Millionaire Kickboxer Andrew Tate on Dealing with Fear and Adversity

We are live, welcome people! Boy, you're alert. I'm here with Warrior Boyo and Rotate, and he's just back from a war. Andrew, tell the people. Oh, how you doing, sir? I'm good, I'm good. Flowering this today. You know, there's a whole bunch of guys who are in flight shape, training for flights. On the four-time world champ used to whoop their asses all the time, but I came in out of shape, and they decided to come for me. And they knew I'd get tired quick, so they came for me. But I don't go down. I take myself. Hey, the guy gave me this black eye. All right, he quit first. I'm busting him in his face, and he fell down. So I still won. I just got a little bit of a little bit damaged. You see this eye? Go. I still was. Was that a? You should have seen the other guy. Situation. You just pulled on you. Normally it's, you should have seen the other guy. I'm like, perfectly, you know, silky smooth. But sometimes you gotta hold your licks. That's what I get for smoking cigars, drinking vodka, and hanging on big booties. All that. Well, yeah, maybe you could rub that in their face and see how that goes. They'll punch harder next time, I'm sure. And, and so you're, you're in preparation. Since we are looking to talk about warrior stuff today, and fear, Honda, we could say the dark side to some extent. You're in preparation for a fight, and I'm sure you've announced this before. Yeah. So, uh, exhibition match in Grass. On top of that, I've been offered a fight contract from March 11th in Romania, which I might take. I mean, I'm not in the ring for a while now, but I might take it and come back, step in the ring one couple more times. I don't need it anymore like I used to, but it's good just to prove to yourself you can still do it, you know? Like when you spend 10 or 11 years honing a craft, the last thing you wanna do is feel like it slipped away from you. You want to feel like you can still do it, you know? So I might be in there March 11th, whooping some ass. But it ain't easy now, 'cause when I was broke and I had nothing, there was nothing else to do but train. But now I've got businesses in different countries. I need to be all over the world. Got stuff going on. Got women, [ __ ] me, take [ __ ] me, [ __ ] me. Now I'm busy. So, I mean, you know, I've got stuff to do. I'm gonna push my Lambo around the streets for the haters. I got stuff to do. So it's hard to stay as motivated as they used to be.

I have noticed that with high-level champs, for example, I'm from Dublin, and that is Conor McGregor's hometown. And he, of course, when he had the hunger, he was a monster. He was killing them all. But I noticed recently when he stepped in that cage with Khabib, he was selling a lot of that whiskey. And he seemed a little bit like he underestimated the man across from him, who literally had nothing but God to carry him forward. I mean, we're all human. And you're a very rare individual if money doesn't change you or your views. My particular case, in my case, the problem is, is it's not that money changed me. It's that I don't make my money with fight. If you give me a million dollars to fight, I'll be motivated. But in kickboxing, I won't get that much for my comeback fight. I'll get maybe thirty grand, which is good money. But I make that every two weeks. To another [ __ ]. So it's like, money is it. Motivate me. So I'm actually taking my eye off of the money to go back to fight. So then you need to put, you need to keep your eye on both, because you can't just forget about the money side of things, do you know what I'm saying? So for me, it's like hunting. I make more money but don't fight. So that's, that's the thing for me. So it's just, it's just like a passion of love, you know? Just, just doing it because I, I miss it. Whatever, whatever. But yeah, I mean, that's what Conor. He's sold whiskey, he's doing this, he's doing that. He's running all over, dude. Coke and I can crazy. And then he's trying to fight a guy who was a strict Muslim, and you know, ain't banging [ __ ], ain't cocaine, nothing at the gym. I mean, I knew he was to take a whooping for me. I, there was no surprise. I'll say stuff. I knew it. I knew I knew it. And I think deep down, Conor knew it. So I, I suffer from that thing where it just kind of talks, and I'm just like, he's gonna, he's stumped the truth. He's gonna win. So at least he's, what's right. He's done really well. He's smashed the game. And if, yeah, he's good, but he's overpaid. I mean, he isn't getting paid what he's getting paid because how good a fighter he is. He's getting paid because he's got a big mouth. And this is the nature of this. But you can translate this into the world. I say this to people all the time, you know, don't be walking around through life being humble. Where's, where is that going? Anyone you need to rock up in the place. If I'm the baddest [ __ ], you just walk up. I'm number one. Tell her the girl you want some of the [ __ ]. My take is huge. Clarify my buck. Let her [ __ ] out the hard way. You should get what you want. She can be at afterwards. Levels in that, baby. But who cares? Still bang. Go.

I am, I've noticed with Conor. I think I believe the reason why people admire him so much is he does display something that will deviate us quite nicely into our, our first topic, which is the idea of fear. I've noticed that Conor seems to have an amazing mindset of making you either feel that he feels no fear, or in essence, he has really good management of fear. And that is something that I learned from when I started learning fighting as well. Like those first couple of spires, you'd be vibrating in fear just going up to them. And it's like the idea of having 400, like a million people around the world watching you get choked out. Like, I don't, the ability to to control that level of nervous energy and then channel it into a performance, I think is such a high-level skill. The people cultivate, Reuter, to cultivate, but often do not achieve. And that, that would be something I'd love to ask you about. Like, what do you do with dealing with fear when it comes to fighting, especially when you were younger and coming up? Well, this is the thing. No, people aren't very often afraid of fighting. They're freaking losers. So if you train to fight, it's not the art of fighting or the act of fighting that scares you. Losing. I think a lot of it for, especially the high-level guys, the skill is teaching yourselves to not think about losing. If you think about losing, no matter who you are, you're gonna get, you're gonna start to feel nervous. Did you think about on the look like a [ __ ] this guy's gonna make fun of me. I was gonna see me getting off Dow. Everything I said the press conferences are gonna make memes. I mean, make fun of it. And one's gonna laugh at me. My girl and look at me the same. She sees me asleep. You start thinking about it. It goes through your head. So you have to master the art just forgetting the fact that there's a negative possibility. And that's what, that's what Conor does. When he's talking to fight off, he's talking himself up. He's saying, there's no way you can beat me. There's no way you can beat. What he's really doing is convincing himself that there's no, you can't even consider the fallible loss. Because if you consider it, that starts into your psyche and then it affects your performance. And I could see in his up run with Khabib, maybe it's just as I'm a fighter, I could analyze that. What, what he was doing with Khabib was, what he was, he was trying to do the same thing with Outlook. When he did it with Aldo, he meant it. And when he did it with Khabib, he had quite convinced himself, even when he got into the Octagon. I could see it from a mile off. He had this fake bravado, but still, he had not quite convinced himself. People's invincibility. Then you start slipping, you get caught with a right hand, and it all just starts going downhill from there. So yeah, a lot of times you have to, especially in fear, in dangerous situations, the easiest way to manage fear is just to not think about the negative outcome. If you have to run into a building to save, if you have to run into a burning building to save a child, if you're gonna sit there and think, what if I get trapped? What if I get some fire? What if I die? You ain't got time that you start going. So a lot of it, a lot of a lot of fear management is willful ignorance. And in my experience, it's just, there's no other option. I'm gonna win. I'm gonna be the best. That one's gonna love me. I'm gonna be rich. There's no chance I'm gonna lose. So ain't even a risk. That's much easier than sitting there and actually thinking, okay, this could fire back at my face, big time.

I most certainly know it. Notice that in a different context that I would do performing. I would do singing and rapping and whatnot to be a musician and going up onto stage. I would notice then I get into the place where I be playing. And if I'm not going like soon, if I'm not going fast, I have more time to let it cook in my head. About I'll be going up there and that's when the, the fear says to incubate. And then it becomes more powerful. The more time you have to contemplate it. You need to distract yourself. I said, I want to fight first on my contract. And they said, yes. It's so much better to walk into the arena, get changed, warm up, and fight. Then walk into the arena and sit there for four or five hours, listening to other people get knocked out, seeing people come backstage, waiting for your turn, waiting for your turn, wait sir. Finally, you got your stuff on. You're sitting there. It's like before your fight, you're sitting there just waiting for the other fight to finish. So the good of distance or knockout, whatever. Someone comes in, goes, are you ready? Yeah. It's the whole build-up. Yes, yes. [ __ ]. We'll see. And we'll see if I return to the ring. I don't know. I'm conflicted about it. I kind of feel like I need to prove something to myself. But uh, I don't know. We'll see. I've got other stuff going on. I mean, I don't need to fight anymore for any kind of finance or anything. So we'll see how it goes. I guess. Like the only dangerous situation there is, you come up against the man who has nothing to lose. And then then it becomes quite interesting because it is a battle of wills. In their imagined foot. And I was, I was a grown fear. I've grown. All people say, all the more experience you have, the less afraid you'll be. With me, it's the awesome. I was fearless when I was new in the [ __ ]. Anyone care on a dais? No. It's nothing to lose. Now I'm a bit older. I'm sitting. I think, do I need the licks? Doing it damage? I got stuff to lose now. I mean, like one of my friends just got knocked out. He's brain damage now. I'm risking brain damage for 25, 30 grand. Like, like it's not worth it to me anymore. When I was young, I had nothing to lose. So yeah, it's, it's, I kind of feel like because I'm a little bit nervous about fighting, that's why I need to do it. I kind of feel like I need to prove myself somehow. So I'm stamping out the fear. Yeah, yeah. Fear me in my mind. About afraid of something, you should engage it directly, shouldn't you? Shouldn't let exist in the background, you know? So I'm a little bit nervous about quite actually engage it directly. And I should just do it. But we'll see. We'll see. I've got an offer from March 11th. So we'll see. I'm in training. Very interesting. I would, I would categorize fear that way. As I've noticed there's a way to reason it out of your head to some extent. Is that often times you're worried about danger? Often times you're worried about humiliation. I think that's even the, the most powerful one is the idea of humiliation. And in many senses, if you can teach yourself somehow, even true failure to some extent, that getting embarrassed literally doesn't hurt you at all, you'll be all right. You're able to really reduce the amount of fear you have. But a danger is one that kind of weighs heavy on you. You need to almost have a life-and-death sense. Because when you're going in to aspire, and I've never done a professional or an amateur fight properly, but I imagine it's the same thing. It's like, I don't need to take damage in order to move forward in life. I could move forward in other ways. It would start, you start to have a genuine worry about that. So that might eat away at your soul. Someone, you, yeah, that's definitely part me. Like, gender, I couldn't see any other way out of my dire situation but fight, you know? I feel broke, and I couldn't see any other way out. Now I have already eaten well. What I'm already out. And to I see lots of long wings out. So it's just like, you know, what am I fighting for? But you know, it's good. It's character-building. Nothing wrong with punches to do to the face. So absolutely true.

