Deal Breakers? Swallow It EP16

[Music] Holloway. Oh, you. Why? [Music] What's up? What's up? What's up? Gonna make it about Shadi. You're not at home. You probably don't. I'm from Atlanta, but anyways, we're back. We're back. We're back. It's your Camila. You are too, and Danny, of course. My name is Camila, and you're listening to Swallow It Open Wide, Take It All In. We are now episode what? 16. 16. Open Wide, Take It All In. 16. Episode 16. That's big. 16 weeks. Yeah. Have you? I can make some. Oh, okay. There I am. Get your levels together. Yeah. Get it together, honey. I can hear myself now. So, we're coming off your birthday weekend. Are you a little high still for your birthday, or you're just like, you know, in a mellow mood? I'm in a mellow mood, but I'm also like, high off life still. Oh, and I forgot to say for those of you who are tuned in, you're listening to Swallow It Open Wide, Take It All In. Talk eggs on, you know, everywhere, everywhere. Let him know where we come. You know, everybody can find you. You can find on, like, X at 11:00 p.m. on Thursdays. And how the podcast, Google Play, Spotify. You can also find on YouTube a week after the audio is released because we only upload the visuals for people that don't know what a podcast is. But it's 2019, so all of you should know what the [ __ ] it is. Yes.

So, Danny, once again, we're coming off your birthday. Are you high? Are you like, whatever, it's over? What's that? How you feeling? I'm like, you know, having, I've lived another life. I mean, another year. So, the big question was, if we know the listeners, we wanted to know if you were gonna get some sex because you're talking about how you didn't get sex, how you know, you're just [ __ ] and all this blase, blase. Did you get anything? Absolutely not. Did you get any head? Nothing. Did you get a kiss? Nothing. A dinner date? I went out to dinner with girls. Did they pay for your dinner? I got the dinner for free. So, I hooked my girls up. Oh, well, you know, I mean, if I was gonna free dinner date, how would definitely. I was like, well, when I got away with it, you know. Yeah. Bucket. The waitress had such an attitude. She knew everything was favoring. I like your training. We should be appreciative. So, you guys didn't give her a tip? No. No. I'm working in that industry. So, as I compare it in the right, yeah, like I don't think that's cool. We have like a thousand dollars worth of free food and drinks. So, of course, more than that. Problem, guys, with the towel, right? Yeah. We had four different rounds of ten shots of Casamigos, and then everybody ordered individual drinks at least two rounds. Well, that's how most people a Babich right there. I was actually out of town for a wedding, but looking into what I was doing, it, you know, that fun. I did have fun. You look like you don't want to come back to Los Angeles. I do because, you know what, it's country, but you have a good time because you're with family, and you, you don't see your family often. You know, it's like going back to Boston. I mean, you get to see your mom, your dad, doesn't your Marcellus, and everybody. Then after like five days, I think, bye, bye, [ __ ]. It's time to go. I can't do this. You know, but I didn't have a good time. I did miss your birthday, and I was getting mad because, you know what, I'm a person that texts. I mean, I don't text, I call for, but it's okay. First of all, the camp called me at 7:00 a.m. Well, it's like 10 o'clock my pond is Saturday morning, and I work Friday the night before till 2:00 a.m. So, that's like literally four hours of sleep, right? Even hearing it ring. Well, I was just like, you know, I like to physically call because I just feel like it means something to just hear the person, you know. But it's Daddy's birthday. We're gonna celebrate it. It's still a happy birthday, [ __ ]. Thank you. You know.

So, you didn't get any. Would you be opposed to purchasing penis? First time, I would never. I mean, sometimes the cost, but that's what measures, you know, like, listen, I, I love sex, but I don't love. I can go months, almost years without sex. It's just, I would never go to that length to get it. Do you feel like it's desperate to call somebody that you previously had sex with to have sex? So, you won't be giving up extra 50 miles or did you know? I haven't hit on anybody. Actual on your birthday. We all get drunk. Turned there are girls and everything. So, did you send any drunk texts? Anybody? Any man? Any girl? I don't want sex. Like, hey, honestly, you know what it was is I was worried going to dinner because I invited previous bad girls, right? I invited my friends that I've met here, and I was really [ __ ] stressed all day. Mmm. That personalities were gonna clash throughout the night. I know. I was looking at your Instagram and I was like, oh, that's very interesting. So, all day long, I was [ __ ] stressed. And then I de-drank. So, I had like tequila through my bloodstream, and then we went to dinner and [ __ ] shockingly, everyone was a vibe. Like, everyone just [ __ ] fun. And I don't know if it's my birthday or everything was really, and everyone's just really happy, but you just can't really complain about. What can you complain about? Like, really realistically, like life is way too short to be worried about the [ __ ] then we get Owens, you know, social media or being on Bad Girls Club