> A drive,
>> right?
>> What do you mean? I I I got here in a taxi but I drive many of ways like
>> we don't know about your current mental state do we don't know about she's carried the only thing that's wrong with me now right can I just all right can I explain then basically he's meant to be on obsting there's no real not really no jitters jitters can be normal
>> however it's a brand new newborn and I understand from my mom myself I can understand
>> and that's the point that's why I was going to take him to wigan I'm not going to deprive him of what he needs.
>> He was already at Bows and so his can he's now continue at
>> B. But the the right to choose is a real thing. It's a real
>> Yeah, we've got the transfer in motion. If you only antiatal, they have got all of my notes. It just so happened that what happened was last week when I went to get induced and I ended up leaving because they said that they couldn't continue cuz they was over staffed and the hospital was on divert. And if you work in the area, you'll probably know that anyway. They said the hospital was on divert. I ended up going home and then they ended up giving me a membrane sweep and telling me like basically we'll put you on a list to burst your waters in the process. I was in the process of transferring to Lee. If you phone Lee now, Lee have got me on red alert in their finger. It's it it's all been a thing for weeks now because what they do what they've done to me for the past few days has been going on for weeks. This is why the mental health team are telling me to complain about it. Do you know what I mean? When I say I'm fully compass mentalist. I'm not a [ __ ] idiot. Obviously, right, I understand. I understand you want to transfer to England, but obviously from poling point of view, we've just had a report. The reason I know it's it's not
>> you respect that you're telling me you're a mother and you understand. So, can't you respect that if you didn't feel like I'm telling you they've neglected me for the past 3 weeks? I've just been killed off.
>> This is at Bolton.
>> This is at Bolton. I'm telling you, we are show the call log to Wigan. We've just been on the phone.
>> I've just We're going to That's where we were on the way to now. We're going to Wigan Hospital. Listen, I believe you. I do.
>> Honestly, I'm I don't know. I don't want to be like, why am I being painted out to be a nutter for [ __ ] You know what I mean? Just wanting you've got a brand new newborn and view. All right.
>> Luke, I've literally called them up to
>> Right. Okay.
>> I'll come with you and then Yeah, someone can come with
>> What are you waiting for? An ambulance?
>> No, we'll take you up. It'd be quicker.
>> Oh, right.
>> Come here. Are you are you staying
>> if we can get you back to B and if you speak to the staff at B happy with you going to Wigan you can move from there
>> you can't move you know what it is you know what it is right
>> when I was G4
>> when I was when I was on G3
>> [ __ ] me right off I'm not even going to lie mate this bothered me
>> do you know what let's just go back to Bolton hospital because Oh, these are all complaints. Now, now this is all part I'll show you the complaint that I've already got. In fact, it's ready to go. It's been ready to go. And the only reason I've not done it is cuz I was waiting for my care to transfer vaulted. All they have done is abuse me for weeks. I promise you. I've been there since. What day did they break my waters?
>> Monday.
>> When was the first time they offered me food? This morning. This morning. This I asked them for painkillers. At 7:00. It's not till she turned up at 11. What kind of birth did you have?
>> A cesarian section.
>> Cesarian section. Oh, okay.
>> An emergency one where I got put to sleep for it as well. And they're trying to say that I'm off my head on drugs and my baby's withdrawing. No, my baby's withdrawing from the diamorphine and the hydrocodine and the morphine that you've been giving me while I'm [ __ ] pregnant. Do you know what I mean? But I don't even think he's withdrawing genuinely. If you like if you chill is not
>> Yeah, that's fine. If we take him back to hospital, they can do the checks. All right. I know it's frustrating.
>> The point is they keep saying this. We're going to do the checks, but then the checks never come and we never get these discharge papers. Do you know what I mean? And and it's
>> a long process. And I know they say they do this and they do that. And I know it's long, but they do generally have to do it. I know it's not the time that you want, right?
>> Do you know what it is? Obviously, I'm not like a [ __ ] idiot. I'm not like, "Oh my god, I want it done there and then, but I also don't want to be kept in there." And I feel like I'm being held hostage whilst being [ __ ] abu being in hospital is not nice, but imagine then you're not being fed on top of that. You're not getting painkillers when you're in pain. You're not you're not you can't sleep anyway. I've got a mental health plan because I've got PTSD. I got abused through my childhood. Do you know what I mean?
>> I'll take you to the hospital. We'll speak to the hospital. So, we'll refer this on to them. If we make sure we refer that on just like make sure that she gets the right care when we're there, we'll speak with them as well.
>> You got the plan. They I promise you they got the plan. Everything is there for them. This is my
>> to the hospital.
>> All right. Let's just get you to the hospital, get it sorted, and then before you know, you
>> that cop's coming through me door like I'm some [ __ ] sicko.
>> It's not that. It's just we have got duty care.
>> I understand that. And I've got a duty of care to my baby, too. Do you know what I mean? And that's why that's why it feels wrong knowing what I [ __ ] know and taking him back there.
>> Well, we're going to be with you while all this is going on anyway. So,
>> are you staying then?
>> For time being.
>> All right.
>> Have you got everything that you need for your baby?
>> Yeah. That bag over there? If you want if she wants to take it then yeah but
>> I'd rather carry it because of her.
>> Will you carry this? Are you coming?
>> Please come.
>> What?
>> Where's your key?
>> What?
>> Where's your key? You can't
>> be like six or seven. It's not going to be that mean charger.
>> I ain't got a charger.
>> You got it?
>> No, I don't. Nothing like this.
>> You come up with
>> me.
>> I got him. Yeah. Know
>> you've got four of us.
>> You've got four of us.
>> Yeah.
>> Got everything.
>> Yeah.
>> I'm not staying in hospital. I'll be getting a transfer of care. [Music] We've already got it a few weeks now. You going in your car?
>> You need to go in your car.
>> You get in with me. Should come with me. You go over there.
>> Are you going up? Did you go over there?