It's interesting. So you were, you were broke, and you were just saying, ha, [ __ ], what am I gonna do? How the [ __ ] am I gonna get the [ __ ] out of this situation? You're like, I will use my fists. I will like beat. I will go and just violence is the path. I will use violence to get out. Because like, what was, what was your kind of thought process there? So I thought, because I was pissed off. I was pissed off being broke. Like people see, I had this, no, my dad as a chess master. People have this idea that I come from money, which is completely not true. My dad made some money with chess, but my dad is a straight G. All went straight away on booze again. I was, we were broke. We grew up in America broke. We're on welfare, food stamps, blah, blah, blah. We came to England. We have an accountant house, and mom and dad split up. My mom came here. We're in a council house. She's on the dole. I was going to a school with like, zero percent pass rate. Like, real crap school. But I was just smart enough. I think a lot of people don't realize how good life could be. I mean, I don't want to be, I don't want to show everyone's parade and ruin that one's mine. But everyone here, I see talks. People in their content, you know, like, oh, I'm happy with life. Thought, why? Because people have a whole bunch more than you. And I was never content having a normal life. I was an exceptional life. I didn't want a normal car, a normal house, a normal girlfriend. I didn't want none of that. I was like, no, no, no. There's dudes out here that have the best. Why did they deserve the best? And I don't deserve the best. I really believe that. And this is something I've always found inside me. I just didn't understand why I couldn't have the best stuff. Even now, I don't the best stuff. I know y'all or anything. But the point is, especially when it came to women, for me, I saw the kind of girls, the big cheese, okay, her [ __ ], her Instagram, a mother with five million followers. What the [ __ ]? So I was annoying. I was just angry. So for me, fighting was just an outlet. If I didn't put it into fighting, I would end up in jail, probably. So for me, that's kind of what it was. And then I kind of start to make some money with it. But, but the majority of my money wasn't made in fighting. My money was actually made in in the pimp game. So legitimately as well. I say that people think I'm making it up. True. So I fighting and then go on. I used to do with webcams or something. Was it? Exactly. So I was, money more money. It's a long story. I wasn't dead to some [ __ ] dude, some mafia crap. I went down. I needed money pronto. I don't think that's imagine that's a real fear then. Yeah. Well, like this is why I think either bit low following on Twitter because I have a unique, a unique resume. Like there's a whole bunch of guys, but not many like world champion kickboxer, pimp, mafia associated, criminal, Lyle, all this stuff. But it was like, what is this dude? Like, surely it can't all be true. Well, it's all true. Yeah. So I know I did a deal with some Albanians. And I needed some money. We'll go to details. I need some money pronto. So I'm sitting there, and I had a fight coming up. But the fight was too far away from money, and I needed money today. So say anything. How could I make money? What do I have that's worth money? But what do I have that I can even sell? And I'll sit in there. And the only thing I had was all these girlfriends. I'll sit in there and write down my assets. Like, what do I own? What do I possess? These seven halt chicks. Because when I used to fight, I travel the world. We see. So I don't like Paris, win a fight, banger ring girl. Go to fly in Moscow, win a fight, bang girl from the crowd. Every time I want to fight, oh, smashing every time. And all the chicks thought I was from those of the world champion. They thought I was a multi-millionaire. So they all hit me up all day on text. I miss you. I love you. Bitter. So I know these chicks completely head over heels in love with me. Plus the master of the game, you know? I had all these. That's a great. That's a great open common story. I'd love for someone to throw that out into the the entrepreneurs startup world. It's like, this is how I made it. Get it on to hold your girlfriends. And then I was thinking, they're sitting. I think maybe I should open a strip club. And then long story. I decided to start with webcam. And I flew all the girls into England. Sat them all down at one table. None of them knew each other. All these five girls sit down at rent late. Who's this? Who's sitting on say, okay, news flash. On the [ __ ] wall. Go straight to the play. So four of them, four of them left. Two of them stay. And that's kind of how where it went from there. But that's how I made it to the top. This is what's so interesting. Now I have a course that I teach people on how to get girls. My PhD course. And people say, I'll take gets girls 'cause he has money. I'm like, no, I have money because I get girls. It's all the way around. Everything I'm teaching in my courses, this is how I got girls when I had nobody. Normal, normal dude. So, well, I'm teaching in my courses is all about the game. You don't need money to get girls. I thought more girls and all broke than I do now. Because now I'll watch out for baby traps and, you know, me to cases and lawsuits. When you get money, you don't worry about much of stuff. But then I have to worry about nothing else. Running all over the place. I'll just [ __ ] ever do the move. Nothing. Care. So yeah, that's basically my story. I mean, I was a fighter, and I, 'cause I had game, I just ended up in the pink game. And I built this webcam. This day said, one point was turned over for two grand a month. And I'll just kind of spiraled into where I am now. Sounds good. Yeah, congratulations. So you've been great. And you most, you most certainly have character. That's the thing. I think the thing I most enjoy about watching your content is that, like, I guess what you described in here, stuff like, I had girls before I had the money. And I'd imagine that will come down to character, even like an understanding of psychology. And that that resonates through like a lot of your content. It's very fun to watch because you're going to rant about [ __ ] cats or something where there's so much fury come towards a cat, but it's still very entertaining to watch. And it's, it's like, like you could flush money on someone, or you could give, give people all the opportunities they want. But I, I think fundamentally, it is what your character is that really makes the difference in life. And them, I, I really, really think that's a, that's a very interesting thing. Is that, that that is something that's a lot harder to cultivate than people think. So maybe all those mafia experiences and all that fighting did you made you millions in a very sort of roundabout way to do that. So it's, it's useful. But also, even the cheap things is useful. Now, chips all the time, especially if you ain't got money, you learn how to be smooth, man. How was smooth? Dance. I'm still getting laid. I was smooth to the point where like, even in my PhD course, I teach going to take him on a date. You don't need to spend money. You know that? Like, straight to the point. I don't plug in to be here. Mr. Reality. So it's, pick out, check out, check out Tate's channel, Tate Speech. I will link it below. I most certainly check out his course. I am, I've looked at some pickup artist content, but Tate presents you with a principle that is very, very interesting. And it is a principle that your attention is valuable. To stop so freely giving it away and start to understand how to utilize it. And all that women's stuff will fall into order. And that, that is a big idea that you don't hear often. So it definitely check it out. A very, very valuable piece of content there. Go up to a girl, say hello. Having sex with women is the tip of the iceberg. Like, especially when you get from my position, pimp game, having sex with girls is all good. How do you get into do as you say, make you money, obey you, allow you to cheat on them in front of their face? It's still lovely. That's the game. [ __ ] the sex. The sex is nothing. We got, we all whole bunch of stuff to do after that. Yeah, it's actually, that was my experiences. I did the pickup artist thing and I noticed there would be problems when I'd have a girl and then I would, she would realize I'm with other girls and she'd be like, this is not happening. I never gonna fall apart in my hand. So I was like, [ __ ], I'm doing something wrong. And it was, it was a consciousness of principles under. Yeah, like I notice some pic of artists dudes, they would talk about it. But it is, it's almost like it's just psychology. It's just, it's, it's almost like I've noticed in the world that people deny that genders exist. That the, the principles of human nature exists, masculinity and femininity. They don't exist anymore. And you have to relearn those. And when you relearn those, you realize that men are the prize. As long as the man has a purpose and a goal. And and once you start to instantiate that back in yourself, a lot of things start falling into place. And it's, it's very much within the mind. Absolutely. This is what we see teaching the course. You gotta have value on your attention. We become so high value, they'll let you get away with a lot of stuff just to make sure they, they retain some of your attention. Tuning too many to drag your throw their attention all over the place to reality. That's nothing messed up. But it does, it doesn't bother me. Like I'm not one of them red pill manosphere guys and hates on chicks and stuff. The nature of women suits me to the grounds. I understand it. So I have many as I watch. So follow me. I don't care. I'm just at this brief moment. I will say people, if you have any questions, the chat on the right. I know a lot of you guys be following Tate, you won't be used to the YouTube thing. Pop it in there. And any questions, we'll answer them at the end. Now, hey, I think this is an era or Andrew, which is your attic. This is an awesome time to go into the, the idea of street fights. We talked about the Mafia briefly, and I imagine you have some decent stories. Any street fight stories you can reveal? Because I am like, I think I've another thing I heard you say before is that I, a lot of people would the common trope would be, learn jujitsu if you ever get in a street fight. And then you were saying, yes, if you do jujitsu, you'll probably get killed. So try not to do that. Like, what was your experience with that? Right. So yeah, and it's for sport fighting, which is fine. Click age, and it's useful in the cage. So when I say this, some of us goes Royce Gracie, he won the first UFC. Yeah, it's because, because it's a fair fight, that's fine. I have never seen a fair fight on the street. Ever. Ever. And another rule of the street for me personally, is never go to the ground. Because you don't know if you need a head. If you're on the ground, you can't see. You can get head stalled, you can get jumped on. His friends attack you. The guy, he could be ruts around the dude. He pulls a knife. Police could roll up. Who knows what's gonna happen? The last thing you want to be doing in a street fight is [ __ ] around the ground trying to put some dude in the Comoros [ __ ]. You stay standing. So this is why I always recommend striking for street fights. I mean, I've been in a few street fights, like everyone else. I try and avoid them. I've gone to some messed up places, up dealt with a few idiots, especially if you have a lot of chicks to you, a few times just like me and a Clive chase. And it's just, it's me on my own, dude. Start to think, well, he can't be banging them all. So I'm gonna kind of encroach on his hoes. And they're obviously mistaken. Slam bang, then because there's him before boys, you can get fresh. And that goes down, you know? So it's happened a few times. Well, there's some basic rules to it. Like, obviously, you want to try and avoid violence. But the reality is, man, everyone's heard it. Ain't fair up there. Thus achieve a fair fight. Everyone's out to hurt you. My number one rule, really, drew the street fights, is I don't lay anyone get in my face ever. Because, you know, you can't see when they're that close. You can't see their friends. And you can't serve. So I say people that stay away from me, stay away. They come off, try and get my face to carry on talking. Shouts, hit. That's my only basic rules. Like, all right, stay away. Stay. There's a little robot. I start smashing people's mouth. Oh, my having some dude in my face, screaming in my face, waiting for the fight to start. No, you're gonna get in my face. All definitely, definitely. You want to keep your space because like, even that's that's where you get sucker-punched when they're close and you don't see arm swinging the stuff. It's horrible. We're friends from behind, punchy going, she's got me. Perfect. Have you, have you any situations where you have been sucker-punched? You have been boxed into a corner where you've had to use your fists and it's an extreme? Oh, dogs jumped recently. About two months ago, I was in Moldova. I was walking. Moldova's crazy place, bro. Like I lived in Romania. So yes, Romania is crazy, but it's kind of organized in its own way. As the Mafia have to place on some log. So like statistically, it's much safer than the West. Like there's very little street crime because people are afraid to commit street crime because they don't know who they're [ __ ] with. And if they're a cousin of a Mafia member, something gonna up dead and police and help. So it's really like the Mafia are in charge of everything. But they're after the big boy games. They're doing like political level, political corruption and stuff. They're not taking no one's wallet. They got bad [ __ ] to do. So the low-level crime is actually non-existent. It's just finding all this stuff like like political bribery and corruption stuff. It's Romania safe. But Moldova next door is still wild, wild west. Moldova was not in the EU. Romania cleaned up to get into EU. So to get into the European Union, the EU said, look, you need to reduce your crying by like 92 percent. Was really bad. They said, okay, they arrested three Mafia families overnight. In the crime drop with that was that known with that street crime, ER, with up into the high level stuff, like there being human traffickers. Okay. Okay. Yeah. So everyone knew who they were, but they were so powerful. Oh, arrest them. But when the European Union money came along, you know, you're gonna get those grants for billions of dollars from the EU. If your European countries, they're like, okay, we're gonna take a few bill. Sorry, dude. You go to jail. In fact, I know. But I know some of them guys were in jail now. And it's kinda like the Pablo Escobar story. 'Cause they put in jail for 20 years, but they're living with like eight girls. And bought their own super oversized cell, their own Instagram. They got their phones. They're still banging. So it's all corrupt. Still. But anyway, Moldova next door is is still wild, wild west. And no one goes to Beaulieu. Nobody goes. Who's been to Moldova normally? And on top of that, Moldova was in the USSR. Romania never was. So Moldova has that Russia hang. Go through that. Romania doesn't. Romania was never in the USSR. Even its communist. So when I was in Moldova, there, they're like Russian. And they're aggressive. And me and Tristan would walk along straight these three hoes. And we were talking [ __ ], blah, blah. And he's just one guy start saying, start speaking in Russian to the girls, saying, why are you with American men? You're a stupid [ __ ]. Why are you being [ __ ] for American men? And then the girls start saying something back to it. 'Cause it was only him on his own. They start getting fresh in my [ __ ]. You [ __ ], you. They're richer than you, or whatever they. And said, piss him off. He came over to my brother. My brother's leave it, leave it, leave it. Tried to push my brother. Are gonna pushed in my time. That happened. Is to be like 25 friends have left the bar and seen his boy get pushed. So the 25 is the worst way I could go down. Call them down. Haven't done that. One of them runs off. Trust. One of the ones I did hit. Rests and punches. Tristan. Tristan took it. Guy had hold of my jacket. And before I went to hit him, there was two random security guys like random of complex who kind of got involved or kind of trying to slow it down a little bit. So trying to kind of slow down a little bit. Then one, another one came around, turned to swing, hit me. I moved, and he missed. I kind of threw a jab, and he moved out the way as well. And by this time, the interesting were backing up, like, okay, we're gonna leave, gonna leave. And we just backed up and we'd gone taxi. Well, it's funny. It's two girls by. How the girls are broken down, crying. They're screaming because they're like, they've seen all the fight, violence, whatever. And we, um, we went over to the taxi. We opened the door. And just before we get in, I said, I ain't leaving without the girls. And just 'cause they [ __ ] jumped us. So all the [ __ ] we found those girls. Tarrant Square. So we're waiting by the taxi. Girls come here. News three crying girls. Win. Got in the car and came back to our hotel. So we saw the party.

I think, um, I think this offers us a good deviation into probably one of our define on top he's come on her to talk about today, which was the idea of a war. And the idea of the war, you know, protecting the boundaries of your empire, in some sense. And you're talking about a load of guys coming out at a bar there and walking up to some of their local girls and saying, stuff, [ __ ] around with some foreigners or something like that. And I just cannot get, I kind of conceptualize that my head is ever happening in the West anymore. Like there is no sense of, although we got shot, I can completely respect and understand why they did what they did. You're a Moldovan dude, you're on 200 bucks a month, $200 a month. Your country has the most beautiful women on earth. You know that. There is zero reason for two American brothers to turn off besides to try and [ __ ] your chicks. Now, are you gonna be a bit like Lucy's dudes, just [ __ ] they just took three ball young eighteen-year-olds. Now I'm working in a [ __ ] coal mine for pennies. This [ __ ] Americans here try still. I don't blame them for one to kick my ass. I don't want to kick my ass because there's still territory and there's still nationalists. And the problem is when you remove, when you remove that instinct, I'm looking to hate on what they did and hate on my instincts. We do remove that instinct, then you're left with what we have in the West now. We're completely overrun and conquered and no one does [ __ ] about it. There's a reason no immigrants try and conquer Eastern Europe. So the people don't take it. You can't turn up there and start saying, this is our place now, we're gonna run you over with trucks. You smoked in the last five minutes. But here in the West, we're just such cowards now. It's like, oh, whatever, it is what it is. But I completely understand why they want to attack us. I don't blame them. All those girls were bad girls are hot, bro. And we need to free their hauless girls. And they knew, they knew the girls liked us. We could buy the drinks. Like, what is so, I don't blame them. I'm gonna punch me in the face. Is low. Yeah, you know, like, it's like you talk about respect. I think it is. It's an admirable thing to see that that instinct is still alive. And I just can't say I see it over here at all. It's very, it's a strange feeling. Like if you even spoke with that toxically masculine energy and suggested these type of things, you would be ostracized from this society. You would be the one who would be getting kicked out. And it's, it's a very, very strange situation we found ourselves in. Words, it is an attempt to deny that basic, shall we say, male instinct. It's quite psychological in many ways as well. Perfectly said. Because it's evolutionary for men to be terrible. This is how men, above all, I'm personally, we evolved to be territorial, to protect our territory and protect the women and resources within our territory. When you see people from another tribe up in your place, you're like, what are you doing here? Why are you here? This is the natural view. This is why this is the only way that humans survive. Any tribesman that was too friendly to the other tribe, they got their asses whooped one way or not. They got sabotaged or attacked from behind. But it's the people who were super sketchy, like, whoa, whoa, whoa, stay away from me. This is my place. This is how the people live. So it's evolutionary for men to be that way. And in many countries, they still are this way. And especially within countries like Moldova, which are extremely poor with beautiful women, they're gonna be protected. Understand. It's wheat. It's weird how that works. Like I was in Ukraine there in November. And I noticed that the, it's not, it's not very rich. It's like a fifth the price everything around here. But the women were unbelievably beautiful. And if there's a strange thing about like, if there's not, there's not a strong correlation between wealth and beauty for some reason. I think the richer of the country, the less. I think the reason for that is threefold. One, because in these countries like Moldova, Ukraine, et cetera, girls understand that their easiest path to economic freedoms through their beauty. They know that if I'm tall enough, some dude's gonna hit me up on Instagram, or I'm gonna be able to find some mafia boss or whatever it takes. Some dude's gonna put up with me and fund my life if I'm that, if I'm beautiful enough. So they put more effort into their beauty than the girls doing the West. Because in the West, girls leaving careers, I'll earn my own money, I'll get a career. None of that exists over there. There is no career for a chick. And if there is a career for a chick, she's still gonna have to [ __ ] her boss to get promotion because it's corrupt. So she could have to sell her [ __ ] one way or another anyway. So they're not interested in that path at all. They're sitting there thinking, okay, I need a dude to look after me. This is why a lot of people call them like gold diggers and slots and stuff. I don't think they're stupid. I think they're smart. I think this is a very intelligent way to be. Beauty is a asset. You have an asset and you're trying to leverage it so that benefits your life. Well, who wouldn't like if I was that damn gorgeous? If I could be a gold digger. But it is that, it is that strange thing as well, where I guess I'm saying on one sense, they de-pedestalize the masculine instincts such as to be territorial, express your masculinity, stand for your women, that fight for the sake of preserving them. But there is also this sense where they de-pedestalize your femininity. It's like, you can't accept yourself as beautiful and try make it in the world that way. There is. But then in the weird sense, you can as well. It's, it is there's a weird conflict. It's like it's the strange, strange assault on that. It's like you want to be like this sort of proto-man, this mini-man or something like that. The traditional, the traditional definition of femininity is beauty. I'm sorry. I'm gonna cut. I'm gonna cut the garbage because I always do. Women are valued by how they look. Men are valued by who they are. This is a reality. If you were to ask any man, what kind of girl do you want? No man's gonna sit there and go, ugly, fat, book is a career woman and thinks this and thinks that. No dude cares. He'd be like, tall, blond, big tits. That's all he cared about. And as for a man, what kind of man do you want? Well, I want a man who's important, amount of state, is a man with money, and a man to take care of me. That. So men, we're not judged on how we look. We're just on who we are. And this is great for being a man because it gives you the ability to change who you are. This is what I say the guys all the time. If you're born an ugly chick, you're in trouble. I mean, surgery could do so much, but in general, you're in trouble. If you're born a beautiful chick, you've got the easiest life on Earth. If you're born a man, you have the ability to change how attractive you are in real time. Women can't really do that. They can get fake tits, whatever, whatever. You can go from a zero to a hero, literally. You can go from someone who's struggled to get girls to do with too many girls based purely on what you know and what you have. This is a, this is a liberating experience. This is why I say my courses, I teach two PhD course. I teach guys to get physical condition. At these guys to make money. I say, if you're a good physical shape, you know what I know to my PhD course, and you're a little bit of money, you are never gonna struggle the girls the rest of your life. Ever. Whereas, you know, so you get the ability to mold it. Women don't. So they attack femininity because, and the reason to do this is the people who do in are ugly. They're just hate an ass. Ugly chicks, man. Feminists are always ugly, bro. That is ugly. And they're upset. They halt like the other girls. Or they get all those are some old feminists. Fifty-five is basically invisible 'cause no one cares about old chicks. And they're just hang it on the reality of the world. The reality is, if you're a chick and you're beautiful and you're 19, your life is gonna be pretty good. I mean, you have unlimited attention. I mean, it offers, you know, you're always having a pretty good, a pretty good run during your peak. And every dude wants you. But that's how it goes. That's just the nature of the world. But they're trying to attack it from every single angle because they're trying to break down the family units. If you break down the family unit and break down the country to store everything from the ground up, they're just trying to go into mindless consumer slaves. Just a little buying stuff from amazon.com, taking their antidepressants and jacking off the pornhub. It's garbage. It's most certainly. There is this very, like, you know, you don't want again, those conspiracy theories, but [ __ ] me, there's some scary patterns that's just that noticin. Such as the, the assault on basic principles such as the family. And even the idea of a beautiful woman at 19, the idea would be she would get the best man she could and then hold on to him because [ __ ] me, like that's the her peak. And then time is gonna slowly erode her. I, I've, I've spoke the girls around here. And they would always, they would say stuff like, a girl peaks in her 30s and a man peaks in his 20s. And it's like, that, that is it's astounding. I'm like, how can you get that wrong? That is the most basic thing. I guess the most basic thing is that time is in favor of men. Time is gonna reward men if they play what time. Well, what time is gonna destroy women? It is ruthless in that sense. So there's something very strange about that. Absolutely. And this is why I was 32 European girls. Because these of European girls have a reputation of slots. And they have a bad rep. But I think the complete opposite. And Eastern European girl is after a man who changed her life. So either she wants, either she's a hoe and she wants to go straight hook in to get money. She'll go to a strip club and she say, okay, pay me. Or she's looking for a guy of status who she believes if she marries, will genuinely actually able to take care of her. So one way or no, they're gold diggers. But I think if you're a beautiful woman, this is an intelligent tape. It's much better than being a Western girl who saw and banging some dudes on the dole, smoking weed. Oh, he's funny, he makes me laugh. Like 20 bits deep. You just banged a bunch of nobodies. Like I have [ __ ] much more respect for these to Europe. When I see some Moldovan 21-year-old in Dubai on a billionaire's boat, I'm like, she's a smart chick. I don't blame her. All I do the exact same thing. I think they're just more clever with their femininity. And they understand that beauty is a path to get a lot of things you want. And you have to use it cleverly, not just throw all over the place. So absolutely, man. The West.

Is all messed up, and I don't know. I'm a woman hater. I definitely know what a [ __ ] about them in any kind of way. But trying to find a woman worth marrying in the West is extremely difficult. It's near on impossible, and that's the reality of it.

And that's why I say in my PhD course, cuz I have a lot of people come to me saying, "If you believe in the decline of the West, why are you teaching guys to run out there and sleep with all these girls I swoon in the West?" And I say, "No, the West is already screwed. While I'm teaching guys to do is, if you want to find a woman worth having, you need to tear through 100 chicks first. You want to find a brilliant, beautiful, kind, gorgeous, good person who's submissive and nice to look at, and she really is the one for you, you need to see for the whole bunch of girls before you're gonna get that girl."