because we start feuding for no reason. You're all [ __ ] grown, and at the end of the day, it doesn't pay any of our bills at this point. No. Like, what, what's the point of holding? All right. Yes, because I think you were with Janelle, and I was like, what's that about? But, hey, you know, right? We're gonna have to. Not on the show. Yes. Let's have Janelle to show her. Anyone listening who doesn't know Janelle, and she's a previous bad girl who me and her crossed bad words. Okay. I think you've cussed out pretty much every girl. Yeah, pretty much. I remember [ __ ]. But when we went to the club after dinner, I know I hate the club. And then some random guy came up to my section, bought a bottle of Ace of Spades Magnum and a 1942 bottle. Signed the check and the month that's lost. Yet, thank you very much. But if I get 145 on my, excuse me, sir, neither drink this. It's not gonna be. They probably did that, you know, and you probably then if it means no, you know, we didn't even really speak to me. Well, thank you. Happy birthday for you too. And the Rose Day, I was like, can I take this moment? No, only the clever girl. You got to be like, yeah, do it. And you're very much. But I put in my clutch just take you with the sprout on it. For those of you that it's only men that's a Swallow It Open Wide, Take It All In. And I am your girl, Camila. And you got Danielle. Don't say what did you listening to? Talk eggs. And you know, then we ended last episode. Yeah. I need to start. Yeah. And that's when I'm gonna ask you a question. Are you ready for this? I am ready. You got to just answer with the top of your head. You can't think about the answer. Okay. Let me pull the eyes. That [ __ ] they're [ __ ] no. Okay. Close my eyes because I don't even want to know. Okay. You ready? I'm ready. Okay. What? Okay. Save me a guy. Yeah. Okay. You go on a couple of dates. Let's just say you're on a date too. Bothering me. But okay. Okay. I shouldn't talk. I don't know. It's fine. But nobody that was my girl. And they have much training. I look like [ __ ]. Okay. So, yeah. Okay. So, you met a guy. You're on a couple of things. Okay. And what are your top three deal-breakers? We, you know, you're never gonna call this dude back again versus your top. He's sealed the deal. Your top three. We're on the name. Like, we go on a date, couple innings. Okay. Couple of dates. Um, deal-breaker is bad breath. Oh, yeah. Just too into himself, you know, like all about him, the whole time. The date is all about talking about himself. Yeah. He doesn't let me talk. By the way, good night. Good. Will you know? Very cocky and just into himself. And then number three is always deal-breaker. If you can't pay for my [ __ ] dinner date. Well, it just being a broke dude. Not even saying like he has to have the most money, but if he has to not be broke, and then not she'll be a scrub. He can't be a scrub, but he also has to have gold. We don't, I mean, like he can't just be no bum. That's a deal-breaker. Sometimes you don't meet. You don't find that. She doesn't later on in life. You know, I mean, after a couple dates, you're like, oh my god, this dude is [ __ ]. You know, you find out like he's a loser. Yeah. I think you know my date. Too. Oh, goody. Yeah. Like if he's a loser. Oh, yeah. After you can, you can beat a person friends. And then you're like, yeah, kind of like, you know, you are who you are. If you hang out with it, I can't. I don't say that. You have to be exactly like birds of a feather flock together. Folk read most of the time. If you hang out with somebody that's dusty, you're probably a little dusty too. Yeah. Yeah. So, I would say a deal-breaker because not addressing. Addressing gonna be a deal-breaker because we can always polish you up. You know what? You know, Bigelow, the does thought I can fix you. Yeah. I agree with that. Like, I feel like if somebody just bad breath goes in the tie of like not brushing your teeth. We know loss and flossing. You floss, right? Yes. But I'm gonna get better at it. Doing at nighttime. I do it in the day, but I don't do it at nighttime all the time. So, most important. Oh, the end of the day. I know I gotta get better. Oh, my god. I brush my teeth all the time. No, I believe that your teeth are white, but I need to get them whiter. I feel like go to doctor. Okay. Now, I'm looking for a Dr. Beverly, and they reached out to me. Oh, we're gonna go on. I don't know why my teeth are. I know. Would you be Rahab? I love you to death, but I have an obsession. F2 gonna be six months. I know you've always been like addicted to like your teeth. You know, when we were bad girls, loving areas, I've always had nice teeth. Mmm. But I would just want them to remain nice and never want to be that chick that had nice teeth and the teeth are nice anymore. The top three steal the deal. I'll fill the deal. You know, we'll talk about that when we get back. Yeah. Yeah. We'll talk about it. We got Mexican break, right? Yeah, because I still have to think about what I want to become. So, yeah. We'll come back. You're noticing the best. Hot X. This is small away. Open Wide. Check it all in. And I got my third. Okay. Oh, [ __ ]. What's up, y'all? We're back. This swallowing open why take it all in. I am your girl, Camila. I'm with Danny in the building. You know, you're listening to dashclock eggs. You can check us out on all of the platforms. Hey, we