So what I'm actually teaching my PhD courses, look, if you're a man, you want to have a happy relationship, you still need to seek with a bunch of girls first because you're just not gonna find them any other way. There's no other way to find a quality girl down there, not just waiting around for you to get him. You got to tear it's fun and look through. I think there is like, mmm, most certainly, you need to go on a journey and almost learn what a good woman is. You need to want you. You grow up in this world as a Western man, I found like this happened to me as well, where I wouldn't have a conception of what femininity is because I wouldn't have a conception of what masculinity is because everything's sort of this bland in the middle thing. And there, you, you really need to go out there and experience the world and see, see how much harsher and how much more brutal reality is, and how much more women are like driven by value, and the same with men. And to really understand who, what, what each gender brings in terms of valuing. Or I'm almost re-redeemed those old concepts of gender back in order to be able to set yourself up for life properly. Because if you fall for the, the social conditioning that's going on now, you risk having a very, very like, you know that you risk having the Reid Rollo Tomassi is a rational when you're like 40 and divorce, then when our kids and stuff like that. Yeah, I mean, if you take the wrong man. But with a man, that's risk versus reward. With a man, you have the ability to have it better than most women will ever have it. Like, like if you're the top 1% of the top 5%, whatever of men, life's great. I'm not gonna lie. Like, I have no trouble with women. Women don't trouble me. I get anyone I want. My life stood by understand from the other side how bad it can be. So it's just putting yourself in the right position and understanding the game. You're right. If you fold the path, if you married some girl and you barely know, where you have kids and you still having sex, you stay with her anyway, and she disrespects you, you put up with it. And when she divorces you and she cheats on you, I mean, that's a tough way to learn life lessons, man. You've already got to learn a different way. You've got to tear through a whole bunch of girls. New ups identify. In my PhD course, I teach guys, how do you tell a quality woman from a bad man? Have you seen my course? I-I've Evan Lee senior course. I have not. I've not bought it though, my friend. Because even when you're at my level of ultimate gold level game, some girls just aren't worth the effort. Some girls are more effort than others. I ain't worth the time. So I test. I do the, see if they're worth putting the time in on fixing or just just letting them go back into the ether unless some L scrub with a crash. So those grades of getting around it. But yeah, man, it's not easy. You don't be very careful as a man, especially don't get married away half your assets. All these smart. What would you, what would you make of the movement, the MGTOW movement, where there's a lot of men reacting to this? I feel I see them. I see them on like Reddit and stuff at that. They talk about the fact that they're so sick of getting cooked and getting unfailing with women and all that, that they just want to completely remove them out of their life and whatnot. And I see that happening a lot in the West, and it's a very worrying sign because that's essentially, that's that's the final defeat of the family. It's like a load of men saying, "I'm not going to procreate anymore." And because, I mean, that just feels like you're giving up. Long, but you're given up on something you're gonna need. You're gonna need a chick at some point to be happy. You're never gonna be happy without. How much you trying to convince yourself. So you're gonna need a chick. So yeah, the game's hard. Yeah, the dice are loaded. Yeah, Big Daddy take might come sooner, girl. Yeah, but you still have to be prepared. You just play the game because otherwise you can never win. You got to play to win, you know. And you can list. So I say to all these MGTOW guys, I say, "Look, buy my course, and you'll learn from that." Also, you have to be realistic about your expectations. I don't know. I feel like some of these MGTOW guys, like on a scale of 1 to 10, they're like a 2, and they're mad they can't get a 9. And then they want to sit there and be talking about hypergamy, chicks or this, chicks or that. Like, come on, bro. If you were her, would you really? Man, you really. She has. You gotta be realistic as well. Think about it. They'll be like, "Okay, I don't have a [ __ ] boat." Even I did. I stay here. Sometimes I've had girls. I've had girls before. I have girls. 4.5 million Instagram islanders like a year and a half. One day she started messaging me, "Oh, you never see me beauvoir's." A couple of weeks later, I see Ron Dan Bilzerian space. I'm like, "Well, obviously [ __ ]. Like, he's got more money than me." Whatever. I'm like, "I'm all set." By. I'm like, "Okay, well, yeah, I've really slower anyway." So it is like, I understand the female dynamic. I understand it. Yeah, I'm not gonna sit there and go, "Women are," he just won that particular exchange. No, I really gave a [ __ ]. I could have kept her, and I didn't believe a [ __ ]. But that's my point. A lot of these guys, I feel like they're aiming too high. They need to flip the mirror and look at themselves and say, "You know what? If I'm really gonna go to MGTOW, whatever, I'm gonna get myself in a position where a nine would be proud to be with me." And then, you know, and it ain't all about money, man. Cuz I had, I got badass chicks when I had no money. It ain't about money. It's about self-respect. It's about confidence. It's about drive. This is my vision. Excited about money. A lot of people think I'm talking really about money, and I'm not. I'm not. All because I believe that all the traits that you just described there would lead you towards money. It's like, it's, it's the universal principles of psychology. It's a bit character. And most certainly, like, people would see the money and then they'd be like, "Well, it's obviously money." But it's like, maybe, maybe the money was a consequence of the man. You're a passionate, dedicated, driven, intelligent person, then sooner or later, you're gonna end up up your bills paid. I mean, one way or not. Like, it doesn't matter. Might take a little bit longer. I'm not seeking to be a multi-millionaire. But I'm telling you now, chicks don't care about money anyway. What chicks care about is fun. This is another thing I say in the course. I'm giving away too much [ __ ] game here. All honey to do about watching 56 lucky [ __ ]. Listen, we didn't care about fun. Women don't care about money. But money facilitates spontaneity. If you have money, you can say, "Oh, I'll take the day off in Rome, Paris. I'm taking the day off. We go here. We're awesome." You know, it's the fun that they like. If you sit and say to a chick, "I have this much money," there to say, "So my shirt costs this much money." So they don't care. What's the last time a girl said, "Oh, no, I don't like this guy. He's wearing a Gucci shirt." Some better [ __ ] never. They don't care. Even with a Lambo. Even like when I would girls first find out either Lambo, I've had girls. I never mentioned. So some girls I meet in the club, they come to my house to see the car. They go there currently. Yeah, like I'll come to take you home. And I go to get the Lambo key. They go, "Oh, no, just, just take the normal car." They don't even want to be in it. It's loud. It's uncomfortable. Won't be the normal car. Like they don't care. Like people think they care. They care about fun and spontaneity. So this is why money allows you to be more fun. Being with Dan Bilzerian, fun. Get to go all over the world. You'd come here to photo shoot. It's cuz he's fun. He doesn't give him any money. It's just about being fun to be around. So I girls like humor. Humor is a perfect way to be to be fun without spending. But it's also a lot. All the ways you can be fun about spending money. So that's what women really care about. They don't care about money anyway. They don't give a [ __ ]. They're not. They're not that. Unless you're a straight looker, they're not. They're not chasing girl find some money. It's not fun. I don't want to see freedom, not money. This, some, I guess this isn't a good deviation into our final topic. But people, any more questions? Pop them in. We'll do questions after this last turn of conversation. Mr. Tate, we were talking about evil and the West. And earlier, we were talking about family. And I noticed we brought up this conception that there's a little bit of social conditioning going on that's quite strange, quite suspicious. And it seems that, uh, yes, it seems like the West is on rocky territory right now. And I've always wondered why it's happening. I've always looked at the way that male instinct is getting suppressed to some center. And it's almost like in the culture, people are turning around and saying that thing is evil. Whatever is a man, that is evil. A real man is evil. But you've probably got that experience a few times on social media, imagine where it's like, you've become evil and whatnot. And to me, that, that actually plays in a lot with this inability to understand what real evil is. People are almost naive to the reality of what actual evil does, or what, what is like the true dark side or downside of life. And things like a war. I find the people have like a very small consciousness of. They don't understand that the modern world, the West as it is now, like was built out of millions of lives from World War One and World War Two and whatnot, and even more throughout the past, the history. So as I was, I was wondering, what would your conception of of true evil versus that false evil of masculinity? What would your conception of true evil be?

Well, the first things first is that if anything's truly evil, the only people who are going to stop it are masculine men. Like, tell me a truly evil force. Never can stop my shrieking feminists. Stupid tried to decipher to destroy masculinity. Leaves you without a warrior class. Without a warrior class, you don't have the ability to fight. Without a society, you can't fight. In the country, cells would be tonight. So regardless of wherever the evil force is, you're going to need a big strong man at some point anyway. The fact that people, this is what I was actually, I'm doing on that Infowars. So I'm supposed to go on today, but we move down. We do it next week. And we're talking about the Gillette. But I'll do, oh, yeah, I'm gonna do some here. But the point is this, women and feminists and this whole anti-men movement has this idea that men in restricting their emotions is what causes them to build up and do crazy things and bad things. Whereas I completely disagree. I think the, the hallmark of being a man is the ability to restrict your emotions. Because if you're a firefighter, and the building's on fire, like we spoke about earlier about fear, you're scared, but you do it anyway. If you're, if someone breaks into your house, and you have to go protect your wife while she's in bed, you're afraid, but you do it anyway. The difference between a man and a woman is that you suppress your emotions. That when bad things happen, you suppress them. If let's say a man and a wife lose their kid, heaven forbid, the man has to be the rock for the woman. The man can't start breaking down. Let the chick go because then the whole relationship, then they'll lose each other. You have to be solid as a man, and you have to restrict your emotion and do the right thing regardless of emotion. So what they're trying to teach us is that no, we should give in and cry when we feel like crying. We should just be emotional beings like females. Well, there's a problem with this. The problem this is two things. What they've confused about toxic masculinity is this, men do have an innate instinct for violence. But that isn't based on us suppressing our emotions. That's an evolutionary trait that we've developed because men have to fight. This is why we have it. Because without the ability to fight, every man wouldn't exist. The whole reason that men look at the Romans, they didn't have Google Maps, they didn't know where they were going, they just melted some rocks, made some swords, and said, "Let's just walk in this direction till we get to the channel. Let's build some boats. Let's cross that. Oh, what's this place called? England? Let's kill everyone in our way." This is an innate human instinct because it allowed us to survive. Because fighting is a reality of the real world. We live in a society now, we pretend fighting is not reality. Fighting's a reality. Violence is real. In many parts of the world today, violence is absolutely a real part of everyday life. So matter, men are born with an innate tendency to violence. This is not popsicle e masculine. This is not toxic masculinity. What's toxically masculine is not being able to control it. So when I feel like punching someone in the face, I don't do it because I can control myself. Because I've learned to control my emotions. What they're trying to teach us to do, especially men, is to be more feminine and not control our emotions. Because they think that's gonna lead us crying all the time and doing all the positive things. Like, I don't know, crying our eyes out at a movie. I think that's gonna happen. You know what's gonna happen when you tell men not to control themselves? They're gonna pick up a knife and stab some random dude. The people who do this crazy stuff, to be able to shoot up schools, the people who do all these random acts of violence, are guys who couldn't control their own emotions. Therefore, ocean. The only emotion that's going to flood out when they remove men's ability to control themselves is gonna be all this gushy sadness. What's gonna fly out of people when they don't control themselves is violence. Absolutely. It's gonna be violence. And this is what's so crazy about their idea of toxic masculinity. It's so innate. It doesn't make any sense. It's a name.

I think I think you brought up a great point. You brought up several great points there. Most certainly, there is this ability for men to put their intention over their emotions, which is just like an unbelievable triumph of mind over nature, if you will. And it's for some reason, we just disrespect that so casually without understanding that everything we have was built from that ability. It's unbelievable that we treat that which that's scorned. But Rome is a great example because the Romans achieved that. They had, they deified reason. They believed the reason was a really important thing. And they believed the Rome, that concept of the kingdom of Rome was really important. They wanted to expand it. And it's almost like we have come to this point now where we've got Rome, we've got that big kingdom, the West, and we don't appreciate how hard it was to make that. We don't even appreciate what sacrifices it took to make that. And we don't appreciate that all the men who are inside that now are probably the more civilized ones because they were the ones who had the ability to use their intention to beat their violent emotions and create something big. And now we've undie a fight everything that they are, and it's all gonna start crumbling. And it's all gonna stuff. All these people who wanna scream toxically, go to Saudi Arabia, go to pretty much any country besides the Western world and talk about this garbage. So if you're just talking crap, and this is just a female, I think this is a female [ __ ] test on the male population. What happens? That's a good way to look at it, actually. Yeah. Wait there. If you're with a shame, she's your girlfriend, and you act like a [ __ ], she's supposed to view you like a [ __ ]. She stuff to make your life hard, and she does it instinctively because she's trying to poke you into manning up. She's like, "You know, this is the man it's supposed to protect me if stuff goes down, but he's too afraid to even talk back to me. Not telling he's a little [ __ ]." So they try and push you and probe you into standing up for yourself. That's what they're trying to do. And I think this is just a nationwide catch. They're all these senators elect their men around us cowards. You know what? You should all be more like girls. And they're waiting for dudes to stand up and go, "Shut the [ __ ] up." But no one does besides me. I'm on my own. And you're a couple of us. When most guys, right? It's insane. But the only kind of, the only kind of reassurance, the only kind of positivity I could drag from all this is that any man who isn't a man nowadays, he ain't happy. He's living a terrible life. Like all these dudes are like feminist dudes and stuff, they're getting no [ __ ]. Their lives are [ __ ]. Their wife treats them like crap. Like, karma's punishing them anyway. Any guy who goes along with that agenda said a terrible life. If you think you're gonna go along with the feminist agenda, somehow your life and your relationships with women is gonna be better, you're completely wrong. Because I'm not just thinking your own grave. Oh, yeah, we are. Exactly. I'm the office. And in fact, I'm too extreme even for most people. I'll open lycée on the sexist, on the sexist guy. I don't care. Assesses. So I'm, I'm that far with it. And my relationship with women is fantastic. So whatever, I'm happy at this end of the spectrum. Maybe I'm far from mostest. Fine. But it is what it is.

Well, I believe, I believe, watch again, not is that it's the denial of human nature. It is that sense that there is no sex, no genders. But like, it's, it's so, it's so strange. It's like people are these things that we can mold into whatever we want them to be. And for some reason, we want them all to be effeminate consumers, something like that. So that is a very suspicious thing to say the least. There was something I wanted to ask there, though. There was a complete thought I had. The idea of, yes, okay. So this, we've got this problem where we've got this massive civilization. And because these men with their rootless intention went out to Stalingrad, sacrificed their lives with unbelievable quantities, they went over done, they went to [ __ ] D-Dad, you know, they ran towards a load of [ __ ] pill boxes and got ripped apart by bullets because these men crafted out this massive giant big Roman state that we have now. All the people inside it don't experience evil anymore. So they have this insanity where they've got that human nature where they need to find something evil. But they can't find anything to clutch that onto. So they say, "Well, we'll just go for whatever this person tells me." And unfortunately, that person is saying masculinity. Have you any belief in what real evil is? Like, what would we need to bring? Like, say, if we were, we were two wizards here, and we were gonna like, how are we gonna brainwash the people back to reality? Would we have to scare them and saying, "There's a big [ __ ] monster at the gate, and it's coming to get you, and it's the man inside of your friends?" Like, what would we do there? What would you put in that monster position?