were just talking about the deal-breakers, and I found I really have a number three for the deal-breaker. It's just being sloppy. Like, definitely. You sure? Like, fourth remodel here, but that's the major. I was thinking like, with the major ones, like, definitely being dirty. Like, household. I think we had like the same top three. I was like, what's the major? Foot hygiene, you know, and you for sure. And I can't deal with Bo. Like, my mind is gonna smell good when he walks between her. Oh, yes. Me and my cousin were having this hola. Excuse me. Having a discussion about this in Tennessee. He's like, cousin, we should I smell like? And I was like, it's always great for a man. I walk in a row man. You know, like, damn, smells good. You know, yeah, right. Yeah. I can't. I can't. Like, I work. We're going to restaurants sometimes. People walk in and I'm like, how the [ __ ] did you even leave your crib right smelling like this? How are you on a date? And how is she not saying [ __ ] to you? Well, it's some cultures that no, I don't know. No, no. Yeah, they are some coaches that do not believe in putting on deodorant. Okay. There's gotta be something else to prevent bad Bo. No, finish your body order. For those of you that do not know, it be O means because they don't have common sense. And me, and that I do not like body order. So, what's your deal breakers? Um, definitely, I mean, I nice teeth. Mmm-hmm. I hope the dude gets manicures and pedicures, honestly. And your hands need to be recognized. Your feet need to be like a nice. Oh, yes. Your hair needs to be trimmed up, looking well. You need to just look like nice, nice, polished. And not only do you need to look nice, but you need to smell nice. You have to actually be nice. Yeah. It's just a local part. You have to be a heart, right? Exactly. She would probably have to be no sense of humor. Like, if I pop like six good jokes at dinner and you laugh at only one of them, it's probably not gonna work out. This mean, yeah, pretty funny chick you are. If I'm laughing at my own jokes, he needs to be laughing with me, dog. With Eddie, sometimes [ __ ] funny [ __ ]. Like, I cannot have met you. Like, it's always had me dialing. It's the reunion of Bad Girls Club. That's where I actually met Danny. Hi. And since then, it's just she's always had these funny ass just one-liners or just two-liners that are just funny as hell. Every since. Love games. Yeah. We haven't been cracking up. Even if she was crying, it's like, baby, I'm saying some [ __ ] that I felt like really. Yeah. You know, it was funny. Yeah. Like, is so for me, I find myself. I'm getting off topic here, but when I get in situations where I'm angry or uncomfortable or don't know what to say, mhm, I turn to humor. So, it's just kind of become like an everyday part of life for me. And then my third deal-breaker is probably no motivation in life. Yeah. See goals. Like, you have to have. You might not have all the money in the world. Mine's know that at some point you need. If I get pregnant, you can hold me and the baby down, right? Or at least figure it out. You may not just be sitting there like, oh my god, we're going down. I can't. We go to County. No. Yeah. Shoot me out because I know other people that have to do that. As long as you using it for weight, it's, you know, for and not just. Right. Right. But, you know what? Whoa. But what are your, like, what's your top seal the deal? My top seal the deal. Is no, no. Just give me like one or two. I'll just say one. I just think total. Now that I'm older, 100% respect. Like, just so. What if he had? What if he lacks? What if he has two of your deal-breakers missing one? Like, but he is the most respectful, most loyal human being on the face of planet. Would you settle? I was happily. Jet about your deal-breakers. Yeah, might be able to adjust. If he's a respectful guy, and you know, but I don't think I can go for like the hygiene part. He has to be clean. No, I can be. I'm not giving up on that. I dated this guy. Most rich person. I came. Settle for a lariat income to have a respectful man. I dated this guy runs to. Like, I had to like ask him to brush his machines. He surprisingly didn't have bad broad. Mmm-hmm. But he just never wanted to brush his teeth. Do you mean like when he wakes up in the morning? Can it'll be no pressure food? Yeah. Just didn't wanna brush teeth at all. Yes. Morning at night. Oh, Becky. Need to brush your teeth before bed. And he was they believe my mama, my Kia's. Yeah, wicked in the morning. Wait, what show did we do with that? Love games. When somebody been dreaming, I know she didn't floss her teaching floss. And Daddy just gave. I would write to her. I mean, YouTube may be poured out. Like, I was like, your nasty [ __ ] and mine, dude. We've been eating steak for like a week straight, right? So, that steak is just stuck in between your TV. Well, how are you sucking anyone's day? What's yours? What you haven't lost your TV? Like, disrespect. And the thing is, we go back to some episodes behind. I can't believe that Danny even can even talk or speak on hygiene when she said she's the [ __ ]. Well, she sucked a penis that steak. You know, they made everybody that's listening right now. Remember, Daddy's. It was one time, right? So, we're trying to figure out how you even got there with the Ojai. What was the moment? I was just wondering if it was maybe because we had sex the night before and we fell asleep and we used condoms. Something we was just like the leftover condom smell. Okay, that sounds so. Condoms. No, it's not like we woke up in the morning and like took a shower. We didn't even progress to eat. We just want to strain into [ __ ] something like that after non-set. Not take a bath. Set. And then I'm like, to his penis. So, what's your, what's your like? If you can make me laugh, I'll look past a lot of [ __ ]. If you can make me laugh. So, you can deal with his preppy look? Well, no. I can't look past a lot of [ __ ] as men. But you can't look past bad hygiene or bad breath. See what I'm saying? We can, we can. So, ladies, we are like, just imagine this, right? Your man has Bambi, oh, right? And he's, he has you pinned up. Like, you're on the bottom, your legs are up in the air. He gives you pinned up like, basically, it's [ __ ] you so hard. His armpit is in your face. I'm not going to deal with the dude who smells like onion. First comp. I'm not gonna do it. You better smell like a passion. We're going to get white or blue Chanel. Get your [ __ ] life together. I'm not gonna do it. Well, you know what? Just clean your ass when you're dealing with us, cuz we do not want to do a funky ass or anything. But night. I have went on a date with a funky guy, and I was just like, damn, it, this is [ __ ] embarrassing. Yes, it was. And the artist of horrible. Let me just say, don't settle for less, ladies, just to just have fun, okay? Sometimes we'd be like, oh, well, just go to the game, just to have a good time. No, [ __ ] back, okay? Everyone's gonna be judging you. Everybody judges me, and I don't care about people judging you. But I'm here section with the dude that you, that smells better. You're never gonna [ __ ]. And there's a dude in the section that you do want to [ __ ]. He's in me looking at you like, here with this domain, homie. Definitely. They look at me like that. He was just, oh, yes. And he was looking like, are you with him? Look like that's whenever any time a dude invites me to a game or wherever younger years, rely [ __ ]. So, when somebody else asked me to be with him, I'm like, I know. But I definitely was walking a far, far apart. It's like, why are you going so bad? Is he's like, he was girls. So, he was wrong as well. But he didn't have to walk slow. He definitely had my pace to keep up with me. But I was just like, that was that my ears. You would use Chum. Yes. Know that I deal with Shelby dude. Yeah. I love all the motion or something [ __ ] skinny dude. If you, wait, wait a minute. You and that shall we do? What if you like, have sex with a show me dude? Nobody this reaches over on his nightstand, grabs and Salmons and starts eating. Is that gonna turn you? Look, I'll be like, but fat [ __ ] but give me have that sandwich too so we can eat it up in the morning in the night. It is high. I love fun. I don't care if my judo chopping. Like, honestly, is not that big of a deal. If you can't, if you're clean, and you're not in your roles, or not, you're not smell like sauerkraut ass, then we're good. You know, if you had some really good clean big dude. So, I'm not a bad, bad judgment on anybody as far as like that dude that I went on my favorite. I knew better before I took the damn date, but I was like, oh, I'm going to labor games, bucket. You know, the mean, right? I didn't realize he wasn't gonna take a bath for the whole goddamn day. I was like, and I had to tell him because I did. Did you not? Yes. I was like, oh, I've been ripping and running all day. I said, listen, you're too big to rip and run all day. I'll wash your ass, okay? I need to look at me like, no, you did not say yes. The [ __ ] I did. I'm sorry. You smell like ass. It's like, right when I got the girls like, oh my god. Point where it was like, you know, what do they call them when you like light up in little bar with weed? Ah, ha, ha. Yeah. It was sight funky. But, you know what? For the people that are just tuning in, this is Swallow It Open Wide, Take It All In. Your in listenin to - talk eggs. I'm Camila. This is Danny, and we're talking about a bad odor, which leads to our top three deal-breakers and top three seal the deal. I don't know if I can come up with three syllable or number one. The other deal is kind of the same. You don't want to do they would anything that has to do with. Well, not much. Just made me laugh. Oh, right. Yeah. I literally appreciate somebody like making me giggle. But you don't. You're not gonna let somebody make you laugh. And then he's resting. No, no. That that's our thing. Anything I can succumb to a lot of other jailbreakers other than that breath. Like, my man's time about to be like, oh, actually, I've dated someone who is kind of. Well, listeners, do you guys or will you date someone with bad breath? What is your deal breaker? Like, what do you guys have or what do you guys in a relationship that's just you not [ __ ] gonna deal with? Let us know. Reach out to us. You know, tell us in the comments. Tell us on our lives. Tell us on Instagram page and our DMs or whatever. But, you know, we're gonna take a break. Yes. Talk X. No, what? Yeah. XXX break time. Yeah. Let's take a break. We getting hot in here. You know, I love the music that we grow back in the back of the day. Are so different, right? You know, it's so much different than the music right now. But if you are announcing in, and you are listening to Swallow It. Okay. Yeah. Open by. Take it all the [ __ ] in. So, let me ask you. Talk eggs. My [ __ ]. Okay. Right. Yeah. So, right now in your life? Yes. Like, right now, right now in this present moment. 