Interesting question because I personally believe things can be deemed evil depending purely on your perspective. So I think that you can have two forces which are generally good forces, but because they're opposing, they're evil to each other. So I have that mixed thought. Fire is not inherently evil. We need fire. Water is not inherently evil. We need water. But sheep, they're evil because they can annihilate the other. You understand where I'm coming from? So I think, same thing. I think when you look at the Western world and you look at the foreign ideology start coming to conquer the Western world, I'm not saying that those ideologies are necessarily evil. I'm not gonna say that people of a different fate, I'd only get one band here, we know what I'm talking about, are necessarily evil. I'm not saying that we're not necessarily. But I'm saying that if something's gonna mutually, if there's only one that can survive, then you have to look at the opposing force as an evil force. You have to look at which one you are. Okay, what's evil in the world? You have to sit thing, what's gonna destroy what I love? What's gonna change the culture? I, I'm willing to protect. That's how you do me more even. There's still a nice force, even if it's still nice on its own merit. I said fire and water are fine on their own, but they just don't baby stuff. They're evil to each other. So there's a whole bunch of evil stuff. Feminism on its own is evil. Feminism is a need to break down everything I believe and know about family. You know, whereas a man, so I viewed feminism kneazle fourth. Feminism, feminist Wilson saying, "We just want women to do better." So on the stand alone, maybe their points aren't evil. Maybe they have good intention. But because it's so contradictory to what I believe, I have to do as an evil force. There's no other option for me. So there's a whole bunch of things you can view as evil. And right now, the culture of the good tack, the culture attack on men and in the West is absolutely an equal force. These are all evil things. I, the problem is, I don't know. And I know everything. And even I don't know because the truth is, is if you talk, you're, if you talk too much truth, like me, you get banned everywhere. I've been banned here, Twitter, Facebook, bank accounts, everything. And I'm lucky because I'm financially able to handle those kind of things. If you have a job, you can't have a polarizing opinion. You lose your job. So they've got now, they've got society by the balls because they've got us by the purse strings. Like no one is really truly believe it's something to stand up and risk losing their livelihood to say something, especially knowing it probably gonna change much. You know, here's an interesting time is that. So it's very hard for us to properly articulate evil because that might lead us to having to say something about the elites or something like that, and we can get a lot of trouble for doing that. But maybe we could possess a posit a temporary evil and say something like censorship is probably the closest we're gonna get to it right now. Because that is the thing that's restricting us for him from analyzing this problem properly and dealing with it. Because if you're not conscious of the problem, you're most certainly not gonna be able to solve the problem. It's like trying to walk into a room blind. And then, uh, yeah, I do think that that censors the thing is astoundingly sinister because it's, it's like, you know, it happened to Alex Jones. You were talking about you're gonna go into Infowars, and it happened to Alex Jones, and it was scary how little people cared, man. It was scary how little people cared. They just, they were just like, "Oh, he sort of deserved that." I was like, "Dude, like, but you know, he could have said he could have said anything up there." And you kind of think, it's just scary. It's George Orwell level [ __ ]. I mean, more stuff came in. Then next was that I think a few people on Patreon were kicked off. That's arrogant of a cat and all that stuff. So it's, you scary force. What's behind that? It is, man. And the problem is, is that all these media platforms, all this social media, all this stuff, it's run by a bunch of leftist losers. I mean, who's gonna be a big enough computer geek to invent this crap? I mean, they're not gonna be big, strong alphas on Mr. Reality. And then they just spiral down the San Francisco liberal crack hole. They end up hiring more liberals, and everyone's liberal, and just goes down the pan. And the truth is, this is a good survey. If I'm prepared to listen to anyone's opinion, and I don't believe in censoring anybody, because I'm not fearful of ideas. The problem is with liberals is that they're fearful people. And they're fearful because they're instinctively fearful because they know they're instinctively beta. You have to understand that for a long period of human history, they Mao viewed an alpha male as a printer because he was, and he could destroy it. So this is why they have such intrinsic deep-seated hate for Francis. Why do they hate Trump? So forbidden? Why can they hate him so much? Even he does a great job. It's because something inside of them is telling them that this man is dangerous and evil. Even if they can't got proof, even they can't put their finger on it, they just can't stand think. This is an instinct. They're the same reason that a rabbit knows to run when it sees a fox. It just knows. That can be so when a beta sees an alpha, they're intimidated. So they're intimidated. And now we live in a society where, for the first time in human history, these betas can fight back. They never had a chance to fight back. Ever. No one gave a [ __ ] what they thought. And now they're in charge of everyone's voices. So now they're sitting there going, because they're instantly thinking this person is evil because they're a beta male. They can't. And they can't understand that alpha male bullies are not instinctively evil. They're actually the whole thing that built the Western world. Yeah, this is true. But they think they're super evil. And they have the chance to do things to do something about it. They feel this strong sense of, "We have to prevent this from spreading." New Trump is spreading. And they feel, and they just start a little panic attack in their little tiny brain. And they, and they will result in sense of it. Because that's what they can do. Whereas me, at the top of the tree, I'm off. I don't censor those below me. They can have their stupid ideas. Sighs. I don't believe in sensory anyone. You wanna come out? Even some liberal garbage. You wanna argue about communism? Let's do it. I'm afraid of you because, cuz I'm a, cuz I'm a higher tier in the food chain. But these are just low-level players. It's like, even a rabbit, a button to kill all the foxes. How many times will you press that button? Just two realities. Yeah, human nature. This is Nietzsche's. And Nietzsche is had an interesting challenger, an interesting read of history. He said that the savage nature of of horrible men like the barbarian Vikings and the the monstrous Romans, is that they would go out and they would murder everybody and enslave them, and then use all that power they've gained from being savages, having that instinct to want to create something excellent at all costs, even human suffering. They didn't give a [ __ ] about that. They would like be people down, smash them into shape, murder on mass, and build Rome. And then when Rome was built, they create this safe space. And then they allow people to incubate in there who don't really need to be super strong, but they need to be super smart, like a bureaucrats or something like that. So these people start to gather the power. And in these people who would instantiate a new type of morality, which would be based on a somewhat resenting those alpha types of before. And secretly, they'd all do this. Secretly, they would want to destroy those alphas because they couldn't destroy them physically. They tried to destroy them was spiritually. And they are change everything. The Alpha meant, the Alpha would means strength. So they just turned strength into cruelty. And then flip everything around. And then slowly that would erode it. But this is where it gets [ __ ] scary. And this is why I don't like reading Nietzsche, because he scares the [ __ ] out of me. Is that when they do that, what they do is they destroy the, the soul of the thing they built. And the thing will inevitably fall for that reason. They eat alive their got their master. And it's a scary thought.

Well, I was with Paul Joseph Watson and Candace Evans, and when we were sitting around that table, the only difference between me and that, we agreed up absolutely everything. The only difference is they believe there's still hope for the West. They're optimists. And I am actually a pessimist. I really was fights over. And I know, I know I shouldn't be saying this. I know I should inspire people. But I just kind of feel like we've gone so far now. I don't see any term. I don't see any signs of turning around. See any signs of a hole. I don't see any signs of the revolution that's required. We're getting, we're laying it. We're just being conquered from a religious standpoint. Or we're being conquered from a spiritual standpoint. We're doing our very best to destroy any kind of warrior class left in the nation. All of the money, all of the education systems, all the communication systems, the media, social media, are all so liberal. I just kind of feel like when to turn this around, it would have to happen today. It has to be a huge turnaround. And still, it would be damaged on blue. I just don't see it coming. This is why I moved to Romania, dude. Erosion mood will sink. I left because he looks [ __ ] so I'm just left like, "What am I staying there for?" Why would I stay in England? Romania is a right-wing country where I'm never gonna get hurt by the terrorists ever. So I just let this, the kind of country I want to live in. You a nice big wall, you got no problems. Can't come in and out when you want. Bergen at the right wing, beautiful women. And I might get terrorists attacked. So I left. So, you know, I've kind of given up on it. I, I see what's happening. I'm certainly gonna speak to try and resist. But I'm gonna mask phrases. I look at people like Tony Robinson and all the great work he doesn't. How crazy his life is now. They put in jail for all that time for no reason. They took all his bank accounts away. Still not his kids and stuff. This guy's a hero. Look where he's going through. He's a national hero. And the people he's trying to save are calling him names. Yeah, he's a better guy than me because I just give up. So, you know, I'm trying to save you. You don't see it. And you're that foolish. I'm just gonna wait for you to be the story. That's kind of a level I'm at now. I'm like, "You know what? If you want to march through London saying, 'We need more unchecked refugees from God knows where,' then just, you know, I'm just gonna leave one. Then I'll let come stag capital the world and just complain them out and pretend it's some other reason. Let's let people just fester in our ignorance because I've kind of given up on Mr. Reality. I'm like, "Yeah, look, dude, they, it's that black pill. It's people. And plenty of people are chewing on that. It's, it's a very, very hard thing when you look at it deep. When you look at the how fundamental this is. I'm sort of describing the really, the really high-level spiritual stuff. What's going on is the way that they, it's almost like a war of souls. Masculine soul is getting slow killed. And I just don't see how that gets redeemed unless there's some, it's, it's almost spiritual in my sense. It's almost like this spiritual revolution will have to happen where people will be like, "I will fight for the West." Like, it's almost like people don't have any sense of value for the West. So they're not prepared to die for it. And for that reason, they're not prepared to speak out and lose all their [ __ ]. They're too trapped in their comfort. And so for that reason, they're not in any way able to to confront sacrifice properly. Absolutely. They can't think beyond themselves. All I think about some selves. I need to be able to lose my job. Me, me, me, me. They don't. They don't care about the country. And this is another reason they destroy patriotism. If you care about your country, your atria. They're gonna be like, "There's Moldovan guys. So techniques. Or Moldovan to this. Moldova. What's the American guys doing?" You. So they destroy patriotism. Patriotism is actively attacked. You're not allowed to fly a flag in England. That's racist. Oh, look in what countries, you know, wow. Oh my god, that's so crazy. That's such high-level 300 flags. So it's like, it's just a blatant attack of paper Jews. Or they change what makes use of meat. British means anyone who has a British pathé. What you've had about to everybody. So now grace doesn't. It doesn't that language. Does another color. And I think we're gonna pretend it's everybody, then it loses its meaning. It's garbage. You'd be astounded what's going on in Ireland. Like, it's even more intense over here because we were like a sovereign state of the British Empire. And we, we had many men who like died for the sake of redeeming Ireland from the British Empire and establishing their own nation. And now, if you walk that only happened 80 years ago, if you walk down this street and shout out, "I'm a nationalist," people will boo you. They'll be like, "You're disgusting." I cannot believe how intense the brainwashing must be for people to not be able to conceive we have the chance now to build an Irish nation, and we're literally handing it away straight away. We're like, "Oh, we don't even want it now." It's so disrespectful towards those people who fought and died. Those toxic men who ran up with guns and said, "I will die for the family. I'm, I never get to see again." Imagine, imagine, imagine that taut. Like, I just don't think people can get it into their heads of what would we like to say, "I will never taste food or a woman again, and I will go die for something," and then my grandchildren will throw it out the window. But yeah, it's true, man. Didn't ya component [ __ ] it then? Yeah, how many brave men went to Europe to die to prevent Germany from running your? And now here we are, in one lifetime later, and who's in charge of Europe? Germany. I mean, lame. You can tell all the four bore two soldiers, you're gonna fight, you're gonna die, and this is gonna happen. It's gonna happen. This a nap in European Union, Germany charge. Ladies greater. It's absolutely crazy, man. And I could talk about it forever. But yeah, my mine, we've gone for plenty of time here. We could go to one last direction, depends on how you feel, and we could talk about any solutions we see for this, or we could go with questions. Call it, sir. Let's see what questions do we have. Do we have some good questions, or you just have the mandate?

Have you ever found exceptions to your general approach with girls? Yeah, I mean, everyone's different, but you gotta be flexible with it, you know? Like, it's like fighting. It's like me saying, "If you learn jab cross, you're gonna have everyone." Well, no, there's some people are more sneaky than others. You got to be able to mix it up. You're gonna be so proficient jab cross, you can land on every type of person. So I don't say there are massive exceptions to the rule. You've got to be flexible. There's nuances, you know? There's there's ways to, you know, pull it off as a whole. So have I mentioned exceptions? Not really. Women like attention. Women get a lot of attention. You need to make sure that your attention has a higher value than other attention. So I recently got verified on Instagram, for example. So what I used to like the girls' picture, which is very rare because I'm going to do that anyway. Maybe I did. They didn't care. Now they like a girl's picture. They start liking online back because this is blue tick. Okay? Because my attention has more value. Mm-hmm. That's just an example. I must like every once you get verified on Instagram. I'm saying if you can find the way to prove your attention has value, there's a female respect it more. This is the point. So I don't think that changes. That doesn't change with any girl. There's not who she is. Uh, she's famous, whatever, whatever. This is like famous girls, super famous guys, because they like having the attention of someone who's valuable. So there's no, there's no exceptions. I've never met an exception. I know for a fact I can help any guide thing because a lot of dudes don't understand these basic premises of the rules. It doesn't matter. I'm not saying be the best chess player in the world, but you need to know the rules of chess at least make sensible moves. Most guys, they even know the [ __ ] rules. Just put the pieces all over the place and wonder whether lose it, you know? So I just teach people the rules. I say, "There's the rules. Here's the outlines. Here's a few unbreakable rules. Here's a few good signals, back signals, few nuances, whatever, whatever. And then you scoff, you know, develop your own style and play within the parameters." And we find no. I don't accept any my traditional approaches with females. Hey, I'm not the most handsome guy in the world. Look at me. I'm [ __ ] my bus up face and my beauty booster face. Yeah, it's not like I'm the most gorgeous man on earth. So I can get chase. Anyone can. I know Woloson. And unlike a lot of pickup artists, I prove what I say with my Instagram. You see a man scream. You see girls, girls, girls. See all these chicks. Oh, [ __ ] evidence. So these principles over techniques, people. That's, that's what I got out of that. May I ask Cobra, how does he deal with threats?

Well, it depends, man. I get threatened a lot in general. I think most people only threaten it for attention because in my life, I've had two people trying to stab me, and one of them was random. A lot of them was an attack. And what was actually taught me a lot is the guy who attacked me and tried to kill me, he never threatened me. Everyone who threatened me never did anything. That doesn't, that teach you a lot about intention. Nice. I love this guy. Day he stopped replying to my messages and then tried to kill me. A random. Well, that's [ __ ]. Yeah. With the guys saying, "I'm gonna kill you. I'm gonna get you. I'm gonna get you." Well, who's gonna get you? Like, just go do it. He'd do it. What's he sitting? Why is he warning you? Yeah, why every boy would he warn you? Because that'll make it harder. Exactly. So a lot, like if you're involved in some high-level lockers [ __ ], you owe some money, or you owe some drugs, or something, then you might get a warning because they want to get paid. But in general, you're not involved in that kind of stuff. Something I'm gonna get you. That a hello. That's fine bravado. And and there's no. The only sensible replies to ignore it completely because all they wants your attention. Just ignore it completely. Ignore it. It doesn't exist. But um, I'm scared. I'm scared of people who don't frighten me. Like, if I, if I wrong someone, which I don't do any wakes, I'm an honorable guy. If I wrong someone and they didn't threaten me, I'd be far more nervous than if they start telling me they're gonna get you on coming from. No, 100%. Serious. And if I ever wanted to hurt anyone, the last thing I'd do is threaten. That's the truth. They wouldn't see it coming. They would never see it coming. Yep. If you want, if your intention is not to have a fair fight, your intention to get a result, which is someone's death, I'd imagine you don't make a big show about it. Yet we'll go straight in for the joke, as they say. So when you go here, you might give a chance. They do. They don't do it. And there's nothing much more to say after that, you know? Because with threats, is this most people who threat, I'd say 99.9% of threats never car. Never followed through. So threatening people is dangerous territory because the reason I don't threaten people, it's because I would never say anything I don't mean. If I say to you, "You better pay me, I'm gonna [ __ ] you up," and you don't pay me now, I'm gonna [ __ ] you up. Because otherwise, I mean, so the last thing I want to be either as a guy who talk [ __ ]. So I don't really give threats anyway. Because sometimes, sometimes you might reevaluate a situation. Sometimes you might change your mind. Sometimes what are they once you've given a threat, but ultimatum on, and you have two choices, either fulfill or the person who suspected chicks all the time. I say, "Shut up, you're getting out." And she carries on talking, and you carry on arguing. The two loses respect for you. If I say, "Shop or kicking out," she doesn't shut up. Baka crowd. Cuz I said it. That's, that's very interesting because like, I even social fitness when I was growing up, is that I treat words very cheaply. I think I could just say stuff, and it's because their words, they don't really matter. They don't exist. But there is a deep connection between your words and your actual, so like something about what you are, that if you betray them, you're betraying yourself in a way that we would slowly erode ourselves and then find ourselves many years later saying a load of stuff that doesn't have any gravitas to it. Have any force. And often times I've felt people who talk very like you, for example, you talk very down-to-earth, but your words carry weight. Whereas you can be very heady and talking a lot of intellectual stuff, and your words are unless gravitated because there's almost like you don't mean them in the same way. It's a very interesting thing.

Absolutely. It's very easy big words, you know? But I am very particular with my language because for a long period of my life, at least for the last seven or eight years, I made a super conscious effort to A, not lie, and B, never say anything I don't do. If I say to you right now, I'm gonna do 500 push-ups, I'm gonna do it because I can't go to sleep knowing I'm a liar. I have to finish because I said over my word is my bond to myself. And this allowed me to motivate myself to no end. When I was training my sister, my brother, I'm running a marathon today. And he'd say, "Kunal, you've said it now, so you have to do it." Much over your [ __ ]. Exactly. That's why. But now I've said it. After it's not over. You put some on calorie. So for a long time, I've only said things I mean. So I'm very, very careful.

With my language, and that's one of the reasons I don't really give the rest. Because, you know, a couple times I've given a threat, I'll fall through on it, and I've fought back again. I could have been more calm, or I could have done that differently. But if I say, "Shut the [ __ ] off, or else," I got to follow through. A mile or else, that's who I am as a person. But that's also why my girls respect me. Like my girlfriend, I've been with her six years, I've kicked her ass out three times. "[ __ ] off, your stuff's going outside." You know, other people who know you well, they start to learn from you. And also, man, you get a reputation amongst your people. Like I thought to a point, those people haven't gone up to say, "Look, I need a hundred grand. I can't tell you why. You have tomorrow." Look like, "Yeah, no problem." Not because much money to them, it's 'cause they know who I am. Wow, that's that's [ __ ] incredible. Tomorrow, they don't like to rob a bank to get it. I'll get it. That's who I am, man.

So, like, that pops something into my mind. There is this, this sense that, you know, you people, there is an energy of a lot of men nowadays that are trying their best to redeem themselves from the, the pressure of turning them into cook mottling, just disaster as badgers. And they want to climb out of that. They want to find all that the strategies and the tactics and the knowledge. But there's something very profound about that idea of, "Okay, all you gotta do is just never betray your word." Like, if you could do that seriously for 10 years, and maybe nothing else, just take that thing particularly seriously, and always live through your words properly, I'd say you would, like, it'll be unbelievable the progress you can make. If there's something incredible about that concept that is so hard to get your head around. It's also a reason why I think Jordan Peterson really popped for people. Is that he was coming out and he was like, "It's not obvious you can just lie, man." Like, "Just, just, you know, don't lie." And then people are like, "What? You don't, you, you can tell the truth, and you don't have to lie?" [ __ ] So there's something about that. The words are sacred. Absolutely. And for me, like, there you go. Like, "Okay, I gotta, I gotta get on this more seriously now, man." [ __ ] All you have to do is say something, and you can always find the energy to say something. But if you really believe your words and you refuse to give in on them, then you're gonna follow it through.

So if you say to yourself, "You know what? I'm reading all this [ __ ] on Twitter about drop shipping. Will it make money with it? Nah, I don't know." You know what? This weekend, I'm gonna start a drop shipping company. If you actually say, and then you're like, "Okay, watch seven to do it." Saturday comes around, even if you don't want to do it, even if you're not in the mood, whatever, whatever. But because you found the motivation to previously say it, and you're not the kind of guy who lies to himself. Cali, yeah, yeah. Huh. Full of [ __ ]. I mean, why say? By the end of play Saturday, you might have a drop shipping company where you'll at least know more, or you'll at least look into it. You might be making 100 bucks a day. Who knows? It might change your life. So all you have to do is find the motivation to say things. I say, "Tristan, yeah, I'm gonna go on that train. I'm gonna turn five hours." If I said it, that was it. I had to do it. 'Cause I'm, 'cause I couldn't live with myself knowing I was one of them bullshitters. And most people's words aren't sacred, man. Especially Twitter. I got people all the time on Twitter tweeting me, "Yeah, say you the man. I'm the same. On the same." I'm like, "You're not gonna come up to and say, 'Alright, we're gonna do this now.'" You'd have some excuse. So like, I, my words are absolutely sacred, especially to myself. And, and that's why I'm very careful with what I say. Because like I said, if I threaten someone, even if I don't want to do it anymore, I have to do it. 'Cause I, I owe it to myself. I won't betray myself. And that allows you to start thinking a lot more carefully about what you say. Yes. Well, every, what you say, you get a lot more direction and clarification on which direction your life is going. And it's just fulfilling your own word, man. I said I was gonna be world champion over and over and over. I was nervous to lose, not those nerves to get knocked out. I was nervous all because the liar I told everyone I was gonna win. No, no, I'm gonna do this. I'm gonna have this. Well, I bought when I picked up my Lambo, the best feeling about picking it off is I told everyone for years, "I'm gonna Lambo, my car. I'm gonna push a Lambo." When I guarantee you, I'm gonna find a way to push a man. But that's amazing. 'Cause that's almost like making your words seem like magic. It's like you're after saying it's like, "Look, I said this, and it came true." Like, "I literally have magic power that comes out my [ __ ] face." People are like, "Holy Sh."

Like to bring full circle what we were talking about earlier about the decline of the West, and my suggestion that it does seem quite spiritual in its nature. There does seem to be a very subtle but pragmatic solution there. Is that if you could get a large enough demographic of men in our states to turn around and say, "I will not [ __ ] with my words anymore and treat them as sacred." I wonder what would happen in 10 years. Like, that's a really interesting idea. This is not a new idea. No, no, no, no, no. Used to say, "My word is my bond." What's a man without his word? This is all old ideas that's just been completely forgotten. People used to just completely do things on their word. I do business with people still today on my word. Mind your words, guys. Who say, "Look, I want to invest 50 grand in Romania." Well, do we know? Get a contract. I said, "Look, I've told you, it's fine. That's it. Done. You trust me? Are you done?" And I have people who are trusting me. And again, all their returns and the stuff like, "I've never seen anyone does business like you." It's like, "We don't need courts and laws." Inside, you need someone who knows and means what they say. Everyone I do business with is the same way. That's how we are as people. And it's so rare to find. But you're right, if everyone thought that way, thinking much [ __ ] would save you. Even in general, and I know, and this translates to everybody. It translates to business, it translates to building. But it's especially true with relationships. I saved it. Like, if I get a new girlfriend, whatever I say, "Look, you can't disrespect me. I'm telling you now, I do not take disrespect. I don't give a [ __ ]. She's Pamela Anderson. I don't give a [ __ ] how much I love her. I don't care what it is. I told her I won't take disrespect." So she disrespects me after that. I think I have two choices. She's gone, or I look like a little lying [ __ ]. I'm not gonna live in that position of a [ __ ]. I don't give a [ __ ] who you are or how beautiful you are, you're out the [ __ ] door. Because I mean, when I say, and this is very, you're right, it is true degree. Does it give you magic powers? Because I said, "I want to take respect, disrespect." And now I'm not taking disrespect. I said it, and it's become true. And her ass is waiting at the bus stop, sitting there thinking, "You know what? This tape guy, I really can't talk to him that way. A girl talk to him nicely." Then I finally forgive her ass. She learned me. You know, like, and this can help with anything. I say this to, uh, I had a guy message me on Twitter to the nation. He was struggling with his girlfriend. Broke up with his girlfriend. Did it. Uh, I said, "Yeah, we've all been there, bro. But you don't care about her anymore." Say, "I don't care about her anymore." So what do you mean? As they say it, "I don't care about reading Arthur." Are you a liar? You a [ __ ] or what? No. All right. So it's a problem. Look at something else though. It doesn't give your words magic powers because you break them. So when I say, "I don't get sad." That's what I say all the time. "I don't get sad." 'Cause I've had bad [ __ ] happen. My dad's died. I've had Bitcoin, while it's hacked, and I'll squirt million pounds of it go down, bro. But I never sit there getting sad. I thought, "You know what? Take you don't get sad." So you're right. Bianca said that's just how I am. I'm brain-street. My brain's wired to my words. So whatever comes power has to happen. And it's like, I can control my mind in real time. I can literally sit there and date myself out of a sad period in no matter of seconds. Whether saying the right words, not taking you, she gets follow you, or I'll say it, and that's it. BAM. More work. That actually sprang to my dam. I had my dad used to always say, "There's no such thing as the word 'can't.'" And I was like, "That's not logical. Like, the clearly there is." But it's more like that word 'can', that word 'can' is hope. And most people, when they get stuck in sadness and depression, it's, it's literally a defeat of hope. It's like, "There is no hope, and there's nothing I can do." There's lack of power. But that is so, that is studies a failure of your own spirit in some sense. You're like, "I, I can't do anything. I am not nothing." You're saying it's like, if you treat your words serious, you can, you can at least conquer your words. You might even only be able to say, "I will get up out of bed and I will do something." But at least if you do that, you're proving that there's something you do with your worries to bring your spirit back to life. How fire could you take that? You could dig that over 10 years. You can do incredible things with that. You don't have to say, you don't have to say anything completely absurd. You can just say basic stuff, you know, because you suck. You learn to respect your word. You learn to say things, you know, within the realms of possibility. But you're right, "I'm gonna wake up at 7 a.m. every day this week." "I'm gonna wake up at 7 a.m. every day this week." When that alarm goes off, I don't think about pretty expression, snooze. I said I was gonna do it. I'm just gonna [ __ ] do it. That's how it is. It, it translates to everything. I say this, man, the one of the thing I say that triggers and one of the most as I say depression. But this all translates to that. My point is this, feeling depressed is real. There's everyone can feel depressed. But depression as some disease you catch from the sky that cripples you and you can't do anything about it's not real. You have depressing situations that make you feel depressed. The only thing you can do is change that situation to make yourself happy. There's no other way out. If you're fat and lonely and broke and depressed, you need to stop being fat, stop being lonely, and stop being broke. You might feel better. So if you can respect your own word and say, "You know what? I'm depressed. Whatever. I'm going to the gym every day. I'm losing, I'm losing 20 pounds. That's what I'm gonna do." And you stick to it, you'll be surprised how much better you feel. You'll be surprised how quickly you start to think, "You know what? I can do this. I can do that." Yeah. So it's, it's, it's that, it's that massive problem with things like depression and, and the dark side, and I'm getting dragged down to to sadness and all that. First of all, people don't value those things. They don't think that when you get into a depressive state, there's not something that you could be learning such as, "Or maybe I need a new perspective? Maybe there's something I'm doing wrong in my life?" And all that. Instead, they can categorize it as something wrong with them. And it's like, like oftentimes, you're depressed because you've been [ __ ] up, and it's a time for change. And all that [ __ ]. And yeah, like it's really about that idea of like, you can dig yourself out of that stuff. But you've just got to have that little bit of hope at the start of it. And that's a belief. Ya know, joy, pain, there is, you have to have both. It's the oldest human philosophy, yin and yang. The only reason I'm so happy with my life now is because I was once broke. This is why having some money is fun. I've had one, and now I have the other. So if you're depressed, you can sit there and go, "Okay, my life, that was [ __ ]. I'm depressed. It's gonna be [ __ ] amazing when I get my [ __ ] together." This a blessing. You've been given a baseline to compare it to. You're gonna be thankful as [ __ ]. Your wants to press me right back at the top. Imagine me and Tyson Fury. Now he was depressed, and now he [ __ ] just thought that fight, got paid millions and millions of pounds, and it was loving him again. The polar, the difference is in his mindset. That's where the [ __ ] experience of life is. Life is, you look at life and you enjoy it. Thanks purely all the differences. Humans, if you're born rich, you stay rich. Or like, you don't [ __ ] appreciate it. Differences, we don't detect our situation, we detect differences in our situation. And this is the reality. So you're depressed, you have a [ __ ] baseline to build a great life. Ballclub, fantastic, good. But you need to be man enough to get up and do something about it. To sit there and cry your eyes out and think your Dingle bill is garbage. And this is what the world wants. The world will teeth will tell you that. But it's not the reality. Everyone has the ability to be depressed if they're likely [ __ ]. And everyone has the ability to be happy if they do feel like they want to live. There are some famous people who say they're depressed because they may not be able in life they want. If you live the life you want to live, you're going to be a happy person. Depression is an evolutionary, it's an evolutionary mindset. We've evolved to stop us from living lives that are [ __ ]. So awesome, just sitting around doing nothing. Otherwise, you wouldn't do [ __ ] with ourselves. We would just sit around. I'm sitting beneath the mango tree. I can sleep here. I can eat mangos. I'm going to stay over eight years and die. The only reason we get up and do [ __ ] is to prevent ourselves becoming stagnant. That's all depression is. Let's see you call you gonna get up and fight. People holster a fight, man. And it all translate. You pledge to me, sir. Are you still there? Down here? You see? Yes, of course. You got, um, I lost you at the end. But an idea did pop into my head was, which is bringing a quite full circle. As data, you said that the, the, the, the fruit of life is in the difference in that contrast. And most certainly, what seems to be going on in our culture right now is that we have that great civilization, that comfort zone, and there lacks that gravitas, that danger, that evil, that sense of what it meant to be grounded into the floor and be like an ant, not a great human that we are now. And so, what seems to be so strange, people want that, they crave that. So they have to literally give themselves depression in order to justify their beautiful existence. Instead of just having a bit of [ __ ] gratitude. Crazy. And also, I think a lot of people, I think a lot of people have the wrong definition of happy. That does not mean I'm [ __ ]. People I say, "I'm happy." People, you never smile on your pictures, or you're always complaining. How are you happy? My view of happiness is different. I think a lot of people have this view of happiness like it's the same as being a kid. You see a kid at Christmas, and they open up that toy, and they're smiling and laughing about this toy. We're grown-ups. We have responsibilities. We have, we have, you know, we have more important things to worry about. As a grownup, you're never going to be happy like yours. Okay? You're never going to be joyful and laughing and smiling all the time. It's just not Luria. That's not the human reality of out of happiness. Adult happiness for me, it's just a lack of absolute sorrow. Like, there's no such thing as cold. There's only a lack of heat. Scientifically, cold doesn't exist. Heat exists. And a lack of heat creates cold. Well, I think it's the same thing with happiness. There's no solution is happiness. There's just a lack of sorrow. If I'm not grief-stricken, if I'm not sitting here, and I'm, and I'm really devastated, if my family members haven't died, I'm a bowl and my eyes out. If I have to, you know, I'm not really struggling, then I'm a happy person. Because I'm not completely sorrow-filled. I think a lot of people are somewhere in the middle, and they think because they're not at that giddy, childish happiness, or something wrong with them. No, no. Grown-up adults supposed to live in the [ __ ] maximum. People, life's great. I'm happy. I'm happy. I'm happy. No one's supposed to live that way. We're told we're supposed to live that way. And that you ever feel a little bit sad, there's something wrong. That's not true. We're human beings. It's perfectly normal to wake up and be pissed off, and be sad, or be there. So be that. Because there's nothing wrong with it. Nothing is wrong with it. Is to sit there and believe that you need to stop taking a pill to fix it. Oh god, yeah. It's, it's, it's, it's very scary thought. That thing about the, the [ __ ] pills in our last [ __ ] like, because that is a confession that there's nothing you can do. And it's just a rose. You're so. But my man, we've got a few more questions that will wrap it fire through, because this is this is an endless topic. I want to ask Kate from, I want to ask Kate from where he gets his energy on what's it's what's and what's his soul engine. I went to a stable from where he gets his energy and maybe where sits his soul engine. I still do that to this day. Probably did that for years. I still do that. I'll sit there and then, you know what? I don't want to do that. I'm gonna say it's someone. I don't say to myself. Say it to somebody. Is that unaccountable? I'll say, "Chris, did my brother, or whoever." I'll say, "I'm gonna do this." No, no. You want. So, you know now it's a challenge. Nathan, I'm a [ __ ] Joe means. Now it's a competition. Now I get to win. So I tell that's the one thing. Second thing is, I don't like to waste words. I mean, if I'm gonna say something, I'm gonna say it with passion. Why? 'Cause otherwise, like, you know what? Actually, one guy came up to me. A guy who I randomly met, he recognized me through Twitter and Thailand. He came up to me, start talking to me, and then he [ __ ] did a little hit piece on me on Twitter and started tweeting things that means solving me. So when he met me, he was disappointed because I didn't talk very much. I hate to be this crazy guy. He didn't talk very much. And there was girls in the bar. I didn't try to talk to the girls. And he was just really didn't really barely said anything. And he was just sitting on a stump. Gazza loser. Anyway, the point is, because I see someone I barely know, I'm supposed to jump up, start trying to get in late. Am I shut up? Anyway. Yeah, yeah. It's the thing that happens with a lot of people who were, who were big is that they, they become, they are a character, you know? And then when people meet them in real life, they're like, "Be the character. Character, be dance." Like, "Dude, I'm a person. Like, [ __ ] off." But the point is also that right now, while I'm speaking to you, I'm saying it. I'm saying it with me. It's gonna have what's gonna resonate with people. And also be on the internet. So my energy is, if I'm gonna toast, and I'm eating, most of the time, my general day-to-day life, I do get described as a quiet person because I don't speak unless I believe has an impact. It's very interesting. I was sitting in groups with my friends and not talk for hours. And people say to me, "Why don't you talk?" I have nothing. You're talking about [ __ ]. Okay. When we talking about Breaking Bad? I don't care. So I don't talk a law in general. So I think it looks like I'm super energetic. Like a light is either on or off. Yes, yes. Um, but that does make a lot of sense. Is that if you put gravitas into your words, why would you expect yourself to be doing small talk all the time? Like, it's, it's, it's that that's completely counterintuitive. So that will involve becoming the more introverted warrior samurai type from time to time. You'll just have to make peace with that. And that's actually part of the process. Is like, "Well, I just need to shut up." Why does gold have power? Because it's rare. Yeah. If, if I'm in a business meeting and there's five of us and everyone's talking, talking, talking, talking, I mainly say five words. People listen to eyes, you know what I'm saying? So, yeah, I don't talk that much. And that's because I'm very specific with why I say one. And two, because if I'm going to say something, I'm going to say it with me. I don't do small talk. I don't, I don't really talk about things in mind. Just today, I'm buried to the plant and we're sitting around talking about something I care about. Yeah, sure. I'll jump in. But there's a whole bunch of conversation now. I don't give a [ __ ] about. And I know that as humans, we kind of feel like to not be awkward, you kind of got to join in. But I'm very clear about what I don't care. All I openly say, "Oh god, I don't care. Just keep talking, guys." And I'll set my phone, tweet, whatever. I, I'm very, I'm very prepared to not speak. And I feel like that means, like I said, it's like either on or off. A lot of people go through life and there are paths on. I've heard this from someone else. This dimly lit. I'm not sure where I heard it from. They might have been fully made with her. He said that their class gonna be thinks about fights outside of the gym. And he said, "No, I don't." 'Cause, yeah, a lot of people are like, "Half-lit light bulb, always worrying about it." I think about it 1 million percent in the gym. And then when I leave the gym, I turn off. I think that's a good way to be with your words. If I'm gonna talk, I'm gonna talk with conviction. Talk with passion. I must say how I mean it. 'Cause I'm on. But if I'm off, I'm off. I'm not gonna be the guy who sits there. It's like, "Oh, yeah, interesting. So, yeah, so where did you go to school?" But I don't care. I don't care enough. I'm just gonna be honest. I don't care how I did it. It's all we're off with me. If I'm gonna walk, it's gonna mean something. Tops its dick. Get it. Come on, amigos. You barely spoke to me. I don't know you. And I didn't think you were very interesting for. I don't want to talk to you. Gentlemen, this is a very fascinating concept. I almost definitely, I'm gonna have a good think and put into practice and see what I can relay to everybody. But most certainly, take it serious. This, this is something that like, can't really be indoctrinated into like a book, a course, or something like that. Because it's so simple. It's like, "Just take your [ __ ] words more serious." Look, look at what it can do for you. What, what state's opinion on the current Brexit situation? Oh, man. [Music] Amateurs. You just triggered among people. Yeah, yeah. We can't function without Europe. We fought Europe for a thousand years. They were our enemies. And now we have to sit in protecting. We can't function. Element some garbage, man. It's just globalist elites in charge in Brussels trying to make it extremely difficult for it's trying to make it extremely difficult for England to leave. And all the people who are empowering England are just elitists. And it's all globalism garbage, man. The fact that most people don't even know how your app runs. You know what? EU has a parliament. They call it a parliament because it makes people think, "Oh, a part of it. I know how a parliament works." Do you know the EU Parliament has no power to propose law, to repeal law? So it's just a bunch of people sitting around talking about laws which are proposed and implemented by a select group of people that no one's voted for. Bunch of people at the top, which are completely beyond the ability to vote for. They have no direct correlation to the voting electorate. And they can pass any law they want. Like, let's sit, let in unlimited refugees. And even if the Parliament argue about it, they can do nothing about it. And any of the people at the base level can't vote these people out of office. So you get the passenger. It's insane. And that anyone who wants to sit there and go, "Oh, but we can't possibly survive without these psychos in charge of us." If I was in charge of Brexit, here's what would happen. I'd send them a letter saying, "Here's how much money you're gonna get from England with a big fat zero." We. And I would then say, "These are this again." But I'd say, "Okay, we're no longer in the European Union." Because there's a whole bunch of laws. Had once cartoon about the Ireland thing, officiating all this [ __ ]. Every law I'm going to pass a law now that says, "Every law stays the same until it's changed." Duh. No money. All lost. The same will approach them one by one in our own due time. If they need affecting or changing, finish. We've left the EU. You got a problem? Europe, [ __ ] off. Or I'll do talk. We're gonna do trade with Donald Trump. You know, look, it's just insane. But you wants to make it so difficult for Britain to teach other countries a lesson. And England's too [ __ ] to stand up for itself. It's really crazy, man. It's crazy. And it's crazy because I live in Eastern Europe. And East Europe benefit most for the EU because they're taking all the money. 'Cause they're getting money out, then I'll put money in because they're poor countries. I have seen with my own eyes corruption. I've seen Romanian lawyers go through the paperwork to get a quarter of a million pound grant to build a park, and then literally lay a little bit of turf and post swing set and keep 200 grand. I've seen it. It's all garbage. Even these two just get the [ __ ] out. Put the whole leadership, they're all idiots. They're all morons. Angry. England needs a Trump. We ain't never gonna get one. So would you approve of Trump taking that massive American industrial complex and conquering Western Europe? To, nah, vision. A gut effort. You don't have to answer that. That would get you in trouble. Is the best you could ever hope for. But has he really changed anything? The cold Jews are still liberal. All the education still live. It's still banned all over social media. He's got a few years left. And then some cycle there was gonna come in. Everything's gonna get worse. If Trump's the best you can hope for, and still he cannot defeat the liberal insanity that's surely that proves the game. Yeah, but my opinion would be, it's, it's spiritual, cultural, if you will. Like, I don't see how you can win if you've got the factories of colleges brainwashing people. Like, it's theirs. And like, that starts public school [ __ ] man. And wait until they start with that whole gender stuff when with four-year-olds and stuff like that. That's your plane on the defensive. There, there's, I just don't see how that can be achieved unless you are, it's, it's almost like a software program. And you need to go to the root. And the root is actually to stop the sources of all. It's like, Jay, your boss, an arrow found in Brazil. He said, like, he's gonna kick out all the cultural Marxists in the education system. That was actually one of his big points. The reason why he got in is because he was so adamant that you're not allowed to tell children to gay. And you're not allowed have Marxism in schools. And he's like, "Going hired on that." And then, so be interesting to see what happens in Brazil in contrast with like, Donald. He's having a tough time over there even getting his wall up, you know? So here's a good, here's a good question actually. What's your advice to teenagers living with single mothers wanting to not go into the university debt machine? My mother was upset about that. I told her to trust me. I'm a G on the boxing world champion. And she called me crazy. And I proved her wrong four times. So it's, it's, it's not about a general rule. My question is this, because people say this, "Some other time sharing a university. I don't lie. The, no, are you gonna not go to university and set home smoking weed and playing video games?" Or even they're not university and do something. I would never recommend university. I think that the degrees worth nothing. Who has a degree nowadays? Everyone. The guy who works the Saints for reasons of degree. So who cares? One, two, it does put you in massive debt. So I would never recommend university. But you got to do something with that time. You can't skip university to be a dull sir and do nothing. So no, don't believe the mercy. Tell your mother that you've got a better plan and go out there. Good job. Because I believe that be better for you in the long run. Just a side note, when I was working, I got many jobs that required a degree without a degree because I was just so flawless in the interviews. So I think if you learned to speak correctly and alright correctly, and you have good body language, and you're arrogant enough, you can do well. I walked into positions. They said, "You have a degree?" I said, "No, I don't need a degree. Other people need degrees. I don't need a degree." I know that me spending four years for your company and learning things here will teach you these far more about this industry than I could learn from an outdated textbook in a university course. I'm prepared to sit here and work the cheapest. I'll be the cheapest employee you've ever had. You can pay me the least. I guarantee I'll do the most work. You're never gonna have a member of staff as efficient and dedicated. Meeting. So I don't have a degree. I'm guaranteeing you now, be the smartest decision you've ever made. You say that to a wall. So they'll be sitting there going, "This dude's so Aaron." You must know some complete fool materials. At the very least, we will give you a one-week trial. I don't want to see lawful [ __ ] or not for work. Be there at the desk, head down, just like, just, you know, this like things are like, "This dude's crazy." But crazy is a good thing if it's in the right way. You're in the end today, you're making the boss money. You know, like I say this all the time, job interviews for me was so easy. I used to ace them. I kill them. 'Cause I just sit there with that, like a job interview. And I say, "Okay, alright. I used to do sales. Me, cuz it's where you can make the most money." By say, "I'm being perfectly honest with you. I need to make at least a million pounds here." Oh, yeah. This company? Well, this company only turns over two million. And we're about to turn over a lot more. I'm gonna make a million dollars a year, or a million pounds a year in commission. I'm gonna work somewhere else. So if the company's not large about, isn't prepared to fulfill the orders I'm gonna be bringing in, so we can look after the clients, so I can get repeat business. I need a job somewhere else. I'm not working Felicity. And they were supposed to be quizzing me. And they're like, "Curiosity, try me out." I believe him. I had a degree. And I went in there, talked all [ __ ]. I would, I got the job. I don't need a degree. And safe, you are introverted and you, you may not believe that you have that ability to just ace an interview. Most certainly put into practice. And just advice on taking your words more seriously. Build up that ability. Maybe you could spend the university years getting that into practice. But also, and it's quite recent, but Google and all them tech companies said that they will accept people who are talented enough who do not have the greaves. All you need is to have the skills. So just learn the [ __ ] skill, man. And if you're like some introvert who does, who doesn't, isn't good at talking, man, and you can prove yourself. All you need to do is be able to prove yourself, man. So just [ __ ] you know, figure out what you want to do, what you're good at. Make sure you understand what you're good at, you know? Maybe you have a good voice, maybe you are quite technical or something like that. And then just see what opportunities you can make work with that. Because as we said before, there is this problem with the universities where they are part of this cultural machine that's more intent on, shall we say, a, a form of brainwashing as opposed to actual education. And what's even scary about the American system is they make you pay for it. And yeah, it seemed very daunting stuff. But for certain aspects of your life, like women, like job interviews, that being confident and being extroverted certainly helps. And I do believe something you can learn. You don't have to be a full-time psycho. You haven't me to set our attention. But to learn to speak confidently and learn to be just arrogant enough to be believable, I think it's something everyone can but practice into and learn. I learned it. Like, I know it's any natural to me, but I learn. I literally sat and thought, "How can I come across us so fantastic they have to hire me?" I mean, I realize that humble is not the way. It was never the way. It was just blow. Like we talked about Conor McGregor earlier. Look what he did in his fight career by just running his mouth. There's a whole bunch of fighters for better records in, but they didn't talk enough. So there's a whole bunch to be said. I think need to be able to turn on that extraversion when you need it. But you have to be socially aware, obviously not when you don't need it. But when you do need it, it's there. So it's all good. It's just another skill to put in the box. You gonna have as much as possible. And you can drag out 100%. Those skills are extremely valuable as well. And of course, not taught and very hard to teach in a formal way. You actually need to, it's more, it's very personal. It's that personal development side of things. But you take that so serious. Like, you're, if you're a young kid at that age, you've got your whole [ __ ] life ahead. Remember that. You got time. So, so plan it and play it well. Because most of your friends are gonna be degenerate at that point. So if you're gonna have a field in front of you that you can play. And a few more questions here. Take, when you coming back to fight? We want to see your, your body 200 pounds. Also, what's your prediction for Ivan Thorne versus Mr. Plenty? Yeah, I should be coming back. We'll see you out into the. I didn't think we were gonna have an exhibition match. Ivan's an awesome guy. Is I believe a friend of mine. So, yeah, I should be coming back. I've got, I've got a lot of commitments, man. I'm not making excuses or nothing. I just, like I said earlier about respecting my word, I think a lot of that comes from fighting. Because fighting is not something you can have to do. Like with a lot of sports, you can have to do it. If you have to do fighting, you're looking to get your ass kicked. So it's either going something I do with my entire soul, or something I don't do at all. So I need to really make that call the upcoming weeks. If I can really justify giving up everything else to give myself every, you know, every possible advantage and really, really make sure it's the only thing on earth I care about. But, um, yeah, that's what it is. I, I would also, you know, I recommend anyone watching to go to, go to fight classes. And where there's nothing wrong getting punched in the face. Like, it's good to learn how any fragile you are. It's good to learn, you know, like, especially in a class, like, you're not, no one's gonna keep the [ __ ] out you in the class. You're gonna be fine. You don't get badly hurt. Even get a black eye on, who cares? It's gonna be, it's gonna heal three, four days. I think it's good for every man to just go and get punished. That's why I go when I'm out of shape, specifically because I know I'm gonna lose the one. But, you know what I mean? I'm gonna get hit. I'm in shape. But it's good, you know, it's good. Sometimes you're human on the planets and experience. It's good to know what it feels like to be wobbling, go take it, you know? So I recommend everybody to go out there and at least hold your licks a little bit. Might save your life one day, anyway. You know, 100%. Like, I wouldn't, I've never done anything professional now. But I learned the fight. And the difference in my personality afterwards is astounding. There's something about a baseline level of physical competence that improves your confidence on every level. It's an astounding skill. So I really, really recommend people try it. It's an amazing experience as well. Like, you know, your ancestors carved humanity out of violence. And it's, it's a good to get and tortured out from time to time. That's why Fight Club is such a resonant movie with people. And we have a few questions here. I'll try go through them quick fire. Taste opinion on brakes at this [ __ ] really wants to know. Tate, can I pay you to get an Instagram page of mine verified? If so, where to reach out? Yeah, so email me. In fact, is watching this now, who wants more of my knowledge about a YouTube channel about YouTube.com/Tate. It to the chat now. Only check to take it in. Link it on the description as well. youtube.com/screech. And then I've got incorporating comic cell courses. So I sell a course on body language, which includes like how, how I speak, how I'll rate myself. Of course, on fitness, because I've got a fitness program I do from home that keeps me in fantastic shape, 30 minutes a day. Course on how to get girls. Course on how to make money. I've got a war room, which is a group of individuals who are really chasing the cash. And we've just like 50 of us. We're all on this one group on Telegram, just talking different guys, helping each other with different projects. We're launching three or four businesses between the 50 of us. It's crazy. So we've got the war room going on. So there's a lot of stuff I'm doing to help guys improve their lives and improve their standing from their current position. Anyway, so it's all there. So anyone who wants any more, when I can talk forever, I need to hear anymore of me, there's plenty of it there. I'm on YouTube and on the horses. And I really, you know, I of course is my PhD course. I have a 100% proving dang. Have a whole bunch of like haters. Well, there'd be some little guy who's crap with girls who's gonna watch it and it'd still be crap and then try and blame me. I have 100% clean. Isn't that crazy? Yes, girls. And not a single person has said, "This is not worth it." Every single person said, "Wow, what the [ __ ]? You made it so easy." So I'm very impressed with the principle. As like, I've been unearthing it and like putting into the practice. It's like, value yourself. I'm value your [ __ ] attention. And be in the world is just change. Like a lot of what we're talking about here, so basic, but it's, it's good to really get it grounded in and understand, put it into practice. It's a life-changing. Often the most life-changing things are very, very simple in that sense. Definitely. I highly recommend you [ __ ] check out this man's channel. Like I brought him on for a reason. It's like he's unbelievable orator. And here, like he's a fighter. He's like a big character and all that. But more so the mindset behind it is the thing that is most fruitful. It's actually something that's really, really, really deep when you get into it. And really, really can change your situation. So most certainly take it into play. And anything you want to say there? Oh, yeah. I used to talk to. I don't talk to anymore. And I haven't followed her. Then she messaged me because these girls notice to see why did you follow me? By setting, "Hey." That's how I'm at that point with my attention. Like, literally, if you won't cook me dinner and worse up my big, I don't follow you. Like, that's the level on that. That my attention is so valuable. You don't get it unless you're actively participating in my life. So any girl you see unfold on Instagram as a girl I can have little ones. I'm up at a folder. So when I see these thirst traps and I see a girl with 5 million followers and these dudes like, "You're so beautiful. You're so rude." Just throwing your attention way to achieve the whole game. So raw, you know, I'm coming from. Oh, 100%. Like, I, I think because you notice that as well. Like, talk about game. Like, girls want something valuable. They want to win. They want to win. This is it. We get so stuck in area. It's like, "I want to win." The girls want to feel like they're winning. They're getting like a [ __ ] like a G, like a high status man. And if you pander to them and pedestalize them, they're, they're like, "Well, he's not. I'm higher up in the status hierarchy than hers." Like, it's, it's never gonna work that way. And there is that problem where even as a guy, like, you're sometimes you're so desperate that you, you wouldn't, you wouldn't accept. Okay, right. I'm gonna go through a little bit of scarcity and really [ __ ] working myself and stay true to my path as opposed to like dissipate my attention into these these like Instagram posts and all that. And the second you make that commitment and say, "I will even sacrifice women to a large extent. I will, I will scorn them. I will sacrifice them in order to go in this path to make me like, you know, my best self." And the second you do that, your attention becomes more valuable. And then they start coming. It's astounding how that stuff works. It is tired. And most, it's emotionally difficult because in order to do that, you have to go through.