33 at 8:33 p.m. on Monday, Tuesday, 5/21/2019. Yes. If you knew a man had a [ __ ]. Mmm-hmm. And he was pursuing you. What would you do? How serious is this a relationship? Ooh. Let's just say you don't know. We don't know. And nobody knows. Like, let's say you know he has intelligence. And how do you know exactly that he has a woman? He told you. He told you. Then if he straight-up tells you he has a [ __ ] and and he's still pursuing you as he has this [ __ ]. Yeah, boy. We do. What do you know? I honestly, probably would just kind of at this point, not talk to him, right? Because it's just too much. And like, what happens if you don't know he has a [ __ ]? You start [ __ ] with them, and then you find out. Yes. A bit. That's different. But what would you do that? Huh? You'll be mad again. And then what do you do? You don't know. So, it's just like a [ __ ] the bad situation to be in. Yeah. I don't know what I would do if I was in that situation. You know, I hope I always feel like I'm getting competitive mode, right? Because naturally, as women, we, we like to compete for everything. Because clearly, when we get it, we put on the album. We're not really getting dressed for the dude. No. Seems like guys are like, no, you guys are getting dressed for the [ __ ]. Like, they're the only person. I did just for dudes. So, you're getting dressed. If I know I'm seeing someone, um, for now, no more. You know, a, it's gonna be my girl. Those are the some mansae. Night girls go to the club and get dressed. And there they're worried about like, what girl other girl is gonna be there. [ __ ] never. And me, never. So, you're always looking for it. Go away. If, first of all, one, if I'm in the club, and go in the club because I'm hoping I need some over there. Two, I'm a little good because I'm hoping to meet somebody there. You know, guys. I mean, girls, I don't know if those are weird. That's why I'm none of them. So, but anyways, I don't know what I would do. But I work at a restaurant. Mmm. So, this guy comes in. I sit him down on this table. For anyone who doesn't know, I'm a hostess. And all night, like, he's flirting with me. He's like, you're so beautiful. Are you new here? I'm Mikey. I'm relatively new, right? So, whatever. He's leaving. He's like, listen, I'm gonna come back just for you. Like, you're so pretty. You're one of the movies. Frozen over scene. And I obviously knew who he was. His name was down in the VIP reservation. Right. I'm not gonna say it. But I go, I look at my phone, Instagram. I go to his page, and his whole page is him in his [ __ ]. I love you so much. You're the love of my life. Thanks, my dude. Done. Was so. Then it looked like he was in the relationship. Relationship? Or just? Yes. Relationship. Oh, yeah. I wouldn't let it go. No. I wasn't even pursuing. He was pursuing me, right? But out of curiosity, I'm always gonna be like, what's the student, right? But if I was attracted to him, I would've been like, way, where we going tonight? I mean, I don't know. This world, this LA zone of dating is all [ __ ] up. So, I don't. Literally, second picture on his page was him and his girlfriend kissing. I thought you was the only date with his girlfriend abusing him and all his boys. And his boys were like, yo, he really likes you. Oh, that's the same line. I don't like you. Meadow here. Are straight. I'm looking in the camera. Y'all going on a straight trash. They are. They'll have a whole [ __ ] and a whole [ __ ] family and hide them. Oh, but I have to believe that these women know their Beach. You know, of course. I mean, I believe that depending on the high level of like, with their man. So, say you have a dude who's a high level. I don't like. Cheers straight up. I don't care. I [ __ ] dumped the Hyatt. I've dumped some fly-ass [ __ ] because they cheated. Like, I can't handle it. I don't think I can be able. I can't handle the fact that I'm sleep, and I know you're [ __ ] another [ __ ]. Like, I play murder will be committed. So, how buddy hobby with me? Okay, because I just can't. You and I know that men can be men, but I can't have the bad part. Do you think that if people cheat? Okay. I have this debate with the chick I work with, right? So, she has this weird relationship with this guy. She's been with. They're kind of an open relationship. He has, he has a full-blown girlfriend, but they still hook up and they're quote-unquote best friends. Okay. Right. She, me, and her had a conversation. I said, if a man cheats, I feel like he should just be single. Yeah. Like, if he's cheating, he's not really in love with who he's with because he's craving that's it. Somebody else. If you were truly emotionally in, like, your souls are attached to your quote-unquote soul mate, you would not be looking for some type of satisfaction with another woman. And she tried to say that she disagrees. Do you think if a person cheats, that it's compulsive and they regret it and they actually are in love with the person that they're with, or they aren't in love with the person they are with and it just happens? I don't think sex can just happen. One, you got a dick, a [ __ ], and you make