An actual feeling, which is like that feeling of loss, that fear of loss. And it's so, it's so easy in theory, but it's risk versus reward. So I had a guy, I'm gonna keep it private who he was, but he was, um, he, he's verified, he's actually a very well-known celebrity dude. He was hitting him on Twitter for advice on girls. Hit a problem, this girl, whatever, whatever. And he was explaining his situation about how his girl still talks to her ex, and he told her not to, and she won't stop, and all this [ __ ]. And I told, and I told him what to do, and he didn't listen to me. He said, he, he didn't listen because he was afraid to lose her, just like you said, you know. And they split up.

But my answer to this was this. I said, "Look, you sit there and you say, 'I'm not gonna go out with a girl who's texting her ex.' So you either go out with me, or you're texting. You're not doing both. That's your, that's the choice." Now, if she, and I explained to him, if she chooses him, then she's obviously gonna [ __ ] him sooner or later anyway. Like, you're just accelerating the process. And you said, "I'm gonna leave you if you don't stop." And she said, "Leave then." How many weeks do you think it's gonna be until she sucks his... day? My point is, it, but I shocking her and offering her an instant attention take away by, even if she walks out, never text her, never reply to her, completely ignore her unless she apologizes. Then you might shock her system into getting what you want. So, yeah, it's a risk because she likes you, might leave you. But is it really a risk if the outcome of her banging him is certain anyway? It's just accelerating the process for a chance at victory.

So I use this with the chess analogy. I say, "Here, a losing position, and you're definitely gonna lose. And you can see that if you sacrifice your queen, there's a hope of victory, even though it's unlikely. Do you want to sit there and keep your queen on the board and slowly get ground down and lose, or do you want to be there, Mr. Queen? It may not work, but you were going to lose eventually anyway, but it might work and you pull off the most brilliant human history." And this is my point. Especially with relationships, guys are so afraid of losing the girl that they never take that risk. I've done that exact situation catalyst times, and sometimes I've lost the girl, not get a lot, sometimes I've lost the girl. But sometimes when I didn't use the girl, I put myself in such a position of authority, and on a bad way, but they do not go [ __ ] with me on such a level. People say to me, "I'll take your problems where you want. You don't, you have other girls. She never leaves you." Better how safe? Because she's tried to test me, and I stuck to my guns such a point that she knows now.

So I can give you old stories, whatever, whatever. But I had an argument, this girl, we were out. She was at my house. She's at my house like three days. I say, "Can you make me a coffee? I'm working." Because, "Why would I make you a coffee?" I said, "For three days, you've been in my house. We've been out, being taking you out, and now did a bit of work. I paid two meals. You're sitting in my house. I'm like, a coffee, is that a problem to make me a call?" "Yeah, 'cause you told me to." "It's alright. You're not gonna make me coffee then? Just leave." "Fine, I'll go." "Alright, buddy, you serious?" So, no, three, four days, I'm sitting here not working, you doing nothing. I think it'd be polite to cheat me a coffee. It's not a big deal. I didn't complain my weight that 200-pound dinner. If you don't make me a coffee, then you're not that girl. He was just leave. So she got to mood, she got her stuff, and leave. Left. Yeah.

So the reason I pulled that move, most people think, "Take to be in pain." But I pulled that move because otherwise, if she said no and I accepted it, what tone am I setting for the relationship? Yes, yes. I can lay it down. I said, "Coffee." You said, "No." I said, "Yes." "You want to get out?" Two days, three days, four days pass. "Are you done being silly yet?" Then she tries to pretend I'm being silly. So listen, I'm telling you now, I'm not going to be with a woman who's refused to do such a small thing for me. The kind of guy I am, and the life I'm gonna give you, the quality of man I am, and the kind of respect I have for myself. If you refuse to do something that small for me, I don't want to be me. So you can stop texting me now. Make me a coffee. The problem anyway. A few texts later, but one block. Come on. They say she comes to my house. The first thing she does, make me coffee. So come see. They'll come to my house. So she comes straight in the door, make the coffee. Just okay. Walk. Did need to call. The whole point of it was, I sacrifice my queen. I risked. I risked losing her forever. Most men are prepared to do that. I have risked losing her. I would never take her back without ba. It's risk versus reward, isn't it? Look what I pulled off. Next time I sleep. Do you think she thought about it? Which is nice. You gone from [ __ ] mate.

And this is the point. Most men don't take that risk. And this is why I saved the PhD divorce. You're gonna be talking to so many girls. So you're prepared to lose one because I'm not gonna be in a relationship unless I'm in charge. Because if we're walking down the street and someone comes up at the tries to take her handbag, I'm the guy who has to get stabbed to protect her. But she doesn't want me to be a [ __ ] coffee. That's not a fair exchange. I have to be in charge. That's how it's gonna go. So I have to make those big risk moves for the big rewards. I'm gonna be that guy. That's how I'm gonna be. So that's what a law is. You have to look at life like that. I mean, a lot of people like you saying, girl, especially girls, the fear of loss prevents them from really laying their [ __ ] down. I'm not saying it to be a psycho, not seem to be like that. You gotta be fair and honest. You have the certain boundaries that you won't, you won't break off. And she's to see it. That's, that's a hundred percent on it. Like that something just clicked off in my mind about that. Is you're speaking about this idea of having a principle active in a moment. And people will be like, "I was petty. It's a coffee." But it's not the coffee, it's the principle that you're pulling out. It's like this. It's like the same thing with the word. It's like you say, "I will do 500 push-ups." And it's like, "Dude, like that's just kind of a bit ridiculous." Like, "It's 500 push-ups." Doesn't mean you get to get the 200. Like, "It's not a big deal." But you're like, "But the principle is active. It's like if I've violated this principle, I violate my words, and they're no longer magic. And if I violate this, the relationship is no longer magic." And it's that idea of drawing. It's almost like an existential and an invisible boundary. It's a principle that you're acting on. And it is actually hyper, like it's a masculine thing. Even if we're gonna bring it this big, it's like, what? That's what's going on in the West right now. Is that the principles which built the West are now getting violated. And people think it doesn't matter. It's not a big [ __ ] deal. The boundaries of the Western get violated. It doesn't matter. But the thing is, is that it did. It caused a lot of death in that moment. And it's the same thing. It's like these moments full of tension, they matter because they really build something.

Like I was saying to this guy, the fact that your girlfriend even thinks it's normal to be able to text her ex while she's with you does not, not sure how [ __ ] up society is. Why is she talking to that guy? He put his dick in her. And now she's with you because he can text. Why? And he's like, "Oh, is that not a big stream to tell her she can't?" "Yeah, yeah, it's extreme." Like, it's like these men are talk to me, "It's wrong." But when I say, "My girl has no male friends." They think, "Oh, you're psycho. You must control her." No, she knows that she has the choice of being with me or having male friends. And she made her choice. So she doesn't have any. Because I'm walking out of this roundabout dunes. Because that's my call. If you want to be have male friends, that's fine. But you're not gonna have me. So make a [ __ ] decision. So I don't know why people think I'm the crazy one for sticking by my principles. Like, "Oh, how come you and your girl always get along?" Because she ain't had a bunch of dudes in her ear trying to split us up. That's why we get along. That's why it's fine. Because I'm the one she talks to. Me and my brother and a bunch of other girls. And there's no dude in her ear saying, "I'll be better to you. I can do better than all that [ __ ]." That men put up when they wonder when I live stuff [ __ ] up. But they're so afraid to do what I did with the risk versus reward. You have to be able to call a bluff. Trump said, Trump said in his book, "Art of the Deal," you have to know when to walk away from the table. Yeah. You can all be able to do it. Most dudes never do it to a chick. You know what? The number of fault girls will have done to hit me up years later, years. And it's because they can't get over in their mind the one guy who dumped me, the one guy who didn't give in, the one guy who didn't care. Is that take [ __ ] that takes them? It's the only guy who gives me what I want. Why did he give me what I want? And then they think, "I've got to try again to get him to give me." And then they come back. Because they, women, women are even familiar with this. Women don't even go. Most fought girls have never had a dude, man, ever. Know halt girls don't get kicked out over coffees. So when I did that to her, brain fry. She couldn't believe it. She's all, "I see that. Oh, your person. That viewer psycho. You're, they're trying to think of every reason why I kicked her out over a coffee." Two men, she clicked. Just like, "You know what? I should've just made the coffee in the first place." I told you eventually. It is a hundred percent. That's what's going on there. Is that it's, it's astounding. It's not an how much comes out of that simple idea. That you, you have her, and you value her more than your own principles. And what that does is that corrodes your, your ability to have a character. And you also lose her. You lose everything by valuing the wrong thing. And if you value your principles, which in essence is yourself, everything will fall in the right place. And that is so psychological and like mindset and even metaphysical to an extent. And it is the one thing that seems to be going wrong. Is that we live in this anything-goes-ism type situation where it's like, there are no such thing as boundaries. Boundaries are in fact bad. And that's destroying us. And especially men. It's especially destroying man.

If I was your girl's male friend, do you know how that ends? So if you don't know, you shouldn't know. I know you're not right. Obviously, she's known guys in school, whatever, whatever. If you're their friends, too, maybe there's exceptions. Your girls, your, if you're really the man your woman is obsessed with, in love with, she shouldn't want to be testing some other guy about anything. Why? Maybe they're work thing, she texts them quickly. But she's sitting there all day actively talking to some of the dude. Like, I see a warning sign there. Other people don't see a warning sign because they're conditioned not to. Like, it's normal to be that way. What do I do about it? I said, "What do you take the risk? It's risk versus reward. You've gotta know when to walk away from the table." Trump did it with North Korea. Yes, we did. Organize the first meeting. He canceled it because he was too to show. Because he said something bad about him on the news during all the [ __ ] was going down. Before they, they fixed the problem. He organized the meet. They said something bad about Trump. New city councilors. "I don't want to meet you." I just saw something on the news now that looks pay. But what that really is showing, look, you're not gonna [ __ ] soap me and me turn off [ __ ] you. And then North Korea came back to the table. And guess what they stopped doing on the news from salt and Donald Trump. The people you thought would be the guy who takes you, who walks away from the table, especially in relationships. I can't stress enough how important that is. But you also to be mad enough to understand that that ain't gonna work every time. Some chicks, you are gonna lose. But you just can't give in.

I'll tell you something now, man. And this is a fact. Because I've run the numbers, brother. I've run the numbers. I've never had a girl whom I split up with in that kind of situation who didn't eventually come back and message me. Or even like an incident. Even if it takes three years. I've had girls three years later stop liking my Instagram pictures, trying to get my attention, like liking ten of them in a row so I can see on my feed. It may take two years, may take three years. But in the end, if you're iron-willed, you will win. But most men never are. Most men always crack. I'm not the text first guy. I'm not that guy. I refuse. I will literally, I'll say, "I'm not texting you first." I said it. It's real, dawg. So it's, if you just gotta stick to your words. And this is, this is the thing. And a lot of guys, especially men, the whole world talks about how unhappy women are. But no one gives a [ __ ] about how unhappy men. I guarantee there are more unhappy men in relationships than unhappy with people think. That women are unhappy in relationships. Poor Hugh doesn't give you enough attention. Bubble of luck. That's [ __ ]. Do you know that? Like 80% of married dudes are like, "It's sexist marriages." They came to get laid. They can't [ __ ]. The woman are married to. Do they [ __ ] anyone else? They lose their house and kids. They have this foot to live the rest of life. Live or have sex. And society thinks that's normal. Like most do church is miserable. And the reason they're miserable is because the woman doesn't respect. And the reason she doesn't respect you is because you allowed her to disrespect you one too many times. That's always god [ __ ] eventually set a boundary. Like this is a few years ago, a long time ago. Soon another girl, she tried to pull that sex thing on me. Oh, you, you know, yeah, I've barely seen you. I don't see it. It's okay. That's fine. But you know, I'm just letting you know, if I wanna have sex, amount of sex with somebody, you don't play these games. What does that mean? You say, "I'm not telling you you have the time. You rape it's not a sham saying you like gay. I'm not going sex it. I'm gonna [ __ ] someone else." That's the reality. "We'll do it then." "Alright, will." So I did [ __ ]. Look, playing games. So you just called me. You just got me straight to the point. And all these men in there, sex marriages, they be sat there and ate too much crap for too long. The world is trying to, especially against men. You could talk about this for a long time. But how China conditioned us. It's conditioning you to take a whole bunch of [ __ ] as a man. You could be a man of honor. You can be, you can fit well in the society. And you can go through life to be nice to people and still take no [ __ ].

Yes, yes. I agree a hundred percent. That is like, that is the danger. I think that is the problem. Is that people say those two things can't go together. You can't have standards and be an honorable, noble man. In fact, I don't think you can be an honorable, an old man unless you have standards. I would always worry about a male feminist. Like, he's more likely to betray you than a man would honor. And that's a very interesting problem. Is that we don't have a conception of that anymore. And it's very, if you want to talk about toxic, I can think of nothing more spiritually toxic than not knowing the best form of masculinity we could have. We only have a conception of the worst. So it's a very strange problem. Very strange problem. Please, thank you. I get through my life fine. Plenty of good friends. I saw that today. Let the tweet in. You're like, "I don't insult women." And I was like, "It's just kind of struck me because I, there was this, you have this sort of thing where you're talking to girls and you want to kind of cut them down off their pedestal. So you'd like make fun of them a bit, you know? You like you drag them or something." And you're like, "I'm quite polite." I'm like, "What? Like what? That doesn't make sense." And it's like, "Well, actually, yeah, if, if you've got the principle active, you could be a [ __ ] gent and the principle will do the work." And yeah, like it's this [ __ ] like that. It's just, it's, it's like a lot of guys again into this manner fear, fear stuff because they don't have a positive conception of what masculinity is. I think women suffer from this too. They don't have an idea of what a great man is. And so they are always unhappy, trying to search for something, and they're never finding it. And they don't know why they're unhappy. And eventually, they start blaming men. And maybe that's where that [ __ ] test energy is common. Is their, their prodding and being like, "Something in me makes me realize there needs to be a better form of masculinity." But you're not it. And there's no guys know how to bring it out. It's very, very [Music]. Our core left-wing feminist ends up fall in love with some right-wing do because he's first to Tom's show the reality. I mean, I thought myself, I've been on dates of feminists and I changed their minds with my big dick in no time. So it's certainly doable. And the reason that, the reason I say I don't sort women is because, like on Twitter, especially if someone comes at me, I might say, "On your floor items and welcome, whatever." But my point was, my point was very clear. It's that I think when we think about power of words, not going to insult someone, it does two things. One, verbal insult insults us fighting. And I don't believe you should go down that path if you're not prepared to actually fight someone. I wouldn't insult the guy like, so it was all chilling because I'm not going to here and - and I think the most masculine and probably the most annoying, especially during an argument, oh, so annoying. May he be as a man. As a man, I like to show that I can't be emotionally affected. If you start insulting someone, that means they made you mad. I love it when the girls like, "You're a [ __ ] cheat," or "You're a scumbag," or "A piece of [ __ ]." "You're this, you're that, you're this." And I'm just like, "Okay, anything else?" That's what annoys a more than it, than anything. Because what people do is they want to affect you. If you install the girl, shows you the effective humanity. You have to show you, you're above her games. So that's why I don't believe insulting women's affected. Like a woman would rather be called every name under the sun than than be ignored. That's a fact. So I'll just stick to ignore it. Sisters, the principle active. Like attention matters. So if you like, even, even, even just like insulting them is a little bit medium, some level. Like, it's less needy than pandering, I guess in some ways. But if you're like, "Insulting, eerie, like, please give me attention. This is my attempt." Every time he's out, I'll say, "Bro, you're on a night out. She doesn't like me. You're out with your friends, and she wants your attention." So she's starring an argument because you're gonna sit there, text or insults all night. She'd rather you ain't for all night than ignore her. So well, I do when I argue with girls is they sucking fresh. I say, "Stop saying that, whatever, whatever." They carry on. Ignore them completely. She's ignore them completely. Because then they learn, "Take only replies to me when I'm nice. When I get stupid, he ignores me." Doesn't like you. Start insulting them. Insulting still attention. Women love attention. They don't give a [ __ ]. You get the [ __ ] big ass argument. Still focusing on them. This is women can get so toxic with that. This is why women stay with men who are like abusive. Because I known girls who are with abusive guys and then they leave that eventually. Abuses that goes to jail, whatever. It was a normal guy. I knew a guy who's going out with a girl who used to be abused. Yeah. And he was saying, "She drives me crazy. If I don't call her every two minutes, she says I'm cheating." That and she flipped it. Because she was so used to so much attention from this abusive guy. That when a normal guy was with her, she was like, "He doesn't care about me." She was flipping on him. "Text me more. Whoa." Because she liked the attention she used to get from the guy who would call her every two minutes and all that house. Because so the women, a lot of them stay in these relationships for the wrong reason. Because they're getting something out, even though they'll never admit this. They're getting something out of it. Wow. It's crazy. They would, they would, they would, they would see abuse as valuable attention. Yes. They say, "I can't leave." It's the Western world. You're going to any police station, getting arrested. You just keep the house. So why the [ __ ] did he probably so long? If he called you every 10 seconds and you felt important, even if you didn't even like, even if it annoyed you, the attention overload. You got so accustomed to it. Then now when you're with a normal guy, you're, you're calling him every name or something for not giving a [ __ ]. Seeing called you in two hours at work. So it goes to show. That's how that's how focused and fixated females to be on attention. So a woman would rather have a huge argument with you and you call her every single name than ignore. That's the best thing you can do to annoy a change. Just ignore her existence. I think you think. Yeah. So I say this. The guy says, "That's why I say don't insult females." Cuz the woman ever makes me mad enough to want to insult her, then I know the correct thing to do is ignore myself. Say, "You're a stupid [ __ ] anyway. I look a dick anyway. You're stupid. And you, your [ __ ] home." Why? Just like she, when she texts me, says, "Take you the worst world." I just completely ignore text. That's how I would. That's the best way to do it. It reminds me of some rotten egg Arnold is fortunate. He said before he was when he was in his prime, properly going for that like Mr. Olympia physique. Him and his care would break down little [ __ ] like that. He said he would literally have no emotions whatsoever because he literally dedicated all his focus towards his gym work. And it's this idea that if you're on your path, you're on your purpose. Like, like even dispensing of energy towards an argument is actually a waste of time. It's, it's sometimes it's better to to be insulted and not care and move on and focus on your goal. Because in the long term, that's what matters. And that's how you create that valuable attention thing. It's a active principle. It's so [ __ ] true. People check out this. This man's a PhD program. It looks very, very interesting on the surface. And we've only spare li scratched there. I'll see if we get a few more questions. And then I'm, and then yes, we may have to wrap here. We go. What are your best methods to control your anger? No, I did. People are told to not feel angry. I think I'm gonna spend that to CNN. That's a great thing. You need to learn to channel. Now, there's a million things you can challenge. You can challenge into the gym. You can challenge to your business. You can challenge a whatever. But you're not stupid. You know what positive, what's going to positively impact your life. Elicits a negative impact. Early my life was built off the back of anger. I was too angry to sleep. That I was broke. That's how I got rich. I was too angry to sleep. That thought of losing. That's why I trained. I was completely built on anger. And I channeled it all in the right direction. I have no criminal record. So I'm never going to tell anyone not to be angry. I'm gonna say, make sure you put it into something worthwhile. If you're genuinely pissed off, and I mean genuinely, think how much energy that is. That's a little ball of a force. You're pissed off. That's it. [ __ ] it. That's it. I'm doing this fucking-a. Finding a way to get the stock today. That's good. What a lot of people do is they pretend they're angry, but they're not. All I'm angry about really, I'm just miserable. I feel sorry for that. Is negative. That's never going to help you. But if you're genuinely angry, then you have a limited motivation. So I don't ever try to stop myself being angry. I just make sure I have something to put it into. Fantastic. Good. Be angry. Good. Absolutely. You need to have an outlet in your life that's gonna benefit your life. Doesn't matter what it is. Go do pro push-ups. I'm so angry. You're so angry. We'll talk. How angry you are? Like a tough guy. Show me a thousand push-ups. Come on. You're so angry. Move them arms. You're so angry. You should force. Oh, what you're doing? Tired now? Well, you're not angry anymore. Shut the [ __ ] up. So a lot of people just talk anger. They like to talk [ __ ]. Well, love is just like, feel sorry for themselves. Frustration. That's different than anger. Anger's a positive emotion. Feeling sorry for yourself is a negative emotion. Because feeling sorry for yourself, it's implying that someone or something's gonna come along to save you. And that's never gonna [ __ ] happen. No one's gonna wake up and think, "You know what? This tape dude, I want to give him a real hot girl and a [ __ ] Lambo. Let me, let me go find a lab." It's never gonna happen. So either I have to do so, "Oh, poor me." No, I don't have a Lambo. Poor me. That's hoping someone else is gonna give a [ __ ]. No one else. It's absolutely true. I think this is a, this is another conspiracy here. Is is like there is a denial. There is a fundamental. Despite the fact that we deify getting all feely and emotional and in this dis society, there is a denial that our strongest emotions have positive qualities. Such as anger. Anger most certainly wouldn't exist unless it had a purpose. And that purpose is like, can't be negative if it's applied correctly. Anger was the way a warrior would carry himself through through a [ __ ] about. Anger is the way you fight against injustice. Fear has a place for you. It's telling you that you're about to enter risk. And for some reason, there's this push where we take ourselves away from those power emotions. Such as confronting fear. Well, maybe fear is there a bit. But stuff like anger, like anger is higher than apathy. And there seems to be this push where it's like, key people in, like be feeling. But the only feeling you can have is this low, heavy, apathetic, almost depressed state. Because that's a, that's a grounding, heavy state that pulls you down. Where's anger pulls you up and put you into a state of action. But it's a wild and hard to control. And most certainly, if you can control it, it can become a great asset. Like anger has been a friend of mine many times. But it's a very intense experience. But then again, so is life.