a meeting spot, and you have sex. Like, it just can't happen. If it's a one-day exchange, it could be a one-night stand, but I definitely believe if you even do that, I believe that if you love your woman and you respect her on the highest grounds, you will not put yourself in that predicament, even entertain a [ __ ] yet. I mean, like, I just think it's men out there that will protect their woman, where not have sex with other women, and there's men that just want to have sex. It's funny. OOP. This, I mean, poop this PP there. My little cousin, right? It's 18. Okay. I love talent at the wedding or whatever. He's 18. He's a handsome guy. He plays for a beautiful little girl. Right. This girl is seeing with the look at 19. No, I'm saying they're in like 19, 20. You know, he is a baby. No. Oh, I'm saying they're kids, basically. Yeah. 19, 20-year-old kids. So, I come off the the reception, and she's crying. He's having some tears. And I'm like, what's going on? You know, she doesn't want to tell us what's going on. We're clearly the bigger cousin. Do you like, girl, what's going on? He's clearly cheating on her, right? She's a good girl, but they're very young. At the same time, my cousin had to explain to her nephew, which was, if you're going to cheat on this girl who is doubt that you respect, at least give her the audacity and let her go. You know, don't lie to this little girl and expect her to hold down and be respectful to you, and then you're out here messing with all these little flops, you know, and mops or whatever they call it. So, it's like, we have to explain to her like, you have to know for yourself as a woman if you want to deal with this or not, because you know that you don't want to deal with a cheater, right? So, you have to know what you're gonna put up with and allow. At 18, you should know that. Do you think that some women accept that their man's cheating because they're comfortable with his status? Yes. Half of these women I'm here with, they're dudes because of the status, one, and two, they get what they want. Three, and they get this house, big blaster. Some reason to me because I feel like all these dudes are out here cheating, and it's the chick that they're quote-unquote with cheated. Their world is coming to all of course, but it cannot. You know, I don't think it's necessarily because they're madly in love with though. It's buddy. I think it's because it's like, how dare she do that? Of course, I gave her this. I gave her that. She just couldn't stick around. Okay. So, I dated this dude, right? Held this like, I wanna tell you, listen. I'll eggs every day. I was like, I want to do with you, please. I'm begging you. Like me. You will meet together. It's just it works. It works. I'm like banging him. I'm banging him and banging him, right? And he's telling me he's not ready. He's not ready. He basically wanted me to spy camera. And yeah, he wanted me to stick around. Like, yes, buddy, I'm not gonna [ __ ] stick around. Well, you're [ __ ] someone on Monday, Tuesday, and then you see me on Wednesday, then you're [ __ ] someone Thursday and Friday and Saturday, and then I see you on Sunday for one hour, and then right after I leave, I'm [ __ ] [ __ ] in your crib. Like, I'm not gonna do it. It's so easy nowadays, and it's so accessible for like women to get in contact. And I remember like, even before when we first went on Bad Girls Club, when we would go out to the clubs, it was like exclusive, right? You know, it's so easy to get close to Chris Brown now, or get close to these rappers or anybody. You post it on Instagram. Everybody's posting it. Man, I hate the fact that you can't go out anymore and it just be like, chill. Everybody's on their phones and stuff. So, it's no. It's just everybody's out here just [ __ ] everybody. Here is yes. Which people don't clearly get that. Then not only in that, it's just like, okay, for instance, like he did his thing, and then finally he found out that some guy asked me on a date, and I went. Mmm-hmm. And he lost his [ __ ] [ __ ] because he's looking at me completely different. He didn't want to [ __ ] touch me. After I'm like, you've been in this [ __ ] relationship that you don't want to call a relationship for however long we've been in this relationship, [ __ ] whatever you want, but the minute I go on a date where I didn't kiss the dude, Mmm-hmm. I didn't do anything and go home with them, and now you don't want to [ __ ] touch me. Oh, no. If you do something like that, a guy is gonna call you a-hole, slug, you're richer after that. But as women, we're just naturally forgivers. You don't, I mean, we're naturally like, oh, we can help you. We always want to feel like we're helping a guy like more. Always filadyne is safe now. Yeah, we can save you. And we have to do better, you know, right? But then at some point, you have to rely like, ding, ding, [ __ ], you're stupid. Let's move on, you know? And I commend like people that do try to stick out their relationships and try to make it work because it is hard to, you know, have a relationship and then come as one. If you are married or whatever the case, but it also is draining to see people be in relationships that are unhealthy. Well, let me, let me ask you this scenario, okay? Let's, let's say this, like, okay, let's say you mean to die. It's [ __ ]. Like the chemistry is [ __ ] through it's undeniable. You guys on the