Did you give a specific method that you have methods? Or is it just like having the right mindset? What I try and do is I really try and see beyond myself. I really try and think of, I really literally in my mind, I will literally sit and imagine myself sitting on this chair and looking at myself from above. And realizing two things. One, how unimportant my issues. And when I say unimportant, I don't mean unimportant to me. I mean unimportant to them, to the world. Like in regards to the stars in the sky and solar system and [ __ ]. The any of my problems gonna stop the sun rising? As any of my problems gonna stop the tide coming in? Like, it's just the reality of the world is that, what, how much I'm upset, it really doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things. That's the first thing. And two, is that anger can be channeled into anything. Anger can be channeled into inaction as much as action. So like, if a girl really pisses me off, I'll take all that anger and channeling it into not testing. That's an inaction. But I'll still think, you know what? I know what the right thing to do is. If you sit long enough, no matter how angry you get, take a few seconds. As a full-grown man, sit, decide the right course of action, and put the anger in the correct direction. Because if I buy the girl who doesn't really annoy me, and I have to cut her off, and I don't want to text her anymore, but she hasn't really made me mad. That I even I miss sometimes tempted, like, you know what? A nice ass. Question. But if she's really pissed me off, then it's very easy for me to not texture because I've got anger in that direction. About motivation. Not not soon as I've ordered, not [ __ ] or no love. This. So anger is a fantastic thing. You just have to sit and think outside yourself and realize that one, whoever stressing you out, you're not gonna care about a few years anyway. So you know, it's not the end rural to the world. Doesn't give a [ __ ]. And three, just make sure you make a correct decision before you channel into something. That's all it is. You just got to sit still for a few minutes and like meditate from outside yourself and think, you know what, man? There's only a few weeks ago off the quarter million Bitcoin. Will have quarter of a million. And I said, I thought, you know what? That's a [ __ ] lot of money. Even to me. And this and that. That I got pissed off with it. I thought, you know what? Who gives a [ __ ]? No one gives a [ __ ]. No point me complaining about it. There's so much I can really do about it. I mean, all about is trending more money. It literally, even my brother said, "You're the only guy I've seen lose a quarter million in three minutes. Later, he's just talking enormous." What the [ __ ] else? My call. All my friends and cry about it. Sit around hoping for support. Does it bring the money back? You know, maybe this is you just being like that kind of guy. Like, "All right, you know, I'm gonna take all this anger and I'm a channel to work." And for a good week, I slept three hours a night. Who gives a [ __ ]? So I was all nervous and I was pissed off. I couldn't sleep. Half woke up a [ __ ] that's one computer. You just got channel it in the right direction. I'm probably making more money than that quarter-million dollars. 100%. And it does come down to that fundamental principles. You gotta honor your emotions. You're gonna know that they're there to help you. I mean, it's like, it's so weird that you're told to be more emotional, but don't in any way go through words. Like, try to redeem your emotions and make them useful. That's like, "Be be more of a depressed [ __ ]. But don't be more of an angry [ __ ] wants to change." That crypto thing. Just, just to note. I had a friend who M had, I think it might've been three and a half or four million at the peak. And he decided to hold. And he lost 500 million. Every more 500,000. Every one for six months. That made him a man. He was just quite. He was like a big callus. Then that that really shows. After that, I feel nothing anymore.

And how to tell when a woman is using you for your money, dinners, or attention? Fast. Well, that's a very good question. And I answer that in my PhD course. So that's, I mean, I suppose explains a lot of it. Another thing is, I believe that it's quite easy to tell. And I also believe, you know what? I don't think women are cunning enough to use you purely for a dinner. Like, women are not that ruthless. They're gonna go, "You know, I'm gonna go on. I'm gonna go out with the sky. I hate this guy. But he's gonna get my think. I'm gonna save ten bucks on dinner." I don't think women are that worthless. What's probably happening is she's unsure about you. And she's not sure yet. So that's what's probably more likely in my experience. Like, I don't really think, maybe I'm wrong. I don't think it was, "Sit there and go, I [ __ ] them now. I hate this guy. But I mean, I want dinner off me. I don't want to pick myself." Women, I don't like that. They'd rather pay for themselves and hang out the dubidouxs. So I think that either you're friend-zoned. But that, that's discussed heavily in the PhD course. Cuz the friendzone is when you're giving way too much attention without any justification. Let's say they're not there. Or she's unsure about me. So you need to, you know, you're on a few dates. Then that, even after a couple dinners, and she's, you can tell she ain't text me back very nice. Then you cut your attention down to zero. See if she chases you. She asks you to go out again or something. And say, "Oh, maybe. Or maybe we'll go for coffee." "How much is coffee?" "Two nouns, two dollars." "All meet Starbucks." She turns up for coffee. Then you know she must want to see you. Because guarantee a [ __ ] ain't going all the way out of their way just get free coffee. You're free coffee at work. So there's a few things you can do to think. But the PhD poulos teaches all of that. That's the first thing. But I've never really had that problem. People think when you have money, you got to worry about girls gold-digging. You. I'll tell you now, I've never had a girl get penny on me. I've never had a girl even. I don't even buy girls Christmas presents or birthday Christmas. I just say, "Look, I don't expect anything from you. I don't celebrate it. So I don't, I'm not here talking anything for me. Sorry." And they're going to give you something. I'm like, "And I'll make a joke." They'll say, "Yeah, you want to get me some for 10 bucks for me? You want something for 200 pound?" What about if you don't want to go into this? It's goodbye to PhD course, people. This is where if the depth comes. But if, um, if they're trying to get attention out of you, well, that's obviously withhold it. Have more respect for your attention. Yeah. Well, because means that they want your attention. That's good. But you have to understand that some kind of reciprocation. So I've had posted all the time. I have girls trying to get attention at me. But they think, "Oh, we attention at all and sleeping." Well, that's fine. And the PhD course explains exactly how I do this. You have to make sure your attention to reciprocate. You know, it's just, it's very simple, basic little things. So maybe we'll go for dinner. I'll say, "Yeah, maybe. I don't know. I'm in the club tonight. Come here." So like my cat, though, she's playing games. I'll just bring her along to things I'm already doing. Then if she turns up, and show us play stupid games like ignore all. So I had a girl doing exactly that. Oh, here we go. There. I said, "Woman, the club tonight. Come here." "Well, I don't know. Wanna come?" "Okay, okay." Then she turns up. Well, I go, "Hi." Comes to the table. That she can system to me. "I came over." Was they kind of have to believe me? So all night long, I completely ignored her existence. She tries to toss some other guy to do all their shitty of my attention. Ignore her like she didn't exist. Next day she's like, "Oh, I'll never come to the club again. You David speak to me." That. So last time, think you for dinner. He would even kiss me. So let's point under there. I'm just to the point. Well, yeah. Anyway, I'm back. So the point is, just call me straight to your objective. Never afraid to say what you mean. I'm not buying you dinner over and over again. Kissing you haven't let me a creep about it. It's gonna be like, "Look, we've ended. We've been to dinner three, four times. I like you. Don't let me back. I'll find a girl I like." "Why can't we just be friends?" "Because I'm not looking for a friend. I'm looking for a girlfriend. If you don't, you're my girlfriend." That's why I have enough friends. Cuz they use that friend thing to try and keep getting your attention without having any obligation. If they say friend, then they get all the attention. And you don't give it to them. You're a bad guy. But they have no obligation to give you. You want. So when a girl says to me, "I want to be your friend." I say, "I don't have any offers." "Like, what do you mean?" "Is I don't have fret. Have enough friends. I don't want a friend. I'm looking for a girlfriend. You don't know what girlfriend. That's fine. But I don't need a friend." So be pretty tough. We're [ __ ] talking. There's no option. There's nothing between. I think there's this, this plays into a problem that often comes up at lights nowadays. Is that they almost, they almost never want to explicitly say why they're talking to girls. It almost, it's like they want to somehow like sneak in. They never want their intention to be known. It's almost like it has to be this like my in Portland put our trap to thinking. But if you say, "I'm talking to you because you're beautiful. Yeah, I think you're gorgeous." I'll sell my girl. From what negative could she say about a compliment? Well, not all she can say. It's all thanks. Behind a look. You know, "Alright, cool. No problem." And then I'll never text her again. And then two days later, she'll be like, "Why are you texting me?" Like, "Oh, well, you thought we want to be friends." And any girlfriend I fine is gonna be intimidated about me having a beautiful female friend. So then I look like a nice guy. And look like the guy who doesn't talk to other girls when he has a girlfriend. So I'll say, "Look, then when I go find a girlfriend, she's not gonna like that meeting your friends because you're beautiful." And I buy the girlfriend. I don't like to do that to her. I don't want her to see me talking to other girls. So if you're not interested me, completely understand. No problem. Have a good like. Bye. And I'm a [ __ ] aggressive teacher. Be to insult her first. Hopes complete garbage. None of that. I'm a completely nice guy who calls her beautiful. If she interested, I'll never talk to her again. And by doing those things, you just manage your attention. Your attention, that your intention is it clear. And your attention has value. You don't get my attention unless we're progressing towards we're out. A lot of progress. That's all the PhD course. And that's the principles are very clear here. Like it's, I am a big believer in principles over techniques. As they say, and it is so important to get that stuff straight in your head. Because principles are hard to get in your body. Like they're hard to, it's, it's easy to learn them, but it's hard to put them into practice. And that's good because they're, that's means you're learning them. And they're always very, very simple. They're always very, very, or just like, here's two or tree principles. Kind of get them and start [ __ ] putting them into practice. And that's always the, the onus is always on action. Like top-level boxers, they throw the same punches. But there's just more principles in play. Like stuff like, and you know, speed and knowing positions and all that [ __ ] like that. So it's, it's, it's about getting your principles into your head. And I think that's a universal part of just the learning experience. The more you understand that that's a part of life, the more you can get down to first principles, the better you'll do in success in all areas. There's another high-level of mindset skill we've after pulling out of this conversation, which is fantastic. And Mr. Plenty, yes, your new name. What's your favorite country to have a bank account in? Do you have experience with Georgia? There's someone want to get a bank account in Georgia. Be honest with you, all banks everywhere are kids. I think so. Yeah, all banks can be [ __ ]. You know, I don't think you have to really worry about banks to start making big, big money. But when you have normal sums money, I'm not too big a deal. I think I think one of the most important things people can do instead of K different bank accounts is getting different driver's licenses. I recommend that absolutely. Because if right now, while England's still in the EU, you can take your British license and exchange it for European license. Any other country. There's a couple conditions. You might need like a residential address or whatever, whatever. You can change your license. So you can go to [ __ ] in Austria or Slovakia. You can rent a P O box. You can sit there for a couple weeks. You go to the office. You'll find out how it's done. You can [ __ ] around. [ __ ] around. Get a foreign license. And then when the police stop you in your home country, who's without lessons? They can't take it. The Katy points can do nothing. So every time I get caught speeding, I just send on a [ __ ] American license or a Thai license. I ate miss Tony and license. So to whatever country. I mean, I got polite a different license. That helps me a lot. Because when I'm in Romania, I plot an American license. They don't know what to do. When I'm in England, they send me a letter. Fixed penalty. Has sent back a Thai license with an international driver's permit, which is legal. I've looked it up. And they're like, "A lot of [ __ ]. We would do. Write to Bangkok." Okay. It just goes away. No one else thinks that way. So I wouldn't worry about different backs. Would say anyone who loves their cars, anyone don't lose their license. Go get for unlicensed. Instead of going on holiday in Tenerife again, drunk. Then I came two weeks to go in somewhere. Do your research in advance. Leave with a license. I'm guarantee you'll be safe. So much hassle. You just pull out on police. No, like nothing. A duty. I do that all the time. I get weird drama. Lamb bollock psycho. It's, um, it's, it's an.

An interesting thing about a play there is that you want to be resistant. You want to be resistant to the machine of the state somewhat, because the state has this ability to tyrannize you to some extent. And to be a truly free market, this, this new situation where you've got all the paperwork and all the like, all that big elaborate bureaucracy over your head all the time, is a very modern thing. Like America, like America was founded on the principle of like, [ __ ] the government, make it as small as possible. And now we live in a place where the government is just an absolute like monster, and it's everywhere.

And so there is this precious like, how do I, how do I live free? How do I, how do I, how do I pull myself less accountable to these, to these governments? And this isn't a slight to them, like they, you have their place and they have to do what they got to do, but you got to make yourself invulnerable. It's almost like a negotiation thing. It's like you get, you got to have a position of power so that you don't have to cook to the government too much.

And then I realized it's impossible to be off-grid nowadays, because you need a passport, you need a bank account, your driver's license, need things. So then I thought, well, then I put myself on as many grids as possible. So you can take away a driver's license, you can lock my passport, you can close my bags, I don't give a [ __ ]. Because I have another passport, another driver's license, and more banks. So I've got eight passports, I've got 14 driver's licenses, and I've got some bank accounts in every country I've ever visited. Ever. So I'm on my [ __ ]. So [ __ ] diversified that. But they're gonna say to me, okay, stop. Rotate from traveling. Even they would be like, okay, when we blocked his English passport, I think isn't American, when we blocked that, Estonia, Nigeria, who the [ __ ] is this dude? They won't even find him. All like that.

So that's what I've done. I put myself on so many grids that there's no one government with control over my life. If you're only on one grid, government controls our entire life. But I live in Romania now. I don't even know the president is. It's liberating to me. I don't know who he is. I don't care about Romanian politics. One can [ __ ] about nothing. But I've got so many other foreign ashes. Like I'm truly a citizen of the world. I've tried to make myself anti-fragile by just being a citizen of the world. I can travel with all these different passports, all these different banks, leave you've been driver licenses. I can live anywhere. I go anywhere. I'm a hard guy to track down. I'm just like this festive way I've done it. So that's why I'd recommend more than bank accounts, driver's licenses is absolutely worth your while. Because sooner or later, you didn't call speeding and they're trying to put six points in their license to do it. Some [ __ ] 35 miles an hour, you'll be glad you just pull out something else. A [ __ ] no way.

Yeah, it's a very interesting idea. I'd like to take it and to take it to an interesting place. Like you're a man who speaks his mind. Now, if you did that and you were in a position where someone high could just take everything from you fast, you'd be very, very vulnerable. So it is, it is an interesting thing. I guess a lot of guys in our circle, so a lot of guys would be listening to this, they would be interested in becoming successful. And then at that point, doing what we considered the moral thing, which is to try your best to stabilize the direction of the West, we'll put it that way. And you're not going to be able to do that if you're vulnerable. And so you need to start to think to yourself, okay, I'll probably have to get invulnerable. And the way to do that will not be presented to me in the mainstream path. It'll be actually encouraged away from me. Okay, I'll be told to get my fingers deeper in these complicated systems and all this stuff. And you've got to figure out how you can pull yourself out of that at some point. I got it. That is a grown man thing to do. At some point, once you become successful, it's like the [ __ ], how do I make sure it's not all taken from me? Get scary to see what happens. It goes those guys like Tommy Robson as you're saying nowhere as well. So you gotta be careful. I mean, once you hit billionaire stasis, it's streaming. If you've got a couple million, you can disappear. You can disappear. I could disappear tomorrow. Don't have a [ __ ] clue where I'm so. I don't want Emma. Oh, no, it's all good. What you say? Say come again. I won't disappear. Yeah, I'm gonna upset a few more people. But maybe yes, he's, he's gonna, he's gonna, he's got a few things to say people. And then there maybe he'll vanish. Once there, once the foundation to lay down here's the principles, I'm out of here. Without that, sir, I'm enjoyed it a lot. I think we dug out some very, very useful things. And of course, it was a great conversation. And thank you very much for the opportunity. People, we're gonna close off. No more questions now. There were plenty of other things said there, by the way, apart from questions. I just, I had to skip over them. People forgive me for that. And some people were saying OnPoint advice, stuff like that. So it was a quite appreciative of the people who were watching. Thank you all for watching. Follow teh on Twitter. He's very entertaining there. Here's a beautiful profile picture as well. And check out his YouTube channel. I will link that. I will link all this stuff below. And I'll also link his Ph.D. program since we did discuss it in depth. The principled way to get your life in order, which are Hartmann and and rotate. Thank you very much. People, we are out. Thank you.