first night feel like you've known each other for 20 [ __ ] years. Okay. And then all of a sudden, he is like, hey, listen, I met someone. Okay, right. A bit. Or he has somebody in the picture. Let's just say you're dating. No, no. Peter said you just met him. Oh, okay. And then he tells you like, I want to be honest with you. I have someone in my life, right? Okay. At that point, if you acknowledge the fact that he has someone in his life, and you're still like, hey, I still want to hang out with them. Is that wrong? Because you feel like this chemistry right here between these two people is undeniable. Because can it not be true that you could be in a relationship with someone and also meet someone that could be potentially here? We also. Of course. I definitely believe that it's times where, um, I feel like you just know. Yeah. And you can't. If they're not married, if they're not married, that I think all grabs is for you. You know what I mean? Because you don't know. They could be dating, and maybe they're having some problems in the dating world, right? Maybe you feel something that he was looking for that she is not, you know, and he doesn't know how to really get rid of her yet. So, he's like, okay, I want to pursue her, but I don't want her feeling. Some guys don't know, you know, how to let a woman go without hurting their feelings because we're always gonna get our feelings hurt, right? Oh, wait, no way. So, I, I do feel like men could love somebody, but then meet someone that changes their life, and they're like, I definitely be unlikely in a relationship and completely meet a whole nother person. You like, oh my gosh, I'm in not in the right, but I'm not in the right. And then just don't know how to get out of it. You don't. And then you lose the person that you could have, exactly, because you're stuck in various like this relationship that you can't get out of it, right? Have you guys had that experience where you dated somebody and they had a person on the side? Or even not even the side, they actually just wanted to date you? Let us know. Give us some comments, feedback, everything. But you're lessening to Swallow It Open Wide, Take It All In. I'm your girl, Camila. You got Daddy. We don't know. We could take a break. [ __ ] Oh, I was like, wait, in this [ __ ] we got so much more to talk about. We'll be right back. Open Wide, Ticket. Yeah. Oh, my goodness. Back with some boys. Chillin', man. Ooh, put me in the mood of some nice little like slow dancing. And your slow dance and ain't breathing, okay? Well, we are the bag, and we were just talking about deal-breakers. We're talking about what's least talked about. A lot of sugar, a lot of shits like a 45 minutes ago. I know. But I'm just recapping for those that have just tuned in on plan talks about deal-breaker is what's hot with, you know, what's not had a nice, like your birthday. What else? You know, let's talk about since we're talking about relationships, right? Yeah. What's up? If you're man, forget, like, say you're in a relationship with a man, right? If is it okay if your man is on Instagram liking other bitch's pictures and leaving juicy comments? Hell no. Hell no. No, no, no, no, no, no. You guys don't know who that voice is. It's [ __ ] Nate Dogg. Because I know you're ugly. But no, I mean, the reason why is because it causes problems. And my thing is, you can look, but why do you have to sit there and comment and say, unless you're gay, that's not exactly. And making this [ __ ] feel some type of way. Like, so she could be like, yeah, her [ __ ] be on my face. I'm like, yeah, bad age. No. Yeah. I used to talk this way so much. A Jesus talks with Jude. And anytime I go, like the following time on Instagram, he was like, like 20 pictures of a certain [ __ ] and leave comments on all the 20 pictures. Are like, what the [ __ ] you trying to do, dude? [ __ ] them. Yeah. Yeah. You know what I mean? So, I mean, social media, it is just, it's just what we are dealing with nowadays in 2019. And speaking of liking pictures on people's posts and all that, would you delete your social media for a healthy relationship? I posted this on my social media. Everybody went up. It was a frenzy. What is your thoughts? Personally, I went delete. Nice. I mean, just because I need my social media to promote what I'm doing with my life, right? So, for a person like you, an influencer, a person that has been over reality TV, you feel like you have to have a social media account? I feel like as we do this radio show, yeah, absolutely. I will not complete my main account with my followers just because my man feels the type of way. If my man wants my pass, my my password, I'm gonna give it to him, right? Like, I'm the most loyal [ __ ] on the planet. I got nothing to hide. If you want to go on my Instagram, you go my Instagram. Go. So, I do believe that social media should not be deleted just because you're in a relationship. I do believe that it has caused problems in people's relationships because people are disrespectful, right? And they feel like they can just like every pitch. It depends on what pictures are like. It's like if you like, she's like, and you're like, it only Danny's [ __ ] pictures or just boo. Let's see. Okay. I'm just wait a second, honey. You know, hypothetically speaking, if you're taking [ __ ] fit photos or Playboy's photos, right? At a man, it's like that's what they like. And you're just like, now we have back in the day, they had porno. So, a lot of our dads, uncles, cousins, or whatever, they look their pornos in magazines and plate, you know, hustlers. So, nowadays, it's just like, you can just get online and brew. There they go. And ass right there on the double rhino or pornhub or whatever the case. But when I was great, I meant I'm definitely looking at porn up sometimes when I need to get some stuff off, you know, release. Known as kiddie. You know, I'm definitely serious. Some of the videos on there at shape trash. Oh, it's real crazy. Nobody wants to see you nasty [ __ ] bucket and please stuff. But oh my god. So, listen. So, you feel like you would have to. You wouldn't delete your social media. What would it be? What would it be to delete your social media for your man? I would never leave my social media for a minute. So, be there. Yeah. What did he like, babe, this [ __ ] ain't making no money. You ain't doing [ __ ]. If I take you off the grid, would you? Let that's not a man I want to be with. Exactly. Because my man is gonna be like, we gotta figure out how we're gonna make money on videos. Do have these. We're gonna do this, this, and this. We're gonna work this together, right? We are a team. We're gonna build a [ __ ] together. No man on this planet is ever gonna look at me and say, you're painting [ __ ] delete it. That is mentally abusive. If so, man is basically telling you, yo, you got to do this. No, I got deleted because you ain't [ __ ] [ __ ]. I had to do one time years ago. He was like, you have to erase all the numbers in your phone and you put my number in there. And I was like, why? He was like, this is how you start over. And I was like, start over what? What the [ __ ] am I starting over? I felt like he was ready to kidnap me, take me away from my family, and just like murder you somewhere. I was like, dude, why would you like some psycho? Psychos out there. You have to be aware. Like, everybody that lives in this industry. I mean, lives and works in this industry. Please be careful because I'm sorry, this industry is just taking everyday life. But I, I'm there. We'll be running, right? So, there are warning signs that us as women sometimes and males don't, you know, listen to the signs, you know, women are [ __ ] ape [ __ ] crazy. Oh, yes. Well, it's bad [ __ ]. Yeah. If I can show that [ __ ], but I just did a video on this. I'm like, cuz I met this girl at a bar a couple weeks ago, maybe like a month ago, and I like to talk to strangers at bars, you know, this. Mmm-hmm. And she's like, telling me about this dude she met. And the whole town thinks he murdered his family. And like, they've been together for for seven years. And that seven years, Abel six times. Yeah, she's blushing. Yeah. And I, the way she was talking about him, she has lost herself. Oh, yeah. But men that are psychopaths find women like her who don't have any self-love or self-care. Night years back. And don't know any better because they know that they can prey on. And then they eventually remove them from all their family members. And everything they have nothing left. They're scared to even get away. And it's a whole family is ever gonna do that for me, honey. So, you're not deleting your social media? I will not delete my social media. I think that for me, someone needs to be able to understand my line of work, and that this makes some money, and this is my brand. And if you can't get with the program, then you got to get the [ __ ] off the boat, please. You know, but, um, you know, we're coming to an end. It's so crazy. Every episode is like, and then here at snapping your, it's time to go. That's what so means. You're playing that song? No. Well, you get to give in to it. You got to know that song because this was like, every house party. It's one of those songs where you're trying to still linger. You got your red cup, you're drinking. If you smoke, with you're probably smoking some weed. And then it's a song that comes on, and that [ __ ] goes like, it's time to go. And when you hear that [ __ ] song, that's your no. You gotta get the [ __ ]. Well, no, now it's a, you don't gotta go home, but you gotta get the [ __ ] out of here. That's when you know it's time to go. Yeah. But when you hear this, you know, okay, you're lingering. So, this is Swallow It Open Wide, Take It All In. Completely drop your hands down. And your listen to the best. Like eggs. My Instagram is the real Camila Pete. I am Camila Peter on Twitter. If we still [ __ ] with that, you know what really [ __ ] lawyers. I can't remember. Like, I sometimes have somebody remind myself to go on Twitter. Yeah. I know. Thought what's up today? I was like, follow swallow it. And some alerts from Twitter is from me. Yeah. My Instagram is xxo Danielle. We have a joint pain, swallow podcast. Yeah. My Twitter is I'm Danny B with two ends. And my YouTube is youtube.com/DanielVictor. If you talk [ __ ], you're getting blocked off everything. Oh, geez. People come on my patient like, tone down and unblock me. Like, nowadays, yeah, I have you talking. Well, you think before you speak. Think before you speak. [ __ ] your word of the day. Anyway, the other day, if you like what you heard, because we know that you did. Same time, same place. This is Swallow It Open Wide, Take It All In. Peace out, [ __ ]. The next week. Happy birthday, [ __ ].